The Looksmaxxing Community Hates Average Looking People

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    The chances of you going on social media and seeing someone with a sharp jawline, hunter eyes, a positive canthal tilt, and shiny veneers, while mewing is higher than ever. Each day we’re becoming more appearance obsessed by the second cause of the constant exposure to attractive people. TikTok, Instagram, and traditional media are starting to skew our perception of what an average person is supposed to look like. Today we’re deep diving into a new trend called Looksmaxxing that’s based on maximizing your physical attributes so you can reach your full potential. Taking care of your looks isn’t inherently a bad thing, but not everyone is meant to reach these unachievable beauty standards. Public maxing forums were created to teach others to take care of themselves, but they’re starting to get toxic. Why Do We Hate Average Looking People #edvasian
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  • @9000ck
    @9000ck Před 5 měsíci +9346

    Men are becoming obsessed in a way I was as a female teenager in the 90s. Let me just say; it was a colossal waste of time.

    • @xdranzer0004
      @xdranzer0004 Před 5 měsíci +753

      They’re rivaling female teenagers.

    • @cristalido3640
      @cristalido3640 Před 5 měsíci +224

      @@xdranzer0004 Thank women and societal shifts for that, if it weren't for most men being forced to use dating apps to find a girlfriend, looks wouldn't matter as much.

    • @YoshiGotXP
      @YoshiGotXP Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@cristalido3640 get a taste of equality, men only care about looks, women are finally waking up and holding y'all to the same standards.

    • @eggyonline5308
      @eggyonline5308 Před 5 měsíci +1169

      @@cristalido3640honestly, women seriously do not look for the things these dudes are focused on - they’re doing this for other men to approve of them. it could be called a societal thing (the andrew tate phenomenon comes to mind) but women are not campaigning for this by any means 😭

    • @snehajagajith6409
      @snehajagajith6409 Před 5 měsíci +205

      It has nothing to do with gender. Everyone regardless of their gender wants to look nice to be confident.

  • @uwagajedzietramwaj_
    @uwagajedzietramwaj_ Před 5 měsíci +2235

    a lot of people genuinely need to put their phones down

    • @tomiko7923
      @tomiko7923 Před 5 měsíci +65

      right lmfao

    • @ptlovelight2971
      @ptlovelight2971 Před 5 měsíci +48

      And close the laptops

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 Před 5 měsíci +40

      That won't help.
      People don't just behave this way because social media is influencing them, they are not just insecure because of some TikTok trend.
      There are real life consequences here, that cause severe mental distress. You can't escape a unsatisfactory situation by not acknowledging it.

    • @uwagajedzietramwaj_
      @uwagajedzietramwaj_ Před 5 měsíci

      @@carlpanzram7081 nobody thinks about shit like “negative canthal lift” without falling down some weird rabbit hole

    • @DrSoapp
      @DrSoapp Před 4 měsíci +13

      @@carlpanzram7081 Think for myself????? That would involve ..... LOGIC

  • @kai_fatallysapphic
    @kai_fatallysapphic Před 5 měsíci +1275

    I'm gonna go out on a limb and say _maybe_ the reason all those celebrities are _kinda_ squinting is because they have a bright light shining on them?

    • @margodphd
      @margodphd Před 4 měsíci +180

      Noo, that would make too much sense 😂

    • @sleeper9638
      @sleeper9638 Před 4 měsíci

      How can you be this brain-dead about these things lmao. None of this stuff is new, the movie zoolanders whole thing was making fun of the beatification trends of the time, his famous expression of sucking in his cheeks, doing a duckface and squinting was to mock the fact that it's what celebrities would do when they're trying to look cool

    • @xt-cj7jg
      @xt-cj7jg Před 4 měsíci +112

      Too much sense, not interesting enough for the media

    • @RyubearSaysGao
      @RyubearSaysGao Před 3 měsíci +102

      Absolutely. I remember reading a Justin Bieber interview, wherein he states that flashing camera lights take some time to get used to.
      I do not think people realize, how many photographers are lined up at those events. Tens of lenses flashing at once, of course people will squint.

    • @savingwave5935
      @savingwave5935 Před 2 měsíci +7

      No they do it to look fierce

  • @noewantstosleep
    @noewantstosleep Před 2 měsíci +607

    "lookmaxxing", "mewing", and "mogged"........ these all sound like words that children would make up lol

    • @XXTH3ST4RXX
      @XXTH3ST4RXX Před 2 měsíci +50

      i know. watching this video almost makes me feel i'm a teacher watching children play pretend at the playground during recess.

    • @ElTiburonChico
      @ElTiburonChico Před 2 měsíci +36

      Tbf "mewing" was coined by orthodonist Mike Mew, based on his last name lol. Also fun fact, "mog" comes from "AMOG" (Alpa Male Of the Group) which came from the oldschool bodybuilding forums. 👍

    • @Rattyfanboy
      @Rattyfanboy Před měsícem +15

      Sounds the same as the skibbity, gyat, pig, stuff

    • @krystalbernier234
      @krystalbernier234 Před měsícem +1

      And here I thought a moggy was a 🐈

    • @yourwife1111
      @yourwife1111 Před měsícem +11

      @@RattyfanboyI feel like my brain just collapsed reading this 😭😭

  • @bushra2179
    @bushra2179 Před 5 měsíci +4399

    As a poor girl it's cheaper to love myself than do allthat

    • @dragonbread1790
      @dragonbread1790 Před 5 měsíci +113

      Real

    • @telepathicmagicshop
      @telepathicmagicshop Před 5 měsíci +99

      Same, I’m going grey at 34 for this reason. In the long run I’m doing myself a favour!

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 5 měsíci +30

      FACTS

    • @Birbbb
      @Birbbb Před 5 měsíci +147

      Lmaoo us broke people doesn't have any choice other than loving ourselves

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 5 měsíci

      You’re girl you don’t need to looksmaxx. Every girl has 100 dms from desperate men. Looks don’t matter for women

  • @JadeReloaded
    @JadeReloaded Před 5 měsíci +3600

    Some 30 years ago my doctor warned me to not overeat carrots unless I want my skin to turn orange. It's 2023 now and people are just trumpmaxxing themselves, I can't...

  • @maenad1231
    @maenad1231 Před 5 měsíci +901

    “Looksmaxxing” = “I’m too insecure to just say ‘makeover’, ‘fashion’ & ‘beauty routine’ “
    That’s what extraneous grooming, hair styling, skincare, facial alteration literally are.

    • @basillimee
      @basillimee Před 4 měsíci +67

      It's actually not that deep. That's an assumption you made up. The internet is always creating buzzwords, which is all it is, a word. Before looksmaxxing people would just say glow up.

    • @sleeper9638
      @sleeper9638 Před 4 měsíci +37

      And yet if they called them these things then you'd just insult them and say they're insecure for doing them, as you're literally doing right now. It's hilarious how 99% of this comment section is proving looksmaxers right about what they do which is exactly why they're doing it

    • @DomySlyte
      @DomySlyte Před 4 měsíci +3

      It is scientifically proven that it is difficult to hate people who have a lot of facial symmetry... 🤓

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Omg ur so smart👆🤓

    • @anakadmon6606
      @anakadmon6606 Před 3 měsíci +3

      I wouldn't call facial alteration a makeover, fashion or beauty routine...

  • @Clara-dx1lv
    @Clara-dx1lv Před 5 měsíci +336

    I think that recently beauty standards and marketing towards women have been shifting from a "one size fits all" approach to being about finding what suits you as an individual (person color analysis, kibbe, etc.), meaning that it's getting harder to monopolize on one singular trend or look. Now, beauty companies are tapping into a new naive market found in men, using the same tired tactics that women are starting to grow resentful of

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Woman have just become significantly more promiscuous, and the selective pressure on men has increased even further.

    • @portishphonic
      @portishphonic Před 4 měsíci +37

      You are so right. 20 years ago, women were obsessed with EVERYTHING about their looks, fashion and trends, while men couldn't care less. And when metrosexuals appeared, we basically bullied them for being gay and that was that.
      Nowadays it's reversed. Insanity...

    • @neff6185
      @neff6185 Před měsícem

      could not have said it better

    • @Pain_Ito
      @Pain_Ito Před měsícem

      yeah, sure, the big bad evil companies are at fault, as usual. seriously, what did you use to listen to this video? certainly not ears. the incels are the ones who found a correlation between their lack of success and looks (as incorrect as it might be), the businesses are just using the opportunity to sell them bs products. there’s still no makeup line to become a gigachad, men’s fashion is just as basic and bleak as it always was, and there are still no men lined up before beauty salons. it was originally just a small community of bitter losers online, but it blew up and became a trend for some reason, and now folks like can feel like experts thinking you came up with a perfect explanation

  • @timewarpblackhole
    @timewarpblackhole Před 5 měsíci +4098

    Its ok to be average looking, the vast majority of us are average looking. Rating peoples value on a 1 - 10 scale is incredibly dehumanising and just completely inaccurate. One persons 10 is anothers 3, attraction is very subjective and relies on so many factors. All of this looksmaxxing nonsense reeks of deep insecurity and is just sad honestly. Be kind to yourself x

    • @dickottel
      @dickottel Před 5 měsíci +170

      my crushes are far from "objective" 10/10. that's sooo stupid 😆 I don't even like sharp jaw and muscles

    • @inexena
      @inexena Před 5 měsíci +174

      ​@@dickottel I think most normal people are aware that not everyone looks like that, and are perfctly happy and content being with "average" looking people. Because most people around us *are* "average" looking. This whole thing is insane.

    • @metis9692
      @metis9692 Před 5 měsíci +77

      @@dickottelLol same, I guess I have thing for nerdy types even (glasses, negative cantal tilt or opposite of whatever “looksmaxxing” dictates.) Most of my friends also do not really care about the looks, personality is much more important unless you try too hook up.

    • @theonenobody7856
      @theonenobody7856 Před 5 měsíci +58

      Yes!!!! I feel like society has had this conversation about how attractiveness is subjective and yet we always seem to go back to caring about looks

    • @Aetherguy-cb9bu
      @Aetherguy-cb9bu Před 5 měsíci +45

      Such amazing cope, there are people that have overall universally attractive features. You can have flaws and have everything else be perfect and yet that still doesn't exclude the flaws.

