GOING HOME(SOUTH AFRICA) AFTER 6 YRS |HUSBAND MEETING MY FAMILY FOR THE FIRST TIME| LOBOLA & UMEMULO

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Komentáře • 302

  • @vuyimkhwanazi6089
    @vuyimkhwanazi6089 Před 2 lety +47

    I respect this man🙏🏾
    His appreciation is on point.
    You are blessed sis.

  • @Limani87
    @Limani87 Před 2 lety +19

    Beautiful video guys! My husband and I met in Stellenbosch (outside of Cape Town ) 12yrs ago 🥰 . We've lived in UK as a married couple for 11yrs now and expecting our 3rd baby 😃. We haven't been home since 2019 January when my eldest son was 3yrs. We're planning to go back next year to introduce our youngest son and his baby sister 🤗 .. looking forward to watching more of your videos xx

  • @vinoliaynette770
    @vinoliaynette770 Před 2 lety +4

    Love is really beautiful if i must say thando, i am Swati and zulu culture is similar to ours but i must say its so beautiful to watch other cultures coming together and having to see each other with so much respect and ubuntu🙏🙏💜💕, hope to find love like this one day.

  • @thuledupato9076
    @thuledupato9076 Před 2 lety +34

    I have so many things to say. I enjoyed this video so much! When Sergio said he misses South Africa🤣I feel you man! Sergio's dad saying Zulu nation ☺thank you sis for representing the Zulu Nation. From what we hear, we can see that they experienced ubuntu! I'm so happy they loved it! I can't wait for the next video.

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you sis❤️🥰!! I’m excited for the next one.

    • @thandekazungu6132
      @thandekazungu6132 Před 2 lety

      I enjoyed this video so much. I can relate in everything. I’m a Zulu staying in America. When you eventually visit home to see family, it is such a nice feeling. Which part is Thandi’s family in SA. I’m from Durban KZN.

  • @fefechroniclesd6776
    @fefechroniclesd6776 Před 2 lety +9

    "You're not harming anyone by crying youre just expressing your temporary emotion "😰😰😍😍guys love is beautiful ❤❤❤❤

  • @novapicengimbo8509
    @novapicengimbo8509 Před 2 lety +12

    Beautiful guys. Tandi your father in law is amazing too. So friendly just like your husband. God bless your union.

  • @wilmatolentino4610
    @wilmatolentino4610 Před 2 lety +14

    Video gave me goose bumps and brought me to tears when you and your mom saw each other after so long. It was a beautiful moment. And seeing the love and respect given to both my son and his dad was awesome!!! And to see both cultures come together was nice. Can’t wait to experience it myself next visit to South Africa 🇿🇦!!!

  • @zandilemfeka1530
    @zandilemfeka1530 Před 2 lety +9

    The beginning is so emotional 🥺🥺😭you can just tell how much your family had missed you ❤️❤️

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety +2

      🥺🥺😭It was hard editing that part, I missed them so much too❤️. Thank you for watching!😊

  • @patiencefihlela384
    @patiencefihlela384 Před 2 lety +9

    You have such a blessed relationship! Pray that it stays like this till your old age❤️🇿🇦

  • @kersie2000
    @kersie2000 Před 2 lety +6

    This is a very good, well mannered man. His dad did a great job raising him.

    • @barbarangcobo3888
      @barbarangcobo3888 Před 2 lety

      Beautiful and the is very humble you guys a good match may God bless you

  • @pumlajenn2162
    @pumlajenn2162 Před 2 lety +29

    You and your dad are awesome people for embracing her family and her culture.South Africa indeed has a beautiful landscape.Happy for you guys .❤️

  • @sulezinyembezigqeba
    @sulezinyembezigqeba Před 2 lety +8

    🥺🤍❤️Absolutely love this union, love how you compliment each other. Father in law was so within 👌🏾

  • @zizi5137
    @zizi5137 Před rokem +1

    I'm glad you got to experience the African sunrise. It's the most beautiful thing

  • @rebajardine9544
    @rebajardine9544 Před 2 lety +7

    This was so refreshing to watch! From someone who is married to another race, it brought back all the lobola memories! You guys are a beautiful couple. New subbie here from SA😊

  • @ulander7058
    @ulander7058 Před 2 lety +5

    Seeing to cultures coming together is beautiful. I admire how you are embracing each other's cultures.
    The scene at the airport got me so emotional and the choice of songs in the video.
    It's heartwarming listening to the warmth you received from family, friends and neighbors. It's a treasure.

