COMING OUT - PART 2 | Childhood, Family, Present Situation | Atulan's Story

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  • @seema483
    @seema483 Před 3 lety +401

    Atulan talking to his younger self made me tear up a little🥺. You guys are so strong and beautiful. Just remember, 'everything is fine in the end. If it's not fine, its not the end.' Love you guys 💗🦋

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety +28

      🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🌻🌻🌻💌🥺

    • @seema483
      @seema483 Před 3 lety +14

      Aah thank you for pinning my comment oh my god😭💖

    • @moon_light7736
      @moon_light7736 Před 3 lety +8

      @@seema483 you deserve That 🇮🇳🏳‍🌈💖

  • @aryatorne
    @aryatorne Před 3 lety +209

    i usually don’t comment on videos but i just had to, i’m 16 and i’m a straight female and this honestly broke my heart. the fact that you have to be “scared” or “afraid” of something you literally cant control just because of society saddens me so much. i cant imagine going through this, and you guys are so strong (i watched part 1 aswell).knowing that people you love most, your family and friends, not accepting you for who you are is terrifying. i hate that we’re living in a world where this is not normalised and people are still SCARED of being themselves. a world where being different is considered as a “bad” thing. considering how this is considered a taboo in india & in other parts of the world, i’m so glad this channel exists to bring awareness and let people know they’re not alone, because sometimes all you need is somebody to accept you & be there for you. i’m so glad both of y’all are in better places right now and you were strong enough to share your story. you’re accepted, loved and validated and you matter and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. for anyone in the closet, i hope you come out on your terms and are treated the way you deserve to be treated, just like the rest of us. i love y’all and thank you for this:) loud and proud always.
    for anyone in the closet, im fucking proud of you and i love you and know you’re going to be just okay although it doesn’t seem like it rn, bcs there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. much love:)
    please reach out anytime, this is a safe place:)

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety +27

      Thank youuu! #grateful for allies like you!

    • @theJesai
      @theJesai Před rokem

      thank you so, so much. I’m in tears reading this. You’re too kind :’) it feels like no one would ever understand- you’re amazing for seeing that some people are just different, even though you may not be that way. Thank you

  • @sakshigupta7320
    @sakshigupta7320 Před 3 lety +123

    I started crying when Atulan shared about his parents knowing about his sexuality and the present situation. But the falling of the flag immediately soon after I couldn't stop laughing. I was like, seriously!! Hugs to you both. Be proud of yourself. Love to both of you. I have friends who are gay. And they are amazing ❤️❤️

  • @birvagandhi7473
    @birvagandhi7473 Před 3 lety +44

    i'm a 17 year old non-binary queer person living in india and so i could relate to you both so much and for some reason watching you guys where you are right now, happy with everything you have makes me feel at peace because it gives me hope that even though things are hard, it will get better at some point so thank you so much for talking about your experiences, im sure it must have been and im so grateful that you still did it

  • @sophiemeetul
    @sophiemeetul Před 3 lety +77

    I wish more parents see this, specially whose kids are queer and they don't wanna accept this ..I really wish them to understand that this is not choice (as my mother thinks) and there is no shame. I don't get why people have associated shame with same gender love.
    To atulan's parents!
    Uncle aunty, your kid is doing great work. This CZcams channel must have given hopes to others that they will be accepted by society. Be proud of him ❤️ we're already so proud ❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @humanbeing6301
    @humanbeing6301 Před 3 lety +18