  • @markalexander3659
    @markalexander3659 Před 5 měsíci +3581

    Nurse here - Bone smashing will NOT change your jawline or cheekbones, but it WILL cause deformity...you know, the opposite of improvement?...if you actually fracture or break bones (which I highly doubt people are actually doing) you'll likely end up with either unsightly lumps and dents, or facial scarring dye to surgery to either fix those things or rest your bone

    • @jocelynsmyth6604
      @jocelynsmyth6604 Před 5 měsíci +273

      To back you up, I had upper jaw surgery at age 18 - face still poofs and hurts with the rain pressure, and I'm almost 36. People, please don't break your face unless you have to, I promise, y'all look just fine :)

    • @LyssieLysse
      @LyssieLysse Před 5 měsíci +122

      I had upper jaw surgery at 20 and wouldn’t do it again. I don’t understand how these folks are willing doing this to themselves without consulting a plastic surgeon or a maxillofacial specialist. Plates and screws are involved to guide the jaw to its new position smh There’s going to be some Shreks running around 😂

    • @casperthenotsofriendlyghos8968
      @casperthenotsofriendlyghos8968 Před 5 měsíci +119

      @@antiarezzo7630yea I’m gonna believe the nurse. Not you

    • @KazuiK123
      @KazuiK123 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Bone smashing is mainy a joke like jelqmaxxing, ropemaxxing all used as jokes in most situations but some can be serious in certain situation like jelqing as it is an actual thing that i cant say on this app, most people arent usually bone smashing

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 5 měsíci +38

      @@antiarezzo7630 yeah,you know more than the specialist, kiddo 😂

  • @Zeverinsen
    @Zeverinsen Před 4 měsíci +673

    It's funny to me that most "looks maxxing" is just... *_Taking care of yourself._*
    Doing your hair, physical activity, eating vegetables, sleeping enough, washing your face and body, using moisturisers... This has already been expected of women for centuries, but when men are doing it we can't call it a "beauty routine", no it has to be "looks maxxing" LMAO...
    *_Oh, the fragility!_*

    • @adityakurapaty9306
      @adityakurapaty9306 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Lmao

    • @WelcomeBub
      @WelcomeBub Před 4 měsíci +46

      its all made by people whove hit rock bottom in inceldom then kids took it and ran with it to sell you shit. I would ask that you have some sympathy for the people there who are genuinely in a bad place and see enough sense to do something. As for the kids on tiktok, they might need some time off the internet

    • @sleeper9638
      @sleeper9638 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Because were men to be open about doing these things, women like yourself would insult them and call them fragile and insecure about their looks, as you are doing right now

    • @ikenna7570
      @ikenna7570 Před 4 měsíci +36

      Yeah man bonesmashing is definitely just taking care of yourself

    • @ikenna7570
      @ikenna7570 Před 4 měsíci +15

      Yeah man ODing on supplements and using external force trying to remodel my facial structure is just me taking care of myself bro

  • @axel_the_riceboy
    @axel_the_riceboy Před 5 měsíci +176

    2:01 guy in the TikTok said "what do all these attractive men have in common" and I just said out loud to my screen "oh they're white".

    • @blcksvvan
      @blcksvvan Před 5 měsíci +41

      they're not even that attractive

    • @I_DONT_LIKE_JEWS
      @I_DONT_LIKE_JEWS Před 2 měsíci

      North Atlantid phenotype is objectively the most attractive.

    • @AD-dg3zz
      @AD-dg3zz Před měsícem +50

      My thought was, "unusually sharp jawlines"

    • @Brittanysplittany
      @Brittanysplittany Před měsícem +13

      I mean there’s a lot more to people than race. They’re also all male lol

    • @kenzanhoshizaki7938
      @kenzanhoshizaki7938 Před 24 dny +6

      They should've noticed that these male models were selected mostly, if not all, by white elite people who represent big corporations and dictate the current beauty standards.

  • @gl15col
    @gl15col Před 5 měsíci +4099

    There was a Twilight Zone episode where everyone had surgery at age 21 to look exactly like a set face that everyone else had. There were only a few faces to choose from, and you had no choice. One girl decided she didn't want the surgery but they chased her down and did it anyway. Faces are supposed to be different, it's the result of nature mixing up the genetics to get the best survival rate. People who get online and tell other people they're ugly are a certain kind of sick and nobody should pay any attention to them. They will find another way to try to make life miserable for everyone else.

    • @raeganj6744
      @raeganj6744 Před 5 měsíci +117

      “Number 12 Looks Just Like You”, right?

    • @nightingale3688
      @nightingale3688 Před 5 měsíci +81

      ⁠WAIT I THINK I REMEMBER THAT?? were the faces kind of creepy and ghostly pale?

    • @LyssieLysse
      @LyssieLysse Před 5 měsíci +100

      True! What happens when everyone looks the same? They going to want to look different. It’s a never ending cycle 😂

    • @marzipanmango
      @marzipanmango Před 5 měsíci +137

      There was this book series called "Uglies" that runs with this idea, I enjoyed it as a teen

    • @raeganj6744
      @raeganj6744 Před 5 měsíci +31

      @@marzipanmango lol I had a friend in middle school who refused to read that because she thought it just ripped off that episode

  • @thenewsilverwolf
    @thenewsilverwolf Před 5 měsíci +1968

    I never hated my ethnic nose until I got Tiktok. I began to hate it so much that I got a nose job less than a year later. I always said I did it "for me" and "to make myself happy" but the thing is, its never for YOU. Someone taught me to hate my nose. Someone convinced me deep down, I was less beautiful because of my nose shape. I wasnt born hating the way I look and ultimately I caved because I did not feel beautiful. Now, I try really hard to love myself, and to appreciate my small lips, big teeth, wrinkles, and uneven skin. Yes Ive gotten botox and filler and extensions etc but every day I am on the internet I fight the urge to hate myself for not looking "perfect." Also, sometimes I swear most of the girls I see on Tiktok are fake, they are too "perfect" its unsettling.

    • @aristobrat4987
      @aristobrat4987 Před 5 měsíci

      i really dont mean to rub your nose in it. but can you give us an explanation on why this happened to begin with ? when i use tiktok i follow artists, dogs , cats, animal sanctuaries, chefs and all that. or drag queens. with how much content there is about self love , art, and self expression, can you tell us how you got nothing but the negatives ? do you not follow anything outside of generic gender norm hobbies ? your profile picture is a bit....like this is youtube why do you use a models profile picture ? im starting to wonder if it was tiktok , or were you just....kinda lacking any sense of self already ? i feel like a boyfriend , even your own dad, could have easily gotten you to do this. because when i see this content , i just laugh. "look at these insecure morons who actually think god (whoever your s is) cares about looks. i love me , and i love how unique i look" and my autism makes it even harder to put myself in someones shoes. you actually went all the way through with bitchering your own body , your own temple. because........someone told you to ? i wonder if we are just different on a spiritual level ? i could never fathom ruining the face nature created for me in my mothers womb, even with my different eyelids and crooked smile. what could have possibly driven you to actually hate yourself this much , if not what was already in you ?

    • @amandagaribay13
      @amandagaribay13 Před 5 měsíci +252

      I hated my nose for the longest time. I thought it was way too big and masculine, and I wanted a smaller more petite nose. It wasn't until my dad offhandedly said I had his father's nose. I don't really remember my grandfather, he passed away when I was really young, but ever since then, I've loved my nose so much. It was definitely a journey though 😅

    • @Sismique666
      @Sismique666 Před 5 měsíci +136

      And they all look too alike! Mass produced beauty ...

    • @EmpressRetard
      @EmpressRetard Před 5 měsíci +27

      I believe that to an extent, we do have inherent beauty standards.
      Meaning that we could be raised with propaganda telling us one specific body type/facial structure is attractive, but we won't fully believe it.
      We may be pressured into favoring it in the way that we want to emulate it to fit in,
      but for the most part,
      we won't be attracted to something that is objectively unattractive...
      Like how it's become mainstream to be told over and over that being fat is beautiful.
      Plenty of people have now been brought up with that sentiment, but most can still recognize that a healthy body is objectively more attractive.
      Fads come and go, different weird clothing styles and cosmetic procedures, but overall, we have an inherent sense of what is naturally good or bad looking.
      I think it has most to do with instinctively recognizing traits that go hand in hand with optimal genetics, which will result in healthier children.
      Just like how animals look for certain qualities in a mate, which they instinctively believe will ensure the health, and likelihood of their young's survival.

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +92

      And you are comparing yourself to the girls, who put ten levels of filter before the posting and you think that it is fair? These faces are not even real, it's the same as to compare ourselves to 2D girls and be frustrated that it's impossible to reach this level of physical appearance in real life.

  • @yuruyukii
    @yuruyukii Před 13 dny +21

    calling Alain Delon a "5.5" is crazy

  • @levithebaddest2369
    @levithebaddest2369 Před 4 měsíci +93

    It's all so ridiculous?? I have been seeing people in Instagram comments analyzing people's faces down to the small features. Really, what is a 'poor canthal tilt'? Like wtf are ya'll talking about!?!? Also "mogging" is so toxic??? I can't with these people 😭😭

    • @prakritipihoo
      @prakritipihoo Před měsícem +4

      I didn't even know this shit existed until I found some channel on yt based on this only these kids are so toxic

    • @miozoth
      @miozoth Před 27 dny +3

      Lol they think that 'high cheekbones + prominent and sharp jawline + low set eyebrows + hunter eyes + above 6 feet tall' is the only formula for beauty and judge other people's beauty based on this lmao. Ppl can be ugly while having these features as well as they can be pretty while not having them

    • @throngus6128
      @throngus6128 Před 10 dny

      do you what else is toxic? getting alienated and antagonized by women for my entire life for not having the right amount of bones in my face! they made sure i grew up knowing how much of a subhuman freak i was from the very start, most empathetic gender! THANK YOU WOMEN ☺️

    • @bnigga-wu5qi
      @bnigga-wu5qi Před 8 dny

      @@throngus6128 real and then they complain when you actually try to improve like its so weird

  • @stonewallbang1220
    @stonewallbang1220 Před 5 měsíci +1777

    I've never understood the whole looking maxxing shit anyway. like bro how nutty do you have to be to micromanage your facial features to such an unhealthy degree. just be normal lamo

    • @UtopiaMotley
      @UtopiaMotley Před 5 měsíci

      Girls do that all the time lol. Hyperfixating on looks isn’t a new thing.

