My three children have been raised to eat when they are hungry and sleep/wake when they feel the need. My 16 year old has been able to adjust his up late/sleep late schedule to attend community college, attend swim meets on weekends that start at 730AM with a 1-2 hour commute, work and Eagle project which required him to interact with engineers, public works, machine shops, etc. All without me harping on him, punishing him, shaming him. He does what he needs to do when he needs to do it or he feels the natural consequences of his choices/actions.
This is a room full of women who are seem to need to control children the way they were controlled because they know nothing else. It is refreshing to shift to a life of non-punitive love and joy. Imagine how different the relationships with your children can be when everyone feels respected.
Strict parents just create kids who know how to lie really, really well. I agree that kids need structure, but you have to have open communication and mutual respect.
I love to see parents treat their children with respect, as an equal human being, performing as a mentor and protector who's been around a bit longer and knows how to teach you some stuff to keep you alive in this environment.
It’s funny, but sad at the same time, how programmed those audience members are. Dayna held her peace like a champ. Probably due to her idiology in practice with not trying to arbitrarily and unduly control her kids. She lays that same approach on the audience and it doesn’t ruffle her feathers. Love seeing that play out real time. I hope people caught that. Here’s a mind blower for you guys: I bet her husband is a really happy man as well. This could be revolutionary for the divorce rate.
lol right? The fact that they're getting this defensive and aggressive shows how wrong they might be in their approach. Otherwise they would be able to argue in a much calmer and more respectful manner than this.
What it boils down to here is trust. Most people do not trust their children. We don't learn responsibility by being forced to do things. Thanks, Dayna. You're awesome!!!
Dana is a pioneer. Listen to what she says, it's more intuitive and practical than any of the crap we've been brainwashed to believe. Critical thinking, autodidactic learning and empowered living. We are very happy unschoolers and we're able to get the most out of life every day. Why do we have to feel like we're fighting up a hill to do life "right?" Listen to what feels good and fosters true wisdom and positive energy and watch your world transform for the better... I dare ya.
***** Does it feel "good" to rape? Not really, given the social repercussions of such an act. Just because someone is unschooled doesn't mean they aren't capable of empathy and consideration of other people. It's part of being in the world and experiencing the direct effects and natural consequences of their actions.
Kathryn B where did rape come from? I don’t think that comparison applies here bc if you are raised to respect everyone, to love everyone, and don’t raise children in an environment where that happens then the child would know that is not okay to do. Unschooling does not teach children to ‘rape’ or abuse others so that should not even be a problem.
I don't believe in physical punishment because of my experiences as a child with that going too far. I do believe in boundaries and rules, but with that being said strict parents create sneaky kids. I believe that if you give the leash some slack then the child won't be so easy to defy you.
Sam Adams One of my sisters was like that unfortunately, mom tried everything else but nothing got through that thick head of hers except getting proper beating. We never did understand why she was like that.
TheBookWorm1718 It's great that she didn't hit anyone around her. She might have realized it wasn't right for her. I hope she can heal from the pain now. I don't think you can say, "violence teaches violence", because it's not that simple. It depends on a lot of other factors aswell, like the environment and the individual. Being non-violent can make your life and that of the people around you so much better.
"Spanking isn't a parenting issue; it's a human rights issue. Every time we tiptoe around it, so as not to offend the "It's my right to parent as I see fit" folks, we halt the very real and very important conversation about the fact that children - like all humans - should have the right to decide who puts their hands on their body, and when, and how, and for what reason. Your right to parent how you choose does not supersede your child's right to feel safe from harm in his own home." - The Path Less Taken
I unschooled my stepson. He is now 28, owns a tech company, bought a fixer under foreclosure 5 years ago, and now has a beautiful family. While society is struggling to get by they are thriving. He went to bed when he felt like it. If that meant staying up for 214 hours straight to do a raid on WOWwith his friends then he did it. They learn so much more on their own than being stuck in a prison-like environment all day long. His step-sister went to a public school and the differences in their education would absolutely blow you away.
Bedtimes are moot, even for adults. Those who talk about "responsibility" or "jobs" must forget that doctors, nurses, truck drivers, 24 hours grocery stores, and so many, many, MANY more careers work 3rd shift. Children STILL have chores and "responsibilities" at all hours of the day.
Damn that. I can't function in a house of chaos.Going to bed at 2 in the morning is crazy. When you have to get up early in the morning to go to work and get kids off to school, sleep is very important.
With all due respect the second my parent took the leash off that was what my sleep cycle looked like, it wasn't chaos I just wasn't on the same clock as everyone else. What pissed me off more was getting to an age where you realize the rules really has no reasoning to them and existed purely "just because" and then my parents had one pissed off out of control teenager who they had to kick out to go live with her dad, funny thing was he was rarely home and didn't care what I did but everything was totally fine and my grade ever shot through the roof.
With unschooling you can go to sleep when you want and wake up when you want, and they have a family owned business so there is no need for a schedule.
I agree with Dayna, explaining to your kids why what they did was bad and keeping your cool is much better that screaming at them then they won’t even understand why what they did was wrong.
You do not have to homeschool in order to use Peaceful Parenting. Treating your child with respect and dignity can be done no matter your school or work situation. Choosing not to hit your child, EVER, should be an easy choice. You just don't. We gave our children the choice of homeschool or public school. My son, 15, has chosen homeschool and is thriving there. My daughter,13, has chosen public school where she us an A honor student and plays two different sports on the school teams. That is her choice. She has no bedtime , I don't check grades or homework. We gave allowed life to teach her. To develop a natural internal motivation. She has learned that if she has a test or athletic practice or a game, she feels better with more sleep. She has a natural thirst for learning and a competitive nature , so she knows about time management and learning and being organized. Not because we make her or control her or tell her gets to do. She has been allowed to learn these things naturally. At 13 she is great steward if herself. We love her and support her and are present in get life in a way most busy, distracted and control/punishment parents are not. And age us far better prepared for life than those children and many adults. Attachment parenting is about being close to your children , their needs, emotions and natural curiosity in a way that guides them and let's them find their way. It horrifies me that these parents in the audience we more freaked about a bedtime but totally at ease with hitting children. You can be a Peaceful Parent in any situation , if you so choose.
