How mindfulness changes the emotional life of our brains | Richard J. Davidson | TEDxSanFrancisco

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  • @grimeselianna1003
    @grimeselianna1003 Před 3 lety +648

    "A wandering mind is an unhappy mind" ---This is the most important lesson that i have learnt today through this video!!

  • @princessdenne
    @princessdenne Před rokem +105

    I admire people who shares their knowledge about something to make us better

  • @KATSUvo
    @KATSUvo Před rokem +33

    I remember talking to an African, he was here for work. Super awesome dude, always positive. His wife was dealing with depression coming to Canada. He said the medication given for depression isn't the same at home. His home they make you go into community mode. Everyone gathers for you and with you to do things in the community. Other wives would help her. She went back home to receive the care she missed the most.

    • @adaninurs
      @adaninurs Před 28 dny +1

      We are social beings that are conditioned to live in individualist society, so ofc these stuff would happen, unfortunately. We need to bring community based back!

  • @stevensoutar2073
    @stevensoutar2073 Před 3 lety +459

    Since doing a ten minute meditation practice every day for a year I can see several benefits. Less emotional reactivity, more space and distance from thoughts and stories about myself. This has lead me to be more engaged in my life.

    • @devips5102
      @devips5102 Před rokem +1

      🤗🤗🤗👍👍

    • @jodiescott8731
      @jodiescott8731 Před 7 měsíci

      What was the 10 minute meditation practice please

    • @stevensoutar2073
      @stevensoutar2073 Před 7 měsíci +18

      @@jodiescott8731Hi! It was a 10 minute unguided meditation. Just set a timer. Usually I follow my breath. If I’m in a stressed out state I will say inwardly: In then out and so on. I sometimes include the practice of counting down and counting up. This involves saying inwardly: 30 then 1, 29 then 2, 28 then 3, etc. It’s great way to train your attention. Hope this helps!

    • @jodiescott8731
      @jodiescott8731 Před 7 měsíci +8

      I just want to say thank you very much Steven, for taking the time to reply and give me a guided start.
      I have been through a very traumatic experience, and greatly needed a start with meditation to hopefully improve my life. So much appreciated. :)

    • @johnbrittjr9999
      @johnbrittjr9999 Před 5 měsíci

      What are some of your meditation practices?

  • @engelbertbagnas1992
    @engelbertbagnas1992 Před 3 lety +1589

    4 challenges 1. Distractibility 2. Loneliness 3. Negative self talk/depression 4. Lack of meaning/purpose of life 4 pillars 1. Awareness 2. Connection 3. Insights 4. Purpose

  • @Itsyourhoneysharma
    @Itsyourhoneysharma Před 2 lety +964

    A clear-calm mind is what everybody wants and I'm grateful for having it. I feel utmost silence in my mind such that I can focus on anything effectively. I feel a gentle sensation throughout my body as a result of deep meditation. I have attained control over my mind and I allow only positive thoughts to enter in. My habits have uplifted my mood and I'm happy about this.

    • @Honken1995
      @Honken1995 Před 2 lety +17

      How did you do? What kind of meditation did you do?

    • @Kat_Apiata
      @Kat_Apiata Před 2 lety +5

      Me too

    • @ArthurTugwell
      @ArthurTugwell Před 2 lety +15

      Please tell me how! Desperately need to quieten by busy mind

    • @LynnKeuang
      @LynnKeuang Před 2 lety +10

      Oh how I wish to be you… it’s not the easiest.

    • @fighterflight
      @fighterflight Před 2 lety +160

      But this is NOT the goal of meditation / mindfulness. The goal is not to control your thoughts and “only allow positive thoughts in” or even to silence your thoughts. This is impossible. None of that is the goal. This is a common misconception.
      The goal of meditation/ mindfulness is simply to observe and let it go… _without judgement._ Thoughts are neither negative or positive, they just *are.* There is no way to silence our minds or experience only “positive” thoughts. It sounds like you haven’t studied meditation/ mindfulness to say these things.

  • @lb7470
    @lb7470 Před 3 lety +236

    Dad I miss u, may u be free from all pain, may u be happy, may u be rest in peace

    • @transformwithmenow4186
      @transformwithmenow4186 Před 3 lety +2

      Blessings 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

    • @jaiminshah6416
      @jaiminshah6416 Před 3 lety +1

      🙏 RIP 🙏

    • @joaoresende9868
      @joaoresende9868 Před 3 lety +2

      ...and, so you keep your mind in Peace. 🙏

    • @rohankandamby9857
      @rohankandamby9857 Před 3 lety +4

      I missed my dad,may you be free of all suffering and pain,happy and like always my savior.

    • @festivalnight6225
      @festivalnight6225 Před 3 lety +1

      Lili Bhagat ; *SAME HERE SIS, I ALSO MISS MY DAD VERY MUCH.*
      *JUST FOCUS ON THE PRESENT LEAVE THE PAST.* RIP😂😂

  • @davidvandeusen3424
    @davidvandeusen3424 Před rokem +23

    Richard was my Professor at SUNY Purchase. He was outstanding

  • @senecavitharana1217
    @senecavitharana1217 Před rokem +46

    This is called loving kindness meditation in Buddhism which is very powerful. You can start with you , your family and extend to whole universe.

    • @dibberdabber6217
      @dibberdabber6217 Před rokem +1

      ☝🏽infinite multi-verses

    • @mrssomeone2143
      @mrssomeone2143 Před 11 měsíci +1

      It is called muhasabah in Islam. Self reflection about our being as human, surrender to Allah

    • @NINARAtravel
      @NINARAtravel Před 11 měsíci

      Yes. Those are very powerful & practical theories.

    • @adamtaylor9189
      @adamtaylor9189 Před měsícem

      Bollocks 😂

    • @chestbech
      @chestbech Před měsícem +2

      ​@@adamtaylor9189sounds like you need it 😉
      Just for your self reflection: with what tone of voice do you talk to yourself in your mind?

