FINDING MY WAY AS A SINGLE STAY AT HOME MOM| Day In The Life Of A SAHM| Tres Chic Mama

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024

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  • @abby12345_
    @abby12345_ Před 6 měsíci +15

    I am married- and love thrifting as one of my hobbies. it’s important to do things that make you feel like your self instead of mama! also the best place to find your worth is in the Lord, it a refreshing feeling to read His word about what He says about you!! God bless.

  • @jillbaker7163
    @jillbaker7163 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I am a new single mum with a 5 year old boy and your videos give me hope, thank you

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +2

      The best thing you can feel is hope & gratitude! Not only do you got this but you’re doing amazing ❤️

  • @thomasgalarneau2928
    @thomasgalarneau2928 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I grew up with her and this video is so great… she is completely heartfelt and transparent and those are just a few of the qualities she gives to the world… we are so lucky to have people like you around. Thanks for the sincerity!! Keep up the good work!!!

  • @teresamanuszak4183
    @teresamanuszak4183 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Thank you for this! Your videos are so inspiring. You present the image that single mothers can be successful and happy, and that's just what we need. I also struggle with Mom groups, they are like going back to high school!! Lol. I do love yoga, taking long walks and music. I need to get back into cooking and try some of your recipes! Have a great day

  • @Samantharae1111
    @Samantharae1111 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hayley we love you and your little girly so much. Your channel is sunshine on a rainy day for me. Thank you for sharing your life with us. It means so much to me and helps me feel so much better on a crappy day. Single parents have always been an inspiration to. You are truly the heroes.
    Love you guys. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @Bookworm_Bex
    @Bookworm_Bex Před 6 měsíci +5

    I always find your videos relatable! I remember stumbling across your videos about 6 years ago when I was pregnant with my son. Your videos were very helpful and I didn't feel so alone. As for hobbies, I love to crochet!!! I also, love to read and do crafts with my son! Oh, and I love to cook! 😊

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Crocheting sounds so therapeutic!! I am so happy you’ve been here with me through this journey 🥰

    • @Bookworm_Bex
      @Bookworm_Bex Před 6 měsíci

      @@TresChicMama yes girl yes!!!! Crocheting is very therapeutic for me!!! Thank you for sharing your journey :0)

  • @jesussaves89
    @jesussaves89 Před 3 měsíci

    I don’t even have kids yet and I’m married but I’ve always admired Hayley. She is smart and tough. Never giving up and never making excuses.

  • @gwenhaklin6037
    @gwenhaklin6037 Před 6 měsíci +6

    So much I could say but overall this is probably my favorite video it's so relatable and comforting!

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      This makes me so happy! You have no idea how much you all have impacted my heart 😭🩷🩷🩷

  • @MamasKidz
    @MamasKidz Před 6 měsíci +1

    One of my new hobbies that i picked up was hiking but with the weather change I’ve been more into cooking meals from scratch. Being a mom and doing all the mom things limited the time i had for myself so it’s important to carve out special time in the week for yourself

  • @hailee632
    @hailee632 Před 3 měsíci

    I am married but me and my daughter has been following your channel since she was a baby..She is a little younger than Sydney. ❤😊 Watched all the toddlers tips, activities etc. 😊Take care guys!

  • @jennyhoang15
    @jennyhoang15 Před 6 měsíci +2

    So nostalgic because I found your channel by the pregnancy content since I was first pregnant as well. Love your channel!

  • @lisaveenstra7098
    @lisaveenstra7098 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am a single mom to a 6 and 7 year old and this is very spot on. The first birthday party Including parents made me have anxiety for a week but of course it was a blast and i was glad I went. I also find a good morning and night schedule help a lot with us too.... especially mornings since i also work and have to get ready every morning.

  • @lisavoegtly1475
    @lisavoegtly1475 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You’re so very lucky to be able to stay home with your daughter. Most Moms these days, at least where I live, have to work to pay the bills. Really enjoy your channel and thank you for sharing your life with us.