I honestly can't believe we've brainwashed society to believe you have to physically hurt your own children to get them to listen to you. Like wtf? Why would you want to hurt someone you love? If you explain to the child why what they did was wrong and the consequences, they will have a better understanding than "if I do this I'm gonna get beat". That's just plain fear. My dad stopped beating me when I was about 9 and my mental state is actually a lot better. And it's disgusting how the people were so shocked when she said "we talk to them" like it's so bad and foreign to NOT harm your kids. Ugh
Why is the woman saying that the unschooled kids have no responsibilities? It sounds like they go to ski practice and have the responsibilities they choose. What an idea, that the children are being empowered to choose what they are responsible for. Where did the belief that 'you have to work for someone else and accept someone else's rules and limits' come from?
This woman is a genius and how I want to raise my kids! All of these people are just mad that they have complicated their own lives by parenting the way they do.
Caroline Connors I agree 100%, and it is her right to raise her child the way she wants, just like it is everyone else's right to have an opinion, but no none should force the other to obey what they think is right. If you want to be free, you must let others be free. I also Home-school my children, best decision I ever made that has to do with my children. I support this mothers decision 100%.
No, it's because it's required to function in today's society, im sure many other parents disagree with the education system but still make their kids go to school because it's a huge part in any persons life, I'm sorry but that's reality. You can't stay in lala land forever.
There is a reason people go to school- to have a productive life and to be capable to support a family one day in the relatively near future. I do not go to school because society points a gun at me and says- DO IT but rather because I want to have a high-paying job, I want to be capable to support my family, to travel. Also, I go there to gain friends, expand my interests. One thing society gives you is free will- and if this is your choice, there are consequences for it as well. Considering actions and consequences those actions produce is something we in the West call- *rational thinking* .
The goal for every responsible parent I know, is to teach them to be independent and self sufficient. The status quo is to encourage them to be doctors or lawyers, but in this day and age with so many enslaved by student loan debt, most forward thinking parents avoid this path for their children as I have. The most desirable thing your child could ever do is to become a self sufficient entrepreneur! Dayna Martin has achieved this already with her children. In a sense, her job as a care taker is done, she perfected rearing her children to the point that no discipline was necessary. In my opinion, that is a perfect parent!! I also practice the same philosophy as Dayna Martin. Both of my children have chosen their career paths as business owners, one is an artist and one is a gaming guru. And I do not believe in physical discipline. My children are people, not pets! Way to go Dayna Martin! Not only are you a fantastic mother, but to appear on a show like this means your are also one tough cookie!!!
The truth is, living without a social recognised structure leaves people lost and worried. Taking away the predetermined concepts of activities for times of the day definitely gives the child independence to determine the right time to do things that's suitable for him/her.
I am an unschooler and I DO have responsibilities, my dad has cancer and we need the house clean, I have 2 snakes, 3 lizards, under ONLY my care, and I am 12 years old.
Not having a set bedtime, staying up that late, and not getting enough sleep can have a very negative effect on brain function. Punishing your kids is not always bad, it gives them structure, discipline, and helps them learn right from wrong. This women is nuts!
Your right I don't understand her point if view. Children need structure and discipline along with love. I do also believe that children should learn to make the right decisions and have some freedom. However, allowing them to stay up all hours of the night is not benificial to them in anyway. It messes with brain function as well as any other body functions. School is another thin that children need. These parents are setting their children up for failure. How can they be fully functioning adults when they won't even be able to know how to keep a basic job (which will be difficult without any schooling).
I would also like to point out that I do not believe parents should be super strict. They should however impose certain rules and structure that are healthy and facilitate learning and growth. Finding what children are interested in and embracing that is a fantastic idea. I still feel that schooling should be a part of their everyday life. I would also like to point out that I am not opposed home schooling children if it is done correctly. There are many aspects of traditional education that I find ridiculous and unnecessary. Montessori schools may be a better option for some children. But school none the less is important.
So funny, the lady who says they have no responsibilities! Are her only responsibilities at 6am?? Doubtful. Just because some people shift their schedule it does not mean they have no responsibilities. My children also sleep and wake per their bodies and some days that has them up until 1 or 2 in the morning. I see no problem with that. When we need to get up for something specific then we all do. You can be just as productive, motivated, and happy waking at noon as when you wake at 6am. I would argue many people actually do and feel much better when they let their natural rythym guide ther day!
Why is it that people think structure can only be provided by parents? Children and adults are capable of setting a structure that works best for them. I believe in listening to my children and supporting them in the decisions regarding structure and every thing else!
When we homeschool, there is no reason to have a set bed time or wake up time. When we found a WONDERFUL Charter school, I began bedtimes. Of course they can draw or read till I go to bed (1am) but we all get up at 7:30am. It works for US. Not everyone or every family is the same. We have our own rhythms. Hitting is never okay in our house. Speaking with our kids and time outs is our form of punishment. My kids have free range of the tv and computers, but I find they are more interested in sewing, cooking, gardening, reading, skating, bike riding, etc....then watching tv or playing on the iPad. Mainly because I never denied them. Kids come over to our house and freak out and glue themselves to the tv - it's creepy.
Lmao. Their reaction to her kid sleeping at 2 had me ROLLING. And I could see she was amused too. Like, it doesn't matter, as long as they're getting ENOUGH sleep. When adults are on airplanes, they don't care whether it's 6 a.m., or 6 P.m.. When your body tells you it's time to take a break, you take it. I only get on my 8 y/o brother about his sleeping, when he tries to pretend he's not sleepy, just so he can look at some stupid cartoon. I let him know sleep, and listening to your body, is a lot more important than that crap.
@@Br00ke291 maybe if they're sleeping for 16 hours. But odds are, they're sleeping for 8. And if they take 2 hours to eat and perform their hygienic routines, it's just noon by time they start their day. Besides, here in Texas, you WANT to miss most of the day, and just stay inside with the air conditioning for as long as possible.
@@maybewise it’s still sad their missing so much time to do stuff. Half the day is already gone. Besides the saddest part is they don’t go to school and soon enough life will show them that what you want to happen won’t always work out.
@@Br00ke291 I think you're sadder than the situation actually is. I've experienced both schooling (at a bad and good school) and unschooling. Unschooling is a million times better. You can get kids socialized with common interest activities, instead of forcing them into a room full of kids that they probably have NO common interest with, and no friends among them, not to mention the worry of bullying and shootings. I'm so glad unschooling allowed me to develop myself as an individual, without the distractions of bullies, worrying about how to be/look popular, or knowing that I'd have to go to school right after hearing about yet another school shooting. School was NOT good for me. That doesn't mean it can't be good for anybody. But homeschooling/unschooling, where you know you're safe and loved, is just a good, if not more.