    • @damearstor2120
      @damearstor2120 Před 5 měsíci +172

      Taking care of yourself is healthy, but it's extremely not healthy when taken to the extremes like this. I hate it.

    • @WholeHeartily
      @WholeHeartily Před 5 měsíci +50

      Nobody’s normal anymore

    • @xdranzer0004
      @xdranzer0004 Před 5 měsíci +16

      You just summed up most women on SM.

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@xdranzer0004women have been looksmaxxing forever and guys are just now finding out about this somehow

  • @genshinF2Play
    @genshinF2Play Před 5 měsíci +979

    the genz beauty standard is EVEN MORE UNATTAINABLE from BBLs to looksmaxxing. i just watched a teenage girl get a BBL here on youtube. YES A TEEN!!!!

    • @HereIAm247
      @HereIAm247 Před 5 měsíci +85

      As a (young) millennial, I never thought I would reach that 'youth is crazy' moment - but here we are...

    • @neonbarnowl
      @neonbarnowl Před 5 měsíci +85

      I'm on the older side of gen z going on 26, but the whole looksmaxxing thing has been around since I was in high-school from folks who were in their 20s at the time. This isn't a new thing but I was surprised to see these terms pop back up in the last year. Seems like it's just reaching the mainstream more than specifically being a Gen z thing.

    • @nerdycurls6253
      @nerdycurls6253 Před 5 měsíci +83

      It's a clinically online thing not a generational thing, I volunteer and work with younger kids most normal well adjusted teens don't care about this stuff. They may want to look good but it's not to the extreme of damaging their bodies. It's natural for teens to want to start looking "good" but this is something else.

    • @flowerbloom5782
      @flowerbloom5782 Před 5 měsíci +13

      And making it sound like self love is so backwards.

    • @Birbbb
      @Birbbb Před 5 měsíci +12

      ​@@flowerbloom5782I know right..when I comment something under a video about some teen getting plastic surgery cause she's so into those trends, everybody tries to fight me back like "it's their choice, she can do anything she wants, it looks far better" etc...in my opinion that's just straight up sad. I don't know maybe I am wrong 🤨

  • @VANILUVSPUNKROCK
    @VANILUVSPUNKROCK Před 3 měsíci +34

    girls: I’m suffering from an ed.
    boys: I’m starvemaxxing myself because I’m a gigachad unlike those foodpilled incels

  • @paracosm76
    @paracosm76 Před 4 měsíci +58

    the "bro on the left" at 10:00 is percy hynes white, who was on the TV show Wednesday with jenna ortega and got cancelled for being an alleged rapist of multiple women 💀

  • @smooshpopper2
    @smooshpopper2 Před 5 měsíci +956

    I can’t imagine how exhausted these people must be from worrying about this all the time, no wonder they’re so angry, they’ve put so much time and mental and emotional energy into “looksmaxxing”

    • @angelbaby1811
      @angelbaby1811 Před 5 měsíci

      And to still end up being unattractive.

    • @oqp489
      @oqp489 Před 5 měsíci +95

      because men don't wanna go to therapy

    • @hassanabdullah2425
      @hassanabdullah2425 Před 5 měsíci +19

      ​@@oqp489yeah cause we don't wanna pay to whine about are problems.

    • @kneesocks15
      @kneesocks15 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@hassanabdullah2425seek therapy bro, you need it considering your comments here

    • @barackputin
      @barackputin Před 5 měsíci

      ⁠@@oqp489Because we’re better. Also you’re ugly when i’m not, i just want to thank Allah S.W.T for the genetics he gave me

  • @whiteelephant5659
    @whiteelephant5659 Před 5 měsíci +851

    People nowadays seem to want angular faces with sunken cheeks. The reality is, most faces become more this way with AGE. People that go so far as having a buccal fat removal to achieve this look are literally creating an older look. 😂

    • @Cupidaaaa
      @Cupidaaaa Před 5 měsíci +47

      lmao exactly they wanna copy whatever they see on the internet had an ex friend of mine and she said when she was younger she wanted lip fillers and botox like heavy heavy yet shes so pretty tho even prettier without makeup, its so sad that everyone wants to look like subhuman trash bruh

    • @vm1ccc
      @vm1ccc Před 5 měsíci +9

      Exactly. They just want to look like Naomi Campbell, which is fine. Merry Christmas

    • @shanel4294
      @shanel4294 Před 5 měsíci +20

      Honestly even the bbl body hits when you turn 25 or have babies, they just need to wait, let your body do what it needs to.

    • @C4TC4T
      @C4TC4T Před 5 měsíci +8

      It is sad seeing some of the celebrities who have gotten their buccal fat removed, and how they turned out.
      I really wanted to get mine removed 10 years ago, but am glad I didn’t because I have come to love my soft face, and my significant other seems to love it as well❤

    • @VideosForYou90
      @VideosForYou90 Před 5 měsíci +15

      True, your face changes so much in your life anyway. I'm 24 now and I lost my baby fat on my face lately + I got all of my wisdom teeth out and that surgery can affect how your face is looking as well. I used to have a chubby face but due to growing into an adult and that teeth surgery, I lost most of my face fat.

  • @jato2942
    @jato2942 Před 5 měsíci +121

    It’s just because everyone wants to be a “main character” nowadays. Can’t blame ‘em, when everyone gets blasted by celebrities and their “superior lives” online.

    • @baldboyfriend8589
      @baldboyfriend8589 Před 3 měsíci +13

      This is true af, everybody got main character syndrome, but u cant blame them. People hate average nowadays

    • @Ellie-rx3jt
      @Ellie-rx3jt Před měsícem +4

      I'm pretty sure I'm the NPC villager growing potatoes at this point 😂

  • @deathlyfighterr
    @deathlyfighterr Před 3 měsíci +74

    ive been on incel forums in the past, before a lot of it was people shitposting, and like there are so many NORMAL and conventionaly attractive looking dudes thinking theyre "ugly" and thats why they cant get girls, but its 100000% their personalities.

    • @t-bonetyrone
      @t-bonetyrone Před 3 měsíci +4

      Well, ideally, once you get the information you need, you're supposed to gtfo, but the utter tomfoolery that goes on inside those forums has a morbidly intriguing effect on them ND causes their perosnlirt to deteriorate

    • @thanos8638
      @thanos8638 Před 2 měsíci +4

      It's called being mentalcel. Alot of men never receive positive guidance by anyone and end up being like this.

    • @user-ij5sp4zv5h
      @user-ij5sp4zv5h Před měsícem +8

      This is so real, I don’t think the average person in the incel community or outside it realise how either regular or good looking these guys are, it’s honestly shocking
      It’s mainly just a lack of social skills, might be linked to social anxiety and or autism
      Not surprised I’ve seen a lot of people in school who weren’t popular despite being good looking only difference was they couldn’t communicate therefore get ignored by society

    • @georgehaas7292
      @georgehaas7292 Před 17 dny

      @@user-ij5sp4zv5h If this is somebody’s problem, they can find a hobby (like the gym) and use that to meet more people. It might take a long time to get used to social interaction if you haven’t done much of it, especially since COVID, but it’s a skill that is possible to learn like any other. You can even use this to date people. If you get into tennis and you see a girl at a tennis court, you already have a foot in the door to go talk to her.

  • @C.T.T535
    @C.T.T535 Před 5 měsíci +153

    I think these guys have just rediscovered body dysmorphia (for him).

    • @genzo454
      @genzo454 Před 2 měsíci +11

      We'll all finally be equal once we all have crippling body dysmorphia. 😂

  • @greyfox4838
    @greyfox4838 Před 5 měsíci +1224

    The hunter eye thing is dumb, because the best feature of Jason Mamoa is the fact that his negative tilt makes him look friendlier when he smiles, and since he's a huge scary looking guy, that non Hunter look makes him attractive, approachable and balanced.
    Edit: this reply section legit the most cringe shit I read, but now I understand better why incels can't get laid, it's the shit that comes out of their mouth

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 5 měsíci +55

      Cope

    • @BjornSvensson.
      @BjornSvensson. Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@dreamdesigns8514how to fix narrow jaw ? I have projected chin but my narrow jaw and big fat nose is killing me

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 5 měsíci +21

      @@BjornSvensson. try to expand your upper palate through either mewing, thumbpulling or mse. I’m assuming you have a narrow lower third because of a narrow palate. Additionally you can try to increase the width of your jaw by chewing or jaw implants. But be aware that postive results of chewmaxxing depend alot on the position of your gonions. So as long as you have outward gonions you should be fine

    • @firstnamelastname7708
      @firstnamelastname7708 Před 5 měsíci

      @@dreamdesigns8514you’ve got to be severely brain damaged if you think Jason Momoa isn’t highly attractive. I have no idea what you look like, but I’d bet you’re nowhere near as good-looking as he is.

    • @BjornSvensson.
      @BjornSvensson. Před 5 měsíci +7

      @@dreamdesigns8514 yes I have narrow palate and crooked teeth
      My younger brother has nice face his palate is wide with straight teeth and nose
      There is still hope that my bloodline can pass through brother

  • @dannyzee4
    @dannyzee4 Před 5 měsíci +106

    I believe it goes beyond incels. Teenagers are going online when dealing with normal uncertainty about their looks or in worse cases insecurities from bullying and rather than getting decent advice from decent people, they're getting advice from these trash communities. I think it's similar to dating advice, where youngsters who don't have bad views search for advice, but the only specific dating advice online tends to be from certain types of people who have toxic views.

    • @aintlying9428
      @aintlying9428 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Well they're just being brutally honest and its better than giving a false hope,false compliment, like we can't just simply say ure beautiful when youre not,take that as knowledge not insult

    • @soyuzinstrumentales7605
      @soyuzinstrumentales7605 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Its the brutal truth, and that brutal truth should not matter

    • @krimtok8384
      @krimtok8384 Před 2 měsíci +2

      This whole looksmaxxing trend would probably make me really depressed if it existed back when i was in my teens. But now as an adult I’m already comfortable with my looks i just use the good advice they give like maybe hair loss prevention working out, hair care and stuff. I think teens should stay away as much from the internet as possible imo.

