Can we just make it clear that having OCD and being obsessive are two very different things. Like someone else has put in the comments, it not an adjective. Just use the word obsessive or something that is actually descriptive and not a mental illness. I like you're content a lot but please can we end this social issue with using the term OCD as a quirky personality trait instead of what it is - a tormenting condition that can make people seriously ill. Thank you ❤
I have OCD. One of the ways it manifests for me is that my brain likes to designate how items should be placed in a room. If you were to go into my living room and shift my couch 2 inches to the left, not only would I immediately notice, but I physically can't do anything else until the couch is fixed. I have spent hours of my life trying to shift furniture to the exact millimetre it was at before being moved. It's bad enough that I can't have company over because they might move the furniture. I've heard of people whose OCD manifested as the need to tap a door in a certain way before being able to open it. Some people need to perform tasks in a specific order. The point is that there are many possible ways that people with OCD act because of the disorder. The behaviour in this video very well could be mild OCD. I'm all for educating people about a mental illness. But the way you've gone about it with this comment is just coming off as virtue signalling and almost arrogantly preachy.
@@brokenandcraked When you said “tap a door a certain way before opening it” is literally my exact problem, along with some other weird things i do similar to that. I had no idea it was ocd 😭
yes. i have it too, and it is so, so, so much more than wanting something to be perfect. and you cant say someone who doesnt have ocd, is, 'ocd' as though its a word like 'beautiful' or 'fierce'
Same, it is very harmful also. The stereotype that this is ocd almost costed me my life. I won’t get detailed but now I know it’s ocd I am doing much better
I really appreciate your videos, and generally they're super good, but just so that you're aware, OCD is a serious disorder that makes many MANY people's lives really difficult. It means that they struggle to live as we would expect due to rituals that they need to follow. Social media has made it seem silly, cute or quirky, but it isn't something that should be used as an adjective. It makes complete sense if you weren't aware of this, so I'm not blaming you for anything, but i hope that this can help improve your understanding of OCD
Exactly. I have OCD and it acts nothing like this, i could see me worrying that I would fall during a jump if it wasnt a certain ways away but its not being a perfectionist. People need to realize that
me and my trainer are the opposite of this. We will do a quick walk of whatever we set up but as fox hunters we believe it’s good for the horse to be able to figure it out themselves as long as it’s safe. cant count how many times we’ve had a log in front of a stone wall and my horse would handle it fine because we did stuff like this. thanks for coming to my TED talk😭
You can use disorders as a description in some cases. When being diagnosed, someone would say “you have OCD” wouldn’t they? They can be formatted into adjectives.
@@elysedonia7123 yes but not in this way, ocd is not all ‘Oh mwy gowsh My RoOm Is A mEsS, oh naurr my hair isn’t perfection’ it’s a serious disorder and shouldn’t be used in this manner
She was saying “THAT ocd show jumper”, saying that it’s a stereotype. I won’t go in detail with this, but it’s not anything towards ocd I think. I’m not 100%, but I’m just letting you know
@@beaded.by.ali10 stereotyping a disorder isn’t okay, I get your point but its still not right. I’m a fan of hers but stuff like this isn’t cool, and as someone who know someone who actually has ocd pple often assume its just a silly little problem and confused it with ‘perfectionism’ which would have been the correct term to use in her video and this stereotyping can be quite problematic. . Sorry if anything came off as rude x
Lover her content but I agree entirely. Yeah it’s a title most everyone understands isn’t serious, but that’s the issue is how easily a serious topic like OCD can be watered down by people who use a stereotypical definition for a clickbait title. OCD can entail a lot of tearing at your skin and mindless flicking of a switch or button until it angers you, not just ‘Oh my pencils must be organized by color!”
Yep overfixating on Details that are not that important. And then you hang a picture perfectly in the middle of the wall only to then find out the light switch on the same wall is not in the middle and its attrocious bc that part is only like 40 cm between two doors
This is hilarious. I’m a bit of an OCD show jumper myself, largely because when I first learned to jump, the saddle I was in was crap, so I just felt super unstable.
9 foot to a nice bounce especially when under 80 cm ... Three steps an that's all the room you want up till 1m 20 .. maybe after one metre twenty id go ten foot no more. .... When U ride that long stride your horse is reaching .. you wanna lunch him in so he learns to back off an respect top an back rails .
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and its a DISORDER that can serously mess up someones life. it is not to be used as an adjective, and it is NOT a perfectonist.
Obsessive compulsive disorder. This isn't a good representation of it as its not an adjective or something to joke about, it's a debilitating disability involving intrusive thoughts and compulsions/rituals
Can we please stop using the term “OCD” when you really just mean particular or demanding? OCD is NOT “omg I have to have these thing the exact way I want them or it makes me mad/sad/angry. OCD is a mental health disorder that can alienate people and is extremely hard to manage and deal with. 🙄
There are people who are saying "Don't say OCD! It's not OK!" and I think they need to lighten up. This is a skit, it's supposed to be funny, not educational
“It’s between 8-24 strides!”