  • @allthatjazzshow3299
    @allthatjazzshow3299 Před 3 lety +64

    To the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, may all your dreams come true, may you be successful in all spheres of life, stay safe and have a wonderful day :)

    • @klmnclement
      @klmnclement Před 3 lety +1

      I may not be religious, but amen! May those who give blessings receive those very blessings ten times over! May you be loved, and may you be loving, dear stranger

    • @allthatjazzshow3299
      @allthatjazzshow3299 Před 3 lety +2

      @@klmnclement Thank you brother

    • @adebajoakeem3832
      @adebajoakeem3832 Před 3 lety +1

      Bless you and yours

    • @philiphouck1059
      @philiphouck1059 Před 3 lety

      Depression is the worst it’s like your brain is stuck

    • @WeHumambo
      @WeHumambo Před 2 lety

      Amen ,thank you 😊.

  • @mariapautassi4299
    @mariapautassi4299 Před 3 lety +234

    I really loved this talk. I've been mediating for the past 10 months, and have experienced the benefits: I have come to accept my anxiety, live with it peacefully, and it happens this has reduced my anxiety. I'm sleeping 8 hours a day (sometimes even 10), when a year ago I needed to take medication to sleep. I am kinder to myself, and I also think others (my close friends tell me I am more loveable). I tend to be kinda impulsive, now I can catch myself before I burst out (most of the time). I concentrate better at work, I have reduced my news intake and generally negative media intake, and list goes on and on... But what I really loved about this talk is that it takes midfulness to the next level. Mindfulness is not just meant to help us as individuals, but as a society. AMAZING!

    • @ikigai1236
      @ikigai1236 Před 3 lety +13

      I have been paralyzed by loneliness, lack of purpose, feeling of anger and depression for many years. It is only through meditation that I find deep peace and contentment. I am now inspire to teach this to my own kids that there is a way to find inner happiness and peace despite what is going on around the world.

    • @inatklw
      @inatklw Před 2 lety +7

      happy and inspired to hear things are going well for you. keep at it. i'm starting my journey to a healthy mind, today.

    • @hannahg39
      @hannahg39 Před 2 lety +4

      Good for you!We really do create our own world for better(or for worse)!

    • @hannahg39
      @hannahg39 Před 2 lety +1

      @Chertsey Nermal It's actually very simple and boring, unless you bring all of preconceived notions and baggage with you, then it can be downright terrifying! There are plenty of great CZcams videos and meditations to help get you started! Namaste

    • @kinseyhopper856
      @kinseyhopper856 Před 2 lety +8

      this is honestly so inspiring and i hope to be able to get to this point one day soon. i am 16 and drowning in anxiety, depression, fear, and my past. i am honestly desperate at this point to get better as this is ruining my teenage life. i have heard about meditation and mindfulness and have been tempted to try it, but having adhd its very hard to just focus my mind on it and be motivated and consistent with it. i believe so deeply that i can get through this with support and self-bettering. thank you for sharing yourbstory

  • @alexandrugheorghe5610
    @alexandrugheorghe5610 Před 3 lety +800

    Been meditating for more than a year and a half, every day with only a few days missed now, and I can say my life changed significantly for the better. I started small (basics, 3 minutes a day) and then incorporated 10 minutes of Headspace mindfulness meditation after brushing my teeth, every morning. Now it is a routine I hardly would like to give up and when there're moments of stress (resistance to the idea of practicing mindfulness) I find that just getting started, will afterwards resolve by itself.through the very act.of meditating in a mindful way. This is a skill that, once honed, can be used again and again and again.

    • @edith3693
      @edith3693 Před 3 lety +30

      meditation changed your brain and your brain changed your life!*

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety +9

      Alexandru, Meditation is the permanent way to a relaxed and stress free life because it reprogrames the mind. Enter "Alternate nostril breathing meditation videos" on Google search and do the simple meditation for 10 to 15 minutes if possible twice a day. Also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation. It can also be done sitting on a chair. Best wishes. Do meditation daily to enjoy a relaxed life. Best wishes--Shyaaam --Life Coach.

    • @stevebarcanic9388
      @stevebarcanic9388 Před 3 lety +18

      Alexandru Gheorghe I began my meditation practice much the same way. About 2 years ago, very skeptical, a bit at a time. Found both Headspace and Calm app to be very useful. Now, I can’t imagine a day without formal meditation and informal mindfulness. It has allowed me to find more acceptance, happiness and the ability to be more present more often.

    • @monicasharma6002
      @monicasharma6002 Před 3 lety +2

      How to meditate?

    • @zeldaharris4091
      @zeldaharris4091 Před 3 lety

      @@stevebarcanic9388 p

  • @aly6876
    @aly6876 Před 2 lety +10

    i’m a teenager and my mental health has not been great from last december i’m really trying to heal myself and get my life together. i have to learn to be patient with myself and practice wellness

  • @kateforsyth1133
    @kateforsyth1133 Před 4 měsíci +13

    After 129 days of daily meditation and mindfulness study, my life is changed. It’s so wonderful to have a cure for stress and anxiety and now I’m finding all the scientific reasons why. Fascinating

    • @Tanisha_Varun_
      @Tanisha_Varun_ Před 3 měsíci

      Did you cure your anxiety by mindfulness?

  • @shahramshams339
    @shahramshams339 Před 3 lety +186

    That was so true!
    "A wandering mind is an unhappy mind."
    Four challenges: Distractions, Loneliness, Negative self-talk/beliefs, Lack of purpose
    Four pillars: Awareness, Connection, Insights, Purpose
    "META AWARENESS is knowing what our minds are doing."

    • @omarabbassi8305
      @omarabbassi8305 Před 2 lety +3

      I feel like I achieve meta awareness when I have a really good weed high

    • @omarabbassi8305
      @omarabbassi8305 Před 2 lety +5

      @shahram shame but than it fades away mostly when it wears off, but I can still sense it barely in the background inside of me if that makes sense.