  • @kwandiswantando2902
    @kwandiswantando2902 Před 2 lety +10

    Great video guys. It was lovely seeing you Dado, and it was lovely meeting Sergio and daddy. Hopefully we'll spend more time together when you guys come back. Please continue taking care of our baby Sergio

  • @bangibabs
    @bangibabs Před 2 lety +8

    The part you met up with your family 🤧😩🥰 so emotional. You guys are amazing content creators 👌🏾🥰

  • @SiphiweLove
    @SiphiweLove Před 2 lety +1

    First time commenting here, I was actually watching a CZcams recommendation au pair story of why you left, and found myself watching more videos after that one on this channel. I love your journey Thandiwe, and wish you and Sergio nothing but the best. Stay blessed. 🙏🏽

  • @virginialindi3493
    @virginialindi3493 Před 2 lety +8

    Hey it is my first time watching you guys,you are so are amazing may God bless your marriage.you are a happy couple.I respect you my sister.Gof bless

  • @papamamlolomba9869
    @papamamlolomba9869 Před 2 lety +5

    this is very beautiful, you hubby respecting your culture. ❤️

  • @ItsAshiqa
    @ItsAshiqa Před 2 lety +3

    Omg I’m vicariously living through you guys right now. Can’t wait till my husband and I can make this trip, the wait is real. So happy for you guys!

  • @slindiledlomo387
    @slindiledlomo387 Před 2 lety +5

    Wow Seigio! May God continue to bless your union 🌼

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 Před 2 lety +2

    I couldn't agree with your husband more on investing in Business Class with long distance traveling. Two weeks ago I went to SA traveling Business Class Emirates from Canada, it was heaven on earth. I told my husband I'm not going back to economy 🙈🙈 for my next trip. I love the video, looking forward to your next upload.

  • @nombusomndaba3110
    @nombusomndaba3110 Před 2 lety +5

    Feeling emotional too while watching your video guys,the hug😭😭 you gave to sisi Celi ay iyona engenze ngazwela,but everything went well❤️and bekumnandi kwi event nokukbona after a very long time💕💕

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety +2

      🥺❤️kwahamba kahle konke!! Thank you for being a part of it and It was good to see you too❤️.

  • @nyeletistarnn9390
    @nyeletistarnn9390 Před 2 lety +2

    Okay I've been crying 😭😭❤🥰 this is so beautiful. Lol my niece gives me the longest hugs just from coming home (limpopo) from pta, so I can just imagine how your siblings and all might have felt🥺. Even my family we all Tsonga but they didn't really let them stand outside for long💓🤗. Your husband is very humble.

  • @londy1100
    @londy1100 Před 2 lety +5

    😪I'm already chopping onions.. The clip where you reunited with your family😭

  • @norleenmutize4218
    @norleenmutize4218 Před 2 lety +1

    I just love interracial couples so much I wish to be one also myself one day ...it just shows that the things you see as impossible to you in your world it's possible in others.... May God continue to bless your marriage❤️❤️❤️

  • @marthankuna4845
    @marthankuna4845 Před 2 lety +2

    This is so beautiful guys!! May the hand of the Lord be always upon you, the Memulo part 💯❤️❤️❤️

  • @aziphelivice8146
    @aziphelivice8146 Před 2 lety +9

    Respect for Serge👏❤️❤️❤️❤️💯 love you guys, and congratulations hey💋

  • @dcmmosia6859
    @dcmmosia6859 Před 2 lety +1

    My girl you are so lucky to have a husband who loves you dearly, please continue to love one another, this was a God's plan

  • @nomalungelomsane5605
    @nomalungelomsane5605 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow kwaze kwakuhle my sister...i love this🥰

  • @nonjabulosibiya3021
    @nonjabulosibiya3021 Před 2 lety +7

    Not me crying while watching this❤️. This is beautiful Thando ❤️❤️

  • @makhosyfurse6294
    @makhosyfurse6294 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow I'm so happy for you my sister tap the anointing I haven't go home for 6yrs now I believe God's time is the best 🙏💝👏👏I'm in United kingdom from SA

  • @mayeyesa
    @mayeyesa Před 2 lety +3

    Not me crying throughout the video 😭 happy tears, hso happy for both of you. Sergio thank you for loving our girl the way you do, may God continue to bless your union 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 Před 2 lety +3

    May your husband and his family be blessed beyond measure for the support and love. As a South African I would’ve been in disbelief if I heard this from someone else.

