Eating pasta with chopsticks in Italy and this happened…


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  • Sam Thomas
    Sam Thomas Před 14 dny +243979

    Him feeding you is the most Italian thing about this clip

    • Locopa
      Locopa Před 14 dny +1706

      That is definitely normal 👍

    • Reno51
      Reno51 Před 14 dny +1210

      ⁠@Catia Tomasit’s rude but it ain’t racism hahah nob ed

  • Emily Boo Boo
    Emily Boo Boo Před 2 dny +6282

    Italian waiters really are a different breed. Mine loaded us all up with pasta then proceeded to sing an opera while his co-waiter just randomly whipped out a piano and started playing. Shit was W I L D.

    • art3mide
      art3mide Před 2 dny +33

      Most waiters in Italy don't do those things.

    • Emily Boo Boo
      Emily Boo Boo Před 2 dny +60

      @art3mide I know, it was definitely odd. It was in Venice

    • Matas K.
      Matas K. Před 2 dny +45

      I think you already know, but I must say, it sounds like a fever dream, but because it’s Italy I actually believe you

    • MetalizedButt
      MetalizedButt Před 2 dny +18

      How does one whip out a piano do you know how big those things are

    • Eric Furtah
      Eric Furtah Před 2 dny +3


  • Justin Mayhew
    Justin Mayhew Před 2 dny +2194

    i love how he said "no!". Hes a proud Italian

    • that dude
      that dude Před 17 hodinami +9

      Or he hates china 😂 one or the other. But italy wouldnt have spices without china

    • Justin Mayhew
      Justin Mayhew Před 15 hodinami +10

      What? No I just think he respects his own culture and would expect someone else to respect that culture. It's nothing about what they look like

    • SO CHF
      SO CHF Před 12 hodinami +1

      Are you serious? 😤😤😤😤

    • Jester Party
      Jester Party Před 3 hodinami

      ​@Justin Mayhew "not what they look like" as if the guy didn't just assume the other guy was "chinese" also what "culture" cause from history. Italians though tomatos were poisonous until recently.

  • Margaret Lucia
    Margaret Lucia Před 5 dny +11064

    That “no” was the most Italian thing I’ve ever heard 😂😂

    • Bruno Carlson aka 2guh
      Bruno Carlson aka 2guh Před 4 dny +20


    • Brian Garon
      Brian Garon Před 4 dny +14

      "No" is not a word I want to hear from a server, and if he even tried this feeding he would take the rest of the pasta back in his mouth and ask for a new plate of it

    • Morne Diablo
      Morne Diablo Před 4 dny +5

      ​@Brian Garonya he definitely wasnt gonna feed me

    • Thommaz
      Thommaz Před 4 dny +2

      ​@Brian Garonthis right here... couldnt have said it better

    • Bob The Giga
      Bob The Giga Před 4 dny +2

      Bro lucky the Mafia didn't
      pull up

  • Djabrail Gandaloev
    Djabrail Gandaloev Před 2 dny +804

    "you are not in china" 💀💀💀💀
    bruh stop beefing guys

    • Bunji Jumper
      Bunji Jumper Před dnem +28

      chopsticks originaated in China.
      Hate to break it to you.

    • vanessa michaels
      vanessa michaels Před dnem +23

      @Bunji Jumper I just don't think that guy is chinese. I think he's like korean or japanese and sounds and looks like he's lived a lot of his life in california.

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před dnem +34

      @vanessa michaelsdoesn’t matter where he’s from, because the Italian man was referring to the chopsticks, not the race of the guy.

    • Aeriya Valkyrja
      Aeriya Valkyrja Před dnem +11

      @That1guystudiosnah this is ignorance just like I’m USA when people say all Asians look the same

    • Sir Gawain
      Sir Gawain Před dnem +8

      ​@Aeriya ValkyrjaBruuuh how can the man know? he should ask first? Japanese Chinese Korean look alike at some point. Stop making everything like its A big problem
      Im asian myself

  • Heisenberg
    Heisenberg Před dnem +969

    Bro woke up and chose violence with the "you're in Italy, you're not in China"

    • Paige
      Paige Před dnem +31

      not really, italians are less sensitive about that kinda stuff.

    • Heaven Blakes
      Heaven Blakes Před dnem +18

      It’s not a canceling thing…it’s just Italy. He means no harm…other countries do the same thing wanting you to embrace where you’re visiting while there

  • striking
    striking Před 6 dny +23387

    “ you are in italy, you are not in china “
    dude violated him 💀💀

    • 🌈InstaGay : HarryFreeHugs
      🌈InstaGay : HarryFreeHugs Před 6 dny +7

      Pasta from China tho, brought by Marcopolo, even Pizza from ScalionPancake ✌️ btw he's Korean

    • Joel White
      Joel White Před 6 dny +130

      Dude did not even stop when steam coming off of wtf i dont want to visit

    • crank fastle
      crank fastle Před 6 dny +131

      it would end in an arrest or violence. don't touch my plate.

  • ROU_lex
    ROU_lex Před dnem +72

    I just love he said "no" in the most monotone voice twice pointing at him like he's a dog 🤣🤣🤣

  • Kindarlie Jennipher Paul
    Kindarlie Jennipher Paul Před dnem +78

    My fellow Americans, I promise he was not being rude. If anything, he was very caring and probably thought the gentleman didn’t know how to use a fork. 😅
    I know that, in American standards, he seems rude and racist, but that’s because we are more sensitive than a lot of other cultures.
    If you wanna travel, you must be ready to experience people the way they are and keep an open mind about what’s rude or not.

