Agoraphobia - Housebound I Nik & Eva Speakman

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  • čas přidán 18. 12. 2022
  • Nicola has not left her house for four years due to #anxiety and #panicattacks she called #Nik&Eva in the hope they could help where doctors and therapists have been unable to.
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Komentáře • 25

  • @kerryevans5892
    @kerryevans5892 Před rokem +5

    This is like watching myself

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  Před rokem +2

      so sorry to hear that Kerry. Please take hope from the fact Nicola completely overcame her agoraphobia, (to the point that she now has horses and is hardly at home) so you can too. The key to doing that is completing a timeline and identifying the causes. Trauma Research UK utilise many of our methods so please take a look at their website. x

  • @Bawsa.
    @Bawsa. Před rokem +9

    I'd do anything for help from the Speakmans for my Agoraphobia and fears. I've tried everything to try conquer it.

    • @gilliannapier1833
      @gilliannapier1833 Před rokem +1

      I had help from them for agoraphobia

    • @kirstysewell871
      @kirstysewell871 Před rokem +2

      There are so many people on CZcams. DARE is amazing for anxiety and the Linden method

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 Před rokem +1

      Din't give up! Keep searching for help, you'll get there.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  Před rokem +2

      Sorry Dale we do not offer private therapy or home visits which is why we host workshops around the UK, which also is no use to you as you would have to travel. Dale, please be assured that you were not born with any of your issues. Your agoraphobia and fears are your fight or flight response protecting you, just like Nicola's in the video. You have obviously suffered traumas in your life. The way to begin to overcome them is firstly to complete a timeline of your life to identify exactly what they are. You can then get help for the causes and not the symptoms. Please also check out Trauma Research UK as they have many free download resources to help too.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  Před rokem

      AMAZING!! x

  • @alinkajames
    @alinkajames Před rokem +8

    Agoraphobia that started with a fear of fainting. Yep. My exact case.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  Před rokem +1

      Anita just like Nicola, you can overcome agoraphobia to. Please also take a look at our other videos on here with tips to help. x

    • @nicolas_-_-_
      @nicolas_-_-_ Před rokem

      Hello!
      My exact case too.

  • @ng3057
    @ng3057 Před měsícem +1

    This is so beautiful , made me cry . What a wonderful purpose you both have in this world the speakmans❤x

  • @ruthblandford7496
    @ruthblandford7496 Před rokem +1

    Amazing. I've been feeling scared of going out ( even though I do ) becos of Covid, knife crimes etc ( especially at night ) and this video was a great help in seeing how our minds make us prisoners.. thank you so much

  • @hlp6547
    @hlp6547 Před rokem

    You guys are so comforting!!! X

  • @loonylinda
    @loonylinda Před měsícem

    i have suffered with anxiety and agoraphobia for most of my life im now 62, ive struggled, fought, and failed, mised out on so much. no one has been able to help me.

  • @SaraVV
    @SaraVV Před rokem

    Thank you Speakmans. Much love from Barcelona, Spain. Sara

  • @Riya_Slovenka
    @Riya_Slovenka Před rokem

    God bless you❤️ I have emothophobia and I watched your video and it helped me a lot, I'm not quite there still, it is hard but I'm trying really hard and I'm trying to listen to you❤️

  • @hayleywalkeranimalart2107

    This video gave me hope and I cried watching it ❤️. I can relate as I’ve been unable to leave my home for over 3 years now, since the pandemic and my beloved Gran passed away in 2020 from dementia. I have ptsd and contamination ocd and think my fear is of catching covid. Anytime I attempt to go outside I get very severe panic attacks to the point where I am unable to move and am somehow frozen with fear. I cannot be near anyone except my parents because I get the same panic reaction even if I see someone at a distance, I’m 30 and rely on my parents for everything. I have to speak to my friends over the phone or video call because I can’t see them in person. The loneliness is hard and I feel it’s something many people don’t understand. I’ve tried medication and cbt, self help books etc but still I’m stuck and can’t get past this fear of covid and people. I feel I’m just existing and not living and I blame myself for it. I hope one day that I can somehow change like the wonderfully brave lady in this video. I think the work you do is incredible and I want to thank you Nik and Eva for sharing this video, giving us hope and making this world a better place xx ❤️😊🙏🦋.

  • @katherinecollins4685
    @katherinecollins4685 Před rokem

    Interesting video

  • @wonderwoman4875
    @wonderwoman4875 Před rokem +1

    I am so sorry for those going through this. Although I didn’t have agoraphobia, I had some bad anxiety for years. I read a book called DARE by Barry McDonough and it helped me immensely. There is an app and I think he just started a podcast. Please check them out and good luck to you all!

  • @lovingmayberry307
    @lovingmayberry307 Před rokem +3

    All of you suffering with this, chances are you will never meet the Speakmans, so find a therapist near you who will come to your home. Don't give up! 💐

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  Před rokem

      Absolutely, no one should ever give up, there is always hope. If you look at the website hubofhope.co.uk and input your postcode you can find therapists near to you.

  • @caitlinlamb1313
    @caitlinlamb1313 Před 8 měsíci

    Wish I could do this documentary I’m 26 and don’t leave the house. Nothing has worked no amount of money I’ve spent to get better. I need you guys or I’m going to be like this forever

  • @AnaLuizaHella
    @AnaLuizaHella Před rokem

    17:51 Amazing! All she needed was eating. That's the cause, the root of her agorafobia.
    She explains she felt "daft' knowing that it took 4 years of her life for no reason.
    18:52 At the same day "There's nothing wrong with her."
    19:06 "Our job is to help her realise how ridiculous it is and how something so small has been allowed to turn a world upside down."
    21:37 eight hours of talking..
    She's free again.
    She was healed in 8 hours.
    Ok.
    Remember eating before any activity.