IRL this would have caused irrevocable harm and Lance would not have married Mia. A person like Lance cannot handle a small dose of their own energy. Lance & Harper are 2 different type of narcissists.
During the talk in the bathroom between Harper and Lance,(who I felt with Q's "assistance") TOOK ACCOUNTABILITY for his role in his unfaithful conduct and said that he was ready to take the "L" if Mia gave him THE PAYBACK because of his faith. But Lance felt THE BETRAYAL when Harper broke the "Bro Code!!"
Narcissism has nothing to do with it. She didn’t just smash someone.. she smashed his bro. He broke code. She didn’t mess with some random he would never meet, it was my man’s best man. That’s flaw
Because she knew having sex with her boyfriend's closest friend would hurt Lance the most. When a woman loves a man she extract brutal tactics for revenge.
Picking Lances best friend risked their friendship. While I understand why, picking Harper was really messed up, but ultimately, Harper is a disloyal SOB and he is lucky Lance did not Chuck him off that balcony.
He probably went along with it because he knew what kind of man Lance was. He probably regretted handing her over to an unfaithful friend. In the movie it says that he felt responsible, that comforting her at that time was his responsibility.
She wanted to even the score in her own mind to be willing to take things forward after what he’s done. It’s the lick back. She knew what kind of man he was and that being monogamous for him was very unlikely. Yes, she loved him, but she also knew that he was heading to the NFL. She didn’t do it to hurt him because she never meant for him to know. She wanted that pay back in her mind. Without that pay back, she wouldn’t have been able to move forward with Lance & forgive him. If Lance was honest about who he was, he would have had to deal with the possibility that she may not have been willing to date him or wouldn’t take him seriously, but she wouldn’t have had the built up resentment based off of his lies to need to sleep with his best friend.
I love how Quentin explained to Lance how Mia is within her rights to step out on him Bc he stepped out on her so many times. She chose Harper Bc she felt like she should’ve been with Harper in the first place remember Harper hooked them up in the first place he kept saying no she not that type of girl you can hurt. However they got hooked up anyways. She wanted Harper before she knew Lance but I’m sure Harper never made the first move but when she got cheated on she took the first move killing 2 birds with one stone hurt Lance and get what she really wanted in the first place. Good girls always like the bad boy and Harper wasn’t a bad. Harper should’ve never put it in his book. That’s the question why did Harper wrote about it ? Did he wanna be caught did he think they wouldn’t catch in Bc of names in book was changed.
Harper shouldn't have done it he knew the pain that Lance gave to Mia. But that is why Mia did it she wanted to shoot it straight to his heart and know that his best friend hit his girl soon to be a wife. You heard him in the church he always knew that she would cheat, but he never thought his boy would do it. Lance the way you were moving like you didn't respect your relationship with Mia you thought since you was this big football star so you was having women throw themselves at you. Harper knew what Lance was doing since he hooked them up, so he felt guilty for seeing the pain Mia was getting from Lance
Harper wanted Mia all along but the “football jock” Lance the potential millionaire won her. Harper even named his daughter after her when she passed away. Mia was wrong regardless. But Harper wrote the book to spite Lance for taking Mia from him.
Lance never mention it to Mia He went off on Harper and still married her at the end of the movie he keep seeing Harper with Mia in his mind while saying his wedding Vows
That is how bad she was hurt by this man she loved. Harper wouldn't hurt lance the most but he would love her which is what she needed. Lance didn't get the Virgin. Harper did. Him beingnthe best friend was just icing on the cake.
Seeing this. I need to just leave this woman alone because I feel her moving behind my back. Just can't prove it and she deny everything. I think I'll go find another woman and start fresh
Gm edagdwg thanks you tube for sharing this real story of what happens in real life love this special story of what happens when you hurt me yes she did that true love is real Linda j. Peace
@7:38 - Spirit-Guided Relationships: Wives and Husbands (Ephesians 5) 21 And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. 24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything. 25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. [5:26 Greek washed by water with the word.] 27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 30 And we are members of his body. 31 As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” [5:31 Gen 2:24.] 32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. 33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
First of all, MIA didn't have sex with Harper to hurt Lance because the encounter with Harper was a secret, so the hurt part doesn't work here. I believe MIA wanted Lance and Harper but was caught up in a web because she was in a relationship with Lance. MIA had a great relationship with Harper that was purely platonic because Harper was serial monogamy person and she knew it.
And Mia's Karma was cancer. Lance's behavior was due to immature impulsive sexuality Mias actions were spiteful which the Lord says Vengeance is mine. So she was punished for her crime.
No, Mia was the nicest one of them all. She just did that one horrible thing for a reason most of us would understand, even if we don’t agree with it. She didn’t deserve cancer.
IRL this would have caused irrevocable harm and Lance would not have married Mia. A person like Lance cannot handle a small dose of their own energy. Lance & Harper are 2 different type of narcissists.
During the talk in the bathroom between Harper and Lance,(who I felt with Q's "assistance") TOOK ACCOUNTABILITY for his role in his unfaithful conduct and said that he was ready to take the "L" if Mia gave him THE PAYBACK because of his faith.
But Lance felt THE BETRAYAL when Harper broke the "Bro Code!!"
Narcissism has nothing to do with it. She didn’t just smash someone.. she smashed his bro. He broke code. She didn’t mess with some random he would never meet, it was my man’s best man. That’s flaw
Because she knew having sex with her boyfriend's closest friend would hurt Lance the most. When a woman loves a man she extract brutal tactics for revenge.
She chose him because she wanted to hurt Lance after she found out he was cheating on her. It’s also more than likely she genuinely trusted Harper.