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I know what you meant.. work outside the home I’m assuming. I actually work more hours a week now that I work for myself. But yes I am extremely blessed to work from home & have a flexible job 🩷🙏

  • @seasonalliving2881
    @seasonalliving2881 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Fellow single mom here 🙋🏼‍♀️ I just adore your channel. You do such a great job with it and your sweet daughter. 🥰 aside from your gift in the kitchen, I think you definitely have a gift for style. Your outfits and home are also so cute! 🤍 Thank you for all your inspiration!

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Awww thank you so much! Even though I’m a comfort dresser 99% of the time 😅 I’d loveee to get more into styling myself

  • @katiehenson9957
    @katiehenson9957 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love this video, I think I've said this many times😅, but I started watching when sydney was a baby and I was a pregnant single mom. Still a single mom now that my son is almost 6. I love how real and relatable
    you have always been. Thank you for that!
    I've never been one to go to those mom groups. I thought I would make make friends with the parents at my sons school, and I have made a couple, but they are all married and a bit clicky 🙄
    Now I'm in nursing school as a single mom and have had no time for extra socializing 😂

  • @marianorris1081
    @marianorris1081 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Thanks for giving hope❤

  • @mamafromhawaii
    @mamafromhawaii Před 6 měsíci +1

    Haley, I got into CZcams by finding your videos when I was lonely as a first time mom, about 4 years ago. Since then, you're the only creator whose videos I have consistently watched over the years. Mainly because, i'm like you lol, introverted but extroverted but like not too much, ya know? 😆Watched you go through all the ups and downs as I was dealing with adjusting to motherhood and also trying to find myself for the first time (that's a tough thing to do at the same time lol). A video I'll never forget was when you shared about your healing/forgiving journey as you became a single parent. I know being a content creator is flexible, but it is not easy, especially being on camera when mentally, it's just a rough season. So thank you! For sharing your life that so many of us moms are living, just the simple stuff. Also, I've found a lot of individuality in lifting weights and going to the gym ♡ -Sam

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      🥹 I really grew up as a mom & woman on camera with you! It’s insane to see how far we have all come & what was learned from our past. I want to get back to a gym so badly here in the near future! I used to love how good it made me feel ☺️

  • @kelsbells1006
    @kelsbells1006 Před 6 měsíci

    I've said it many times before, but I am so proud of you. You're a great mom and Sydney is always so happy. I can tell she thinks the world of you

  • @truecrimeallofthetime
    @truecrimeallofthetime Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love this video! I am a single mom to a little girl the same age as Syndey and these open and honest takes on the journey are so helpful ❤

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I’m so glad! Sometimes I get all up in my head & close off on sharing things. But I am happy to have you all to relate with daily 🥹🙏

  • @SarahGraceL
    @SarahGraceL Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm a family of 2 as well. Me and my 4 year old son. Ex husband left me 2 years ago and then divorced me last year. I am just enjoying my time with my little guy creating a happy peaceful life for us, figuring it out as I go. I appreciate your content and how beautifully real and relatable you are. You are doing a fantastic job.

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci

      Peace is something to absolutely cherish!!! I’m proud of you 🥹🩷

  • @rainbow616
    @rainbow616 Před 6 měsíci

    Hey Hailey, I have been a single mom from when my son was 6 until now 15 because my ex-husband and I are back together again. I am so grateful for that because being a single mom is really not an ideal situation. At least for me personally. I have learned that my true passion is food. I'm a foodie like you. I don't think I can ever get bored from anything that has to do with food. I also like to sing and dance as hobbies. Just for myself at the house when I'm alone. It makes me happy and really helps relief stress/anxiety. I did go to "mom-groups" when my son was younger. I really needed and enjoyed that. I would say I'm a social/extroverted introvert. But like you say everybody has to find out what works for them. What makes them happy and fulfillled. Everybody is different. 🙏❤

  • @samanthakwait8782
    @samanthakwait8782 Před 3 měsíci

    I just want to let you know that I found your channel before my first child was born 6 years ago. I am married but my husband is in the military and has always come and gone. You got me through some extremely hard times feeling lonely and burnt out being alone with my children over the years. I literally used to tell myself “if Haley can do this alone, I can do this with my little bit of help.”

