"I Think You Should Get A Vasectomy" || FULL DISCLOSURE || EPISODE 2 [PART 2]

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • Evelyn finally gets an opportunity to confront Lerone about not really being there for their disabled daughter growing up.
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  • @TRENDCNTRL
    @TRENDCNTRL  Před 2 lety +128

    *CORRECTION* NEXT EPISODE OUT NEXT MONDAY 11TH APRIL

    • @shabdine
      @shabdine Před 2 lety +5

      💀

    • @RyzeDesignsHD
      @RyzeDesignsHD Před 2 lety +5

      You got a man here, who wants to throw something when a woman laughs at him

    • @RxchLJ
      @RxchLJ Před 2 lety +5

      10pm*

    • @mrdawks8932
      @mrdawks8932 Před 2 lety +11

      ✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY.
      make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids.
      WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.

    • @shabdine
      @shabdine Před 2 lety

      @@mrdawks8932 yessss

  • @emmayates9309
    @emmayates9309 Před 2 lety +2481

    Sorry did I hear that? Raised a DEAF child all by herself, got a college & university education AND put her baby through private school? Round of applause for Evelyn please. That is a MOTHER!

    • @demetriuspowell29
      @demetriuspowell29 Před 2 lety +23

      Wow congratulations on being an adult yay

    • @MsJayLaw39
      @MsJayLaw39 Před 2 lety +32

      Well done Evelyn you dodged a bullet.

    • @heyitzsalmaa
      @heyitzsalmaa Před 2 lety +50

      Super Mom! She deserves the praise fr

    • @heyitzsalmaa
      @heyitzsalmaa Před 2 lety +13

      @@jzen1032 he’s not gonna change he’s a lost cause atp. She should move on with her child. She’s doing more damage than good. No point in expecting more from someone who’s clearly incapable. Meet people where they are as sad as that is.

    • @heyitzsalmaa
      @heyitzsalmaa Před 2 lety +10

      @@jzen1032 She clearly stated she has a father role in her daughters life. Therefore what is he needed for. More stress that’s more dysfunction if he’s there. No need to keep a “family” together if he isn’t even willing to be one. He deserves to go away until he can be consistent and leave the streets.

  • @SuperWilson619
    @SuperWilson619 Před 2 lety +1404

    Whoever birthed his 9th child needs to come on to the show and explain herself, because why? 🥴

    • @vasco4672
      @vasco4672 Před 2 lety +44

      🤣🤣

    • @kianakeekz782
      @kianakeekz782 Před 2 lety +269

      I can fully explain myself very easily if you'd like me to. Because I had NO idea about the last 2 and I have a son with him already but I can openly say I take some accountability for this bullshit. please do not believe everything he says. I found out when I was 6 months pregnant but knew from the JUMP I didn't want him around. he has told ALOT of lies on me and I'm absolutely livid

    • @veda1306
      @veda1306 Před 2 lety +45

      She probably doesn't know the true figures he probably sold her a dream.

    • @bindalen3397
      @bindalen3397 Před 2 lety +50

      @@kianakeekz782 noway its actually you, i thought this shit was fake like blue therapy

    • @kianakeekz782
      @kianakeekz782 Před 2 lety +246

      @@bindalen3397 I have a son who's 9 and a daughter who is 3. She does not know him and they have my last name. Yes i was dumb but i met him at 16 in 2008. Evelyn and I have put in ALOT of work to get to where we are now. We are both successful without him. Im an account manager and my children are beautiful and happy

  • @sheeats4019
    @sheeats4019 Před 2 lety +1677

    Father God, protect me from such animals in human clothing 🤮 Mad props to the lady for how she handled this conversation.

    • @ardakz4867
      @ardakz4867 Před 2 lety +20

      However much you dislike my man shouldn’t really diss someone whilst speaking to God.

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 Před 2 lety +11

      You're probably the female version of him still

    • @Kimbrly_xo
      @Kimbrly_xo Před 2 lety +22

      @@chi3812 how’d you figure that one out then

    • @Lillie839
      @Lillie839 Před 2 lety +19

      @@chi3812 Are you backing his behaviour ????

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 Před 2 lety

      @@Lillie839 Nah this donny is a wretch. But there's 5 women that let him.plant his seed I'm them. Says alot about the state of Women however much of a joke man this donny is. And it seems a prevelant ting in our community. Bare bunny bruddas procreating with gyal and create kids they can't provide for.

  • @WithAmanda.
    @WithAmanda. Před 2 lety +1878

    I’m so impressed with Evelyn’s patience, all the praise goes to her.

    • @id5711
      @id5711 Před 2 lety +20

      Honestly, same because if she flipped the table, I would have understood.

    • @jevz1a
      @jevz1a Před 2 lety +3

      It has to be scripted

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety

      @@jevz1a genuinely I hope it’s not real

    • @abi71200
      @abi71200 Před 2 lety +7

      She chose him and needs to take accountability. Choosing the bad boy and trying to change him. She desribed him as "evil" How about choosing a good guy to start a family with? 6:41

    • @s.t3315
      @s.t3315 Před 2 lety +35

      @@abi71200 I hear what your saying but she chose him at the age of 15- you can clearly seen she has done alot of growing up since then

  • @bkizzle290
    @bkizzle290 Před 2 lety +1622

    This man doesn't respect anyone, not the mother of his child, not even himself. This is really disturbing to see. How do you have 9 kids at 34 and not even put effort to raise them? Shout out to Evelyn though, her strength, patience, and dedication to raising her child is beautiful to see. Best wishes to Evelyn and her beautiful daughter and the other innocent children

    • @SuperJutah
      @SuperJutah Před 2 lety

      He doesn’t raise his kids though… also it is clear he has had more babies he probably doesn’t know about.. creating a long line of degenerates

    • @mrdawks8932
      @mrdawks8932 Před 2 lety

      He probably didn't want children. When women don't want kids they abort them without a man's consent. Can't blame him

    • @anastasiaobi
      @anastasiaobi Před 2 lety

      Because he a narcissist the only thing he cares about ( based on his own admission) is creating more children in his image.