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před dnem +7


    • elc
      elc Před dnem +19

      Lmao except is grade A snobbery and is the opposite of inclusive. It’s by definition xenophobic. Who’s being victimized by him eating it with chop sticks?

    • Sigyn Regn
      Sigyn Regn Před dnem +6

      ​@elcso many buzz words so little understanding. Il give you mine:
      Respects that and then come back to ask respect for your values.
      Before you'll mix Italians with mud, I'll tell you I'm polish.

    • lost soul
      lost soul Před dnem +9

      @elcexactly. And even aside from the racist/xenophobic angle, it’s just rude to tell someone how to eat, or interrupt a stranger when eating (or really in general if there’s no good reason for it) in general. Like mind your own business. It’s not your food so get the fuck over it.

  • Grace Cee
    Grace Cee Před 14 dny +28773

    “You are in Italy, you are not in China”
    “Dude…I’m from Detroit”

  • Cynical Americano Redux
    Cynical Americano Redux Před 2 dny +55

    agressively wholesome

  • Tyche Lotus
    Tyche Lotus Před 3 dny +15

    “ you’re in Italy, not China” UHM excuse you?!

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 37 minutami

      My guy he was referring to the chopsticks, which originated in china. If you can’t handle the culture, don’t go to the country. If the man eating the noodles didn’t want to use a fork to eat pasta or his food being touched, (which are both very normal things in Italy) then he shouldn’t have gone to Italy.

  • SoLocal
    SoLocal Před 15 dny +31334

    New fear unlocked: being force fed by an Italian

    • meeep
      meeep Před 15 dny +703

      sounds about right, they take food very seriously there

    • * Starlight *
      * Starlight * Před 15 dny +316

      That's why I was fat as a child, being italian truly is all about food 😂

    • Kety Faina
      Kety Faina Před 15 dny +121

      We do this to children to teach them proper table manners 🤣

    • Who's that girl?
      Who's that girl? Před 14 dny +84

      Fear? Oh please 🤣. Get out more!

  • Kendra Marsh
    Kendra Marsh Před 2 dny +26

    Couldn't be me. That was so damn rude and he handled it great

    • KeemWillDoIt
      KeemWillDoIt Před dnem +3

      How’s it rude ?

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před dnem +8

      How you eat food in Italy is a very big part of the food in that culture, and eating it in that was can be considered extremely disrespectful. It’s like if someone cooked you a world class meal and you just picked it up with your hand and smashed it into your mouth, getting half the food down your face. It’s disrespectful to the culture of the man who made the dish.

    • Joel Williams
      Joel Williams Před dnem +8

      @That1guystudios THANK YOU! This woman and so many other people in this comment section act like its rude; IT'S NOT RUDE. YOU GUYS ARE IDIOTS. This waiter saved the day. People are OVERLY SENSITIVE AND PATHETIC, nowadays.

  • atomixfang
    atomixfang Před 3 dny +10

    When traveling to Japan I never had once an obnoxious person telling me how I should be eating stuff.

    • normal
      normal Před 17 hodinami

      because you aren't allowed to become a citizen or own property there, and when your travel/work visa expires, the immigration police, which actually exists and is funded, will find you and throw you out the border, as such, japanese people don't need to worry as much about you
      i hope this helps

    • Melon Melon
      Melon Melon Před 13 hodinami

      @normalit was meant as a compliment dude, chill 🤣

    • Ian Farris
      Ian Farris Před 12 hodinami

      ​@normalyes you are, what part of Japan do you live in and where did you get this information?

    • normal
      normal Před 3 hodinami

      @Ian Farris I could just say "Google," but: There are tens, if not hundreds of vloggers here on CZcams who actually live, or have lived in Japan. Most return home after around a decade. They all say the same thing in the end. It's the same for China, Korea, Vietnam, Thailand, etc. Most Asian countries. Most countries on Earth that aren't part of the EU or North America, actually.

  • yes sure
    yes sure Před 14 dny +26375

    as an Italian I can’t wait to be chopstick-fed by an asian waiter

    • Art
      Art Před 13 dny +523

      I dont think they would do that, but they would be surprise a foreigner can use chopsticks so well.

    • Woofy coconut
      Woofy coconut Před 13 dny +68

      But in India they wouldn’t do that they use spoons and forks

    • Lee Anthony Santiago
      Lee Anthony Santiago Před 13 dny +227

      That’s the thing i’m trying to point out to the commenter here who seem irritated lol 90% of asians won’t randomly approach you and correct you like how the italian did in the video. They simply let you do your business and if not, they will make sure to teach you in a nice way not force feed you.
      I might just be a little sensitive but if I were in the asian guy’s position, that would have made me feel embarrassed.

    • Germán Carbone
      Germán Carbone Před 13 dny +18

      ​@Art u didnt get it did you

  • Bryant Wheat
    Bryant Wheat Před 3 dny +59

    Hospitality in it's finest, simply one culture experiencing another, acknowledging it and showing their own. Bravo to all in the video for being accepting of one another.

    • John Smith
      John Smith Před 3 dny +23

      I really can't tell if you're trolling/being sarcastic. He told chopsticks boy hey you can't do that here, this is my country my culture use a fork

    • Bryant Wheat
      Bryant Wheat Před 3 dny +4

      @John Smith you just called him "chopstick boy" btw. 🤣🤣

    • Pyr0nus
      Pyr0nus Před 2 dny +16

      I would find this experience pretty invasive and patronizing tbh :P

    • jess s
      jess s Před 2 dny +5

      i'm not sure what video you watched but the server here was rude as hell

  • Salty Cat
    Salty Cat Před 2 dny +20

    You don't mess with Italians and their traditions man. They take that as a serious offense lol. I lived with in an Italian neighborhood for almost 5 yrs, they are a very bold and traditional people. Very clean too. Loved them.

