no bc i've always been a huge melanie fan, and i had listened to this song all the time when i was younger and it had first came out. then, several years later, literally year ago IN NOVEMBER, my whole life fell apart and my life started to be just like the song. dad cheated on my mom WITH MY CHILDHOOD BEST FRIENDS MOM, my mom became an alcoholic, and i had to witness extreme domestic violence every night. like i couldn't even gts bc i had to listen to my parents fighting and be prepared to go downstairs and make sure they didn't kill eachother. my older brother was getting into a lot of bad things weed, teen pregnancy ect. and as the "golden child" with good grades in my family, SO much pressure was put on me to maintain that image, despite everything i had to go through during that time. i was constantly forced by both of my parents to not talk abt the situation to anyone, which i didn't. i didn't even tell my best friends. and on the outside, we've always been that "white picket fence middle class family with the perfect children and the perfect lives" so hearing people always go "i wish my life was like yours" or "your parents are so nice i wish mine were like that" was so hard to listen to. i constantly just wanted to yell at them for not appreciating how good their lives really were. having to go out with my family and act like everything was perfect, only to go home and deal with the constant abuse and physical fights my parents would get in really sucked. and throughout all of that, i still maintained being the "perfect child". it never fails to amaze me what can really go on behind the scenes :/
@@sadiyakhan8219 i've learned to be more communicative about my feelings and it's definitely helped. i stopped worrying about my grades so much, which earned me disapproval from my parents, but compared to how i felt before, i couldn't be happier in making that decision. i've stopped talking to the people that were making it hard for me, as talking to them about how the comments made me feel they called me "ungrateful" although my image has changed in the eyes of the people around me, i'd do it 1,000 times over :)
@@sadiyakhan8219 i completely understand how you feel. it's exhausting having to pretend that everything's okay when it's not. the best thing that helped me was to just pay attention. look at things that make me happy- and things that don't. taking the things AND PEOPLE that were hurting me out of my life changed everything. ik it feels impossible to do those things when it's been the same for so long, and it can be really scary. but as soon as you properly address what it is that's causing you pain, i promise you everything gets better
@@shawtyyy.25 when things in life that cant be taken out are wrong there the ones hurting me.. things that went wrong cannot be undone but sometimes fate cannot be refused or overlooked either.. when your own parents don't care anymore and when you start laughing at ever single thing because. Why will it matter? when will it be over? sometimes life itself becomes fake.. I don't even remember the last time i had the mental strength..to literally face anything
0:25 honestly i felt this one sm, bc we all look like a family in the family photos on the wall, but they always say wipe that look off your face or suck it up when we have to go take them, but when the mom says “please don’t let them look through the curtain” and the face she made was too close to home😭🔫
0:49 is so relatable for me bc all my friends always tell me there secrets and its so hard for me because I juts carry around all of everyone else's secrets and feelings
Somniphobia (Fear of Sleep) Somniphobia is an irrational fear of sleep. People may worry throughout the day about not being able to sleep. This worry can cause difficulties with focus or concentration. Often, somniphobia arises from a fear of having nightmares or experiencing sleep paralysis. People who’ve experienced trauma may also be more likely to develop somniphobia.
This is beside the point, but this song is so nostalgic to me bc I made a tiktok using this audio the night I met my best friend. Now I'm tryna pretend everything is ok when idk what to do with us anymore...
@@tyramisoi5813 we got shipped A lot and we were told to go and do a lot of sexual things to one another, and thats never what either of us wanted so we just slowly started drifting apart and we stopped talking
0:49 This TikTok I can so relate, everyone in my school tells me things that nobody else knows like a crush, bullies, abuse, life, etc I feel so bad but inside I know that I can’t change anything. Being the person that has all the secrets is actually overwhelming because EVERYONE Will ask you,”Oh who is …. crush?” “Where are they from?” “What is wrong with them?” Etc. It’s not easy..