    Guys, you brought me to tears. It's very emotional. I know how hard it must've been for you to show such courage to come out and share it with the whole world.
    To Atulan's parents:
    Uncle, Aunty, we can understand how you must be feeling about him coming out and telling you that he is completely different from what you think he was. Also, you might be afraid of what people will say. You may be thinking that 'is it normal?' 'is he sick?' etc. It's okay for you to think that way. Atulan took nearly 25 years to understand himself. So you might need some more time to explore this topic and that's okay. Remember only one thing: Atulan is the same son of yours who has brought you all those little joyous moments, whose naughtiness you adored, who grew up so fast and you may think now is on a 'different' path. Whatever happens doesn't change this reality that he is your loving son and as far as I may say, a very nice human. So, don't stop loving him, cause simply you can't not love him.
    And about the LGBT topic, here I've found a group of parents of LGBT young people. You can have conversations with them on this topic and share your concerns. Sweekar Group: facebook.com/SweekarTheRainbowParents/
    Also, you can talk to a counselor specializing in LGBT topics to get to know the community better.
    Again, I request you please please please try at least once to understand it, for Atulan at least.
    And sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable or if I've been rude. Can you pardon me?

  • @anmolanand2116
    @anmolanand2116 Před 3 lety +124

    Hey Atulan, if your parents need someone of their age to talk to (particularly your mum), I can ask my mum to talk to her or even my fiance's mum. My mum has talked to other fellow gay parents before and helped them understand their gay kids. They are both in Delhi. I hope it gets better and better for you. 💛🏳️‍🌈✨

    • @deepabhi1233
      @deepabhi1233 Před 3 lety +12

      This talk can really be helpful, I've watched the Hulu series "Love Victor" and there also when the parents find out that their son is queer, one of the parent decided to attend a meeting where other parents with queer child discuss their journey and how did they managed to help themselves as well as their child throughout the whole coming out journey.

    • @abhinandangoyal1736
      @abhinandangoyal1736 Před 2 lety +6

      Good bro
      Hats off to you for taking an initiative for making parents aware

    • @pre_instar
      @pre_instar Před 2 lety +4

      @@deepabhi1233 I loved 'Love Victor'- and the meeting is called a PFLAG

  • @letsliveinthemoment.4074
    @letsliveinthemoment.4074 Před 3 lety +15

    I almost cried listening to the message he gave to himself 'young Atulan'🥺.you too are too beautiful. 💫

  • @fairuzrity9608
    @fairuzrity9608 Před 3 lety +68

    it makes me so happy when you guys post.... hope you have a great future ahead.... thanks for making us happy

  • @subhmaypatra5562
    @subhmaypatra5562 Před 3 lety +24

    Oo!! I didn't know that Atulan is Bengali. Atulan aamio Bengali 🥳. And yes, Bengali families are very strict regarding education. Tomra dujonei bhaalo theko, aamar shubheccha 😊🙏🏻❤

  • @MO8O8DY
    @MO8O8DY Před 2 lety +7

    Am 32 and Gay. I came out to my parents 6 years ago. It was so hard to see them struggle with understanding the concept essentially. Fortunately, I did not face much awkwardness and the question my father asked was why I had not brought this up earlier and suffered so much all alone. It was such a huge relief to have come out. Now my tight knit circle of family and friends know the truth and it isnt so heavy to deal with anymore. I have never been in any relationship and seeing you guys so much in love with each other really warms me up.
    More power to you both and wish a lot of great health and happiness!!

  • @marwaasad1889
    @marwaasad1889 Před 3 lety +68

    Aaaaa my brave boys are here to unfold their beautiful stories again 🥺💌

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety +11

      🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺THAT'S SO SWEET OF YOU!

    • @marwaasad1889
      @marwaasad1889 Před 3 lety +8

      @@HoneyImmHome you're the honeys so I'd say you're sweeter :)

  • @daisygeorge6974
    @daisygeorge6974 Před 3 lety +13

    It was interesting to hear Atulan unfolding the various phases of his coming out story with so much confidence and boldness. I guess you must be experiencing lot of peace now and Divesh being a moral support to you. ❤️

  • @sanchitasaha3268
    @sanchitasaha3268 Před 3 lety +50

    Ayeeee our cuties back again with those beautiful little stories about the divinity of this beautiful relationship!!🥺😭♥️ Stay like this forever pls!! U guys are seriously an inspiration!!!