    • that dude
      that dude Před 17 hodinami +3

      If you tell italians tomatoes arent originally italian will their heads explode? 😂

    • that dude
      that dude Před 17 hodinami +1

      China birthed italian cuisine and traditions basically 😂

    • Martin
      Martin Před 6 hodinami

      Didn’t realize a fork is a so-called tradition 😂

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 48 minutami

      @that dude source?

  • James A
    James A Před 8 dny +3505

    Italy hack: Show up with chopsticks, and people will feed you.

    • jhanks2012
      jhanks2012 Před 8 dny +35

      in italy they call this "Sharing the local culture" in america if this happened the liberal Karens would call him racist and insensitive

    • DeadBoltZz
      DeadBoltZz Před 8 dny +5

      ​@jhanks2012yep because how else would you keep your culture going?

    • TheAnnoyingBoss
      TheAnnoyingBoss Před 8 dny +3

      Italians have a habir of feeding yih esspecially bite sized dessert type pasteries

    • Gemma Williams
      Gemma Williams Před 8 dny

      Hahahahaha yessss!!! 😂😂😂

  • KJHS_237
    KJHS_237 Před dnem +3

    You're lucky that they didn't call the Pasta Police Department 😂😂😂

  • Stolen Password
    Stolen Password Před 10 hodinami +2

    Italians are a treasure

  • Phaethon Prime
    Phaethon Prime Před 13 dny +6989

    I've never heard a "No" so firmly shut down a conversation.

    • Sanela
      Sanela Před 13 dny +56

      Very European

    • Hiroshi' YT
      Hiroshi' YT Před 13 dny +22

      ​@Saneladamn, that's so true but still.. Damn

    • Lú zī
      Lú zī Před 13 dny +2


    • æ
      æ Před 13 dny +8

      The way he goes "Did you just-"

  • Alex Yi
    Alex Yi Před 8 hodinami +1

    The waiter we all need

  • Mike
    Mike Před 12 hodinami +3

    Italian guy: This is how you eat spaghetti.
    Asian guy: You stole our noodles and put tomato sauce on it called it "Spaghetti"?
    I still wanna use my chopstick😅

  • Pixiebubbles
    Pixiebubbles Před 8 dny +2905

    The finger gesture, the force feeding, the NO, the pasta, a very Italy moment

    • Michelle Johnson
      Michelle Johnson Před 7 dny +5

      @Pixiebubbled 😅Yeah. His Italian uncle saved him!

    • Brandon Yo
      Brandon Yo Před 7 dny +7

      Sounds very intrusive and disrespectful

    • Broski_2
      Broski_2 Před 7 dny +3

      ​@Brandon YoIt would be more disrespectful to not let the Italian man do that

    • A W
      A W Před 7 dny +9

      Very disrespectful and condescending

    • Leo B.
      Leo B. Před 7 dny +5

      Don‘t forget the racism

  • Jalbiin Dolcheey
    Jalbiin Dolcheey Před 16 hodinami +2

    I know he was probably Italian but that was still extremely rude. Kudos to the guy for being so chill about it.

  • artixicy
    artixicy Před dnem +10

    “you are not in china” bro is speaking facts 😭😭

    • Tammy
      Tammy Před 19 hodinami +8

      But.. the man is Korean and more than half the world uses chopsticks, not just China. A bit of an asshole thing to say. Also, who cares? The man grew up using chopsticks and I'm sure he can handle a fork, but I'm not sure anyone would insist someone use chopsticks in Korea (or "cHiNA!") instead of a fork if they are just happily enjoying their meal in a restaurant.

  • LappenLuca26
    LappenLuca26 Před 10 dny +4790

    He is now family. He won't go away. He will always be there

  • Crystal Y
    Crystal Y Před 3 dny +3

    Imagine this guy said the same to a black American "we are in Italy, not in Nigeria." Casual racism at its finest.

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 48 minutami

      He was referring to the chopsticks which originated in china, he didn’t care what race the man eating was.

  • Papa Swamp
    Papa Swamp Před 3 dny +3

    I’m American. Don’t care if I’m in another country, you touch my food after I have paid for it and it’s in front of me, your gettin told to fuck off and potentially throwing hands depending how much further they want to go😂

    • Chiara Ruocco
      Chiara Ruocco Před 5 hodinami

      For that reason in Italy the bill is paid at the end of the meal. While you are eating, the food is still ours😂

    • Papa Swamp
      Papa Swamp Před 5 hodinami +1

      @Chiara Ruocco come to America while I force feed you cheeseburgers and a beer bong while singing Johnny cash to you. Lmk if your interested? I can set this up. Before or after the bill😂either way🤦🏻‍♂️😂

  • Cosmic Folks
    Cosmic Folks Před 7 dny +7034

    “You are in Italy , not china””……”sir , I’m Korean” 😂

    • KidBaklava504
      KidBaklava504 Před 7 dny +41

      Sounds like a Bobby Lee podcast 😂😂😂

    • Hockey Girl
      Hockey Girl Před 7 dny +138

      Definitely a racist statement. He wouldn’t of told me that. He knows where he is here he is putting money into the Italian economy, and patronizing his restaurant, yet he’s going to be harassed because he chooses to eat food the way his ancestors have eaten food for centuries. You can’t sell somebody food and then tell them how to eat…. I feel some kind of way

    • TA Soma
      TA Soma Před 7 dny +188

      @Hockey Girlthe world before his joke: 🌍
      the world after: 🌍

    • Trewazo
      Trewazo Před 7 dny +73

      @Hockey Girl or the more reasonable explanation is that he confused the English word for Asia with China or just assumed he was Chinese because most Asians tourists that visit Italy are from the PRC. Not everything is racist or connected to racism.

