Breaking My Son's Heart: The Worst Feeling In The World

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  • čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
  • I had to leave my son on this freestyle Friday to attend a pre-meeting for the bridal party of my friend's wedding. It was an obligation rather than a choice, but Kobe wanted to come with me. It was late, and bath time was around the corner. Despite all the logical explanations, his disappointment is always heartbreaking.
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Komentáře • 84

  • @tlsthoughts
    @tlsthoughts Před 16 dny +69

    He's SO smart and he thinks that by saying "Bye bye, Mommy" he'll be able to go with Dad! 😆🤣👏♥️

  • @RCKMSCKM
    @RCKMSCKM Před 16 dny +67

    The "Bye Bye Mommys" are *so cute* He really wanted to go too.

  • @dahna4822
    @dahna4822 Před 16 dny +7

    Aww, I felt DaddyMopa’s pain🥹

  • @Rita-wl8vq
    @Rita-wl8vq Před 16 dny +34

    It doesn't matter, when those sneakers go on, Kobe's ready to go. Such a smart little boy. ❤❤❤

  • @BessieRestoredbyYAH
    @BessieRestoredbyYAH Před 16 dny +34

    Awwwww ❤️ He loves You Both. 💗 His “Bye Bye Mommie” was soooo Adorable.

  • @MsFadir
    @MsFadir Před 16 dny +38

    Poor sweet baby 😭
    The way he kept saying 'bye bye Mommy'! Like it was not happening that Dad was about to leave 😢

  • @cynn8990
    @cynn8990 Před 16 dny +21

    I love how you both are raising Kobe, You both are AMAZING parents. God Bless 🙏🏽 🥰

  • @simplysondra9096
    @simplysondra9096 Před 16 dny +35

    Such a beautiful Baby boy kisses his Mum and wants to be with his Daddy Aww 🥰 so sweet ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @EvershiningInJesus
    @EvershiningInJesus Před 16 dny +28

    Here is a great tactic, plan your leave time earlier. Then take him or all out for 5 minutes. Return, send him in his room for something. You must leave immediately. Moma must distract him with a snack, or etc. If he asks where you are momma must say he will be back "only those words". His sense of time has not developed yet, so he will be good. ❤❤❤

    • @Seren_ity22
      @Seren_ity22 Před 16 dny +2

      🎯

    • @BTA08
      @BTA08 Před 14 dny +7

      That's not necessary. Kids have to learn at some point that not every activity in their parents life involves them. Like showering or going to work for example. There's nothing bad in it. Just explain it.

  • @PinkHypatia
    @PinkHypatia Před 16 dny +27

    No tantrum, no rebellion, no tears. Just gentle persistence and determination to create his desired outcome. When that was not possible, he relented disappointed, but not a meltdown. A child like Kobe shouldn’t be disappointed unless it’s unavoidable. I understand why it hurts you to do that.

  • @DeniseL-mn7dk
    @DeniseL-mn7dk Před 16 dny +11

    Sandy is so supportive, understanding and kind. Dad has the same qualities but might be a little more sensitive it’s so sweet. They make a wonderful loving couple and great parents. Love this family.

  • @esthermwebaza5123
    @esthermwebaza5123 Před 13 dny +1

    Awwww felt for you Daddy Mopa and Kobe as well....but mummy was so nice n calm with him and it helped too. Love you guys❤

  • @divinecooperation4555
    @divinecooperation4555 Před 16 dny +15

    Kobe🥹😫😔so sweet and beautiful, all three of you🤗🫶🏾🙏🏾💙☀️😓

  • @marshaaitkens
    @marshaaitkens Před 14 dny +1

    Aww Daddy Mopa feels this, it's ok it's part of growing up and parenthood. Im sure you'll all enjoy your Saturday outing to make it up to our chunky, healthy, handsome and absolutely adorable Kobe 😊

