She Turns The Tables On Me…Watch My Reaction! (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)
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Oh God. I made a huge mistake...And now a woman is punishing me for it…on stage!
In the video you’re about to see, I’m caught in a scenario which, back when I first started as a coach, would have left me absolutely TERRIFIED and frozen with fear!
After a rookie error on my part, a woman at my San Diego seminar decided to totally turn the tables and call me out, potentially leaving me completely embarrassed and lost for words in front my own audience.
For a tiny split second, my brain said what it always said in these awkward moments “Oh crap…”
Crap. Crap. Double Crap.
Luckily for me, I’ve been in this situation dozens of times before.
A career of standing on stage in front of hundreds of people every week has enabled me to learn more than my fair share of Jedi-mind tricks and powerful techniques for dealing with crisis scenarios like this.
In this week’s video, I’ve decided it’s finally time to open up the kimono and share some of my most carefully guarded secrets to maintaining your power in these difficult moments.
See, in life, things don’t always go the way you plan.
You can try and map out every scenario in your mind, but the truth is, when you get to that interview, that audition, that first date, or that difficult business pitch, it’s much harder than we imagine to respond on our feet without allowing the pressure to knock us off our game.
If you’re someone who needs to make sure you’re able to have impact and remain confident even in the most unpredictable moments in life, make sure you watch very closely as I put into practice my own shortcuts and processes that have taken me years of failed attempts to learn.
Make sure you view all the way to the end, because in the last minute I’m going to share something completely for free that has already changed the lives of thousands of women who have been luckily enough to get their hands on it.
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The biggest turn off for guys is probably when a girl gets aggressive and angry over something so innocent.
Well then good thing she was neither angry nor aggressive
@@ladyfl0wers
Well if that's what u think i gotta say that u are delusional miss lady
Atleast in this one thing
Imagine the reverse...
If Mathew had said that to the woman no one would be laughing..
@Lady Flowers that was kind of aggressive.... she threatened to break his hands or head just because he had forgotten her name. Kinda a trivial thing to threaten someone over.
@@ladyfl0wers your blind and deaf both at same time😒😒😒
aggressive and angry should NEVER be happening with them. ever.
Imagine a guy saying to a woman “....I’ll break your head, I promise!”
Her face isn’t the problem, it’s what comes out of that face that men don’t want to deal with.
Breaking ur head was more in jest. Everyone was laughing.
@@vivekdubey4363 women were laughing. No men were. Men do not take kindly to women threatening violence.
Its an Asian thing. We dont take it too seriously.
@@vivekdubey4363 sorry but no I take threats very serious b/c mine are not they are a promise so I expect every one else to be the same, unless this world is filled with hallow weak people I rather not take a chance.
@@mick776gold There were no men in the meet, u stupid. 😆
“I don’t know why men I like don’t like me”
“What’s your name?”
“I BREAK YOUR HEAD!”
Okay I wonder why too... 😒
😂
She got nervous and also some miscommunication happen from her side.
@@meenakshigour4195 "Some" miscommunication? Don't try to defend her, there were 3:
Strike 1: You don't remember it? (The men feel stupid)
... pause
Strike 2: You said I was special by giving me this mice (Now men feel more stupid)
... everyone laughing AT him.
Strike 3: I break your head
Strike 3 and you out!
I can totally see why men don't like her. She's like the mother-in-law from hell.
Exactly
This woman seems to have great energy and is pretty bold. Matt actually nailed it that she just has to channel it in a different way (no shouting and nagging).
Tatiana Voyta yeah nagging and shouting or getting angry off the bat without legitimate reason just communicates pettiness and a lack of social intelligence. If a woman ever does that, she will be ignored and labeled as annoying. She may get laid occasionally depending on how attractive she is but chances are she will die alone.
She has masculine energy.
Lol love reading the comments!
@@jgalena7689 a bit, but i wouldnt discard her based on just what I saw in this vid for sure
@@jgalena7689 no man is turned on by her masculine energy
Honestly, I’m a guy and more guys should be watching your videos. The information and insight you continuously provide for relationships and attraction are so key and uplifting.
then u sir r a i diot
I'm pretty sure gay guys watch his videos. I mean, I do. Maybe you mean straight guys.
