I feel you MissTotos. I’ve been rejected by my family this week and they’re refusing to help me even with a roof over my head. They can’t give me any emotional support and it’s devastated me. I left my partner of 11 years a week ago.
I feel you. Got abandoned by my family during the peak of the pandemic (basically told "you can't come home" and effectively cut contact) after coming out as trans. While also dealing with mental health, discovering we were a system, trying to find my first fulltime job, etc.
I’ve dated men my WHOLE life... I even have a son... so when I came out to my family 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant, it was a clusterfu**... it’s not easy... but my happiness is worth it! So glad I found you two ❤️
"I was engaged but now I might marry the wedding singer." LOL. I admire in you the forthright way you both are so deliberative about your sexual attractions and living your truth. Glad for you.
I love how you listen to each other and don't talk over each other. You both are also very articulate. I feel smarter after watching your videos. 😂😂❤️😘🌈
I have watched all of your videos, and today I had to rewatch Sadie’s coming out story. I live in Indiana and seeing the sea of red around me yesterday was extremely eye opening. Your relationship story is my favorite one. Had to rewatch this video to take my mind off of everything. Thank you for being such a bright spot this week!
I’m going through that “ you’ve dated guys and now you’re dating a woman” thing as well. We were also friends for 14 years before we started dating. It has been quite the learning experience learning her romantically instead of just platonically. I wish you both the best.
Hannah here- It’s such a different kind of relationship right?? I spent a long time thinking about my love for Sadie as a friend and wondering how it was “supposed” to feel once we were dating. Thank you for sharing and we’re sending our best to you and yours as well!
Thank you! What advice do you have for....dealing with people in your life (mainly family) that don’t support your relationship? I’ve only told a few people that I know will be accepting. But I also know some family members won’t be accepting. I’m really struggling with it.
That’s such a good question. Of course telling them is not required, but I think it can be even harder to have to hide part of yourself that feels so central to your identity. If you feel safe sharing, it can be a really big opportunity to connect. There’s no way to know how they will take it, but then at least you know you are showing them your most authentic self! From what we’ve experienced, it mostly just takes people time to adjust mentally to the idea. Sending our love💕🌈
Yeah that sounds really hard. In our experience with religious family members, hearing from someone who is gay can help shift their perspective. Whatever you decide, we’re sending good vibes your way!
Awww your friends were so supportive when you were trying to figure yourself out! I love how you’ve articulated your story! Love these videos y’all are so cute together!
This was a heavy one.. could feel it..❤️ Although one of the best moments was at 8.30.. Right in the middle of the serious conversation Hannah goes " I feel everywhere girl" 😂 ..
New subscriber here! I swore I wasn't going to watch anymore New vlogs. But I got hooked on youns coming out stories...glad I did. So youns got a another fan ladies.
I loved your story thank you for telling it I know that going back threw it all again must be hard. I am enjoying your channel and am looking forward to what's to come.
None of us come out just once, I still find myself having to come out on a regular basis despite the first time being nearly 40 years ago, so many different life situations happen that leave me feeling that I need to come out . Just be you and remember safety always comes before coming out
It's been about 2 and a half years since I broke up with my ex. He and I were together 5 years and engaged 4 of those years, and hearing this part of your story i realized while we weren't actively planning a wedding.. i had a lot of the same feelings as you. I had love for him, we had the expectation of kids and growing old together. Difference is i had known i was interested in women prior to him. Came out to friends but not family in high school. Been w/ one woman. I had known but eventually realized i wasn't happy with our relationship sooo it took a lot of those rough conversations and where he and i thought we'd be is still something i reflect on occasionally, but ultimately it came down to i had love for him but i wasnt IN love and wanted to experience being with a girl without the ties to a relationship.
