This is true.. because my boyfriend is chinese and he’s is so care about me when I’m on my period and when we go out for date he won’t let me pay the bill❤️ we will getting married next year
This is common sense for Chinese men pay the bill. Normally, the girl only sits and waits for food. We should go around and find the food that she like.
Well, I don't think he does. Western European countries are very similar to the US culturally and specifically what this guy in the video showed was exactly what is considered "western"
In Chinese culture, girls being on period means twisting ache in the body, and blues. So in this specific time, boy friend gets alerted and takes good care of his babe.
My fiance is Chinese~ From what I've found (not just from being with him, but observing guys in China in general) is they they are a lot more considerate and caring towards their girlfriends than American guys.
My crush is Chinese. He really cares for me when I’m on a period, always reminds me to drink hot water, forces me to go to sleep earlier, asks me a dozen of times a day if my belly still hurts etc ☺️
Lynn E Xu It depends how rich his family is😂... Also depends on where he lives. The money for an apartment in a big city can buy several houses in some other cities lol
I used to date a guy who wouldn't let me pay for anything and it made me so anxious. Please let me pay at least once! He was European but I guess I need someone even more western. 😂
Glad I found this channel! I'm Mandarin learner. Beside the interesting content to watch, this help me a lot to study!! ^^ thank you very much for dual subtitle in Hanzi & English
"I already bought it." HAHAHA, I nearly choked at that one! But yeah, there's a lot truth to it, these are very widely shared mindsets on things. Great to see them in 1 on 1 comparison! Really love the video and hope for more on this topic!
The talking part is soooooo truuue!!! This drove me crazy when I start dating western guys, making a long and precise description of why how and what speech regarding what makes me feel this way when super angry and upset is generally not required in Chinese relationships. Generally, Chinese guys are less sensitive about feelings and sometimes not comfortable to experience or hear about it, they are more willing to make females feeling less upset by shifting their attention to sth pleasant than understanding why she is upset (the long tiring talk). Personally, I think it is because the Asian culture requires males to endure than express and it may consider weak or feminine if they do so.
Haha it is so true. My boyfriend literally said “Why are you telling me this? Does it hurt?” 😂 And he loves woman has her own career. I saw my boyfriend in this video 😂
Overbearing is like a common trait in Asia. Overbearing parents who think you're dying when you catch a cold. Overbearing grandparents that scold your parents when they try to discipline you. Overbearing siblings who question you about every decision you make just in case you should stumble. And so when you get into a relationship you become overbearing on your SO. 🤣
My boyfriend is Lao Australian and his mindset is influenced both by Asian and Australian mindsets. he’s definitely the kind that won’t let me pay for anything, looks after me so well whenever I feel sick!! He also understands me completely. He is also a very kind, honest, and loyal man. I hit the jackpot!! ❤️ I definitely feel like the luckiest woman on earth! I will cherish him forever ❤️
The skit is oversimplifying this scenario. Most of your statements are also simplifying things. Spending money does not equate success. Monetary support is not always better than emotional support. And failure is not always a regret. And you would only try if you have any kind of support. Risk exists in every decision. Support also comes in different forms. Someone willing to listen to a girl's dreams and provide suggestions from financial and emotional aspects is more constructive than anything in this skit. And you can only succeed if you have tried in the first place. Failure does not result in just monetary losses; there's time, resources, lost opportunities. But you always learn something from failures and that's what leading to success. You are focusing on the wrong point; it's not about the support being financial or emotional. I think the main point is that breadwinner in the family is not just the guy now in a modern world. Having the guy be the breadwinner is just a traditional way of life. The "lao wai" is supporting the former view; and the "Chinese guy" is supporting the latter view. If girls go for the latter view, they better hope that they chose the right guy; there's nothing worse than depending on the wrong man and you end up have having zero financial independence. I personally support the female having her own financial independence because that gives her control. She can leave him and be okay. But if you have nothing, even if you leave the guy, your life will be very difficult and you may end up sticking with the wrong man.