    • @Ellie-rx3jt
      @Ellie-rx3jt Před měsícem +1

      The problem is that a lot of what they find online is going to be popular tiktokers, and most popular teenage boys on tiktok are simultaneously naturally conventionally attractive, roided up, and filtered to within an inch of their lives. And then presented as being "normal", like all fifteen year olds can and should look like that. The algorithm feeds it to them far worse than magazines fed unrealistic body standards to girls in the early 2000s, and that was harmful enough. I would not want to be a teenager these days.

  • @NonameNoname-tr8uv
    @NonameNoname-tr8uv Před 5 měsíci +268

    Everyone complains about people getting plastic surgery.
    But no one bothers mentioning how badly you are treated if you’re considered ugly.
    I’m ugly, it’s not fun. I’m not going to keep suffering and dealing with people literally hating me because of my face, if I had the money to fix it.

    • @InAHollowTree
      @InAHollowTree Před 4 měsíci +90

      Been harassed for being "ugly" my whole life, but getting plastic surgery would be letting the bullies win. That, and the fact that I've always been happy about the way I look. I dont' see what those folks were seeing, and I don't care; I consider those assholes to be bullets dodged. I only have non-superficial people in my life these days.

    • @yoaregey7296
      @yoaregey7296 Před 4 měsíci +74

      @@InAHollowTree The fact that your bullies still live in your head rent-free unfortunately means they have "won". Sorry its the truth. Meanwhile they couldnt give a f about you. Someone has to say this

    • @TheJoker_98
      @TheJoker_98 Před 4 měsíci

      What are your flaws brother do you have Instagram I could help

    • @thenablade858
      @thenablade858 Před 4 měsíci +62

      @@yoaregey7296Why are you assuming they obsess over their bullies? Just because you do, doesn’t mean everybody else does. Everybody’s ugly af to someone. That’s just the truth, and you have to stop learning to seek all of humanity’s validation.

    • @yoaregey7296
      @yoaregey7296 Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@thenablade858 I agree with your last part btw but that person above me was clearly still thinking a lot about their bullies. I didnt make something up you know

  • @ajaxbird2348
    @ajaxbird2348 Před 5 měsíci +819

    "Everyone looks better with a tan" is definitely not true. I am very pale and I have red hair. I have never had a tan and would look bizarre with a tan

    • @NoProblemoBob
      @NoProblemoBob Před 5 měsíci +68

      Esp if ur tan goes for an orange shade.

    • @potatodude5327
      @potatodude5327 Před 5 měsíci +18

      man, last summer i was pretty much out every day in the sun, had to put up with two months of people going "oh my god, what the hell happened to you?! you look super tanned!"

    • @unicornishcornish
      @unicornishcornish Před 5 měsíci +15

      I used to believe that. My own mother shamed me for being pale so I sunbathed (damaging my skin) to achieve the glow. Now I'm in my 30s and embraced the paleness and follow Koreans in their use of SPF mostly in the effort to maintain my youthful look. I've found I prefer my fair complexion. Especially when it's well taken care of, nourished and glowing.

    • @C4TC4T
      @C4TC4T Před 5 měsíci +16

      I mean, there are so many people that if they would try to tan, they would turn into a lobster; tanning doesn’t necessarily happen for some people as well

    • @istvanpraha
      @istvanpraha Před 5 měsíci +14

      Also flawless pale skin has the same impact as tan skin in a lot of lighting. I can't tell you how many times I've seen photos of someone who is pale, but they look tan because of warm lighting in the room. Just don't hang out under fluorescent lights

  • @Thing1meetsThing2
    @Thing1meetsThing2 Před 5 měsíci +484

    You can obsess over looksmaxxing or you can accept that not everyone is a 10/10.

    • @missasaur
      @missasaur Před 5 měsíci +47

      I totally agree on top of not every one being a 10/10 there is a wide variety of what a person can consider a 10/10 it's kind of depressing to see everyone trying to achieve the same face when there are so many gorgeous features out there...uggg

    • @kezia8027
      @kezia8027 Před 5 měsíci +64

      Even then, no one is a 10/10 to everyone. A 10/10 in one part of the world could be 1/10 to someone somewhere else in the world. It is like arguing what is the best colour - the very concept of ranking a qualitative group of characteristics by an explicitly subjective ranking system is so arbitrary as to be meaningless.

    • @angelantayhua3096
      @angelantayhua3096 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Well with all studies pointing to pretty privilege being a thing and young good looking social media influencers making millions on tiktok, can you blame them? Also are they trying to even be a 10/10 or just try long to be 7/10 or 8/10?

    • @griffithcel
      @griffithcel Před 5 měsíci +1

      And who said that lol

    • @deleted01
      @deleted01 Před 4 měsíci +5

      it's possible to accept that one is a 6/10, but it's unlikely for anyone to accept that he's a 3/10. it'd be like asking a cancer patient to stop being miserable and "enjoy the ride"

  • @hk-4738
    @hk-4738 Před 4 měsíci +26

    I find it funny how teenage me got severely depressed from frequenting lookism, but got over my delusions, only for their moronic ideas to break out into the mainstream half a decade down the line.

    • @terminalius
      @terminalius Před 4 měsíci +6

      You're a lookism OG? Hope you ascended :)

  • @violetvixxxprovixen6682
    @violetvixxxprovixen6682 Před 5 měsíci +10

    There’s something about the cadence and sing songy tone patterns of your speech that I find both relaxing in an ASMR way and delightfully endearing

  • @andromeda1903
    @andromeda1903 Před 5 měsíci +1355

    the more looksmaxxed people i see, the more i find regular people beautiful!

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +161

      Facts. At least, regular people are different.

    • @CalliAMusic
      @CalliAMusic Před 5 měsíci +24

      Agreed

    • @powerscallingfiend
      @powerscallingfiend Před 5 měsíci +47

      Cope

    • @iluvemoboys69
      @iluvemoboys69 Před 5 měsíci +171

      @@powerscallingfiend ouuu, seems like they hit a nerve huh

    • @jenksjax
      @jenksjax Před 5 měsíci +131

      imagine all guys with those hunter eyes, I would not leave the house anymore, give me some gentle puppy eyes god damn🥲

  • @vocalfrog
    @vocalfrog Před 5 měsíci +341

    I deleted my social media and never felt better about myself, now I just watch your videos to see what kind of weird stuff is going on over there lol

    • @UniversityCorn
      @UniversityCorn Před 5 měsíci +15

      I hate to break it to you, but youtube is still a social media.

    • @PossibleBat
      @PossibleBat Před 5 měsíci +62

      @@UniversityCornnot the same, weird that you haven’t figured that out yet

    • @facethreetimes
      @facethreetimes Před 5 měsíci

      @@PossibleBat ​​⁠CZcams is definitely the same as any other social media. Same p3dos and groomers, same racists and bigots, same crazy diet culture posts, same wild popular people, same shitty algorithm for consumers and creators, same ignorant assholes in comment section. The only difference is that CZcams and like Facebook are like the oldest popular social media platforms, especially CZcams being more widely liked. So every time a bad/harmful trend comes along people will immediately point to newer/newly popular social media platforms or platforms like Reddit and coincidentally forget how CZcams is also still as bad/toxic of a platform to be on.

    • @OfMelodies
      @OfMelodies Před 5 měsíci +10

      Yesss!! I love using these types of videos to better understand tiktok's influence on society and also to just see what's going on over there. It's very fascinating seeing everyone repeat the same problems FB and IG created for everyone, but on steroids. I'd much rather "keep up" with all this passively and with a critical lens. I love creators that can make these types of dystopian topics easy to understand while also highlighting how ridiculous this all is.

    • @juto8052
      @juto8052 Před 5 měsíci

      Same here😂💪🏻

  • @clb9201
    @clb9201 Před 2 měsíci +16

    The man at 7:42 is literally Alain Delon, the most important film star of French-Italian cinema from the 60s through the 80s, acclaimed "the most good looking man in the the world", I'm cryingggg😂😂😂😂😂
    Thank you for the hilarious content as always!

    • @georgehaas7292
      @georgehaas7292 Před 17 dny

      I agree with a lot of the looksmaxxers but that 5.5/10 was absolutely an L take lol

    • @flamescope9554
      @flamescope9554 Před 16 dny

      @@georgehaas7292 according to another video he is one of the highest rated people by looksmaxxers so I think the video author is just exaggerating

    • @georgehaas7292
      @georgehaas7292 Před 16 dny

      @@flamescope9554 Sure, and I think Ed cherry picked some of the more extreme content from the looksmaxxers. I get this was to highlight some of the toxicity that can occur in the community, but still. I know you prolly don’t care but at least in my case looksmaxxing or whatever you want to call it has worked quite well for me.

    • @flamescope9554
      @flamescope9554 Před 15 dny +1

      @@georgehaas7292 Yeah no forsure, people think its way worse than it is (nobody actually does things like bonesmashing I'm pretty sure it was originally a joke) and most of looksmaxxing is just self improvement like going to the gym and losing weight.

    • @georgehaas7292
      @georgehaas7292 Před 15 dny

      @@flamescope9554 Exactly

  • @user-ek7wx9ms7j
    @user-ek7wx9ms7j Před 3 měsíci +10

    I'm speaking as a mature older person i have tried similar trends in the 2000-2010s era and it caused me and many others depression and ptsd like how we were starving ourselves ,dressing in uncomfortable clothes that hurt our skin to look fashionable and cute, damaging our hair with hair straightners, all what we were doing was damaging our health and for what ! To look good infront of other people !!! This is so insane 💔
    Some incels/black pilled will disagree with me but as someone who was trying to improve myself for others it was damaging to my physical and mental health its not worth it honestly i would rather take care of my self as in self love and not for others and honestly its bringing me so much inner peace ❤

  • @shostysboo
    @shostysboo Před 5 měsíci +456

    I get wanting to fix things like acne, getting into shape (things I personally want to work on) but at a certain point, it’s obsessive and almost dangerous to constantly change your appearance like this for the sake of others. Everyone has things they don’t like about themselves, but looks really aren’t everything. It’s cliche, but it’s so true.