Thanks for commenting with your story Sarah. I’ve been in this relationship 10yrs. Engaged for 3.5. (Should have been married if it wasn’t for Covid). I told him in the beginning I was bi (had one experience of a three month relationship with a woman). He accepted that and we moved along quite happily for a few years. I never imagined I would feel this way today. There have been some intimacy issues in our relationship for many years now and I even thought HE was gay and asked him several times. We have a sexless relationship. I suggested counselling so many times and he’s never wanted to and things never improved. I’ve been struggling for what seems maybe a couple of years now and it’s manifested hugely through lockdown, dwelling on the wedding that should have been and I feel actually relieved it couldn’t go ahead. I am terrified to start a conversation with him. It’s caused me depression and even very frequent suicidal thoughts. I’m completely alone as I’ve no one impartial to talk to who doesn’t know him (before I start the process). I love him but I’m not in love like it should be. We both deserve better in life but I think we got this far as we have had a strangely happy companionship all these years. I want the reason for the relationship to end due to it is sexless and there’s no communication. I feel it would be less cruel for him (than to say I think I’m gay?). Would it soften the blow? He knows I’m bi anyway. That way it shouldn’t be so much of a devastating surprise as we’ve talked/argued too many times over the years about the lack of intimacy and when I say we what I really mean is I have been the only one to complain and try communicate with them and he’s stonewalled and gaslighted me for probably seven years on the subject. My head right now 🤯😪
Dankie dames... Thanks for sharing your coming out story... Telling people you love and care for can be a scary thing.. Keep the vids coming. Ps. Very infectious giggle. 💕🇿🇦🏳️🌈
You guys are so cute. I came out very late in life, it wasn't until I meant the love of my life that I came out to my family but that is a very long story, so HAPPY that you have each other. I really enjoy your stories. How about you sing and play guitar for us? I think we all would enjoy please! Love from Arizona.
That seems to be the case with any sexuality that isn't hetero. For some reason no one asks you to proof that you're heterosexual, but as soon as you're anything else it's almost as if they expect a certificate that proofs it.
So many women embrace a lesbian or bisexual identity when they have a male partner, so sharing your story definitely helps many women. As a side bar many women who identify as hetero often dabble in sapphic experiences, but men don't talk it because of the fragile male ego...some of these girlies are able to have their cake and eat it (no pun intended & more power to them). Besides, a good man supports the woman he cares about, including her lesbian relationships. Our group has several hetero women allies who appreciate the touch of woman.
We hadn’t heard of sapphic experiences before, so you’re teaching us so much! We have so much to learn in so many ways when it comes to sexual identity. Thank you for your support!
So glad that you had the courage to be your true self I didn't and went the other way been married to a man for 24 years and not a day goes by that I don't wish that I had the courage to be myself
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m engaged to a man. My partner of ten years. I’m terrified and severely depressed because I’m so scared of doing what I need to do
I told him in the beginning I was bi (had one experience of a three month relationship with a woman). He accepted that and we moved along quite happily for a few years. I never imagined I would feel this way today. There have been some intimacy issues in our relationship for many years now and I even thought HE was gay and asked him several times. We have a sexless relationship. I suggested counselling so many times and he’s never wanted to and things never improved. I’ve been struggling for what seems maybe a couple of years now and it’s manifested hugely through lockdown, dwelling on the wedding that should have been and I feel actually relieved it couldn’t go ahead. I am terrified to start a conversation with him. It’s caused me depression and even very frequent suicidal thoughts. I’m completely alone as I’ve no one impartial to talk to who doesn’t know him (before I start the process). I love him but I’m not in love like it should be. We both deserve better in life but I think we got this far as we have had a strangely happy companionship all these years. I want the reason for the relationship to end due to it is sexless and there’s no communication. I feel it would be less cruel for him (than to say I think I’m gay?). Would it soften the blow? He knows I’m bi anyway. That way it shouldn’t be so much of a devastating surprise as we’ve talked/argued too many times over the years about the lack of intimacy and when I say we what I really mean is I have been the only one to complain and try communicate with them and he’s stonewalled and gaslighted me for probably seven years on the subject. My head right now 🤯😪
Local Guide Well it’s been a week since I told him and left. It’s been utterly horrendous, chaotic, scary and so sad. But all necessary. We couldn’t go on the way things have been. I tried to stay and make it work for 11 years. I can’t continue to compromise myself for the sake of not wanting to hurt someone.
Wow thanks for sharing. I am exploring my sexuality at the moment and beginning to wonder if I am gay rather than bisexual. I am 37 and feel like how could I have not realised before now?
You guys wonderful together beautiful girls and may Allah bless both of you to love forever and peace and happiness forever you and Hannah❤️💯 so interesting to watch you guys
Outside of family and close friends, perhaps you needn't reveal much of your personal life to others. You can be friends with co-workers without letting them in to your personal life. They're more like acquaintances rather than friends. Good luck on your lives together.