    • @khajababu1403
      @khajababu1403 Před 2 lety +1

      , iam suffering from severe depression And physical bodily pain symptoms for last 3 months, iam taking two psych meds present.. can i tapper of both clonazepam (0.5 mg) & vortioxetin (10mg) have been using for 3 weeks only.. I don't want to stay on these pills which cannot give me relef rather more I'll feeling.. Please advice me n ur support needed 🙏 iam eagerly waiting for ur reply, I don't want to regret in future help me.. Does his idea helps me to overcome depression and physical pain also.. Please help me out.. Please how did u heal.. Giver me some tips

    • @MuhammedSalim-zu6qy
      @MuhammedSalim-zu6qy Před rokem +1

      @@khajababu1403 possibly you have been on routine for long time. Leave ur comfort zone. Travel. Make relationships, revive the relationships, exercise, try to do sth new every day. Celebrate the small wins.

    • @jagatgajmer2917
      @jagatgajmer2917 Před rokem +1

      A photographer is taking a picture, he has the camera in his hand. But if that camera is moving up and down, he will not be able to take any picture perfectly. That picture will be blurred or it will be spoiled. So in order to take a perfect picture he has to hold that camera completely stationary.
      In the same way when a person meditating, the mind become the camera and the object becomes the energy of God,the Cosmic Energy,or the universal spirit or universal Energy. So when the mind takes a picture, first of all the mind has to be stationary, it has to be concerned.
      If the mind is moving up and down there'll be no experience of God and that's what happens to many people. But when the mind becomes stationary, through meditation , through concentration, then the mind is in a position to take picture of that Universal Spirit. So that is why, in order to experience, to get the experience we have to understand that we have to control the mind , make this mind stationary ,which is very important.

  • @maddarena
    @maddarena Před 3 lety +144

    Conclusion: generating a feeling of love as often as possible will eventually remove the reasons for suffering.

    • @jamilajulie5717
      @jamilajulie5717 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you!

    • @illyrosen9772
      @illyrosen9772 Před 3 lety

      and how do you do that?

    • @maddarena
      @maddarena Před 3 lety +11

      @@illyrosen9772 The simple way is to think about the situation when you felt love. Like hugging somebody you love, a child, or even your pet. The best memories are when you felt the mutual love that you shared with somebody. But other happy memories are good too, like watching beautiful landscape or feeding birds. It is an individual thing. When you think about moments you felt love you start feeling love. It doesn't even have to be a real memory. You just have to think about something that makes you feel love. It works the same with all emotions. Thinking about the moment when you felt an emotion connects you to this emotion and you start feeling it (generating it). Sad moments, angry moments, peaceful moments, etc. After some practice, you will be able to generate love just by wishing to feel it, and eventually, you will feel it almost all the time. It will be harder to do when you are in a bad mood but it still works, you just have to make a bigger effort.

    • @aeroball8360
      @aeroball8360 Před 3 lety +2

      @@illyrosen9772 i find the easiest way is to always have at least one person you can practice love for daily. If you dont currently have an SO or not around family members, a dog works just as well.

    • @illyrosen9772
      @illyrosen9772 Před 3 lety

      @@aeroball8360 'SO'?

  • @kbmblizz1940
    @kbmblizz1940 Před 3 lety +228

    Agreed. Let's start by less time on Facebook, Twitter, WeChat, TikTok...

    • @AW-ie5zs
      @AW-ie5zs Před 3 lety +19

      Agreed, the comment sections on Reddit/youtube etc.. social media can be very toxic.

    • @kbmblizz1940
      @kbmblizz1940 Před 3 lety +12

      @@AW-ie5zs Addictive too.

    • @meredith5518
      @meredith5518 Před 3 lety +3

      exactly

    • @kimtemplin1330
      @kimtemplin1330 Před 3 lety +14

      It is why I stay off of Facebook and Twitter. The negativity is horrendous.

    • @kbmblizz1940
      @kbmblizz1940 Před 3 lety +6

      @@kimtemplin1330👍 Too easy to confuse truth with popularity.

  • @hibahariri3240
    @hibahariri3240 Před 3 lety +42

    I didnt know that praying in Islam had that much effect on our brains!
    I pray every day for my family and every one who I love. Sometimes I spend an hour praying and I feel so much better and peacefull after that💓

    • @susanwinfield5750
      @susanwinfield5750 Před 3 lety +6

      Now pray for those you do not know or love. Therein is peace

    • @anjalitiwari2683
      @anjalitiwari2683 Před 2 lety

      Meditation and praying can overlap, but they're not necessarily the same thing.

  • @saqlainkhan3604
    @saqlainkhan3604 Před 3 lety +182

    So scientific yet so kind. The guy like creates the hope in us.
    Humanity exists.

    • @mattwaldman4232
      @mattwaldman4232 Před 3 lety +1

      Dad I miss u, may u be free from all pain, may u be happy, may u be rest in peace

    • @nulevrevep639
      @nulevrevep639 Před 3 lety +2

      "What you are thinking is what you are becoming." Muhammad Ali

    • @litao3679
      @litao3679 Před 3 lety

      Yes it does 💛🙏

    • @zinmyopaing2271
      @zinmyopaing2271 Před 3 lety +1

      Hello Brother.Come to Myanmar.There are steps of meditation.After passing that,U have no Anger Anxiety Greedy and Your mind is very clean like pure water.And finally u will never afraid dying because it is naturalize

    • @vipermad358
      @vipermad358 Před 3 lety

      And it SUCKS!

  • @zenstoryshare
    @zenstoryshare Před 2 měsíci +3

    After consistently practicing ten minutes of meditation daily for a year, I've experienced various benefits. Reduced emotional reactivity and increased mental space, distancing myself from thoughts and self-narratives

  • @LawrenceChung
    @LawrenceChung Před 3 lety +103

    this 17 minutes talk is packed with gold. Please watch it all!

    • @gururaj5987
      @gururaj5987 Před 3 lety +3

      Brother I'm not understand. I have no English. I can't understand bro. Because my language is Kannada. I'm from India. I have so much curacity but not understanding.

    • @fredflintstone8998
      @fredflintstone8998 Před 2 lety

      You are so right Lawrence. He talks of ideas that I am focusing on... especially the meta-awareness which I find helps a lot. When we are aware of our thoughts we can challenge them... realize that they can be destructive... and are frequently irrational... and most importantly, change them.
      ... I have found that being kind makes me happy! ... and maybe being kind to others is my purpose...