    • @nazume9
      @nazume9 Před 5 měsíci +7

      @@NonameSpaminboxBeing fat is the most destroying factor to your image though. No matter how your face genetics are, 4/10 or 7/10, being fat reduce your score to 1/10 (except for people who have special fetishes).

    • @malbasedvalentine3210
      @malbasedvalentine3210 Před 4 měsíci

      You’re right, but also wrong. You’re falling down the hole of the whole “body positivity” nonsense where it holds this elitist view that their morals are superior because they accept anyone regardless of flaws. It sounds nice (for them), but it’s creates a new problem where people become too egotistical to the point of violence if others do not affirm their mediocre looks.
      You should always be expected to change for another person, because that person is going to someone you’re going to spend your whole life with. Never changing will only express a level of narcissism that you can’t let go, and will make you incredibly unattractive. *For the all the effort you’ve done to change yourself, do remember your partner has most certainly done a lot to equally change for you.*

    • @dudethatcouldcareless8375
      @dudethatcouldcareless8375 Před 4 měsíci +5

      ​@@malbasedvalentine3210can't let go? Like geometry dash?!

    • @carrotbo9
      @carrotbo9 Před 4 měsíci

      @@dudethatcouldcareless8375 i love you

  • @SupremeThunder
    @SupremeThunder Před 5 měsíci +92

    As someone with small eyes, if I squint it is less 'bedroom eyes' and more 'where did I put my glasses'

  • @custardcoochi
    @custardcoochi Před 4 měsíci +13

    thank you for sharing the parts of tiktok that made me delete the app in the first place

    • @georgehaas7292
      @georgehaas7292 Před 17 dny +1

      I just never had it because of the CCP but your reason is valid too

  • @rosemarywilliams9969
    @rosemarywilliams9969 Před měsícem +4

    Yeah lost a lot of "friends" in high school because they told me I took attention away from them. It hurt for a long time. I legit cant have more than 1 real freind at a time because im dont want to deal with the drama.

  • @ShelbyLikesStuff
    @ShelbyLikesStuff Před 5 měsíci +681

    I’m glad I never have had TikTok and still don’t, it seems so… chaotic and… deranged…
    Edit: please it’s been like 2 hours and this already has over 400 likes and 15 replies so just chill out please

    • @scarletkittyeyes
      @scarletkittyeyes Před 5 měsíci +34

      same. the short form content is just too much for me lol

    • @crumblemuffin1257
      @crumblemuffin1257 Před 5 měsíci +40

      That's an understatement, tiktok is the ninth circle of hell

    • @squizzyicetea
      @squizzyicetea Před 5 měsíci +5

      Same lol

    • @pika_mr489
      @pika_mr489 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Same and 100% agree

    • @JustAJayda
      @JustAJayda Před 5 měsíci +6

      It is and I regret getting it tbh🥲

  • @keirabyrom7168
    @keirabyrom7168 Před 5 měsíci +345

    I hate when the people in these sorts of videos say, “This is why you NEED to do X” in relation to appearance-based trends.
    Like why? Am I going to die, or are other people going to die, if I don’t look desirable all the time?

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +52

      And they do not understand, that you, for example, can have totally different taste, and can consider their thends ugly.

    • @oqp489
      @oqp489 Před 5 měsíci +10

      trust me those trends are not lasting long

    • @GURLx222
      @GURLx222 Před 5 měsíci +11

      well being unattractive is somewhat of a "social death" tbh

    • @LuisMercadoorg
      @LuisMercadoorg Před 5 měsíci +19

      @@GURLx222only true if you submit to the opinion of others.

    • @fbiagent3998
      @fbiagent3998 Před 5 měsíci +18

      ​​@@GURLx222Social death what?? If being ugly is equivalent to death then you need to hang out with better people 💀

  • @spook6394
    @spook6394 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Someone I know had a kid with down syndrome who as a child would only eat a specific baby food with lots of carrot content for dinner.
    Bro turned orange. Like actually.
    They had to figure out how to feed him something else, because they thought he’d just keep getting more and more orange until he was an actual carrot.

  • @lbatemon1158
    @lbatemon1158 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I am binging your content. I love your dry humor. My momma heart hurts for these people who are so insecure.

  • @rezq9109
    @rezq9109 Před 5 měsíci +1262

    Maybe it's just me, but there is nothing more unattractive than a guy that obsessed with his looks. If they are so judgemental to themselves, you know for a fact they treat other people the same.

    • @sagetusk
      @sagetusk Před 5 měsíci +214

      Women too. Extreme vanity is just gross
      You can care about being presentable but if your image is your personality... pls don't talk to me

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 Před 5 měsíci +144

      "If they are so judgemental to themselves, you know for a fact they treat other people the same."
      Except, EVERYONE is judgemental of looks, it is why pretty privilege is even a thing in the first place

    • @playlistmaker994
      @playlistmaker994 Před 5 měsíci +89

      Honestly I kind of disagree with that one. Personally I hate the way I look but I can find beauty in other people so easily. I'm a girl though so maybe it's different lmao
      But yeah, I'll take people with good personalities over good looks any day

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci

      @@sagetusk See, the difference between man's and woman's vanity here, is that was always like this for the women. For centuries the value of the woman was measuring with how good she was look like(and it still continues). It was a matter of life and death: her status, her position in society was determined by the quality of marriage she got, and to sell themselves for the bigger price, women were always investing in their looks, because it was the only career ladder they could afford. So, woman's vanity has a clear historical grounding because for many centuries women had no other choice.
      But when the man, who does have a choice, is deciding to masturbate on himself, reveling by his physical appearance, it makes me want to vomit. Even if this man is definitely conventionally beautiful, his narcissistic habits, they way he behaves, turns him into a disgusting creature at the snap of your fingers.

    • @thanos8638
      @thanos8638 Před 5 měsíci +19

      ​@@eventhorizon3417nature and evolution always force every species to look and become better physically and mentally. One can't escape it. The people that are you blaming are just honest and acknowledge it.

  • @stardustgirl313
    @stardustgirl313 Před 5 měsíci +281

    I found none of those looksmaxxing guys attractive. I’m all for “it’s your body, you do you” but not everyone wants someone that looks like a predator 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @fbiagent3998
      @fbiagent3998 Před 5 měsíci +73

      They look like aliens and if I saw someone who genuinely looked like that in real life I would run away

    • @Jada.Befr1
      @Jada.Befr1 Před 5 měsíci +5

      I do 🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @InAHollowTree
      @InAHollowTree Před 4 měsíci

      So gross and fake looking. Most of the looks that society calls "attractive" are just off-putting to me. It's sad when I see regular looking people who I think look _very attractive_ are like "I'm so ugly" because these folks have led them to believe they're ugly.

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Cope

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 4 měsíci

      @@fbiagent3998 wow now we’re judging people by their looks? you lookist 🤮🤮

  • @milantarika7219
    @milantarika7219 Před 10 dny +2

    'What about mental health maxxing' lmaoo that line is fire 😭

  • @Vapourwear
    @Vapourwear Před 5 měsíci +16

    Before I stumbled upon this video, it had literally never occurred to me that this many people could be this deeply involved in worrying about their physical appearances.
    I am intrigued. Baffled, but intrigued.

    • @georgehaas7292
      @georgehaas7292 Před 17 dny

      When it matters so much in the world, why wouldn’t so many people care?

    • @Vapourwear
      @Vapourwear Před 14 dny

      @@georgehaas7292 Just keep swallowing that tail, my guy. (Actually don't do that; I just can't help being a sarcastic bastard.)

  • @offwheat9403
    @offwheat9403 Před 5 měsíci +153

    we need to get into employmentmaxxing i fear 🤕

  • @servingcant
    @servingcant Před 5 měsíci +579

    Some of these guys who have looksmaxxed are so entitled to acceptance that when they get rejected their whole world comes crashing down. Which can be scary for women.

    • @AnnaAnna-st2je
      @AnnaAnna-st2je Před 5 měsíci +137

      when they realize they cant looksmaxx their personality

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 5 měsíci +20

      Making up stories now I see 🤓

    • @ANNA-fr333
      @ANNA-fr333 Před 5 měsíci +55

      ​@@dreamdesigns8514Nah, I tend to not like dating "attractive" men; and I have no shortage of people flirting/interested in me; so can't be too unattractive... There's this song by Rancid I think- 'yeah you're fit, you're fit. But my GOD don't you know it'.
      Self esteem is dope. But being a condescending ass is unlikable no matter the gender (but when pretty girls throw tantrums when they don't get their way, they tend to not send people to the hospital for at least a check up; just saying).

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 5 měsíci +29

      @@ANNA-fr333what are you even saying „I have no shortage of people flirting with me“ 💀 you’re really commenting something COMPLETELY unrelated just to humblebrag

    • @en2336
      @en2336 Před 5 měsíci +14

      @@______________url The guys who CHOOSE not to seek therapy and be better people? They are choosing to hurt themselves. but then they hurt other innocent people because of it which is inexcusable.

  • @Tortilla1111
    @Tortilla1111 Před 5 měsíci +37

    I don't think they realize how bad their "beauty standard" actually looks

    • @aintlying9428
      @aintlying9428 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Only unique people can pull off not recommended for average/normal ppl

    • @Tortilla1111
      @Tortilla1111 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@aintlying9428 are you one of them💀

    • @georgehaas7292
      @georgehaas7292 Před 17 dny +1

      Why are you calling their beauty standards bad if it’s subjective?

  • @EmissaryofWind
    @EmissaryofWind Před 4 měsíci +4

    the comparison pictures are so odd because half of the people they put in the "ugly" category are considered 10/10 by tens of thousands of people, and half of the images in the "looksmaxxed" category hit the uncanny valley

  • @notme8152
    @notme8152 Před 5 měsíci +84

    Nobody looks normal anymore, until you see them irl with no filters

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 5 měsíci +15

      exactly and without plastic surgery

    • @fbiagent3998
      @fbiagent3998 Před 5 měsíci +8

      ​@@bzyspecialthe date gets even more ruined when u realize they have no personality and can't keep a conversation going

    • @aintlying9428
      @aintlying9428 Před 4 měsíci

      Yeah, and if u compare this looksmaxxer to normal ppl passing by,they have more appeal

  • @highestqualitypigiron
    @highestqualitypigiron Před 5 měsíci +252

    This stuff is probably older than a lot of you guys think, I remember back, probably nearly 10 years ago when looksmaxxing, jelqing, mewing was just incel stuff. It was a fringe idea and now its a total meme. Its crazy

    • @A77775
      @A77775 Před 5 měsíci +94

      It still is incel stuff, but there are more incels now.