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety +1

      🥲🥲🥲🥲💌💌💌💌

    • @sanchitasaha3268
      @sanchitasaha3268 Před 3 lety +2

      @@HoneyImmHome damn such a pleasure it is to have that reply!😚♥️

  • @georgeoduor8940
    @georgeoduor8940 Před 3 lety +8

    What a wholesome video. Atulan is so self aware and so confident in himself now. Wish you well with your family.

  • @sikesteep
    @sikesteep Před 3 lety +5

    It makes me so happy to know instead of all this, you’re one of happiest people on Internet who even GIVE smiles, love you & keep posting pls🥺

  • @dhananjayjhala
    @dhananjayjhala Před 3 lety +7

    Kinda happy that atulan didn't have to face everything, bless his brother for being supportive and nice

  • @atmadeepghosh9528
    @atmadeepghosh9528 Před 3 lety +5

    Honestly, the purity and vulnerability of this entire conversation makes me tear up. I'm so proud of you, Atulan. So proud of everything, anything that you choose to become. ❤️

  • @nilambharshirodkar4166
    @nilambharshirodkar4166 Před 3 lety +8

    Mine is also same story. I will not going to tell my parents coz I know the situation will get worse. But you are the best couple. Stay blessed...

  • @elainecannon6630
    @elainecannon6630 Před 3 lety +5

    Your parents should all be proud for raising such brave, positive, sensitive, sons, who are an inspiration to so many others.

  • @sudarshanadas268
    @sudarshanadas268 Před 3 lety +9

    The message from Atulan to young Atulan is so touching ❤️

  • @rashi9953
    @rashi9953 Před 3 lety +6

    "Things might seem very difficult right now, you might not understand everything that is happening or will happen to you just trust in yourself, know that the universe is there with you, know that the people that you need in your life will come to you and will guide you to where you have to be so it might be hard to smile and laugh and stay positive in difficult situations but that's exactly what you should be doing because time heals everything and life is not that bad."
    💗💗💗

  • @khoyakhoyachaand
    @khoyakhoyachaand Před 3 lety +7

    Such sweethearts y'all are🥺 thankyou so much, both of you, for opening up about such a private aspect about your life. It takes a shit ton of courage to do that and I'm SO proud of you for that ❤️❤️ both videos were so beautiful in their own ways and I can't appreciate y'all enough
    Lots of love and even more power to you🤗

  • @not_you_i_dont_even_know_you

    It was so sweet to hear about how your brother advocates for you. As a sister I would 1000% prefer that my parents take out their shock on me rather than my sister, to protect her heart. Ideally, parents would talk to a therapist and deal with their issues like adults. 🙄
    I'm bi and my sister is trans, so this all hit very close to home. Glad that you are out to them and able to not be afraid anymore ❤️

  • @hopefulrainbows4841
    @hopefulrainbows4841 Před 3 lety +8

    Time heals everything & life is not that bad!! 🥺❤️

  • @kurtvanwymelbeke1427
    @kurtvanwymelbeke1427 Před 3 lety +7

    don't worry time will heal all wounds; we are your familie you are loved !!!! just be happy with your relationship and all other things will fall in place ... big hug from Belgium

  • @kreitikayadav8541
    @kreitikayadav8541 Před 3 lety +18

    'life is not that bad'
    I hope I'm able to say that too someday

  • @muskanchoddha1642
    @muskanchoddha1642 Před 3 lety +3

    I don't know why but everytime I see you guys together it makes me feel soo soo happy that I can't even express. But if your parents are watching this and reading the comments I want to tell them 'You have raised your kids so well. There are so kind and strong. It's really difficult to come out and speak about yourself and that too when your parents are not behind your back but these champs did not give up on anything life threw at them.'
    All the love to you guys. ❤️❤️

