One Of The Busby Girls Gets Her Anxiety Assessed By An Occupational Therapist | OutDaughtered
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- The Busbys are worried about Parker's behaviour in new situations and discuss taking her to an occupational therapist to assess whether anxiety is the cause.
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Riley's immediate karma everytime she messed with someone was gold.
Stuff Stuffer LOL yes 😆
Yaaaas
I literally lol'd 😂
@@trxntroll843 hahaha wtffff
I laughed so hard and re watched that part twice because it was so freakin funny
Riley: complains and falls
*Camera zooms on hazel eating her pancakes in peace*
Abigale lol
Lol
Hazel is like you can stop there.
😂😂
I don’t know why I found it so funny 😂
Riley: Hazel forked me
😂😂😂 It's a talent to use words like that, turning nouns into verbs
She’s SO smart!! In the video before school, she answered every single question in a complete sentence !!
Exactly 😭
😂😂😂😂
lol
K J that had me dead
Riley: *terrorizing everyone*
Riley: *falls*
Everyone: *eats their pancakes in piece*
lexie Linfield I know!
Peace*
lexie Linfield “peace”
Moonlight_Angy QIi
lexie Linfield I actually laughed!!!!!😂😂
“Hazel forked me!”
Riley Busby 2019
Hannah Mathew
🤣😂
lmao
😂😂😂😂
@@ANNA-fg3rz riley is the rudeless and ruthless
“YOU FLIPPED MY SPOON UP!”
toddlers are strange.
Riley: Hazel forked me
😂😂😂😂😂like fr
they’re not toddlers anymore but yeah
U FLIPPED MY SPOON UP LOL. Sorry to burst ur bubble hazel but it’s a fork.lol
Billie is my baby And finneas too and the funny part is that it was a fork😂😂
Parker is so pretty I love the way Adam and Danielle are taking care Parker’s anxiety. The beginning was Riley and the Karma
Maria karma is a bi***
Maria
Hazel’s so stupid.. you flipped my spoon.
@@glogreen7002 she is 4
They’re 3
Glo Green why the fuck u calling Hazel stupid?!!
This is actually good. Most children are like Parker but don’t get help which affects them in the long term.
I was like Parker when I was little. Never seen a therapist or anything though. Now not only do I not speak, but I also overthink and overanalyze literally everything and anything. Can’t tell you how many people I’ve accidentally hurt and even messed up relationships with because of it 😞
brittanie sidebottom 💜
@@brittaniesidebottom ACA!
@@brittaniesidebottom u could still get in therapy
Jennifer C My husband and I are talking about it. We agreed it would help me, even if I am nervous about it.
Riley: Hazel forked me!
*Takes away Parker’s drink*
Poor parker and hazel! They just wanna enjoy their breakfast! 😊❤
She was actually fixing it because her cup was upside down. If you watch the video she was trying to give it back right side up but she fell.
Kaylee oh ok! Parker just made it sound like she just stole her cup 😂
Safiya Harris Toddlers overreact like that 😂
@@safiyaharris3795 tbh I feel bad for Riley bc she not making trouble she was helping hazel bc she was spooning the air and helped Parker to flip the cup but ofc they make it sound like Riley is a trouble maker
Ok I couldn’t be the only person who laughed when Riley fell
GachaMøon karma right there
@Simone Volman they are not toddlers they are 4years old
GachaMøon yea😂
Simone Volman cuz she was bugging her sisters then she fell, it’s karma and she’s fine kids fall like 10 times a day
I laughed
i can’t be the only one thinking that the cameras and crew could be contributing to parkers anxiety ?????
Leah Kubitz she’s probably used to having cameras so I doubt it
Leah Kubitz they also have their own CZcams channel
Definitely not.
As much as I love this show, if they stopped it because that’s the source of Parker’s anxiety, I wouldn’t be upset.
They need to be able to notice if there’s a difference when the crew isn’t around.
Obviously not. They were born on camera so it’s normal for them and their family does vlogs on CZcams. It’s normal for her lol. Her anxiety seems to be in public places, because she’s a happy normal toddler inside their house as you can see from the show and on their social medias
kaitie648 That’s actually what they’re doing. They’re taking a break from the show to spend time with family
Riley: *takes cup*
Parker: nooo Riley take that from-
Riley: *falls*
Parker: ........
everyone else : *eats pancakes*
Riley is a disturbing child....always being a bully..it is not cute.