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +38

      @@A77775 But now they are trying to mimic the "alpha".

    • @oqp489
      @oqp489 Před 5 měsíci +5

      those are still words that are used for incels.

    • @nyadarkness
      @nyadarkness Před 5 měsíci +8

      ​@eventhorizon3417 help me man I've rotten
      I kept thinking of omegaverse whenever I see the word alpha

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@nyadarkness ahah, me too))

  • @TheFracturedfuture
    @TheFracturedfuture Před 12 dny +3

    The sad part is that the ones hating on average looking people look terrible themselves and look nothing like the models they praise.

  • @Joreyblake
    @Joreyblake Před 17 dny +2

    Never heard of these terms until today. So glad I’m oblivious to some things.

  • @biguattipoptropica
    @biguattipoptropica Před 5 měsíci +137

    People are nitpicking their own features too much. People usually aren’t looking that closely, they are taking in your whole face as a set. (Artists have this same problem, which is why you’re supposed to take breaks and look at the big picture.)

  • @TinyGhosty
    @TinyGhosty Před 5 měsíci +1368

    It is awful that even more people (mostly children) are being brainwashed and bullied into constantly obsessing over beauty standards, but it is interesting that the male population may finally understand what it is like to be female person when it comes to widespread critique, cultural surveillance, and lifelong personal insecurities. Maybe the silver lining will be a more unified effort to fight back against beauty standards instead of just spouting off that women are shallow and only care about their looks.

    • @UtopiaMotley
      @UtopiaMotley Před 5 měsíci +4

      This is strangely ignorant; there have always been men subjected to critique of their bodies and appearances. Height and muscular stature come to mind- less face bc men don’t have the amenity of normalized makeup wearing. There’s even less support for them because of this weird sexist trope that men are unfeeling and have no idea what it’s like to be obsessed with appearance and don’t get bullied for being unattractive. They do, there is just no one speaking out about it. That’s where these incel communities came in, for insecure socially rejected guys. Instead of turning this into a gender debate, why not just condemn the very universal social pressure of needing to be attractive? Smh.

    • @elliotoliver8679
      @elliotoliver8679 Před 5 měsíci +18

      Do you think this is a new thing?

    • @TinyGhosty
      @TinyGhosty Před 5 měsíci +147

      @@elliotoliver8679 All kids can deal with bullying and anyone popular online will get negative comments about their appearance, but the widespread comments on male kids/teens/young adults criticizing their appearance is new. To act like beauty standards and social policing of appearance has been equal before the age of tiktok is completely misunderstanding misogyny and how media has primarily attacked women in the past.

    • @TheBiggestMoronYouKnow
      @TheBiggestMoronYouKnow Před 5 měsíci

      honey sit down, your whiteness is showing

    • @cristalido3640
      @cristalido3640 Před 5 měsíci +78

      This isn't new, men ALWAYS had insecurities in regards to their looks, we just didn't express it because that made us ashamed and look insecure in front of others... So what most guys did was just assume that they are "ugly" and roll along with it, but we could still find a partner in the past just like fat and "unattractive" women were able to do, and can still do today. The problem is that men now literally CAN'T find love if they don't look attractive enough thanks to social media and dating apps, which push superficial standards for everyone, so even if we accept how we look, we can't accept the fact that we will die as virgins because of it... This is where this whole culture of trying to improve our looks began.
      The fact that you genuinely believe that we never experienced insecurities and struggles because of our looks, goes to show just how little you've talked to men and earned their trust for them to admit what they don't like about their bodies.
      Beauty standards are not the problem in themselves, it's the fact that so many young women are unable to see beyond them in our current times: while most young men don't mind dating women with weak jawlines, short or tall stature, big noses or prominent teeth, or even an overweight body, women won't give you the time of the day if you are not taller than her or have a chiseled face... So the real question here is, if so many men don't care about these "flaws" in women and still ask them out on dates, why can't women do the same?

  • @TrueBalawan
    @TrueBalawan Před 3 měsíci +10

    It’s over for bro

  • @guabirualado2726
    @guabirualado2726 Před 5 měsíci +34

    The sheer amount of cope in the comments

    • @jondecat885
      @jondecat885 Před 5 měsíci +8

      i cant believe normies are this braindead

    • @SuperDarkspirits
      @SuperDarkspirits Před 5 měsíci +1

      there are even thick in the head bp people, what do you expect from normies @@jondecat885

    • @Randomlad56
      @Randomlad56 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Oblivious Maximus, this fate of sightless was is one that entangles many lel, only viewing out of one window to see one lawn, perfectly curated for pristine Copium that flows through the vains like fluorine does in water, all for our own health :D
      Cope can only survive under illusion, when the curtains pulled back, the illusions broken, and the Cope’ll meet its final dance with death, death named reality, as it’s real steel punctures the sensitive beating heart of Copium :p

    • @tawny1074
      @tawny1074 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Are some people not being into looksmaxxing a crime or something

    • @guabirualado2726
      @guabirualado2726 Před 4 měsíci

      @@tawny1074. No, since most people don't have the will to achieve that, the ones who do just stick out more, I'm not complaining

  • @KellyLoom1s
    @KellyLoom1s Před 5 měsíci +271

    My sister still teases me about when I drank so much carrot juice I turned slightly orange, so if cheap self-tanner orange is what you’re after, go for it!

    • @delightfulmochas
      @delightfulmochas Před 5 měsíci +14

      How much carrot juice was it??

    • @KellyLoom1s
      @KellyLoom1s Před 5 měsíci +46

      @@delightfulmochas I don’t remember exactly but I’d guess around 2 pounds of carrots a day. I also weighed about 120 pounds at the time, in case there is some significance to the carrot to body weight ratio.

    • @roxannesmith4519
      @roxannesmith4519 Před 5 měsíci +10

      I literately would chug carrot juice because everyone would complement me on my tan when I did.

    • @2facthub
      @2facthub Před 5 měsíci

      lol carrot acctually increase skinn coligen whick make skinn look more healthy

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 Před 5 měsíci +14

      Just eat a sweet potato every other day, it has far higher vitamin A than a carrot (2x more actually) and tastes better than it too

  • @jongkittae
    @jongkittae Před 5 měsíci +707

    ok but as someone who's spent over a decade as a kpop stan, it's so funny to me how these internet bros are obsessed with this shit and it's like bestie do y'all really believe that almost every single idol you have ever seen hasn't had at least one plastic surgery??? like they don't look like that from birth or "glow up" from puberty/aging alone, it's usually plastic surgery, very commonly done are eye surgeries (usually to "correct" monolids) and nose jobs, but it's not uncommon for idols to have their bones literally SHAVED (or get implants to adjust their overall face shape, though I expect the shaving is more common because of korea's obsession with that V jawline).
    tldr; the older you get, the less it actually matters what other people think of you. obviously there is going to be certain societal or cultural pressures to look a certain way or fit a beauty standard, but I found that as I got older, I've come to accept that regardless of what my body size or shape is or what my face looks like compared to others, I am confident in WHO I am and once you find that place, you'll find that you tend to be a less concerned about what other people think about you. ❤

    • @higurashikai09
      @higurashikai09 Před 5 měsíci +98

      Just a comment about the "older you are, the less people care about how you look": a very well-known Canadian news anchor was let go from her job because she stopped dyeing her hair. All the male anchors are allowed to go grey but their female colleague gets fired for showing their age.
      So I would say it's not that people don't care about what you look like when you get older but people obsess over aging in general and they don't like seeing people grow older. At least certain people.

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +27

      @@higurashikai09 What a hypocritical world we are living in...

    • @worstusernameintheworld9871
      @worstusernameintheworld9871 Před 5 měsíci +7

      gotta make some unfortunate changes to what you said because I agree with the top reply, women still care about not looking older, remember the tons of commentary youtubers complaining about the middle aged women doing stuff like not smiling so they "age slower" (amongst other methods)? Plus botox on older women is still a thing, unfortunately. Also my family still dyes their hair monthly to hide white hairs, as with most older folk where I live. Not to mention, the amount of incel guys who say that women are "undateable" when they have kids (usually older women) are still disturbingly high, and lot's of poor clueless women still fall for it. Yeah people care less about body types and micromanaging features, but the beauty standard is still there, especially for women.
      Also, as far as I know, most internet bros aren't necessarily into kpop (unless they're asian and need to adhere to asian beauty standards, I guess) and want that steve from minecraft lookin @ss jawline, that's the kind of annoying standard they have.

    • @SilverDragonJay
      @SilverDragonJay Před 5 měsíci +22

      Another thing you start to notice is that a lot of these guys (because its usually men, let's be real) will compare a professionally done headshot of a model or an actor with a shitty picture someone took in their dingy bathroom at 3 am and conclude that the reason that person is "ugly" is because their face is bad. Bonus points if that dude's hair isn't even brushed, his face hasn't been washed in years, he's wearing a stained t-shirt, and the photo was taken at an upward angle.
      Lights, makeup, and framing can do a lot for a person and that doesn't even get into the realm of filters, photoshop, and, as OP points out, plastic surgery. Proper grooming and styling can also do wonders for you: two things that I think men as a group could stand to spend more time on, personally. This ain't it though.
      Perhaps it is only natural for boys to be going through this. I know the girlies went through it all in the 90s and 00s (still are, tbf), but these conversations are _normal,_ even boring, as far as women are concerned even if women are still hurting. And, of course, these same men won't see the parallels to what girls and women have been discussing since the 90s in regards to unrealistic beauty standards, self harm, and body dysmorphia probably because learning from women might suggest that men aren't inherently smarter or more logical or something. Once more, misogyny hurts men as well.

    • @hassanabdullah2425
      @hassanabdullah2425 Před 5 měsíci +6

      ​@@SilverDragonJayI swear women act like men didn't went through this shit before. And also what should we learn from women to make a billion dollar industry based on our insecurities. I don't even like the whole looksmaxing and black pill shit. But women in the comments gotta chill you act like you are beyond this while still wearing makeup.

