Zeth, you're gonna love this story. When I was a kid, we had an older guy who loved kids like 2 streets away. He was known as the candy man, the kids in our street were allowed to go to his house and we'd get a piece of candy. All parents knew about him, some knew him and trusted him (like my parents). I understand the story can sound a bit creepy, but it makes me feel sad because he was genuinely a good guy. He had rules, like only getting one piece of candy per day. I remember one time we were with 4 and all switched jackets to get candy for a second time, obviously he noticed haha. I feel blessed having lived in a small town were this was possible, I played outside everyday and felt completely safe ❤
Her attention span, listening skills and ability to let her parents talk and not interrupt is amazing. Kids her age cannot do that typically. And even much older. Happy Birthday 🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰
The way that he’s wording these things is actually making me feel funky tbh. I love this family so much; it’s just because of my stance regarding the Michael Jackson situation as a whole, I am uncomfy at this moment just because of my personal stance
Zeth is right about Michael Jackson - they couldn’t catch him on any of the charges they just humiliated him and wanted to take him out. He beat all the charges. It’s sad how depraved our society is that people who just genuinely love kids are treated like creeps. I just had my first daughter & while I’m protective I also try to make sure when men stop to say how cute she is or something I don’t treat them like criminals bc it’s NATURAL for babies to bring out the good in us!
Okay, I’ve never wanted children. Like… ever. Not that I’m bad with kids or whatever. However, this has me curious. My big question is how do you feel about how the world is progressing when it comes to your children? It’s so different with technology now, global warming, etc. I’m a little jaded, so forgive me, but I KNOW I’m not the only person who thinks about the demise of our civilization. Y’all are fantastic!
Jaylin saying "I can do that to ease your mind" referring to doing research instead of reading was so comforting to me for some reason. I feel like little phrases like that give me insight as to what marriage is like. The MJ topic coming out of nowhere seriously made me laugh out loud though 🤣
Growing up as a millennial everyone told you it was needed to have everything figured it out before having kids and now being 30 and my husband 32 struggling to have kids is even scarier than probably having kids in our mid twenties. Listening to a couple that have gone through struggles and still came out of it for their kids is very inspiring. Love these videos with the both of you!
Totally agree. I'm 38 and finally pregnant with my 1st child. Throughout my 20’s I felt unworthy of being a parent because of my boomer parent mentality. At one point I thought I may not even want to have kids but then I realized that I would regret not having children with my husband whom I love entirely and would always wonder about our lives without children. I'm going to be 39 when my child is born and plan to have another one right after 😅 I worked with children for over 13 years so I know I will be able to parent successfully 🙌
@@eslavicky4432props to you for waiting until you felt comfortable to have kids. From a young age I knew that I did not want to have children of my own, but completely happy (and have done so!) coparenting with my love. I, too, am 38 and turning the page toward the end of the year. I still feel the same way about incubating a human of my own. After my parents had my bro my Momma could not get impregnated again. 10 years later a terrible accident occurred resulting a long hospital stay for my Mom. Sometime after she got home my mom was well enough to have visitors, a stork dropped me off - a few decades and some years later - here I am. She was 38 when it all started with me. One assistance I had as a deciding factor was I’m not going to get pregnant until I know I can give my children the life that my parents provided for me. *Wisdom and overall outlook, energy, financially, experience, and intelligence* ~to name a few. I had the astute introspection to see and understand that I have the spirit of the wild child, the traveler, the yearning for experience and spiritually nourished with being the here one day and gone the next, nomad, dancing with life - where its cool for people to come and join, stay as long as you’d like! - the more the merrier, we make it look like this was rehearsed! (type of life) - but in the end, my spirit feels heavy even CONSIDERING having a little piece of my heart out and about strutting around like she just left the salon. Oh how beautifully terrifying the concept. My props to all the parents out there! You guys are savage. Unfortunately, it seems the people that absolutely should be procreating are choosing not to, the ones whom you’re surprised they even know where the hole is are popping ‘em out like the highest option at the batting cages. Women, do not feel bad about choosing not to have children. The truth is, our feminine nature makes it so we are providing that goddess mother to everybody and everything around us subconsciously. We are not a woman because we incubate a baby, we are a woman through that nurturing instinct and love/ trust we harness a built in heir of. (I know I went a bit off track but ladies - we are bad ass!) But I digress… my parents are my heroes and best friends, celebrating 49 years of marriage this year come August. My brother is 48, I’ll be 38 this year which is the age my Momma was when she got pregnant with me. My parents are both retired and going about life pretty much doing whatever they want, we go to concerts and shows together regularly. 70’s sound old to you two now but being in your 70’s in this day and age isn’t what 70’s used to look like. Truthfully, you’ll make it look like whatever you make it look like. I wish you guys could see what those crazy kids look like 😂 Don’t let having children at a later age worry you. You never feel the age you actually are. My pops would always tell me that growing up but it wasn’t until the last couple of years I truly innerstood what he meant. Anyway, life - there’s a basic structure to it but however you want to design it is completely up to you. You can even give a box some pizazz. Enjoy your life my friends! And good luck, congratulations, and wishing you all enough of everything for your roads ahead ✌🏻 + ❤️
Kids are SOOOO much fun. I loved having small kids. I 100% agree that you should have fun with your kids because that’s what builds memories with them. I’m 41 right now and my two older kids are grown and moved out, my youngest is a teenager in high school and likes to do his own thing now. I cannot tell you how much I wish I could go back to the days when my kids were young and I had them all at home. My kids have always been my whole entire life. Once you have kids nothing else matters. Take advantage of this time with your kids. You can never get it back no matter how much you miss it.