    • @indefinitelyserge547
      @indefinitelyserge547 Před 2 lety

      It’s out of love and my understanding that the world doesn’t only cater to my understanding I love learning and exploring

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety

      Thank you😊🙏🏾

  • @gladysntsibande830
    @gladysntsibande830 Před 2 lety +4

    Wooow love you guys i saw the memulo was beautiful wishing you the best godbless you guys from south africa

  • @lungiesish9240
    @lungiesish9240 Před 2 lety +2

    I am so emotional this a beautiful story Glory be to God l love you Thandi and your family each and everytime I c your pictures l get so emotional l c the hand of God through you that with God everything is possible ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fefechroniclesd6776
    @fefechroniclesd6776 Před 2 lety +5

    This is so beautiful to watch really God is big.. I hope that this time usbari enjoyed the food this time since he tasted the real authentic south African food 🤣🤣😋

  • @Mygirllifestyle
    @Mygirllifestyle Před 2 lety +1

    Lilililililili....... me with my tears jeruuuuu, probably its because I know the feeling❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. I live in Sweden but from South Africa...

  • @chumambambo1024
    @chumambambo1024 Před 2 lety +2

    Ave umuhle weThando. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. 🙏🏽I’m about to go through the same soon and I’m so scared but this puts me at such ease.

  • @mathombicele2538
    @mathombicele2538 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you very much for sharing 🙏🏾 You guys are amazing.

  • @everythingineverythingwith2642

    Awwwwww, this is so beautiful. The airport moment made me miss home so much

  • @lungelo_ntuli
    @lungelo_ntuli Před 2 lety +3

    I don't know how many times I've watched this video
    I get so emotional when the clips play
    Over and over again
    It was so beautiful 😍
    Congratulations 🎊 to you guys for pulling it off 🙌

  • @everythingineverythingwith2642

    And your skin Thando. Skin like pearls!!

  • @lindsayhunter5178
    @lindsayhunter5178 Před 2 lety +2

    It aint a weakness crying is expressing your emotions

  • @nduminyilika4890
    @nduminyilika4890 Před 2 lety +3

    😄 True I have been watching your videos, I think since late 2020 or beginning of 2021 and I didn't know your names.... Thank you for sharing your life with us., you two are amazing. I'm glad you finally came home

  • @samandayimsomi3926
    @samandayimsomi3926 Před 2 lety +4

    Aaaaah we've beeeeeen waiting for this video!!! I could watch the clips of you hugging your family over and over again!
    Were you allowed to pass the airport nesphandla?

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety +2

      🥺🥺i missed them so much, I cried editing this.
      I don’t know if they allow it, but I left it at home so I don’t lose it here.

  • @noluthandomiranda2879
    @noluthandomiranda2879 Před 2 lety +4

    I cannot wait to also go home...hopefully this year or begining of the next year...lapho nathi(my husband and i) kuslindile....plus now there's a plus one which I cannot wait for the fam to meet😍
    So happy for you guys and God bless y'all🙏❤🌻

    • @rinaemapila3831
      @rinaemapila3831 Před 2 lety

      Hey hun how did you met with hubby if you care to tell a concerned sis❤

    • @noluthandomiranda2879
      @noluthandomiranda2879 Před 2 lety

      @@rinaemapila3831 we met in SA...while he was studing there

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 Před 2 lety +2

    😳 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍that clip of your father in law, I just love him . Oh wow they are really awesome people

  • @nteboslifestyleandbeautyco8058

    I will be the first one to come and greet you guys please let us know in time. Thanks sbari for letting know about the new video❤❤❤

  • @RoseDinizDeMoura
    @RoseDinizDeMoura Před 2 lety +1

    Hey darling,
    I’m new to the channel, I’m definitely gonna stay here🤗.
    Love All The Way From Namibia 🇳🇦

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey sis😊, thank you for being a part of our family and for your support❤️.

  • @samukelisiwezondi8019
    @samukelisiwezondi8019 Před 2 lety +3

    Wow...this is so overwhelming 👌. Love is such a butiful thing 😍😍😍

  • @caroline6243
    @caroline6243 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Ndoniyamanzi yakwethu for the beautiful video , and keep well phesheya kolwandle
    lapho ukhona. We will always support you.

  • @indefinitelyserge547
    @indefinitelyserge547 Před 2 lety +11

    #SouthAfrica #Zulu

  • @brennymapulemotlhake9109
    @brennymapulemotlhake9109 Před 2 lety +1

    Congratulations to your wedding. This is soo beautiful to see two beautiful ppl loving each other soo much that they embracing each others cultures & are taking them seriously. As a South African, I feel happy to see ppl embracing & loving our country & cultures. May God bless u & Ur marriage ♥️🤩

  • @njabulosibeko3037
    @njabulosibeko3037 Před 2 lety +5

    I'm crying 😭😭 this is so beautiful 💛💛

  • @irisholt833
    @irisholt833 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi missed you. I am so glad to see you again and had such a wonderful time going to South Africa. It was a pleasure to see the love with family and friends. South Africa is so beautiful. I love the scenery of South Africa. God bless you both. I would love to see you do more Q & A and upcoming videos.