Marge Horstman She is not disturbing... 🤦🏻♀️And she wasn’t bullying by taking her cup. If you actually watch the video Parker’s cup was upside down, Riley was fixing it and she was trying to give it back to Parker right side up but she fell while doing so. Don’t you dare label a 4 year-old child as disturbing.
Marge Horstman they are young we were all disturbing as kids and almost most kids where bullies to their siblings
Kaylee exactly
Honestly all kids are disturbing 😂😂
Riley : falls on the floor
Hazel: just eating her pancake
😂
Hazel at the start
You flipped my spoon up
Riley: Hazel forked me on my pinky
When I was little I was like Parker, I didn’t like being in the spotlight and was very shy. Now that im older im still shy but I am more out of my comfort zone. I hope everything is ok with Parker, sending love to y’all ❤️
Yes she reminds me of myself too
MaricDiz than there’s me who cried if someone else got talked to instead of me
Me too, I’m too shy. I’m 34 but I’m too shy to even call my doctor. 😭😭
Feel like them taking her to an OT isn’t really necessary . I was just like Parker when I was younger and grew out of it as I got older
Morgan H Same it took a while but I eventually grown out of it
“Hazel forked me!” 😂 so cute and funny!
😂😂😭💀
Parker is literally me. I never leave my room, even as a kid I was scared to play with my own toys without permission or even to to the bathroom without permission.
I wasn’t sheltered by mom and dad I sheltered myself.
You got this Parker! It’s ok to be shy and timid but it’s also ok to try new things!
Riley: *falls*
Hazel’s mind: mmm that’s a good pancake.
No reply’s lol
I'm so glad Parker is getting the help she needs. When I was her age, I was exactly the same way. Everyone would ask me if I was deaf or dumb. Our dentist would always check to see if I had a tongue because I refused to speak to him. Writing this made me realize how fucked up that was.
I have really bad social anxiety now in case anyone was wondering how I turned out lol
Bhawna03 hope you’re okay, stay strong♥️
I was the exact same way. All throughout elementary school, my teachers would send letters to my parents telling them I needed to get evaluated by a child psychologist. They'd also try to bribe me to get me to talk.
@@mirandahill5113 Yeah the teachers were especially horrible towards me. They'd bully me in front of the class and give me really low grades even though I excelled, just because I was quiet. I'm sorry about what you went through. I don't know how these people are qualified to be teachers.
@@zoeharmon5077 Thank you 💗
Nobody notices how this therapist sounds like their preschool teacher
It's a good thing that the parents caught her anxiety early and took action, because this will help her in the long run. I was an incredibly shy and nervous kid when I was her age, but with help I'm where I am today! God bless her 💙
She’s a Highly Sensitive Child. They have a more highly tuned nervous system. And are more prone to anxiety.
Sarah Follett I am as well and I had anxiety when I was young too and I also have “Aspergers” but I shed my symptoms. You can’t tell now
I'm just like Parker unless you're talking about something I like then you'll never know I have it because I can easily talk your ear off about it.
I hope Parker doesn’t have this anxiety anymore she is so sweet and kind
She seems to be a little better! From what I can see from their CZcams vlogs. She recently got a different haircut from her sisters, which is a big achievement for her!
This a doesn't apply much but when hazel gets hurt everyone comments that but when the others get hurt it's something about hazel sorry if it's rude
Animation Erin I’m kinda confused to what you mean, but I see what you mean. Loads of these comments are rude towards poor Riley but if it was Hazel doing that they’ll probably love all over her
But if someone gets hurt like when avahad air problems everyone like (hazel your ways lat to the party ) that's what bugs me I know hazel is cute but there is others
@@AdAstraApollo Yeah, they're all sweet and cute girls
Riley: being the bully
Riley: falls
Hazel and Parker: eats there pancakes and doesn’t care about riley
She wasn’t being a bully, she was trying to help but has trouble with communication. Hazel wasn’t eating and playing with her food, so Riley knew she needed to eat and was trying to tell and get her to do so. Parker’s cup was upside down, so Riley was fixing it and fell while trying to give it back right side up. You should look at the whole picture before calling a toddler a bully, she’s smart and was trying to help.