    • @DeardOne
      @DeardOne Před 2 lety

      What vid you watch, he was still present just not as much as the mother wanted.

    • @andreneallison6510
      @andreneallison6510 Před 2 lety

      Insecure women who don’t have any self worth

  • @chantellea9938
    @chantellea9938 Před 2 lety +1257

    This man's behaviour is embarrassing and excruciatingly painful to watch for a 34 year old. I'd love to know what his mum thinks of this behaviour.

    • @chocolatesugar4434
      @chocolatesugar4434 Před 2 lety +135

      his mum would defend him and say he's a good dad tbh 🙄

    • @leonb1595
      @leonb1595 Před 2 lety +2

      Facts

    • @cassie2878
      @cassie2878 Před 2 lety +5

      @@chocolatesugar4434 typical

    • @mrdawks8932
      @mrdawks8932 Před 2 lety +4

      @@chocolatesugar4434 yep because his mum raised him that way 👍🏿 great mum

    • @usainbolt5153
      @usainbolt5153 Před 2 lety +4

      I dont think he had a mom

  • @RayJeweledBeauty
    @RayJeweledBeauty Před 2 lety +295

    The fact she said he "has matured" in the last few years is scary. So he was worse than this? My God 🤐

    • @gelesoundz1139
      @gelesoundz1139 Před 2 lety +10

      Very sad facts...he cant give that child nothing...thank God for Paul.

    • @robertreboe6685
      @robertreboe6685 Před 2 lety

      And she still opened her legs

  • @Solar.Plexxus
    @Solar.Plexxus Před 2 lety +556

    To Kya ,
    Look at how powerful and gracious your mother is !

    • @Q................
      @Q................ Před 2 lety +21

      Very much agreed, Kya is also her mother said as much she sounds like a very agreeable, balanced and wonderful young lady like mother like daughter.🥰

  • @itsroween
    @itsroween Před 2 lety +221

    Just imagine if she listened to him and just “relaxed” after having a baby and had not went to Uni. She would’ve been a victim of her circumstance. Bravo to her. 👏🏾

  • @rebekahsekidika
    @rebekahsekidika Před 2 lety +710

    Not him saying "I'm a big dog, you a pup". This man needs deliverance.

    • @whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859
      @whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859 Před 2 lety +9

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @millsamourx
      @millsamourx Před 2 lety +20

      was looking for this comment🤣🤣

    • @mrdawks8932
      @mrdawks8932 Před 2 lety +20

      ✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY.
      make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids.
      WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.

    • @ynazzra
      @ynazzra Před 2 lety +1

      Just heard it as I read it

    • @chard3582
      @chard3582 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂😂

  • @rubyy5513
    @rubyy5513 Před 2 lety +749

    Honestly, Evelyn must be one of the most inspiring mothers I've ever seen. How she managed 15+ years with a man of that kind is beyond me. This amazing woman carries herself with such grance, patience, empathy and emotional intelligence! Just the conversation alone wows me tbh

    • @brainsandbeauty2832
      @brainsandbeauty2832 Před 2 lety +23

      But can you please tell me why she needs to talk to him, she's intelligent but this conversation doesn't make sense to me

    • @shortyp1000
      @shortyp1000 Před 2 lety +33

      @@brainsandbeauty2832 It makes a lot sense bc it's a lesson to young women and hopefully men to be responsible. More important, she needs to sound off. It's therapeutic to express yourself in a safe space.

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +8

      @@brainsandbeauty2832 she’s trying to make him understand and I think she wants him in her daughters life

    • @brainsandbeauty2832
      @brainsandbeauty2832 Před 2 lety +4

      @@bellocholo3626 but that's the trap, you can't change someone. He's proven to her who he is. Nothing more needs to be said. She should move forward without him

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +10

      @@brainsandbeauty2832 again she’s not trying to change him but make him understand but I think this was maybe her last chance to say her peace because she kind of said with it without him the daughter will be fine

  • @neaveah_2141
    @neaveah_2141 Před 2 lety +476

    I can believe this is a 34 year old man. The “cap” “bruddah” “bros” and “fam” it’s giving I’m 16. I’ll be surprised this man has a job. The arrogance this man displaces

    • @Jtee6ix_
      @Jtee6ix_ Před 2 lety +13

      Exactly haven't watched much of their episodes compared to castillo's. I have picked up on it "bro" every minute shows how immature he is.

    • @misssashkay2549
      @misssashkay2549 Před 2 lety +3

      I was saying the same thing it's disgusting....

    • @TK-dj9xd
      @TK-dj9xd Před 2 lety +7

      I thought he said he was 44…I could be wrong

    • @neaveah_2141
      @neaveah_2141 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TK-dj9xd had the daughter at 20 and she’s 14

    • @BH-fo4ml
      @BH-fo4ml Před 2 lety +14

      He doesn’t have a job he’s said many times he’s on the “roads” 😅

  • @Anon-zt9ll
    @Anon-zt9ll Před 2 lety +116

    This guy is just a bitter bum. He hates that Evelyn has levelled up with her life and managed to be successful while juggling motherhood, education and working. Men who hate themselves will treat women like this. Look at how quick he is to belittle her because he’s unhappy with himself. On the roads for ages and accomplished nothing

  • @purposepursuit7934
    @purposepursuit7934 Před 2 lety +805

    Lerone calling his baby’s mother Bro, fam, my G, and cuz is so violent and it’s unnerving seeing how composed she is. Absolute monster

    • @novice1070
      @novice1070 Před 2 lety +61

      Certainly disrespectful. But Violent is a reach

    • @purposepursuit7934
      @purposepursuit7934 Před 2 lety +52

      I feel you but heres the actual definition of violence: behaviour involving force intended to hurt, damage, or injure someone or something.
      I think it’s safe to say that his words were very damaging hurtful and injuring to Her identity as a woman. How can a babydad be referring to his Babymother using those terms without malicious intent ??!? This is a prime example of emotional violence

    • @Joshua-re3xw
      @Joshua-re3xw Před 2 lety

      It’s not emotionally violent ! He’s just an immature bum deadbeat father!