14:40 Not saying no, not saying yes; just saying not now. I love where you guys are at as a unit 💜 No one’s perfectly healthy but you two definitely have what it takes to traverse any adversity. I only have hope for y’all and I’m so glad people like you have sufficiently large platforms to in a way spread so much positivity. Many of us are so ‘old’ yet so ‘young’ and being exposed to such fair and concise discourse is so relieving. Thank you (:
Everyone is not going to see what he is saying about Michael and children. He loves children so much, and that is how he thought about Michael. To say Walt Disney is a better reference, clearly you haven’t done your homework… he is the most corrupt! Michael’s accusers even admitted that they lied about him. Aaron Carter also said that his mother wanted him to lie and said Michael did something wrong. Your husband is not creepy, he just has a childlike heart (like me), and wants to be young and play with/like the children forever. Love that!❤
Zeth, mid to late 30’s isn’t old for having kids anymore, and I know your baby girl growing up is making you miss memories, but please keep in mind that Atlas is still a baby. Maybe a year or two from now you may have another baby, but continue to cherish your babies you have now and give them your undivided attention like you’re doing now. Also, remember that your kids will have kids and grandparents are literally the best! I agree with a Jailyn there’s time to have a couple more, but no need to rush! You have two wonderful bundle of joys right now! You both are wonderful parents I just think giving it a little time wouldn’t hurt!
You talk about creepy, my mom love passing out candy to the kids. But her favorite part was to dress up in a costume there like a statue and scare the crap out of the kids, then call them back to pass out candy.
I have always had the same thought about Michael too, this world has a way of turning things into something it’s not. I grew up listening to Michael and if you really know and understand his story and his personal childhood, it makes more sense. ❤ I think he was very misunderstood but all that was in his music was LOVE.
I get what zeth was saying.. my dad back in the day would go bike riding with my friends and our bmx bikes and we’d have like 12 kids wanting to hang out with my dad or wondering where my dad was 🤣
Zeth, you make a really good point about Michael Jackson and everything coming to light these days. Makes me wonder about a lot of these other celebrities that "weirdly" died. Didn't really think of it til now and everyone's always saying they were gonna say something.
I love how yall are doing these podcasts now. It feels so authentic and homey! I never thought the podcasts felt forced or anything but this is new set up is such a comfortable podcast to watch! You guys are the best and crack me up too!
Your discussion about “being a big kid” really resonated with me. My husband and I are 50+ with no kids, but adore the joy of being around kids. They truly fill your heart and make you forget the boring “adulting” stuff. Although, aside from family, very few welcome or even acknowledge us. Our neighborhood has many families, but like you said, there is no trust. 😔 Life does go by fast, and you must make the most of it. Enjoy! 💛💛💛💛
I agree with the micheal Jackson comparison. I actually think he did it all innocently and loved kids.I thought the same thing when I saw videos of him so happy with kids
I totally concur about MJ, Zeth. I've always felt that he was very misunderstood. I feel that he really missed out on a childhood and he's always been a kid that never grew up who just wanted friends and fun. I believe he came from such a place of innocence. Unfortunately greed, evil and manipulation had to take something so pure and innocent and turn it into something that it was not. I felt really bad for him and I think they really did him dirty. Good for u for standing up for him Zeth! U 2 are such great parents and u have just the best little humans ever. And not to mention how dang cute they are!!! I'm 39 years old with stage 4 endometriosis so I've been unable to have a baby of my own (not for lack of trying) and I just really admire u guys and ur journey. I look up to u guys despite the age difference and I love what you've done regarding the "PONCAST." I feel like it's only up from here guys. So long as u keep on keeping on and strictly stick to ur morals and values, the sky's the limit!! Thanks for all ur hard work and for letting us have a front row seat to ur life. I greatly appreciate it! ✌️💜✌️💜
I appreciate your perspective on fatherhood Zeth! Really cool to hear from a fellow CZcamsr dad, I got 2 little ones myself. More convos about parenting! Keep up the great work. -Ingus
as someone who also loves kids and works with them everyday, i’m glad Zeth is brave enough to have this conversation! i do think it has to be put in the context of/with a disclaimer that our current society hates children, does not protect them whatsoever, and there are tons of people around children who do not have their best interest at heart. with saying that, it sucks to be an adult that wants to protect children and not be able to express love for them/want to be around them without being side eyed.. like we have reason to be so cautious but idk.. children need safe adults around too. i’m not sure how to elaborate on this with the right words but i feeeell you! the line of appropriateness is very thin.
Zeth I’ve thought the same about M Michael Jackson he was misunderstood and not only that but a lot of different people wanted a lot of his money and so that was one of the ways they could get their hands in it in his pockets. Do not feel weird for your love of children. There are plenty of grown men out there that love children the same as you. They are a beautiful blessing and they need to be cherished and loved by good people both men and women.
Zeth is right about Michael Jackson. He was being extorted by the kids parents. A few of them have admitted it. Also, he owned the entire Sony catalog. He purchased it fair and square, which many higher ups in the industry did not like. They were trying to get that catalog back for years before they killed him for it. MJ's estate sold it back to them after his death. So, not only was he being extorted by these kids parents, he was also being targeted by the industry.
@sugarsore he let kids sleep in his bed in his room. He never slept in the bed with them. His room was huge with two stories. These kids that slept in his room included his nieces and nephews who have on more than one occasion, debunked every lie told by his accusers. There is zero evidence against this man other than he was a big kid himself. If you actually research what was really happening with MJ, the truth is right there. There is an entire NY Times article about how Harvey Weinstein would pay tabloids to release fake stories about MJ to cover up his own dirt and lawsuits. Do your research before believing what the media tells you.
With the baby conversation, I have a brother who is 18 months older than me and I also have a twin sister and it was so much fun growing up with 2 siblings so close in age.