This reminds me of a time where my mom let my cousin and her brother stay for months at our house so they didn’t go to foster care bc her mom didn’t properly take care of her and I had to share a room with her which it was my small room and it sucked but they compared problems and everyone thought we were so happy but really it sucked. They kept saying her life was harder but I had some trauma too.
So what really started my childhood trauma is when I couldn't sleep so I'd listen to my parents conversations about how they both wanted a divorse, and how my dad was cheating and sleeping with several other women
to whoever is reading this: Your skin isn't paper don't cut it Your size isn't a book don't judge it Your heart isn't a door don't lock it Your life isn't a movie don't end it You're beautiful and don't allow anyone to tell you otherwise..
the amount of these videos show family problems, thought it was just me, this shows the pressure and suffering people have to go through and no matter the age you are not too young to say life is hard just know that love.. there is people out there who appreciate you and if there is no one you can come to me ill always be here. as another human in a doll house.
no cuz I relate to this song a lot, my friends would be always be like “you have a great family, I wish had your parents, your parents are so good” which was the hardest thing to hear, my dad would get drunk everyday and then fight with my mom and even hit her, he didn’t even hesitate to abuse me, blood was flowing down from my lips as he slapped me as harshly as he could, my mother getting choked until the point she couldn’t breathe, I had to experience severe domestic violence and child abuse also, my sister was just 4 and she had to go through it too. I feel so bad for her I can’t explain it. My dad would get into accidents and cases like “drunk and drive” my mother started drugs and became an addict, I never got to experience childhood properly after I turned 4 but my sister couldn’t even get that, I am the one who gets her ready for school, functions, parents teacher meetings and all. because my parents were too busy pointing out their flaws and then fighting over them, I had to do everything for myself, I was the one setting boundaries for myself which is a thing mostly parents do, I set boundaries for myself so that I don’t go overboard because I know my parents won’t even care if got drunk, or if I did anything wrong. I practically raised myself and my sister. and even after all this, they expect me to be grateful
Decided to do a pov based on my trio. *POV:the trio always has a duo.* Falling behind Physical emotion Constantly upset in school Perfectly fine with only one of them Not getting along Always decisions Pick ur own partner (if yk-yk) Ones fake af The other wouldn’t let a fly touch you Rode modeling is a completion One thinks she’s all that One couldn’t care less who knows her name Jealousy cause they talk to my crush *everyone thinks that we’re perfect, please don’t let them look thru the curtains* *I see things that nobody else sees*
I personally cannot relate to the family ones however I do feel sympathy for the ones who do. I have a great family, lots of my friends are nice (other than a few) I'm just toxic to myself lol
I honestly do see things nobody else can see E.g. I was on a walk with mum and saw some man standing on a bridge just looking at the water and I say to my mum “hey that man looks sad don’t you think” she told me there was no one there, Ever since that day I’ve been seeing more of this man so I think I’m an outcast
POV: you share a room with your older sister that is very rude and aggressive Friend: omg you guys fight a lot it’s so funny 😂 Me : *gets beat up while camera is closed * And I can’t even say anything about it because I’m the younger -
Honestly the 1 with like the people at the person who couldn't sleep because of those people shadows I feel you I see those things I I I see things like that too so
unless it's a genetic trait, everything is wrong with being fat dude. bffr. pudgy is fine, thick is hot asf, but fat? fat people face more health complications than people who regulate the kind of food they eat and are regularly active. don't pretend that being overweight is a good thing.
@@toes12 Alr ok i worded the comment wrong, what I meant to say was that a lot of people fat shame people because of their weight. I didn't mean to promote being an unhealthy over weight, I just wanted to say that if you have like tummy fat or your chubby, then that's ok and you shouldn't base yourself off of your body image. If I spread the wrong message, I take back all my words.