My Niece was married for 11 years , I thought it was a Blissful marriage or so I was led to believe , turns out that her husband was abusive emotionally , not physically but still abusive. It was well hidden from the family. She has a 21 year old daughter going to Trent U and a teenage boy she called me one day a couple of years ago and asked if she could bring someone to meet me and I said sure. She showed up with a young lady , introduced us then took me to the kitchen and said " Uncle , I have left what's his name and I am going out with her " I looked at her for a second , called the young lady into the Kitchen , went over to her and gave her a warm Irish hug , then gave my Niece a warm Irish hug and said … " Well now … seems to me that I have a new Niece in-Law … welcome to the family" …. I love them both very much , same as my other Niece who lives out West … she is in a relationship with a woman and I do not have a problem with that what-so-ever , Everyone deserves the chance for Love. I lost my wife to a Brain tumor 10 years ago , she was my everything , my world and she loved our Niece just as much as I and she I believe is looking down from the Heavens with a huge shit eating grin on her face and saying … Ya , you go girl … I wish you guys all the best the world has to offer you Hannah & Sadie , may the Spirit Wolf and the Eagle be with you on the pathway of your life's journey.
Sorry it took me so long to get back to you! Thank you so much for sharing. Cheers to you for being such a supportive uncle to your niece!! She's lucky to have you. We're so sorry to hear about your wife. Thank you for your support- we send all our love and happiness to you
Hi Sadie, thank you very much for putting yourself out there and opening up and talking about your experience of coming out. I'm curious, you said, in part 1 video, that you were in love with your ex-boyfriend who became your ex-fiancé - did your perspective on that sentiment (being in love with him) change in retrospect? I mean, did you realize after the fact that you had simply thought you'd been in love with him but that it was just platonic love? Or, how did that play out for you in terms of your own thinking on the matter? Also, I'm curious what helped you go from the realization that you were not straight to the realization that you were gay. And I know this one is really personal so if you don't feel comfortable answering it, I understand, but I'm just curious what your experience of physical intimacy with a man was like for you - both before realizing you're gay, and after realizing it. I ask because I'm in a questioning place myself and trying to get more clarity by hearing other people's stories and comparing it to my own experience. Thanks so much!
Also, if you've already talked about these things in another video, I'd love to know the title of it. Since posting my original message I've discovered a few videos where you do actually talk about some of these things, so sorry if I'm the umpteenth person asking you these questions, lol!
I've not made it thru all your vids yet. I thought this one might explain how you decided where you land on the spectrum, jumping all the way to lesbian. I thought there would be more about how, while you were engaged that something was missing. Did you spend a period of time identifying as Bi.. then readjusted your spectrum scale? Lesbian, Bi, Straight, it does not matter. You sound committed to Monogamous which should make you both happy for a long time / forever.
Thanks and agreed-we are committed to each other and grateful that our relationship brings both of us so much happiness. During that time I wasn’t really identifying as anything except “not totally straight.” I eventually came to the conclusion that I was gay but I didn’t really categorize myself for a while in the middle.
I am pretty sure that I've known I'm gay my whole life, but I didn't think my family could handle it so I didn't let them know. I got married to a man and had 3 kids. After the divorce I tried to date girls and truthfully very much enjoyed it, but sank back into my fear and got into another long relationship with a man. I recently told him I just couldn't do it anymore, he's a good guy, but I can't even tolerate him kissing me. I want to be strong enough to be out, but I'm terrified.
Hey Jennifer! Hannah here- It can absolutely be terrifying to come out of the closet, so I hear you. Thank you so much for sharing, and know that there are so many people out here who support you. No matter where you decide to go from here, we send all our well wishes!
Quando si ama non bisogna avere remore perché il sceso si aquista ma amore si conquista stupende creature uniche cosa da fare sapete quale amare con anima perché il cuore un giorno si fermerà ma l anima vivrà in eterno un abracio un baccio con il vento da varena
you are still responible for the trama ad pain you put that man thru. how can you look in the mirrow each morning and see that person who has hurt someone you claimed to have loved and cared for
You were in a relationship with a man, who loved enough to want to marry. You have never been in love with a woman but you leave the man to seek out and be with a woman because you wanted to experience it? I'm confused. So how do you know you won't leave Hannah for a man? Please forgive my ignorance. There is a personal reason why I am trying understand what I need to do to accept people that make the choices you have. It's not me directly.