    • @lambohh8172
      @lambohh8172 Před 2 lety +26

      yall call everything violence and abuse..calm down

    • @xSalamz
      @xSalamz Před 2 lety +10

      But she had a child with him. Our community is so screwed ahahaha.

  • @mudiagaesabunor-nukie2835
    @mudiagaesabunor-nukie2835 Před 2 lety +620

    Why are you guys giving this man a platform? At least Castillo apologized, owned up to his mistakes and said he is changing. This dude has taken no sort of responsibility whatsoever. He is so embarrassing. Extremely disgusting.

    • @denzel9455
      @denzel9455 Před 2 lety +18

      Views

    • @SophiaKawagga
      @SophiaKawagga Před 2 lety +36

      It’s good even, he needs to be shamed

    • @africasfinest52
      @africasfinest52 Před 2 lety +36

      I watched about 10 minutes of the first episode and I couldn’t continue. He’s entirely too much, his vibration is so low. What a vile guy

    • @shanice-mariehutton-mills6176
      @shanice-mariehutton-mills6176 Před 2 lety +1

      Frrrrr

    • @alexandrialyons9168
      @alexandrialyons9168 Před 2 lety +23

      Castillo didn't apologize he acted basically the same just told her what he was doing.

  • @12active8
    @12active8 Před 2 lety +889

    This guy is a disgrace to his family and has no morals. Doesn’t believe in his daughters disability and was never there for her, speaks to women like their his mates and slouches in his chair, can’t keep eye contact but thinks he comes across confident and can’t own up to his faults and wants to project it onto her like a little kid. Absolute joke man

    • @purposepursuit7934
      @purposepursuit7934 Před 2 lety +50

      He’s beyond help and this is a microcosm of baby mother baby father dynamics within the black community - finished

    • @jahjahM3
      @jahjahM3 Před 2 lety

      What do you get out of making that comment he was the same way he was when she met him what’s the surprise now she chose this man she has to deal with the consequences you women love no kind ability and love playing on our heartstrings he’s a fucked up dude but he’s been that way from the beginning

    • @joanie-
      @joanie- Před 2 lety +20

      he makes me sick

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 Před 2 lety +3

      @@purposepursuit7934 FINISHEDDD!!!!

    • @leonb1595
      @leonb1595 Před 2 lety +13

      Yeah its like his always in mandem mood and he thinks its cool at some point you have to accept that you have to man up apologise for the wrongs you done this is mad I dont understand how his just putting this out here like im confused 😕

  • @bluzywyd2957
    @bluzywyd2957 Před 2 lety +877

    castillo is literally a angel compared to this guy

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +156

      To be honest Castillo is actually trying to change, and that’s why he bought his ex along to explain his actions

    • @bluzywyd2957
      @bluzywyd2957 Před 2 lety +8

      @@bellocholo3626 true

    • @TommyDidads
      @TommyDidads Před 2 lety +9

      I was literally sitting here thinking which is a worse person

    • @CoccoSshi
      @CoccoSshi Před 2 lety +50

      Castillo seems to lack emotion which is actually quite common apparentely, alexithymia. This guy is rude and childish, actually there are 3 year old more mature than him.. and honestly. I don't want to be hurtful or mean but the man needs serious therapy because there is some real trauma somewhere

    • @bluzywyd2957
      @bluzywyd2957 Před 2 lety +6

      @@CoccoSshi 100% agree with you no doubt

  • @tallest_9326
    @tallest_9326 Před 2 lety +133

    ‘Im a big darg, your a pup’ Chaiii .God protect our sisters.

  • @chezelle0076
    @chezelle0076 Před 2 lety +378

    The scariest part is… females will STILL sleep with him, even after watching this…. And STILL get pregnant for him!!

    • @jaybossupsettinz1615
      @jaybossupsettinz1615 Před 2 lety +51

      My man clapped asf with is Pitbull head lol

    • @OkwithOG
      @OkwithOG Před 2 lety +11

      I was processing the same thing in my head God😩

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes that’s scary but the thing is a little scarier is his mindset

    • @patiencevirtue_
      @patiencevirtue_ Před 2 lety +26

      Yes. 9th child is not the end unfortunately. But what saddens me is there are all these 9 kids growing up with some type of trauma and it’s unlikely that the cycle breaks there 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sally.musique4551
      @sally.musique4551 Před 2 lety +1

      Scary

  • @allisonshaw3415
    @allisonshaw3415 Před 2 lety +471

    This grown man is a man child. He has no accountability for anything he’s done and the way he talks to the mother of his child is so disrespectful. How she even managed to get through in this conversation is beyond me, with him constantly invalidating her experience raising her child on her own without much of his input. He definitely is an insecure little boy who believes his own delusions. He acts so nonchalant even about his own daughters disability. He’s completely heartless and uses humour to deflect.