So does the fact that I would never let my gf pay for anything, shower her with care during her period and give her space when she’s mad make me Eastern or can there just be a more universal conception of an ideal boyfriend? 😒
It's just every culture have its own habits. We just have to care and understand our partners no matter where he's come from or what culture does he has 😊 Anyway, I'm Indonesian born Chinese😅
開啟 talk 模式！ 哈哈哈，真是這樣。 Please tell me baby We can talk about that. There is obviously something,please tell me Talk talk talk. Ahahaha!!! I love him so much
This is true.. because my boyfriend is chinese and he’s is so care about me when I’m on my period and when we go out for date he won’t let me pay the bill❤️ we will getting married next year
This is common sense for Chinese men pay the bill. Normally, the girl only sits and waits for food. We should go around and find the food that she like.
I don't mind doing this as long as I git money
So cute, I wish you the best !
I would pay but 我没有钱
Easy girl
PS: You confuse western with American.
Here in Europe the mentality differs even in each region of a country 😂
Dennis Engelen You must forget that America (USA) is also very different, and everyone differs in the way they do things
Ultimately they share the same mindset and similar cultures.
Is Australian considered western
If the world is round then isn't every country West of China, including China
Well, I don't think he does. Western European countries are very similar to the US culturally and specifically what this guy in the video showed was exactly what is considered "western"
When the siren went off during the period scene, I lost it.
lol. Me too.
In Chinese culture, girls being on period means twisting ache in the body, and blues. So in this specific time, boy friend gets alerted and takes good care of his babe.
Curious, can anyone translate the subtext on top on the foreign boyfriend scene?
Hahahah SAME LOL
Plus he brought snacks and heating pad. I wish someone would at least bring me a heating pad during my period.
我老公是老外，经过培训以后他现在也懂的给我灌热水袋，买零食，倒热水😂😂😂😂
Cathy Zeng 确实需要培训哈，我老公也是
Cathy Zeng 求训练方法
哈哈哈哈，笑死我了！
Cathy Zeng 哈哈 是的 因为文化不同
这个可以！
My fiance is Chinese~ From what I've found (not just from being with him, but observing guys in China in general) is they they are a lot more considerate and caring towards their girlfriends than American guys.
That’s because you are white
沒聽說過嗎，「我養你啊」這句話是天底下最大的謊言
Silly C. 因為根本就是養不起，還要撒謊，只為了騙妹子（？😆😆😆
付出本来就是互相的，柳飘飘被那一句话，说什么也不干原来的陪酒行当了。没有付出的觉悟就没有享受的心安理得的资格。
没错。其实“我养你”这句话是对女方尊严的践踏与羞辱。
養你不等於你什麼事都不用干，為什麼現代女人總喜歡當公主只想對方為自己付出？男人工作下班還要照顧你逗你開心為你解決各種問題，自己坐吃等生孩子就以為貢獻滿滿，那跟豬有什麼分別？
謊言還不要緊,問題是這句話聽起來好刺耳,難聽死了!
My crush is Chinese. He really cares for me when I’m on a period, always reminds me to drink hot water, forces me to go to sleep earlier, asks me a dozen of times a day if my belly still hurts etc ☺️
Hahaha if he says that to his Chinese girlfriend, he might get beaten up🤣
片子中提到的中西方差别很真实。外国男友更尊重女方的个人意愿同时追求女方经济独立。中国男友更贴心，安排周到，但需要女友用一生来偿还。这当然是合理的，用老公的，吃老公的，住老公的（也有可能是公婆的钱）难免付出代价。身边有太多男性朋友婚前婚后两个样，完成了从奴隶到将军的转变。所以中外男友哪款更适合你，因人而异。
说的好中肯
没办法啊，拿人手短，吃人嘴软。经济不独立，你想做主人？
samily shin 这就是女生心目中的出中肯吗？我原来比较西方化啊……平常说男女平等哪去了😂
Michelle Fan 女人不就是这样？约会去了男生不请客就说这男的怎么这么小气之类的...aa制也行啊，至少可以保证婚后地位不会下降，毕竟你自己也有经济来源可以补贴家用
女孩子还是独立一些的好
The last one is so true, chinese parents will buy their children house even if the child have no plan of marriage for at least the next 10 years 😂
@Lynn E Xu dumb. For many people an apartment = house, because it is the only way of life they can think of.
