When Man Refuses to Buy Sanitary Pads for Girlfriend | Social Experiment

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  • čas přidán 4. 06. 2023
  • What will people do when they see a man refuse to help buy sanitary pads?

Komentáře • 134

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu Před rokem +1129

    I like how so many women just came & offered what they have. Some even went to the shops by themselves while the men tried to talk some sense to him. Period isn't gross. It's a normal thing

    • @patrick-quora
      @patrick-quora Před rokem +31

      I remember when I was 12 years old and a girl who'd just got her period wanted to dance with me in some school party, and I just said, no what if you to bleed all over me, or basically something similar. Really, at that time I didn't mean anything bad, I was just trying to be funny in some way and didn't realize that getting your period was a big thing for girls. Like, to me at that time was like as if a girl having a nose bleed approached me and asked me for a dance. I regret it now that I'm older and wish I had been more sensitive. But those guy genes.... I blame them, lol.

    • @KxNOxUTA
      @KxNOxUTA Před rokem +7

      I had a (very wanted) hysterectomy (with successgul endometriosis removal, thankfully!). I don't get periods anymore 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Know what I purposefully still keep in my bag? Yes, you may have guessed it: A tampon!! Because I'm surrounded by female peers and sometimes they get caught off guard or ran out of period products. And hey, originally tampons were actually used by the military in war to address bleeding from gunshots etc.. So, they can even be used for emergencies (like, even to make a .... what's the English ... bbandage with filling for pressure LOL??). Either way, useful think to have. Smol and barely weighs anything! Should be carried around and regularly swapped out by people of all (and no) genders!

    • @abdulrohmanmuhamad6747
      @abdulrohmanmuhamad6747 Před 9 měsíci +7

      I buy it for my mum and sister even my friend i guess (not gf). My friends laugh at me but im proud i can help people. Its just like u being a clown but everyone happy. Doesnt matter what they think about me.

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu Před rokem +792

    4:06 "Okay stop. That's enough. The lower your voice is, the more decent you'll be"... She's so sweet & passive aggressive at the same time. I like her ❤

  • @user-tq9vs6fc9u
    @user-tq9vs6fc9u Před rokem +670

    Tbh this channel made me put extra pads in my purse in case someone needs them.
    If my boyfriend let me be uncomfortable like this, I’d take it as a red flag and may leave.

    • @TreeMan
      @TreeMan  Před rokem +138

      Yeah. Do not be ashamed of it ❤️

    • @Xiao_Fei73
      @Xiao_Fei73 Před rokem +39

      Yes, you should leave him if your boyfriend is like that. He's not such a good boyfriend material.

    • @reddeadandangryatcapitalism
      @reddeadandangryatcapitalism Před rokem +11

      It's a big red flag

    • @Your_Epicure
      @Your_Epicure Před rokem +2

      I can buy it by myself without asking my boyfriend to go and ask for it

    • @sxxxxxlxxx
      @sxxxxxlxxx Před 11 měsíci +9

      "may leave" I'd DEFINITELY leave. I'm not dating teenagers, I'm dating adults, and I'm not gonna let a grown ass man baby disrespect me because of a NATURAL bodily functions I can't control. What a horrible relationship!

  • @Gaeforhae
    @Gaeforhae Před rokem +201

    Just realized it’s so common for us to offer and receive pads from strangers, we understand each other and it’s so beautiful

  • @hopiee-nw7kl
    @hopiee-nw7kl Před rokem +303

    At the end the blue t-shirt girl is so lucky because her boyfriend was so amazing. He was very understandable 💜

  • @C-SD
    @C-SD Před rokem +168

    "She is ill and if I don't buy it for her then that's something shameful".❤
    My husband has always been willing to do this if I needed him to.

  • @hendrawijaya3814
    @hendrawijaya3814 Před rokem +89

    2:25 i like how he sincerely accompany Chen Yang to buy pads without prompt 😄

  • @SmallGhostFloating
    @SmallGhostFloating Před rokem +222

    My ex boyfriend was also grossed out about periods and didn't like me talking about it.
    My current boyfriend took care of me when I accidentally bled in his bed and told me "It's okay. We will clean you up and everything will be fine."
    Having your period is not shameful unless you make it a shameful experience.

    • @youresonarak
      @youresonarak Před rokem +27

      I'm glad you found someone who loves you & takes care of you without being grossed out by such normal things.