  • @marinelahippolyte2828
    @marinelahippolyte2828 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm proud of your resilience as a woman and a single mother. Your little girl seems happy, healthy, well fed and thats whats important at least for me as mom. I will love to see your channel develop its stregnths. I've been with you two since your birth story. keep pushing and growing.

  • @ruchiRocksta
    @ruchiRocksta Před 6 měsíci +1

    I've been following you since Sydney was born. Infact before that, when you used to do makeup videos. ❤

  • @curlygirl9023
    @curlygirl9023 Před 5 měsíci

    I lost myself as well when i had my baby and when i was married but now as a single mom i got back into running and even got into running 5ks… now working up to a marathon

  • @ashleysalazar2012
    @ashleysalazar2012 Před 5 měsíci

    I know it isn't but you make it look so easy. You're doing great. ❤

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 5 měsíci

      🥹😭 Thank you so much!! Anything but easy

  • @leeshc5952
    @leeshc5952 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Yay! Saw you made the crockpot tacos with chicken, cream cheese so glad you enjoyed it! ❤

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci

      Yes!! So good 😄 Thank you for sharing it!

  • @jennybasil7277
    @jennybasil7277 Před 6 měsíci

    I really don’t have any hobbies, currently! I have discovered the Libby app, and have been listening to fun audiobooks from the library. I never devoted time to reading, but with audiobooks, I can multitask! 😊

  • @curlygirl9023
    @curlygirl9023 Před 5 měsíci

    Been here since the beginning ❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 5 měsíci

      🥹🩷 Truly words can not express how much this means to me!

  • @teresakowal71
    @teresakowal71 Před 6 měsíci

    You do a great job as a work from home single mama! Sydney is so cute and just thriving always! My kids are 23,20, 19 so I’m at the point trying to figure out hobbies and what I like to do and right now that is the gym and the fact my hubby and I can go do anything now. But you are doing a great job’ ❤

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      That is awesome! A whole new chapter of life begins for you! 🫶

  • @amandaraujo37
    @amandaraujo37 Před 6 měsíci

    Hobbies are SO helpful as a SAHM of 4! My hobbies are working out, cooking and filming/editing for CZcams! My goal would be to have my channel take off one day. I feel like I’ve been at it for a while with very little return 😕 I have made some amazing friends though! It’s crazy what we endure as moms and power through! 🫶🏼

  • @fmm269
    @fmm269 Před 6 měsíci

    I would say you are a work from home Mom. And you’re doing an amazing job!

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Giod morning and love your vodeo did good

  • @suzannebuckley1861
    @suzannebuckley1861 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing Hayley. Fellow single mom here too! Xx

  • @joennahenderson7324
    @joennahenderson7324 Před 6 měsíci

    You are a princess you are a respectful decent mother and woman that you you are giving your daughter a good example so when she grows up she knows how to be a real woman in the right way respectful and herself and also being decent and loving herself the way I see you you love yourself because you care about your decency and you take care and respect yourself not just for yourself but for your daughter and you are giving a good example to your daughter that you can do it on your own that you don't need a man that you are a person that can tell you herself as a real woman and a real mother without needing a man in her life you make an amazing example for all women that are single out there keep on doing these videos please videos will help a lot of women out there to be able to know that they do not need a man that they can do it all on their own with the example that you are giving you are giving a good example for women that are out there and also for your daughter in the future so she can know that she doesn't need a man to live without respecting and loving herself for who she is you are amazing mother you keep on doing that amazing job with your daughter you are doing very good and awesome and your daughter is so blessed to have you ask her mother you are a good example for her she cannot ask for anything better than what she has God has blessed her with the amazing mother and you are amazing mother and she is blessed to have you and you are blessed to have her as your daughter you are both blessed having each other GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOU BOTH ALWAYS 🙏🏻😇

  • @danielleb724
    @danielleb724 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for the video!

