Kinyash is doing well more to come those who were complaining about him ,there is no way sir Zulu will air episode which is not educating or of no good to us,we should learn to give people chance just like outside here we want to be given.
Wow, Thank you very much Benjamin. This has me written all over it. My father was/is emotionally distant, and I keep getting with men who are emotionally unavailable... Occupying the position but keep disappearing and neglecting for days. Need to break this pattern 😪
Thanks Benjamin but ave cried uncontrollably throughout the video.. Am a last born living in Europe without residence - am carrying my extended family.. There is not a single day that I dont feel so down and wasted.. Outside I look so organised and in control... Family makes you feel guilty for being somewhere.
Thank you Benjamin Zulu and Willie for this topic! l'm a victim of this perfectly hidden low self esteem 🥺 atleast now I have tips on how to deal with it.
Thank you Zulu and Kinyash for these educative interactions. Personally, I feel that I was robbed my childhood and up-to-date I carry my family on my back. I always wonder when this will all be over. It's a prolonged burden with no one to take it off my back. I always thought its a unique case to me until I bumped into your channel and realised it's shared by many. Such a relief and the start of a healing journey.
Hello thanks for this educational lesson. The lesson was all about me. I was assigned duties while I was in class three to date. I am not the first born but am firth born in the family of ten. to make the matter worse I don't have a partner or anyone I can share my struggles with. I usually fight within myself and pretend everything is ok. Despite being physically fit psychologically I am not fit mentally after being born as a transgender.this is the worst thing that I go through hiding what I usually go through coz you have no one to share to.many are times I feel like giving up in life but after remembering so many souls are looking up to me I take heart.its really heart
@@shirleykitela3914 right now am in a foreign country but I usually try to cope with it even though sometimes I find myself questioning God and blame myself. Am waiting to come back home to look for therapy but am trying especially to intersexual part.
@@michaelReborn215 When you come back try to look for help, you will regain your masculinity once you commit to getting help. Sometimes life overwhelms you until you find yourself in a space you didn't foresee yourself in. But remember our God is a good God and a God of second ...infinity chances, as long as He continues to give us life each day. It means we have the chance to get to our desired state which He created us to be. Don't look down on yourself nor give up on yourself, YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT MY BROTHER and indeed I know one day this will be a testimony. I will keep you in my prayers. Meanwhile use online resources(therapy/counseling).
Thanks very much my sister for those encouraging words. 🙏🙏 It also my prayer that one day I will give hope to souls one day and also to live the life which praises our Christ
It is coming brother... Start is your mindset,,,you have to believe in you mind that you can conquer your limitations, decolonising the mind is where it starts! Little by little you will be free indeed bro! You gonna be a man of God, a proper upstanding man, a husband and even a proud responsible dad to your generation. Coz that is what God created and it is in that nature that he saw fit that you will function. Dust yourself up and say "That is who I am" and begin working on it.
Thanks Benjamin. On the last tip, getting help - how do you know what kind of help you need? I know I’m struggling but I’m not so sure where I can go to get the help that I need, hence I postpone. Please advise 🙏🏾
Kinyash is doing well more to come those who were complaining about him ,there is no way sir Zulu will air episode which is not educating or of no good to us,we should learn to give people chance just like outside here we want to be given.
Absolutely
Wow, Thank you very much Benjamin. This has me written all over it. My father was/is emotionally distant, and I keep getting with men who are emotionally unavailable... Occupying the position but keep disappearing and neglecting for days. Need to break this pattern 😪
Amen
Thanks Benjamin but ave cried uncontrollably throughout the video..
Am a last born living in Europe without residence - am carrying my extended family..
There is not a single day that I dont feel so down and wasted..
Outside I look so organised and in control...
Family makes you feel guilty for being somewhere.
oh sorry ruth, move out of your skin and do only that you are able to do, without being coerced
Thank you Benjamin Zulu and Willie for this topic! l'm a victim of this perfectly hidden low self esteem 🥺 atleast now I have tips on how to deal with it.
Thanks Benjamin I've been laughing and crying while watching this I've never felt understood like today
Thank you Benjamin, your wisdom is very appreciated 🩵
So educative,Just love how you tell everything as it is,no sugar coating.