  • @SkylarTheWriter
    @SkylarTheWriter Před 16 dny +3

    The last 10 seconds… Mopani, I feel for you. I know you didn’t wanna disappoint Kobe. But wow are you and Sandy PHENOMENAL parents. ❤💯🥹

  • @princesskessina6772
    @princesskessina6772 Před 16 dny +17

    He's growing so fast he's such a cutie 😃😍🤩🥰🥰🥰

  • @lashaunhunter7364
    @lashaunhunter7364 Před 16 dny +12

    Kobe is determined, but you have to be diligent and firm but compassionate, he may not like it but he’ll understand ✨✨🩵

  • @manifestingbeautifullife2187

    I felt that Mopani.😢
    You're a great Dad🙏🥹

  • @Justyna_N
    @Justyna_N Před 16 dny +10

    “ let’s go, then”…“ bye bye,mommy- kiss kiss” I remember this and it’s still making me want to cry lol. He figured if he said it enough times over & over you’d both cave. You’re both stronger than I because I would have 😂.

  • @selma5141
    @selma5141 Před 16 dny +25

    Awww, even though it’s sad but I love this throwback. The “Bye bye mommy” & “Take your slippers off” is so adorable. 🥰

    • @MsFadir
      @MsFadir Před 16 dny +7

      Oh, it's a throwback? I thought it was a current video.

    • @selma5141
      @selma5141 Před 16 dny +8

      @@MsFadirYes, it’s from last year when Kobe was 2, he’s so determined and adorable. 😊

  • @paulinejackson5489
    @paulinejackson5489 Před 15 dny

    Absolute blessing as parents our little ones does hurt the heart too cute

  • @cookiewright8196
    @cookiewright8196 Před 16 dny +2

    For the first time I can't watch little Kobe video more than once, 🥹

  • @VioletEmerald
    @VioletEmerald Před 16 dny +7

    Such a cute video. :) I love how calmly you keep explaining it to him with sympathy for his emotions around it. Great parenting ;)

  • @shannibsunshine5808
    @shannibsunshine5808 Před 16 dny +5

    Aww Daddy Mopa it will be alright. You got this Kobe is a champ💪🏾

  • @ranea193
    @ranea193 Před 16 dny

    Awwwww, he just wanted that guy time with daddy

  • @violapittman8039
    @violapittman8039 Před 15 dny

    You just have to love precious little kobe Bear 🐻 !!! 😊

  • @L.Smith.
    @L.Smith. Před 16 dny +8

    Aww i felt that... i remember when my son would be like that when i went out. It will get easier as he gets older.

  • @JamesBrown-um6wg
    @JamesBrown-um6wg Před 16 dny +6

    Oh my goodness this was hard for me to watch,I'm a Grandpa and have been watching children all my life,I know how you feel Daddy Mopa, love the Kobe Family.

  • @benitamaiorano3970
    @benitamaiorano3970 Před 15 dny +1

    Aww! It’s difficult for little ones to understand some things (time). I know it hurt your heart daddy but you are a wonderful daddy ❤ Sure you & Kobe blew it out with fun the next day 😊

  • @Honestdwarf
    @Honestdwarf Před 16 dny +4

    Soooo sweet! Teaching and learning life lessons in the healthiest, kindest and the most beautiful way possible.Thanks for being such amazing parents to our super clever sweet Kobe. ❤️🙏😍🙏Thanks for being so wise nice and awesome. God bless you all and I hope Kobe grows up happily under his both parents presence and support to his full potential. Thanks for sharing…❤️🙏😍🌹

  • @nellma1960
    @nellma1960 Před 16 dny +4

    I almost cried . He really wanted to go with Dad .

