What if he has a bad xter, wife beater etc. He may have trained her, but at the end of the day, if it will end in disaster why go ahead. The girl must have a good reason to do that. So until we hear both sides, we cannot judge her
I'm frm Ghana and a similar tin happened to a close friend of mine. The girls parents afta the lady had completed school told my friend he was frm a certain tribe so their dauta can't marry my friend.
So when the man was training her and lavishly spending on her, so she did not know that the man is illiterate and not trained. After investing on her, she suddenly relized that the man is illiterate and not her class. Rubbish. It shall never go well for that wicked girl. To whom much is given, much is expected.
My question is, did they have an agreement to marry? or the guy is just assuming that after training her, they will settle down together, just saying though!
It's both ways for men and women. A broken relais better than a broken Marriage. I don't blame the girl. After all the man still benefitted during the relationship. The man will do same if he was in her shoes. After all he didn't pay bride price 😮
Always defind your relationship, if you don't want a man don't eat his money. Girls don't like it when a man use them so we shouldn't do it to them too.
Whatever it is parents should cater to their children and the children should do with whatever their parents can provide. If you like a girl wait for her to get to maturity, marry her and train her in your house, if you choose the Salvation Army or United Nations route and things went sour just let it be o! What goes around comes around. Anyone that intentionally deceives in the affairs of the heart for whatever reason can not really enjoy life in the real sense of it, however for some folks everything is a game, so na you go guard your heart with all diligence as the Holy Book enjons!
This relationship topic is becoming a broken record!! Could you ladies please talk about other life lessons topics, e.g Parenting/nurturing, Societal values. These topics cannot be over-emphasized in upbringing Children and educating Parents. Also, considering the Vices in our Society.
You women talk from.your women side .. this is not how to deal with such topic .. and i think you ladies talk in women favour so i think you ladies dont handle rwlationship topic.. am sorry for women that think that the men are weak .. when they fight back you all will be depressed
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You can't buy love, stopped taken advantages on others because of your money. If you feel like helping do so without an ulterior motives
For say sister nyma dey this show today and this is the topic , she go don say the lady na OLEEEE 😂😂
But some lady train a man and at the end the man leave her to marry another lady
This is just an act of sheer wickedness... After 7 years, and that is when she knew she had to choose her own happiness
Any human being can improve. Thanks Tope
What if he has a bad xter, wife beater etc.
He may have trained her, but at the end of the day, if it will end in disaster why go ahead. The girl must have a good reason to do that.
So until we hear both sides, we cannot judge her
I'm frm Ghana and a similar tin happened to a close friend of mine. The girls parents afta the lady had completed school told my friend he was frm a certain tribe so their dauta can't marry my friend.
This is wicked...... simple!!!
He was not a woman beater when he was training her? That is so unfair
Should have settled the matter before moving on.
In your given, you must also give yourself. Thanks Becee
So when the man was training her and lavishly spending on her, so she did not know that the man is illiterate and not trained.
After investing on her, she suddenly relized that the man is illiterate and not her class. Rubbish.
It shall never go well for that wicked girl.
To whom much is given, much is expected.
People should be honest from the beginning. If you need help and support, say so.
Lower your expectations and prepare your mind .
You nailed it with simple sentence.... 👍👍👍
My question is, did they have an agreement to marry? or the guy is just assuming that after training her, they will settle down together, just saying though!
It's both ways for men and women. A broken relais better than a broken Marriage. I don't blame the girl. After all the man still benefitted during the relationship. The man will do same if he was in her shoes. After all he didn't pay bride price 😮
Always defind your relationship, if you don't want a man don't eat his money. Girls don't like it when a man use them so we shouldn't do it to them too.
People like to play the victim. Take her to court and lets hear word .
You guys dint address this issue well if its a man now, you will be shout abt yen yen yen !!!!
Pls let the men breath...😂
Whatever it is parents should cater to their children and the children should do with whatever their parents can provide. If you like a girl wait for her to get to maturity, marry her and train her in your house, if you choose the Salvation Army or United Nations route and things went sour just let it be o! What goes around comes around. Anyone that intentionally deceives in the affairs of the heart for whatever reason can not really enjoy life in the real sense of it, however for some folks everything is a game, so na you go guard your heart with all diligence as the Holy Book enjons!
So what happens when the uneducated rich guy refuses to pay her school fees, would she find that her spec?
It is simply manipulation and that is wicked. Why would you toy with someomes heart. Not my spec, yet you lead him on and even married him.
This relationship topic is becoming a broken record!! Could you ladies please talk about other life lessons topics, e.g Parenting/nurturing, Societal values. These topics cannot be over-emphasized in upbringing Children and educating Parents. Also, considering the Vices in our Society.
You women talk from.your women side .. this is not how to deal with such topic .. and i think you ladies talk in women favour so i think you ladies dont handle rwlationship topic.. am sorry for women that think that the men are weak .. when they fight back you all will be depressed