  • @ZackTuNan
    @ZackTuNan Před 3 lety +79

    The four pillars of mindfulness
    1. Awareness ( Meta-awareness)
    2. Connection
    3. Insight
    4. Purpose

    • @sixpoems
      @sixpoems Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you.

    • @sathanansenthilnathan3846
      @sathanansenthilnathan3846 Před 3 lety +2

      That was so true!
      "A wandering mind is an unhappy mind."
      Four challenges: Distractions, Loneliness, Negative self-talk/beliefs, Lack of purpose
      Four pillars: Awareness, Connection, Insights, Purpose
      "META AWARENESS is knowing what our minds are doing."

  • @bhavyamalhotra4732
    @bhavyamalhotra4732 Před 2 lety +31

    “You can harness the power of neuroplasticity”
    This is so motivating!

    • @nylakhan5658
      @nylakhan5658 Před rokem

      I suffer with concussion anxiety I have tried almost everything

  • @tomcologner1943
    @tomcologner1943 Před 3 lety +469

    Gosh I thought at first it’s Ross Geller’s father 😂😂😂 Great lecturer btw

  • @vankai6817
    @vankai6817 Před rokem +13

    Being mindful led me to find the love of my life but I got way too lazy. I was mindful for the months prior and a couple of months into the relationship but it’s so easy to drift a away and be sucked into the relationship more than your own personal life. Take it from me - always pay attention to your feeling and the world around you. Don’t lose yourself. Be mindful.

  • @KellyMcDevitt
    @KellyMcDevitt Před 3 lety +807

    "a wandering mind is an unhappy mind" highly recommend the power of now by eckhart tolle, that book will change your life

    • @zak1da
      @zak1da Před 3 lety +29

      changed my life! i second this.

    • @shamanizing
      @shamanizing Před 3 lety +25

      Love the Power of Now, listened to the Audio book several times. Started me on the journey!

    • @aiahm
      @aiahm Před 3 lety +24

      I purchased The Power Of Now back in 2005 & it changed my life drastically! Because of that book I don’t worry, stress, fear anything... I am always present in pure bliss. I highly recommend it as well. ✨

    • @jeffreywyant3497
      @jeffreywyant3497 Před 3 lety +25

      I suggest you do a Google search to see what Real mental health professionals have to say about this guy, Tolle.

    • @soulshine8531
      @soulshine8531 Před 3 lety +5

      Saved my life!

  • @simonkraemer3725
    @simonkraemer3725 Před 3 lety +9

    It’s just fascinating for me that science finds so much evidence in a teaching from 2500 years ago, which was written for spiritual purpose and scientific research hasn‘t long been invented.

  • @ccburro1
    @ccburro1 Před 2 lety +55

    What he is talking about, if implemented, in our society, would be truly revolutionary at the individual, community, and national level. ❤️

  • @ashlynheidebrecht1969
    @ashlynheidebrecht1969 Před 3 lety +173

    What a great man. I literally felt his genuinity flow through me when he asked people watching online to please join. I felt so many emotions from shock by how he got my attention through a computer like this, to feeling a sense of inclusion I didn't realize I was missing so much during this crazy new world of 2020.

    • @gururaj5987
      @gururaj5987 Před 3 lety +3

      Hi my dear sister from India

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      @saifeldeenobeidi4628 Před 3 lety

      00, z00?

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      @saifeldeenobeidi4628 Před 3 lety

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      @saifeldeenobeidi4628 Před 3 lety

      00, z00?

    • @TRUTHorSTFU
      @TRUTHorSTFU Před rokem

      Never mind 2020 and the "stolen election" madness. Wait till we get to 2022 and the MAGA Republicans win back the House. Oh, yeah, we're already there. DAMN! I'VE JUST LOST FAITH IN HALF OF MY FELLOW AMERICANS WHO HANDED THE MAD MAGA GOP CONGRESSIONAL POWER. OUR COUNTRY WILL PAY VERY DEARLY FOR IT.

  • @scottames3587
    @scottames3587 Před 3 lety +87

    This talk is spot on. I have been following a positive mind set for the last 10 years and it has dramatically changed my life around. I start out each day with saying a group of positive affirmations based on my personality.

    • @jessicadeelstra4342
      @jessicadeelstra4342 Před 3 lety +1

      I got really good at doing all those things. And still do. I have a lot of pain and surgeries and it is very hard to distract myself from the pain I do breathing exercises and been a meditater for quite a few years. a few areas. I have lost my passion which was the love and ability to see my grandchildren, this really threw me for a loop I did not see this coming I have mostly detached from it after 18months. My daughter-in-law is a narcissist. I resolved I can still love them and pray that this will will change. I have to get my sparks back. I had things I was passionate about but couldn't follow threw because of my health. I meditate to turn my thoughts off. But it doesn't work on my emotions. Feelings are painful especially grief have to be felt. But for how long? There are 2 opinions 1. They need to be controlled. 2. They need to be felt. 3. That is what I need to know? Meditation works and positivity. I now have a great deal of positivity affirmations and live a comfortable life. So that is not a problem anymore.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety +3

      @@jessicadeelstra4342 Meditation is the permanent way to a relaxed and stress free life because it reprogrames the mind. Enter "Alternate nostril breathing meditation videos" on Google search and do the simple meditation for 10 to 15 minutes if possible twice a day. Also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation. It can also be done sitting on a chair. Best wishes. Do meditation daily to enjoy a relaxed life. Best wishes--Shyaaam --Life Coach.