Lynn E Xu It depends how rich his family is😂... Also depends on where he lives. The money for an apartment in a big city can buy several houses in some other cities lol
I'm from Iran. Many Iranian parents do that too.
Western: honest boi
Chinese: soft boi
we don't talk anymore。。。
talk your sister
Talk你妹啊~笑死我了！！哈哈哈
我是女生，房子的事我自己也不想问父母拿钱啊，夫妻两人自己赚钱买房挺好的呀。不过在美国自食其力买房容易，在国内买房对年轻人来说确实难
我也觉得不要父母出钱，感觉房子不是自己的，可是这年头存钱真的存不过房价，如果父母有经济能力，可以跟父母借一下首期
美国自食其力买房容易，你开什么玩笑，除非你打算在治安条件很差城市和市郊买房
至少没有国内难啊，除非你工资非常低。
我的美国同事，她告诉我说，如果她结婚想要买房，只要不是那种房价非常高的城市或地理位置特别好的，基本上两个人一起存钱几年是完全可以买房的。所以她基本每个月就只存薪资的10%，其他全花了。
在国内呢，你薪资的增长速度永远比不上房价的增长。你存个几十年都可能不够首付。尤其是在北上广工作的人，想留下来买房真心太难。当然，回老家买房确实可以，但是你没有工作机会，专业不对口呀。
@@wangzoey3055 太天真了。。。。。如果比较大城市那无论哪里都难。都是一般工作基本只能郊区加贷款几十年，如果中小城市，中国差不多50到150万，50到100平方。一般家庭收入8-15万。就是几年就可以首付。
shangzhi zheng 真的比在国内轻松很多
I used to date a guy who wouldn't let me pay for anything and it made me so anxious. Please let me pay at least once! He was European but I guess I need someone even more western. 😂
就經驗之談，外國男生是挺暖心的會很專心陪你，逛逛博物館小禮物小驚喜，但跟原文不一樣的是其實不經常AA,去吃飯我硬要還錢給他他也不肯收，最後沒在一起是因爲他是超級選擇困難症，吃個飯要挑大半天就其實是做什麼都超級拖泥帶水的。現在我卻跟一個中國男生結婚了，說實話...他長的挺可愛的，每天就打遊戲什麼都不做，把他當寵物養，誰叫我是正太控呢⋯⋯
当宠物养。。。。
多养了一个儿子。哈哈哈
我老公就是老外，和他约会在一起5年，我只付过一次旅游的酒店费用，总共400多人民币，其他机票，所有的都是他付的。我老公也是选择困难症，不过我喜欢挑，所以互补了
jijnjijijj 那真好，我是真的超怕選擇困難症的人的，挑件衣服挑的比我還要久，去一個地點要考慮半小時用哪條路線去，因為是他開車我就沒說什麼，但真的挺心累的
选择困难说明他心细啊，至少在认真的考虑问题。当然有些事情还是要当机立断好些。这个不是啥毛病，而是你们性格合不合适的问题了。
I need me a Chinese boyfriend after this 👌🏾😂
😂I am from China,but i think i need a foreign boyfriend after this.
But will his mother approve of you?
From your emoji it looks you're black
@ 3:18
Good luck
No white kid
i need a foreign girlfriend,you konw i am Chinese .i think foreign girlfriend is good.