  • @JM2K09
    @JM2K09 Před 2 lety +1

    Your families embracing each other and your cultures was a joy to watch. Keeping up with your videos and your journey together made this a joy to watch.

  • @mphumzimajambe7539
    @mphumzimajambe7539 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow! Beautiful story i like your connection 🇿🇦❤️🇺🇸

  • @nelisiwemhlongo4349
    @nelisiwemhlongo4349 Před 2 lety +1

    She telling the truth we don’t cry anymore when we go home we had to teach ourselves

  • @azurisora9836
    @azurisora9836 Před 2 lety +2

    This is my first time on your channel...you are a lovely couple. I love SA so I subscribed. Thank you for the intro. I enjoyed your content.

  • @pinkymnyango6036
    @pinkymnyango6036 Před 2 lety +4

    Hi guys greetings from Durban. Great story love you

  • @khanyasithole7267
    @khanyasithole7267 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm not crying 😭😭 I promise

  • @coolkidintheblock2861
    @coolkidintheblock2861 Před 2 lety +3

    love seeing my people happy, I'm happy for you babe, his welcome to the rainbow nation, his one of us now, welcome home brother 🤟🏾 🇿🇦 keep that queen happy for us, I'M REALLY HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS, all love from Ireland

  • @khanyasithole7267
    @khanyasithole7267 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm never leaving this channel 😭❤️

  • @thokongobese4661
    @thokongobese4661 Před 2 lety +4

    You guys are awesome ❤❤...May God bless and protect your union!...what a lovely couple ❤

    • @indefinitelyserge547
      @indefinitelyserge547 Před 2 lety

      Thank you 😊

    • @patriciakhanye7411
      @patriciakhanye7411 Před 2 lety +1

      Yhooo😥😥Thando u make me cry GUYS umkhwenyana wethu ozithobileyo💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @patriciakhanye7411
      @patriciakhanye7411 Před 2 lety

      Thando y ni ngavuli only 2business apha ekhaya come nd open amathuba emisebenzi

  • @everythingineverythingwith2642

    Just realized that I subscribed to your channel with the account I do not use. I have been missing out. I am catching up now though. I am excited!!!

  • @walkwithorr
    @walkwithorr Před 2 lety +1

    Was smiling throughout the whole story😍, am still yet to finish the umemulo video.

  • @JanetZondi-hd1xz
    @JanetZondi-hd1xz Před rokem +1

    I love u Sthando forbeing a good girl till your ceremony

  • @sphesihlegumede4401
    @sphesihlegumede4401 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow this is beautiful Sthandiwe❤🌻.
    Nidlule ngakith eMtubatuba

  • @Ventur3-TFO
    @Ventur3-TFO Před 2 lety +7

    What a cool experience! I wish I could go! I will go to south Africa soon! What was each one's best and worst moments of your first trip ? I want to know!

    • @indefinitelyserge547
      @indefinitelyserge547 Před 2 lety +5

      The early retail closing and terrible flight time!

    • @indefinitelyserge547
      @indefinitelyserge547 Před 2 lety +5

      Best moment was the love from her family

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you😊. Best moments were to see my family after so long and them meeting my husband for the first time, seeing him bond with them so effortlessly!
      Worst moments was places closing early and driving on the opposite side.

    • @Ventur3-TFO
      @Ventur3-TFO Před 2 lety

      I can imagine that needing something and everything being closed early is a real wake up to wake early lol. Its also awesome that Sergio got to bond with your family ! God is great 👍

  • @khanyisabooi88
    @khanyisabooi88 Před 2 lety +2

    AHH man your family really missed I got so emotional 🥺🥺❤️. Your family is so amazing 🥺I really enjoyed this video 🥳🥺

    • @AfricanCalifornia
      @AfricanCalifornia  Před 2 lety +2

      🥺🥺🥰Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it, thank you for watching😊.

  • @kellygumbo5484
    @kellygumbo5484 Před 2 lety +1

    I have loved to watch your video and it was amazing experience 👏, i am proud of you Thandie and your hubby xxx

  • @kersie2000
    @kersie2000 Před 2 lety +1

    Hubby said he missed South Africa. I don't blame you I miss SA too.