    • @SmallGhostFloating
      @SmallGhostFloating Před rokem +4

      @@youresonarak I wish that behavior was normal

    • @WaterKatara
      @WaterKatara Před 8 měsíci +6

      Yea that is my experience too. My ex didn't want anything to do with it but my current boyfriend will rock me back and forth in his arms to help the pain. I think it also comforts me when I don't feel good. He is a little afraid to buy pads for me but he isn't mean about it.

    • @Mikaela_16
      @Mikaela_16 Před 5 měsíci +1

      That's so sweet

    • @SmallGhostFloating
      @SmallGhostFloating Před 5 měsíci +3

      @Mikaela_16 I don't want to ruin this... buuuttt he left me for another woman last month😂😂 it was nice while it lasted lmao

  • @elainelindsey1306
    @elainelindsey1306 Před rokem +88

    I feel so blessed to have had a father who brought me pads, he would even make me a hot water bottle and ginger, turmeric treacle sugar and milk drink to help with my dysmenorrhea(period pain). Even my husband buy me pads, period pain meds and warming patches and chocolates for that time of the month. Men shouldn't feel ashamed to support there loved ones, it's sad how some men still treat this has a taboo subject

  • @dreamsstory116
    @dreamsstory116 Před 6 měsíci +18

    3:09 I loved the man hold it with all confidence and without putting it in a black bag

  • @fatememehnipour3465
    @fatememehnipour3465 Před rokem +54

    40% of woman don't feel heartatack but more than 80% of women feel too much pain during the period, now imagine beside the pain she needs to endure an stupid boyfriend too 💔😬🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @suvidhijain8219
    @suvidhijain8219 Před rokem +71

    That's why I always carry an extra pad in my bag so that anybody in need can use it.. let's not treat menstruation as a taboo anymore but a very natural human process...p.s that guy at 5:00 is really really very good..

  • @yahoo.lol-e
    @yahoo.lol-e Před rokem +36

    Having ppl like that on this planet really makes me feel good

  • @anjalidhama81
    @anjalidhama81 Před rokem +33

    the patience they all had while talking to the actor is just mind-blowing, as i know the pain and the suffering, i would srsly burst out on someone like this, srsly if a man acting like this will offend me to my limits.

  • @magdolnavida2717
    @magdolnavida2717 Před rokem +23

    How handsome and a real man is the very first guy in the intro...hats off before those man who stood next to the girl and dared to speak up for her! ❤ all of them were so cute...the auntie who gave calm and kind advices to Chenyang since she is married for 30 years - God bless them!....and the man,who wasn't local and accompanied Chenyang to the shop to buy pads together, was sweet,too...and of course the last guy with his girlfriend..I think the girl was very proud of having a boyfriend like that 😊
    Thank you,Chenyang, you did a great job, too 😊❤

  • @xcvqe
    @xcvqe Před rokem +15

    The last couple is so sweet I really love their relationship 💕

  • @mandarmore.9635
    @mandarmore.9635 Před rokem +20

    I like how people reacted and help them❤

  • @503mahazabenkhan6
    @503mahazabenkhan6 Před rokem +20

    By this video, we learn to be respected and to give respect our girls!!!❤

  • @robertwisniewski2029
    @robertwisniewski2029 Před 11 měsíci +9

    I am a really shy and introverted man, it is difficult for me to buy condoms, but this fear of sanitary pads in someone who is over 12 years old I do not understand. Afraid someone will think it's for him? what happens when he has to buy toilet paper, he calls his mother?

  • @n_n3535
    @n_n3535 Před 10 měsíci +3

    "Which is more important your face? Or your girlfriend's health ?!"

  • @johnli1407
    @johnli1407 Před 11 měsíci +53

    教导大男人主义,不要自己是什么,对女朋友要好,

  • @GOZOMP
    @GOZOMP Před rokem +3

    This situation is similar to,
    You got a heavily injured leg? Walk yourself to the hospital.
    Pads aren't shameful. Periods aren't shameful.

  • @SopitaDeLoto
    @SopitaDeLoto Před rokem +70

    Me parece muy lindo que tanto hombres como mujeres la ayuden ♡♡♡
    La menstruación no debería ser un tabú

    • @stellarauclair
      @stellarauclair Před rokem +2

      Conozco al de cabello rosado de tu foto, así que te gusta el BL 🤝

    • @strawbeare
      @strawbeare Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@stellarauclairwho is he?