@@kaylee1769 No, Riley was aggravating them to get a response. I wouldn't call her a bully, just a kid who needs to learn to respect other people's boundaries. I'll note that Riley hadn't finished her own breakfast at the time, and she was pushing her plate into Hazel's personal space instead of eating. She was instigating, not being helpful.
Kaylee you are right she said hazel eat but hazel was playing with her fork since Riley couldn’t reach hazel plate she push yours on hazel. Parker cup wasn’t on the right side. She reach it to put it on the right side. By putting it back she fell
She wanted hazel to stop hitting the fork on the table too
@@astrinymris9953 I disagree. As somebody who works in childcare, I think she generally was trying to help but of course didn't use her words in order to do so. Yes, she was aggravating her sisters but I don't think she was doing it on purpose. I often see this behavior in children I've worked with and when I spoke to them about it, they just wanted to help but need to use 'their words' as I tell them. All the time young children have trouble speaking what they want, what they need, or what they want others to do and it often ends up with them upset, or upsetting other children by not communication.
They were discussing Parker in front of her. Don't you think she's old enough that she can understand their conversation? Wouldn't that upset her more?
Thought the same and kids hear more than we think, even while she's playing
Stupid people..no common sense.
She was playing with the toys tho
True
@@leahrinabrochin3305 but she was listening
hazel just chilling there eating her pancakes is a mood
When the cup went flying and Riley disappeared 0:39 it sent me
wow this is seriously like watching my younger self. i was always so anxious, and still am, but it’s a little better now. my mom always had to talk for me and i hated new situations and people. i just love little parker. she’s a sweetheart, and she will thrive in life!
"Pushing" a child with anxiety is a very wrong way to describe it. Gentle encouragement is appropriate.
You see how Parker freezes and looks uncomfortable when her parents excitedly shout for her to climb to the top of the rope? Parked is easily over stimulated. This is very likely due to her home environment with it's constant choas. My heart breaks for her.
Every time Parker sticks her bottom lip out, the parents yell "PARRRRRKER"!!! and swoop her up. Then they discuss ( in front of her) that she has anxiety and depression "Just like Adam". It WORKS for her. One little show of displeasure and she's up in Daddy's arms and the 2 of them are paying attention to only her. I know people will hate me for saying this, but they are training her to be that way.
@@berthannesautner2798 o so what you mean is that you never wanted to be held by your parents or have them so show how much they love or that you didn't come to them for comfort when you needed it.
@@berthannesautner2798 wow you must have been not paying attention at all you try giving that many kids the same attention at the same time. On one of the plane ride to where ever they're going for vacation who's sitting next to neither of her parents instead it's Riley and they're working on an arts and crafts project together. She might prefer being by her parents but she doesn't always have to be with her parents to feel safe as long as she's with her family.
It's the exact opposite not pushing them to overcome it makes it more likely that they'll never want to be away from their or that they can do things all by themselves and her parents were encouraging her to climb the rope. Anyways good/great parents know just how much their kid needs to be pushed to get through it.
@@bakedbeansontoast487 bull crap I if was never pushed out of my comfort zone, I would have no friends. O so kids can't turn to their parents when feel uncomfortable and parents can't try to comfort their kid because others would see it as babying the kid, she's little. Kids usually start to want their parents to take a back seat when they're teenagers.
I have had an anxiety disorder since I was a small child. I did not get it actually diagnosed until my mom brought me to a psychologist for a "bee phobia". My mom *has* anxiety but she never thought her daughter had it even though all the signs were there. She only thought I was being difficult or shy. This is amazing that they're getting her help this early in life.
So good that the Busby's are showing this on the show, really helpful for reducing the stigma towards anxiety especially in children!
hazel literally does not care and i love it
dawn taylor she’s still young and she was angry she didn’t understand
dawn taylor ok well their not gonna see your comment so it doesn’t matter lol
dawn taylor i get what you’re saying though lol
Natalee Denlinger She’s obviously old enough to understand lol she’s 3, not a baby
@dawn taylor Well, just going to say. Toddlers are toddlers, if someone does something to them (like in Hazel's case, flipping her fork up and budging her plate), toddlers will do that but they will eventually learn.
Why does the sentence
“Hazel Forked Me!!!”