Your conversation about not being afraid to have kids really hit a chord w me. I’m 27, have been a school teacher in the past and absolutely love children. I’ve gone back and forth whether I should have kids or not, and have always been terrified to have to take care of my own. But your whole fun parent idea is how I always was as a teacher, I just acted like a big kid all the time. Your beautiful family has made me hopeful I can have a beautiful family too one day. Love you guys! Also Zeth, I’m with you on the MJ topic. I’ve said this to people for years and people think you’re crazy. Maybe we’re just all a little misunderstood 💕
I had both my boys by 24, and I am so grateful to be given that gift, but them being only 13 mo apart was such a difficult adjustment. I appreciate their age gap now, but having them so close in age was so hard to get used to up until toddlerhood. Obviously, it's doable, but I also read that when women have their kids in their 30s vs. 20s, they are mentally much more adaptable in many cases. I am huge on being present and soaking in every moment, but when you're struggling so much mentally and physically to keep up, the daily can be so exhausting. My partner and I were also only together 4 mo before we got pregnant with our first. All the best in your guys' journey. Thank you for sharing ❤ so beautiful to see you succeeding in so many facets 😊
I’m going to call my son tomorrow he’ll be 49 this year so he was 5 when Star Wars arrived. He had all of it. Star ships and Darth Vader Birthday parties. I’m going to ask him how he feels about the new stuff. You guys are so cute! Happy Birthday Beautiful Sailor Girl!
I grew up with 3 siblings (each ~2years apart) raised by a single mom. My mom was incredible and made sure we never had to miss out on any experiences. There was a lot of time spent together, pretty much rotated between our sports events and activities but at the end of the day she made sure we all had the opportunities to explore our various interests while feeling fully supported by the whole household. I feel like you have a wonderful parenting style and could manage all the intricacies of a growing household. Just take it at your own pace tho! As long as you listen to your body and mind as to what you can handle I know you will have a beautiful family ❤️ much love
I enjoy you guys so much, seeing a real family and genuine love/ connection/ conversation 🫶🏽 gives me hope for the future! Speaking of do either of yall have single siblings 🤪😂🤞🏽
I love your giggles 😂 the serious and non so serious topics!... it really feels like chatting with friends ♥️ thank you guys for always being so honest and so YOU 💕
Hey Zeth, been watching you since the beginning. As someone who grew up in a family of three kids (I am the oldest of three, 2F 1M) I highly recommend a 4th. We are all super close but when it came to playing games/sports in the backyard it sucked not having an even number. Same with when we would play video games. Happy birthday Saylor! 🥳
I feel the same way. I am also the oldest of 3. Im 18 mos older than my brother and the. He is 13 months older than our sister. And someone (usually him or her lol) got left out of playing.... And if anyone got to go run errands with the parental unit one got left behind at home because there wasnt enough room to comfortably fit in our pick up truck and i believe it there would have been 4 then one (me) wouldn't have been left home alone all the time.
I've just started following you guys and watching your content it's awesome, guys . This one is beautiful and so funny . Much love from all the way in Australia 🇦🇺 ❤
Happy Birthday Saylor 🎉🎂 Thanks for another great episode. Zeth I grew up in a big family with 6 kids in the house. My dad was the big kid. He played softball and football ball. He watched tv with us, we’d listen to music together but most importantly our house was the cool house. All the neighborhood kids came to our house to play. My dad would play with us and tell us jokes. I am so grateful for that because I know people who didn’t get that. They had a dad who worked and came home to relax and that was it. We didn’t have money but my dad would take us cruisin with the music blasting and we’d hang out at the park or go to the beach in the summer.
You two are truly wonderful parents! Its a breath of fresh air to see such a happy, healthy family. I love watching you guys grow! Keep up the amazing work!.....by the way, we looove bluey too! Wait till she gets a little older and you guys can watch all the harry potter movies together! Thats going to be fun 😊
ngl, I was considering going thru life w/o kids, then I stumbled upon this channel a couple yrs ago, and this family inspires me to consider a family, the perspective and mentality shift is nothing I ever suspected from a youtube channel I just watched for the wholesomeness
We have a 4 year old who loves the Fancy Nancy books. We saw it on Disney+, I believe, so we let her watch a couple episodes but banned it not too long after because of Nancy's attitude. Doesn't come across like that in the books (though, maybe it's the way we read it to her?) We didn't get any sass from our 4 year old but we didn't want it to start 😅
I love the conspiracy conversation.. It's a view into all of us trying to have conspiracy conversations with people who see it differently. "You Crazy!" But also, I love your view Zeth, Its sad that a minority of bad players made it creepy to genuinely/purely love kids. Also, here's additional thought for your conspiracy. Taking away love (making it creepy) from our youth breaks them down and causes many issues; as you can see in our society today. By making it weird to care and nurture our fellow humans, we've taken away a basic foundational need that supports growing into a caring supportive adult... I used to coach young kids, I would hug them, listen to them, respect them, text them to tell them how awesome they are doing; It grew wonderful athletes and humans. If I coached now, I wouldn't be able to do any of those things... They've been building a cold, sterile world and we are seeing the outcome... #RIPMichaelJackson He was definitely suicided by the music industry that made more money from him dead than alive.
Zeth you are spot on about Michael Jackson!! You are spot on about how he was going to bring things to light, how sick our world is, including learning about cutting out seed oils. Keep guiding Jaylin and informing her with what you research. I’m so glad you got out of Cali! I love watching you guys wake up to this stuff, my husband and I have been fans forever!
JAYLINA DONT LET FEAR GUILT RULE YOU. HAVING 4 CHILDREN IS A BLESSING. THERE WAS 4 OF US CHILDREN IN FAMILY. YOU HAVE BEAUTIFUL HEARTS. GOOD PARENTS. DONT CAMPARE YOURSELFS TO OTHERS. GOD MADE U WITH OWN IDENTITY. HAVING EVEN JUST 2MORE CHILDREN WILL B A BLESSING. TROUBLE IS WE HEAR THINGS WE GET MINDSETS. IF YOU WANT MORE CHILDREN HAVE THEM WHEN U READY. JUST DONT MAKE U DECISION BY WHAT U HEARD. U HAVE SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE.