  • @TheMillenialClub
    @TheMillenialClub Před 2 lety +1

    This is a beautiful story..
    How did you cope being away from your family for six years?
    I'm away from homefor 15 months now and the home sickness is real

  • @lettymelanin5104
    @lettymelanin5104 Před rokem +1

    Please tell your husband that i want to be his step mother. Just to add another Zulu in the family 😜. I recently came across your channel and i love you guys

  • @thembanhlapo7673
    @thembanhlapo7673 Před 2 lety +1

    Richards bay. My home town. I could tell from the colors at the mall that it was boardwalk

  • @clyviankhwashu9635
    @clyviankhwashu9635 Před 2 lety +1

    what a lovely couple❤may God bless your union sending you love from South Africa❤❤❤

  • @yondeladiya976
    @yondeladiya976 Před 2 lety +1

    WOW I'VE JUST RECENTLY SAW YOUR VLOG WOW ....I FEEL LIKE WATCHING MORE N MORE GUYS, YOU SUCH INSPIRATION

  • @asi7735
    @asi7735 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh wow , what a heartwarming video🥺❤ I thoroughly enjoyed it 👏🏾❤

  • @malebogomolebatsi812
    @malebogomolebatsi812 Před 2 lety +1

    Lots of love from Botswana 🇧🇼

  • @vuyimkhwanazi6089
    @vuyimkhwanazi6089 Před 2 lety +3

    Welcome back and congratulations 🎊

  • @Luczen
    @Luczen Před 5 měsíci

    Just for the Love You Guys are showing,I clicked Subscribe

  • @nondumisoangel1320
    @nondumisoangel1320 Před 2 lety +3

    This is so beautiful..❤️ it's like a dream

  • @tsholofelosharonmbele4318

    This reunion is beautiful 😩🤗

  • @blimages2
    @blimages2 Před 2 lety +1

    Meet a foreigner men your marriage will be wonderful happy ❤️❤️🥰

  • @maakitlale3686
    @maakitlale3686 Před rokem +1

    We miss you guys this is to long pls come back

  • @lihlem9496
    @lihlem9496 Před 2 lety +1

    LOL yeah you guys don't introduce yourselves, been a fan and I just saw on the uMEMULO VIDEO CAPTION that you are "Sthandiwe" and I was like ow , beautiful name. I've been referring you as "African California" lol. Glad to see that umkhwenyana wethu finally made it home :)

  • @zanelenxumalo3533
    @zanelenxumalo3533 Před 2 lety +2

    Is this ismangaliso game reserve park my mother’s home is at jozini kwajobe

  • @leonhendricks4912
    @leonhendricks4912 Před 2 lety +3

    hi guys, Im new to your channel. You are a beautiful couple. Serge your heart is big, like a South African. I enjoyed your video a lot and one can see the love and respect you have for each other. The most emotional part for me was the Daddy's clip. He found something in South Africa which I think he didnt know he lost. Welcome back to SA any time

  • @zolilemagugu8525
    @zolilemagugu8525 Před 2 lety +1

    Congrats Guys

  • @nontembisomlangeni9317
    @nontembisomlangeni9317 Před 2 lety +1

    You are a beautiful couple my love, stay blessed 💓

  • @HeavenMelodies-02
    @HeavenMelodies-02 Před 2 lety +2

    All I can see is Love from you guys as for your husban he has full of respect, he feet's being a part of our country. I love you guys, Thando usuka kuphi ne Kzn I like the way you kept your upbringing and respect

  • @khayakazimswephu5404
    @khayakazimswephu5404 Před 2 lety +1

    I cried on your behalf 😢 this is beautiful 😍

  • @bongiebongs4059
    @bongiebongs4059 Před 2 lety +2

    Zulu nation baby!!

  • @ntombenhlekhanyile2940
    @ntombenhlekhanyile2940 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow whats a nice video I wish u all the best. You are a nice couple.

  • @philisiwemzimela3882
    @philisiwemzimela3882 Před 2 lety +1

    I just love 💘you ❤guys my first time watching 👀❤ya'll don't forget 😘to put God almighty 🙏❤in your marriage.

  • @xolilemthembu3857
    @xolilemthembu3857 Před 2 lety +3

    I miss you guys 😪 and love you always!❤

  • @samirahfazilahmed3206
    @samirahfazilahmed3206 Před 2 lety +2

    Beautiful
    Please could I kindly get the name of the song playing when you were greeting your family after a long time

  • @clkubheka4006
    @clkubheka4006 Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful couple. 😋 I love you guys ❤💓