@@Luiseut59 What do you get out of these videos?
@@flashnimi Well, straight women problems when dating guys are very similar to the problems us gay guys face when dating men.
I agree with you, I'm a guy (AND NOT GAY) and I find it pretty interesting, for example how he acts in conversations or how you can answer some kind of things from the other side. Of course there's even more to it, but the things is as I'm still young, I have a lot of things to learn from these videos. I can just say that more guys should be watching these.
she made me laugh LOL.. but now I see why she's a "bro-friend"
I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS TOO LOL
She is sexualy frustrated and its her doing.
She acts like men, not wifable
She seemed more like she is doing a humor as well.
Dr. K said he noticed that most successful relationships had some red flags at beginning, including himself as he was jobless student and married,
but they are successful realtionships because both partners were willing to change the red flags, from beginning of the relationship.
And this lady probabbly wants to change as she decided to ask him about it.
Funnily enough, I feel more and more I come to Matt’s videos will less intentions on finding a guy or getting a guy, and it’s much more about building myself into the person that I want to be, having the right attitude, a productive mentality, and confidence.
"right attitude" will get you far. no man want a "I don't need a man" type woman.
Remember just don't become a man in the process
Very good, because there are alot of women, that see and treat Men as commodities, meal tickets, etc. Men need support and love
Bless you. People, Myself included sleep far too much on blaming their surroundings instead of looking inwards for where they find themselves consistently. It's so easily forgotten too, which is such an absolute shame. I hate that I have to remind myself so frequently of the important things I've learned.
Gosh that's basic knowledge teenagers are taught.
This world is insane.
damn he is good
i am a dude and i am telling you he knows his shit
So the difference between berating and flirting is the way you say it. The way you say it equals sexual tension.
Elizabeth Butt n
Bascially, you do not want them to think that you are their mother...
@@solatiumz dude, thank you for saying that. Number 1 reason I dont want a relationship is I dont want to be nagged and criticized
I like that you go from standing straight and open to bent over and closing off as much as possible. And then, when the conversation improves, the posture opens back up. It's interesting to watch.
Matthew, I'm a straight guy and I really enjoy and take such value from your videos. They've helped me overcome a lot of problems I've experienced in my life. Thanks a lot, keep it up!
he's so damn charming
He’s attractive, would love Danny Devito tey this
My name is “Matthew” too and before he said a word, my initial reaction was “I love the way she just said “I don’t know, Matthew”. It is incredibly sensual.
She is extra. That's why they are not interested in you cuz he just met u and u already started nagging
Oh my God...
You're right.
Misho A that's not nagging. lol that's being rude and fiesty for no apparent reason. that's why she is not able to get a guy (and don't fall for the typical "i get dates from guys i don't want" bs .it's just the over inflated ego talking).
I dont socialize with people who are .extra Wast of time and energy.
I disagree. I believe her intention was mainly fun that turned into cheeky feelings.
She added her cheeky lines after a hardly noticeable pause, which means she deliberately chose to say those things plus she had a mild smile on her face. Matthew often talks about meaning and giving the other person the attention she or he deserves.
In this case she knew that he had given her some leverage unintentionally by forgetting her name and she as a witty young woman found interest in checking his communication-skills as self-proclaimed flirt-guru, because she wanted to watch him unwind from that disclosure.
That tension that built up she was probably both willing to take and to the same time not completely aware of initially, because by the end after him explaing the situation she nods almost unnoticeably whilst gently rocking forward with her body. People only do that when they feel bad, because they realize.
Sorry Jo...outright disrespect under guise of cheek here just doesn't fly. She was in full flight when she made her demands; her being demanding to have his response on her terms was nothing short of real. There was no recognition of boundaries on her part, especially as far as any regard for his sincerity and genuine attempt to help her in her query. Matthew was absolutely gracious to a woman who, quite frankly, didn't deserve it given her behavior towards him. Playing the woman-card on perogative here is outright insulting and disingenuous to a genuine and sincere attempt to mend the bridge between men and women in such situations when they engage each other.
Good on you, Matthew for being so composed and respecting the need to remain gentle in steering your audience and customer to what your message is.