  • @fayeanderson4480
    @fayeanderson4480 Před 16 dny

    So cute i had to watch this like two times❤❤

  • @hiwotmehari8015
    @hiwotmehari8015 Před 7 dny

    Kobe so lovely

  • @aymee7136
    @aymee7136 Před 16 dny +1

    I like how Kobe puts his hand over your mouth when he doesn't want you to say something he didn't want to hear. ❤

  • @sadditycarroll1996
    @sadditycarroll1996 Před 16 dny +1

    Listen, he did all the necessary things in order to prepare to hang with best friend for life… awwwe Kobe… my heart breaks with your Mopa 😢 My friend be ready to go 💔 💔☹️

  • @1965paw
    @1965paw Před 16 dny

    THE BEST!

  • @essie491
    @essie491 Před 16 dny +1

    Kobe is such a handsome Dude.. Love him soooooo much!!!!!❤❤❤ Blessings from Holland to you all!!!

  • @ritahdedeng6889
    @ritahdedeng6889 Před 16 dny

    How cute!!!!

  • @WeRoneWeR1
    @WeRoneWeR1 Před 14 dny

    This is the most adorable video - dad, mom, and child. Kobe's wit is top tier. The end was so heart touching. You guys are blessed to be ordained by God as a family. Blessings!

  • @paulastafford1642
    @paulastafford1642 Před 16 dny

    It's ok daddy, he's just sleepy. He is a smart one that's for sure. ❤

  • @teemadarif8243
    @teemadarif8243 Před 16 dny

    Good job Dad!🎉🎉🎉

  • @luciansunset1
    @luciansunset1 Před 16 dny

    Toby is growing. So cute

  • @h.patriciablackshire6003
    @h.patriciablackshire6003 Před 16 dny +1

    Such a wonderful, toddler! He's speaking up and wanting his dad's attention. Somebody help Kobe understand. Right now, he's a little confused. Luv you, so much Kobe!❤❤❤

  • @journierinfarris8129
    @journierinfarris8129 Před 15 dny

    It’s ok to say NO to your child sometimes.

  • @oliviab5795
    @oliviab5795 Před 16 dny +3

    Next time take my sweet boy with you 🥺😭 they will have to understand Kobe is apart of the Mopani package and at any given time he will be with you. 💔 I'm finished. Going for a cry now and maybe to call my adult boys .. 22 and 26 happen in the blink of an eye

  • @krisluck4541
    @krisluck4541 Před 16 dny +2

    You know what's up when you put your shoes on in front of Kobe.😅😢

  • @Diz_27
    @Diz_27 Před 16 dny +1

    Y'all are such great parents. 💜

  • @keshownaallen3599
    @keshownaallen3599 Před 14 dny

    He said he's a jr groomsman 😅😅😅

  • @mtownboi4ya
    @mtownboi4ya Před 16 dny

    Aww 😢😢 💔

  • @stanleyhall2793
    @stanleyhall2793 Před 16 dny

    While difficult sometimes, you have to enjoy those moments. They grow so fast and before you know it, they will be going out with their friends and telling you tomorrow we can do whatever you want.😢

  • @tracymanengatkayumba
    @tracymanengatkayumba Před 15 dny

    ❤❤❤

  • @marcellinodadon1103
    @marcellinodadon1103 Před 16 dny +1

    _...Kobe has gotten so big..._ 😘...

  • @metisespesmetisespes2435
    @metisespesmetisespes2435 Před 16 dny +3

    😢

  • @justinemusubika9837
    @justinemusubika9837 Před 16 dny

    Kobe's bye bye to mummy is a kind bribe to daddy so he can go with him😂😂😂😂

  • @sunitanair6753
    @sunitanair6753 Před 16 dny

    Kobe Darling ❤️

  • @robinowens4877
    @robinowens4877 Před 16 dny +3

    😢😢😢

  • @SkylarTheWriter
    @SkylarTheWriter Před 16 dny

    He said, “Nah, I’m going out.” 😂🥺

  • @soniahill6494
    @soniahill6494 Před 11 dny

    now I want him to go too!😢

  • @lenderabickham9138
    @lenderabickham9138 Před 16 dny

    It’s okay dad, sometimes, it happens, where you will have to say no. Kobe doesn’t understand right now what is happening except, dad is leaving and he has to go too. He’s so precious he loves his family ❤♥️💕🎈🎈🎈🥰