    • Hockey Girl
      Hockey Girl Před 7 dny +3

      @TA Soma yep, you’re right, nobody cares.

  • Nov 💫
    Nov 💫 Před dnem +2

    He was 1 step away before being the most disturbing criminal in Italy

  • Eleonor Kola
    Eleonor Kola Před 2 dny +2

    In Italy they take it seriously and it's normal for someone to do this or look at you badly. In Italy it's as if it were a tradition to judge those who don't eat food seriously, especially pizza.

  • karla Knapper
    karla Knapper Před 10 dny +3839

    That waiter was offended.

    • Alberto Alfaro
      Alberto Alfaro Před 10 dny +10

      😂 yeah with Chinese lol not Asia 😅

    • Lavender
      Lavender Před 10 dny +9

      no racist

    • Commander Cody
      Commander Cody Před 10 dny

      I am to use a fork

    • KexMex
      KexMex Před 10 dny +8

      LOL no he wasn't
      The waiter just felt bad for the guy
      Nobody use's chopsticks at an Italian Restaurant, unless their psycho or foreign.

  • OK_Toker69
    OK_Toker69 Před 3 dny +1

    “You’re not in China” bro doesn’t even know if he’s Chinese

  • pruloveu2
    pruloveu2 Před 17 hodinami +7

    So adorable, him being fed! 😍😍😍

    • Martin
      Martin Před 6 hodinami

      Shit wasn’t adorable tbf it was awkward weird as hell too

  • ArpYT-AkiraRainPelt
    ArpYT-AkiraRainPelt Před 14 dny +7474

    Bro just got hand fed by a random Italian

  • Red
    Red Před 2 dny +4

    “You are in Italy NOT in China” man’s was violated 😂 and that first ✨NO☝🏽✨ was the most italian thing I’ve ever heard as a pure blood Dago ☠️

  • Melem Demel
    Melem Demel Před 2 dny +2

    I think the waiters in Italy are just like that. They know you aren’t from there so they want to give you an authentic experience. I saw a video where a woman wanted a certain drink with her pasta but that’s not traditional so the waiter intentionally waited for her to finish the pasta then to give her the drink. I really think he just wanted you to do it the way they do it because you went there to enjoy their stuff bc it’s unique it it’s own why. The saying is “when in Rome” which literally means when you’re in someone else’s homeland you do as they do. I don’t think he meant it in a racist way but it was an educational encounter. If you can’t learn from the culture you’re visiting then why be there.

  • Rafael AKA Yuco
    Rafael AKA Yuco Před 10 dny +5767

    When I was in Japan struggling to eat noodles with chopsticks one of the cooks came out and gave me a fork. Really nice of him.

    • Fatima Garabandal
      Fatima Garabandal Před 10 dny +145

      Yeah, but you at least tried to eat Japanese food, in Japan, as Japanese do - because of that respect he offered you a fork out of respect for you. This guy decides he's going to pull out chopsticks to eat noodles that are far too long and saucy which means he would have had his face in his food slurping and sucking up noodles - an arrogant and unnecessary move that resulted in bad manners in a nice restaurant and possibly annoying people at the next table.

    • Jan Holik
      Jan Holik Před 10 dny +11

      You could've asked for cutlery though 😅 coz frankly, it's unnecessary to eat spaghetti with chopstix. It might also be considered ignorant rude 🤷🏻‍♂️😄

    • Rafael AKA Yuco
      Rafael AKA Yuco Před 10 dny +90

      @Fatima Garabandal if it's OK for a man to wear a dress and call himself Samantha then its ok for a man to eat how ever he wants.

    • Fatima Garabandal
      Fatima Garabandal Před 10 dny +18

      @Rafael AKA Yuco It's not okay.

    • wrongthinker
      wrongthinker Před 10 dny +2

      Would have been better if he showed you how to use chopsticks.

  • Tayvierr
    Tayvierr Před 2 dny +1

    This is one handsome lad.

  • D P
    D P Před 22 hodinami +8

    Bravo to you for handling this situation better than I would have. You were so kind. (I might have caused a scene)
    And let’s all give a huge shout out to the racist waiter who assumed that you are Chinese and for violating your personal space 😒😒😒

  • c4yourself
    c4yourself Před 11 dny +5283

    The Italian going "Mmmm" as he feeds it to him is the funniest part.

    • Crystal Borne
      Crystal Borne Před 11 dny +18

      I think it was the Asian who said "mmmm".

    • kas
      kas  Před 11 dny +16

      @Crystal Borneyeah honestly it does sound like he did it but I’m just gonna imagine it was the Italian guy for comedic purposes and to make me chuckle

    • Medz
      Medz Před 11 dny +4

      @kas lmao

    • Amaya Brelyn
      Amaya Brelyn Před 3 dny

      the Italian didn't say "mmm"...

  • Blue Link
    Blue Link Před dnem +1

    Every time i see someone breaking the pasta law i get an urge to fight

  • Jeevan N
    Jeevan N Před 7 hodinami +1

    The way my guy said ‘NO. NO’ 💀💀💀💀

  • leen maher
    leen maher Před 12 dny +4172

    The assertive NO is the most hilarious thing 😂😂

  • La Calandra
    La Calandra Před dnem +12

    Haha i love Italians 😂❤❤

  • That1guystudios
    That1guystudios Před dnem +4

    How you eat food in Italy is a very big part of the food in that culture, and eating it in that was can be considered extremely disrespectful. It’s like if someone cooked you a world class meal and you just picked it up with your hand and smashed it into your mouth, getting half the food down your face. It’s disrespectful to the culture of the man who made the dish.