    • @NaNoon27
      @NaNoon27 Před 2 lety +19

      “Man child” is even too good a description for him. Most children I’ve met have better morals and more sense than this guy…

    • @allisonshaw3415
      @allisonshaw3415 Před 2 lety +6

      @@NaNoon27 He’s just undeveloped. A lot of men even in their 30’s+ are still acting like teenagers

    • @ghana1717
      @ghana1717 Před 2 lety

      Nah he is not a child, He is a demon

    • @fa9183
      @fa9183 Před 2 lety

      And that's who she slept with.

    • @nastynorth852
      @nastynorth852 Před 2 lety +1

      She laid down with him. Look at her headspace. He’s crap but is this what you qualify for?

  • @letmecommentinpeace3187
    @letmecommentinpeace3187 Před 2 lety +160

    She is so articulate and I love that she is an example of a BM that respects herself and deserves to be called the MOTHER of the child. She done amazing and I love that for her.

  • @obiopoku6714
    @obiopoku6714 Před 2 lety +181

    showed more care to the couch than the whole situation 😭😭

  • @carmelclarke1
    @carmelclarke1 Před 2 lety +157

    I think Evelyn is so composed and calm because she, nor her daughter need absolutely nothing from this poor excuse of a human being. She has excelled inspite of him, and sees him for the joke he is.

  • @cdavid5524
    @cdavid5524 Před 2 lety +112

    The way she laughs when he said he was careful 🤣 😂 💀 yes sis, laugh, because the man is a whole jester.

  • @burntyellow
    @burntyellow Před 2 lety +188

    This woman is too good for this man

    • @AriGoldBawse
      @AriGoldBawse Před 2 lety +4

      But she laid down with him for some reason

    • @therealistshow8889
      @therealistshow8889 Před 2 lety

      @@AriGoldBawse trust

    • @MizzFaithy1
      @MizzFaithy1 Před 2 lety +7

      @@AriGoldBawse She was 15 she didn't know any better. Now I don't know why the woman with his 9th kid did 🥴

    • @therealistshow8889
      @therealistshow8889 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MizzFaithy1 why did she have the kid then ? If she was just a kid

  • @Iamdianadee
    @Iamdianadee Před 2 lety +114

    The worst thing is his daughter is old enough and likely to watch this and see her father not take accountability. Ouch!!!!

  • @anisa3340
    @anisa3340 Před 2 lety +237

    I’ve never seen a guy wrong and strong 🤣 his laughs are so annoying

  • @TanyaSuper23
    @TanyaSuper23 Před 2 lety +113

    “What did you actually accomplish from being on the roads?….survival” what does he think this is call of duty……if you don’t send this joke man to Ukraine to fight the war to put his rubbish to use. Honestly well done Evelyn you are a great Mother such an inspiration the way you handled this situation.

    • @Daniel-po4eh
      @Daniel-po4eh Před 2 lety +1

      Man actually thinks he’s in COD😂💔

  • @joanie-
    @joanie- Před 2 lety +261

    bless this woman. how she got through this conversation is beyond me. It’s hard to watch honestly. Heartbreaking. how he talks to her about such serious, raw topics and laughs is sickening

  • @Flamboy0911
    @Flamboy0911 Před 2 lety +86

    His friends must be bums too for not checking his wasteman behaviour

    • @ilt1993
      @ilt1993 Před 2 lety +5

      what can they do with an individual like this???

    • @shaleyb783
      @shaleyb783 Před 2 lety +10

      @@ilt1993 not associate with him?

    • @ilt1993
      @ilt1993 Před 2 lety +2

      First you said that his mates should check him and now your saying not to associate themselves with him. The problem is Lerone and Evelyn no one else. Just like he ain't tell all his baby mums anything how do you know for sure he told his boys???
      Out here blaming other people that ain't got nothing to do with the relationship is a reach.
      That's like me saying that Evelyns friends didn't check her for dealing with that guy in the first place??

  • @aaronfenton1818
    @aaronfenton1818 Před 2 lety +179

    This is a 34 year old man. Using words like ‘cap’ and talking to the mother of his child as though she’s just one of his friends.
    Telling her to ‘shut up’. Wow.
    It would be laughable if it wasn’t so disrespectful and there wasn’t a child involved. And, on top of that, he denies the fact that his own daughter is deaf.
    What an absolute disgrace of a man.
    Where do women find these men?

  • @rorleans98
    @rorleans98 Před 2 lety +91

    Evelyn speaks so well, its so heart-breaking hearing her have to explain so deeply to a guy that doesn't give two shits and doesn't accepts anything he hears

    • @mrdawks8932
      @mrdawks8932 Před 2 lety +3

      ✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY.
      make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids.
      WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.

  • @flaxman11
    @flaxman11 Před 2 lety +87

    Give this young lady full credit she is very articulate and she handled this very well.

  • @basicalllyabi
    @basicalllyabi Před 2 lety +184

    This is why I always tell teenage girls and other young women to stay away from men like this, especially the grown men. These are the type of guys that will go for and groom teenagers/young women and then ruin their lives by using them because they know that these young girls are inexperienced.

    • @Mychannel-so8kf
      @Mychannel-so8kf Před 2 lety +22

      Absolutely. No big woman his age would be tolerating this. None with a sound mind anyway.

    • @basicalllyabi
      @basicalllyabi Před 2 lety +14

      @@Mychannel-so8kf Exactly! And they know this as well which is why they end up targeting young girls instead. It’s so sad.

    • @AC-tf8gr
      @AC-tf8gr Před 2 lety +3

      @@basicalllyabi tbf he was young when he had the kid, hes still a mad man tho

    • @candyshake5928
      @candyshake5928 Před 2 lety +17

      @@AC-tf8gr She was 15, and he was 18. He knew what he was doing.