Zeth is funny and so real, you both are. The MJ worry is what the internet does to you! I think it's cool that you can speak to both adults and children populations in the same episode! In case children are not watching with their parents I would recommend putting a text and verbal warning to skip ahead to a later timestamp (for children-only audiences specifically)! Even if they don't listen.
You are great parents and whenever you choose to have another child you will give enough time and love to each of them . Remember Saylor wasn't stoked because she was having a brother not a sister now look at how close the siblings are . That's because of how you handled the situation, showering both kids with love and they are so different because you allow them to be themselves
I have a 9month old and we love Bluey too! I think every parent does. It's either that or Baby Shark right now 😭 We've just decided on Bluey being the theme for her 1st birthday. Also, I do think MJ was misunderstood. That comparison is better than Walt Disney lol.
You both are still young to grow your family. I love watching your videos. I'm an olderish parent and I really wish I could have had a baby sooner but for some reason my body couldn't. So now we have our miracle boy who will be 4yrs old.
Wonderful how you guys discuss the thing together! Your way of comunication is a big example for others. 👍 you two are great parents and do a great job in the education of your kids. Very intelligent kids with common sense!👍 Your wife has a lot of patience and wisdom! Liz from Germany! 🙋♀️ I know what zeth means! MJ was abused himself by his father. MJ just wanted to live his childhood. The kids who lived with him said he was a very good person. The people behind him tried to destroy his reputation. But when Epstein did bad things nobody spoke really about him
Bro! I completely agree about the Michael Jackson thing. I don’t want kids of my own but I LOVE kids. I have so many nieces and 1 nephew and I just love being around kids. I’m a big ass kid and I love that they get me on that fun level. I’m not a weirdo and I don’t want them because I’m scared to have anyone else hurt them and have them suffer. So I feel you on that.
I feel the exact same way! I have my younger sister, younger cousin, as well as the children I take care of at church. I just love kids! They just bring me so much joy. I’ve always felt like I resonated with Michael in a way when it comes to never growing up and just loving the pure joy and presence of kids, nice to see I’m not the only one. 😅 In a world full of adults it’s nice to just be around kids who are always happy and energetic. They keep me young, and really have just lifted my spirit. Having kids seems very scary, especially in this world. I don’t think anyone should have to feel weird simply for being childlike and having a special bond with kids. 💛
The area we live in - the suburbs of St. Louis, Missouri - has the same type of cute Halloween vibe that Jaylin was talking about! Also all our neighbors know each other and look out for eachother! Just saying this so you know it still exists!
Oooh I secretly think you are right Seth about MJ possibly being blackmailed. And he just loved kids so much. Also, your spoons have a great sound about them. Sitting on coffee hit me in the funny bone.
Sorry about the audio issues everybody!
We’re working out the problems and hope to improve on the next episode!
Zeth, you're gonna love this story. When I was a kid, we had an older guy who loved kids like 2 streets away. He was known as the candy man, the kids in our street were allowed to go to his house and we'd get a piece of candy. All parents knew about him, some knew him and trusted him (like my parents). I understand the story can sound a bit creepy, but it makes me feel sad because he was genuinely a good guy.
He had rules, like only getting one piece of candy per day. I remember one time we were with 4 and all switched jackets to get candy for a second time, obviously he noticed haha. I feel blessed having lived in a small town were this was possible, I played outside everyday and felt completely safe ❤
I agree with you on the Michael situation. ❤😢
Her attention span, listening skills and ability to let her parents talk and not interrupt is amazing. Kids her age cannot do that typically. And even much older. Happy Birthday 🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰
I know! As a child therapist I’m sitting here like YES!! 🥹🥹🥹
I am cracking up at this Michael Jackson convo. Needed this laugh on a Monday. Thanks for not leaving it on the cutting room floor 😂
same , i'm still laughing, 😆
OMG hilarious! Glad he didn't cut it out
It was great hahaha ❤
I'm sitting here rolling on the Michael Jackson convo too! Yall were cracking me up.😂
The way that he’s wording these things is actually making me feel funky tbh. I love this family so much; it’s just because of my stance regarding the Michael Jackson situation as a whole, I am uncomfy at this moment just because of my personal stance
Zeth is right about Michael Jackson - they couldn’t catch him on any of the charges they just humiliated him and wanted to take him out. He beat all the charges. It’s sad how depraved our society is that people who just genuinely love kids are treated like creeps. I just had my first daughter & while I’m protective I also try to make sure when men stop to say how cute she is or something I don’t treat them like criminals bc it’s NATURAL for babies to bring out the good in us!
I’d love to hear the story of how you guys met!
saylor pointing at jaylin when you said "i had to stay close to my girl" 😂😂
You don’t know how much you and your beautiful family had helped me! From the bottom of my heart I really Love you all
Okay, I’ve never wanted children. Like… ever. Not that I’m bad with kids or whatever. However, this has me curious. My big question is how do you feel about how the world is progressing when it comes to your children? It’s so different with technology now, global warming, etc. I’m a little jaded, so forgive me, but I KNOW I’m not the only person who thinks about the demise of our civilization.
Y’all are fantastic!
Jaylin saying "I can do that to ease your mind" referring to doing research instead of reading was so comforting to me for some reason. I feel like little phrases like that give me insight as to what marriage is like. The MJ topic coming out of nowhere seriously made me laugh out loud though 🤣
Thank god for Jaylin bringing all the wisdom to this family 😂😂
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They’re all bringing wisdom to the family wtf 😂😂😂😂
Love these type of vids, not many others sit down and talk face to face with viewers .
