How To Get Over Nerves Before & During A Game Competition

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
  • mentaltoughness...
    Simple, powerful technique to reduce that nervous feeling in sports. Every athlete and performer gets tension, worry, doubt, anxiety and fear AND you can master it.

Komentáře • 122

  • @distortionto1066
    @distortionto1066 Před 2 lety +22

    No gonna lie I looked up this video right before an esports final, and I won!!!!!! Going along with the nervousness and anxiety is such a mentality changer for me

    • @fleimtey9174
      @fleimtey9174 Před rokem

      what game and rank?

    • @CoachBryceWilson
      @CoachBryceWilson Před rokem

      Awesome! 👏I make videos on mental performance too, you should check them out!

    • @grootz6007
      @grootz6007 Před rokem +2

      ayyy thats sooo great!! congratulations!! i am so happy for you :]

  • @khaledali6784
    @khaledali6784 Před 5 lety +53

    Before any game just say to yourself I'm the best in the world at this . Simple

  • @wendyasalazar
    @wendyasalazar Před 6 lety +245

    When im nervous i get nauseous and my stomach kills me

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 6 lety +8

      First off, you are not alone. It's actually quite common. Bottom line, nervousness is a result of fears. Lots of info on that at: mentaltoughnesstrainer.com/

    • @nicolus.garcia
      @nicolus.garcia Před 6 lety +2

      Yeah I have my first high school football game today, never played this is my first

    • @antagonist7924
      @antagonist7924 Před 6 lety

      @@nicolus.garcia How'd it go? Tomorrow is my first game

    • @lunacomments3746
      @lunacomments3746 Před 5 lety +8

      I’m late but SAME. I want to overcome this so bad, I’m so jealous of the people that have genuine fun competing. I want to be like that

    • @TofurkeyMan
      @TofurkeyMan Před 5 lety

      @@nicolus.garcia howd it go?

  • @whatamidoingwithmylife9355
    @whatamidoingwithmylife9355 Před 5 lety +87

    Im in volleyball and play great at practice but at the actual game I get nervous

  • @lain3386
    @lain3386 Před 6 lety +14

    playing a volleyball game for the first time this help so much

  • @diyprojectsandhobbies9861
    @diyprojectsandhobbies9861 Před 7 lety +26

    HiI get so nervous from competing as a strength athlete it's like
    A day before competition I cannot sleep.On competition day: My chest is tight, breathing is difficult, I'm shaking like hell............... like a kid watching a horror movie whose scared to hell.
    It has become so overwhelming that I have not competed for 10 years in any competitions. I am confident that I am strong and good but the nervousness stop me from competing.
    Even writing this is overwhelming me now.

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 7 lety +4

      Thanks for commenting and you need to know you're not the only one. It's fairly common in sports, you just don't hear about it much. You can overcome it with help and the right techniques.

  • @MasonSkills16
    @MasonSkills16 Před 8 lety +28

    You are amazing, bro!! Thank you so much!!

  • @fitforfreelance
    @fitforfreelance Před 2 lety +2

    Love these tips- stop pushing against how you're feeling and embrace them! It means you're excited!

  • @Bobban
    @Bobban Před 6 lety +10

    huh... pretty good advice actually. I think back to when I had to read something in front of the whole class in school, always got super nervous and started to stutter, red face, swettin tons and all throughout that I tried to fight it. Tried to choke all those feelings, but later just accepted that it was going to happen no matter what and just "gave in". suddenly I was much less nervous and I did fine, sometimes fighting is the wrong thing to do, just give up and you'll do better, strange

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 6 lety +1

      Excellent point. Ultimately, you want to clear the belief program triggering the fear response.

  • @Donaldduckfan-mj8oj
    @Donaldduckfan-mj8oj Před 5 lety +26

    Where my tennis bros at!

  • @wendylynne8097
    @wendylynne8097 Před 9 lety +19

    Great tips on how to overcome performance anxiety and fear!