Make me laugh SO hard 😂
One of my kids was similar and what I found out was that my over zealous desire for him to overcome his anxiety was fueling much of his under confidence. I learned it was better when I said less, asked him fewer questions, and stayed quiet. It was better for me to not hype the situation, then whatever it was that we were going to do, it was better to just put him in the environment and tell him that if he wants a time out or needs advice where I was going to be.
Yes 100%
*Riley:"HAZEL FORKED ME"*
*Adam: "NO she didn't"*
*Riley: "Hazel forked me on my pinky"*
*Me:* *NO mam* 😭😂😂
Riley was literally only trying to get hazel to eat her breakfast. Sometimes she just doesn’t know how to communicate efficiently 😭😭
tiffani g effectively*
Was that really what was happening
I watched it again, just to see what happened & Riley really tried to make Hazel eat something! So sweet of her 😭❤️
Yeah but it the way she did it
Her heart is in the right place but the way of doing it needs to be corrected. She truly is a bossy bee😊
“Hazel forked me!” Lol! Riley has such an advanced understanding of language.
Hazel just being her happiest self
I know I shouldn't laugh but I did when Riley fell down. I love Riley but she often instigates her sisters which is probably why Adam did not take her seriously when she said Hazel forked her.
As for Parker, I am so glad Danielle finally agreed with Adam and took Parker to be assessed. It is always better safe than sorry, at least now they know for sure this is more than Parker being shy she really has anxiety and can be treated early.
Simone Volman No, she wasn’t trying to help, she aggressively flips Hazel’s fork up not once, but twice. Riley is smart-if she was trying to help Hazel eat, she would’ve actually helped her to eat. And was she also trying to “help”Parker by taking her cup? Riley was done eating and was just bored and decided to bother her siblings. Let’s not try to make it into something it’s not.
Yes Adam has Riley figured out!
@dawn taylor Lol obviously you have not been observing Riley the bully for very long.
We don’t see much of Ava and Olivia anymore
A Ru they are the normal ones!! Parker has anxiety,Hazel has eye problems and Riley is smart
@@byeyall9949 that is true! they are unproblematic.but they are twins so i thought people would like to see them. i bet they still get lots of attention off camera anyway
A Ru ofc Ava does probably cuz she’s mommy’s girl
My sister name is Olivia
bye yall 99 somehow they all do! They have very good parents. Any other parents on any other show and I’d be worried
I used to do occupational therapy, I was shy, and had high anxiety. It helped a lot, I am a lot better now ❤️ good luck Parker!
Parker is really beautiful ❤️
God bless u Parker and her sisters❤️
i see a lot of myself in Parker. when i was a kid i never spoked to new people, i was really shy, close, and only talking to myself when no one was around. i started therapy at 4 yrs old, and i changed, i opened to people and started talk to other kids. now i'm 21, still shy, but happy
As a little kid that’s been to some doctors. I would hate it when they would talk like I’m not there. Just my opinion.
Maria August I thought the same thing, she was definitely listening.
I love how Adam knows it was Riley’s fault
Aww Parker is a cutie so glad she is getting help and understanding it’s hard sometimes having anxiety 🥰
Riley: hazel forked me
I can’t it’s so cute 💜💜
“Hazel forked me on the pinky”
*MY HEART AWW*
I love how Hazel just casually ate a piece of pancake not fazed by anything around her
Aww they’re so cute especially Riley😍
I honestly think Riley was just trying to get Hazel to eat her food but it was really funny when she fell even though I shouldn't laugh
I agree and I don't think it was really karma. It was more on the fact that Riley wasn't looking where she was going when getting down off her chair. I mean I even tripped down a staircase because I was trying to make sure that I didn't drop my plate of pizza. So yeah anyone can fall or trip when they're not paying attention to where they're going.
When Riley fell in the beginning that was some karma 💀
Edit:OMG THANKS FOR 700+ LIKES♥️♥️❗️
Yah 😂😂😂 poor little riley 😂
Lmao i was thinking the same thing. She was bothering everybody on purpose haha got some payback 🤣
Shi Nation 💀
I think Riley was just trying to get Hazel to eat something. She hit her spoon because Hazel was playing with it instead of eating. She just needs to help with communication😊
@@Michyramos29 no she wasn't. Riley is an instigator.