@@maybewise doesn’t mean schooling wouldn’t be good for them. School helps kids socialize with others and make friends. Regardless if it being hard for you and stuff, kids still gotta learn math and things they’ll need for the future. The mom isn’t even home schooling them so everything they gotta learn they need to do themselves which can be hard to self learn sometimes. I could never self learn and without school I’d have no friends
My mouth dropped open when the audience cheered the woman who said, "Some children need to be spanked!". Lets call spanking what it really is....hitting, and hitting anyone ever is no ok. They accused Dayna Martin of not bringing up her children in a responsible way, but they think raising children to think it's ok to hit someone half your size is being responsible? Wow!
+megan marian This is a common misconception. You do not need to spank, tap or do anything to a baby to make them breathe when they are born. They will simply breathe on their own as long as nothing is obstructing their lungs--cleaning out their mouths and throats with a bulb syringe helps with this.
They judge a child going to bed without the necessity for medication but yet medicate their own children so they will go to sleep at an acceptable time of a sick society. I would be up until 1 regularly as a child, a child has much more energy then an adult when they are not being medicated for add or aspergers. An afternoon nap is something nearly every animal on the planet does, except the human. There are ways to establish boundaries without striking them and have them live in fear of you. When they respect you for who you are and how you treat them as a human being rather then property there is much less backlash from children who are likely amped up on sugar and glysophates being programmed by the tell a vision how to act. There is a real disconnection in the CULTure that we live in from how nature works to how humans have been trained to perform.
People have been brainwashed and conditioned to fit in the box we were programmed to be in. It is okay to step out of the box. We don't have to live in it anymore. We should all be like this amazing unschooling mom who knows all kids are different. I say BURN THE BOX, let our kids be kids and stop trying to conform them the way we have been our entire lives. Way to go Dayna and all unschooling moms out there, you are awesome!!!
I love how Dyana totally shocks the world speaking what should be common sense. (i love the ghaps of outrage.. people don't even know why they're outraged, it's like 'i've been programed by the herd mentality to disagree with this, que expression of disapproval') "your setting them up for a future.." "Responsibilities!" 'yes that's what i'm supposed to say,' she thinks. it's like programed language.. it doesn't mean anything. "some kids need to be disciplined with verbal, some kids need to be spanked" wow, can't believe the audience cheered.. 100% robots. When they go to sleep is sort of a distraction from the point of the amazing work this woman does. If more people lived satisfying creative free lives like the Martins we could all have a more satisfying day and maybe we wouldn't need to stay up late into the night, or maybe we would, that's really not the point.
It's called raising future responsible adults, not being brainwashed. I've worked in sports with kids. The kids from families that would allow them everything (because god forbid they had to discipline their kid when they did the wrong thing) had no limits and sense of right and wrong. I specifically said to NOT jump head first when we were jumping but guess what, the kid with no discipline did? Jumped head first. If he were to break his neck, his incompetent parents would sue me because apparently it's my fault because they can't raise their child properly. I've never had problems with properly raised kids, just the ones where parents believed kids can do whatever they want. Interesting, isn't it? Yeah, must be nice to "talk about things" at home, but when this kids get in other social environments, they are a threat to their an others life by having no limits.
It is dangerous to assume only one style of parenting. When I have children, I will do everything I know how in order to try and launch them into success with as minimum shame as possible. The unschooling philosophy appeals to me, but if I incapable to parent that way, I will do what I must do. When I see parents who use an authoritative approach, I assume that that's what they do because that is all they can do. I wouldn't blame anyone for being conventional.
So many of these audience members have a very rigid concept of "structure". In actuality, any event that you attend on a regular basis contributes to the structure of your life. It doesn't have to be school or work. As long as the kids are getting out to see the world, and have found a way to be compatible with other people (including timing), what's the issue? Kids can find their own hobbies, their own friends, etc. and if they meet them regularly, join a sport, whatever, guess what? They learn how to be compatible with others' schedules. Also, not all jobs are 9-5. Those who don't want to work from 9-5 don't have to, there are so many other options. Not seeing that is a sign that you've been conditioned to see anything other than a doctor, lawyer, or similar desk job to be not a "real" job. No wonder we have so few entrepreneurs and creative people in our society. What do you expect when you teach people from the age of 2 or 3 that not conforming to some rigid cultural script is on par with one of the seven deadly sins? Expand your mind, folks!
And the sleep thing kinda makes sense. It makes sense to sleep when you're tired. Adults and teens do it? As long as it's actually working and healthy for your child
What in the heck was that black lady at the very end trying to say? It’s sad that those who have nothing to say, feel like they need to talk (not just her, but all the opposite thoughts expressed to Dayna, just that last lady was the worst).
Chaide Elwood the kids unfortunately won't function in society. Let's say this if they get into legal trouble they won't be able to understand the consequences because they never been punished. They don't understand that their actions have consequences.
I used to want to respect that show, because I actually think the host is cool. But I'm so tired about how they always bring people in to be shamed, all these daytime tv shows are so mean. I don't mind people opinionated, but hypocrisy...c'mon now
I have friends who unSchool and I have friends who have more strict parenting styles. I think as long as it’s done with genuine love, respect and dignity the kids turn out OK. I don’t think there’s one right way to parent health Kids and I think the idea that there’s only one right way to do it is absolutely ridiculous because every human is different. So that works in her family and she’s allowed to know what works best for her children. There are a lot of jobs where you wake up at noon and go to bed at one... ask anyone who works the night shift at a restaurant😬
It upsets me that they use the concept Unschooling with this crazy Radical Free Range Parenting! There are many parents who unschool or homeschool (I did both as a child) but our parents and the majority of parents out there do not think the madness this mom brings to the table is okay. We had rules, boundaries, bedtimes, consequences for bad decisions. We looked up to the adults in our lives as authority and were taught to be respectful! No, we were not educated the same way as most of our peers but we still received a great education, went to college and are good, contributing members of society. I don't know how this woman's children will turn out but I am worried for them.
Chaide Elwood Why do you say I know nothing when you didn't state your case? You didn't say why you agree with her. You didn't say why you believe she is a role model.
I think all kids need boundaries and rules because we have boundaries and rules in a functioning society they are called LAWS. I don't think extreme parenting on either end is the answer I think there should be a combination of both. However every family is different and you never know what might work for your child until you try it.
every child needs to go to school from kindergarten through atleast 12th grade if not college how do they learn and life experences are not good enough life is hard these days without making these kids suffer
They learn from real life experience and there choices have action first of all they still learn just in their own time , life is not hard , we make it that way . try no electricity for a couple months and living like the old days .
it is a new york state law that children either have to go to school or be home schooled I do not know what planet you live on but you do need modern schooling to get ahead and to get a job and to be a functioning person in society
Stacy M I've never been to school, not one day, I'm working as a video editor, a skill I learned doing what I love, playing video games constantly from a very young age. Now explain to me, how am I not a functioning member of society? (And don't give me that 'I'm not over 18' shit, I have a job, I contribute the same as someone a couple years older)
Gotta love how "well behaved" all the pro-spanking women are by getting aggressive and talking over the person they disagree with. Good job. Way to show how well your parents parenting worked on you and what a bleak glimpse of what your kids are gonna be like when they grow up.