    • @jessicadeelstra4342
      @jessicadeelstra4342 Před 3 lety +1

      @@shyaaammeneen63 I have done the nostril to nostril meditation and it works. My Doctor taught me. I had major surgery and struggle with being mindful because I am in pain getting better. But can focus on what is happening in the moment. When I am tired I focus on breath and fall asleep within 5 minutes.Hospitals are noisy light busy places. I felt very traumatised. And full of medication but I need Rd this surgery to walk. And I can walk. But hospitals are not designed for healing. So many people in pain suffering. I am an empath soit was very hard for me. I wanted to heal everyone but I had focus on me. That was 6 weeks ago. The weather is cold. Even though it is Spring. Hopefully it will warm up a bit.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety

      @@jessicadeelstra4342 My best wishes and prayers

    • @jessicadeelstra4342
      @jessicadeelstra4342 Před 3 lety

      @@shyaaammeneen63 thank you.

  • @AjaKim
    @AjaKim Před 3 lety +348

    Science and spirit are not at odds with each other. Spirit discovers - science confirms.

    • @SasyaShyamYella
      @SasyaShyamYella Před 3 lety +12

      That's so right!

    • @tusarbajpai1819
      @tusarbajpai1819 Před 3 lety +17

      Actually science is now just conforming what has been told by our spiritual gurus a millennium ago.

    • @yogeshrajguru9892
      @yogeshrajguru9892 Před 3 lety +6

      Sri Ramakrishna paramhans pointed to the need for fusion between science and spirituality. Nilesh Boher and his team has studied major Religion text while working on Quantum physic. Now science is reviling the truth pointed out by Religion.

    • @tuesdaymiles7033
      @tuesdaymiles7033 Před 3 lety +7

      You're right. Science discovers, Spirit confirms. Beautiful

    • @effiahalhumbhra3755
      @effiahalhumbhra3755 Před 3 lety +4

      ["8/26/20, Science is at kindergarden level compared to knowledge one can receive from Spirit. No one talks about ones' 15multidimensional consciousness and anatomy. Imagine this either its been held from humanity intentionally or ignorance is bliss. We know its been held intentionally. (Ultimate Warrior)"]

  • @thejoker5958
    @thejoker5958 Před rokem +7

    Literally had a moment of meta awareness as he was explaining what it was and had to rewind the video.

  • @cson9020
    @cson9020 Před 3 lety +205

    "What you are thinking is what you are becoming." Muhammad Ali

  • @marthinketard8976
    @marthinketard8976 Před 3 lety +22

    When you addressed the addicts tears filled my eyes for a second . Thank you for speaking to me !

    • @Shaniamoonemalle
      @Shaniamoonemalle Před 2 lety +1

      it was such a powerful speech... hope you are keeping well ! :)

  • @thehardyjake
    @thehardyjake Před 3 lety +6

    This exercise is what you call a prayer. Praying for people and having a relationship with Jesus will bring you more purpose, motivation, and happiness than you can imagine.

  • @gia3365
    @gia3365 Před 3 lety +15

    i cried. i wish my mom the best. she has been diagnosed with depression after my dad's sudden death. i just want her to be happy. i love u ma.

    • @enrichment9899
      @enrichment9899 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm sorry for your loss. Please don't forget to take care of yourself too.

    • @tenbrooks83
      @tenbrooks83 Před 11 dny

      My friends depressed too, I wish I could get him to meditate 😢

  • @dadikkedude
    @dadikkedude Před 3 lety +115

    What helped me alot distancing myself from my inner narrator is meditating before going to sleep, just CZcams 'guided meditation before bed'. I practice gratitude or mindfulness depends on how I feel. no longer than 15 minutes usually, and not even every night.

  • @shanw2692
    @shanw2692 Před 3 lety +19

    “May you be well and happy,
    May you be free from suffering,
    May you be strong and healthy.”
    I am a Theravada Buddhist and I practise this daily several times a day. This is called Loving Kindness Meditation (Metta Bhavana) in Buddhism. There are two more Buddhist meditations that I practise. They are Concentration Meditation (Samatha Bhavana), and Insight Meditation (Vipassana Bhavana). I have learnt these three meditation techniques from London Buddhist Vihara, UK. Meditation has brought me and millions of people peace of mind.

  • @mikelelis2894
    @mikelelis2894 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Pillars
    9:00 awareness
    10:14 connection
    10:48 insight
    11:48 Purpose
    3mins a day for the rest of your life.

  • @aeyb701
    @aeyb701 Před 3 lety +21

    Not just through mindfulness, but learning about the Taoist, Buddhist and Stoic beliefs that are at its core, I see now it is possible to self treat chronic depression and anxiety. I was convinced that my forever narrative was that I would always be this way, it’s in my family, it’s from being raised by certain kinds of emotional role models, etc., and I’d forever be on meds. I’m a family doctor and see it so much every day. Since starting on this road, and though I’ll never get to perfect enlightenment, which should not be the focus, I have become less worried, less down, less anxious, and recommend it now to patients. Some still need meds to get out of the present hole they’re in but I can say too that it doesn’t have to be a permanent thing. What a life changer, by re-creating one’s mind. For the first time I’ve SLOWLY started to cut back the dosage and not felt a relapse. Fingers crossed.

    • @nasimeh
      @nasimeh Před 3 lety +5

      I got emotional reading this because A, I am so heartened to hear of your journey, and B, such resonance with my own! I spent YEARS in such a funk because I believed such painful narratives about myself. Nowadays, after years and years of study and training (and being still such a beginner!), it is not that I do not get into dark places; it is that the light of awareness does wonders. May you be happy and free from suffering!

    • @Charity-vm4bt
      @Charity-vm4bt Před 3 lety

      Jon Archibald, Christian meditation can help

    • @seamustackney995
      @seamustackney995 Před 3 lety

      There is no such thing as enlightement who walked this earth that were enlightened.they were all con men

  • @ThePossumone
    @ThePossumone Před 3 lety +63

    Yes, Be Still and Know that I am God. Old Testament:
    people ask what does praying do and what does it change? It changes us, our sadness, our worry, our loneliness, our pain, and gives us peace. There is no 'downside' to belief and following God.

    • @patriciae.sanchez2053
      @patriciae.sanchez2053 Před 3 lety

      Amen

    • @shakiaakamunchie
      @shakiaakamunchie Před 3 lety +1

      Amen I believe this very much so

    • @judchristensen2794
      @judchristensen2794 Před 3 lety +1

      prayer is meditation

    • @e.cornell3345
      @e.cornell3345 Před 3 lety +1

      I suffered from incapacitating anxiety and despondency for months on end. I prayed, my friends prayed, everybody prayed and it didn't do a Goddamn thing.