  •  Před 6 měsíci

    10:21 I host parties where I invite 2 to 4 of my friends with kids over. We plan an activity for the kids whether it be the park or a movie on the couch, I make us dinner or a board and create a signature cocktail and we hang out while the kids destroy my house. Some of them usually sleep over too. It's so much fun that I decided to write a book on how to do it 😊

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci

      That sounds like a blast!!!!! 🙌🩷

  • @caitlindorris4333
    @caitlindorris4333 Před 6 měsíci

    I love videos like this from you ❤

  • @CaroLina-zy5rv
    @CaroLina-zy5rv Před 6 měsíci

    What a great video-really enjoyed it!! ❤️

  • @ssundos
    @ssundos Před 6 měsíci

    Loved this video so much!!

  • @joennahenderson7324
    @joennahenderson7324 Před 6 měsíci

    I just wanted you to send you this special message for the DPS on my heart and my soul to let you know from my heart you are awesome beyond awesome mother because I seen your videos from day one and I've seen so much of your videos and there was not one day that no matter what you always made it through you are very strong and very amazing I really appreciate all your videos hope and pray that you will never leave your videos I hope and pray that you will always keep your videos going because they give me hope they give me strength they give me a reason why to live thank you so much may God continue blessing you and your little girl that if she is so cute and amazing and I've seen amazing work that you have done with her and you are number one mom in this whole wide world keep on going keep on doing what you're doing because you're doing an awesome job God bless you and your little baby❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏👌👍 perfect mother amazing YOU GOT THIS KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING YOUR DAUGHTER IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BEYOND HAPPY AND BLESSED TO HAVE YOU AS HER MOTHER I KNOW THAT SHE CAN'T ASK FOR ANY MORE YOUR THE BEST FOR HER I SEE THAT SHE DOSE NOT NEED ANY MORE THAN WHAT SHE HAS SHE HAS IT ALL WITH GOD AND YOU AS HER MOTHER 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤🙏🏻🥰

    • @joennahenderson7324
      @joennahenderson7324 Před 6 měsíci

      You and your daughter is always in my prayers 😘💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 this is for you and your daughter ❤🙏🏻🙏

  • @meravech
    @meravech Před 6 měsíci

    You are amazing ❤❤

  • @jomariekonerth2778
    @jomariekonerth2778 Před 5 měsíci

    Looked thru ur old videos about make up....u seemed so different then!!! U seemed very extroverted then!!!

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 5 měsíci

      I’ve been through a lot of life since then. But I’ve always always been someone who loves my own space & to be home to recharge. I’m slowly getting back to my old stress free self haha but certainly changed into who I am today ❤️

  • @thumper6425
    @thumper6425 Před 6 měsíci

    💜

  • @chrisoulalakkas7935
    @chrisoulalakkas7935 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm a relatively new subscriber, so I haven't watched all your older videos. I was wondering do you share custody with Sidney's father. Is he included in her life?

  • @lisaortolani7109
    @lisaortolani7109 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Is Sydney’s dad in her life and help you financially to be able to pay for your bills and the upkeep in your home?

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +2

      I am the sole provider for the 2 of us ❤️

    • @lisaortolani7109
      @lisaortolani7109 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@TresChicMama you are doing an amazing taking care of you and Sydney. Give yourself a Pat in the back

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you 🥹

    • @jomariekonerth2778
      @jomariekonerth2778 Před 5 měsíci

      I believe her dad passed away. So I believe Sydney must get social security.