If he flirted with me I'd die 😂 Or the whole place would be flooded...
ohdear5671 how about going to his trainings and giving it a try 😂
Flooded! Holy cow!
I suppose that answers the question will the world end in fire or ice :D
You might need a cork down there..... or a pad or somethin....
WELL, U STILL ARE AN UNEDUCATED, SELF DELUDED, CONDITIONED, SPITEFUL, DOUBLE STANDARD FEMALE THAT WOULD NOT EVER GRAVITATE TO "SOLID, NO BS MEN"... THAT FELLOW IS A GRADE A "PUSSEY".
With all due respect to Matthew, he is in the top 2-5% of guys, just look at the women in the room, pretty much all of them would jump at the chance to date him.
Much of what he says is true in how difficult it is for normal guys out there to start with
Are you saying he is selling these women a fantasy? It could not be. It is not like all the industry's that cater to women sell them a fantasy...
She's witty but she takes a slightly severe tone
she says she doesnt have a friendly face but I think that really means she doesnt have a friendly AURA
This video is very timely for me. It's easy to forget that none of us are perfect and it is actually quite warming for others to see us slow down and reflect. Thank you!
CORRECTION "The reason I decided to do the video anyway with my wet hair and tshirt is because I look WAY HOTTER if that's even possible" hahahahaha, Matt you're awesome!!!!!!!!!!!
agreed
why did she start yelling? he said 'let's go for a BEER', he didn't call her BRO.
Because her English is a bit broken. Her mother language is other than English. And in all of the excitement she heard and understood "bro" instead of "beer". Miscommunication rules a big part of our world. Unfortunately. We'd better get on our communication skills and get used to miscommunication as a normal every-day part of the reality and communication. Gosh! I have to write a book about it!
@@PsychologicalPoetryByElfe she is Indian
@@peacelover8913, thank you for taking the time to answer my message. I'm happy to hear from you, bro! :D
@@PsychologicalPoetryByElfe @S N no big deal bro.....i waste my time a plenty of times....😊👍
@@peacelover8913, I'm not a bro, but a lady :) ... And are you really some random bro, David Beckham or my ex stalking me? :D
as a guy I do like this guy's advice. but I reckon that some men are able to handle an abrasive woman if she can contrast it well enough and leave enough space for us to respond. But it does take a lot of confidence and self assuredness on our part to be able to do it.
Thats true. I told the guy I would slap the hell out of him. He got turned on lol
+trfrierson ahah is he sagittarius? :D My boyfriend gets turned on when I do anything agressive
+Fitspogirl yes he was a sag. hahahaha.
it is true, but if ur confident and self-assured, why would you want to be w/ a bitch?
i dotn think this indian chick is bitchy, her ego was just put on stage in front of a whole bunch of women, that's all. She actually looks fun to date.
collins mugodo, an aggressive woman will revert back to Witch, as soon as honeymoons over... RUN
In his defense, he wasn't directly expecting her name. Although it's always the norm to introduce yourself when you're asking a question. He was only expecting a question. And with that brief moment of introduction, it's so easy to miss it especially when you are in that very moment. It's not when you are actually asking "What's your name?" is the actual moment where you are expecting someone's name and take it to the heart. The fact that he recalled that she mentioned her name and ask her very politely to say them one more time, was him being attentive. You can't just have a go at someone when it was obviously an honest mistake. I'm pretty sure that a normal people would've answered that with just one word of their name and continue the conversation as if it was a normal conversation. I can't remember how many times I had to correct my name when someone mispronounce my name and I completely understand just because it's so hard to remember my name, since my name is so rare. On the contrary to that, whenever I met a person who remembered my name or know what my name means, just from me mentioning my name once, made me feel moved. Her having a go at him, is like trying to make an enemy out of everyone, when that person that she likes might genuinely trying to get to know her.
specially when it's an oddball name. I watched a video of people with REALLY foreign names complaining how people mispronounce them here in N/A. My full name is Michael and I've had SO many mispronunciations. MyKull, MYChull, all sorts of things, never took it to heart.
My last gf spelled her name Michele, she lost it when I spelled it Michelle in text. I said listen I've been spelling it with 2 L's for 50 years, give me a break.