Hi Glen- for many reasons i talk about in both my coming out videos, I hadn’t discovered that I am gay until recently. With this information, my fiancé and I decided not to stay together. Sexuality that is misaligned between partners should not be taken lightly.
@@HannahSadie The reason I am trying to understand is I think one of my granddaughters might be questioning her sexuality and is avoiding me. It's not right for her to be avoiding me for any reason. I just want to learn how to be more accepting and less judgmental. I hope you understand and let me follow you for awhile. I don't hate anyone, never have, never will.
Glen Moore the fact you are reaching out and making an effort watching these videos to make her feel more comfortable already makes you a great grandpa, don’t worry ❤️
@@gmc6vette as a person who came out, its normal to part for a period of time from your loved ones to figure stuff out and its super hard, because you need to be tough enough to face bad reactions. So dont make this about yourself and let your granddaugther deal with this on her own terms if you wanna be supportiv, this isnt about you.
I'm trying to figure out if this is the funniest story or the most tragic, I don't think this guy was a particularly intelligent person, he didn't realize that the girl was a lesbian and he didn't even realize that all her friends were too.😂😂😂the other possibility is that he was so desperate to accept everything which makes him even more ridiculous.🤔🤔
Wow I feel sorry for the guy because you dumped him right away for a woman I bet you are making him feel inadequate. You could have made it work if you wasn't so selfish. Becouse it does seem you could be bisexual
Hey! Hannah here- It was definitely a hard time for everyone involved. Sadie is not bisexual, so there wasn’t a way to make it work that fit the visions they each had for the future.
Hard for who the guy who got no say in the women he loves more than anything.Your storie doesn't tell all the facts like everyone that got hurt and the other friends that was lost or the family that will never look at you the same .This make it look like all you want to tell is how happy you are for destroying and manipulating people's lifes for selfish reasons becouse she could have made it work she made a choice not to anx I bet you helped with that.
Yes, it was hard for him. And you are right in thinking that he didn’t get to decide Sadie’s sexual orientation. There was no manipulation here. In the end, they decided together that it wasn’t right to get married. Now, he can be with somebody who is better suited for him. His story isn’t ours to tell. He is an awesome person and we really wish him the best.
Is it just me or is anyone else super tired of having to feel grateful for whatever scraps of love your family allows you to have?
💔That one cuts deep. We know what you mean and send our love💕
I feel you MissTotos. I’ve been rejected by my family this week and they’re refusing to help me even with a roof over my head. They can’t give me any emotional support and it’s devastated me. I left my partner of 11 years a week ago.
I feel you. Got abandoned by my family during the peak of the pandemic (basically told "you can't come home" and effectively cut contact) after coming out as trans. While also dealing with mental health, discovering we were a system, trying to find my first fulltime job, etc.
I’ve dated men my WHOLE life... I even have a son... so when I came out to my family 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant, it was a clusterfu**... it’s not easy... but my happiness is worth it! So glad I found you two ❤️
Wow what an intense situation! We absolutely agree- props to you for following your heart even though it was really difficult❤️
"I was engaged but now I might marry the wedding singer." LOL. I admire in you the forthright way you both are so deliberative about your sexual attractions and living your truth. Glad for you.
Thank you so much for your support!!
I love how you listen to each other and don't talk over each other. You both are also very articulate. I feel smarter after watching your videos. 😂😂❤️😘🌈
Oh my gosh this is so sweet😭
yes yes, thanks, for saying, its hard to me find the words, but you said it agree totally
I too like that they are good listeners. Very important in any relationship to be successful!
I have watched all of your videos, and today I had to rewatch Sadie’s coming out story. I live in Indiana and seeing the sea of red around me yesterday was extremely eye opening. Your relationship story is my favorite one. Had to rewatch this video to take my mind off of everything. Thank you for being such a bright spot this week!
I’m going through that “ you’ve dated guys and now you’re dating a woman” thing as well. We were also friends for 14 years before we started dating. It has been quite the learning experience learning her romantically instead of just platonically. I wish you both the best.