    • @gratefulkm
      @gratefulkm Před 2 lety +1

      @@e.cornell3345 You need to define how you prayed, I do not mean what words were in your mind, I mean physically how did you prey ?
      Because prayer has nothing to do with talking to an imaginary god !(that's actually you talking to yourself) ,that's the Roman slaver's version of how to pray (slavers lie)) .
      Did you kneel ? bum on your ankles ? for like an hour ? Back held straight, arms held up straight, hands clasped together for an hour ? head tilted back look up all the time for an hour ? , if you did not do ALL of the list mentioned for an hour , then you sir have never prayed !
      Many today would really struggle to hold that pose for 5 minutes let alone an hour
      Give it a try. best outside looking at the Sky !
      Words in your head are just like a song playing
      Just listen to the song and don't judge it, Whilst in this pose
      Stay here as long as you can, Reach the hour, nothing else is happening

  • @doncocad9077
    @doncocad9077 Před 3 lety +23

    thank you so much for this talk. It validated myself, this morning, reinforcing my belief in me and my sound mind. Left a romantic relationship with a Narcissist recently. Still dealing with their gas-lighting but, like after a hard bicycle ride or doing those leg exercises that hurt so much; the first day after, you just ache, moaning and groaning about the pain. The following days you revel in your new found strong feeling and commend yourself for subjecting to that pain. Peace

  • @mskaruhluheevon
    @mskaruhluheevon Před 2 lety +29

    The synchronization in my energy is crazy awesome right now. I was just talking about a meditation that sends love and kindness towards other, and then I listen to this video. 🙏🏼

    • @rwharrington87
      @rwharrington87 Před rokem

      I just had this exact thought almost verbatim while watching the video. Then I see this? Too many unsuspecting coincidences to count today. 🤯

    • @icare4u77
      @icare4u77 Před rokem

      I have meditate for 10 years sometimes for more then 3 hours a day and yes meditation seems to influenced synchronicity with that said you phone pick up a small words and objects you hang around send signal to your phone. That’s is the true power of syncronicity.

  • @prasannakarunarathna7219
    @prasannakarunarathna7219 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you. For people who like to explore more, this is called metta meditation/maitree meditation in Buddhism

  • @jerome1471
    @jerome1471 Před 3 lety +9

    My mind keeps wandering while watching this talk

  • @NancySolariLivingFullOut
    @NancySolariLivingFullOut Před 3 lety +53

    Thank you for reminding us that by transforming our minds we can take more responsibility with our brains. By becoming aware and being present we set ourselves up to live full out.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety +3

      Nancy, Meditation is the permanent way to joy and a stress free life because it reprogrames the mind. Enter " Alternate nostril breathing meditation' videos on Google search and do the simple meditation for 10 minutes early morning and if possible at night. Several negative thoughts will come in your mind but they will slowly vanish with daily practice of the above meditation. Focus slightly on the incoming and outgoing breath as you do the above meditation which is life transforming. Best wishes--Shyaaam Sir--Life Coach

    • @gururaj5987
      @gururaj5987 Před 3 lety

      Ur looks like my mother...

  • @krishnajoshi8768
    @krishnajoshi8768 Před 3 lety +9

    As an Indian I've heard this all my life "khali dimag shaitan ka ghar"
    Means: free (wandering) mind is devil's recidence.

    • @usrao2148
      @usrao2148 Před 3 lety +2

      =idle mind is a devil's workshop!! :)

  • @haSHAH1
    @haSHAH1 Před 2 lety +2

    Some scholar once said, "Be mindful as if ur life depends on it.", I think it makes sense.

  • @masoncobb3335
    @masoncobb3335 Před 3 lety +6

    This is an essential part of health, holistically related to exercise, wholesome diet, adequate sleep.

  • @Aphrodite8888
    @Aphrodite8888 Před rokem +6

    Well said. Been practiced mindfulness (positive affirmations, mindful walking and yoga) for a few months. I have become more concentrated on my energy and daily tasks, instead of working on an autopilot.
    My second noticeable finding is that I know ME better-- my self-worth. I am needless to sabotaging me and my mental with solely negative narrative , but positive affirmations to myself.
    I am embracing new life.
    And hope same go to you all here.❤️

  • @himu1901
    @himu1901 Před rokem +3

    4 challenges
    1. Distractibility
    2. Loneliness
    3. Negative self-talk/depression
    4. Lack of meaning/purpose in life
    4 pillars
    1. Awareness
    2. Connection
    3. Insights
    4. Purpose
    May you be happy,
    May you be free of suffering...
    "A wandering mind is an unhappy mind"

  • @ahealingplace7350
    @ahealingplace7350 Před 3 lety +32

    That was amazing!!! I have great respect for anyone trying to change thier life and make a difference! Big or small!!!

  • @AH-cy4md
    @AH-cy4md Před rokem +1

    Meditation and cognitive behavioral therapy has taken me from seriously depressed, self-harming, suicidal at times, and drinking heavily to feeling generally happy, content, and free of any mood swings for almost 8 years now. Abstaining from booze is highly recommended for anyone with depression!

  • @mayTK
    @mayTK Před 3 lety +5

    Awesome. I’m a buddhist and we are taught to do this since i can remember. It’s myit tar poe. Sending your wishes and gratitudes to others. Generally we do that in directions. Eg like, To the universe, the living creatures in east, may all be free from danger, may all be away from disturbances that affect peaceful state of mind, may all can find peacefulness and tranquility. Then we repeat with west, north, south, up and down, NE, SE, NW, SW u can expand depending on the amt of available time u have. We do actually have a prayer song to this. People usually play it in morning n we can just follow it. With peaceful and calm background music, u can actually feel the effect right away. That’s how many people starts their day as a theravada buddhist.