  • @aparna2203
    @aparna2203 Před 3 lety +4

    It was so damn tough to watch. I tried not to cry but listening to those harsh experiences made me feel like I'm helpless to see you guys like this. Even talking about such things and your parents reaction to all of that must be so so so so hard. That reel kinda thing starts playing and takes one back to relive those horrifying moments. You guys Hats off! You've been through so much and a lot must be happening now as well given the kind of society we are in. I really wish all your hardships regarding this especially comes to an end pretty soon. We just don't want to see your happy faces but shinning eyes with a happy heart too ☹💜

  • @etqadkhan4135
    @etqadkhan4135 Před 3 lety +4

    Atulan, you talking to your younger self was such a beautiful moment. More power to you both!

  • @kajalagarwal8138
    @kajalagarwal8138 Před 3 lety +3

    When I watch ur videos it's like I have to be strong u both inspire me a lot literally m in a phase of life where I m not comfortable to talk to anyone even can't explain my feelings to anyone it's like there is no one who can understand me but literally u guys made my day thanks a lot and keep it up guys ur bond is just so beautiful ✨😍

  • @sayeshaadvani5292
    @sayeshaadvani5292 Před 3 lety +6

    I was literally in tears when atulan adviced to the little version of himself !op to u guys!! ❤️All the veryyy bestt!! ❣️

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety +1

      🤍🤍🤍🤍🥺🥺🥺

    • @sayeshaadvani5292
      @sayeshaadvani5292 Před 3 lety

      @@HoneyImmHome ❤️❤️❤️ it feels good to get a reply from ppl u really like thank you guys! Wish u guys togetherness to eternityy ❣️❣️🥺

  • @reginaphalange7074
    @reginaphalange7074 Před 3 lety +7

    My sweet honeys are back ❤️🥺
    Wish I could jump inside the screen and give you guys A MASSIVE HUG ❤️
    Sending you so much love ❤️

  • @daisygeorge6974
    @daisygeorge6974 Před 3 lety +3

    Atulan, appreciate the fact that you harbour no bitterness towards those bullies. Loved your honest confession about your coming out story. ❤️

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety +1

      He’s always been that kind of a person 🥰

    • @daisygeorge6974
      @daisygeorge6974 Před 3 lety +1

      @@HoneyImmHome Divesh, you are really lucky to have such a good natured person as your boyfriend. ❤️

    • @daisygeorge6974
      @daisygeorge6974 Před 3 lety +1

      @@HoneyImmHome This is just to highlight that there are straight people like us who love your channel and support you guys too. ❤️

  • @rashi9953
    @rashi9953 Před 3 lety +3

    Atulan you are so brave. It's not easy but keep going, we'll all be there with you always! You really inspired me. Love you guys!💗🌈

  • @meghana9284
    @meghana9284 Před 3 lety +6

    Those words in the end I really needed that today!! Love you people

  • @uddipanmisra6247
    @uddipanmisra6247 Před 3 lety +6

    Made me cry 😭😭😭😭 So much love for you, Atulan ❤❤❤

  • @preeti1847
    @preeti1847 Před 3 lety +2

    I am really proud of Atulan. he is so brave and confident . And i am happy that he is leading his life the way he like . I think this video is happy part of my day . NO words to appreciate him.

  • @rashi9953
    @rashi9953 Před 3 lety +2

    When you were on young atulan part, it really felt like you were talking to me. Thank you so much, I actually really needed that!🥺💗🌈

  • @DanishKhan-wr9on
    @DanishKhan-wr9on Před 3 lety +3

    You guys made me emotional.... more power to you both .... May this bond and love shines for eternity 🤗🤗

  • @manvi-m3b
    @manvi-m3b Před 3 lety +2

    I don't know how but whenever I watch you guys my face automatically lights up with a huge smile. You both give me such positive vibes that I cannot explain, I just wish that someday I can meet you guys. The kind of love you both have for each other is something missing in our generation. I wish that you both stick by each others side through thick and thin and always keep us contented with your videos. Loads and loads of love to you both.