  • @emib6300
    @emib6300 Před 3 lety +2

    I usually get really nervous for lacrosse games because I get so confused on the field, LOL. So sometimes I tell myself how quickly the games go by and how I won't be playing the game for the rest of my life. I also try and think of fun things that are coming up after, like sitting with my friends watching the varsity game afterwards and eating food or (if it's on a Friday) what I will do on a weekend. I usually think that EVERYBODY is watching me and if somebody calls out my name and tells me to do something, it makes me nervous and not very confident in what I'm doing. But what y'all (and I) have to do is remember that literally only your parents or your siblings (sometimes not even them lol) are watching you, that's it.
    I actually have a game today sooo yikes but it's okay because I'm just thinking about the weekend. I hope this might help some other people :-)

  • @tremendous1163
    @tremendous1163 Před 4 lety +9

    1:18 wow how did you know i had my fencing match tomorrow

  • @anshupriya6133
    @anshupriya6133 Před 5 lety +2

    Thanks alot....being in situation when we are totally wrecked really let you feels the pressure..but in that point of time I always remember my training...and a feeling arises...and I know this is what will pull me out I just gotaa hold on it tight...

  • @vikkysoni7838
    @vikkysoni7838 Před 7 lety +10

    love you man needed it

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 7 lety +3

      Thanks for comment!

    • @vikkysoni7838
      @vikkysoni7838 Před 7 lety +2

      Mental Toughness Trainer sir i won a Badmintn tournament in my town on Sunday... And i also got man of the match trophy... Thanks to you sir... I was nervous in the final... But i knew what i have to do... Thanks again sir

  • @Spiderman-iw2ey
    @Spiderman-iw2ey Před 4 lety +1

    oh my god, awesome video. It didn't solve my problems but it gave me new ideas. It was complete.

  • @rhblue7204
    @rhblue7204 Před 8 lety +51

    Mental do you any tips for my basketball game tomorrow because I'm really nervous about how the crowd my criticize me or my friends thinking I did something bad can u help plz?

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 8 lety +19

      +Juan Puga Sorry I didn't see this until now. Focus your mind on all of the things you love about basketball. Fill your mind with things that make you feel good so there is no room for negativity to enter and trigger the nerves. Get my basketball mental toughness program coming out soon.

    • @rahffy8181
      @rahffy8181 Před 6 lety +2

      Focus on improving, don't worry about what people think

    • @jaysontatumroty2357
      @jaysontatumroty2357 Před 6 lety +1

      think about how nervous the oponenet is

    • @mockss6475
      @mockss6475 Před 6 lety

      RH Blue did you do well

    • @paladinsrage4646
      @paladinsrage4646 Před 5 lety +2

      @@mockss6475 No, he hasn't replied in 2 years. He probably lost the game and gave up on his anxiety and became a professional player.

  • @clayton_christoffels_Pt
    @clayton_christoffels_Pt Před 3 lety +1

    You are an amaizing mental coach. Pls be my mentor

  • @kimyujin3698
    @kimyujin3698 Před 5 lety +7

    Next week is our game, and I’m already feeling nervous just by thinking about it😭

    • @Donaldduckfan-mj8oj
      @Donaldduckfan-mj8oj Před 5 lety

      Kim Yujin TOMMOROW IS MY GAME

    • @kaushitwakafidi
      @kaushitwakafidi Před rokem

      @@Donaldduckfan-mj8oj Today is my game. I love the nerves. They energize me and excite me.

  • @ellaturley5419
    @ellaturley5419 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you this helped a lot

  • @itsgonzalits
    @itsgonzalits Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks a lot man. That was great.

  • @fightrrrrr
    @fightrrrrr Před 2 lety

    Great words of advice!! Keep it up!!

  • @shubhamsisodia5413
    @shubhamsisodia5413 Před 5 lety +1

    Amazing video instant results

  • @pendronator
    @pendronator Před 4 lety +1

    I have the Vex IQ robotics state championships tomorrow. I'm really nervous.

  • @Lebronisthegoat3
    @Lebronisthegoat3 Před 3 lety

    Thanks dude I have a connect four game Tommorow thx so much

  • @Beneaddict
    @Beneaddict Před 5 lety +5

    I'm so late but i will have a conpetition tomorow and i'm scared i will fail and everyone will criticize me...

    • @sprott5565
      @sprott5565 Před 5 lety

      Weird someone sooooo how’d it go?

  • @amarsyawal5289
    @amarsyawal5289 Před 4 lety +1

    I have a game tomorrow for shooting..do you know what I have to do tommorow

  • @Rocky-mz5yw
    @Rocky-mz5yw Před 2 lety

    Great vid.

  • @subhamkumarprasad3553
    @subhamkumarprasad3553 Před 5 lety +2

    I am a chess player and fifteen years of age right now. I am feeling chest pain out of panic even during seeing this video and thinking of the tournament I have to play tomorrow (27.07.2019).
    Should I go for a doctor / psychiatrist or simply relax.

    • @martinm.6472
      @martinm.6472 Před 4 lety

      If you can afford it, I would suggest you to get therapy. I'm a massive underachiever in life, pressure just destroys me. I missed several big chances in my life. I lost the opportunity to study in one of the best universities here in Latin American, I was literally shaking before entering the exam.
      You are very young and probably very smart, so therapy will probably provide tools that will give you a big advantage in life.

  • @jackmellor5536
    @jackmellor5536 Před 2 lety

    I play as a goalkeeper in Football (some call it Soccer) which is a position where you're under a lot of pressure. I'm going to play my best game by raising to the occasion despite the nerves.

    • @CoachBryceWilson
      @CoachBryceWilson Před rokem

      I make videos on mental performance too, you should check them out!

  • @AnitaCullenAlice
    @AnitaCullenAlice Před 4 lety

    Whenever i play i can't help but think that i look soo clumsy. I lack confidence when i play and i don't know what to do about it. I also think too much about what the audience will think of my play and will they judge/mock me... It's ridiculous

  • @saif3081
    @saif3081 Před 3 lety

    I perform very poorly even worst from practice sessions when im nervous . My first debute at the sport was great when i didnt know whats the competition and won a gold after that year im just decending from competition

  • @NotHunter_18
    @NotHunter_18 Před 6 lety +1

    I’m watching this because in a month I’m gonna have to go to my tae kwon do championship in Galveston Texas and I’m nervous even know if I lose I will still get a metal but I really want to win

  • @piercematthews2907
    @piercematthews2907 Před 4 lety +1

    Starting my first varsity game as a softmore this week , shitting myself rn

  • @kaitlin5688
    @kaitlin5688 Před 4 lety +4

    i can be at home and play like a goddess and when i get to class in gym i suck and all the guys make fun of me

  • @donovann8872
    @donovann8872 Před 4 lety +3

    when im nervous , i get sweaty and cold hands

  • @T1Earn
    @T1Earn Před 6 lety +16

    are there like any pills that help with this when its so bad?

    • @tanouirdata7427
      @tanouirdata7427 Před 5 lety

      beta bloquers

    • @monsterdude9000
      @monsterdude9000 Před 5 lety

      Xanax

    • @Shxine
      @Shxine Před 4 lety +1

      Apparently you could get surgery to fix it.

    • @T1Earn
      @T1Earn Před 4 lety

      @Bruce Lee As of right now. Alcohol is the only thing to help me.

  • @talynnbrandon3175
    @talynnbrandon3175 Před 6 lety +1

    I play a lot of global level tournaments and right before I go into it my fingers and toes become ice cold. I've been losing earlier and earlier in tournaments due to this because I literally cannot move my hands and feet. My lips become blue and my nose is ice cold as well. Not sure how to help this.

    • @monsterdude9000
      @monsterdude9000 Před 5 lety

      Dustin Brandon Hand Warmers man it helps the blood flow
      Every single pro uses them.

  • @kolapaki
    @kolapaki Před 3 lety

    I know this is Kate, but I get really bad anxiety before football games. How can I fix this.

  • @oatmealproductions6979

    I get nervous and then basically freeze and don't think anymore. Before, I was a great football player but it just keeps descending because I learn about the competition. All I would ever ask for is just to get rid of these nerves. I don't know what to do. Please offer some advice....I am desperate

    • @CoachBryceWilson
      @CoachBryceWilson Před rokem

      I make videos on mental performance too, you should check them out!