    • Those GMV Guys
      Those GMV Guys Před dnem +1

      He was using a utensil made for eating food. Get over it. Its not disrespectful, and your comparison makes no sense. I swear, people who get this upset over how SOMEONE ELSE chooses to enjoy their food will forever baffle me.

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 7 hodinami

      @Those GMV Guys I wouldn’t go to your house and piss in your sink because I piss in my sink at my own house and it doesn’t matter what pipes it takes because it all winds up in the same place

  • mc_the_simp
    mc_the_simp Před 13 dny +6250

    The waiter even fed him, like that's some good customer service-

    • End Olives
      End Olives Před 13 dny +26

      If you happen to have an extra cromossome

    • Ch1cken Phat
      Ch1cken Phat Před 13 dny +18

      ​@End Olivesway over your head bud

    • Kristin Landers
      Kristin Landers Před 13 dny +14

      Yes they go the extra mile in Italy and other parts of the world! I watched a vid of a restaurant in Turkey and the chef or server came out and cut open the man's bread bowl or whatever it was and then fed him the first bite and I would love to get to experience that!

    • End Olives
      End Olives Před 13 dny

      @Ch1cken Phat ?

    • End Olives
      End Olives Před 13 dny +20

      @Kristin Landers Why would you want someone to feed you your food tho. Thats like something you should be ashamed since youre not a toddler and a grown adult. Generally the concept of being told how to eat your own food that youre probably paying top dollar for is very intrusive and annoying. I dont mind a chef displaying how he thinks the food is best eaten. But to go that far as to direcly feed the client i think its just disgusting, intrusive and weird. I wouldnt like that to be done to me, my girlfriend, my mother or anyone whatsoever LOL. Perhaps if it happened to a friend it would be funny, but thats as far as it goes.

  • 𝓢𝓸𝓶𝓮𝓸𝓷𝓮:]
    𝓢𝓸𝓶𝓮𝓸𝓷𝓮:] Před 14 hodinami +1

    as an italian, I can confirm that the guy was 101% right

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 46 minutami

      Thank you man, finally someone understands traditions

  • J P
    J P Před 3 dny +14

    So true. I don’t drink and when we were in Italy I still ordered a glass of wine with every meal. Don’t need that kinda heat while on vacation.

    • Sabari's Universe
      Sabari's Universe Před 2 dny +2

      You’re pushing it. No one is going to force a drink on you in Italy.

    • jess s
      jess s Před 2 dny +5

      i would get pressed if a server told me how to eat. sorry sir are YOU paying for it? no? then mind your business

    • J P
      J P Před dnem

      @jess s I think they would argue you are in their country so best respect their traditions

    • Draxxy
      Draxxy Před hodinou

      ​@J PRespect is also a noteworthy thing to keep in mind, and the italian person was anything but respectful

    FIONA Před 12 dny +3043

    He basically said “don’t piss me off” as nice as an Italian could

    • Rio Reason
      Rio Reason Před 12 dny +59

      Italian for “let me help you learn our customs by force so you don’t embarrass yourself.” It’s all in good faith. Aggressive friendliness is tradition in that whole region.

    • Puri Tech
      Puri Tech Před 12 dny +18

      @Rio Reason I guess the whole "when in Rome" thing applies quite literally here haha

    • Björn Neusser
      Björn Neusser Před 12 dny +2


    • Night Gnomez
      Night Gnomez Před 12 dny

      Yep lol

    • Protap Sen
      Protap Sen Před 10 dny +7

      So when you are in China and in some restaurant if they ask you only to use CHOPSTICK then what would be the reaction of a person from the WEST?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Scooby Snax
    Scooby Snax Před 23 hodinami +1

    Ok, but imagine going up to a tourist eating East Asian food with a fork or spoon and the waiter comes and says ‘No, you are in (country name). You must use chopsticks’.
    Or in parts of South Asia ‘no, you must use your hands’.

  • Jesse S
    Jesse S Před 3 hodinami

    Omg this is why I love Italy. They are an awesome country

  • Rio
    Rio Před 13 dny +1864

    Meanwhile, Italians here in Japan are asking for fork.

    • Buffet Barbie
      Buffet Barbie Před 13 dny +129

      Tell them no. 😂

    • Wu Shan
      Wu Shan Před 13 dny +276

      “No. No. You are in Japan, you are not in Italy.”

    • iCazZiStronZi
      iCazZiStronZi Před 13 dny +30

      Well who tf eats with sticks. Thats why they give the option to use a fork because even you guys know its stupid 😂

    • Tu Teca
      Tu Teca Před 13 dny +115

      Sticks are actually so multifunctioning and SO COOL💥💥💯

  • black neko
    black neko Před 2 dny +1

    It's actually true, never try to eat Italian pasta with chopsticks, or I think they would probably kick you out if you do this 😂

  • tophielatte21
    tophielatte21 Před 2 hodinami

    the co worker literally had to teach you how to eat pasta 😂

  • miniminitimes
    miniminitimes Před 13 dny +18987

    Italians take their food, more serious than anybody else that I’ve ever seen

    • Chengs House
      Chengs House Před 13 dny +430

      They do. They are just butthurt people. Speaking from experience.

    • Cowflick
      Cowflick Před 13 dny +360

      @Chengs Houseyour “speaking from experience” probably means you went to an italian restaurant once

    • Nicy577
      Nicy577 Před 13 dny +97

      Honestly I don’t think this is about the food but more of a “you’re Asian” so I’m going to force you to my ways.