Hannah here- It’s such a different kind of relationship right?? I spent a long time thinking about my love for Sadie as a friend and wondering how it was “supposed” to feel once we were dating. Thank you for sharing and we’re sending our best to you and yours as well!
Thank you!
What advice do you have for....dealing with people in your life (mainly family) that don’t support your relationship? I’ve only told a few people that I know will be accepting. But I also know some family members won’t be accepting. I’m really struggling with it.
That’s such a good question. Of course telling them is not required, but I think it can be even harder to have to hide part of yourself that feels so central to your identity. If you feel safe sharing, it can be a really big opportunity to connect. There’s no way to know how they will take it, but then at least you know you are showing them your most authentic self! From what we’ve experienced, it mostly just takes people time to adjust mentally to the idea. Sending our love💕🌈
Yeah that sounds really hard. In our experience with religious family members, hearing from someone who is gay can help shift their perspective. Whatever you decide, we’re sending good vibes your way!
Awww your friends were so supportive when you were trying to figure yourself out! I love how you’ve articulated your story! Love these videos y’all are so cute together!
Thank you so much! Yes our friends were the BEST through the whole thing🙏🙏
A mixture of feeling, very profound and touched.❤️
Wow thanks Rachel!!
This was a heavy one.. could feel it..❤️
Although one of the best moments was at 8.30.. Right in the middle of the serious conversation Hannah goes " I feel everywhere girl" 😂 ..
Hahaha I almost forgot about that part! Thank you for watching and sending ❤️
New subscriber here! I swore I wasn't going to watch anymore New vlogs. But I got hooked on youns coming out stories...glad I did. So youns got a another fan ladies.
Haha wow thank you!! We so appreciate you taking the time to watch. Let us know if there’s anything specific you’d want us to do a video about!
I loved your story thank you for telling it I know that going back threw it all again must be hard. I am enjoying your channel and am looking forward to what's to come.
Thank you Robert! It was definitely a little tougher to talk about than most of our other topics. Thanks for your support🌈
You are so cute together. Looking forward to watch more of your stories. Thank you for sharing and entertaining us.👌🙏
Thank you Twee! Your support is so kind💕🌈
I feel you... I came out when I was 16. Currently 24 and still get nervous coming out to others. It just gets exhausting.
Just found your channel watching all of them… I’m a fan
Step by step, i appreciate tne way of your mind ! Both, you're 2 wonderfull persons ! i hope all to you (old man,76 years from France ) Be happy!
Thank you Marc! Cheers to you in France!
None of us come out just once, I still find myself having to come out on a regular basis despite the first time being nearly 40 years ago, so many different life situations happen that leave me feeling that I need to come out . Just be you and remember safety always comes before coming out
I just found your channel a few hours ago and finished watching all the videos 😊hello new fan here👋
Oh hey Chi! Welcome! Thank you for watching them all😊😊
It's been about 2 and a half years since I broke up with my ex. He and I were together 5 years and engaged 4 of those years, and hearing this part of your story i realized while we weren't actively planning a wedding.. i had a lot of the same feelings as you. I had love for him, we had the expectation of kids and growing old together. Difference is i had known i was interested in women prior to him. Came out to friends but not family in high school. Been w/ one woman. I had known but eventually realized i wasn't happy with our relationship sooo it took a lot of those rough conversations and where he and i thought we'd be is still something i reflect on occasionally, but ultimately it came down to i had love for him but i wasnt IN love and wanted to experience being with a girl without the ties to a relationship.
Thanks for commenting with your story Sarah. I’ve been in this relationship 10yrs. Engaged for 3.5. (Should have been married if it wasn’t for Covid).
I told him in the beginning I was bi (had one experience of a three month relationship with a woman). He accepted that and we moved along quite happily for a few years.
I never imagined I would feel this way today. There have been some intimacy issues in our relationship for many years now and I even thought HE was gay and asked him several times.
We have a sexless relationship.
I suggested counselling so many times and he’s never wanted to and things never improved.
I’ve been struggling for what seems maybe a couple of years now and it’s manifested hugely through lockdown, dwelling on the wedding that should have been and I feel actually relieved it couldn’t go ahead.
I am terrified to start a conversation with him. It’s caused me depression and even very frequent suicidal thoughts.