Many of you didn't realize from the moment she said "I don't know Matthew" he was role playing as a guy trying to chat her up.
After, he gave her tips on how to be better at flirting because the whole "don't call me bro, I'll break your hand" stuff isn't attractive.
Its better to just say something like the example he gave.
Apart from that her energy is great and she seems great to talk too. But saying your going to break someone's hand is enough to make any guy only see you as a friend, cause only guy friends say stuff like that.
This is also why he said she is close to being able to get everything she wants as she has the correct charisma and personality to interact with men but needs to channel it into less aggressive flirting and more inviting flirting.
Just some awesome points!
This is no magic. He likes himself, I'm sure he likes the way he looks, and he has a huge female audience sitting in front of him that confirmes everything he thinks. All he needed to do is be flexible -> not get offended, sit it out (hence leaning on his leg for a bit saying nothing), keep his spirits up and wait for an opening to bring in an uplifting comment.
Now the Indian woman did have a charm I liked. She's honest, she can laugh, and she actually came for her question to be answered - so she was focussed. Not to mention she looks decently attractive. Now what turns me off as a guy? That vocal artillery fire. Lack of flexibility is NEVER attractive in a human, wether man or woman. Key is always making the best of every situation, not stomping on something because it didn't go the way you wanted. More than the information Matthew gave, his ATTITUDE (positivity/flexibility) was the actual lesson!
im learning things about myself, professionally speaking, from reading this comment! especially the "Key is always making the best of every situation, not stomping on something because it didn't go the way you wanted" part.
Mongool
hmmm, very interesting. I guess being chill and keep composure is really an attractive thing.
This guy nails it with the slight changes that women need to make when having a conversation with a man. Just those slight changes (from games and aggressiveness to sweet and inviting) is a world of difference. Most men will see and hear the signal, and dive right in
oh my gosh, this totally works!
I missed a call from a guy I'd talked to a few times. I called him back and quickly realized that he thought he was calling someone else, he said with the same name. I poked a little fun at him the said, "I'll let you make it up to me".
he chuckled and we agreed to talk again later.
while the next conversation started well, it quickly deteriorated (when he told me about his prior night's conquest and the size of his...package).
I tried to redirect the conversation with other scripts, I.e. " I think you have me confused with a future me who has been on many dates with you..." and a
comment about saving a naughty joke for a later conversation...
but in the end of decided I didn't want to pursue further interaction, but I think he has interpreted my reluctance as "try harder"
I'll keep these tools in my toolbox. total confidence boost! but I truly understand the need to promise to use the scripts for good, not to manipulate!
thanks Matthew! you are so much fun
I have a question for you my dearest dating advisor...
are we ever gonna see Jameson?
Who is jameson
@@barjonahbuxton3264 the camera guy
That GIRL. How could she miss that opportunity?
Elinor G simply because of her sexual frustration 😂😂
I know! He asked her out and then she blew it
he asked wrong, ive blown it with women who really iked me because i asked wrong !
Please, you dont believe it was a real opportunity, do you?
He wasn’t being serious i hope you know that
my face hurts from smiling. flirting with Matthew would make my day :)
Absolutely love how multidimensional your videos and content are, it really makes a difference, do keep them coming! :D
It’s so true... words and reaction can make it or break, it’s a matter of how you use them. Wish all the guys could be as wise as you are.
The reason why I made this video when I still have a wet hair because I'm handsome any way 😍😍
lmao ! exactly ! 😍
he's such a flirt ! bet jameson told him the girls would love his look and spontaneity of it !
ladyevenstar22 who's Jameson hahahaha his girlfriend?
So true love u man
Wow thank you so much. I haven't known about this "The First 5" and this was something I've been looking for Years.
I was always working on my way to communicate with people and always wanted to be more like these charismatic characters but couldn't really figure out the right way. Or to say it better it is a slow progress in wich I often find myself in places where I think I can't progress any further.
But I think this "First 5" really helps me to improve myself and my approach towards others.
Thank you so much I really almost started crying here because I am so greatful for this.
damn guy "it's so sexy when you say Matthew" 😂
it definitely is all about the millimeters. I've learned to turn the switch depending on the situation. You make sense Matthew, as usual. Silly woman didn't take your offer for a beer afterwards!😂 I would've been like, "yes, let's have a beer and chat later and see how you'll make it up to me". I'm so glad you do what you do Matthew!