Such a small space 😂
This is my instructor after my friends and I set up the course 😂
Hahahah
“Stop putting me off”. “Im not doing anything”. “You are your breathing”. so relatable 😂
It’s got me on the floor😂
Can we just make it clear that having OCD and being obsessive are two very different things. Like someone else has put in the comments, it not an adjective. Just use the word obsessive or something that is actually descriptive and not a mental illness. I like you're content a lot but please can we end this social issue with using the term OCD as a quirky personality trait instead of what it is - a tormenting condition that can make people seriously ill. Thank you ❤
I mean this character she's playing seems pretty tormented to me but whatever. This comment reeks of "obsessiveness" 😅
Exactly ocd is obsessing over a COMPULSION.
I have OCD. One of the ways it manifests for me is that my brain likes to designate how items should be placed in a room. If you were to go into my living room and shift my couch 2 inches to the left, not only would I immediately notice, but I physically can't do anything else until the couch is fixed. I have spent hours of my life trying to shift furniture to the exact millimetre it was at before being moved. It's bad enough that I can't have company over because they might move the furniture.
I've heard of people whose OCD manifested as the need to tap a door in a certain way before being able to open it. Some people need to perform tasks in a specific order.
The point is that there are many possible ways that people with OCD act because of the disorder. The behaviour in this video very well could be mild OCD.
I'm all for educating people about a mental illness. But the way you've gone about it with this comment is just coming off as virtue signalling and almost arrogantly preachy.
@@brokenandcraked bruh I wish my ocd what like that
@@brokenandcraked When you said “tap a door a certain way before opening it” is literally my exact problem, along with some other weird things i do similar to that. I had no idea it was ocd 😭
My disorder is not an adjective.
yes. i have it too, and it is so, so, so much more than wanting something to be perfect. and you cant say someone who doesnt have ocd, is, 'ocd' as though its a word like 'beautiful' or 'fierce'
Real
@@Dragonhexyeah the pop culture idea of having OCD is actually more close to being autistic than actual OCD
PREACH!
I have harm ocd and it’s literally so fucking scary and overwhelming. She’s making it seem like ocd is “I want to be safe I’m so ocd”
@@DragonhexEXACTLY
This is not what OCD is
I have ocd and I find this quite offensive, it's incorrect and makes us look like loons
Same, it is very harmful also. The stereotype that this is ocd almost costed me my life. I won’t get detailed but now I know it’s ocd I am doing much better
I really appreciate your videos, and generally they're super good, but just so that you're aware, OCD is a serious disorder that makes many MANY people's lives really difficult. It means that they struggle to live as we would expect due to rituals that they need to follow. Social media has made it seem silly, cute or quirky, but it isn't something that should be used as an adjective.
It makes complete sense if you weren't aware of this, so I'm not blaming you for anything, but i hope that this can help improve your understanding of OCD
OCD is not an adjective.
i agree. i actually have it, and this does not sound like me at all, like I do not care about this.
Womp womp
@@makethemcringe genuine question, what do mean by "womp womp"?
Exactly. I have OCD and it acts nothing like this, i could see me worrying that I would fall during a jump if it wasnt a certain ways away but its not being a perfectionist. People need to realize that
Thank you
You put a smile on my face every time I watch your videos. Keep it up! 😂😂❤
me and my trainer are the opposite of this. We will do a quick walk of whatever we set up but as fox hunters we believe it’s good for the horse to be able to figure it out themselves as long as it’s safe.
cant count how many times we’ve had a log in front of a stone wall and my horse would handle it fine because we did stuff like this.
thanks for coming to my TED talk😭
Do you actually hunt foxes?
@@pancake.squirrel yes. I personally don’t agree with it but it’s a complicated story on why I still do it.
@@abbey_1236 do you actually kill the foxes?
@@pancake.squirrel depends
OCD is not a joke. Please choose better language.
yeh. as someone who has it, 'perfectionist' would be more fitting.
Yeah
😂😂😂
“Your breathing” killed me 🤣
using OCD as an adjective is so not ok. It's a disorder
You can use disorders as a description in some cases. When being diagnosed, someone would say “you have OCD” wouldn’t they? They can be formatted into adjectives.
@@elysedonia7123 yes but not in this way, ocd is not all ‘Oh mwy gowsh My RoOm Is A mEsS, oh naurr my hair isn’t perfection’ it’s a serious disorder and shouldn’t be used in this manner
She was saying “THAT ocd show jumper”, saying that it’s a stereotype. I won’t go in detail with this, but it’s not anything towards ocd I think. I’m not 100%, but I’m just letting you know
@@beaded.by.ali10 stereotyping a disorder isn’t okay, I get your point but its still not right. I’m a fan of hers but stuff like this isn’t cool, and as someone who know someone who actually has ocd pple often assume its just a silly little problem and confused it with ‘perfectionism’ which would have been the correct term to use in her video and this stereotyping can be quite problematic.
. Sorry if anything came off as rude x
Lover her content but I agree entirely. Yeah it’s a title most everyone understands isn’t serious, but that’s the issue is how easily a serious topic like OCD can be watered down by people who use a stereotypical definition for a clickbait title.