I have a weird vibe around everyone It is like not every one is who is see and I have a good sense at sense demonic and paranomic supernatural presence at church and school
Unpopular opinion, people that take pictures/videos of them crying annoy me. It looks like a need for attention. And I would know, I use to do that shit and hate myself for doing so🤷
My closeted friend: your mom and dad are so nice and accepting! Them when their not there: “this is a phase” “here have this dress” “pray the trans away”
If their TikTok has a clip of them crying, I call bs they're just faking their 'problems' Cus I ain't ever seen someone that has ACTUAL problems be confident enough to take a vid WHILE crying💀
most people aren't confident but still people record there self sometimes because they don't think they will have to show anyone out there but their self. i use to record myself while crying because it helped me feel better instead of talking to people in person and i have many problems and stuff thats wrong.
im sorry this is gonna be a little vent but im trans and so is my bestfriend - my parents use my name and sometimes my pronouns, his parents are trying but still messing up a lot (he came out a lot after me) but hes like oh your families so nice why do u always say bad stuff about them and im like thats only when ur there and hes like nahhhh there so nice and im like ur not there. ur never there. ur at my house like once a week for like 8 hours max. im there every day. and then like ill take the longest route home because i dont wanna go and all my mates are like ohhh but ur moms so niceeee. ok then. come live with me, because you'll be taking back that statement of 'your mom isnt abusive' within a day. dontcomment on peoples home lives if you dont kow the full story xx
no bc i've always been a huge melanie fan, and i had listened to this song all the time when i was younger and it had first came out. then, several years later, literally year ago IN NOVEMBER, my whole life fell apart and my life started to be just like the song. dad cheated on my mom WITH MY CHILDHOOD BEST FRIENDS MOM, my mom became an alcoholic, and i had to witness extreme domestic violence every night. like i couldn't even gts bc i had to listen to my parents fighting and be prepared to go downstairs and make sure they didn't kill eachother. my older brother was getting into a lot of bad things weed, teen pregnancy ect. and as the "golden child" with good grades in my family, SO much pressure was put on me to maintain that image, despite everything i had to go through during that time. i was constantly forced by both of my parents to not talk abt the situation to anyone, which i didn't. i didn't even tell my best friends. and on the outside, we've always been that "white picket fence middle class family with the perfect children and the perfect lives" so hearing people always go "i wish my life was like yours" or "your parents are so nice i wish mine were like that" was so hard to listen to. i constantly just wanted to yell at them for not appreciating how good their lives really were. having to go out with my family and act like everything was perfect, only to go home and deal with the constant abuse and physical fights my parents would get in really sucked. and throughout all of that, i still maintained being the "perfect child". it never fails to amaze me what can really go on behind the scenes :/
bro i understand it would be hard to listen to ppl say that stuff.. if u evr need to talk to someone.. there are ppl there for you..
@@sadiyakhan8219 i've learned to be more communicative about my feelings and it's definitely helped. i stopped worrying about my grades so much, which earned me disapproval from my parents, but compared to how i felt before, i couldn't be happier in making that decision. i've stopped talking to the people that were making it hard for me, as talking to them about how the comments made me feel they called me "ungrateful" although my image has changed in the eyes of the people around me, i'd do it 1,000 times over :)
@@shawtyyy.25 Bro istg I m so happy that you did learn to do that.. I still have to learn how to do that.. it takes time.. I m getting tired
@@sadiyakhan8219 i completely understand how you feel. it's exhausting having to pretend that everything's okay when it's not. the best thing that helped me was to just pay attention. look at things that make me happy- and things that don't. taking the things AND PEOPLE that were hurting me out of my life changed everything. ik it feels impossible to do those things when it's been the same for so long, and it can be really scary. but as soon as you properly address what it is that's causing you pain, i promise you everything gets better
@@shawtyyy.25 when things in life that cant be taken out are wrong there the ones hurting me.. things that went wrong cannot be undone but sometimes fate cannot be refused or overlooked either.. when your own parents don't care anymore and when you start laughing at ever single thing because. Why will it matter? when will it be over? sometimes life itself becomes fake.. I don't even remember the last time i had the mental strength..to literally face anything
0:25 honestly i felt this one sm, bc we all look like a family in the family photos on the wall, but they always say wipe that look off your face or suck it up when we have to go take them, but when the mom says “please don’t let them look through the curtain” and the face she made was too close to home😭🔫
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mexican and japanese but aight
@atlnigga bro chill that's racist and ect you cannot say that its wroing.