  • @lucva
    @lucva Před 8 měsíci +3

    i grew up in a man-dominated household, making my mother the only woman. even then, we were taught that periods weren't disgusting and if my brother or i were to ever have girlfriends, we should love and support them through their struggle. i have a lot of female friends, so i carry some pads with me in case they ever need it. despite this being a social experiment, it's shocking how there are actually people like this who avoid periods like the plague. glad to see even men going to the store to personally buy pads for the actress

  • @tahaa200
    @tahaa200 Před rokem +12

    I REALLY liked the "when a shy girl ask for guys number" vid😂❤ I hope we get another one soon cuz it was sOo funny

  • @pratham245
    @pratham245 Před rokem +6

    Period shame what is that? And what shame is in it? It’s natural. I buy pads for my lovely wife every time,

  • @eu_jjj03
    @eu_jjj03 Před rokem +30

    Благодаря этим видео я стала чувствовать какую-то любовь к Китаю.. 🥺Причем не просто любовь, а сильную привязанность, и Ин Ша Аллах, в будущем я смогу оказаться там😭❤️

    • @albishka0101
      @albishka0101 Před rokem +1

      Я тоже очень хочу туда, Ин ША Аллах мы там будем, мечты сбываются 🧡❤

    • @k_aj_ii4124
      @k_aj_ii4124 Před 11 měsíci +2

      انشاء الله

    • @Squish_that_cat
      @Squish_that_cat Před 9 měsíci

      You are always welcome to Xinjiang concentration camps

  • @sivaharidharanjai4109
    @sivaharidharanjai4109 Před 28 dny

    Feel so good realizing that there are kind people around us❤❤❤

  • @tinkerbell5427
    @tinkerbell5427 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I am literally crying 😭 after see this video there Are many Countries where people were shamed to bring pads for their girl I don't know why they think this is gross it's natural thing for girls in these days girls are in pain so much mood swings etc so take care of your girl give him pads and chocolate to make their pain fell better

  • @zaini772
    @zaini772 Před měsícem

    I like that they are raising awareness on this matter well done

  • @PHH81
    @PHH81 Před rokem +3

    wow they said really important points,

  • @AngelAllenson
    @AngelAllenson Před 11 měsíci +1

    I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago and therefore no longer need pads but best believe I always keep some in my car and at my house. It’s not taboo and it’s not something a person should go through in silence. I remember the pain and needing a hand sometimes. There will be people like the actor is portraying but there are many like those who helped. We got you!

  • @imhuffelpuff
    @imhuffelpuff Před 9 měsíci

    This is so kind that people do that, I come from a family who thinks mensturation is something we should hide. Seeing this, I am proud of those kind people who helped.

  • @getonthe-floor
    @getonthe-floor Před rokem

    good interaction very beautiful like people help other.
    this actor is very good you be angry him sometimes but other you love this guy.

  • @elsakhione4324
    @elsakhione4324 Před rokem +4

    V. Good message

  • @kpopstan7520
    @kpopstan7520 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Yes , helpful and good ppl do exist ❤

  • @jamisonfawkes8537
    @jamisonfawkes8537 Před rokem +4

    i always carry extra pads in my purse for any emergency situation, be it with myself or someone else
    if i saw another woman in need of help and i didn’t have anything, i would literally go to the nearest store and get the works
    pads/tampons, pain medication, snacks, water
    periods aren’t fun and it seems a lot of men seem to forget that

  • @hamsteru
    @hamsteru Před rokem +4

    Comment about how much I love girls and women, you are beautiful, thank you for everything ❤️ When I needed help myself, women helped me 🥰

  • @Cataleanaa11
    @Cataleanaa11 Před rokem +7

    Thank you for all the people who are still human and understandable with their neighbors, God bless you 🙏🏻💖💖 XieXie

  • @someone-sr7bl
    @someone-sr7bl Před rokem +1

    Respect💗

  • @Kashisulu
    @Kashisulu Před rokem +2

    It's been 7 years since I've started to mensurate. My parents have been married for 20 years. And I'm their only daughter. My mother isn't in her menopause yet. And not there has been one time that we went out to buy pads ourselves. He always keeps them ready before time. So like ✨🌞 He is a Normal Good Man for that

  • @tamara_diamonds422
    @tamara_diamonds422 Před 2 měsíci +1

    There’s days when my cramps are so bad. I can barely walk. I would often have a stock up pads. But sometimes I do forget to stock up. My 18 year old son buys them with no problem. He knows my favourite brand and if they don’t have it. He knows my second favourite. I live in Canada. So he knows them by colours. He knows to get any brand that’s purple. If not. Then orange. My som doesn’t care. He always says he doesn’t like seeing me in pain of any kind so he buys them.