有些分手的跨国恋喜欢动不动就用文化差异当借口，其实到底是感情问题。我老公是澳洲人，我们一起快12年了，他会跟朋友说现在跟我还有恋爱的感觉。我们也会像我父母一样吵架，可我们最终会包容彼此，我们也会学对方的文化，生活习惯和方式。
不过文化差异确实是普遍现象,你是个例。其他人是普遍现象, 最近很流行的一门学科 跨文化管理就是解决这个文化差异的
我交过好几个 外国女朋友 确实很多观念文化差异很大。
我和你差不多，既然有緣份在一起，就要珍惜，互敬互愛！人生才幾十年光景而已⋯⋯
Jenniezh 我是一个从小在澳洲长大的孩子。我也嫁了一个澳洲人。我反而觉得和中国的男的观念差距很大... 我和我老公也一起10年多了。也还是像谈恋爱时一样
文化差异肯定有的，但是相互谦让总会有最初的感觉
That’s really true with the period thing. Cause until now my husband still does that and we been married for 20 years.
现居加拿大，关于买单有一个有意思的现象：我交往过的所有外国男友从来都不让我买单，偶尔我抢着买了一次他们都会觉得挺过意不去的；但是交往过的中国男友有一些会主动提出来让我买单。个人经历，不代表平均水平
你交往了多少个了 阅人无数啊
Glad I found this channel! I'm Mandarin learner. Beside the interesting content to watch, this help me a lot to study!! ^^ thank you very much for dual subtitle in Hanzi & English
when your boyfriend knows more about period than you do
hahahahah
I like your videos!
Thank you for English subtitle☺️
Sometimes, I'm watching with my Chinese friends:))
This videos makes us laugh!
"I already bought it."
HAHAHA, I nearly choked at that one! But yeah, there's a lot truth to it, these are very widely shared mindsets on things. Great to see them in 1 on 1 comparison!
Really love the video and hope for more on this topic!
一句“talk你妹啊”被击中笑点了 lol
The talking part is soooooo truuue!!! This drove me crazy when I start dating western guys, making a long and precise description of why how and what speech regarding what makes me feel this way when super angry and upset is generally not required in Chinese relationships. Generally, Chinese guys are less sensitive about feelings and sometimes not comfortable to experience or hear about it, they are more willing to make females feeling less upset by shifting their attention to sth pleasant than understanding why she is upset (the long tiring talk). Personally, I think it is because the Asian culture requires males to endure than express and it may consider weak or feminine if they do so.
国籍只是国籍罢了 我男票是英国人 出去玩啊吃饭是谁有钱就付 经常带小惊喜啊小礼物给我 每次各种节假日带我出去玩 生日节日礼物都是一堆 大姨妈时候知道我会痛把我伺候的跟太后似的 不拘于地域 只要不从垃圾堆找男朋友就行了
你还是太年轻了，呵呵地域黑并不是有人愿意黑而且事实就是如此！说真话还是说假话这是个考验！
不要对号入座啊，本来就说了是部分啊，每个人都不一样
不是每个人都是是大多数
国籍代表着一定的文化，你们出去吃饭应该多数是你带钱吧？他做什么了让你觉得像太后？你怎么确定你的男朋友不是别人口中的渣男？
@@Jp-lm7qi 只拿不给不是全部哦，我跟身边女性朋友跟自己男朋友接触都不会让他出钱的(´-ω-`)
cool! 编辑真正精彩，演得也好。歌配得特别好
I’m all for splitting the bill, but the period thing would be nice😂😩
Sad truth is that Asian men normally know less about it than western men