  • @deshanidewmini5963
    @deshanidewmini5963 Před 2 lety +3

    The honesty and pain in his eyes🥺, YOU'VE made it Atulan ! Proud of you 🏳️‍🌈💞

  • @JayStephan
    @JayStephan Před 3 lety +1

    I think you are handling your parents well. Giving them time and giving them space to figure it out (not pushing the agenda) is a good approach. My parents took a while and now we are all a big happy family. Time does heal everything and you have a very calm, cool, collected head on your shoulders.

  • @komalshekhawat7171
    @komalshekhawat7171 Před rokem +1

    So Proud of u both. How they are so understanding ? When Atulan said " I do understand that parents need time". It was so positive. I hope one day I get son like you. Love Love Love

  • @deekshagupta_amitybusiness6237

    Even if your families don’t support you guys .. just remember u have a family of 27k people that loves you !!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @anonymous-gv8vg
    @anonymous-gv8vg Před 3 lety +1

    I've been going through some shit in my life and the message that atulan gave to his younger self just made me cry. This was beautiful!

  • @dhananjayjhala
    @dhananjayjhala Před 3 lety +3

    Am on vacation with my family at jaipur, and didn't see youtube, I am 2 days late, I look forward to your videos, I always keep checking if you post, but now I saw it 💫❤️, youtoob world loves you 💕, I so wait for your vids, I feel bad being so late

  • @darshandarshu2465
    @darshandarshu2465 Před 3 lety +2

    I see a large part of myself in you Atulan!
    Love n strength to both of you ALWAYS 🤍❤️🤍❤️🤍❤️

  • @adiroy6505
    @adiroy6505 Před 3 lety +3

    So proud of you guys🌈 also, more power to you Atulan! Just so you know, we love you and we're ALWAYS here for you ❤️

  • @subhmaypatra5562
    @subhmaypatra5562 Před 3 lety +24

    The flag which you are using at the background is not accepted by many LGBTQ people (more than 56% LGBTQ people). It's not that they are racist but they want to keep the originality of 'Pride' and not adulterating it with any other movement. Just shared this piece of information, hope you guys like it and don't get offended in any means 😅😊🏳️‍🌈❤

  • @chandanamaitra5692
    @chandanamaitra5692 Před 2 lety +1

    Divesh..... Got really EMOTIONAL.... HE really adores Atulan

  • @dhananjayjhala
    @dhananjayjhala Před 3 lety +2

    Aww, we all srsly need to hear what atulan would've told his younger self, hope his parents keep in touch, keep smiling, we love you 😍💖, and this is hard for you, but tysm for sharing all this with your homies💗

  • @diyakris1440
    @diyakris1440 Před 3 lety +4

    u have been through so much still u kept ur face and dealt with it so good even though u may have been feeling low inside
    we are really happy and glad that u thought of sharing everything i mean u both u r strongest and cutest and wonderful couple
    love u guys from bottom of my heart
    and will alwys be there for u

  • @mnskira4788
    @mnskira4788 Před 3 lety +4

    U guys really earned this respect and love from 27K fam♥️. Really inspiring:) just be together always..love you both !

  • @VineetMalik-tv7on
    @VineetMalik-tv7on Před 3 lety +4

    you know i have seen so many coming out videos and trust me this is one of the best i have seen so far because everything was true enough and being Indian I totally understand the sufferings we have to face just because our parent are not very much educated about such stuff .......and dont tell anyone that i somewhere can relate to atulans story I AM SO HAPPY FOR U GUYS ... LIVE YOUR BEST .

  • @swatisharma-uk1pq
    @swatisharma-uk1pq Před 3 lety +2

    Visiting your channel again and again. Together you both are adorable. Completely compliment each other.