Going to bed early at that age is important, because growth hormone (and several others) is most abundant from around midnight to one, so child should be asleep during that time to properly grow and recover. Mum is making sure her children are not getting healthy sleep rythm, as early as 6yo. Good job of not caring about your kid's health and depriving them of healthy rest. Secondly: As they said, children need structure. They have to learn right from wrong and discipline as well. That CAN'T be done by allowing everything. Essentialy, they will not be able to function in any social environment, either school, work or just crossing the street because as far as they are concerned if somebody says don't cross the street on red light, they can just do it and get run over, because they were taught that they can do anything. The same for work - they can never get a proper job or learn a skill, because they were never taught to sit down and practice to actually learn something. So they will work for 10 minutes and then wonder off, because they feel like it? And on the spanking part. Yes, some children need a spanking. It signifies a line that can't be crossed. Children with no parenting (like this ones) won't correct their behaviour even after being told to not do it multiple times. And they can threaten theirs and the life of others, because they have no clue what is right and what is wrong. Just the other day I saw a child kicking another with full force in the back after not obeying several orders to behave better. That child HAS TO be spanked and strongly reprimanded and told to never ever do that again, because the other kid can end up in the wheelchair! Incidents like these should never be settled by "calm conversation", because the kids need to grasp the severity of their actions and "talking about it" just won't do it if you told him "NO" 4 times but he didn't listen. I really feel sorry for the kids because it's not their fault their parents are idiots.
Oh how brainwashed and conditioned people can be. We raise our own children and we are free nature beings. When you stop devoting your life to money, materialism, word of man, and all perceptions and opinions of others, there you will start to understand those like us that choose to live truly free. Being grateful for all that is in the present only brings us abundance and manifesting our true heart's will and desire.
I don't agree with what this lady was saying but i do understand...but I hate that she tried to explain herself amongst the everyday society type of folk making unschoolers and homeschoolers look bad..they'll never understand.
House For Her Glory I understood what she was saying. Like my son who is 10 goes to bed at about 10-11 and he gets up around 8 or 9. If you do something wrong on your job you may or may not get punished burning sure they don't spank you.
Yeah it all sounds great and I do think the school system needs to be revised and restructured. But do a little more research on this woman and her family, go to her youtube channel. She is NOT preparing her children to live in the real world. ABC asked her what happens when they grow up and need a job, what kind of job they'd get, and she didn't have an answer cause she hadn't thought about it. Its good that her kids are following their passions and everything else, but she took it to an extreme that is unnecessary and not beneficial to her children. When they grow up and find out that they can't get a job with a decent salary because of the 'revolutionary' technique their parents used, they'll blame them. I'm studying to get my university degree and I'm so glad my parents didn't implement this system on me!
I just have a quick question....her child is 6, right and goes to bed 1 or 2 in the morning....doesn't he go to school? Maybe I missed something....how pathetic is she and her parenting skills....this is what is wrong with this world. But we can't hate, b/c this is her child and she will suffer the consequences as they get older....:(
This mom is so wrong, she doesn't even know basic body chemistry. The human body does self healing between the hours of 10 p.m. and 3 a.m. You should be sleeping at that time for optimum health. If she was more self educated she would know this basic knowledge. Mom fail!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If this is something that works for their family, great. But the world everyone else lives in and the one they'll be in by the time they aren't confined to their parents homes, they'll see it's not as forgiving as what has been orchestrated for them...
This mother is literally a joke 🤦🏽♀️ she’s not a parent she’s just trying to be their friend more than a parent. A six years old should not be going to bed that late. I feel so bad when they get older how they’re going to be. They’re not gonna know anything in the real world. How pathetic
Authentic parenting = Respecting your children's rights as human beings. It's that simple!
My three children have been raised to eat when they are hungry and sleep/wake when they feel the need. My 16 year old has been able to adjust his up late/sleep late schedule to attend community college, attend swim meets on weekends that start at 730AM with a 1-2 hour commute, work and Eagle project which required him to interact with engineers, public works, machine shops, etc. All without me harping on him, punishing him, shaming him. He does what he needs to do when he needs to do it or he feels the natural consequences of his choices/actions.
The audiences reactions make me laugh. Dayna handles their comments better than I would have.
This is a room full of women who are seem to need to control children the way they were controlled because they know nothing else. It is refreshing to shift to a life of non-punitive love and joy. Imagine how different the relationships with your children can be when everyone feels respected.
Strict parents just create kids who know how to lie really, really well. I agree that kids need structure, but you have to have open communication and mutual respect.
Jenn Terry exactly. This is so disgusting to watch, people are so brainwashed that you HAVE to do everything the same
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I love to see parents treat their children with respect, as an equal human being, performing as a mentor and protector who's been around a bit longer and knows how to teach you some stuff to keep you alive in this environment.
It’s funny, but sad at the same time, how programmed those audience members are. Dayna held her peace like a champ. Probably due to her idiology in practice with not trying to arbitrarily and unduly control her kids. She lays that same approach on the audience and it doesn’t ruffle her feathers. Love seeing that play out real time. I hope people caught that. Here’s a mind blower for you guys: I bet her husband is a really happy man as well. This could be revolutionary for the divorce rate.
lol right? The fact that they're getting this defensive and aggressive shows how wrong they might be in their approach. Otherwise they would be able to argue in a much calmer and more respectful manner than this.
there are jobs at all hours . . . what does going to bed at a certain time have to with getting a job?
“When there’s conflict we talk about it”
(woman makes a face)
“Well ok but some kids need to be spanked”
(crowd applauses)
You can’t make this up lol
In disbelief how closed minded so many people are.
Freedom is the ability to not worry what the others Think ♡ Love the honesty that shines through you dayna ♡ you rock mama ♡
"The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so free that your very existence is an act rebellion" - Albert Camus
I am so proud of her taking on so many arguments at once.
Not enforcing arbitrary rules is NOT THE SAME THING as having no boundaries. People are ridiculous.
What it boils down to here is trust. Most people do not trust their children. We don't learn responsibility by being forced to do things. Thanks, Dayna. You're awesome!!!
Look at how respectful and polite all these authoritarian raised people are!