れ哈哈哈，我老公就是一有事就let's talk about it😂
不不不，应该加个why
我就喜欢talk about it，我以前的中国男朋友都不喜欢talk about it，根本不想解决问题，还有一些老外男朋友也是，那些不喜欢talk about it的男生基本上可以pass了
so…talk你妹啊😂
周围easy girl挺多 应该不是留学生
@Grey Chen Small dick poor Chinese man have no confidence in themselves
外國，再看到買房子那一段我覺得外國的觀點很讚，買房子是自己的事，不可能一直仰賴父母
Renesmee 首先是国情不一样，中国一般房价很高（年轻人是很多年都买不起的），其实仰赖父母买房子的人，为人父母之后也会给孩子买房子，像这样一代代传下去，并不单单只索取不付出。并且文化也有差异，中国两代家庭关系很亲密，父母子女之间很关心，好的一面是亲情可贵，不好的一面是互相干预（绑架）对方的生活造成压力。最后也有对婚姻看法的差异，房子对于两性关系中弱势的一方是一个保险，对双方来说会保证稳定幸福生活的可能性，也是打算共度余生的承诺，所以先买房很重要。而西方文化中女性并不认为结婚后一段时间再离婚，女方会比男方吃亏得多很多，而中国女性显然会认为容貌年华逝去空无所得，所以需要房子做背书。
Haha it is so true. My boyfriend literally said “Why are you telling me this? Does it hurt?” 😂 And he loves woman has her own career. I saw my boyfriend in this video 😂
Haha I was suprised by this. Apparently my bf is all western except for paying for things and if I'm uncomfortable or sick. He acts like I'm dying lol
Overbearing is like a common trait in Asia. Overbearing parents who think you're dying when you catch a cold. Overbearing grandparents that scold your parents when they try to discipline you. Overbearing siblings who question you about every decision you make just in case you should stumble. And so when you get into a relationship you become overbearing on your SO. 🤣
Omg same haha
He is super
看人吧。。。周围三四个谈美国男友的都表示不让女生付钱。。。不过买房这点倒是真的不会去问爸妈要。
mxeyi ma 我个人觉得父母养我们都那么辛苦了，我们长大后还是不要向父母要钱买房比较好，这点支持外国人的观念
漂流瓶 大概是国内房价太贵了的关系吧。我觉得两种体系。扪心自问，家长掏百万升至千万买房子，那孩子找的人家长应该是有权力提出意见的吧。
mxeyi ma 这样想也蛮对的
Cheryl Sun 这也要看人 家庭条件好的父母各国买好几套房不过当投资 然后靠着投资房地产赚更多钱。家庭不好的父母也拿不出钱 当自己好不容易有钱买房了 房价早升上去了 下半辈子接着还贷吧 也不用给自己孩子买房了lol 所以说有钱人往往越来越有钱 你这事没法比
mxeyi ma 确实看人，我中国人也会aa，因为还是学生，不能赚钱
混血怎么办😂😂😂
吴世勋 exo 嗨，爱丽！
吴世勋 exo 看住哪里咯
世勛 😍
也對齁😂
BOND JAMES 别乱说话
I think I need a Chinese boyfriend
If his mother doesn't like you, it's a dub
Lol
geekygermangirl I’m here for ya ma’am! I’m a Chinese boy speaking fluent English. If you’re interested contact me Fb/twitter: OU Yusiao
lmao this is funny.. you should do a meet up in shanghai when i go there this summer haha
西方人比较能说, 真的能兑现的不多, 甜言蜜语对他们来说就好比习惯用语, 感觉还是东方人比较实在, 婚姻和交友是两回事, 相同的价值观和文化背景才比较能维系一段稳定的婚姻。
Emi & Eve 对。。。张口就来很反感
赞你，
那些被老外骗了再找国人接盘的女人更讨厌，还见过生了黑人孩子被踹，找老实人接盘还提各种条件的女人。这得多贱才能接这个盘，而且还不能问女方过去。
老外口才一般都很好。尤其白人，甜言蜜语一般张嘴就来
@@drsylar9291 我反而觉得中国人更会甜言密语。。。
交往过鬼佬男朋友，现任老公abc。说实话鬼佬比较浪漫，爱说好听的。可是真的碰到大事就发现各种文化不合。而且不能用中文吵架也很不爽…………
ding michelle 最不爽的是不能用博大精深的中文骂人