😂😂 the way Zeth said “like turn the camera off” it’s so nice to see you guys talk more openly and joke around
Growing up as a millennial everyone told you it was needed to have everything figured it out before having kids and now being 30 and my husband 32 struggling to have kids is even scarier than probably having kids in our mid twenties.
Listening to a couple that have gone through struggles and still came out of it for their kids is very inspiring. Love these videos with the both of you!
Totally agree. I'm 38 and finally pregnant with my 1st child. Throughout my 20’s I felt unworthy of being a parent because of my boomer parent mentality.
At one point I thought I may not even want to have kids but then I realized that I would regret not having children with my husband whom I love entirely and would always wonder about our lives without children. I'm going to be 39 when my child is born and plan to have another one right after 😅
I worked with children for over 13 years so I know I will be able to parent successfully 🙌
@@eslavicky4432props to you for waiting until you felt comfortable to have kids. From a young age I knew that I did not want to have children of my own, but completely happy (and have done so!) coparenting with my love. I, too, am 38 and turning the page toward the end of the year. I still feel the same way about incubating a human of my own.
After my parents had my bro my Momma could not get impregnated again. 10 years later a terrible accident occurred resulting a long hospital stay for my Mom. Sometime after she got home my mom was well enough to have visitors, a stork dropped me off - a few decades and some years later - here I am. She was 38 when it all started with me.
One assistance I had as a deciding factor was I’m not going to get pregnant until I know I can give my children the life that my parents provided for me. *Wisdom and overall outlook, energy, financially, experience, and intelligence* ~to name a few.
I had the astute introspection to see and understand that I have the spirit of the wild child, the traveler, the yearning for experience and spiritually nourished with being the here one day and gone the next, nomad, dancing with life - where its cool for people to come and join, stay as long as you’d like! - the more the merrier, we make it look like this was rehearsed! (type of life) - but in the end, my spirit feels heavy even CONSIDERING having a little piece of my heart out and about strutting around like she just left the salon. Oh how beautifully terrifying the concept. My props to all the parents out there! You guys are savage.
Unfortunately, it seems the people that absolutely should be procreating are choosing not to, the ones whom you’re surprised they even know where the hole is are popping ‘em out like the highest option at the batting cages.
Women, do not feel bad about choosing not to have children. The truth is, our feminine nature makes it so we are providing that goddess mother to everybody and everything around us subconsciously. We are not a woman because we incubate a baby, we are a woman through that nurturing instinct and love/ trust we harness a built in heir of.
(I know I went a bit off track but ladies - we are bad ass!)
But I digress… my parents are my heroes and best friends, celebrating 49 years of marriage this year come August. My brother is 48, I’ll be 38 this year which is the age my Momma was when she got pregnant with me. My parents are both retired and going about life pretty much doing whatever they want, we go to concerts and shows together regularly. 70’s sound old to you two now but being in your 70’s in this day and age isn’t what 70’s used to look like.
Truthfully, you’ll make it look like whatever you make it look like. I wish you guys could see what those crazy kids look like 😂
Don’t let having children at a later age worry you. You never feel the age you actually are. My pops would always tell me that growing up but it wasn’t until the last couple of years I truly innerstood what he meant.
Anyway, life - there’s a basic structure to it but however you want to design it is completely up to you. You can even give a box some pizazz. Enjoy your life my friends! And good luck, congratulations, and wishing you all enough of everything for your roads ahead
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Keep the spatulas! It’s like a unique authentic signature!
I know, right!
Agreed
Kids are SOOOO much fun. I loved having small kids. I 100% agree that you should have fun with your kids because that’s what builds memories with them. I’m 41 right now and my two older kids are grown and moved out, my youngest is a teenager in high school and likes to do his own thing now. I cannot tell you how much I wish I could go back to the days when my kids were young and I had them all at home. My kids have always been my whole entire life. Once you have kids nothing else matters. Take advantage of this time with your kids. You can never get it back no matter how much you miss it.
Not being able to see his entire arm & it’s just a hand behind the couch is cracking me up 😂 you both are gems!
Omg I thought someone was behind the couch doing that lol I had to keep looking to see it was zeths arm lol his arm is very long lol😂
14:40 Not saying no, not saying yes; just saying not now.
I love where you guys are at as a unit 💜 No one’s perfectly healthy but you two definitely have what it takes to traverse any adversity. I only have hope for y’all and I’m so glad people like you have sufficiently large platforms to in a way spread so much positivity. Many of us are so ‘old’ yet so ‘young’ and being exposed to such fair and concise discourse is so relieving.
Thank you (:
Everyone is not going to see what he is saying about Michael and children. He loves children so much, and that is how he thought about Michael. To say Walt Disney is a better reference, clearly you haven’t done your homework… he is the most corrupt! Michael’s accusers even admitted that they lied about him. Aaron Carter also said that his mother wanted him to lie and said Michael did something wrong. Your husband is not creepy, he just has a childlike heart (like me), and wants to be young and play with/like the children forever. Love that!❤
My oldest is 30 and not sure how that happened so fast. Enjoy every moment. You two are doing a great job.
I love how real you are! How genuine! And not afraid to be yourself! Don’t change that. It makes you even cooler!
Zeth, mid to late 30’s isn’t old for having kids anymore, and I know your baby girl growing up is making you miss memories, but please keep in mind that Atlas is still a baby. Maybe a year or two from now you may have another baby, but continue to cherish your babies you have now and give them your undivided attention like you’re doing now. Also, remember that your kids will have kids and grandparents are literally the best! I agree with a Jailyn there’s time to have a couple more, but no need to rush! You have two wonderful bundle of joys right now! You both are wonderful parents I just think giving it a little time wouldn’t hurt!
You talk about creepy, my mom love passing out candy to the kids. But her favorite part was to dress up in a costume there like a statue and scare the crap out of the kids, then call them back to pass out candy.