Well hey, if it's all about the millimeters, then I'm your guy! ... I mean, you know... In a metaphorical sense.
Alright, I will see myself out.
I can so relate to Tanu. I have my guard up every second of the day and I reflect that in my interactions. I would really like to change that and make each and every interaction personable. I would especially like to learn to flirt with my husband of fifteen years because we have become complacent and ordinary I'm our relationship. I want to offer more. May I say "Thank you Mathew". I love your approach and the videos you make. It's struck a chord in me. ♡
It was kinda sexy to see you flirt with her I was blushing
Matt your generosity, big heart (and love for your bro) and commitment for "your mission" are very touching. Thank you. You deserve every single bit of your success for the hard work, preparation and personal magic of yours (which is not linked to what cereals you may or may not have eaten as a kid but rather to the great generous and humble person you are). The fact you were shy and not charismatic as a kid, makes it even more impressive. And by accepting to deliver this document, you have once again surpassed yourself. Wish you could be cloned.
You are amazing! And I’m mesmerized and soak up everything you say! Thank you Matthew
Thank you Tanu wherever you are for assisting us in learning from Matthew
Also thoughtId add. With men I've appreciated from your videos the advice of preparing or thinking ahead of time what to say. Being born with a communication disability you can probably imagine my struggle of not being able to get my words out. I think I gave up in that regard because I'd either be too forward in attempts to speak or not at all.
I'm happy now when I see someone I might be interested in I can be prepared with what to say. I think I get men. I understand what they need, how to keep a man happy and now I feel I am starting to understand the best way to communicate. Thank you Matthew for caring.
I really liked how you calmed her down by speaking gently...soothed her and I liked it.🧚♀️
But most men haven't got that skill. And I am sure he has got women queueing up for him so he can go from woman to woman (if he is inclined to).
She will only have the pick of those sort of men not the 80% of normal men is she is like that
2:58 she gives you the perfect opportunity for a response here, especially with her followup "you told me I was special when you gave me the mic" to answer her question... missed opportunity :(
She was a little angry
Kathryn1209 or don't know how to tease or banter with a guy.
Maybe we should go grab a beer.
Don’t you call me bro!
I'm a woman who doesn't need dating advice, but your response was so clever, wish I could have that EQ when interacting with others. We can all improve our communication skills, right? Subscribed!
Even if you have ADHD yes
Just because you said you don't need dating advice, you kind of repeated the same mistake of that Indian lady
@@Bthdk This needs some more explanation. I'm not needing dating advice because I've been in a long term relationship for some time already. So you need to explain where is the mistake....
@@Cloudyvi Just because you're in long term relationship, it doesn't mean you would be aware of the things you do. For example, if you are great with relationship, you would be aware of what he did there. What he showed is femininity that a lot of women forgot nowadays. It's not something clever. It's just the feminity and not confronting and getting even with everything. Fact is you wouldn't want your man to give you attitude instead of jokingly tease you about whatever you do wrong after a long day at work. And us men are aware of that too especially how most women feel so entitled and yas queen can do no wrong nowadays. The proof is the statement "happy wife happy life". A lot of women took this to their head as if it means they get to be the boss. No..... So perhapss, your relationship may work because your man is usually the one to compromise. I may be wrong, but this is the basic.
@@Bthdk Well, you actually have it all wrong. I'm the stay-at-home type, who makes sacrifices, believes relationship is a lot more important than career and fosters it the best one can.
Anyway, my point was NOT about my love relationship but rather interactions that I could have with other people in general, learning how to express my feelings in a more subtle way.
From what I can see about your response, I would say that you don't understand women and think you are right about your view on them. There are many different types of women and it's very important to actually try to find one that would match your values and habits.
I feel so much more empowered after watching your videos. You tell the cold hard truth I didn't want to hear. But boy I am thinking now.
In all honesty i thought of the cheekiest way but it wouldve gotten you out of that situation. You said that her voice was sexy. The way she said your name and dominated you had such a profound effect in you that you forgot her name. You get applause and you tell her to channel her emotions....