Dana is a pioneer. Listen to what she says, it's more intuitive and practical than any of the crap we've been brainwashed to believe. Critical thinking, autodidactic learning and empowered living. We are very happy unschoolers and we're able to get the most out of life every day. Why do we have to feel like we're fighting up a hill to do life "right?" Listen to what feels good and fosters true wisdom and positive energy and watch your world transform for the better... I dare ya.
***** Does it feel "good" to rape? Not really, given the social repercussions of such an act. Just because someone is unschooled doesn't mean they aren't capable of empathy and consideration of other people. It's part of being in the world and experiencing the direct effects and natural consequences of their actions.
Kathryn B where did rape come from? I don’t think that comparison applies here bc if you are raised to respect everyone, to love everyone, and don’t raise children in an environment where that happens then the child would know that is not okay to do. Unschooling does not teach children to ‘rape’ or abuse others so that should not even be a problem.
I don't believe in physical punishment because of my experiences as a child with that going too far. I do believe in boundaries and rules, but with that being said strict parents create sneaky kids. I believe that if you give the leash some slack then the child won't be so easy to defy you.
Honestly it's sad to see so many people endorse physical punishment for children as if it's just something kids NEED to learn...
I feel like those kinds of punishments teach children to fix things using violence...
Sam Adams One of my sisters was like that unfortunately, mom tried everything else but nothing got through that thick head of hers except getting proper beating. We never did understand why she was like that.
TheBookWorm1718 It's great that she didn't hit anyone around her. She might have realized it wasn't right for her. I hope she can heal from the pain now. I don't think you can say, "violence teaches violence", because it's not that simple. It depends on a lot of other factors aswell, like the environment and the individual. Being non-violent can make your life and that of the people around you so much better.
“They have no responsibilities” how can she say that when she doesn’t even know her kids
"Spanking isn't a parenting issue; it's a human rights issue. Every time we tiptoe around it, so as not to offend the "It's my right to parent as I see fit" folks, we halt the very real and very important conversation about the fact that children - like all humans - should have the right to decide who puts their hands on their body, and when, and how, and for what reason. Your right to parent how you choose does not supersede your child's right to feel safe from harm in his own home." - The Path Less Taken
Thank you!
I unschooled my stepson. He is now 28, owns a tech company, bought a fixer under foreclosure 5 years ago, and now has a beautiful family. While society is struggling to get by they are thriving. He went to bed when he felt like it. If that meant staying up for 214 hours straight to do a raid on WOWwith his friends then he did it. They learn so much more on their own than being stuck in a prison-like environment all day long. His step-sister went to a public school and the differences in their education would absolutely blow you away.
Bedtimes are moot, even for adults. Those who talk about "responsibility" or "jobs" must forget that doctors, nurses, truck drivers, 24 hours grocery stores, and so many, many, MANY more careers work 3rd shift. Children STILL have chores and "responsibilities" at all hours of the day.
Damn that. I can't function in a house of chaos.Going to bed at 2 in the morning is crazy. When you have to get up early in the morning to go to work and get kids off to school, sleep is very important.
With all due respect the second my parent took the leash off that was what my sleep cycle looked like, it wasn't chaos I just wasn't on the same clock as everyone else. What pissed me off more was getting to an age where you realize the rules really has no reasoning to them and existed purely "just because" and then my parents had one pissed off out of control teenager who they had to kick out to go live with her dad, funny thing was he was rarely home and didn't care what I did but everything was totally fine and my grade ever shot through the roof.
With unschooling you can go to sleep when you want and wake up when you want, and they have a family owned business so there is no need for a schedule.
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I agree with Dayna, explaining to your kids why what they did was bad and keeping your cool is much better that screaming at them then they won’t even understand why what they did was wrong.
I am a black young woman and I AGREE with unschooling. I just want ppl to know that not all black women behave like the women in the audience.
This is what happens when you put an intellectual into a barking mad dog house!
You do not have to homeschool in order to use Peaceful Parenting. Treating your child with respect and dignity can be done no matter your school or work situation. Choosing not to hit your child, EVER, should be an easy choice. You just don't. We gave our children the choice of homeschool or public school. My son, 15, has chosen homeschool and is thriving there. My daughter,13, has chosen public school where she us an A honor student and plays two different sports on the school teams. That is her choice. She has no bedtime , I don't check grades or homework. We gave allowed life to teach her. To develop a natural internal motivation. She has learned that if she has a test or athletic practice or a game, she feels better with more sleep. She has a natural thirst for learning and a competitive nature , so she knows about time management and learning and being organized. Not because we make her or control her or tell her gets to do. She has been allowed to learn these things naturally. At 13 she is great steward if herself. We love her and support her and are present in get life in a way most busy, distracted and control/punishment parents are not. And age us far better prepared for life than those children and many adults. Attachment parenting is about being close to your children , their needs, emotions and natural curiosity in a way that guides them and let's them find their way. It horrifies me that these parents in the audience we more freaked about a bedtime but totally at ease with hitting children.
You can be a Peaceful Parent in any situation , if you so choose.
I hope no person's negativity or ingnorance ever gets to you. Your a strong & amazing woman Dayna. Love your work
I honestly can't believe we've brainwashed society to believe you have to physically hurt your own children to get them to listen to you. Like wtf? Why would you want to hurt someone you love? If you explain to the child why what they did was wrong and the consequences, they will have a better understanding than "if I do this I'm gonna get beat". That's just plain fear. My dad stopped beating me when I was about 9 and my mental state is actually a lot better. And it's disgusting how the people were so shocked when she said "we talk to them" like it's so bad and foreign to NOT harm your kids. Ugh
They kept interrupting her, so rude! Bethenny was so unprofessional that's why she couldn't keep the show.
Why is the woman saying that the unschooled kids have no responsibilities? It sounds like they go to ski practice and have the responsibilities they choose. What an idea, that the children are being empowered to choose what they are responsible for.
Where did the belief that 'you have to work for someone else and accept someone else's rules and limits' come from?
This woman is a genius and how I want to raise my kids! All of these people are just mad that they have complicated their own lives by parenting the way they do.
Caroline Connors I agree 100%, and it is her right to raise her child the way she wants, just like it is everyone else's right to have an opinion, but no none should force the other to obey what they think is right. If you want to be free, you must let others be free. I also Home-school my children, best decision I ever made that has to do with my children. I support this mothers decision 100%.
I hope that you are sarcastic. Ignorance is a mental illness.
No, it's because it's required to function in today's society, im sure many other parents disagree with the education system but still make their kids go to school because it's a huge part in any persons life, I'm sorry but that's reality. You can't stay in lala land forever.
