How To Get The Guy. A Coaching Conversation with Jonathon Aslay

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Komentáře • 42

  • @coach_amy
    @coach_amy Před 22 dny +5

    Lifestyle says so much about a person. I think it's a huge asset that we're more set in our ways--so we know who we're dealing with. I don't want a man who goes to co-ed exercise classes, for example. Or who goes out with female friends. Those things would cause a problem for me in a relationship. So rather than get in a relationship with someone who does those things, and think that he won't need those things once he has me, I just don't start a relationship with him. (I learned the hard way with that one.)

  • @ChristineMarieHoward
    @ChristineMarieHoward Před 22 dny +15

    Jonathon is a great coach and I so loved our conversation! So many nuggets of wisdom to integrate.

  • @suzannecoslove
    @suzannecoslove Před 22 dny +15

    You guys should date!

    • @janellchavira916
      @janellchavira916 Před 22 dny

      Looks like there's chemistry

    • @echo-underwater6804
      @echo-underwater6804 Před 22 dny +1

      Actually she did not seem to be considerate of his feellings the whole time

    • @sherryj738
      @sherryj738 Před 21 dnem +1

      I didn't feel that at all.

    • @elipotter369
      @elipotter369 Před 19 dny

      ​​@@echo-underwater6804I thought she was very attentive & friendly while he interrupts & goes on a bit.
      But yes, they seem pretty similar.

  • @deborahlok2999
    @deborahlok2999 Před 22 dny +8

    Oh my Gosh! This session was Fantastic!!!!!! I adore Christine!!!!
    Was it me? Or do I detect chemistry here?
    Two ADORABLE 🥰🥰 people here! ♥️♥️

  • @sherryj738
    @sherryj738 Před 21 dnem +1

    I just wanted to make a comment. It was refreshing to watch the two of you facing each other while talking.

  • @dianameier7958
    @dianameier7958 Před 22 dny +1

    Great perspectives shared!

  • @Mara_Lane
    @Mara_Lane Před 20 dny

    I think the best part of this interview was when you said” How fked up are you?” I might use that one, if a man asked me that, first, I probably would start laughing so hard, and would appreciate the humor, but the honesty! That is a great ice breaker!!! 👍😂

  • @Obtlgw
    @Obtlgw Před 22 dny +3

    Regarding her question. With the apps and especially because men tend to be hesitant and fearful …I simply put I’m a Christian but I don’t go overboard I think what she is trying to express is how much should she share to attract a similar person…I say save it for a date and expand on it later. I think a super “heavy” too detailed profile can be a turn off or create some hesitancy. I say keep it happy and positive and maybe just say “I’m spiritual.” At least til you meet for coffee or a first date

  • @mariannebarwick1645
    @mariannebarwick1645 Před 22 dny

    Good topic , well done 😊

  • @alexdeyong2890
    @alexdeyong2890 Před 19 dny

    When I read comments made by some people, I cannot help but think about why they are listening to your channel, Jonathon. Is it to learn something about themselves and find love or, is it to project, criticize, belittle, show this "holier than thou" attitude? I understand that all this comes from the place of insecurity, unhappiness, and feelings of unworthiness. Still, maybe because of my work where I have to deal with the darkest sides of the human psyche, I get upset when I see such comments. If the people don't like what you are saying, they can always opt for not listening. Why saying/writing something that might hurt another person, when we don't even know that person?? I know that I found love and I knew the difference this time, but most importantly, I found myself! And one of the reasons was that I was listening to you and admitted to myself all my "dark sides" that needed healing. So thank you for being genuine, human and humanE, and sharing yourself with us. I know I should have more compassion for troubled souls (because this is what all those critics who have never met you, me, or anyone else in this realm of the internet, truly are), but I still can't...I still get upset because I truly believe that such thoughts, such behaviours, wanting for everyone to be like me, me, me, and criticizing, even hating them if they are not...that is what is wrong with this world, that is what creates wars and misery. I wonder if humankind will ever learn...

  • @brendabright49
    @brendabright49 Před 22 dny

    I love listening to you in this more casual way Jonathan, love the explanation of the knowing. I got my ego bruised recently and I had to check myself because he really wasn’t a match but it still stung he wasn’t attracted and so it was a lesson in gratitude 🙏🏻

  • @stamperssecret5379
    @stamperssecret5379 Před 21 dnem

    I came here as one of “Aslay’s Angels”, but have really enjoyed seeing the ideas you are sharing. I can’t go to sleep until I’ve watched one of his videos. Thank you both.