TBH, she was kidding around, I found it funny she said, you forgot my name but call me special.... come on, how can you not see that was funny? Once the audience started laughing she probably did go a little overboard with her humour, She can do without the threatening part when it comes to flirting/joking around. You might have to understand that where she comes from this humor is probably acceptable, it's a different culture to the western world, just like Europeans can be overly passionate sometimes too. So this might take her some time to unlearn some things she thought where acceptable growing up, however you can't take all she said as being bad either, I could see where she was trying to kid with you as well. God Bless
Jesus Coming Soon yea that's funny but the way she says it is like so... Ew
He was acting too, from the moment she said "I don't know Matthew" he was role playing as a guy trying to flirt with her.
All he did after was tell her how she could of done better to get a guy interested.
He's right tho because that "Don't call me bro I'll break your hand" stuff isn't attractive lol but apart from that and the shouting abit too much she seems really good to talk to and has great energy.
don't just don't make excuses for a person you don't even know.
Not everyone would catch it as a joke most of my sarcastic remarks are normally meant to be light-hearted but there were times strangers just wanted to punch me in the face just for that
Yeah Indian ladies are kinda 'tsundere' in their behavior to men they are attracted to
Honestly...who cares. This guy is brilliant! He is giving us the male perspective and I, for one, am learning a whole lot....yes...not just confident, but competent. Thank you, Mathew........and yes, like the way I say your name! :)
Fascinating ! Thank you. (only just discovered you and have watched many of your videos already - all very good; told my friends too) I've loved learning about human dynamics myself for years.
Tanu, "Don't you DARE call me bro, I BREAK YOUR HEAD, I PROMISE!" OMG! Does she even hear herself! Yikes. Because being a TOUGH GUY always works....So what he forgot her name, who friken cares, repeat it and move on...how immature...she has a heavy accent as well. EGO, EGO, EGO It was buried in her accent.
She's all set to demolish him in front of the entire audience instead of looking at herself for one second and think, "Mmm my accent may have thrown you off, and I speak fast..." Sorry about that, it's Tanu.
Gracious, HUMBLE, FEMININE, characteristically sexy. Irresistible!
That's gives him a lovely chance to say, "No, darling, you're brilliant, it's me with the hearing problem..."
And the dance begins. One being receptive and gentle, the other coming in to boost her up. And Vise versa. Not all this alpha female, bark, bark, bark at a guy technique.
I've only started watching his videos, and I've been wondering who he reminded me of. And now, I can see. There's a little bit of Tom Felton in that guy.
LadyPrincessDiana that's what I thought
he actually looks exactly like Ryan gosling
@LadyPrincessDiana You genius! That's who it is!!
Well, she might be a little socially awkward. But I think the reason why she berated him was because of the audience.
Bingo! Men want loving and nurturing women not passive aggressive bitches!
@Thelondonbadger your viewpoint is really interesting.
@Thelondonbadger You can't say the c word. Wrong. Everyone is entitled to have someone know their name!!
she wanted the "win" more than she wanted the man
what
This guy is Damn good. I just discovered him. I thought I was good but I'll admit, this guy is polished! Good job, sir
I have loved listening to your videos. Although I think on some things our views are completely opposite, I have appreciated the areas of common ground. I think because you are in a different "category" if you will, i find some of your views refreshing and authentic. As in "lets just get real" since so many think they have to be perfect to be effective. I am known for my transparency and that has challenged some but freed more people. So appreciate your transparency. And I think I've gained wisdom in how to better package my transparency.
You have given me some courage to begin stepping out in new ways both in ministry and begining a new dimension to what I do. You've helped me realize my passions and why they are all important - not only one. Even though for three years they have been haunting me. I think I've been too "religious" in a negative sense and forcing myself to think I can only be one dimensional.
if a woman starts screeching at me for just not rememering their name for a second, then i am out
Man kan tillate seg å si mye så lenge man tøyser og ikke er aggressiv..
@@Nord. hæ?
@@TheAndredal Jeg regner med at du skjønner norsk hvis du skriver "hæ"..
If he was ugly none of these women would care what he has to say.
+suvariboy waaaahhhh
+suvariboy LOL. its true.....