    • @lisaortolani7109
      @lisaortolani7109 Před 5 měsíci

      Why doesn’t Hailey say he passed so people will stop asks questions about him.

  • @mecheldoz2893
    @mecheldoz2893 Před 6 měsíci +3

    If you can afford everything all food and bills and clothes then why not be a CZcamsr but I can’t say it will do much for your sanity being home all the time.
    Your videos are good and I like watching but we are getting the same videos more or less.
    Is there not new content like what you make from CZcams and about how you can make a living off it
    Or how you budget for bills.
    Single parents might want to know how you do it.
    Own your own house and have a nice car and can afford still to go to Disney
    CZcamsrs don’t make that much money and not off only making 2 videos a week.

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +4

      I completely learned how quickly the hamster wheel becomes exhausting! I struggle a lot with what content to film sometimes and so I am always open to your ideas! I do have fresh content in my plans though within the lifestyle genre. Are you mostly curious how I make my income doing this? There are many revenue streams that most content creators have 😄 not limited to CZcams ad revenue. Happy to hear from you what you’d like to see ❤️

    • @lisaerin85
      @lisaerin85 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I agree with @mecheldoz2983. I’ve been trying to find these words. Hayley, you mentioned you never really had any hobbies, but is all you really love in life food centered? I noticed your recipes you share are comfort food, not very nutritious. you also said you used to love working out. I know what drew me in was your ability to make singlemomming it look fun. It’s a lonely and hard job and even though I haven’t really taken much from you to add to my life, you made me really see the joy and freedom in being a single mom. Because of you, I love being a single mom. You have that going for you… or you did. I would like to see how you make ends meet. You said we can look to other videos for that, but not all of those people are single moms, if they are they’re not relying solely on the type of job you have, and they have twice as many subscribers. I would like to see who Hayley is. You seem to be selling every brand even if your not for it. You can’t be for every brand you ad for as there are a variety of things you ad for, this video for one didn’t have much to do with the brand that sponsored you. it can hurt your channel and my guess is this is part of the reason it hasn’t grown in a long time. We’re all unique, show us who YOU are, if you want. This is why it’s so important to make mom friends and spend that money out on mom dates, ESPECIALLY as a single mom. You mentioned doing that in the fall, but you live in a tourist town and how expensive it is and how you would rather just go to Disney. Really!? Also, how do you manage financially if it’s expensive where you live. It might be Sydney getting older and not being home anymore, but you seem to have lost your spark. you could always homeschool her, but even if that’s not for you, you are a person outside of being a mom an all things mom related. If we’re not careful, again ESPECIALLY as single moms, we can really lose ourselves. I feel like that’s what’s happened to you when I watch your videos now. You used to come off so happy, again, this is when Sydney was within her first 4 years. I see a difference in your videos of your joy. You’ve changed since she went to school. Show us who Hayley is even if you have to find her on the process. We already know you have to do laundry and dishes, what else do you do besides chores?

  • @mijani_kromo
    @mijani_kromo Před 6 měsíci

    Does the money that you own so far enough to pay the monthly bills and food...

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes 😀 I have been doing this full time for several years now 🙏🩷

  • @daniellelm3
    @daniellelm3 Před 6 měsíci

    Do you not consider yourself a work from home mom?

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Oh no I certainly am a work from home mom! I put in more hours than I ever did working a different job. 😄

    • @daniellelm3
      @daniellelm3 Před 6 měsíci

      Okay! The stay at home mom phrase makes me think of people who aren’t being compensated for their work lol

    • @TresChicMama
      @TresChicMama  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Stay at home, work from home, single mom etc lol I kind of choose which label I say interchangeably. But the loads of 1099s I just got definitely solidify that wfh title 😆 I feel like I use sahm more in the videos since I’m not showing you the things I do for work for the most part. Obviously filming is part of it but I don’t show the editing, invoices, emails, creating the content etc. if that word jumble makes sense 😆