  • @lachimolala9821
    @lachimolala9821 Před 3 lety +8

    Awwww, that's soo brave of you guys😌 and love you guys soo much🥺🥺🥺❤❤

  • @sonalidheri
    @sonalidheri Před 3 lety +1

    Atulan is such a sweet person..the way he talks n explains everything is amazing..more ❤️to him..

  • @rabiyamehrin4977
    @rabiyamehrin4977 Před 3 lety +3

    6:20 I can't even imagine how you have came from that situation 💔
    6:57 omg yesss 😭😭❤️❤️
    To Atulan's family take your time to understand" and Atulan's bro you are the type of sibling everyone deserves I love you 🥺🤍

  • @aditijha1641
    @aditijha1641 Před 3 lety +2

    i hope you both achieve great heights in future and everything gets sorted out with your family , atulan . in the end , love wins.
    lots of love to you both. it's a ship for me!!!!

  • @srinivasreddy3821
    @srinivasreddy3821 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank u for making this video... It is really helpful for people, in various points of life, who r struggling to come out.

  • @sudarshanadas268
    @sudarshanadas268 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm happy for Both OF You! You both did so well! ❤️🥺

  • @jennyfersyiem5372
    @jennyfersyiem5372 Před 3 lety +2

    You both are born special,so be happy and stay the way you are God is there with you both,He is the creator and He will see that you both stay safe and bless. 🙏I am 59 yrs old lady I have never come across any Special person like you but the only thing that I believe that God is our creator and He created us with a purpose so just be happy and Thank Him.

  • @anjalipriya4441
    @anjalipriya4441 Před 3 lety +2

    More power to you cuties 🥺🥺 You don't even know how much of an inspiration you are for other queers struggling to reach where you are today ❤️

  • @michellealfina1768
    @michellealfina1768 Před 3 lety +3

    Atulan's story was very inspiring i love his confidence and bravery ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @somyatandon2167
    @somyatandon2167 Před 3 lety +2

    This is so inspiring! Really proud of you, Atulan. So happy to know about your college experience :)

  • @haripriyaharilal1755
    @haripriyaharilal1755 Před 2 lety +1

    I cried really badly when "Atulan started talking to his younger self" because that's literally how I would be talking to my younger self. It is really painful to look back your "younger self" who looks confused, lost and lonely. But if my "younger self" could see me now, she would be really surprised, happy and proud of the person she has become.
    Atulan, I think your younger self would be very proud of the person you have become.

  • @honestea
    @honestea Před rokem

    Atulan is being so understanding with his parents…god bless this kiddo and other lovingly tolerant children like him with their journey 😊

  • @ziya3433
    @ziya3433 Před rokem

    "I hope you are at a better place and you don't do what you did to me to anyone else in this world."
    That shows how kind and pure your soul is Atulan. God bless you. Divesh you too bub. ❤️✨💋

  • @Rahulkumar-is5ht
    @Rahulkumar-is5ht Před 3 lety +2

    May God fill your life with enormous joy and happiness. With time everything will get better and there is lots of good things awaiting ahead.

  • @letsliveinthemoment.4074
    @letsliveinthemoment.4074 Před 3 lety +2

    You guys are inspiration to many.
    God bless you guys and may you have a happier and beautiful future together. ❤

  • @kratikashilpkar3482
    @kratikashilpkar3482 Před 2 lety +2

    I hope everything with your parents cools down and find the new normal . Much love to you and miss you💓

  • @nayana_jain
    @nayana_jain Před 3 lety +3

    Was going through tough day. But after watching this video, especially Atulan's answer for last question, I forgot everything n was smiling🌼 Lots of love to cutest couple 🌈❤

  • @aditanusheelram7633
    @aditanusheelram7633 Před 3 lety +4

    True inspiration you guys❤
    Love your videos.
    Thanks for always being a strong motivator🥰

  • @arufamaknojia3286
    @arufamaknojia3286 Před 3 lety +4

    I just want to tell you that I am proud of you guys ♥️✨

  • @aditiverma1983
    @aditiverma1983 Před 3 lety +1

    You guys are adorable!! You both give out positive vibes and that tells so much about the way you guys are kind and the cutest. Keep shining, Keep smiling and keep loving each other ❤️