    • @rosiabitbul
      @rosiabitbul Před 3 lety

      What is the name of the prayer song? ;-)

  • @nathaliedufour3891
    @nathaliedufour3891 Před 3 lety +3

    painting keeps me focused , creativity creates a state of well being

  • @Juanah92
    @Juanah92 Před 2 lety +4

    There’s something I don’t understand. It seems to be generalized that a wandering mind is something to be condemned. But I take so much enjoyment in just stopping for a while and letting my mind free and wander on its own, navigating the various aspects and particularities of my life inside of my head, organizing thoughts and seeing things clearer. It gives me so much understanding about myself and makes me feel so much more fulfilled.

    • @viralpandey1720
      @viralpandey1720 Před 2 lety +6

      I think wandering without awareness is the issue addressed here.

    • @success4US61
      @success4US61 Před 2 lety +3

      ​@@viralpandey1720 "Not all those who wander are lost."

  • @bliss9studios621
    @bliss9studios621 Před 3 lety +4

    This Ted Talk is gold! Highly recommend it to all of you beautiful souls

  • @AlwaysManifesting
    @AlwaysManifesting Před 3 lety +12

    Great video. Meditation is just life changing. I meditate daily, if I miss a day or so I really notice a difference. I feel so much better and have more energy after meditating....life is more effortless. The ability to REWIRE YOUR THINKING through meditation is such a GIFT.

    • @shivamgautam949
      @shivamgautam949 Před 2 lety

      No wonder why Indian Guru's came up with this concept of Meditation & then turned into everyday practices. India is cradle of meditation.

  • @saltpepp
    @saltpepp Před 3 lety +16

    Prayer is good. Tried and tested

  • @user-bb3nb7bc1f
    @user-bb3nb7bc1f Před 8 měsíci +1

    This is my favorite teacher!

  • @benedetta8001
    @benedetta8001 Před 3 lety +14

    A whole world has opened in front of me. Thank you Richard, your speech is a wake up call!

  • @Mochi.mochi.icecream
    @Mochi.mochi.icecream Před 3 lety +9

    Inner engineering was the best book and programme i've ever read and done 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @BlendedlearningEduVn
    @BlendedlearningEduVn Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you!
    Keeping calm is what I try to be aware of everyday. I find it not always easy.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety

      Tuyen Nguyen, Meditation is the permanent way to joy and a stress free life because it reprogrames the mind. Enter " Alternate nostril breathing meditation' videos on Google search and do the simple meditation for 10 minutes early morning and if possible at night. Several negative thoughts will come in your mind but they will slowly vanish with daily practice of the above meditation. Focus slightly on the incoming and outgoing breath as you do the above meditation which is life transforming. Best wishes--Shyaaam Sir--Life Coach

  • @ennamorgan9673
    @ennamorgan9673 Před 3 lety

    Brilliant! Just absolutely brilliant! Thank you TED and Dr Davidson!

  • @ridatayyab7792
    @ridatayyab7792 Před 2 lety +11

    This video was great! However, a wandering mind is not always an unhappy mind. We need mindwandering in order to be creative. I think we have learnt to wear the badge of being busy but it does not truly make us happy. It is okay to be bored some times and be alone with your thoughts. :)

    • @sylvanafow1340
      @sylvanafow1340 Před rokem +2

      Good point. I think that he meant that while doing a task, if we get constantly distracted, we may not be able to finish the task and get frustrated, which may leads to uncomfortable and undesired feelings. Maybe even get disappointed or think we cannot accomplish something.
      Have a wonderful day.

  • @mercurycat33
    @mercurycat33 Před 4 lety +11

    Richard J. Davidson was on the BBC last night talking about this very thing. I was so glad to learn about this study!
    I have had some problems that have not been solved with antidepressants etc., and I have been looking for a healthy way to rewire my brain in a more positive way for years.
    I have had some very positive results from meditation in the past, but I fell off the horse, so to speak.
    I think this sounds promising, and I am very excited to get started, though I know that it will be "a process", and I just need to be patient, and the progress will happen eventually.
    Patience is not my one of my strengths, but then that is one of main reasons why I need this so badly!
    Thanks to TED talks, and thanks to Mr. Davidson!

    • @mercurycat33
      @mercurycat33 Před 3 lety

      Ken Cheek Thank You! 🙂

    • @kimbryant7714
      @kimbryant7714 Před 3 lety

      Mercury, check out DNRS by Annie Hopper. It's a specific program designed help re-wire the brain. Very powerful.

  • @Derulais
    @Derulais Před rokem +2

    Such a beautiful talk, this does not get acknowledged enough in today's society. Thank you Richard for putting this so elegantly.

  • @pierreb4070
    @pierreb4070 Před 3 lety +5

    I meditate for 4 years now. It definitly changed my life. But mindfulness is not the miracle antidote to all of our society's problems.

  • @kevinlimcool
    @kevinlimcool Před 2 lety +3

    May you be happy and may you be free of suffering...
    This is most wonderful and practical prayer ever 🙏🙏

  • @mindfulnessinspiration8548
    @mindfulnessinspiration8548 Před 3 lety +10

    Thank you for this inspiring video. Whoever is reading this, I hope you have had a good day. I know this year hasn't been a wonderful one but, as we are accelerating towards the end of this year, I hope you will have lots of joy, happiness, serenity,tranquility and abundance coming your way. Have a have a wonderful life ahead stranger :)

    • @vipermad358
      @vipermad358 Před 3 lety

      You don’t know a damn thing about me, so stop “virtue signaling” and pretending to care. It’s a big lie, designed to make yourself look good.

  • @christinapolumbo3086
    @christinapolumbo3086 Před rokem

    I appreciate the deliberate use of "her or his" as opposed to "his or her". Hes being mindful of how he speaks, rather than just going along with the general ubiquitous use of the phrase "his or her".

  • @WoziduranJahemter
    @WoziduranJahemter Před 11 měsíci +1

    A wandering mind that can coordinate to study certain subjects and take appropiate pauses can be a brilliant graceful mind by practice, consistency, focus, diversity and distributive properties.

  • @pamberry6354
    @pamberry6354 Před 3 lety +16

    What a treasure trove are these talks, especially now when isolation is a heavy duty to ourselves and others.