Picking Lances best friend risked their friendship. While I understand why, picking Harper was really messed up, but ultimately, Harper is a disloyal SOB and he is lucky Lance did not Chuck him off that balcony.
Exactly
But what I don’t understand, is why would Harper allow her to choose him? Why’d he go along with it?
Hormones and he liked her too so......
He probably went along with it because he knew what kind of man Lance was. He probably regretted handing her over to an unfaithful friend. In the movie it says that he felt responsible, that comforting her at that time was his responsibility.
Mia put that pressure on him lol. She knew he’d fold if she kept pressing him for the peen
She wanted to even the score in her own mind to be willing to take things forward after what he’s done. It’s the lick back.
She knew what kind of man he was and that being monogamous for him was very unlikely. Yes, she loved him, but she also knew that he was heading to the NFL.
She didn’t do it to hurt him because she never meant for him to know. She wanted that pay back in her mind.
Without that pay back, she wouldn’t have been able to move forward with Lance & forgive him.
If Lance was honest about who he was, he would have had to deal with the possibility that she may not have been willing to date him or wouldn’t take him seriously, but she wouldn’t have had the built up resentment based off of his lies to need to sleep with his best friend.
I love how Quentin explained to Lance how Mia is within her rights to step out on him Bc he stepped out on her so many times. She chose Harper Bc she felt like she should’ve been with Harper in the first place remember Harper hooked them up in the first place he kept saying no she not that type of girl you can hurt. However they got hooked up anyways. She wanted Harper before she knew Lance but I’m sure Harper never made the first move but when she got cheated on she took the first move killing 2 birds with one stone hurt Lance and get what she really wanted in the first place. Good girls always like the bad boy and Harper wasn’t a bad. Harper should’ve never put it in his book.
That’s the question why did Harper wrote about it ? Did he wanna be caught did he think they wouldn’t catch in Bc of names in book was changed.
Harper shouldn't have done it he knew the pain that Lance gave to Mia. But that is why Mia did it she wanted to shoot it straight to his heart and know that his best friend hit his girl soon to be a wife. You heard him in the church he always knew that she would cheat, but he never thought his boy would do it. Lance the way you were moving like you didn't respect your relationship with Mia you thought since you was this big football star so you was having women throw themselves at you. Harper knew what Lance was doing since he hooked them up, so he felt guilty for seeing the pain Mia was getting from Lance
😅You wildin on that last part 8:52
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@@iLikeArtTypeGirls So, its a Derrick Jaxn situation... except his wife didn't pay attention and made a fool of herself
We dont take shit serious 🤣🤣
@@suzygirl1843 so it's his wife fault he cheated? Smh
@@wilinafranklin5903 No. But it's her fault for defending him publicly and lost the people's support. He made a fool of her.
Harper wanted Mia all along but the “football jock” Lance the potential millionaire won her. Harper even named his daughter after her when she passed away.
Mia was wrong regardless. But Harper wrote the book to spite Lance for taking Mia from him.
No I don't think that was the reason for the book. If it was, then why was Harper scared of Lance reading it?
@@DG-zv4blfor the reason he just explained 😂😂😂
I love both movies, I cried on both because I actually been in those situations, great commentary
Thank you for watching
Lance never mention it to Mia He went off on Harper and still married her at the end of the movie he keep seeing Harper with Mia in his mind while saying his wedding Vows
8:30 yes and no. Love without boundaries is not love either.
That is how bad she was hurt by this man she loved. Harper wouldn't hurt lance the most but he would love her which is what she needed. Lance didn't get the Virgin. Harper did. Him beingnthe best friend was just icing on the cake.
A before head kiss. Lmao
If Mia would've give her V Card to Harper, Lance wouldn't be in this picture.
This is a good question.
Mia cause so much harm
Lance wasn't innocent. He was cheating on her left to right
@@wilinafranklin5903 I agree
Yeah, but Lance almost killed Harper over this.
@@wilinafranklin5903 Exactly.
@@nettegaines2067That don’t got nothing to do with Mia. Harper broke bro code.
Very sad
This is nikki anderson I been married for nineteen years
Congratulations.
Seeing this. I need to just leave this woman alone because I feel her moving behind my back. Just can't prove it and she deny everything. I think I'll go find another woman and start fresh
Gm edagdwg thanks you tube for sharing this real story of what happens in real life love this special story of what happens when you hurt me yes she did that true love is real Linda j. Peace
@7:38 - Spirit-Guided Relationships: Wives and Husbands (Ephesians 5)
21 And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22 For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. 24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything.
25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. [5:26 Greek washed by water with the word.] 27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 30 And we are members of his body.
31 As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” [5:31 Gen 2:24.] 32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one.
33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
First of all, MIA didn't have sex with Harper to hurt Lance because the encounter with Harper was a secret, so the hurt part doesn't work here. I believe MIA wanted Lance and Harper but was caught up in a web because she was in a relationship with Lance. MIA had a great relationship with Harper that was purely platonic because Harper was serial monogamy person and she knew it.
No
Mia was a dangerous women . she mess lance around big time .
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And Mia's Karma was cancer. Lance's behavior was due to immature impulsive sexuality Mias actions were spiteful which the Lord says Vengeance is mine. So she was punished for her crime.
Lol u are as dense as the day is long. Cancer is not a karma..what's wrong with u lol?
No, Mia was the nicest one of them all. She just did that one horrible thing for a reason most of us would understand, even if we don’t agree with it. She didn’t deserve cancer.
@@nettegaines2067 Very true.
@@nettegaines2067 Hebrews 13:4
Dude cancer happens to anyone. Even kids get it. I don't like that idea of cancer being karma... wtf
You never know she could be earnin' her man
And learnin' her man and at the same time burnin' her man
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