Cami Escam does that mean his facial symmetry
or the fact that he takes care of his body and keeps a decent style about him.
+suvariboy So would men if there was dating advice from an unattractive women.. He simply takes care of himself and naturally looks do give you chances of more experiences that's how life is.. I would listen to him too
s.b.'s jealous....
Wow that was an incredible exchange and he somehow nails the subtlety of what attracts a man to a woman short and long term.
thanks sooooooooo much for this. I really needed this as a tool. so timely. I was so stuck.
Whatever you learn in life is a technique, it then becomes natural... even the pronunciation of a word can be technical, until natural. ;) Keep Calm & Talk About. Simply Infiltrating Thought.
Nkosi Guduza so true
Matthew has the patience of an angel. That is something I lost at my age, but well... he is doing it for a living, so I don't wonder :-D
You're so good at public speaking!!!!! So inspiring!!!
the guide he's sharing it with us is really helpful, actually I'm using it for my job interview
Ok i'm almost halfway through "The First 5 Minutes"... and i'm dying!!!! LMAOOO
Your brother is just out here throwing major shade at you xD
The energy and reaction she gives the men who don't want her is the same energy the men she don't wants gives her. The reaction she wants from those men she desires is the same reaction the men who desire her wants. What she needs to do is understand this, see her own fault and her own double standard and give those guys who want her a chance since she knows how they feel when she tries and fails.
It's a value gap. She thinks she's more valuable than the guys who are approaching her and yet she doesn't realize she's not as valuable as the guys she's approaching. At some point she needs to adjust her expectations. Probably be the hardest thing she ever does
@@sullyjebs4039 Sully you nailed it.
@@sullyjebs4039 Exactly
@@sullyjebs4039 I'd say the guys who like her probably better than her as well actually
wow as soon as i finished the vídeo y downloaded the first five and read the ENTIRE thing. its amazing, so freaking helpful. i am a human resourses assistant and i think this techniques will help me a lot in my daily work. thank you so much for sharing this, its more helpful than you think. i think i love u more now that i know u put so much though to every single thing you do and say
I enjoyed this type of video you did , with you have the 'scene' and you running a play by play so to speak, was helpful
I've met foreign (non-American) women like her. A little agressive, but they don't realize there is a thin line between being a jerk and being funny. This can apply to men, women, and yes Americans. It's just something I've seen when dating.
this was so awkward, i had to stop the video multiple times.
Lili Sz I'm not the only one ! 😂
Seriously!! 😆
OK thanks I also dd dt
Same I'm cringing so hard
Same!
master class right there. He is very impressive, most would of gotten defensive but he took the situation as a spotlight that actually answered her question.
Such a great video! I can see why some people are still single. We take things personally.
I love his reaction "It's a tad forward" lol
Laughing because it wasn't a no either
This is such a good video, small detail makes a big difference! Your 'teachings' should be compulsory ♥
I have much respect for this guy and is a great example to men in general. I've seen channels about coaching men to be King's in their own life and not become the step dad to single mums because these woman are just after their money, they're damaged goods and men who always want a younger version of that woman and go as far to say they are used up and don't invest in these women. Though I agree there are women who may just be after "simp" men for their money, women are still people. Mothers are still people. In a round a bout way I'm trying to say this playfully articulate fellow letting as all know the correct way to find the happiness we want rather than putting a certain group of women down and encouraging men to run from them because they aren't worth their time. Not everybody asks for their situation in life whether it be good or bad and there's a danger of a strong male movement going against modern feminist women, like a pendulum being swung a hard left or right to come back to time where it eventually hits centre. We are all humans and still need help in understanding each other to get out of this men vs women mentality, give up and have to go abroad for your wife or a rich sugar daddy but have no love for
Best line of the whole video.... "I will find you". Nicely done.
You're the great, Matthew.
I love this! Always so helpful Matthew :)
Really appreciate your videos. Very respectful
I'm a 52-year-old man. I had a very intense argument with my Mom during my 2 week visit home. I've never cursed at my mom but "it went there". When I thought about it, she was giving off such masculine energy it was like I was talking to another guy. I apologized but said this to her: "I apologized to you because it was disrespectful and rude. I shouldn't have spoken to you like that because you are my mom. However, I did not feel as bad as I thought or should feel because when I actually said I felt like I was arguing with a dude. You were so in my face that the energy was so strong."