I’m completely alone as I’ve no one impartial to talk to who doesn’t know him (before I start the process). I love him but I’m not in love like it should be.
We both deserve better in life but I think we got this far as we have had a strangely happy companionship all these years.
I want the reason for the relationship to end due to it is sexless and there’s no communication. I feel it would be less cruel for him (than to say I think I’m gay?).
Would it soften the blow? He knows I’m bi anyway.
That way it shouldn’t be so much of a devastating surprise as we’ve talked/argued too many times over the years about the lack of intimacy and when I say we what I really mean is I have been the only one to complain and try communicate with them and he’s stonewalled and gaslighted me for probably seven years on the subject.
My head right now 🤯😪
Dankie dames... Thanks for sharing your coming out story... Telling people you love and care for can be a scary thing.. Keep the vids coming. Ps. Very infectious giggle. 💕🇿🇦🏳️🌈
You’re so welcome! Thank you for watching and for your empathy! And we will definitely keep them coming🌈🌈
Love u guyssss! So sweettt
Thanks Mimi!
You guys are so cute. I came out very late in life, it wasn't until I meant the love of my life that I came out to my family but that is a very long story, so HAPPY that you have each other. I really enjoy your stories. How about you sing and play guitar for us? I think we all would enjoy please! Love from Arizona.
Thank you Sheila! Cheers to you for coming out, no matter the timeline! We will definitely play guitar soon. Sending love back to you in Arizona💕
"How do you know?" is the weirdest questions.....
What details do they need??
That seems to be the case with any sexuality that isn't hetero. For some reason no one asks you to proof that you're heterosexual, but as soon as you're anything else it's almost as if they expect a certificate that proofs it.
So many women embrace a lesbian or bisexual identity when they have a male partner, so sharing your story definitely helps many women. As a side bar many women who identify as hetero often dabble in sapphic experiences, but men don't talk it because of the fragile male ego...some of these girlies are able to have their cake and eat it (no pun intended & more power to them). Besides, a good man supports the woman he cares about, including her lesbian relationships. Our group has several hetero women allies who appreciate the touch of woman.
We hadn’t heard of sapphic experiences before, so you’re teaching us so much! We have so much to learn in so many ways when it comes to sexual identity. Thank you for your support!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ can’t wait for the next video .
Thank you Reagan💕💕🌈
So glad that you had the courage to be your true self I didn't and went the other way been married to a man for 24 years and not a day goes by that I don't wish that I had the courage to be myself
Oh man- that sounds really hard. We send all our love and good vibes to you💕💕
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m engaged to a man. My partner of ten years. I’m terrified and severely depressed because I’m so scared of doing what I need to do
I told him in the beginning I was bi (had one experience of a three month relationship with a woman). He accepted that and we moved along quite happily for a few years.
I never imagined I would feel this way today. There have been some intimacy issues in our relationship for many years now and I even thought HE was gay and asked him several times.
We have a sexless relationship.
I suggested counselling so many times and he’s never wanted to and things never improved.
I’ve been struggling for what seems maybe a couple of years now and it’s manifested hugely through lockdown, dwelling on the wedding that should have been and I feel actually relieved it couldn’t go ahead.
I am terrified to start a conversation with him. It’s caused me depression and even very frequent suicidal thoughts.
I’m completely alone as I’ve no one impartial to talk to who doesn’t know him (before I start the process). I love him but I’m not in love like it should be.
We both deserve better in life but I think we got this far as we have had a strangely happy companionship all these years.
I want the reason for the relationship to end due to it is sexless and there’s no communication. I feel it would be less cruel for him (than to say I think I’m gay?).
Would it soften the blow? He knows I’m bi anyway.
That way it shouldn’t be so much of a devastating surprise as we’ve talked/argued too many times over the years about the lack of intimacy and when I say we what I really mean is I have been the only one to complain and try communicate with them and he’s stonewalled and gaslighted me for probably seven years on the subject.
My head right now 🤯😪
@@samantha4130 You know what to do. Just listen to your heart.
And be sincere with him - if there's one reason - he deserves to know.
Local Guide Well it’s been a week since I told him and left. It’s been utterly horrendous, chaotic, scary and so sad. But all necessary. We couldn’t go on the way things have been. I tried to stay and make it work for 11 years. I can’t continue to compromise myself for the sake of not wanting to hurt someone.