For men no woman yes
@@denice.a3620considering all the strides they’ve made in IVF women have a lot longer than they used to for sure
@@denice.a3620🙄there are women having kid in there late 40s and 50s
I have always had the same thought about Michael too, this world has a way of turning things into something it’s not. I grew up listening to Michael and if you really know and understand his story and his personal childhood, it makes more sense. ❤ I think he was very misunderstood but all that was in his music was LOVE.
You guys are awesome parents!!! Very mature and wise beyond your years.
I get what zeth was saying.. my dad back in the day would go bike riding with my friends and our bmx bikes and we’d have like 12 kids wanting to hang out with my dad or wondering where my dad was 🤣
Awh that is so awesome. It takes a village 😊
Zeth, you make a really good point about Michael Jackson and everything coming to light these days. Makes me wonder about a lot of these other celebrities that "weirdly" died. Didn't really think of it til now and everyone's always saying they were gonna say something.
I love how yall are doing these podcasts now. It feels so authentic and homey! I never thought the podcasts felt forced or anything but this is new set up is such a comfortable podcast to watch! You guys are the best and crack me up too!
Your discussion about “being a big kid” really resonated with me. My husband and I are 50+ with no kids, but adore the joy of being around kids. They truly fill your heart and make you forget the boring “adulting” stuff. Although, aside from family, very few welcome or even acknowledge us. Our neighborhood has many families, but like you said, there is no trust. 😔 Life does go by fast, and you must make the most of it. Enjoy! 💛💛💛💛
Loving these videos! So organic and authentic.
What Zeth means to say is he is Peter Pan... not Michael
I agree 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Zeth you seriously did not compare yourself to MJ🤣🤣🤣..you took me out..that was seriously so random.
lmao right
I agree with the micheal Jackson comparison. I actually think he did it all innocently and loved kids.I thought the same thing when I saw videos of him so happy with kids
He was set up and gaslighted 😢
💐🎁🎈HAPPY 6TH BIRTHDAY, SAYLOR!!!💐🎁🎈
I totally concur about MJ, Zeth. I've always felt that he was very misunderstood. I feel that he really missed out on a childhood and he's always been a kid that never grew up who just wanted friends and fun. I believe he came from such a place of innocence.
Unfortunately greed, evil and manipulation had to take something so pure and innocent and turn it into something that it was not. I felt really bad for him and I think they really did him dirty. Good for u for standing up for him Zeth!
U 2 are such great parents and u have just the best little humans ever. And not to mention how dang cute they are!!! I'm 39 years old with stage 4 endometriosis so I've been unable to have a baby of my own (not for lack of trying) and I just really admire u guys and ur journey.
I look up to u guys despite the age difference and I love what you've done regarding the "PONCAST." I feel like it's only up from here guys. So long as u keep on keeping on and strictly stick to ur morals and values, the sky's the limit!! Thanks for all ur hard work and for letting us have a front row seat to ur life. I greatly appreciate it! ✌️💜✌️💜
I appreciate your perspective on fatherhood Zeth! Really cool to hear from a fellow CZcamsr dad, I got 2 little ones myself. More convos about parenting! Keep up the great work.
-Ingus
Wow! I cannot believe Saylor is almost 6 years old. It seems like just a couple weeks ago she was 3. Happy birthday Saylor!
as someone who also loves kids and works with them everyday, i’m glad Zeth is brave enough to have this conversation! i do think it has to be put in the context of/with a disclaimer that our current society hates children, does not protect them whatsoever, and there are tons of people around children who do not have their best interest at heart. with saying that, it sucks to be an adult that wants to protect children and not be able to express love for them/want to be around them without being side eyed.. like we have reason to be so cautious but idk.. children need safe adults around too. i’m not sure how to elaborate on this with the right words but i feeeell you! the line of appropriateness is very thin.
Zeth I’ve thought the same about M Michael Jackson he was misunderstood and not only that but a lot of different people wanted a lot of his money and so that was one of the ways they could get their hands in it in his pockets. Do not feel weird for your love of children. There are plenty of grown men out there that love children the same as you. They are a beautiful blessing and they need to be cherished and loved by good people both men and women.
i’m loving these!!! happy birthday Saylor!!! 🎉🎉🎉
ANOTHER wonderful ep! Thanks, guys. Truly enjoying these.
Zeth is right about Michael Jackson. He was being extorted by the kids parents. A few of them have admitted it. Also, he owned the entire Sony catalog. He purchased it fair and square, which many higher ups in the industry did not like. They were trying to get that catalog back for years before they killed him for it. MJ's estate sold it back to them after his death. So, not only was he being extorted by these kids parents, he was also being targeted by the industry.
For sure i said the same thing. Messed up stuff
@@sugarsore sleeping, as in napping, dreaming, watching tv in bed, etc. Not sexual. He was never convicted of any crimes against children.
@sugarsore he let kids sleep in his bed in his room. He never slept in the bed with them. His room was huge with two stories. These kids that slept in his room included his nieces and nephews who have on more than one occasion, debunked every lie told by his accusers. There is zero evidence against this man other than he was a big kid himself. If you actually research what was really happening with MJ, the truth is right there. There is an entire NY Times article about how Harvey Weinstein would pay tabloids to release fake stories about MJ to cover up his own dirt and lawsuits. Do your research before believing what the media tells you.
@@sugarsore No he did not
No. No. No. watch the documentary before you make up your mind about this stuff. Use critical thinking. Please.
audio is only in the left ear, but love you guys!
With the baby conversation, I have a brother who is 18 months older than me and I also have a twin sister and it was so much fun growing up with 2 siblings so close in age.
I want kids so bad ❤️❤️ cannot wait to be a momma!!!