2:00 this is easy to answer with 99% certainty. Shes trying to get a partner that is out of her league and knocking back all the ones that are. 80% of women.
You can say the same about guys as well
Gonna be honest: not even really to font of redpill but you are right. She needs to generalize her attraction.
Her approach to things is witty, but to aggressive . If she wants those men she’s actually attracted to she’s gotta learn to tweak her wit. She kinda seems like she could be a tad bit socially awkward to the guys she’s trying to attract. This wouldn’t be a problem if she was a tad bit more calm, and frankly, a bit more humble.
Shes seems like sweet girl deep down, but she’s alright claiming about what her league is while she ain’t batting in it. Most people want somebody who isn’t too highly pretentious
this channel should be called: Matthew & Jameson ;)
As a straight man I find your stuff really valuable Matthew. I've done a lot of work on myself over the years, but none of that helps as much as understanding the person you're talking to. Thanks!
I watched your who should pay video and i have to say, you are on point thus far, lets see how much more you can hit it on the head.
you should do a video on settling. how do you know if you're settling?
When you have to ask yourself that question loool
I'm jealous of these types of people such as him, Milo Yianopoullous(sorry I spelt his name wrong), Ben Shapiro, Trey Goudy and comedians who use the audience as their own prop. All of them know what to say it, how to say it instantly at the whim of a few moments. It takes me a few days after I said something that would have made my comments so much better.
Jake Smith all three are just badasses to the max, even though they get tension sometimes we still The Right 👌
It's just experience. A LOT of it.
Love it!! Great advice! 😍
I want more of that showw!! wish i was there, it seems really helpful
Matthew, I'm a dude. But, you genuinely DO make me feel good about myself. I don't know how you do it. You have a way with words. You're brilliant. Keep it up.
I love that woman's tenacity.
All tenacity no forward momentum
Damn boy I just discovered you and I'm from the marketing world, so I can say you are a really good marketer with this "the first five minutes"
Downloaded and subscribed. Thank you!
she was just very sassy and bro like imo. the masculinity in her speech and expression made her seem unattractive.
I'm 19 and love is so confusing
Because 19 is not the right time to love
@superterorstar true that
do'nt let anyone disempower your emotions, whether you are 19,14 or 40, love is always unique to you and something powerful and intimite, your experiences with it are your own, they are personal to you, cherish them, no matter what
Remember this, love isn't emotion it's devotion. The Bible clearly states what love is supposed to be I don't know if you want to hear that or not. Just remember love requires equal devotion from both sides. By devotion I don't mean obsession or spending every moment of the day with each other. I mean building each other up not just for sexual tension fun but for support, pushing each other forward.
Kookie Squad 21 I mean yeah the guy at the top is correct, it is rare to find real genuine love at 19, but it's not impossible.
hahaha " I love when you said Matthew" 😂
Thank you Stephen.
Does anyone else think he looks like Daniel Radcliffe? (The guy who played Harry Potter)
nooo
+Matthew Rodriguez are you saying that because he's white, has a beard, and British? haha
+Matthew Rodriguez when i bought his book, the sales person said "He looks like Harry Potter & Justin Timberlake had a baby" ... so there you go
+Matthew Rodriguez I don't think he looks like Daniel Radcliffe, but I definitely think he sounds like him. Maybe they come from the same part of England.
Haven't thought about it in a long while, but I recollect scrolling back to his first few videos and thinking that he looked very Daniel Radcliffe-esque when I watched them. Something about the forehead or eyes maybe? He also dressed up as Harry Potter in a Halloween video once and commented in passing about how people said he resembled the film character, so apparently we aren't the only ones who've thought he looked like Radcliffe. I guess for some folks it's possible they just think so because he's English and they don't watch much content featuring English people, but I've watched loads of content from the UK for years and still thought so (in his earlier vids at least). Though it's a little bit harder for me to see the resemblance now that I've watched so many more of Matthew's videos.
Those two have chemistry in the making !
The woman who yelled "you shou'dve said my name could be whatever you want it to be" knew her stuff tbh
Nice document 👍 really helpful