  • @JosefinaQB
    @JosefinaQB Před 8 měsíci

    “Just lift a finger” makes me wanna cry,

  • @k_aj_ii4124
    @k_aj_ii4124 Před 11 měsíci +2

    لقد احببت كثيرا وقفت الرجال مع النساء ذلك كان رائعا شكرا لإضافة اللغة العربية نحن ممتنين لكم 🌼💛

  • @NHY6CK
    @NHY6CK Před 6 měsíci +1

    Girls will always help girls
    My mother taught me to always keep one pad with me wherever I go even though I always get my period when I'm home but you never know. I remember I gave one last year to a girl who used to be in the same class as me, she was really worried cause she didn't have any and she wasn't going to be in her home until really late at night

    • @h_s_111
      @h_s_111 Před 6 měsíci

      Women are always with women, right?

  • @user-jl8wg2eh3f
    @user-jl8wg2eh3f Před rokem +11

    Haha! Some men are so easy to be made uncomfortable. It's not like the shopkeeper is going to make fun of him. Just another transaction. I think he's better of with a boyfriend.😁

  • @e-cigarette2050
    @e-cigarette2050 Před 11 měsíci

    I love women 🖤 they’re amazing

  • @-emilianoRojas8794-
    @-emilianoRojas8794- Před rokem +4

    Hello, very good video. Just a note: the subtitles in Spanish are incorrect, they are in Indonesian, I think.❤❤❤

  • @honey97752
    @honey97752 Před rokem +1

    Chenyang you are very naughty boyfriend 😁❤️

  • @pawanrawat6637
    @pawanrawat6637 Před 28 dny

    Good job woman

  • @nonoysuderio
    @nonoysuderio Před 9 měsíci

    if your in a relationship you must understand the woman specially in a problem like this....

  • @gwenyn6177
    @gwenyn6177 Před 3 měsíci

    Meanwhile this mensch 1:36 just carrying it around in his sling bag for his own gal ❤

  • @ainohanako
    @ainohanako Před 3 měsíci

    What will people think if they see a man buying period products? They’ll think he has a woman in his life that he loves and cares about, be it a girlfriend, sister, mother, daughter or friend.

  • @Y0utub3isf4sc1st
    @Y0utub3isf4sc1st Před rokem +6

    Los subtítulos en español no existen, están duplicados con los indonesios...son los mismos.

  • @snoopyzen127
    @snoopyzen127 Před 8 měsíci

    I am so glad my bf always buys me pads when I need them and even knows what brand and my size too depending on how heavy it is. I am now realizing not every woman has that ❤

  • @agusindra8186
    @agusindra8186 Před rokem +4

    Mantap Mase

  • @ruealgie
    @ruealgie Před 10 měsíci

    Women are amazing.

  • @Cristallia
    @Cristallia Před rokem +1

    I hope in the future if my brother's lover has period cramps he would volunteer himself to buy it for them. My baby brother is only 11yrs old so it's not going to be anytime soon but I hope he will never act like that. Well I already make him go buy my pads for me anyways so im sure he'll be fine

  • @jas_minetx2001
    @jas_minetx2001 Před 7 měsíci

    5:02 damn emotion hurt :)

  • @claudiak4871
    @claudiak4871 Před rokem

    Can you make social experiment about the boy who sell something for extra allowance?

  • @indhu7980
    @indhu7980 Před rokem

    Well guess I need to find who the tree man is 😂

  • @akarikan8890
    @akarikan8890 Před 2 měsíci

    Los subtítulos en español no están bien, los vi en ingles, hermosa lección de vida.