There is a reason people go to school- to have a productive life and to be capable to support a family one day in the relatively near future. I do not go to school because society points a gun at me and says- DO IT but rather because I want to have a high-paying job, I want to be capable to support my family, to travel. Also, I go there to gain friends, expand my interests.
One thing society gives you is free will- and if this is your choice, there are consequences for it as well. Considering actions and consequences those actions produce is something we in the West call- *rational thinking* .
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Because her kids being entrepreneurs and successfully having their own business at the age they are is not being productive??
The goal for every responsible parent I know, is to teach them to be independent and self sufficient. The status quo is to encourage them to be doctors or lawyers, but in this day and age with so many enslaved by student loan debt, most forward thinking parents avoid this path for their children as I have. The most desirable thing your child could ever do is to become a self sufficient entrepreneur! Dayna Martin has achieved this already with her children. In a sense, her job as a care taker is done, she perfected rearing her children to the point that no discipline was necessary. In my opinion, that is a perfect parent!! I also practice the same philosophy as Dayna Martin. Both of my children have chosen their career paths as business owners, one is an artist and one is a gaming guru. And I do not believe in physical discipline. My children are people, not pets! Way to go Dayna Martin! Not only are you a fantastic mother, but to appear on a show like this means your are also one tough cookie!!!
I would love to see a full version of this
The truth is, living without a social recognised structure leaves people lost and worried. Taking away the predetermined concepts of activities for times of the day definitely gives the child independence to determine the right time to do things that's suitable for him/her.
I am an unschooler and I DO have responsibilities, my dad has cancer and we need the house clean, I have 2 snakes, 3 lizards, under ONLY my care, and I am 12 years old.
"You better go get a JOOOBBB"
Not having a set bedtime, staying up that late, and not getting enough sleep can have a very negative effect on brain function. Punishing your kids is not always bad, it gives them structure, discipline, and helps them learn right from wrong. This women is nuts!
"This women is nuts!" By that you mean that you are not yet capable to understand her point of view!
Your right I don't understand her point if view. Children need structure and discipline along with love. I do also believe that children should learn to make the right decisions and have some freedom. However, allowing them to stay up all hours of the night is not benificial to them in anyway. It messes with brain function as well as any other body functions. School is another thin that children need. These parents are setting their children up for failure. How can they be fully functioning adults when they won't even be able to know how to keep a basic job (which will be difficult without any schooling).
You think like most people do, nothing new, obsolete ideas! Try to explore more unschooling!
I would also like to point out that I do not believe parents should be super strict. They should however impose certain rules and structure that are healthy and facilitate learning and growth. Finding what children are interested in and embracing that is a fantastic idea. I still feel that schooling should be a part of their everyday life. I would also like to point out that I am not opposed home schooling children if it is done correctly. There are many aspects of traditional education that I find ridiculous and unnecessary. Montessori schools may be a better option for some children. But school none the less is important.
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We are unschooling in NZ and LOVE it :) It's just real life, rather than being obsessed with control.
If you wound't mind, do a status update when your kids are around thirty.
Your kids are gonna grow up to be stupid
Unschooling in Canada here. It's awesome! We're #nevernotlearning!
@@freeschoolin6793 bruh no one asked you to talk
So funny, the lady who says they have no responsibilities! Are her only responsibilities at 6am?? Doubtful. Just because some people shift their schedule it does not mean they have no responsibilities. My children also sleep and wake per their bodies and some days that has them up until 1 or 2 in the morning. I see no problem with that. When we need to get up for something specific then we all do. You can be just as productive, motivated, and happy waking at noon as when you wake at 6am. I would argue many people actually do and feel much better when they let their natural rythym guide ther day!
Why is it that people think structure can only be provided by parents? Children and adults are capable of setting a structure that works best for them. I believe in listening to my children and supporting them in the decisions regarding structure and every thing else!
BTW.. Fast forward 2022.. Dayna's kids are very bright, ambitious and successful young adults! Bravo, Dayna!
When we homeschool, there is no reason to have a set bed time or wake up time. When we found a WONDERFUL Charter school, I began bedtimes. Of course they can draw or read till I go to bed (1am) but we all get up at 7:30am. It works for US. Not everyone or every family is the same. We have our own rhythms. Hitting is never okay in our house. Speaking with our kids and time outs is our form of punishment. My kids have free range of the tv and computers, but I find they are more interested in sewing, cooking, gardening, reading, skating, bike riding, etc....then watching tv or playing on the iPad. Mainly because I never denied them. Kids come over to our house and freak out and glue themselves to the tv - it's creepy.
Lmao. Their reaction to her kid sleeping at 2 had me ROLLING. And I could see she was amused too. Like, it doesn't matter, as long as they're getting ENOUGH sleep. When adults are on airplanes, they don't care whether it's 6 a.m., or 6 P.m.. When your body tells you it's time to take a break, you take it. I only get on my 8 y/o brother about his sleeping, when he tries to pretend he's not sleepy, just so he can look at some stupid cartoon. I let him know sleep, and listening to your body, is a lot more important than that crap.
I don’t think 2 in the morning is a good sleep time for a child. Their even missing most of the day cause of sleep
@@Br00ke291 maybe if they're sleeping for 16 hours. But odds are, they're sleeping for 8. And if they take 2 hours to eat and perform their hygienic routines, it's just noon by time they start their day. Besides, here in Texas, you WANT to miss most of the day, and just stay inside with the air conditioning for as long as possible.
@@maybewise it’s still sad their missing so much time to do stuff. Half the day is already gone. Besides the saddest part is they don’t go to school and soon enough life will show them that what you want to happen won’t always work out.
@@Br00ke291 I think you're sadder than the situation actually is. I've experienced both schooling (at a bad and good school) and unschooling. Unschooling is a million times better. You can get kids socialized with common interest activities, instead of forcing them into a room full of kids that they probably have NO common interest with, and no friends among them, not to mention the worry of bullying and shootings. I'm so glad unschooling allowed me to develop myself as an individual, without the distractions of bullies, worrying about how to be/look popular, or knowing that I'd have to go to school right after hearing about yet another school shooting. School was NOT good for me. That doesn't mean it can't be good for anybody. But homeschooling/unschooling, where you know you're safe and loved, is just a good, if not more.