Yay to Adam and Danielle for taking Parker in for help with an OT! OT’s are the best💗♥️💚
I feel for Parker, she acts like me as a kid. I have a chemical imbalance and was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder at 17 and have been on Zoloft ever since. Wouldn't be here today without it 🙏
It’s really great they are realizing and accepting that their kid may have issues and are trying to help her. My parents just ignored me and thought with time things would change. That left me with living with depression for years, scars on my arm, and going undiagnosed with social anxiety and traits of ocd
They are so amazing to help Parker at such a young age! This will help her so much in the future :)
I’m in love with this family, there so close together. There really truthful, and not fake!! I love y’all!! ❤️
they're
I'm in love with this family, there so close together. There really truhul, and not fake!! I love y'all!! ❤
I’m so sorry for laughing when Riley fell after taking Parker’s cup 🤣
I wish every kids around the world can have this kind of therapy.
Parker was a happy baby when she didn’t really understand what was going on. Now she’s aware of the camera crew filming her every move, especially being tested, and she has a problem with that. Can’t say I blame her.
No she doesn’t. Please don’t spread false information.
All about the $
@@judyivie2215 really if they only did it for the money, do you Adam would be working and Danielle would have started a business with her sisters I don't think so. The money from the show isn't why they're doing the show it's to show what it's like having the only all girl quintuplets and how they're raising them. So you can just put you money where your mouth is and shut up
She's not always the first quint on camera and sometimes they're filming from behind the quints.
It has NOTHING to do with being in front of cameras if that was the case home alone would have never been filmed or full house and also people who aren't in front of cameras all day for most of their life wouldn't have social anxiety. Social anxiety just happens to some people for multiple reasons.
“hazel F O R K E D me”
riley busby-
2019
hazel forked me😭❤️
It’s amazing how each one of these girls are so unique
Having been an anxious child myself around her age, I am glad they are catching it early. It can be challenging to get over certain fears later in life.
“Hazel forked me. Hazel forked me on my pinky.” I’m deaddd 😂😂😂😂😂
I see so much of myself in Parker. My name is also Parker and I’m 14. I have anxiety. I hate being put on the spot, and sometimes new situations give me really bad anxiety. It’s so great that you guys caught it early. Mine got really bad and we didn’t know it until a few months ago. Parker is so sweet and beautiful. I hope she learns how to deal with it. ❤️
Same here I feel that the quints personalities and health problems are just like me but split into a five sliced pie. Me and Hazel both have an eye problem, me and Parker have same form of anxiety, Riley and me are both smart, me, Ava, and Olivia all like to laugh a lot.
I also still have it and am almost 29. Me anxious around new people until either 30 minutes later, hours later, or even days later when spending time with someone I just met I finally feel comfortable to be hanging out with them.
@@gamespc7880 lol aww
Not judging but as a professional and monitoring her social and behavioral interactions I think this is more than anxiety. I would recommend a child psychologist. This could be easily remedied. God Bless.
Ann Marie Stefanuk i was the same way as a child. I was super shy and would cry when my mom would drop me off to dance class every time, so she unenrolled me . I was also very reserved , just like Parker . I grew out of it and think she will too. I think she’s fine
Ann Marie Stefanuk my dad was a preacher so i never missed a sunday morning and i started talking at the age of 2 but my sunday school teachers didn’t know i could talk till i was 5 because i was so shy
Morgan H I was pretty much the same way, only I didn’t grow out of it and live with crippling social anxiety now. I think it’s probably better that they at least try to get her help just in case.
That's so sweet when Parker said Thank you 🥰
I hate to see a child so scared of everything pretty much it is so sad hopefully she will grow out of it.
Don't think it's helpful to discuss her issues in front of her...she's perceiving everyone's concern and concluding there's something wrong with her.
She’s old enough to understand it and know it’s about her, so she has the right to know. I hated when my parents would exclude me from information that’s about me.
@@kaylee1769 not at that age. children don't internalize it logically or rationally - that's why kids tend to blame themselves when mommy and daddy get a divorce because at that age, everything is about them; they aren't sophisticated enough to grasp the big picture.
Michelle Gordon actually I did. And that’s why I think nobody likes me now
You are doing the right thing !!! So glad you were able to see a potential issue. Great parents !