@@ibonigga you sound racist for someone who has nigga in their name
@@ibonigga bro c h i l l
2:06 this shit is so relatable bcs my sister is a cosplayer and she is SOOO nice to everyone in her posts 💀
0:49 is so relatable for me bc all my friends always tell me there secrets and its so hard for me because I juts carry around all of everyone else's secrets and feelings
3:42 that is really creepy. I feel like everyone can relate at least a little bit
Same, i don't even know the proper reason
I relate to it a lot, I'm not able to sleep and sometimes I only sleep twice a week..
Somniphobia (Fear of Sleep)
Somniphobia is an irrational fear of sleep. People may worry throughout the day about not being able to sleep. This worry can cause difficulties with focus or concentration. Often, somniphobia arises from a fear of having nightmares or experiencing sleep paralysis. People who’ve experienced trauma may also be more likely to develop somniphobia.
This is beside the point, but this song is so nostalgic to me bc I made a tiktok using this audio the night I met my best friend. Now I'm tryna pretend everything is ok when idk what to do with us anymore...
What is happening bro?
@@tyramisoi5813 we got shipped A lot and we were told to go and do a lot of sexual things to one another, and thats never what either of us wanted so we just slowly started drifting apart and we stopped talking
0:49 This TikTok I can so relate, everyone in my school tells me things that nobody else knows like a crush, bullies, abuse, life, etc I feel so bad but inside I know that I can’t change anything. Being the person that has all the secrets is actually overwhelming because EVERYONE Will ask you,”Oh who is …. crush?” “Where are they from?” “What is wrong with them?” Etc. It’s not easy..
this is so sad☹️ i hope they are all doing great!❤️
This reminds me of a time where my mom let my cousin and her brother stay for months at our house so they didn’t go to foster care bc her mom didn’t properly take care of her and I had to share a room with her which it was my small room and it sucked but they compared problems and everyone thought we were so happy but really it sucked. They kept saying her life was harder but I had some trauma too.
So what really started my childhood trauma is when I couldn't sleep so I'd listen to my parents conversations about how they both wanted a divorse, and how my dad was cheating and sleeping with several other women
Hi...am r u avaible to talk with my fathers also abusive and please if ur up to talk if its ok that i vent i really dont wanna live with him...
@@editzwithme1535 hey Uhm if u want u can talk to me!
@@editzwithme1535 You can talk to me aswell!❤😊 It’s ok!😊
Same and my mom knows too and all she does not do anything and they always get into fights in so annoying honestly…
to whoever is reading this:
Your skin isn't paper don't cut it
Your size isn't a book don't judge it
Your heart isn't a door don't lock it
Your life isn't a movie don't end it
You're beautiful and don't allow anyone to tell you otherwise..
This made my day :) I got grounded today and I've been wanting to 4th one :)
This is so deep that I’m sharting bricks while in tears 😢
@@bloodrayne7515 LMFOAOO
my skin isn’t paper but it’s a canvas and my knife is the brush
💀💀
3:11 i can relate very well to this one
the amount of these videos show family problems, thought it was just me, this shows the pressure and suffering people have to go through and no matter the age you are not too young to say life is hard just know that love.. there is people out there who appreciate you
and if there is no one you can come to me ill always be here. as another human in a doll house.