*Just_someone_who_spends_too_much_time_on_youtube! Good for you! We only live once
Wow thanks for sharing. I am exploring my sexuality at the moment and beginning to wonder if I am gay rather than bisexual. I am 37 and feel like how could I have not realised before now?
You guys wonderful together beautiful girls and may Allah bless both of you to love forever and peace and happiness forever you and Hannah❤️💯 so interesting to watch you guys
Thank you so much Najwa! We send love and peace back to you💕
You are very welcome My beautiful girls you deserve it more love and peace 💯❤️💯
Outside of family and close friends, perhaps you needn't reveal much of your personal life to others. You can be friends with co-workers without letting them in to your personal life. They're more like acquaintances rather than friends. Good luck on your lives together.
My Niece was married for 11 years , I thought it was a Blissful marriage or so I was led to believe , turns out that her husband was abusive emotionally , not physically but still abusive. It was well hidden from the family.
She has a 21 year old daughter going to Trent U and a teenage boy she called me one day a couple of years ago and asked if she could bring someone to meet me and I said sure. She showed up with a young lady , introduced us then took me to the kitchen and said " Uncle , I have left what's his name and I am going out with her " I looked at her for a second , called the young lady into the Kitchen , went over to her and gave her a warm Irish hug , then gave my Niece a warm Irish hug and said … " Well now … seems to me that I have a new Niece in-Law … welcome to the family" …. I love them both very much , same as my other Niece who lives out West … she is in a relationship with a woman and I do not have a problem with that what-so-ever , Everyone deserves the chance for Love.
I lost my wife to a Brain tumor 10 years ago , she was my everything , my world and she loved our Niece just as much as I and she I believe is looking down from the Heavens with a huge shit eating grin on her face and saying … Ya , you go girl … I wish you guys all the best the world has to offer you Hannah & Sadie , may the Spirit Wolf and the Eagle be with you on the pathway of your life's journey.
Sorry it took me so long to get back to you! Thank you so much for sharing. Cheers to you for being such a supportive uncle to your niece!! She's lucky to have you. We're so sorry to hear about your wife. Thank you for your support- we send all our love and happiness to you
You're one of the good ones
Why is it when talking about the effects on the abandoned partner, euphemisms are used and not speaking to the "truth" on what it does to him.
Hi Sadie, thank you very much for putting yourself out there and opening up and talking about your experience of coming out. I'm curious, you said, in part 1 video, that you were in love with your ex-boyfriend who became your ex-fiancé - did your perspective on that sentiment (being in love with him) change in retrospect? I mean, did you realize after the fact that you had simply thought you'd been in love with him but that it was just platonic love? Or, how did that play out for you in terms of your own thinking on the matter? Also, I'm curious what helped you go from the realization that you were not straight to the realization that you were gay. And I know this one is really personal so if you don't feel comfortable answering it, I understand, but I'm just curious what your experience of physical intimacy with a man was like for you - both before realizing you're gay, and after realizing it. I ask because I'm in a questioning place myself and trying to get more clarity by hearing other people's stories and comparing it to my own experience. Thanks so much!
Also, if you've already talked about these things in another video, I'd love to know the title of it. Since posting my original message I've discovered a few videos where you do actually talk about some of these things, so sorry if I'm the umpteenth person asking you these questions, lol!
How did you feej after kissing for first time, was it instant knowing you loved Hannah? and this is where you belonged
Hey Patricia! Thanks for your questions. This sounds like a potential video topic:) but I will say- being together has been so incredible and so fun!
Wow... me but i married and now its 32 years later.😥
😥Tammy that’s a hard one to read. We’re sending our love💕
I've not made it thru all your vids yet. I thought this one might explain how you decided where you land on the spectrum, jumping all the way to lesbian. I thought there would be more about how, while you were engaged that something was missing. Did you spend a period of time identifying as Bi.. then readjusted your spectrum scale? Lesbian, Bi, Straight, it does not matter. You sound committed to Monogamous which should make you both happy for a long time / forever.
Thanks and agreed-we are committed to each other and grateful that our relationship brings both of us so much happiness. During that time I wasn’t really identifying as anything except “not totally straight.” I eventually came to the conclusion that I was gay but I didn’t really categorize myself for a while in the middle.