    • Chengs House
      Chengs House Před 13 dny +220

      @Cowflick No, my ex was Italian. I was in Italy and you can find enough videos of Italians in the comment sections being butthurt because someone made his own twist of Carbonara.

    • Paolo Carpi
      Paolo Carpi Před 13 dny +22

      @Nicy577 Yours is called prejudice.

  • CandyCane
    CandyCane Před dnem +2

    From a person who is obsessed with spaghetti, I am not eating that small ass piece💀💀

  • Brittiany Ringer
    Brittiany Ringer Před 5 hodinami

    Because in Italy food is a love language and your chop sticks can't fill your mouth as much as a fork! The bite he gave was a compliment to the chef.❤

  • Jaydyn Pasa
    Jaydyn Pasa Před 9 dny +9890

    Bro really said “your not in china”💀

    • bloodyMutt
      bloodyMutt Před 8 dny +28


    • Stephy Dash
      Stephy Dash Před 8 dny +139

      He’s Korean tho

    • ครtгเԃ 𝔇гєкคԃ๏́ttเг, 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐿𝒶𝓈𝓉 𝒟𝓇𝒶𝑔𝑜𝓃
      ครtгเԃ 𝔇гєкคԃ๏́ttเг, 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐿𝒶𝓈𝓉 𝒟𝓇𝒶𝑔𝑜𝓃 Před 8 dny +199

      Yes, because it's a cultural offense and disrespect to eat spaghetti with anything but a fork. That's how Italians are period. Don't like it? Too bad, it's not your dish to whine over, it's their dish. They are infamous for it. They decide how you do their things in their country. You don't have to visit or eat their food. :D

    • AliceIlBradipo
      AliceIlBradipo Před 8 dny +67

      it wasn't a comment with malicious intent... it's difficult for older Italians to recognize the various Asian populations, so if they see someone with "typical" Asian features they immediately think of China... among the younger ones it's possible that there are more sensitivity but it still remains difficult to recognize between one country and another...
      (google translate)

    • Hashem Hashem
      Hashem Hashem Před 8 dny +230

      @ครtгเԃ 𝔇гєкคԃ๏́ttเг, 𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝐿𝒶𝓈𝓉 𝒟𝓇𝒶𝑔𝑜𝓃That sounds totally toxic. Its my food, I paid for it and its going into my stomach. If someone tells me how to eat my food then I’ll tell them how to piss off.

  • Orelllyy
    Orelllyy Před 10 hodinami

    “you’re not in china” is wilddd 😭😭😭

  • Sxgar
    Sxgar Před 9 hodinami +1

    Bro was so mad he got a fork and showed u how to eat pasta and said “ this isn’t china”

  • Mysterious
    Mysterious Před 26 dny +21717

    Tha passive aggressive "No" got me 😭

    • Katelyn Boothe
      Katelyn Boothe Před 22 dny +211

      I dont think you understand what passive aggressive means

    • Francesco Chiarinelli
      Francesco Chiarinelli Před 22 dny +28

      “Aggressive” learn to smile mate…..

    • yappycakes
      yappycakes Před 22 dny +21

      That Rotten cheese Italian got on my nerves when he fed him using his dirty fork and and called the Asian guy racistly 😢

    • Florinda Reitano
      Florinda Reitano Před 21 dnem +32

      He was not racist...he was boor thinking to be funny. If he was racist he would never get so close to him. He doesn't know how important is to be polite, how asian people are private. I think he loves to be friendly with costomers...but he doesn't know people are different.

    • Cult Boy
      Cult Boy Před 21 dnem +28

      @yappycakes get over it, ya crybaby
      He literally taught him how to eat pasta with a fork

  • Justin Guarino
    Justin Guarino Před dnem +2

    It’s a cultural thing. You don’t want Americans going to China and using their chopsticks and digging through the center food or taping on the table. Don’t be disrespectful when you go to Italy 🤷‍♂️. Italians speak their mind, so don’t fuck up.

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 25 minutami

      This is correct, and people need to stop being so sensitive about things. It’s their culture, so deal with it.

  • H34RT
    H34RT Před 19 hodinami +1

    Honestly he has every right to correct you. If ur going to another country and u use ur way to eat the same way u ate in ur country, it's kinda disrespectful to the other countries. Most of them don't care, like eat the way u want, but Italians do care, and they will correct u

  • 틐😼
    틐😼 Před 14 dny +6636

    “you are in italy not in china”

    • maria pilar
      maria pilar Před 14 dny +8


    • Lea
      Lea Před 14 dny +37

      He is korean

    • who asked
      who asked Před 14 dny +27

      @Leachopsticks originate in China tho

    • 틐😼
      틐😼 Před 14 dny +4

      @Lea yeah i know i just repeated what the waiter said lol

    • 实在哈哈
      实在哈哈 Před 14 dny +32

      ​@who askedno just chopsticks. Chinese invented noodles itself. Archeologist has found the oldest noodle relics in China dating back 4000 years ago. Some say it was the Macro Polo who brought noodles via silk road to Italy which later became nowdays Pasta😅

  • Poppa_Badger's Cave
    Poppa_Badger's Cave Před 2 dny +1

    You have to be respectful of the cultures and practices of the country and the people who live there. This respectful waiter is merely correcting a mistake that could be taken as offensive. Many Italians would have not been so nice.👍🏻🙂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 12 minutami

      This is entirely correct. He didn’t get mad at him and ask him to leave the restaurant, he just created a learning experience out of it and taught the man about his culture, which was absolutely the right thing to do.

  • Señor Gui Gui
    Señor Gui Gui Před hodinou

    I love how Italians love and demand respect for their culture especially at home!