@@maybewise doesn’t mean schooling wouldn’t be good for them. School helps kids socialize with others and make friends. Regardless if it being hard for you and stuff, kids still gotta learn math and things they’ll need for the future. The mom isn’t even home schooling them so everything they gotta learn they need to do themselves which can be hard to self learn sometimes. I could never self learn and without school I’d have no friends
My mouth dropped open when the audience cheered the woman who said, "Some children need to be spanked!". Lets call spanking what it really is....hitting, and hitting anyone ever is no ok. They accused Dayna Martin of not bringing up her children in a responsible way, but they think raising children to think it's ok to hit someone half your size is being responsible? Wow!
+megan marian This is a common misconception. You do not need to spank, tap or do anything to a baby to make them breathe when they are born. They will simply breathe on their own as long as nothing is obstructing their lungs--cleaning out their mouths and throats with a bulb syringe helps with this.
Letting them stay up to 2am is training to be freelance bosses rather than being the mules making somebody else rich. I never sleep before 2am.
They judge a child going to bed without the necessity for medication but yet medicate their own children so they will go to sleep at an acceptable time of a sick society. I would be up until 1 regularly as a child, a child has much more energy then an adult when they are not being medicated for add or aspergers. An afternoon nap is something nearly every animal on the planet does, except the human. There are ways to establish boundaries without striking them and have them live in fear of you. When they respect you for who you are and how you treat them as a human being rather then property there is much less backlash from children who are likely amped up on sugar and glysophates being programmed by the tell a vision how to act. There is a real disconnection in the CULTure that we live in from how nature works to how humans have been trained to perform.
People have been brainwashed and conditioned to fit in the box we were programmed to be in. It is okay to step out of the box. We don't have to live in it anymore. We should all be like this amazing unschooling mom who knows all kids are different. I say BURN THE BOX, let our kids be kids and stop trying to conform them the way we have been our entire lives. Way to go Dayna and all unschooling moms out there, you are awesome!!!
I love how Dyana totally shocks the world speaking what should be common sense. (i love the ghaps of outrage.. people don't even know why they're outraged, it's like 'i've been programed by the herd mentality to disagree with this, que expression of disapproval') "your setting them up for a future.." "Responsibilities!" 'yes that's what i'm supposed to say,' she thinks. it's like programed language.. it doesn't mean anything. "some kids need to be disciplined with verbal, some kids need to be spanked" wow, can't believe the audience cheered.. 100% robots. When they go to sleep is sort of a distraction from the point of the amazing work this woman does. If more people lived satisfying creative free lives like the Martins we could all have a more satisfying day and maybe we wouldn't need to stay up late into the night, or maybe we would, that's really not the point.
I agree. Well said
It's called raising future responsible adults, not being brainwashed. I've worked in sports with kids. The kids from families that would allow them everything (because god forbid they had to discipline their kid when they did the wrong thing) had no limits and sense of right and wrong. I specifically said to NOT jump head first when we were jumping but guess what, the kid with no discipline did? Jumped head first. If he were to break his neck, his incompetent parents would sue me because apparently it's my fault because they can't raise their child properly. I've never had problems with properly raised kids, just the ones where parents believed kids can do whatever they want. Interesting, isn't it? Yeah, must be nice to "talk about things" at home, but when this kids get in other social environments, they are a threat to their an others life by having no limits.
It is dangerous to assume only one style of parenting. When I have children, I will do everything I know how in order to try and launch them into success with as minimum shame as possible. The unschooling philosophy appeals to me, but if I incapable to parent that way, I will do what I must do. When I see parents who use an authoritative approach, I assume that that's what they do because that is all they can do. I wouldn't blame anyone for being conventional.
So many of these audience members have a very rigid concept of "structure". In actuality, any event that you attend on a regular basis contributes to the structure of your life. It doesn't have to be school or work. As long as the kids are getting out to see the world, and have found a way to be compatible with other people (including timing), what's the issue? Kids can find their own hobbies, their own friends, etc. and if they meet them regularly, join a sport, whatever, guess what? They learn how to be compatible with others' schedules.
Also, not all jobs are 9-5. Those who don't want to work from 9-5 don't have to, there are so many other options. Not seeing that is a sign that you've been conditioned to see anything other than a doctor, lawyer, or similar desk job to be not a "real" job.
No wonder we have so few entrepreneurs and creative people in our society. What do you expect when you teach people from the age of 2 or 3 that not conforming to some rigid cultural script is on par with one of the seven deadly sins?
Expand your mind, folks!
"We talk about [the things our kids do wrong]" reaction at 0:38
Funny how the audience members who are so judgmental seem to be the angriest about how other people live their lives...
And the sleep thing kinda makes sense. It makes sense to sleep when you're tired. Adults and teens do it? As long as it's actually working and healthy for your child
Yuppp my child naturally sleeps from around 12-11 unschooling rocks! Its 11 now and he is coloring. 🥰
All the women around her are out of control lol
that is way too late if they are going to public school.
They don't go to school, they are unschooled.
I am a radical unschooling mum too!
What in the heck was that black lady at the very end trying to say? It’s sad that those who have nothing to say, feel like they need to talk (not just her, but all the opposite thoughts expressed to Dayna, just that last lady was the worst).
People are so close minded. Only those that are evolved could be a radical unschooling parent
The kids are literally illiterate. It will be impossible for them to function in any society when they're adults.
Chaide Elwood the kids unfortunately won't function in society. Let's say this if they get into legal trouble they won't be able to understand the consequences because they never been punished. They don't understand that their actions have consequences.
My 9 year old often goes to sleep anywhere between 10pm and 2am. Works for us. 🤷
I used to want to respect that show, because I actually think the host is cool. But I'm so tired about how they always bring people in to be shamed, all these daytime tv shows are so mean. I don't mind people opinionated, but hypocrisy...c'mon now
I have friends who unSchool and I have friends who have more strict parenting styles. I think as long as it’s done with genuine love, respect and dignity the kids turn out OK. I don’t think there’s one right way to parent health Kids and I think the idea that there’s only one right way to do it is absolutely ridiculous because every human is different. So that works in her family and she’s allowed to know what works best for her children. There are a lot of jobs where you wake up at noon and go to bed at one... ask anyone who works the night shift at a restaurant😬
It upsets me that they use the concept Unschooling with this crazy Radical Free Range Parenting! There are many parents who unschool or homeschool (I did both as a child) but our parents and the majority of parents out there do not think the madness this mom brings to the table is okay. We had rules, boundaries, bedtimes, consequences for bad decisions. We looked up to the adults in our lives as authority and were taught to be respectful! No, we were not educated the same way as most of our peers but we still received a great education, went to college and are good, contributing members of society. I don't know how this woman's children will turn out but I am worried for them.
You obviously know nothing. She is a role model
Chaide Elwood Why do you say I know nothing when you didn't state your case?