  • @FreeFlow__
    @FreeFlow__ Před 6 lety +2

    The root of nervousness comes from the belief of being a separate self. Awakening is the solution for long term result.

    • @yngtorres9953
      @yngtorres9953 Před 6 lety

      Free Flow shook

    • @josephbellofatto924
      @josephbellofatto924 Před 5 lety

      Free Flow I race motocross and when I am in the truck before it looks like I’m shitting bricks anyway to get rid of stress pre ride.

  • @clarabellelim8582
    @clarabellelim8582 Před 6 lety +1

    Hey! During training when my team does team drills I manage to shoot in most of my shots and I manage to do my runs right but when I play a full court game and I try shooting I overstress myself and I panic a lot causing me to run the wrong direction, not focus, drop balls and miss my shots :/ and because of that my coach doesn’t want to put me to play a shooter position but I really like to play the shooter position! Any tips to help?

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 6 lety +2

      Clarabelle Lim so happy you reached out! Number 1 of the 5 tips I gave you in this video is really powerful and will help you. We call it mental practice. It takes just 1 minute and it's a total game changer. You practice ahead of time exactly how you want to the game to go. In your mind see or tell yourself how you want to feel and perform. Bring in all 5 senses.
      You can even picture yourself nervous AND you are still able to focus and perform to your full potential.
      Another tip is to focus on all the things you love about your sport. You can make a BIG and detailed list and add to it often and then read it frequently. Especially if you are feeling pressure or nervousness. You are playing because you love the sport otherwise you wouldn't be there and sometimes we lose focus of this and the pressure takes over and it interfers with performance. I have worked with 1000's of athletes that have used these methods and they work! Great job working on your mental game!!

  • @typestufff
    @typestufff Před 3 lety

    Matthew 3:2.....

  • @jasamino21
    @jasamino21 Před 2 lety

    1:38

  • @immolin6328
    @immolin6328 Před 4 lety

    I was nerves before my swimming competition I needed to swim 200 meters

  • @romaineathey6512
    @romaineathey6512 Před 3 lety

    I have used Weedborn CBD products and have healed without any problems. Now my whole family is healthy.

  • @jellyboy123
    @jellyboy123 Před 6 lety

    i play bowels and i play good then i fall apart if something goes wrong.

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 6 lety

      J o n a t h a n this is common amongst athletes. You are not alone. Use the " AND" world to help you. So you can say something to yourself like " Ok, that play didn't go exactly how I wanted AND I'll get it next time ". I have worked with 1000's of athletes that use this with great success! You can do it!

  • @camryyn
    @camryyn Před 4 lety

    Where are my tennis players?
    I have a match today 😬 wish me luck!

    • @bourne8636
      @bourne8636 Před 3 lety

      How'd it go

    • @bourne8636
      @bourne8636 Před 3 lety +1

      I have a football game on thursday and im so nervous to play cornerback im not that good at the position

    • @camryyn
      @camryyn Před 3 lety

      @@bourne8636 went well actually!

    • @camryyn
      @camryyn Před 3 lety

      @@bourne8636 good luckk

    • @bourne8636
      @bourne8636 Před 3 lety +1

      @@camryyn yeah we absolutely destroyed them 46 to 6 wasn't even anything special lol

  • @hastudios1776
    @hastudios1776 Před 4 lety

    Who else has a wrestling match

  • @Bossk54
    @Bossk54 Před 4 lety

    I got drunk in my first rugby match to get passed my nerves

  • @typestufff
    @typestufff Před 3 lety

    Repent Jesus Christ is coming soon.....

  • @lance6554
    @lance6554 Před 7 lety +1

    Real cheesy...nice info though. 😂

    • @mentaltoughnesstips
      @mentaltoughnesstips  Před 7 lety +1

      I have more powerful (and less cheesy) info at my website: mentaltoughnesstrainer.com/ :-)

  • @pedrosantana245
    @pedrosantana245 Před 2 lety

    Well this was useless