    • @AC-tf8gr
      @AC-tf8gr Před 2 lety +7

      @@candyshake5928 I still think ur mad immature at 18 that’s like second year college. However that’s mad he was chopping a yr 10 at that age

  • @karahblake3860
    @karahblake3860 Před 2 lety +135

    I hope her daughter heals and comes to terms with the fact that, she's not missing out on anything with the love from the village her mum has created. I'm not confident he will change his ways respectfully but it would be nice if the daughter can still form a relationship with his family. I respect Evelyn for coming forward and being her daughters voice you can see she really wants them to have a relationship.

  • @uwaifoeenna
    @uwaifoeenna Před 2 lety +84

    Speaking to you baby mum like mandem is crazy. Love how she’s making very logical points

  • @stephanielovette4393
    @stephanielovette4393 Před 2 lety +67

    Evelyn deserves every accolade possible the strength to raise her child and deal with this man’s behaviour is beyond me I’m actually inspired.

  • @amiblu2u648
    @amiblu2u648 Před 2 lety +62

    The fact that she said he’s matured 🥴🥴🥴🥴 this…this is matured! I know he put that woman through pure hell.

  • @eannajay
    @eannajay Před 2 lety +69

    He refuses to comprehend what Evelyn is telling. She telling that he wasn’t their for their child and he’s smiling like this is a joke

  • @MsChi83
    @MsChi83 Před 2 lety +260

    I'm saddened & sickened to see that they've given such a disgraceful human being a big platform to showcase his wotlessness as a black man in our community, we really don't need to showcase this level of embarrassment. This "man" has friends & I bet not ONE of them will check him on his wasteman behaviour. This Empress did well to sit there, with her composure in check.

    • @ricardoricochet3021
      @ricardoricochet3021 Před 2 lety

      Same way women don’t check their hoe friends cheating on there man lol it’s life shitty ppl in both sexes

    • @ojasimon1187
      @ojasimon1187 Před 2 lety +5

      Spot on

  • @ShaloMEibbotson
    @ShaloMEibbotson Před 2 lety +222

    The male contraceptive pill comes to my mind when I hear him call her cuz, fam, bro. Does he think he is talking to his barber? His children will see him acting like this ... how embarrassing!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @LadyofLeisure.
      @LadyofLeisure. Před 2 lety +8

      They’re doing clinical trials human males this year I think. It’s been quite successful with rats

    • @wintersummer1633
      @wintersummer1633 Před 2 lety

      they aint dating babe. she's his baby mum.

    • @chocolatesugar4434
      @chocolatesugar4434 Před 2 lety +2

      I think thats the saddest part, I feel for his daughter

    • @jacpppp
      @jacpppp Před 2 lety +3

      This is normal speak for Tyrone’s smh

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +1

      @1204StrikesBack he never speaks like that and I think you lack comprehension
      Castillo bought on his ex to apologise and explain the nonsense he did (he was actually trying to explain his mindset to her at the time )
      This man lacks accountability,is delusional and doesn’t care

  • @AM-dv1xh
    @AM-dv1xh Před 2 lety +118

    This woman is amazing 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 she has patience, intelligence, great fore sight, eloquence, wisdom and so much more....I bet she is an amazing mother too. She's doing great job👍🏾 wish her and her daughter all the best ❤️

    • @btj7295
      @btj7295 Před 2 lety +4

      She has made the best of a bad situation and I think she probably is a very good mother given the circumstances, but we need to chill with celebrating single mothers who breed for wotless baby fathers. If we keep heralding them as "amazing", it will only worsen the massive (and growing) issue of single/ teenage motherhood in the black community. I never see a married couple in their 30s who successfully raise a child together called "amazing" by anyone. In reality THAT is what we should be praising and aiming for. Not this… this is actually quite sad.

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +1

      @@btj7295 again she was a child

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +1

      @@btj7295 relationships break apart all the time

    • @AM-dv1xh
      @AM-dv1xh Před 2 lety +2

      @BT J I hear you....but the reason I described her as 'amazing' is because in spite of the man not being there, she and her daughter seem to be thriving. Surely, that's something to celebrate. Not to glamorise single motherhood but rather to highlight that she overcame all of her struggles despite the man having minimal involvement. For me, that's something to celebrate and be amazed by. It's inspiring and sends the message that we can achieve more than we initially thought/ realise ❤️

    • @btj7295
      @btj7295 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bellocholo3626 That’s my point… maybe if we stopped celebrating single motherhood and started educating our children properly, they wouldn’t make mistakes like this.
      And of course relationships break up all the time, but clearly having a child at 16 with your first boyfriend, and having a child at 30 with your husband are two very different things. The latter has a far greater chance of keeping the family unit together. That is what we should be aiming for. Honestly, I can’t think of another culture that applauds single motherhood the way we love to for some reason. It’s not some badge of honour.

  • @PHARAOH149
    @PHARAOH149 Před 2 lety +85

    “I’m a big dog, you’re a pup”….okay sir.

  • @Miss_Yusuf
    @Miss_Yusuf Před 2 lety +280

    “Dummy” “shut up” - she really conducted herself well. Someone else would’ve been MAD

  • @charisseedwards777
    @charisseedwards777 Před 2 lety +58

    Lerone’s mother must be so embarrassed 😞.

    • @kikinyte6806
      @kikinyte6806 Před 2 lety +19

      Sis.....anything remotely connected to this guy should abandon him with immediate effect

    • @charisseedwards777
      @charisseedwards777 Před 2 lety +8

      @@kikinyte6806 Facts!

  • @puresoul7070
    @puresoul7070 Před 2 lety +62

    this man is a monster. look at evelyn wow!! successful, strong black woman. she has put this man a side and created a beautiful life for herself and daughter. going to uni with a child who has a disability and having a full time job at the same time? people struggle to just deal with uni ALONE no kids nothing ! wow! and having this man around her! god bless her.

    • @dylandylantoriyama5370
      @dylandylantoriyama5370 Před 2 lety

      @Pure Soul...strong black woman? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 another attempt of a black feminist with that misguided image and narrative lol. You forget the so-called ''independent'' term as well 🤣🤣.

    • @puresoul7070
      @puresoul7070 Před 2 lety +2

      @@dylandylantoriyama5370 oh cut it. im not even black myself but i can see the struggle of black women and this woman has been through hell but never gave up! stop being so negative. why does the term “strong black women” bother you? RIGHT. shes an independent, strong black woman, since you wanted me to co-operate independent into my sentence.

    • @dylandylantoriyama5370
      @dylandylantoriyama5370 Před 2 lety

      @@puresoul7070 Cut it? And you are not black yourself? lol, and you expect me to believe that. Your comment is very typical of a black feminist and this narrative of '' strong black women'' is a typical US illusion. You understand the ''struggle of black women'' but you are not black so what are you with all respect?

    • @puresoul7070
      @puresoul7070 Před 2 lety +2

      @@dylandylantoriyama5370 im human lol i dont need to be black or from a culture that is experiencing any form of oppression, racism or discrimination to empathise with them and help by speaking out the wrong doings. why are you so angry?

  • @shingi98
    @shingi98 Před 2 lety +47

    I honestly pray God surrounds this woman and her daughter with the love they truly deserve. She is such a strong mother, to go through this at 15 years old dealing with a guy like this for all those years… I really hope if she ever allows another man into her life he treats her with love and respect. Props to you Evelyn👏🏾 Well done for taking on a role you never asked to take alone with such grace and class ♥️

  • @tgssgt
    @tgssgt Před 2 lety +20

    As someone who has worked with Deaf children and people in general it’s great to see Evelyn being so proactive with her daughter’s identity. Being Deaf is a disability, albeit an “invisible” one and British sign language only became an official language, March 2003.
    Real props to Evelyn for handling herself so eloquently. What a humble, genuine person Evelyn is. Shine, Evelyn, shiiiiine 💫💫💫

  • @oxymoronicgrippy7891
    @oxymoronicgrippy7891 Před 2 lety +55

    "You were keeping me from seeing her"
    "You kicked my door in, damn near threw my TV out the window, threw my phone down the stairs, you broke my window, I had to board it up you were damaging my property so I couldn't tell you where I lived"
    "Oh yeah that's right"
    Wtf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @edwardaddow7223
    @edwardaddow7223 Před 2 lety +48

    Lerone is deluded telling Evelyn to "chill out" regarding going to college instead of looking after herself at 9 months pregnant. Deluded!

  • @shanadams8870
    @shanadams8870 Před 2 lety +124

    I was once this woman at 17 but without the child, my lucky escape

    • @xSalamz
      @xSalamz Před 2 lety +5

      Was your father in your life by any chance?

    • @_Savage-
      @_Savage- Před 2 lety +3

      @@xSalamz 😭

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +16

      @@xSalamz no father is better than a bad father by the way. Having a frayed has nothing to do with this
      It’s about kids not being given the talks early and older lads grooming young girls

    • @xSalamz
      @xSalamz Před 2 lety +1

      ​@@bellocholo3626 well of course no father is better than an abusive father I never said it was not. The stats show kids from nuclear family's performance better in life and are less likely to become teen parents. If there is a decent father at home the chances of their child being a victim of grooming is reduced significantly.

    • @theeone4500
      @theeone4500 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bellocholo3626 This is sometimes an excuse women use. Who determines whether the father is bad??? Both sexes need to think carefully about who they mate with.

  • @Miss_Yusuf
    @Miss_Yusuf Před 2 lety +67

    He’s not bothered that his child feels abandoned by him - he should be avoided at all cost

  • @Official.beckss7
    @Official.beckss7 Před 2 lety +57

    Durex should interview him for Condom advert.. to express the importance of Condoms for men who aren’t ready to be Fathers 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @neaveah_2141
    @neaveah_2141 Před 2 lety +270

    This man is what you call a narcissist. Women we need to do better for ourselves. None deserves a father like this man seriously.

    • @allisonshaw3415
      @allisonshaw3415 Před 2 lety +13

      Emphasis on no one deserves a father like this!!! So so embarrassing for a so called father to be this nonchalant and disrespectful to the mother of his child and her experiences raising her deaf daughter

    • @ReeRee_Donita
      @ReeRee_Donita Před 2 lety +6

      Thank you. It’s looks like full blown NPD to me. I’ve got one in my family so I know what narcissistic abuse feels like. Besides the more obvious signs of narcissism, I clocked it from where she said he would disappear for 11 months at a time and overcompensate with kindness only to f her over again. Overcompensation is a form of disarmament. Getting you to put your guard down. Sounds like he spent those breaks looking for supplies and ran out of them, so he kept coming back to her because he knew Evelyn wanted for her daughter to have a male presence and used that as leverage to turn her into his supply once again. The one in my family did exactly the same thing to my parents and I. She would disappear for 2-5 years at a time. It’s damn scary.

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 Před 2 lety +7

      @@allisonshaw3415 Emphasis on women need to do better!!!

    • @allisonshaw3415
      @allisonshaw3415 Před 2 lety +5

      @@chi3812 100% and a lot of women need to understand what they are getting themselves into before choosing to pro create with men who don’t possess good morals

    • @Ht-wt4mv
      @Ht-wt4mv Před 2 lety

      literally

  • @Megan-yc1vo
    @Megan-yc1vo Před 2 lety +43

    Wow what a woman. The patience is immeasurable

  • @x0Rebekah
    @x0Rebekah Před 2 lety +121

    Not him saying being deaf isn't a disability... He's insufferable. I don't know why she's trying to reason with him. he cant seem to keep a straight face or make a clear point.

  • @MS-tk8wh
    @MS-tk8wh Před 2 lety +55

    Accountability goes through one ear and out the other with this man

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +6

      You know why? He doesn’t care or because he genuinely thinks he has done no wrong

    • @therealistshow8889
      @therealistshow8889 Před 2 lety

      She lied down snd fucked him ? Its not all on him

    • @shingi98
      @shingi98 Před 2 lety +5

      He really lacks self awareness, it’s so sad to see. Even after being told he still has absolutely no clue how his actions have affected people.

    • @mrdawks8932
      @mrdawks8932 Před 2 lety +3

      ✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY.
      make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids.
      WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.

    • @therealistshow8889
      @therealistshow8889 Před 2 lety

      @@mrdawks8932 trust but don't say queen's lmao because they not queen's

  • @victoriaoflagos2281
    @victoriaoflagos2281 Před 2 lety +110

    Young girls should watch this and learn to make better decisions cause this is a regrettable situation

    • @tapiwa9438
      @tapiwa9438 Před 2 lety +11

      @@adenifeijanusi3576 nah she’s got a good point, us women will ignore red flags all the name of love. Like he said at the beginning she knew who she was getting with

    • @kayleighdhillon1385
      @kayleighdhillon1385 Před 2 lety +3

      @@adenifeijanusi3576 it doesn't sound like blame, it sounds like accountability on her part. Red flags are usually in front of you but when you act and think with feelings, you tend to ignore them. Emotional maturity comes with self reflection also. You don't need to become a victim. Just learn the lessons. We already can witness what he's doing wrong. I couldn't sit in the room long enough to tolerate it. My hat off to her for sitting through it calmly.

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety

      I agree, when girls are young we are swept up by the lies men tell us

    • @posjaboateng5556
      @posjaboateng5556 Před 2 lety +2

      @@bellocholo3626 9 baby mothers there must have been some red flags which some woman ignore

    • @therealistshow8889
      @therealistshow8889 Před 2 lety

      @@bellocholo3626 its you not men lol

  • @eyeview3765
    @eyeview3765 Před 2 lety +17

    This is like watching someone trying to logically talk to a 15yr old about his 14yr old daughter.

    • @sharon1939
      @sharon1939 Před 2 lety +5

      Don't disrespect 15 year olds please. Lol

  • @nessaduh8033
    @nessaduh8033 Před 2 lety +134

    Emotionally he's a perpetual child, very low vibrational even in the way he is speaking and interacting with her just trying to gaslight her with every interjection. Evelyn has the patience of a saint and I'm so proud of the life she has managed to build for herself and her daughter, her daughter sounds like an amazing young person. I'm praying that young girls see useless men of no value like Lerone and avoid them like the plague before they change the trajectory of their life and trap them with a baby. Girls, please take your reproductive health seriously because you cannot share a life through your child with incompetant men like this with no prospects (this isn't a diss to Evelyn because she was a teenager, barely legal and lerone was older than her). My closing statements: Lerone needs to be neutered and no ring, no freaking womb ladies. Access denied!

  • @Haider-ui9vk
    @Haider-ui9vk Před 2 lety +27

    He makes castilo look like a saint

  • @lillies2011
    @lillies2011 Před 2 lety +76

    Lerone is the personification of modern day toxicity smh

  • @mutesimasereka7816
    @mutesimasereka7816 Před 2 lety +29

    she kept on asking "what tangible thing have you got from the roads?" and he gave answers like wisdom and respect as if she's gnna clap for him...kmt anyway he doesn't believe he's child has a disability, why am i shocked

  • @skyraa
    @skyraa Před 2 lety +80

    He was probably physically abusive too...damn

  • @nikigracevlogs
    @nikigracevlogs Před 2 lety +13

    When she was laughing so hard because he said he was “careful”. Gurlll.. me and you laughing together at the foolishness leaving his mouth 🤣🤣🤣

  • @alyshakhan3586
    @alyshakhan3586 Před 2 lety +18

    her daughter is blessed to have a mother like evelyn props to her💜

  • @bridget3163
    @bridget3163 Před 2 lety +16

    Gyal asked "what did you accomplish being on the road."
    Man said "survival"
    lolllllll man is moving fugaziiiii

  • @DumplinMills1
    @DumplinMills1 Před 2 lety +20

    As a member of the Caribbean community, we do not claim this male being

    • @sweetnezgyal
      @sweetnezgyal Před 2 lety

      I feel so embarrassed.

    • @chrissychris3023
      @chrissychris3023 Před 2 lety

      This is exactly what his dad did, if he even had one!

    • @makedaloves
      @makedaloves Před 2 lety

      When he said that I wanted to say you really didn't need to say anything about being Caribbean because there are plenty that are NOT like that.

    • @ninasky126
      @ninasky126 Před rokem

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ruthharry7663
    @ruthharry7663 Před 2 lety +18

    i feel she’s talking to a wall.. nothing is entering, this guy just had a mind of his own..😂.. she’s willingly strong and a lovely person

  • @neaveah_2141
    @neaveah_2141 Před 2 lety +45

    Not him excusing domestic abuse.It’s always the bums that act this way. The way he’s talking no Gang knows this man.

  • @Sashimani
    @Sashimani Před 2 lety +17

    It’s honestly really really hard to chose empathy for a man like this. This man has a sickness deep within in his soul. Evelyn has carried herself with grace, patience and such class. God bless her and her baby.

  • @shyannejordan7654
    @shyannejordan7654 Před 2 lety +22

    The smile on his face when she’s being serious about their daughter makes me sick …

  • @bankyrecords2965
    @bankyrecords2965 Před 2 lety +19

    In this life Evelyn, you can only take so much disrespect. Your daughter deserves so much better. I honestly applaud your diplomacy and the level of maturity your applying to a serious conversation to which quite frankly this old-young man refuses to nip in a bud.

  • @kinjaaurelie216
    @kinjaaurelie216 Před 2 lety +117

    How do women like that, well behaved, educated, composed and basically responsible parent, end up with someone like that? Love is blind, til he has responsibility and starts showing that he stopped growing at 15

    • @senanb1
      @senanb1 Před 2 lety

      They're actors. I think it's fake

    • @Miss_Yusuf
      @Miss_Yusuf Před 2 lety +11

      @@senanb1 it’s not. The kid is on her IG and she looks just like him

    • @aliyahandrade9381
      @aliyahandrade9381 Před 2 lety +2

      @Saint oo mind your business

    • @jaybossupsettinz1615
      @jaybossupsettinz1615 Před 2 lety +2

      Good girl like bad boys

    • @bellocholo3626
      @bellocholo3626 Před 2 lety +6

      Well she was a kid but I wonder what the other women that were age 20 and above are like

  • @Maddie_H22_
    @Maddie_H22_ Před 2 lety +12

    Her patience is unmatched, this man needs a wake up call.

  • @Rella28
    @Rella28 Před 2 lety +32

    She doesn’t even have to state the evil things that he’s done
    I’ve come across men personally like this who take it upon themselves to make your life as miserable as possible.
    I can just imagine some of the evil things he’s done

  • @ft8375
    @ft8375 Před 2 lety +18

    The beanie hat and polo top is killing me

    • @chasechase7683
      @chasechase7683 Před 2 lety

      Bmmmmmtttttttttttt 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @amiraabdulraheem1854
    @amiraabdulraheem1854 Před 2 lety +8

    She was so patient and communicative. Great job queen. You did that.

  • @reenz7785
    @reenz7785 Před 2 lety +51

    This guy is just tapped cannot lie. The disrespect.
    Makes me sick. He has no respect for Women period point blank. Such a narcissistic immature little boy.

  • @brunolucali1873
    @brunolucali1873 Před 2 lety +16

    She’s actually a top class therapist

    • @Infintekweyol
      @Infintekweyol Před 2 lety +3

      I'd love to speak to her. I have so many questions to ask her. She's the definition of a light at the end of the tunnel

  • @teecee9993
    @teecee9993 Před 2 lety +10

    This woman is absolutely amazing, she’s mature, grown and overly understanding!! She is definitely a winner, Larone?…no comment

  • @user-hr5iz8xo8p
    @user-hr5iz8xo8p Před 2 lety +60

    The lipstick colour looks beautiful on her 😍😍

  • @tamarapimentel1472
    @tamarapimentel1472 Před 2 lety +11

    This lady is amazing in the way she keeps composure and articulated herself

  • @Aliv_ia
    @Aliv_ia Před 2 lety +11

    You can tell Evelyn is such a loving and forgiving woman

  • @claireangelbryan7802
    @claireangelbryan7802 Před 2 lety +7

    The way this beautiful lady articulates herself is incredible. She is so calm and knows how to get her point across even when this man is giving her a hard time not accepting his faults.
    Strong Black Women you are awesome.
    As I would have walked out of the interview from long time.

  • @djan8506
    @djan8506 Před 2 lety +24

    There are a lot of men like this out there, cos this man got friends like him.

  • @rheadee33
    @rheadee33 Před 2 lety +18

    Evelyn you are a fantastic mother against all the odds, you strived and made sure you and your daughter had a great life, I pray Kia has all the love and care she needs that her father neglected to give her. Composed and well spoken, your better then me 🤣 Well done. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Marlow6ix
    @Marlow6ix Před 2 lety +34

    This badboy persona at 34 isn’t cool it’s embarrassing

  • @MyPinkett
    @MyPinkett Před 2 lety +10

    This girl is class. It’s unfortunate at 15 she didn’t meet the right person.

  • @0nyaradzo
    @0nyaradzo Před 2 lety +7

    The way she is keeping her cool is so admirable and beautiful the way she is advocating for her child.

  • @Mscursed2
    @Mscursed2 Před 2 lety +70

    She has done it all and she’s done a great job

    • @sasshil4202
      @sasshil4202 Před 2 lety +8

      Extremely, even sends her child to private school aswell wow she is a fantastic mother

  • @jennifer7221
    @jennifer7221 Před 2 lety +20

    this woman is such a queen big ups to her fr she’s so mature

  • @lifeasada1413
    @lifeasada1413 Před 2 lety +10

    This lady had to school this man how their daughter felt about his absence, This is really painful to watch

  • @sirius4340
    @sirius4340 Před 2 lety +43

    Jerome is giving off substitute teacher vibes with his daughter

  • @mzteegreen1212
    @mzteegreen1212 Před 2 lety +7

    Minimal accountability - maximum immaturity on his part. Well done to this amazing woman for raising her child alone whilst trying to improve her life. It aint easy.

  • @doracsongradi2234
    @doracsongradi2234 Před rokem +2

    The audacity this man had throughout the whole conversation (part 1 and part 2)… omg. I was raging every time he smiled and tried to gaslight her.

  • @LoveSoca
    @LoveSoca Před 2 lety +10

    She cooks dinner, she’s obedient, she’s lovely, she just does! What an amazing child! She deserves better than this clown! She will see this one day and I hope she knows this isn’t her fault and moves on from him. Men like him will pop back up if she becomes famous or wealthy and expect to bask in her success.

  • @xxx-su2ty
    @xxx-su2ty Před 2 lety +7

    This woman is a saint, utmost respect to her!

  • @yakasitamercy3645
    @yakasitamercy3645 Před 2 lety +5

    she's so patient and non-aggressive because I would've stood tf up started shouting.