I like that they did this with her. I was really shy as a kid and I used to shut down A LOT. My mom and dad have both told me within the last year that they wish they had brought me to someone to see if it had something to do with anxiety (back then it wasn’t talked about as much as it is now which is a huge reason they never did) and after seeing a doctor over the last few months she’s help me realized that most of what I went through as a kid were most likely caused by anxiety which I’m finally getting help with getting under control today at 23 years old
0:38 that’s karma riley😂 I feel bad for laughing but the way Parker just stared at her
0:45 Hazel like “Ain’t my fault Riley fell”
I'm an Occupational Therapy Assistant and I loved watching this. I love helping people live a meaningful life.
I love the quints so much♥️♥️♥️ been following them for a long time now. Also the Parents ofcourse!
Riley falls
Hazel- takes a bite of her pancake and is like “oh well” lol 😂
She is just adorable
Her smile at 5:34 🥺🥰
it’s great that they’re looking at it early because it’s very hard when you get older
Thank you for raising awareness on this to other parents.
I just realized I used to be like Parker and my parents never got me help. I was always just pulled away when anything made me cry or anxious. I was scared of everything. I don’t know how it has affected me as a 17 year old besides I have extreme anxiety.
As one of six siblings, Parker will undoubtedly need that reassurance that she is valued and special, just as much as any of her sisters are. Being an introvert in a family of very strong personalities is going to be tough, but she'll find her niche. It's as the occupational therapist said, Parker needs reassurance, not just that she's safe but that she can take risks. Parker would probably benefit from a 'Now, Next, Then' structure to her daily routines, which will prepare her for what's expected as well as any changes.
Parker and her daddy really have that special bond....
I do admire Adam and Danielle for being so compassionate, taking Parker for her and supporting her. I relate to Parker. I was the same at her age, terribly shy, especially around people I didn’t know snd new circumstances.
Riley: Hazel forked me !!
Riley falls down
Hazel: happily eats her pancake 😂😂
Riley: making everyone upset
Riley: falls off chair
Parker: watches Riley fall
Quints: eating in peace and harmony
I had an occupational therapist when I was younger, I don’t remember what it was for but I remember loving it
Parker is always in her little world and thats what i like about her. Just a peaceful little girl. :)
Parker was exactly like me as a kid. I feel like I’m looking at myself.
my little sister when she was younger always struggled with anxiety like parker but my parents took her to therapy etc and it helped her alot and now shes 16 and you would never know she was like that when she was younger . therapy and a support system is the key to helping her
This is my Favourite series keep it going!!
I have anxiety, and I know how it is an how it feels. I think you guys did a good job taking her to someone about it.👍👍
I love How all the comments are on Riley and Hazel instead of Parker😊😒
Riley:Bothering Parker and Hazel
Riley also *Falls*
Everyone finally in peace and eating 😂😂
It's alright, dear. You'll be able to cope with time. This is good that there was intervention made when she was still little. Unfortunately, I didn't get that opportunity. I'm still excessively shy and anxious in front of strangers.
Parker has definitely come out of her shell now and it appears her confidence improved greatly. Glad these parents were proactive.
Riley: Hazel forked me !!!!!
Riley : * takes away Parker’s cup *
Riley: * falls and cries *
Hazel : Just eating her pancakes in peace
Parker: Also eating her pancakes in peace
Me : I am officially dead from laughter
Parker me parece una niña preciosa e inteligente, pero no insegura. Es tímida y sensible. Tiene su propio carácter, como todo el mundo. Porque no todos tenemos que ser iguales. Es tímida e hipersensible, lo que aumenta su tierno encanto. La madurez de los años le hará perder la timidez y la vergüenza, aunque creo que su sensibilidad la mantendrá por siempre a flor de piel. Un besito desde España, 🇪🇸 Parker. Eres una muñequita relinda
❤️😘😍
My son was like this (minus the lashing out) -- very withdrawn and unsure, had a hard time with transitioning to new or different things. He just suddenly stopped being anxious so much halfway through 1st grade, but I still kind of verbally lay out the day when he asks. He still needs lots of feedback about everything happening, but he is much more accepting than he used to be.
Sweet little Parker. I think mom and dad did the right thing by taking her in. Hang in there mom and dad, there is no handbook given so keep up the good work ❤️