  • Cameren T
    Cameren T Před 10 dny +4157

    “No” “you are not in China”💀

  • Snickers
    Snickers Před hodinou +1

    praise this man for teaching this toddler to use a fork

  • Makveldz
    Makveldz Před 12 dny +3808

    Italians are straight forward when it comes to pasta and i love it

    • Parabellum Invicta
      Parabellum Invicta Před 12 dny +21

      @Miro same can be said about your opinion WHO CARES.

    • Thomas Roll
      Thomas Roll Před 12 dny +23

      I think it's racist

    • avanabrine
      avanabrine Před 12 dny +4

      ​@Thomas Rollhe was eating them with chopsticks ofc he will teach him basic etiquette of pasta

  • lola
    lola  Před 14 hodinami

    The Italians are passionate about their food

  • Tg
    Tg Před 2 hodinami +1

    Italian waiter: We are Roma, we are proud, we are macho, we are romantic, we are Italians.
    They gave civilization to whole Europe like paved roads, sewers, baths, Latin , an formed army, even politics! So the proud behaviour speaks for the Italian Waiter when he says use a fork for your pasta.

  • Dungaree Do-Wrong
    Dungaree Do-Wrong Před 10 dny +2561

    That’s now your Italian uncle. You’ll never get rid of him

    • Lisa Guy
      Lisa Guy Před 10 dny +6

      Yup he might as well move on in

    • Coufé Corp
      Coufé Corp Před 10 dny +6

      He'll appear randomly throughout his trip to correct his method of eating while in italy.

      DJ STOMPADDICT Před 10 dny

      I don’t know much about Italy, but isn’t it way more cultured then the states?

    • Dungaree Do-Wrong
      Dungaree Do-Wrong Před 9 dny

      @Coufé Corp god help this kid if he doesn’t fold his slices

  • Preppy.Amanda
    Preppy.Amanda Před dnem +1

    "No'" was to funny omg im cackling

  • ItsmeA
    ItsmeA Před 21 hodinou

    I once added cheese onto my plate of seafood pasta. God, the waiter shouted “MA NOOO!” Covering his face, while attending another table 😂

  • Cosmo étoiles
    Cosmo étoiles Před 14 dny +4475

    “I’m gonna eat it with th-“

  • T T
    T T Před 23 hodinami +1

    Ironically Italians got the recipe for spaghetti from the Chinese

  • anime godz 69
    anime godz 69 Před 3 dny +2

    You know, people talking about “my plate my prerogative, I don’t have to respect your culture” probably don’t know that If you don’t wish to “respect” the culture then the culture has no obligation to respect you, you’ll find yourself quickly barred from many establishments and refused service from many who consider your actions impolite and or disrespectful. Just letting you know that some people take respect that seriously.

    • Tammy
      Tammy Před 19 hodinami +1

      And yet the Italian was incredibly disrespectful when he said "you're in Italy, not China", to a Korean man. Even if he was Chinese, that's just disrespectful to say. So if we want to get panties in a wad over "rEsPeCt" then it really should go both ways.

    • That1guystudios
      That1guystudios Před 21 minutou

      @Tammy chopsticks came from china, which is what he was referring to smart guy, and if you’re going to go to a country, you should be able to deal with their culture. If you can’t, then don’t go. You shouldn’t put a stain on the cultural experience for everybody else and the people who live there just because YoUr CuLtUrE mAtTeRs AnD yOu wOnT bE pUt DoWn bY tHeSe RaCiStS. Grow up, and learn something new about somewhere else in the world

  • Dark GT
    Dark GT Před 9 dny +11528

    That Italian gentleman can sleep well knowing he saved that pasta from cultural exchange with chop sticks.

    • Jicson J Collazo
      Jicson J Collazo Před 9 dny +32

      Sooo funny 😆

    • alfrcha
      alfrcha Před 9 dny +42

      Cultural exchange? More like insult of tradition

    • London Woods
      London Woods Před 9 dny +129

      @alfrchamore like Italians literally got the idea of noodles from Asia via exploration and the Silk Road.

    • Arbendit
      Arbendit Před 9 dny +40

      ​@London WoodsThat's extremely unlikely to be true. Basically a rumour that people assume to be true with zero evidence.

  • Mystery GURL
    Mystery GURL Před 19 hodinami +1

    That pasta looks so damn good though 🤤

  • Old Man Johnson
    Old Man Johnson Před 12 dny +10001

    Dude just treated you like family. You are now Italian.

    • Supyae Zaw Day
      Supyae Zaw Day Před 12 dny +57

      Edit: Man I’m joking not mad heh sorry if it came out that way

    • Adam
      Adam Před 12 dny +98

      @Supyae Zaw Daydon’t cry sweetheart

    • Larrie legend
      Larrie legend Před 12 dny +43

      @Supyae Zaw Day Wah! Wah! Waaaahhhhh!!!

    • Phantom
      Phantom Před 12 dny +22

      @Supyae Zaw Daycrybaby’s gonna cry

  • The MacGuffin
    The MacGuffin Před 12 hodinami

    Italian waiters will correct you, judge you, talk down to you, and even belittle you while still making you feel welcome and comfortable.

  • GummyPop
    GummyPop Před 16 hodinami

    Carlo be quakin if he saw this

  • Richshaw Walk
    Richshaw Walk Před 17 dny +36235

    Next time you meet an Italian in Korea tell him … you’re in Korea and not in Britain 😂

    • AnxietyYT
      AnxietyYT Před 16 dny +1874

      @Xu Xinno he meant not in Britain, just like he said China instead of Korea..its rlly not that hard

    • Faye Rie
      Faye Rie Před 16 dny +768

      @Xu XinMissed the point. And the joke.