  • @marciafierro4931
    @marciafierro4931 Před 16 dny

    OMG! Kobe is NOT having it! 😹🙀

  • @patriciacarter8599
    @patriciacarter8599 Před 16 dny

    The king is a soilder he never gives up😂😂❤❤

  • @roxymelrose1822
    @roxymelrose1822 Před 16 dny +1

    I use to run out the back door from nephews when they were little and sneak out while leaving em with mum#noguilt🤦😂💡then come back and they happy.

  • @roxymelrose1822
    @roxymelrose1822 Před 16 dny +1

    Awww🥺

  • @jennifergranati8096
    @jennifergranati8096 Před 16 dny +1

    🥰Kobe is so cute “ Bye bye Mummy”

  • @marthaolmsted4029
    @marthaolmsted4029 Před 15 dny

    This is my first video of yours. I would love it if you are a couple but it seems you are managing separate lives while doing a great job with your son. You both seem like sweet people and good parents.

  • @kathybutterfield2760
    @kathybutterfield2760 Před 14 dny

    Mopa, You enjoyed that. You drug it out. You should have cheerfully told him about tomorrow, said kids aren't allowed at a wedding practice, only those in the wedding. See you tomorrow and out the door, tears or no tears.
    IMO. ❤

  • @dinapolanco3535
    @dinapolanco3535 Před 15 dny

    OH😢, I'm Feeling like I am going to CRY!😭4 KOBE!
    HE LOVES GOING OUT/WHEREVER DADDY GOES!
    AND NOT USE2 NO!--HELL NO!
    NOT KOBE BOY😂

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd2289 Před 16 dny

    I feel bad for Kobe and Daddy Mopa🤒

  • @panitapad
    @panitapad Před 14 dny

    It always hurts when you have to tell them no they can't go with you. Cuz it's for big people only It just breaks your heart. But don't worry it'll go by so fast it be like my 13-year-old who doesn't want to be seen with me anymore😂😂😂😂

  • @Teenah_8
    @Teenah_8 Před 16 dny +1

    Mopani it's time to get that house, and Sandy, Kobe needs some little brothers, and sisters so he can stay busy, and babysit when it'stime for ypu, and Mopani to go out for some alone time with each other, and with your friends....It's the sad look that gets me when Kobe can't go with his Dad or when he wants to go with you Sandy, he gives that heartbreak look. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ❤🙏🏾

  • @user-ls4uk3ds4y
    @user-ls4uk3ds4y Před 15 dny

    I really do not know the family dynamics. Are these parents separated or divorced? They both seem like great people and parents. Their child is wonderful , intelligent, loving, caring and terrific. I pray the family always loves and cares for each other forever. Children need and deserve love. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @s.hawkins9222
    @s.hawkins9222 Před 12 dny

    😂😂😂❤

  • @yolinagarr5144
    @yolinagarr5144 Před 16 dny +1

    Kobe says today it’s the time to say goodbye to mommy 👋 others times he says goodbye to daddy! 50/50 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @nadiyekartal6209
    @nadiyekartal6209 Před 13 dny

    Hello KOBE ❤

  • @mariecarter3479
    @mariecarter3479 Před 14 dny

    Well we see who's Kobe's best friend

  • @B_ready4671
    @B_ready4671 Před 16 dny

    Take ur flippy's off please💙😄

  • @ccee1985
    @ccee1985 Před 13 dny

    I have been saying that he needs a partner 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Fm0901
    @Fm0901 Před 16 dny

    🥹🤗😍

  • @bipinpathare5699
    @bipinpathare5699 Před 16 dny

    Don't put your shoes on in front of him