  • @asmab1r3m6
    @asmab1r3m6 Před 3 lety +14

    I came here after struggling for years feeling that my negative emotions are controlling my mind then my life! It's the worst when you lose faith in yourself and emotions start to take over

  • @lhaksamchoedon
    @lhaksamchoedon Před 4 lety +32

    Thank you for sharing this. The opening paragraph really makes you think how some ppl are more resilient to negativity and some just become a victim. Doing a mental hygiene everyday can really help.

  • @shawntiprince4062
    @shawntiprince4062 Před 3 lety +9

    I was so confused. you cleared this up for me because I haven't always practiced mindfulness. But, I do now. It's helping me to find peace. Thank you!

  • @ranimishra9164
    @ranimishra9164 Před 2 lety

    Humanity needs more such people to keep them free from all negativity.

  • @marieweinstein2840
    @marieweinstein2840 Před 3 lety +23

    In this time of covid 19 this is such a valuable lesson for us all. I wish all health care workers health,happiness snd peace. I embrace them for their selfless gift of caring snd giving of their talents to care for the afflicted! May they experience an inner peace .

  • @TobiasConrad_official
    @TobiasConrad_official Před 4 lety +4

    Great Work You are doing Richard Davidson

  • @dinamo237
    @dinamo237 Před rokem +2

    This was an amazing presentation from one of the most important people who has been studying the positive effects of mindfulness on humans

  • @kirbyalexander3139
    @kirbyalexander3139 Před 3 lety

    the world needs this, thank you

  • @poranporegbal
    @poranporegbal Před 3 lety +12

    Our brain also changes due to the adversity, environmental hardships, inequalities, and injustices. This knowledge and science of the brain go home to those only who have better or safer environments. Hope we could do better by offering brain education early on from daycares and schools.

    • @jackiesmusic423
      @jackiesmusic423 Před 3 lety +1

      I agree. Teach it early.

    • @jcwil56
      @jcwil56 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes... teach it in all schools at all levels... this is where the money should be spent. Education is less effective in life success when one is unable to be emotionally strong.

  • @tomatlanta2665
    @tomatlanta2665 Před 3 lety +6

    So well said, Thank you!

  • @heathersigmon3380
    @heathersigmon3380 Před 3 lety +1

    Awesome. May you be happy, may you be free of suffering. Namaste

  • @crazyluke
    @crazyluke Před 3 lety +2

    It was getting warm inside me. I saw my 7 months old daughter laughing. I feel love. Thank you

  • @renatarochayoga4002
    @renatarochayoga4002 Před 3 lety +4

    Wonderful as he always is!

  • @tjsmind
    @tjsmind Před 4 lety +20

    Great talk. Much needed in our current society

  • @garthballantine193
    @garthballantine193 Před 2 lety +1

    It's worth noting that a correlation between distraction and unhappiness does not mean that distraction is the cause of unhappiness. Rather, it makes sense that unhappy people are less likely to pay attention to what they are doing. ie. the unhappiness is actually the cause of the distraction.

  • @imustbegettinolder4434
    @imustbegettinolder4434 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you. A most excellent and inspiring lecture.

  • @theresakozar4315
    @theresakozar4315 Před 3 lety +11

    I am deeply grateful to have heard this information explained so clearly and succinctly by Dr Davidson. He has put very simple and powerful tools of transformation in our hands and has presented the compelling need to use them - now!

  • @jaysfo
    @jaysfo Před 3 lety +11

    I hope you find the peace and happiness you’re looking for. Don’t give up. Give it a try

  • @rishimehdiratta6043
    @rishimehdiratta6043 Před 2 lety +1

    Incredible Talk. Every word of this talk is powerful and meaningful. Thank you !!

  • @globalcitizen8161
    @globalcitizen8161 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Richard Davidson very inspiring your wonderful work Great human being and a great Scientists 👌👍👏🙏🙏

  • @rebeccachambers419
    @rebeccachambers419 Před 3 lety +4

    This reminds me of when I was little, hearing adults say "Pay attention to what you are doing" . Just a new way of looking at it

    • @liammanning581
      @liammanning581 Před 3 lety

      Mom: May you be happy, may you be healthy, may you be free of suffering, and may you and I always love each other.

  • @shital2703
    @shital2703 Před 2 lety +8

    May you be happy, May you be free of sufferings!This is so powerful 🙏🙏🙏

  • @johnrockyoga9557
    @johnrockyoga9557 Před 2 lety

    So beautiful! As soon as he said think of a loved one o instantly started having tears in my eyes.. may all beings be happy and freee

  • @andresrtorres6895
    @andresrtorres6895 Před 3 lety

    Vital procedural knowjedge: Brain wiring is ADAPTIVE. This AWARENESS Opens doors to endless possibilities. I am thankful. Muchas gracias!

  • @soothingwhitenoice4510
    @soothingwhitenoice4510 Před 3 lety +8

    Very powerful, Mindfulness transforms our mind, increases the inner peace and teaches us to control our reaction and to be more aware

  • @jerearga
    @jerearga Před 3 lety +4

    Excelente explicación, para el poco tiempo que tuvo, no dejó cabos sueltos. Que grandes beneficios para la humanidad estos estudios que demuestran lo que sistemas espirituales orientales llevan milenios diciendo. Pienso que el momento y lugar preciso para su aplicación es en los colegios, generar estos desarrollos en los niños sería un giro de 180° para la sociedad, ya que en vez de tener que hacer cambios estructurales en el cerebro y lograr que el adulto comprenda y se comprometa es más difícil que el crearlo como hábito desde pequeños. Siento que nuestra sociedad está en un punto crítico de estupidez mental, no tenemos ni idea de que hacer para lograr el bienestar y nos volcamos al exterior, tristemente en cosas que no nos crear felicidad sino distracciones. Gracias Dr. Davidson y a todos aquellos que participan en estas investigaciones, ojalá ese conocimiento e interés se esparza a nivel mundial.

  • @robertareid8949
    @robertareid8949 Před 3 lety +1

    Wonderfully inspiring talk!