Your conversation about not being afraid to have kids really hit a chord w me. I’m 27, have been a school teacher in the past and absolutely love children. I’ve gone back and forth whether I should have kids or not, and have always been terrified to have to take care of my own. But your whole fun parent idea is how I always was as a teacher, I just acted like a big kid all the time. Your beautiful family has made me hopeful I can have a beautiful family too one day. Love you guys!
Also Zeth, I’m with you on the MJ topic. I’ve said this to people for years and people think you’re crazy. Maybe we’re just all a little misunderstood 💕
Zeth has baby fever 😅
You might be grand parents!, I’m 70 and have 11 grandchildren and just was blessed with a great grandchild!
I love this family, I have been binge watching all the videos and it had been comforting me during a hard time in my life. :) THANK YOU GUYS 🥰
LOVED the video keep them coming!!! You guys are amazing parents 👏🏻
Love your guy's positive videos they always brighten my day!
Love how you shared that you’ve decided to commit to each other and have created a great family bond. It shows. We see it. You’re doing great❤❤❤❤
I had both my boys by 24, and I am so grateful to be given that gift, but them being only 13 mo apart was such a difficult adjustment. I appreciate their age gap now, but having them so close in age was so hard to get used to up until toddlerhood. Obviously, it's doable, but I also read that when women have their kids in their 30s vs. 20s, they are mentally much more adaptable in many cases. I am huge on being present and soaking in every moment, but when you're struggling so much mentally and physically to keep up, the daily can be so exhausting. My partner and I were also only together 4 mo before we got pregnant with our first. All the best in your guys' journey. Thank you for sharing ❤ so beautiful to see you succeeding in so many facets 😊
I’m going to call my son tomorrow he’ll be 49 this year so he was 5 when Star Wars arrived. He had all of it. Star ships and Darth Vader Birthday parties. I’m going to ask him how he feels about the new stuff. You guys are so cute! Happy Birthday Beautiful Sailor Girl!
I grew up with 3 siblings (each ~2years apart) raised by a single mom. My mom was incredible and made sure we never had to miss out on any experiences. There was a lot of time spent together, pretty much rotated between our sports events and activities but at the end of the day she made sure we all had the opportunities to explore our various interests while feeling fully supported by the whole household. I feel like you have a wonderful parenting style and could manage all the intricacies of a growing household. Just take it at your own pace tho! As long as you listen to your body and mind as to what you can handle
I know you will have a beautiful family ❤️ much love
I have a new granddaughter named Sailor. It’s really great to see you guys raw talking
Love spending time with you guys! ❤ These podcasts are super special!
Happy birthday to Saylor from Canada!! 🇨🇦 Love these episodes, thanks for sharing, Zeth and Jaylin! ☺️✨
I enjoy you guys so much, seeing a real family and genuine love/ connection/ conversation 🫶🏽 gives me hope for the future!
Speaking of do either of yall have single siblings 🤪😂🤞🏽
Such a funny episode! May God bless your family. ❤🙏🏼
I love your giggles 😂 the serious and non so serious topics!... it really feels like chatting with friends ♥️ thank you guys for always being so honest and so YOU 💕
Hey Zeth, been watching you since the beginning. As someone who grew up in a family of three kids (I am the oldest of three, 2F 1M) I highly recommend a 4th. We are all super close but when it came to playing games/sports in the backyard it sucked not having an even number. Same with when we would play video games.
Happy birthday Saylor! 🥳
I feel the same way. I am also the oldest of 3. Im 18 mos older than my brother and the. He is 13 months older than our sister. And someone (usually him or her lol) got left out of playing.... And if anyone got to go run errands with the parental unit one got left behind at home because there wasnt enough room to comfortably fit in our pick up truck and i believe it there would have been 4 then one (me) wouldn't have been left home alone all the time.
I've just started following you guys and watching your content it's awesome, guys . This one is beautiful and so funny . Much love from all the way in Australia 🇦🇺 ❤
Both of you are such natural, bless you :)
I am absolutely enjoying y’all’s video! I love the sit down between mom and dad as well as Skyler!
Happy Birthday Saylor!!! I hope you have the best birthday ever!!
Happy Birthday Saylor 🎉🎂
Thanks for another great episode. Zeth I grew up in a big family with 6 kids in the house. My dad was the big kid. He played softball and football ball. He watched tv with us, we’d listen to music together but most importantly our house was the cool house. All the neighborhood kids came to our house to play. My dad would play with us and tell us jokes. I am so grateful for that because I know people who didn’t get that. They had a dad who worked and came home to relax and that was it. We didn’t have money but my dad would take us cruisin with the music blasting and we’d hang out at the park or go to the beach in the summer.
Happy Birthday Saylor, we are singing the Happy Birthday Saylor Song! From: Penelope Rae!!!
You two are truly wonderful parents! Its a breath of fresh air to see such a happy, healthy family. I love watching you guys grow! Keep up the amazing work!.....by the way, we looove bluey too! Wait till she gets a little older and you guys can watch all the harry potter movies together! Thats going to be fun 😊
Happy Birthday Saylor!🎉🎈🎂🎈🎉
Blues is awesome!!!
I'd love to hear your love story! How you guys met, the separation before babygirl was born, how you rekindled, the highs the lows, everything!
i love these sorts of videos , feels like I'm there laughing and talking with you guys . Thank you so much zeth 🖤
Darn I loved this episode
This family is the best , every video makes me smile ❤you can feel the love between everyone
Love your videos, you are great role models
Loved this video. I've let my daughter watch fancy Nancy an my kid loved it her attitude didn't change from it .
ngl, I was considering going thru life w/o kids, then I stumbled upon this channel a couple yrs ago, and this family inspires me to consider a family, the perspective and mentality shift is nothing I ever suspected from a youtube channel I just watched for the wholesomeness
We have a 4 year old who loves the Fancy Nancy books. We saw it on Disney+, I believe, so we let her watch a couple episodes but banned it not too long after because of Nancy's attitude. Doesn't come across like that in the books (though, maybe it's the way we read it to her?)