  • @Icecreambunny143
    @Icecreambunny143 Před 10 měsíci

    Now i made sure how kind chinese people are, i watched kinda same social experiment that 11years olg girl gets her first period, she was wearing white pants and she doesnt know bout even wut perod is, so the experiment was "will people help her" and a lot people like 70% of them didnt help her and that 70percent was like some dudes who laughed and took pics and adult women who looked at her like she is smth gross pr disgusting. So my respect towards Chinese people absolutely increased

  • @samjall
    @samjall Před rokem

    ❤❤❤

  • @ayakihel7687
    @ayakihel7687 Před rokem +1

    تأثرت ❤😢

  • @Zero-wb8jl
    @Zero-wb8jl Před rokem +2

    شكرا لكم لاضافة الترجمة العربية
    احب مقاطع الفيديو خاصتكم انا لا افوت قناتكم 👍🏻♥♥

  • @user-dy8jr9zj1f
    @user-dy8jr9zj1f Před 6 měsíci

    男朋友幫女朋友買個衛生棉沒什麼不好的吧!

  • @jesuism6386
    @jesuism6386 Před rokem +1

    You should do a vid of a woman ashamed bc she's not married after 27

  • @YipJason
    @YipJason Před rokem +3

    I think this would be acceptable if the reason is that they don't have enough money to buy those sanitary products. Financial instability is crazy..

  • @sapientia_virtus_est
    @sapientia_virtus_est Před rokem

    ゴミが全然落ちてなくて綺麗な街ですね

  • @johanphanyongming6899
    @johanphanyongming6899 Před 6 měsíci

    Which one more important your face (pride) or your girlfriend health? You'll stunned by that question, 😅

  • @hanamohamed7081
    @hanamohamed7081 Před rokem

    النساء للنساء❤

  • @kaisia6869
    @kaisia6869 Před rokem +3

    Hiii

  • @judaisan5414
    @judaisan5414 Před rokem +2

    Todos los novios qué tuve, me compraban toallas. Pero él único que se preocupo por la marca, fue el que ahora es mi esposo.

  • @subysudhakaran
    @subysudhakaran Před 8 měsíci

    Chinese people are not so bad it seems, maybe just an introverted population.

    • @Tiauhui
      @Tiauhui Před 2 měsíci

      Where did you found Chinese people so bad ? Still believe Western media ?

  • @ananttripathi5888
    @ananttripathi5888 Před rokem +3

    🇮🇳❤️🇨🇳

  • @oxanapopova5179
    @oxanapopova5179 Před rokem

    Китайцы потрясающие ❤

  • @thanhduongvan3896
    @thanhduongvan3896 Před rokem +1

    việt nam xin chào

  • @Your_Epicure
    @Your_Epicure Před rokem

    I don't know why I think there are lot of pick me boys in China

  • @originalhistorychannel6941

    Well, he doesn't actually have to. Girls are strong and independent, let them buy themselves.

    • @Koyachannie
      @Koyachannie Před rokem +23

      She was in pain at that time
      It's just about understanding her pain

    • @originalhistorychannel6941
      @originalhistorychannel6941 Před rokem +1

      @@Koyachannie strong and INDEPENDENT...Do not forget the main slogans of feminists and "progressive" of this world.

    • @Koyachannie
      @Koyachannie Před rokem +26

      Bro it won't cost you to just help her when it's even hard to stand up... Do you even know how painful cramps are... She can still be called strong and independent...she IS strong...every woman is strong...we bear period pain, pregnancy and labor pain and so many more things...

    • @Koyachannie
      @Koyachannie Před rokem +21

      Oh well I just saw your other comments and got to know it's a waste to argue with you... Your mentality...got it
      Anyways huh

    • @reddeadandangryatcapitalism
      @reddeadandangryatcapitalism Před rokem +15

      ​@@originalhistorychannel6941 so.... If we want equality we have to never show weakness? Sorry dude, we aren't falling into the toxic masculinity trap of thinking that to be strong we have to be inhuman. A healthy relationship includes moments of mutual weakness and support, for BOTH parties. I have nursed boyfriends through the night while they were sick, even carrying them to bed. My partners have cared for me while I was sick as well. It saddens me to think there are men denying themselves this kind of intimacy and mutual vulnerability because they can't let go of no longer current oppressive ideals... But it's not my job to educate every mysogenist I come across.
      And you are indeed an argument for being completely self sufficient if the alternative is YOUR company 😂

  • @Cutie_Pixy
    @Cutie_Pixy Před rokem +1

    My dad always buys me pads when my brother feel ashamed for that… Thanks to all dads who take care of their daughters in their periods 🫶🏼❤️