  • @JudyHill-kk2wr
    @JudyHill-kk2wr Před 22 dny +9

    I think both of you are limiting yourself because you're way too specific. Yes, we want all kinds of things in a partner, however, you may meet someone who doesn't have all the things you want, but that doesn't mean they can't change or blend into your lifestyle. You need to give people a chance. I know couples who have two different religions or one is an atheist and they still really enjoy each other's company. I think it's fun to learn new ways of living. You guys are way too specific and I think you're missing out on great people.

    • @livinglargecoachingcounseling
      @livinglargecoachingcounseling Před 22 dny +1

      Spot on. As though there's all the time in the world at this age and we can just make a list and like magic someone will appear to meet our every criteria.

    • @Healthnut1976
      @Healthnut1976 Před 21 dnem +3

      I disagree on the religion part. I am a Christian and want to share my faith with my partner, attend church, same morals, values etc.

  • @Healthnut1976
    @Healthnut1976 Před 21 dnem +2

    I need to update my dating profile or make it better. I'm just tired of having to redo my profile after deleting them. Ugh!! Maybe I need to create a Word document.

  • @kayesmith8040
    @kayesmith8040 Před 19 dny

    You'll are great today..❤

  • @Sunlightsam24
    @Sunlightsam24 Před 22 dny +1

    1. This wasn’t really coaching, I don’t think coaching istalking primarily about oneself. If might be good for marketing to show a true coaching session, unless this is it
    2. I posted on Christine’s channel-this is the most relaxed I’ve seen JA. Although still interrupting with his details, like most people. Which is ok for an interview
    3. I listened to another of Christine’s posts, makes me wonder why she divorced 🌸
    4. Christine seems interested, you two appear to be a good match, why not go out for a date 💕
    5. I’m curious as to why the link to her CZcams channel isn’t posted?

  • @WendyWeber-fg8zi
    @WendyWeber-fg8zi Před 20 dny

    Great conversation! Could you please add Christine’s contact info and socials to the show information so we can follow her journey. I think many people can relate and would love to learn from her experiences. Thank you for all your content!

  • @Obtlgw
    @Obtlgw Před 22 dny +3

    This is just my opinion which isn’t worth much, as I’m no dating coach …when in doubt, I find keeping it simple and to the point seems best. I think sometimes over thinking this isn’t always best!

  • @rkoleda
    @rkoleda Před 19 dny

    Your “6 hour date” on the phone with a woman from Arizona sounds interesting. Tells us more about it and the 30 points you noted.
    New to your channel.

  • @JonathonAslay
    @JonathonAslay  Před 23 dny

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  • @coach_amy
    @coach_amy Před 22 dny +2

    (Jonathon, You have such a handsome side profile which we rarely get to see.) I love your coaching. Thank you. Also, what's interesting is, to me, you seem more masculine than I've seen you before, when talking to her. Must be the energy mix...

    • @Sunlightsam24
      @Sunlightsam24 Před 22 dny +1

      Good observation, maybe its the natural polarity coming out.

  • @lindaanderson8329
    @lindaanderson8329 Před 20 dny

    Is this what it’s like to be coached by Jonathon?

  • @anitasmith574
    @anitasmith574 Před 22 dny

    What happened to the dark haired pretty lady with the long hair? I haven’t been watching this channel recently. She moved from Chicago (I think to be with JA. Last I knew things were well. What happened? Yes, these two folks should date. They enjoy one another very much.

  • @livinglargecoachingcounseling

    I'm sorry, this is the most self aggrandizing conversation I've seen in a while. Jonathon talks non-stop about himself ad nausea for over an hour and she sits and hangs on his every word. Then the ridiculous idea that we can make up some list of criteria that will somehow magically manifest a person out of thin air to suit our every need is absurd. If the couple on this week's prior video from Zimbabwe on Ok Cupid had listened to this rap, they would never have found each other. I love you Jonathon, really, but you need a reality check. You are way too self-absorbed for your own good. Stop with the constant focus on yourself.