OCD can entail a lot of tearing at your skin and mindless flicking of a switch or button until it angers you, not just ‘Oh my pencils must be organized by color!”
This is my instructor after me and my friends set up the course 😅😂
I always love watching you it brings joy to me
I have OCD and this is why I go barrels instead of
Why is this so relatable 😂😂
Never trust the wings...on a butterfly! 🦋 😂😂😂
The British accent makes it 10x better😂❤
Its her real accent...
@@Emerald-rides I know, that’s why I love it! I love British accents and I want one so bad😭
@@Samantha_Eq1 Frfrrrrr
@@Samantha_Eq1it an Australian accent btw! No hate at all just wanted to say so you knew ❤
That’s not British 😭
This is such a mood I relate
I don't even jump anymore and I love watching your videos like this!
Real 😂😂😂
Ur comment was one minute from now! Wow
Yep overfixating on Details that are not that important. And then you hang a picture perfectly in the middle of the wall only to then find out the light switch on the same wall is not in the middle and its attrocious bc that part is only like 40 cm between two doors
The „You are breathing“ is giving me Sherlock Holmes vibes 😂
When did you start riding?❤😊
Sorry for my english, I'm from Germany😅
Winnie’s like are we gonna jump or what 😂😂
This is me when I set up poles 😂
Reminde me why we have jumping competitions
“It’s between 8-24 strides!”
-quote of the year
🥸🥸🥸 couldn’t be me 🥸🥸
Stop putting me off
I’m not doing anything
Yeah, you are breathing
Got me dying😂😂😂😂😂
Amber is so pretty and funny❤
😂😂😂 omg.... yep. Been 30yrs since I've been around such people, but yyyyeppooo. I get it! Between 8 and 24 strides! 😂😂🤣
I love your videos ❤
I love your videos! ❤
_You are- you're breathing!_ 😂😂😂
At my yard, we measure the distance between jumps in standard archery paces.
The horse is like ( what am i doing here when you 2 are fighting about stuf) or ( why am i here)
This is like my 2 favourite one you have done besides the one where u you were ur horse and you had a bonnet on
Your breath ing so funny your great ❤
So so funny….a delight….all true too….😂….🇬🇧
9 MINUTES AGO IM SUCH A BIG FAN!
I have very mild OCD, but as an equestrian I don’t really care about this tbh
"Ur breathing"💀
Omg literally me LOL 😂😂😂
what brand are those breeches?
me frfr 😭✋
Me if I did jumping 🥲
That would be me 🤣
I RIDE HORSES AND MY MOMS FRIEND AND ME AND HER DO YAYYYyyYyyYy
That’s me😂
Is it really OCD when they’re just trying to make sure the setup is correct so the horses don’t get injured? Not sorry, seen a few horses get injured
I’m the exact opposite of this lol I just send it
Any tips i am starting horse backroding in 7 days plsa help
This is hilarious. I’m a bit of an OCD show jumper myself, largely because when I first learned to jump, the saddle I was in was crap, so I just felt super unstable.
Girl how can you ride with nails 😭 I could never
Thats me tho...💀
9 foot to a nice bounce especially when under 80 cm ... Three steps an that's all the room you want up till 1m 20 .. maybe after one metre twenty id go ten foot no more. .... When U ride that long stride your horse is reaching .. you wanna lunch him in so he learns to back off an respect top an back rails .
I feel seen lol
What does OCD stand for
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and its a DISORDER that can serously mess up someones life. it is not to be used as an adjective, and it is NOT a perfectonist.
Obsessive compulsive disorder. This isn't a good representation of it as its not an adjective or something to joke about, it's a debilitating disability involving intrusive thoughts and compulsions/rituals
Obsessive compulsive disorder. It’s a tormenting condition that can destroy a person.
This video is not okay
😂😂😂
I’m leaving
Stop making light of ocd
how is she making *light* of OCD?
@@kasdy acting like ocd is when your safe or tidy. That’s not ocd. That’s just being human
U r.... ur breathing 😂😂😂
Sorry I’ll stop breathing then 😅
Can we please stop using the term “OCD” when you really just mean particular or demanding? OCD is NOT “omg I have to have these thing the exact way I want them or it makes me mad/sad/angry. OCD is a mental health disorder that can alienate people and is extremely hard to manage and deal with. 🙄
You didn't need to call me out...
Hows da homeless yak gojng
Just doing homeless yak things thinking he will be a homeless yak forever (he’s wrong)
I fell called out 😭😭
How dare you spy on me 😤
Don’t worry, breathing is overrated 😂
Heh... thats me 😅
Thats me💀 im the ocd showjumper💀 even tho i have a 27 year old showjumper with alot of experience 💀
There are people who are saying "Don't say OCD! It's not OK!" and I think they need to lighten up. This is a skit, it's supposed to be funny, not educational
It contributes to the stigma.
This stereotype has costed me months of my life, and my body and almost costed me my life. I’m not in the joking mood when it comes to disabilities.
Give IT a kitchen sink😅
😂😂