The first one hit hard
0:01 is relatable
Parent ones in this are concerningly accurate with my parents
no cuz I relate to this song a lot, my friends would be always be like “you have a great family, I wish had your parents, your parents are so good” which was the hardest thing to hear, my dad would get drunk everyday and then fight with my mom and even hit her, he didn’t even hesitate to abuse me, blood was flowing down from my lips as he slapped me as harshly as he could, my mother getting choked until the point she couldn’t breathe, I had to experience severe domestic violence and child abuse also, my sister was just 4 and she had to go through it too. I feel so bad for her I can’t explain it. My dad would get into accidents and cases like “drunk and drive” my mother started drugs and became an addict, I never got to experience childhood properly after I turned 4 but my sister couldn’t even get that, I am the one who gets her ready for school, functions, parents teacher meetings and all. because my parents were too busy pointing out their flaws and then fighting over them, I had to do everything for myself, I was the one setting boundaries for myself which is a thing mostly parents do, I set boundaries for myself so that I don’t go overboard because I know my parents won’t even care if got drunk, or if I did anything wrong. I practically raised myself and my sister. and even after all this, they expect me to be grateful
Me as a fellow mel fan I felt every bit of the whole damn song I am very convinced all her songs is like my life frl
Same bro😔😔
same
People: you have a really cool happy family
Me: d-o-l-l h-o-u-s-e I see things that no body else sees
Yup
Ik...
0:56 I can confirm
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@@ibonigga me? Lmao you don’t even know me+I’m not white
3:43 it hits hard that every freaking day I see a nightmare
And rn it's 3:28am
Decided to do a pov based on my trio.
*POV:the trio always has a duo.*
Falling behind
Physical emotion
Constantly upset in school
Perfectly fine with only one of them
Not getting along
Always decisions
Pick ur own partner (if yk-yk)
Ones fake af
The other wouldn’t let a fly touch you
Rode modeling is a completion
One thinks she’s all that
One couldn’t care less who knows her name
Jealousy cause they talk to my crush
*everyone thinks that we’re perfect, please don’t let them look thru the curtains*
*I see things that nobody else sees*
0:25 bro sooo relatable like wtffff
The third one though 😍😍😍
This is beside the point, but this song is so nostalgic to me bc I made a tiktok using this audio the night I met my best friend.
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This song is stuck in my headd
I personally cannot relate to the family ones however I do feel sympathy for the ones who do. I have a great family, lots of my friends are nice (other than a few) I'm just toxic to myself lol
I felt the first one so much
the first one i can relate to tho
6:09 what?…
STOP IM CRYING WHY IS THAT ALWAYS AT THE END OF THE VIDEOS😭😭
FR ITS SO INSENSITVEEE
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I literally have doing this "trend" on my to do list because I have something that literally correlates with this
0:56 ... i can realte a lot of ppl trust me which mean i know a lot abt ppl and its like kinda overwhelming yk? u know stuff no body else knows
Its hard being the secret keeper. I am the one in all of my friend groups and it just feels burdensome sometimes and i end up crying tbh
0:01
OMG SOMEONE IS SPYING ON ME!!!!
But low key life sucks
3:42 same. Im 17 tho, I am so scared to sleep alone I have sleep paralysis. I prefer sleeping with my boyfriend
1:24 hits hard
I honestly do see things nobody else can see E.g. I was on a walk with mum and saw some man standing on a bridge just looking at the water and I say to my mum “hey that man looks sad don’t you think” she told me there was no one there, Ever since that day I’ve been seeing more of this man so I think I’m an outcast
Hey maybe try to sleep with some plushies maybe this can help?..💫
I had those problems aswell
2:48 is me 😐
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0:48 ONGGG
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@@ibonigga sure she’s a lame white girl but it’s not that I was focusing on lol 💀
POV: you share a room with your older sister that is very rude and aggressive
Friend: omg you guys fight a lot it’s so funny 😂
Me : *gets beat up while camera is closed *
And I can’t even say anything about it because I’m the younger -
I relate to the first one too much
My jerk friend: I see dead people hahahaa!!