Atleast I have something to watch everyday.you guys make my evenings ❤️ learning a lot
You are healing generations in a big way
Benjamin you're talking about me today... thanks a lot.
Thank you very Zulu for this podcast. You really have a way of diagnosing and healing at the same time.
Thank you Zulu and Kinyash for these educative interactions. Personally, I feel that I was robbed my childhood and up-to-date I carry my family on my back. I always wonder when this will all be over. It's a prolonged burden with no one to take it off my back. I always thought its a unique case to me until I bumped into your channel and realised it's shared by many. Such a relief and the start of a healing journey.
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Ben you are speaking to my situation.
It was like you are talking straight to me ,,😭😭😭😭😭,thank you Sir
Hello thanks for this educational lesson. The lesson was all about me. I was assigned duties while I was in class three to date. I am not the first born but am firth born in the family of ten. to make the matter worse I don't have a partner or anyone I can share my struggles with. I usually fight within myself and pretend everything is ok. Despite being physically fit psychologically I am not fit mentally after being born as a transgender.this is the worst thing that I go through hiding what I usually go through coz you have no one to share to.many are times I feel like giving up in life but after remembering so many souls are looking up to me I take heart.its really heart
Hugs Mike, kindly find a therapist to help you handle it. You don't have to fight alone dr. Find support, you deserve happiness❤❤🌹🌹
@@shirleykitela3914 right now am in a foreign country but I usually try to cope with it even though sometimes I find myself questioning God and blame myself. Am waiting to come back home to look for therapy but am trying especially to intersexual part.
@@michaelReborn215 When you come back try to look for help, you will regain your masculinity once you commit to getting help. Sometimes life overwhelms you until you find yourself in a space you didn't foresee yourself in. But remember our God is a good God and a God of second ...infinity chances, as long as He continues to give us life each day. It means we have the chance to get to our desired state which He created us to be. Don't look down on yourself nor give up on yourself, YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT MY BROTHER and indeed I know one day this will be a testimony. I will keep you in my prayers. Meanwhile use online resources(therapy/counseling).
Thanks very much my sister for those encouraging words. 🙏🙏 It also my prayer that one day I will give hope to souls one day and also to live the life which praises our Christ
It is coming brother... Start is your mindset,,,you have to believe in you mind that you can conquer your limitations, decolonising the mind is where it starts! Little by little you will be free indeed bro! You gonna be a man of God, a proper upstanding man, a husband and even a proud responsible dad to your generation. Coz that is what God created and it is in that nature that he saw fit that you will function. Dust yourself up and say "That is who I am" and begin working on it.
I watch u all the time n it's like u r talking to me,oooooh Zulu keep on doing this
This has made me Cry so deep 😭
Benjamin I have been trying to reach you. No luck. You are doing such a great job
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Married but not married wow! thank you Mr Zulu for broaden our mind
Too personal to be seen, but too evident to be hidden.
Thank you Benjamin Zulu for articulating my emotions with such precision 🙏🏽
woow just woow....wisdom
Spot on Sir as always
Very true. We Love truth.
Oh my, the truth in this! God help us.
Thank you very much
Thank you Zulu and Kinyash 👏
All your shows are lit
You ooze wisdom...
Thank you
I really wish I could get help...I'm drowning
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heeee you are talking of pple never had my childhood i was crying pillar for mum 😯
True I do not have time to pretend
Thanks Benjamin. On the last tip, getting help - how do you know what kind of help you need? I know I’m struggling but I’m not so sure where I can go to get the help that I need, hence I postpone. Please advise 🙏🏾
Good evening 🙏🏾
Story of my life
This is deep
How can we support this man?
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Fellow rescuers hello 🤕 n the rescued are so ungrateful
sooooo true😏🙄😪😪
I felt this
"l don't receive new numbers"l'm the one 😅😅😂
Yes it's complicated
I am a First born, those who came after me went to private schools n Had luxury Problems za Joghurts :-)
l.o up on jj
This is purely me 😢
This is me,
the sound aki
The coming spoilt brats 😂😂😂🥺🥺🥺🥺sooo true