  • @valkolakk
    @valkolakk Před 3 dny +1

    I am so glad I'm not a teenager these days. I spent enough time in my life hating myself for not looking like an ad. But I think 90% of what these folks are scrutinizing are things that weren't on the radar for basically anyone in the aughts. I feel so sad for young folk.

  • @azulmdelgado
    @azulmdelgado Před 5 měsíci +4

    can't believe you used an Argentinian model at the beginning, love from argentina x.

  • @pracheebhardwaj2790
    @pracheebhardwaj2790 Před 5 měsíci +88

    "Ariana Grande cosplay territory" i love the uncalled shots taken at her

  • @Frenchaboo
    @Frenchaboo Před 5 měsíci +615

    Some people really need to find better ways to kill boredom. Play a game. Do a sport. Obsess over anime characters kissing. Be normal like the rest of us fjdshfjdsf

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 5 měsíci +66

      „Obsess over anime characters kissing“ yeah bro you are definitely normal

    • @zermanman9891
      @zermanman9891 Před 5 měsíci +30

      Yeah this comment wasn’t it. Take this one back to the drawing board

    • @i_have_no_fucks_to_give7761
      @i_have_no_fucks_to_give7761 Před 5 měsíci +91

      ​@@dreamdesigns8514 i would rather see people obsessing over fictional characters kissing than obsessing over looksmaxxing

    • @khaffit3527
      @khaffit3527 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@i_have_no_fucks_to_give7761 get help champion, you are emitting to much estrogen.

    • @famisheddendon
      @famisheddendon Před 5 měsíci +6

      You probably sit indoors all the time lol.

  • @me-ob7yw
    @me-ob7yw Před 4 měsíci +10

    I genuinely have always just breathed through my nose with my tongue stuck to the roof of my mouth without knowing it was an actual thing called "mewing" been doing it my whole life and my jaw looks very normal,my moms addicted to chewing bubblegum and her jaws no better than mine

  • @LaLaBlahBlahh
    @LaLaBlahBlahh Před měsícem +1

    Omg that cat with the music “bye bye” got me sooooo bad on the train. Looking like a crazy person laughing to myself

  • @Wondermazement24
    @Wondermazement24 Před 5 měsíci +52

    Where’s the mental-health-maxxing 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @pingeee
      @pingeee Před 4 měsíci

      you mean ropemaxxing?

    • @coldones9505
      @coldones9505 Před 3 měsíci

      Why so many emojis? Are you a woman?

  • @Raven-wq4li
    @Raven-wq4li Před 5 měsíci +69

    uh oh! looks like someone reinvented eugenics!

  • @ginaribeiro2726
    @ginaribeiro2726 Před 20 dny +1

    My bluelight filter literally turned on when he was talking about carrotmaxing lololol @ 15:38

  • @kelseycain3469
    @kelseycain3469 Před 2 měsíci +6

    They know they're gonna get crows feet and 11 lines from squinting 24/7.. right? 😂

    • @kelseycain3469
      @kelseycain3469 Před 2 měsíci +1

      To be clear, nothing wrong with having either or both but I doubt they'll be pleased

    • @t-bonetyrone
      @t-bonetyrone Před měsícem

      ​@@kelseycain3469That's if they try hard it. You just gotta have resting bitch face and you're good and that's from training your face to have it as your neutral expression.

  • @jeannetterw
    @jeannetterw Před 5 měsíci +384

    As a woman of an age.
    Going grey, not dyeing it, no botox or fillers. Also can't be bothered with makeup. No shade to anyone who does. If I was in my late 20s I'd for sure be hooked. But I barely have the energy to work for the next 25 years let alone dye my hair every 3 weeks for that period. At some point you're not fooling anyone so just live your silverfox fantasy! Best advice for ageing:
    Edit. WATER.
    1. Get a housecoat/robe whatever you call it.
    2. Slippers with open toes for airflow.
    3. House clothes, Aka pjs.
    4. For female identifying - jersey bralettes with an elastic that doesn't roll under.
    5. Sunscreen!

    • @Jasmine215100
      @Jasmine215100 Před 5 měsíci +15

      You should have put sunscreen at the top of the list!! Also moisturizer and regular cleansing cream.

    • @jeannetterw
      @jeannetterw Před 5 měsíci +12

      @@Jasmine215100 True true. I did put an exclamation for emphasis though haha.

    • @Jasmine215100
      @Jasmine215100 Před 5 měsíci

      I'm 67 myself! @@jeannetterw

    • @lucyl4603
      @lucyl4603 Před 5 měsíci +9

      Water

    • @jeannetterw
      @jeannetterw Před 5 měsíci +12

      @@lucyl4603 Wateeeeerrrrrr.

  • @muwuriel8231
    @muwuriel8231 Před 5 měsíci +406

    The only one really saying women like Chads is these guys. Like even the definition of Chad is so arbitrary that it’s sometimes just “guys hotter than me specifically”. They’re just making themselves look hot for other guys but they’re way too insecure to admit that

    • @HereIAm247
      @HereIAm247 Před 5 měsíci +66

      Ironically, most women actually prefer to be the most attractive in the relationship, and most men prefer to be with a woman hotter than themselves. As long as they take decent care of themselves, most men can look fairly decent, even with 'bad' genetics.
      What they don't realise is, even if they managed to get to 10/10, it would not be enough to get with the 10/10 women they are looking to get with. These women are often a specific type; high social status (meaning popular, with lots of popular friends), and they like to show that in the people they surround themselves with. So if you get to a 10/10, but still have the confidence of a 4/10, and don't surround yourself with other beautiful and high status people, you will not get that type of women. They like to do specific things, and are fairly extroverted. The men trying out looksmaxxing are often more introverted, and likes different things. In short, they are not personally or socially compatible with the women they chase. And they look down on the women they are actually compatible with, because they are maybe 'only' 7/10's.
      They are literally trying to be someone they are not, to make up for their low self esteem. I am all for improving your looks (in a healthy way), but you still need to be a better version of *yourself* inside and out; not masking as someone else. That will not make you happy in life.

    • @dannyzee4
      @dannyzee4 Před 5 měsíci

      Guys are notoriously bad at knowing what women find attractive. Same goes the other way too, like women or men saying "that guy/woman is uggo" and people attracted to that gender being like "wtf?"

    • @DrBitchcraft.
      @DrBitchcraft. Před 5 měsíci

      As a lesbian, There's something inherently homoerotic about mens obsession with other men.

    • @viviandaviss
      @viviandaviss Před 5 měsíci +24

      None of the guys I ever dated was a Chad so I dont understand this. All of my friends boyfriends are not Chads. Women honestly dont care about looks as much as men do.

    • @Jackmonkey66666hghinnv
      @Jackmonkey66666hghinnv Před 5 měsíci +7

      Nah honestly I think looksmaxing/blackpill is definitely getting a bit off the rails but there’s definitely a decent crumb of truth to it all I’ve seen it alot in my own life experience (which is the only one I can speak for) but if a guy has a certain look they could be the biggest gronk and so many girls will look past it and find it funny genuinely seen it countless times around 18-20 alone and I get why people get frustrated seeing that and douche bags getting hella attention just cause of how they look and treat majority of people as less than in a subtle way usually but sometimes just outright and average dudes try everything under the sun just to end up not even getting a chance with 99% of girls they try to talk to or flat out friendzone permanently lol and after a while you either give up or go this route cause it’s too depressing to keep trying and being 4 and lower the make loneliness is the main reason this stuffs so outta hand imo so many dudes going through it and the number grows everyday

  • @JESUSISGOD9334
    @JESUSISGOD9334 Před 3 měsíci +5

    it never begun

  • @black.sasuke.uchiha
    @black.sasuke.uchiha Před 5 měsíci +1

    He said welcome back, I’ve never seen this channel but it was recommended at the top of my homepage. I subbed, good luck on, wait lemme check… 796K!

  • @srose1088
    @srose1088 Před 5 měsíci +143

    As someone with almond shaped deep-set eyes, squinting with a slight head tilt would make my eyes disappear. 😂

  • @TheMutantCreeper
    @TheMutantCreeper Před 5 měsíci +264

    God this obsession with how you and others looks is insane. I can't believe there are some people that haven't realized that uniqueness isn't a bad thing and that different people have different tastes.

    • @jayfasf6828
      @jayfasf6828 Před 5 měsíci +20

      Wdym by uniqueness, an average looking person most likely won't standout and looks plain. Features like sharp jaw and hunter eyes are so rare now that's unique

    • @jayfasf6828
      @jayfasf6828 Před 5 měsíci +9

      You would be automatically be unique and stand out by being attractive

    • @chrispy3021
      @chrispy3021 Před 5 měsíci +45

      ​@@jayfasf6828Nah, it's exactly the opposite. Bc everyone who follows these stupid shallow beauty trends LOOKS THE SAME. None of these people are unique, they all look the same.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 5 měsíci

      I've seen some goofy ass manosphere douchecanoes say that men who like bigger women are not real men. The lack of self awareness is sad and hilarious at the same time. Like,imagine thinking you're a "big alpha male" because you're telling others what they're allowed to,not allowed to,or are only "real men" if they like what you like 😂 the amount of tone deaf tho lmao 😂

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 5 měsíci +8

      @@jayfasf6828 Yeah the people who get the same plastic surgeries totally don't look the same,right mr.tone deaf?

  • @Zulkfa
    @Zulkfa Před 5 měsíci +1

    I LOVE DYNAMITE ERA HOSEOK’S FANART PORTRAIT AT BACK 😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @brunoheggli2888
    @brunoheggli2888 Před 13 dny +2

    If to many people liooking perfect,than its nothing special anymore!

  • @Dessamator
    @Dessamator Před 5 měsíci +71

    I'm Irish white. I'm afraid of the number of carrots I'd need to eat every day to look tan. I'll stay blissfully ignorant and continue being a secondary light source like our moon (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci

      It doesn't make you sun-tanned, it will only give you the hepatitis-yellow shade of face.

