Overcoming Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom | Erectile Dysfunction

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  • čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
  • Are you struggling with performance anxiety in the bedroom? Do nerves and self-doubt hinder your ability to fully enjoy intimate moments with your partner? If so, you're not alone. Many individuals experience performance anxiety, which can lead to stress, frustration, and a diminished sense of sexual confidence.
    In this empowering video, we delve deep into the topic of overcoming performance anxiety in the bedroom. Join us as we provide valuable insights, practical tips, and effective techniques to help you regain control and foster a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experience.
    Throughout the video, we address common concerns and fears that contribute to performance anxiety, offering a compassionate and non-judgmental space to explore these issues.
    Key Topics Covered:
    Understanding Performance Anxiety: We break down the psychological and physiological aspects of performance anxiety, helping you grasp its root causes and effects on sexual well-being.
    Redefining Sexual Expectations: Learn to challenge unrealistic expectations and societal pressures that can fuel anxiety and affect sexual performance. Discover the importance of open communication and creating a supportive environment with your partner.
    Building Self-Confidence: Uncover effective strategies to boost self-esteem and develop a positive body image. We provide practical exercises and mindset shifts to help you embrace your unique sexuality and celebrate your individuality.
    Techniques for Relaxation: Explore relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, and visualization that can help calm the mind and alleviate anxiety during intimate moments.
    Communication and Intimacy: Discover the significance of open and honest communication with your partner. We share tips for fostering intimacy, building trust, and exploring new experiences together.
    Professional Support: Recognize when it's beneficial to seek professional guidance. Learn about the resources available, including therapy, counseling, and support groups, to address deeper issues contributing to performance anxiety.
    Lifestyle and Wellness: Understand how lifestyle factors, such as exercise, sleep, and nutrition, can impact sexual performance and overall well-being. Gain valuable insights into incorporating healthy habits into your daily routine.
    Don't let performance anxiety hold you back from experiencing the pleasure and connection you desire in the bedroom. Join us on this transformative journey and empower yourself with the knowledge and tools to overcome performance anxiety, cultivate sexual confidence, and enhance your overall well-being.
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    The Erectile Dysfunction Radio Podcast is dedicated to educating and empowering men to address erectile dysfunction, improve confidence, and enhance the satisfaction in their relationships. This podcast is hosted by certified sex therapist, Mark Goldberg, LCMFT, CST.
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    Note: This video is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It does not replace professional advice. If you're experiencing severe anxiety or have underlying psychological issues, please seek assistance from a qualified healthcare professional

Komentáře • 12

  • @user-so4sv1dq4z
    @user-so4sv1dq4z Před 6 měsíci +1

    Coming And Going
    Making love or sex can be one of the most beautiful experiences or one of the worst nightmares. I was sexually traumatized in my childhood, when I was six years old. That can be a huge obstacle, but I want to use these words to solve a different problem. One reason why making love or having sex can be one of the worst nightmares is forcing yourself to come and not being able to come. Many men and women feel a lot of pressure. And if they can't come, they think they're failing, and inner self-torture ensues. Some even opt for abstinence or celibacy to not make love or avoid sex with others altogether, just because they can't come. What many don't realize is that the nature of opposites lives in every phenomenon, including making love and sex. When you come, you have to go. We have to come and go. And "have to go" in this context means not coming. We are not failures if we can't come. Making love and sex is not about winning or losing. Learn to appreciate not coming as a truth. Because to supress a truth is to give it force beyond endurance. And remember, as soon as this blockage is no longer a blockage, because you enjoy both coming and going, you can dare to make love or have sex with other people again. And be aware that if you go now, you will come even harder later. So cherish it when you go. You will come so strong because you are going.
    Making Love
    The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

  • @randomthought6681
    @randomthought6681 Před rokem +7

    15:25 OMG you just described my situation perfectly here. I’ve been with my significant other, wife for 16 years. Just earlier this year in January this exact thing happened ( a little too much alcohol) and it’s been a struggle ever since. It makes no sense and I just need to get passed this, bc we never ever had issues before. It’s something on my back I cannot shake

    • @ErectionIQ
      @ErectionIQ  Před rokem +2

      Hi Random Thought,
      Many people have this or similar experiences. I hope you have found or are on a path toward resolution. Please browse other episodes on this topic and see additional content on our site erectioniq.com