I am pretty sure that I've known I'm gay my whole life, but I didn't think my family could handle it so I didn't let them know. I got married to a man and had 3 kids. After the divorce I tried to date girls and truthfully very much enjoyed it, but sank back into my fear and got into another long relationship with a man. I recently told him I just couldn't do it anymore, he's a good guy, but I can't even tolerate him kissing me. I want to be strong enough to be out, but I'm terrified.
Hey Jennifer! Hannah here- It can absolutely be terrifying to come out of the closet, so I hear you. Thank you so much for sharing, and know that there are so many people out here who support you. No matter where you decide to go from here, we send all our well wishes!
Hi Jennifer, I’m curious to know if you have come out now?
Hanna reminds me of Dana from the L word
Hannah looks alike with cara delevingne~😉
Wow thank you! She’s very beautiful!!
I think Hannah look alike with Kristen Stewart.
Haha I’m taking that as a compliment- thank you!!
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I like you 2 .. I will follow you .. 😘
Thanks Alejandro!
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20:00 well the only thing that did die was your heterosexuality I'd say
you are still responible for the trama ad pain you put that man thru. how can you look in the mirrow each morning and see that person who has hurt someone you claimed to have loved and cared for
I like domestic girlfriends
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You were in a relationship with a man, who loved enough to want to marry. You have never been in love with a woman but you leave the man to seek out and be with a woman because you wanted to experience it? I'm confused. So how do you know you won't leave Hannah for a man? Please forgive my ignorance. There is a personal reason why I am trying understand what I need to do to accept people that make the choices you have. It's not me directly.
Hi Glen- for many reasons i talk about in both my coming out videos, I hadn’t discovered that I am gay until recently. With this information, my fiancé and I decided not to stay together. Sexuality that is misaligned between partners should not be taken lightly.
@@HannahSadie The reason I am trying to understand is I think one of my granddaughters might be questioning her sexuality and is avoiding me. It's not right for her to be avoiding me for any reason. I just want to learn how to be more accepting and less judgmental. I hope you understand and let me follow you for awhile. I don't hate anyone, never have, never will.
Glen Moore the fact you are reaching out and making an effort watching these videos to make her feel more comfortable already makes you a great grandpa, don’t worry ❤️
@@Claire-oq7ut Thank you for the inspirational video's. I hope I can make a difference to squash more hate from the world. Don't ever stop being you.
@@gmc6vette as a person who came out, its normal to part for a period of time from your loved ones to figure stuff out and its super hard, because you need to be tough enough to face bad reactions.
So dont make this about yourself and let your granddaugther deal with this on her own terms if you wanna be supportiv, this isnt about you.
I'm trying to figure out if this is the funniest story or the most tragic, I don't think this guy was a particularly intelligent person, he didn't realize that the girl was a lesbian and he didn't even realize that all her friends were too.😂😂😂the other possibility is that he was so desperate to accept everything which makes him even more ridiculous.🤔🤔
Wow I feel sorry for the guy because you dumped him right away for a woman I bet you are making him feel inadequate. You could have made it work if you wasn't so selfish. Becouse it does seem you could be bisexual
Hey! Hannah here- It was definitely a hard time for everyone involved. Sadie is not bisexual, so there wasn’t a way to make it work that fit the visions they each had for the future.
Hard for who the guy who got no say in the women he loves more than anything.Your storie doesn't tell all the facts like everyone that got hurt and the other friends that was lost or the family that will never look at you the same .This make it look like all you want to tell is how happy you are for destroying and manipulating people's lifes for selfish reasons becouse she could have made it work she made a choice not to anx I bet you helped with that.
Yes, it was hard for him. And you are right in thinking that he didn’t get to decide Sadie’s sexual orientation. There was no manipulation here. In the end, they decided together that it wasn’t right to get married. Now, he can be with somebody who is better suited for him. His story isn’t ours to tell. He is an awesome person and we really wish him the best.
@@unknownunknown5173 may I suggest you watch the video again without prejudice and actually listen to what they say.
@@unknownunknown5173 ITS NEVER THE WOMANS FAULT THEY CAN NOT ACCEPT RESONSIBLTY FOR VWHAT THEY DO
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