  • @Prashantkhanna937
    @Prashantkhanna937 Před 3 lety +8

    It hurt sometime so much when you loved someone from the bottom of your heart and that person do timepass with you or betrayal you after some time I think true love doesn't exist we are living in 21 century but still people judge other people from their sexuality being a bisexual male I and rest of the other member of LGBTQ understand things God bless you

  • @bunnysingh6004
    @bunnysingh6004 Před 3 lety +5

    Ohk it's me watching u guys for the first time and you guys are insanely adorable 🌞
    - Your new subscriber 🐨

  • @sudarshanadas268
    @sudarshanadas268 Před 3 lety +1

    The thing is just now so clear never come out until you are standing in your own feet ! I'm not bringing my topic up again untill I income yess!

  • @sree-xl4dr
    @sree-xl4dr Před 3 lety +1

    One of the honest confessions of coming out, like you didn't add anything to leverage the concept,you were cut to straight that this happens in a family and you're not an exception.Hope you have a DIFFERENT NORMAL soon(which you were talking in the video)lots of love,you are loved and you have a proof now🤩 #Iam

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety +1

      🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🤍🤍🤍

    • @sree-xl4dr
      @sree-xl4dr Před 3 lety +1

      Can we consider these as you puppy eyes honeys😁🤩!?

  • @sharirroshan3138
    @sharirroshan3138 Před 3 lety +5

    You guys are soo positive 🌈

  • @mayaloveslife
    @mayaloveslife Před 3 lety +1

    Just found this video and I absolutely love it 🤩 coming out is not easy no matter what part of the world you live in...thank you for being so brave and sharing this with us...
    You both are such beautiful people ❤️ lots and lots of love and hugs to you

  • @honeymiddha2982
    @honeymiddha2982 Před 3 lety +2

    Both of you guys are amazing.. 👏👏👏your love gives us so much strength ❤❤❤thanks for this video 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Vruts99
    @Vruts99 Před rokem

    "I hope you are in a better place, MENTALLY." Damn! you putforth my thoughts so well. I bumped into a guy who builled me once but I ignored him (He probably forgot what he did back then) and I was not able to figure out why I acted that way but maybe now I know...

  • @sunitiarora8473
    @sunitiarora8473 Před 3 lety +1

    i love you both sooo much, PLEASE STAY STRONG LIKE YOU ARE 🥺💜

  • @Anonymous-ck6eh
    @Anonymous-ck6eh Před 3 lety +2

    I love you guys!!!!!!!!!!!! You're soo amazing and cute, God bless you. Please make these videos, they are really supportive, ily

  • @anniekim1480
    @anniekim1480 Před 3 lety +13

    Thank you Atulan for sharing this. I hope your family reaches out to you, hopefully sooner. I am so so so PROUD of you (both of you). Happiness will come knocking. Fighting atulan! You can do it. ❤️🏳️‍🌈
    Ps:- i love the third wheel (flag). 🏳️‍🌈😂

  • @DekiYangchEnXOL
    @DekiYangchEnXOL Před 2 lety +2

    So CZcams just recommended me this video and I am really glad. Thank you for enduring everthing, both of you. I feel you guys so much as I also come from a place where it is so hard to talk about my sexuality. People say being bisexual is a relief you can just fall for the opposite gender and don't try messing with the same sex. But then who said it was easy I though I was crazy my younger self didn't know why I fell for both Barbie and Ken. So I want to tell everyone being bisexual ain't easy you cannot just say don't fall for girls and just fall for boys. Thank you for the beautiful content.....

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 2 lety +1

      Agreeed! We have so many mutuals that told us the same thing. Your feelings are valid, don’t listen to anyone else if they tell you otherwise!