    • @sofycolt27
      @sofycolt27 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Same. I am also a ginger, so I am not sure that it's good look to have the same skin color as my hair😂

    • @Dessamator
      @Dessamator Před 5 měsíci

      @@sofycolt27 My hair is almost black naturally, but I'm going grey. Well, I'm not ready to go grey. I recently went silver because that's the grey hair I have, but it reminded me of my mom. I'm not ready (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)
      In the Summer, my skin acts like I'm a Ginger. As soon as the sun touches it... FRECKLES EVERYWHERE (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

    • @InAHollowTree
      @InAHollowTree Před 4 měsíci +1

      You're not missing out! :-) They brag about the carrot "tan" but don't mention the behind-the-scenes war that carrot juice is waging on their bowels, LMAO! I learned that from experience because I just _really_ like carrots.

  • @isha3427
    @isha3427 Před 5 měsíci +368

    Your facial features must harmonize with eachother to increase attractiveness. Not everyone looks good with a pointy nose or squinted eyes. YOUR eyes are supposed to suit YOUR nose, YOUR nose is supposed to compliment YOUR lips. I dont get why people are trying to look like others when you werent meant to look like them but yourself. Don’t go follow trends, if you want to look more attractive make sure you change based on your looks not others.

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +67

      It is so strange and uncanny to watch k-pop idols, for example, where the whole face is redone, separately these facial features are made well, but alltogether they don't match with each other and it looks creepy.

    • @yyiyiyyiyi6837
      @yyiyiyyiyi6837 Před 5 měsíci +40

      I’m a woman with downturned eyes which I became really insecure about. I tried changing their shape with eyeliner and couldn’t even leave the house without my cat eye look. Recently though I’ve been embracing them and when I wear makeup I enhance their downturned shape. I have never gotten so many compliments on them! Looking at photos of those old hollywood beauties with big sad downturned eyes really helped me love them. 💖 Makes you realize how a lot of these beauty standards are just fads.

    • @skinnylove831
      @skinnylove831 Před 5 měsíci +16

      ​@@yyiyiyyiyi6837your type of eyes just make me automatically swoon omg, I hate the internet for creating an insecurity about perfectly beautiful features 😩

    • @Alien_From_Another_Universe
      @Alien_From_Another_Universe Před 5 měsíci +1

      Well that's because they aren't doing it correctly,. Looksmaxxing is always about improving*Your features*

    • @resonancetides7196
      @resonancetides7196 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@Alien_From_Another_Universe lookmaxxing is for clowns.

  • @jes7170
    @jes7170 Před 4 měsíci

    i love u ed, ive been watching u for at least 10 years. n always come back to ur content. ur such a sweet heart n i love ur growth. much luv,

  • @morgeduid
    @morgeduid Před 5 měsíci +1

    oH god i was almost born with a cleft palate so i had a super malformed palate and had to use a palate extender for years and it was horrible i can't believe people would willingly go along with that and with SURGERY (when ur a kid u dont need surgery cos ur palate is still soft) just for a minute change in ur appearance. i used to cry when my mom would have to reach into my mouth to crank the palate extender. it was miserable

  • @drawmuu
    @drawmuu Před 5 měsíci +87

    Yeah, these people suck. People like that convinced me at one point I had a big nose. I don’t have a big nose, it actually took me a while to be convinced by family and acquaintances that I don’t have a big nose! People like making others miserable if they feel miserable or if they just inherently LIKE making people miserable, which is absolutely despicable.

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Yeah, they are spreading their insecurities on other people, like a disease.

    • @EmeraldAshesAudio
      @EmeraldAshesAudio Před 5 měsíci +16

      Just as a side note, noses look bigger in selfies & other close-up pictures. It has to do with the lens warping your features.

    • @drawmuu
      @drawmuu Před 5 měsíci

      @@EmeraldAshesAudio the worst part for me was that even in pictures it looked small to people yet i believed those douchebags’ lies

    • @alexanderjackson8389
      @alexanderjackson8389 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I have a big nose..

    • @madbruv
      @madbruv Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@drawmuuarr you a big nose denier? Big noses cant exist because your feelings said so? 😂

  • @ldallas8315
    @ldallas8315 Před 5 měsíci +73

    It’s really, really great that we have an huge oversaturation of content built specifically around creating new insecurities in people. Really awesome, love that for humanity.

    • @Sun-God2
      @Sun-God2 Před 5 měsíci +2

      When there's Mankind, there's no Peace.

  • @NilabhSingh-it3zw
    @NilabhSingh-it3zw Před 5 měsíci +46

    The amount of copers in this comment section is just funny

    • @williamwallcroft2559
      @williamwallcroft2559 Před 5 měsíci +2

      So I thought.
      What this video talks about, happened for a reason.

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Cagefuel

    • @x96x67
      @x96x67 Před 4 měsíci +9

      Copemaxxing

    • @thenablade858
      @thenablade858 Před 4 měsíci +4

      You are one of them. Also there are a billion Indians named Singh so even if you did look like a male supermodel, nobody would be able to tell the difference.

    • @NilabhSingh-it3zw
      @NilabhSingh-it3zw Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@thenablade858 There are also many celebrities who share the same surname with billions of people so according to your logic, they are no different from others who have the same surname? Sorry but you don't make any sense.

  • @thegiantbeagle
    @thegiantbeagle Před měsícem

    God bless you! Your hair looks great!

  • @ineedsleep4071
    @ineedsleep4071 Před 5 měsíci +40

    I thought they were just talking about actual self care and I was like "finally! something people can use to support each other! " but nope, everything just had to be toxic for the internet

    • @Sun-God2
      @Sun-God2 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yep in the end there's always Tóxic People

  • @mimi-qn9zf
    @mimi-qn9zf Před 5 měsíci +100

    I shared this video with my boyfriend because I love your content. He read your name as 'advanced asian' and I think I agree

    • @eventhorizon3417
      @eventhorizon3417 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Lol, and I was always percepting it as "Advisean"))

    • @dreamdesigns8514
      @dreamdesigns8514 Před 5 měsíci

      Didn’t ask 🤦‍♂️ can’t stand these sexhavers humblebragging about their silly relationships

    • @FleshWizard69420
      @FleshWizard69420 Před 5 měsíci +5

      The 2.0 model of Asian comes with many new features

  • @Shadow-mq7rt
    @Shadow-mq7rt Před 5 měsíci +3

    Bone smashing will always be crazy to me. I have TMJ that leaves me in pain almost everyday---I can't even imagine that people are trying to shape or change their bones ON PURPOSE.

    • @pingeee
      @pingeee Před 4 měsíci +1

      chewing gum too much gave me tmj, shit was hell took like 8 months for me to be able to chew somewhat normally again

  • @Zaire82
    @Zaire82 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I do the squint thing because I'm a reclusive and antisocial guy who typically doesn't expose his eyes to high light levels, making them highly sensitive to outdoor light to the point where I can't even keep them open at times.

  • @angelbaby1811
    @angelbaby1811 Před 5 měsíci +158

    There is a difference between a set standard of beauty and attraction. I may be attracted by the way someone looks, but you may not. It doesn’t mean he’s unattractive, it just means he’s not attractive to you. Fussy men will never be attractive no matter how good looking.

    • @Thanateros
      @Thanateros Před 5 měsíci

      clock it

    • @khloeknievel3874
      @khloeknievel3874 Před 5 měsíci +11

      So many people have such a black and white view of dating. Having standard rating and definitions of what makes someone desirable vs undesirable makes it feel more within their control. But as you said, attraction is so highly dependable on the individual.

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Except that is not what people experience at all.
      What people experience is that a huge chunk of people die without ever having felt love or being desired.
      How do you explain that?
      Clearly people, predominantly men, are being selected out.

  • @genshinF2Play
    @genshinF2Play Před 5 měsíci +24

    hunter eyes and prey eyes being submissive and breedable WHAT IS THIS??? HAHAHAHHA I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE VIDEO ARE PEOPLE THIS DERANGED??? HAHAHAHAHA

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 5 měsíci +1

      oh yeah,they are,and it's terrifying

    • @twigwigsoso
      @twigwigsoso Před 5 měsíci +1

      cis male omegaverse

    • @Randomlad56
      @Randomlad56 Před 4 měsíci

      Ironically enough such wording would disprove the fellas points ‘bout prey eyes being undesirable or something LEL…. XD

  • @catinaphone6152
    @catinaphone6152 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I adore eyes wirt negative cantalt tilt. Tamino has this kind of eyes and he is gorgeous!

    • @sadvvitch
      @sadvvitch Před 4 měsíci +1

      He's so gorgeous sometimes he looks unreal to me

    • @sanctuaryjester
      @sanctuaryjester Před 26 dny +1

      Timothee Chalamet has a negative canthal tilt too

  • @eggsandbacon892
    @eggsandbacon892 Před měsícem +1

    I keep looking through the comments of this video/their replies and honestly, idk what I was expecting. I love how you can tell exactly what part of the internet someone came from depending on what they're saying under the video, it's hilarious 😭

  • @chelsbeaupeep
    @chelsbeaupeep Před 5 měsíci +26

    0:56 "maybe I'll look into this face, if it ever goes on sale," that line took me out 😂😂 and barely a full minute in

  • @chris_1412
    @chris_1412 Před 5 měsíci +56

    my personal conclusion from this video is that tiktok reversed our social development; people just be getting more shallow and judgemental. I hate this bullcrap lmao.
    Why can't we just leave people be and not judge them for the way they look? Like, don't put your own beauty ideals on someone else and don't judge people if they don't fit into this beauty ideal you got; you can have a preference but don't make someone feel like crap if they don't fit into your preferences.
    Like everyone has different preferences when it comes to looks. I'm so mad haha. I am glad I don't use tiktok, cos I hate it sometimes.
    Couldn't even finish watching the video, it kills me how horrible people can be 😶

  • @pallas_kater
    @pallas_kater Před 19 dny +3

    I'm already anticipating the massive wave of mental breakdowns and sheer hysteria once overobsessed with their appearance genZers hit their mid age crisis. It's a grave mistake to invest too much in appearance instead of growing your skills and personality.
    Like, looking good is a nice thing, but if maintaining this facade makes you disfunctional, it has to be minimized, not maxxxed.

  • @Moi_81
    @Moi_81 Před 5 měsíci

    Those Jackie memes killed me!!! Loved them,