    • @chrissymoltisanti1892
      @chrissymoltisanti1892 Před 8 měsíci +3

      hope you found peace brother

    • @user-so4sv1dq4z
      @user-so4sv1dq4z Před 6 měsíci +2

      Coming And Going
      Making love or sex can be one of the most beautiful experiences or one of the worst nightmares. I was sexually traumatized in my childhood, when I was six years old. That can be a huge obstacle, but I want to use these words to solve a different problem. One reason why making love or having sex can be one of the worst nightmares is forcing yourself to come and not being able to come. Many men and women feel a lot of pressure. And if they can't come, they think they're failing, and inner self-torture ensues. Some even opt for abstinence or celibacy to not make love or avoid sex with others altogether, just because they can't come. What many don't realize is that the nature of opposites lives in every phenomenon, including making love and sex. When you come, you have to go. We have to come and go. And "have to go" in this context means not coming. We are not failures if we can't come. Making love and sex is not about winning or losing. Learn to appreciate not coming as a truth. Because to supress a truth is to give it force beyond endurance. And remember, as soon as this blockage is no longer a blockage, because you enjoy both coming and going, you can dare to make love or have sex with other people again. And be aware that if you go now, you will come even harder later. So cherish it when you go. You will come so strong because you are going.
      Making Love
      The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

    • @randomthought6681
      @randomthought6681 Před 6 měsíci

      Gotten passed it brother. Been going strong for a few months now. Thanks for the support @@ErectionIQ

  • @Mansmatters
    @Mansmatters Před rokem +1

    Interesting video. Psychological factors can massively impact the erectile function of men. Overcoming these issues is mandatory to improve erectile function.

    • @user-so4sv1dq4z
      @user-so4sv1dq4z Před 6 měsíci +1

      Coming And Going
      Making love or sex can be one of the most beautiful experiences or one of the worst nightmares. I was sexually traumatized in my childhood, when I was six years old. That can be a huge obstacle, but I want to use these words to solve a different problem. One reason why making love or having sex can be one of the worst nightmares is forcing yourself to come and not being able to come. Many men and women feel a lot of pressure. And if they can't come, they think they're failing, and inner self-torture ensues. Some even opt for abstinence or celibacy to not make love or avoid sex with others altogether, just because they can't come. What many don't realize is that the nature of opposites lives in every phenomenon, including making love and sex. When you come, you have to go. We have to come and go. And "have to go" in this context means not coming. We are not failures if we can't come. Making love and sex is not about winning or losing. Learn to appreciate not coming as a truth. Because to supress a truth is to give it force beyond endurance. And remember, as soon as this blockage is no longer a blockage, because you enjoy both coming and going, you can dare to make love or have sex with other people again. And be aware that if you go now, you will come even harder later. So cherish it when you go. You will come so strong because you are going.
      Making Love
      The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

  • @aymalkhan5781
    @aymalkhan5781 Před 2 měsíci

    I am having performance anxiety since last month please suggest me any treatment??

  • @antilaw9911
    @antilaw9911 Před 9 měsíci +1

    123 likes and only 5 comments. Bet most them likes are from the wives.

    • @user-so4sv1dq4z
      @user-so4sv1dq4z Před 6 měsíci +1

      Coming And Going
      Making love or sex can be one of the most beautiful experiences or one of the worst nightmares. I was sexually traumatized in my childhood, when I was six years old. That can be a huge obstacle, but I want to use these words to solve a different problem. One reason why making love or having sex can be one of the worst nightmares is forcing yourself to come and not being able to come. Many men and women feel a lot of pressure. And if they can't come, they think they're failing, and inner self-torture ensues. Some even opt for abstinence or celibacy to not make love or avoid sex with others altogether, just because they can't come. What many don't realize is that the nature of opposites lives in every phenomenon, including making love and sex. When you come, you have to go. We have to come and go. And "have to go" in this context means not coming. We are not failures if we can't come. Making love and sex is not about winning or losing. Learn to appreciate not coming as a truth. Because to supress a truth is to give it force beyond endurance. And remember, as soon as this blockage is no longer a blockage, because you enjoy both coming and going, you can dare to make love or have sex with other people again. And be aware that if you go now, you will come even harder later. So cherish it when you go. You will come so strong because you are going.
      Making Love
      The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.