  • @sinfulsoulschocolatesgifti2144

    Atulan u answered the questions very well it shows that u r sensitive n emotional person and Divesh did try to put u at ease when he sensed it was bit awkward for you to express...Divesh talks so much with his eyes very expressive👍👍👍👍

  • @shakuntaladhage2504
    @shakuntaladhage2504 Před 3 lety +12

    This was so cool and heartbreaking at the same time n yet powerful..... Love love love u guys more power to u atulan ( divesh looks so cute with that hair lol not tryna steal Ur man but just😘 hahahah )

  • @meghnarameshahosdurg9574
    @meghnarameshahosdurg9574 Před 3 lety +2

    Just know that you guys are stronger than you believe and be happy and smiling always😊

  • @DesiRhythm6
    @DesiRhythm6 Před 2 lety

    I started crying in the last question when Atulan was giving advice fo his former self. I am in that position right now and just joined a local queer group today. Am shit scared about so many things--how will my parents react, will my mother accept & still love me, will I be accepted socially, will I be discriminated at work, and most importantly, will I ever find love, get married, and have a family? Your answer to the last question gave me some solace.

  • @anjum.k8320
    @anjum.k8320 Před 2 lety

    I just don't know ....my tears are out of my eyes when Atulan talked to his younger self.... love u guys 💞💞💞

  • @karishma569
    @karishma569 Před 3 lety +1

    I know it's quiet difficult for you to answer all these questions but you did..
    All I can say is I am proud of you ❤🥺
    You guys are inspiration for peoples :)
    Keep shining , always remember - your youtube family are always there for you guys ❤❤

  • @mehakmittal7073
    @mehakmittal7073 Před 3 lety +1

    You both together are best .I don't commnet I rarely comment but I can't stop myself... You both are really supportive and innocent...your positivity reflects in your way if talking 💓💓... may you shine in this way 🌟🌟 ... plz try to be more active on CZcams ☹️

  • @sarthakverma2124
    @sarthakverma2124 Před 3 lety +2

    I DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU ARE, I DON'T CARE WHERE YOU ARE, I'M GLAD THAT I AM HERE WHERE I AM. ♥️♥️♥️
    MORE STRENGTH TO YOU.
    LOVE A BUNCH.💕

  • @chitvangarg2368
    @chitvangarg2368 Před 3 lety +2

    I hope that things with your family gets better. Sending love.

  • @niharikapal3678
    @niharikapal3678 Před rokem +2

    I don't know if you'll read this
    But I hope you will
    I am watching ur videos for a long time but I never commented and I just saw COMING OUT's 1st part
    In that video atulan said to divesh not cry but inthis video I don't know why I felt sad for the fact that he was smiling but the pain his eyes reflected was just heart aching...
    I just felt like hugging you and saying its ok everything will be fine
    And the care and worry I felt in both of your eyes for one another is just unexplainable....Like just leave this sexuality bullshit and see the pure love💖
    Like seriously guys you are the pure and proper definition of love and rn I am like who the heck will hate you both
    And vese bhi akhir me to pyaar hi matter krta aur agr vhi nhi hoga to fake sexuality ka kya aachar daloge🤦🏻‍♀️
    Lots of love and wishes to both of you💖🌸

  • @MsMadhuu
    @MsMadhuu Před 3 lety +2

    It's always a treat to eyes to watch you both ❤️❤️

  • @deepabhi1233
    @deepabhi1233 Před 3 lety +3

    I totally agree with what Atulan said. we never did get to know or educate ourselves about the various sexualities which exist. In my case, I didn't know until last year about my sexuality because I didn't know that there is a thing like this exist, or there are many other people too who feels the same way I do. And I also don't want to talk about this topic with my parents until I don't become financially independent. I know it would take time to them to understand and accept the truth but I will try to be patience with them and help them out throughout the journey.

    • @HoneyImmHome
      @HoneyImmHome  Před 3 lety

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤍🤍🤍