We didn't get any sass from our 4 year old but we didn't want it to start 😅
I love the conspiracy conversation.. It's a view into all of us trying to have conspiracy conversations with people who see it differently. "You Crazy!" But also, I love your view Zeth, Its sad that a minority of bad players made it creepy to genuinely/purely love kids. Also, here's additional thought for your conspiracy. Taking away love (making it creepy) from our youth breaks them down and causes many issues; as you can see in our society today. By making it weird to care and nurture our fellow humans, we've taken away a basic foundational need that supports growing into a caring supportive adult... I used to coach young kids, I would hug them, listen to them, respect them, text them to tell them how awesome they are doing; It grew wonderful athletes and humans. If I coached now, I wouldn't be able to do any of those things... They've been building a cold, sterile world and we are seeing the outcome... #RIPMichaelJackson He was definitely suicided by the music industry that made more money from him dead than alive.
This was the best ever!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Zeth you are spot on about Michael Jackson!! You are spot on about how he was going to bring things to light, how sick our world is, including learning about cutting out seed oils. Keep guiding Jaylin and informing her with what you research. I’m so glad you got out of Cali! I love watching you guys wake up to this stuff, my husband and I have been fans forever!
JAYLINA DONT LET FEAR GUILT RULE YOU. HAVING 4 CHILDREN IS A BLESSING. THERE WAS 4 OF US CHILDREN IN FAMILY. YOU HAVE BEAUTIFUL HEARTS. GOOD PARENTS. DONT CAMPARE YOURSELFS TO OTHERS. GOD MADE U WITH OWN IDENTITY.
HAVING EVEN JUST 2MORE CHILDREN WILL B A BLESSING. TROUBLE IS WE HEAR THINGS WE GET MINDSETS.
IF YOU WANT MORE CHILDREN HAVE THEM WHEN U READY. JUST DONT MAKE U DECISION BY WHAT U HEARD.
U HAVE SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE.
Zeth is funny and so real, you both are. The MJ worry is what the internet does to you! I think it's cool that you can speak to both adults and children populations in the same episode! In case children are not watching with their parents I would recommend putting a text and verbal warning to skip ahead to a later timestamp (for children-only audiences specifically)! Even if they don't listen.
You are great parents and whenever you choose to have another child you will give enough time and love to each of them . Remember Saylor wasn't stoked because she was having a brother not a sister now look at how close the siblings are . That's because of how you handled the situation, showering both kids with love and they are so different because you allow them to be themselves
I have a 9month old and we love Bluey too! I think every parent does. It's either that or Baby Shark right now 😭 We've just decided on Bluey being the theme for her 1st birthday.
Also, I do think MJ was misunderstood. That comparison is better than Walt Disney lol.
Everyone has to love Bluey! How could you not?? My entire family watches Bluey, young and old. 😂
You are exactly right. Enjoy the moment. Don’t worry about the mess, it’ll quickly be a memory and you’ll wish it back.
I dig these podcasts
You both are still young to grow your family. I love watching your videos. I'm an olderish parent and I really wish I could have had a baby sooner but for some reason my body couldn't. So now we have our miracle boy who will be 4yrs old.
I’m from Clovis/fresno. Now in San Luis Obispo
Me too! I’ve been in Vegas for 32 years now
Wonderful how you guys discuss the thing together! Your way of comunication is a big example for others. 👍 you two are great parents and do a great job in the education of your kids. Very intelligent kids with common sense!👍
Your wife has a lot of patience and wisdom!
Liz from Germany! 🙋♀️
I know what zeth means! MJ was abused himself by his father. MJ just wanted to live his childhood. The kids who lived with him said he was a very good person. The people behind him tried to destroy his reputation. But when Epstein did bad things nobody spoke really about him
Saylor is a jokester.
I am dying laughing at the Michael Jackson convo! 😂😂😂 needed a good laugh
“I’m Michael Jackson” HAHAHAHAA Zeth I’m cackling 😂😂
She's so mature. Just precious Happy Birthday 🎉
Bro! I completely agree about the Michael Jackson thing. I don’t want kids of my own but I LOVE kids. I have so many nieces and 1 nephew and I just love being around kids. I’m a big ass kid and I love that they get me on that fun level. I’m not a weirdo and I don’t want them because I’m scared to have anyone else hurt them and have them suffer. So I feel you on that.
I feel the exact same way! I have my younger sister, younger cousin, as well as the children I take care of at church. I just love kids! They just bring me so much joy. I’ve always felt like I resonated with Michael in a way when it comes to never growing up and just loving the pure joy and presence of kids, nice to see I’m not the only one. 😅 In a world full of adults it’s nice to just be around kids who are always happy and energetic. They keep me young, and really have just lifted my spirit. Having kids seems very scary, especially in this world. I don’t think anyone should have to feel weird simply for being childlike and having a special bond with kids. 💛
It's absolutely fine saying you love kids,! MJ was severely abused ..with that being said..your not asking little boys to spend the night with you!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY FROM CALI!!❤❤🎉
This is cute! I love that CZcams and their podcast allow them so much family time.
A MINGOS PARTY🎉🎉🎉
Do you have a new po box so we could send her a card/small gift?
Happy birthday Saylor!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Greeping!!!😂😂😂
Thank you for not cussing. Oops, you had a slip but It’s refreshing to see this w/o cursing like what you see on every other program.
The area we live in - the suburbs of St. Louis, Missouri - has the same type of cute Halloween vibe that Jaylin was talking about! Also all our neighbors know each other and look out for eachother! Just saying this so you know it still exists!
Oooh I secretly think you are right Seth about MJ possibly being blackmailed. And he just loved kids so much. Also, your spoons have a great sound about them. Sitting on coffee hit me in the funny bone.