Me: d-o-l-l h-o-u-s-e I see things no one nobody see's
3:42 so true
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3:48 I get this so much bro the demons really be coming alive and making me think I’m crazy
The first one hit me like a fucking bus
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@@ibonigga you needa chill they were just saying its sad nothing bad also u have the literal "N" word in ur name
that baby at the end tho-💀
The relate to the first one
3:49 fr???
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@@ibonigga ?
4:01 what does it say
I love this, and so much potential, but it wasn't all that well executed with a lot of them.
Honestly the 1 with like the people at the person who couldn't sleep because of those people shadows I feel you I see those things I I I see things like that too so
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3:54 bruh wth?
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@@ibonigga "I love being racist to white ppl"
Shush
3:43 is creepy af 😱🤧
I hope the ppl doing this get help if they need it
I personaly hate when people say "your not fat." Whats wrong with being fat?
unless it's a genetic trait, everything is wrong with being fat dude. bffr. pudgy is fine, thick is hot asf, but fat? fat people face more health complications than people who regulate the kind of food they eat and are regularly active. don't pretend that being overweight is a good thing.
@@toes12 exactly
@@toes12 Alr ok i worded the comment wrong, what I meant to say was that a lot of people fat shame people because of their weight. I didn't mean to promote being an unhealthy over weight, I just wanted to say that if you have like tummy fat or your chubby, then that's ok and you shouldn't base yourself off of your body image. If I spread the wrong message, I take back all my words.
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3:46 so tru
This trend is really sad-
No one gonna talk abt the last one 😂
I have a weird vibe around everyone It is like not every one is who is see and I have a good sense at sense demonic and paranomic supernatural presence at church and school
*I literally hate it when ppl say my family is so nice*
THE SONG IS DOLLHOUSE
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Tollhouse
1:36 can somone explain?
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It means she prob no like her fam😊
Unpopular opinion, people that take pictures/videos of them crying annoy me. It looks like a need for attention. And I would know, I use to do that shit and hate myself for doing so🤷
“Yeonjun” - - - Me
bestie what does Yeonjun have to do with this lmao 😭 😭
: friends wow your parents are so nice!
:dad: mentally abuses me
*I see things that nobody else sees*
3:11
4:05
4:38 can someone explain the situation
The husband killed the wife and two kids and buried then
@@tayyy1261 Oh My God, that is terrible! Thank you for the information!
@@lara8en440 your welcome
I hate tiktok people, they think their life is hard that is beyond hilarious
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What-
Whoever you are, Jesus loves you
My closeted friend: your mom and dad are so nice and accepting!
Them when their not there: “this is a phase” “here have this dress” “pray the trans away”
If their TikTok has a clip of them crying, I call bs they're just faking their 'problems'
Cus I ain't ever seen someone that has ACTUAL problems be confident enough to take a vid WHILE crying💀
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most people aren't confident but still people record there self sometimes because they don't think they will have to show anyone out there but their self. i use to record myself while crying because it helped me feel better instead of talking to people in person and i have many problems and stuff thats wrong.
@@ibonigga lame cocoa beans
@@shaykinslow I mean I kind of get that (still sounds ridiculous but everyone copes different ways) but the fact that they DO post it?????💀
First one
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3:43
im sorry this is gonna be a little vent but im trans and so is my bestfriend - my parents use my name and sometimes my pronouns, his parents are trying but still messing up a lot (he came out a lot after me) but hes like oh your families so nice why do u always say bad stuff about them and im like thats only when ur there and hes like nahhhh there so nice and im like ur not there. ur never there. ur at my house like once a week for like 8 hours max. im there every day. and then like ill take the longest route home because i dont wanna go and all my mates are like ohhh but ur moms so niceeee. ok then. come live with me, because you'll be taking back that statement of 'your mom isnt abusive' within a day. dontcomment on peoples home lives if you dont kow the full story xx