You didn't say why you agree with her. You didn't say why you believe she is a role model.
Chaide Elwood A role model for how to be lazy. How to not have to get up early with your kids and actually parent them.😂😂😂
Nikki Kimmi B. Lol cuz actually getting up and sending your kids to school to be babysit by others for so many hours per day is definitely parenting
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I think all kids need boundaries and rules because we have boundaries and rules in a functioning society they are called LAWS. I don't think extreme parenting on either end is the answer I think there should be a combination of both. However every family is different and you never know what might work for your child until you try it.
Rules should be the same for adults and kids: don't hurt others.
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every child needs to go to school from kindergarten through atleast 12th grade if not college how do they learn and life experences are not good enough life is hard these days without making these kids suffer
They learn from real life experience and there choices have action first of all they still learn just in their own time , life is not hard , we make it that way . try no electricity for a couple months and living like the old days .
it is a new york state law that children either have to go to school or be home schooled I do not know what planet you live on but you do need modern schooling to get ahead and to get a job and to be a functioning person in society
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I've never been to school, not one day, I'm working as a video editor, a skill I learned doing what I love, playing video games constantly from a very young age.
Now explain to me, how am I not a functioning member of society? (And don't give me that 'I'm not over 18' shit, I have a job, I contribute the same as someone a couple years older)
not everyone will have the same outcome as you
but that is great
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Gotta love how "well behaved" all the pro-spanking women are by getting aggressive and talking over the person they disagree with. Good job. Way to show how well your parents parenting worked on you and what a bleak glimpse of what your kids are gonna be like when they grow up.
Going to bed early at that age is important, because growth hormone (and several others) is most abundant from around midnight to one, so child should be asleep during that time to properly grow and recover. Mum is making sure her children are not getting healthy sleep rythm, as early as 6yo. Good job of not caring about your kid's health and depriving them of healthy rest.
Secondly: As they said, children need structure. They have to learn right from wrong and discipline as well. That CAN'T be done by allowing everything. Essentialy, they will not be able to function in any social environment, either school, work or just crossing the street because as far as they are concerned if somebody says don't cross the street on red light, they can just do it and get run over, because they were taught that they can do anything.
The same for work - they can never get a proper job or learn a skill, because they were never taught to sit down and practice to actually learn something. So they will work for 10 minutes and then wonder off, because they feel like it?
And on the spanking part. Yes, some children need a spanking. It signifies a line that can't be crossed. Children with no parenting (like this ones) won't correct their behaviour even after being told to not do it multiple times. And they can threaten theirs and the life of others, because they have no clue what is right and what is wrong. Just the other day I saw a child kicking another with full force in the back after not obeying several orders to behave better. That child HAS TO be spanked and strongly reprimanded and told to never ever do that again, because the other kid can end up in the wheelchair! Incidents like these should never be settled by "calm conversation", because the kids need to grasp the severity of their actions and "talking about it" just won't do it if you told him "NO" 4 times but he didn't listen.
I really feel sorry for the kids because it's not their fault their parents are idiots.
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Good thing these are all testable claims. So I suppose you're going to admit you were wrong now and apologise?
Who gives a fuck what time they go to bed? The important thing is that they get enough sleep. If they do, who cares when that sleep cycle is?
We all grew up going to school and following the routine.... most of yall are crazy anyway
Not everone works 9-5. My husband works 3rd shift and yes my fam is on that schedule.
Society is so brainwashed...
Them people were so rude to Dayna and I think her 6yr old was Ivy or Orion!
Alot of ppl work 2nd shift n nightshifts...professionals too, like drs nurses, businessmen, single moms and dads, waiters, etc.., etc...
Yes maybe we do make it harder but we do have running water and heat but kids need school we can agree to disagree
sara you do not understand what I said I said I thought all kids should be in school
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Oh how brainwashed and conditioned people can be. We raise our own children and we are free nature beings. When you stop devoting your life to money, materialism, word of man, and all perceptions and opinions of others, there you will start to understand those like us that choose to live truly free. Being grateful for all that is in the present only brings us abundance and manifesting our true heart's will and desire.
And to the parents of the audience. Don't beat it til you try it.
I don't agree with what this lady was saying but i do understand...but I hate that she tried to explain herself amongst the everyday society type of folk making unschoolers and homeschoolers look bad..they'll never understand.
House For Her Glory I understood what she was saying. Like my son who is 10 goes to bed at about 10-11 and he gets up around 8 or 9.
If you do something wrong on your job you may or may not get punished burning sure they don't spank you.
Lizzie Allen but you do get reprimanded at work. It can be they send you home early, demotion or even termination.
Pam Brown seems like a great mom. I can only guess that she has a strong husband that supports her disciplinary style.
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I don't particularly agree with "unschooling," but letting your kids do whatever they want without punishment is NOT what unschooling is.
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Yeah it all sounds great and I do think the school system needs to be revised and restructured. But do a little more research on this woman and her family, go to her youtube channel. She is NOT preparing her children to live in the real world. ABC asked her what happens when they grow up and need a job, what kind of job they'd get, and she didn't have an answer cause she hadn't thought about it. Its good that her kids are following their passions and everything else, but she took it to an extreme that is unnecessary and not beneficial to her children. When they grow up and find out that they can't get a job with a decent salary because of the 'revolutionary' technique their parents used, they'll blame them. I'm studying to get my university degree and I'm so glad my parents didn't implement this system on me!
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They're ganging up on this poor woman.
I just have a quick question....her child is 6, right and goes to bed 1 or 2 in the morning....doesn't he go to school? Maybe I missed something....how pathetic is she and her parenting skills....this is what is wrong with this world. But we can't hate, b/c this is her child and she will suffer the consequences as they get older....:(
With unschooling you don't go to a building, it is operated from the home, just like homeschooling.
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I love Dayna Martin.
This mom is so wrong, she doesn't even know basic body chemistry. The human body does self healing between the hours of 10 p.m. and 3 a.m. You should be sleeping at that time for optimum health. If she was more self educated she would know this basic knowledge. Mom fail!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nikki Kimmi B. Source?
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I LOVE DAYNA SHES MY HERO AND INSPIRATION AND IDOL😘
If this is something that works for their family, great. But the world everyone else lives in and the one they'll be in by the time they aren't confined to their parents homes, they'll see it's not as forgiving as what has been orchestrated for them...
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is she high
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This mother is literally a joke 🤦🏽♀️ she’s not a parent she’s just trying to be their friend more than a parent. A six years old should not be going to bed that late. I feel so bad when they get older how they’re going to be. They’re not gonna know anything in the real world. How pathetic
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