    • Bert
      Bert Před 16 dny +7


    • Zach
      Zach Před 16 dny +133

      @Karen biscochitoyou also missed the joke

    • Ram Page
      Ram Page Před 16 dny +146

      ​@Xu Xinwhere you from? I'm from Japan.
      Oh, man I love China!

  • Damon Styles
    Damon Styles Před dnem

    You’re not in china got me😂💀

  • Kari Lynn
    Kari Lynn Před dnem +1

    Okay but eating spaghetti with a white tee on is CRAZY to me ☠️

  • BTS Army girl 💜
    BTS Army girl 💜 Před 14 dny +4032

    “ you are not in China “

    • 夜の妖精神秘的な
      夜の妖精神秘的な Před 14 dny +9

      Someone else heard it 💀

    • Christian Riley
      Christian Riley Před 14 dny +21

      Actually chop sticks is originally Chinese tradition. I don't think the man knows what ethic he is. So he just assumed because he was using chopsticks.

    • Wabbajock Dugatti
      Wabbajock Dugatti Před 14 dny +9


    • Luke Malone
      Luke Malone Před 14 dny +7

      He never said he was Chinese he just said we are not in China meaning he probably meant don't eat how they eat culturally in china since he's eating Italian food

    • Natural Scratcher
      Natural Scratcher Před 14 dny +16

      This definitely was not funny and the waiter should’ve mind his own business!

  • Jen Dee
    Jen Dee Před 12 hodinami

    Lol but I think he's actually Korean? I could be wrong... the waiter is adorable though. That Italian hospitality. ❤

  • KLB
    KLB Před dnem +1

    The fact that you are Korean and not Chinese.

  • koushinproductions
    koushinproductions Před 18 dny +12758

    Imagine dining in East Asia and the waiter comes up to you and do the same thing lol.

    • Devyani Prajapati
      Devyani Prajapati Před 17 dny +233

      😂😂 feeding with bare hands than the comment section be like eww! And no one's gonna talk about the used fork he used. 🤮🤢

    • Avital Pikovski
      Avital Pikovski Před 17 dny +456

      This happened to me in Korea. The waiter wad like "you holding the chopsticks wrong" and started teaching me mid dinner how to use them properlly

    • Dimche Andovski
      Dimche Andovski Před 17 dny +158

      thay have done it,thay find it very rude if you use fork instead of chopsticks, sooooo.....just saying when in Vegas do Vegas 😅

    • Q(t)=π
      Q(t)=π Před 17 dny +69

      Asians dgaf of what you do.

    • Won
      Won Před 17 dny +97

      Not really I work in a restaurant in korea we normally have forks when we see foreigners/ when you ask (we really don’t care) I also worked in a japanese restaurant too same thing

  • Katherine Arroyo
    Katherine Arroyo Před dnem +5

    Italians have a lot of passion when it comes to their pastas on how it’s made and how it’s presented to how it’s being eaten! Real talk lol

    • DoctorCIS
      DoctorCIS Před dnem

      Not to mention, there is one big difference between eating noodles with a fork and eating it with chopsticks: the slurping.

  • Timurv1234
    Timurv1234 Před dnem +2

    Western liberal democracy: you’re free to make your own choices in life!
    Italian waiters: nõ

    • Farhan Maleq
      Farhan Maleq Před dnem

      Come to Malaysia and try slapping a local for eating noodles with the spoon, you'll get instant payback by the community!

    • Timurv1234
      Timurv1234 Před dnem

      @Farhan MaleqYeah but this is not in Malaysia, is it? The waiter didn’t go to his country hahaha

  • PricklyPearWitchcraft
    PricklyPearWitchcraft Před 15 dny +6922

    “You are not in china”
    “Dude I’m Korean…”

    • Al Ash
      Al Ash Před 15 dny +245

      you got small eyes, you're from china, period.

    • Not a Speck
      Not a Speck Před 15 dny +422

      @Al Ash ...racist?

    • Adam Araneta
      Adam Araneta Před 15 dny +115

      @Not a SpeckTrust me you’d consider everyone that lives outside your country racist.

    • Vienna Seal
      Vienna Seal Před 15 dny +237

      @Adam Aranetadid u not read what they said bro it was like the obvious racism

    • The Naughty American Expat 🇺🇸
      The Naughty American Expat 🇺🇸 Před 15 dny +10

      "Oh, you're Korean? Then 'Hurry up and buy.'" 😂

  • Aziz
    Aziz Před 2 dny

    The waiter sounds like he's a father I swear

  • Spartan Dyl
    Spartan Dyl Před 11 dny +3861

    Italians take their food and culture more serious than anyone

    • Elizabeth Weigle
      Elizabeth Weigle Před 11 dny +39

      Them and the French lol

    • Andrea Capolini
      Andrea Capolini Před 11 dny +38

      I think it’s important and a positive thing

    • pointnclick22
      pointnclick22 Před 11 dny +96

      @Andrea Capolinidefinitely not lmao. When your entire identity is based in utter selfish pride its very shameful.

  • Bboi
    Bboi Před dnem +1

    If he was an American, everyone would be violating him in the comments.

  • •Danilion•
    •Danilion• Před dnem

    “You are in Italy…not China.” 💀✋
    Europeans are something else man😂-

  • Michael D
    Michael D Před 9 dny +3006

    As an Italian. He means well. The approach deserves work.

    • C M
      C M Před 9 dny +21


    • Tank Dixon
      Tank Dixon Před 9 dny +24


    • Aznlongtu
      Aznlongtu Před 9 dny +12

      maybe next time a clean fork and not shove it in his face

    • Před 9 dny +15

      ​@Aznlongtuit's Italy. Their societies standards are different.