ding michelle 现任男友也是ABC。我就喜欢ABC那种中西文化都有类型，吵架能用两种语言，尤其是能用中文吵，确实很爽！而且有白人的简单直接，我可以有啥说啥，超级方便！
ding michelle 那是 你们的思维方式都是东方的 跟西方文化碰撞自然会这样 你交往是就该这么想
Sonno Sonno 我認為這樣不太好
Sonno Sonno 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈好好笑承包我今天的笑点
区别在于 婚前中国男生更好，各种体贴照顾，婚后就各种放飞自我拿老婆当妈拿小三当女朋友。婚前外国男人指望女人独立理性，婚后却比较顾家
Julie Zhu 说的太对了
中国人讲到底还是大男子主义，没有平等的男女意识。
外国男人顾家，你是在搞笑吗如果连最顾家的亚洲文化圈的男人都不顾家，还指望追求自由生活的西方男人顾家，自己去国外体验外国人的顾家吧，哈哈哈哈哈
吃牛奶喝蛋糕 我男朋友是外國人 他也很顧家阿
吃牛奶喝蛋糕 我接触的嫁给老外的姐姐就说老外比中国男人顾家，中国男人打拼事业比老婆孩子重要，老外就是两点一线，到点了那姐姐就要回家做饭，因为老公每天回家吃晚饭，周末都是跟家人一起出去散心，就算是聚会也是和别的夫妻和孩子一起。而我认识的中国男的，有个老婆，经常在她的微信朋友圈夸老公无条件支持自己想做的事，满满幸福。而实际呢，她老公朋友圈没提过关于她和新生孩子一个字，哪怕跟老婆一起出去旅游的照片，也都是他单独的，还是老婆给拍的，最近还放了鸽子让她单独带孩子去参加朋友的婚礼，不晓得男的用了什么理由，反正这不是婚姻该有的样子。
视频中情况只代表部分男生，请勿对号入座！
我也赞同大家说的，不是国家的问题，而是每个人都不一样。这个视频当作娱乐看看就好了，不必当真的哈哈。
在国外待了八年果然我不是纯正的中国人了。。。 这里面我一半都是和那白人的想法一样。。。
noah new kkjiejiayuan 我微信号，哥哥姐姐们关于外国男友我想问你们更多。请加我，谢谢。
我在国外九年了，看这个视频里house wise, career wise，communication wise都认同。但依旧觉得女生表达vulnerability时说 “why are u telling me that”想但傻逼。而且无论再在这里几十年之后我大概依旧会觉得这很傻逼
@@limamamia5842 我觉得这是纯情商低，跟人种和文化无关的。
我小学出国的对这些事观念就是情侣交往模式怎么样都可以，但要多沟通，别有啥事就生气闷着，别把什么都当成理所当然的
My boyfriend is Lao Australian and his mindset is influenced both by Asian and Australian mindsets. he’s definitely the kind that won’t let me pay for anything, looks after me so well whenever I feel sick!! He also understands me completely. He is also a very kind, honest, and loyal man. I hit the jackpot!! ❤️ I definitely feel like the luckiest woman on earth! I will cherish him forever ❤️
很喜歡看你的影片 好笑又有趣
来大姨妈那个绝对真实，我第一次跟他说，人家回答：that's very personal, why do u tell me? Don't tell me , I don't want to know.
Livy Looo 那只能证明他直男
你那个“他”有问题吧……我某个ex，一说他就懂了
洋男比亚洲男更不能忍受女人在自己面前剃腋毛什么的
是他的问题，不是国籍的问题。
赶紧和他分手吧，就这点事情他还反映这个样子
不錯👍
刚开始的时候，女的说talk你妹啊，笑死我了，哈哈哈哈，然后BGM配的很赞！
老外说"I support you no matter what!" Than don't take money out. 中国人说no最后老婆去开的时候拿钱去支持她，这才是真的support
Sa Christina support 你就要拿钱出来？还是把男人当atm呢。中国人说no最后还会去开的老婆能有几个？
Sa Christina 很少吧…而且很多男人就算支持了，过后还是会有抱怨，如果不赚钱呢，就会说，“看，我当时不让你做吧”；如果赚钱呢，就会说“现在这么累，怪谁啊，看，我当时不让你做吧”🌝我宁愿有人精神上支持我…
老外的一句支持，真的就是一句支持。他真的了解老婆要做的事的风险吗？ 一句洒脱的支持，是不负责任的完美表现
The skit is oversimplifying this scenario. Most of your statements are also simplifying things. Spending money does not equate success. Monetary support is not always better than emotional support. And failure is not always a regret. And you would only try if you have any kind of support.
Risk exists in every decision. