Interpersonal strife with those close to us leads to rifts and resentments that produce symptoms of mental illness; these problems are, in fact, the logical consequence of troubled relationships. Glasser emphasizes that lasting psychological problems are usually caused by problems in our personal relationships (rather than signifying a biochemical abnormality in the brain), and distress can be remedied through repairing these relationships without recourse to psych drugs. WILLIAM GLASSER Controlling Habits: Blaming Criticizing Complaining Nagging Rewarding To Control Threatening Punishing William Glasser William Glasser "What's my Choice" Connecting Habits: Listening Supporting Encouraging Negotiating Respecting Accepting Trusting They see us as timid, shy, weak, or unsociable. Fearing these labels, we try to be like others. But that leads to our becoming overaroused and distressed. Then that gets us labeled neurotic or crazy, first by others then by ourselves. The Highly Sensitive Person, Elaine N. Aron Learning to see our trait as a neutral thing-useful in some situations, not in others-but our culture definitely does not see it, or any trait, as neutral. Be careful about accepting labels for yourself such as "inhibited", "introverted", "shy" The Highly Sensitive Person,E. Aron "Sooner or later everyone encounters stressful life experiences, but HSPs react more to such stimulation. If you see this reaction as part of some basic flaw, you intensify the stress already present in any life crisis. This deeper processing of subtle details causes you to consider the past or future more. You "just know" how things got to be the way they are or how they are going to turn out. It can be wrong, but your intuition is right often enough that HSPs tend to be visionaries, more conscientious, cautious and wise people. It is important not to confuse arousal with fear. And often we think that our arousal is due to fear. We do not realize that our heart may be pounding from the sheer effort of processing extra stimulation. I really suggest trying to view it as neutral. HSPs must spend far more time trying to invent solutions to human problems just because they are more sensitive to hunger, cold, insecurity, exhaustion, and illness. Since most non-HSPs do not seem to enjoy thinking about such things, they assume we must be unhappy doing all that pondering. Spend enough time putting yourself out there in the world - your sensitivity is not something to be feared. Carl Jung believed that when highly sensitive patients has experienced a trauma, they had been unusually affected and so developed a neurosis. Preferring toughness, the culture sees our trait as something difficult to live with, something to be cured. HSPs differ mainly in their sensitive processing of subtle stimuli. This is your most basic quality." The Highly Sensitive Person, Elaine N. Aron Goodness is chosen. When a man cannot choose, he ceases to be a man. A Clockwork Orange (1971) We didn't know until recently that c-PTSD is an injury to your brain and nervous system. And a lot of therapist and clinical professionals still don't know this. YT Crappy Childhood Fairy Somebody made you feel bad about yourself for expecting a normal respectful interaction with people. Somebody planted this idea that you are damaged. YT Crappy Childhood Fairy
Hello Sir, mujhe 100% confirm ho gya hai ki mujhe bhi social anxiety disorder hai, please muje iski koi medicine bataye (muje sczhopherina bhi hai) Ab toh aap smj he gye honge mai kitna persan hu🥺🥺 please help
Sir mere saath bhi yhi hota he logo ke bich me jaata hu to injayati hoti he or aapne Jo kha vo sb hota he isliye me aesi jgh jaane se deta ho or jata hi nhi or mujhe sijofreniya bhi he ilaj bhi chal rha he but jyada fayda nhi ho rha goli Khao or jio agr kuch simtm ho to firse docter ke paas jao or fir se dvai bdli jati he or d jati he 10-12 saal ho gye yhi chal rha he na to bimari thik Hui na njayti na overthinking or na stress
Society highly values its normal man. It educates children to lose themselves and to become absurd, and thus to be normal. R. D. Laing We are all in a post-hypnotic trance induced in early infancy. R.D. Laing There are good reasons for being obedient, but being unable to be disobedient is not one of the best reasons. R.D. Laing Do not adjust your mind, the fault is in reality. R. D. Laing
शानदार ❤️
Yes bhai jii
Mujhe bahar jaane se ghabrahat Hoti hai aur panic hota hai logon se baat karne mein dikkat hoti hai
Iska upchaar ke upar video aplod kare sir
Interpersonal strife with those close to us leads to rifts and resentments that produce symptoms of mental illness; these problems are, in fact, the logical consequence of troubled relationships.
Glasser emphasizes that lasting psychological problems are usually caused by problems in our personal relationships (rather than signifying a biochemical abnormality in the brain), and distress can be remedied through repairing these relationships without recourse to psych drugs.
WILLIAM GLASSER
Controlling Habits:
Blaming
Criticizing
Complaining
Nagging
Rewarding To Control
Threatening
Punishing
William Glasser
William Glasser "What's my Choice" Connecting Habits:
Listening
Supporting
Encouraging
Negotiating
Respecting
Accepting
Trusting
They see us as timid, shy, weak, or unsociable. Fearing these labels, we try to be like others. But that leads to our becoming overaroused and distressed. Then that gets us labeled neurotic or crazy, first by others then by ourselves.
The Highly Sensitive Person, Elaine N. Aron
Learning to see our trait as a neutral thing-useful in some situations, not in others-but our culture definitely does not see it, or any trait, as neutral.
Be careful about accepting labels for yourself such as "inhibited", "introverted", "shy"
The Highly Sensitive Person,E. Aron
"Sooner or later everyone encounters stressful life experiences, but HSPs react more to such stimulation. If you see this reaction as part of some basic flaw, you intensify the stress already present in any life crisis.
This deeper processing of subtle details causes you to consider the past or future more. You "just know" how things got to be the way they are or how they are going to turn out. It can be wrong, but your intuition is right often enough that HSPs tend to be visionaries, more conscientious, cautious and wise people.
It is important not to confuse arousal with fear.
And often we think that our arousal is due to fear. We do not realize that our heart may be pounding from the sheer effort of processing extra stimulation.
I really suggest trying to view it as neutral.
HSPs must spend far more time trying to invent solutions to human problems just because they are more sensitive to hunger, cold, insecurity, exhaustion, and illness.
Since most non-HSPs do not seem to enjoy thinking about such things, they assume we must be unhappy doing all that pondering.
Spend enough time putting yourself out there in the world - your sensitivity is not something to be feared.
Carl Jung believed that when highly sensitive patients has experienced a trauma, they had been unusually affected and so developed a neurosis.
Preferring toughness, the culture sees our trait as something difficult to live with, something to be cured. HSPs differ mainly in their sensitive processing of subtle stimuli. This is your most basic quality."
The Highly Sensitive Person, Elaine N. Aron
Goodness is chosen. When a man cannot choose, he ceases to be a man.
A Clockwork Orange (1971)
We didn't know until recently that c-PTSD is an injury to your brain and nervous system. And a lot of therapist and clinical professionals still don't know this.
YT Crappy Childhood Fairy
Somebody made you feel bad about yourself for expecting a normal respectful interaction with people. Somebody planted this idea that you are damaged.
YT Crappy Childhood Fairy
Hello Sir, mujhe 100% confirm ho gya hai ki mujhe bhi social anxiety disorder hai, please muje iski koi medicine bataye (muje sczhopherina bhi hai)
Ab toh aap smj he gye honge mai kitna persan hu🥺🥺 please help
Sir mere saath bhi yhi hota he logo ke bich me jaata hu to injayati hoti he or aapne Jo kha vo sb hota he isliye me aesi jgh jaane se deta ho or jata hi nhi or mujhe sijofreniya bhi he ilaj bhi chal rha he but jyada fayda nhi ho rha goli Khao or jio agr kuch simtm ho to firse docter ke paas jao or fir se dvai bdli jati he or d jati he 10-12 saal ho gye yhi chal rha he na to bimari thik Hui na njayti na overthinking or na stress
What.is.treatment.sir?
Mujhe ocd ka problem he
How to interact with you about a schizofrenic patient
Society highly values its normal man. It educates children to lose themselves and to become absurd, and thus to be normal.
R. D. Laing
We are all in a post-hypnotic trance induced in early infancy.
R.D. Laing
There are good reasons for being obedient, but being unable to be disobedient is not one of the best reasons.
R.D. Laing
Do not adjust your mind, the fault is in reality.
R. D. Laing
Mera satha yesa hota he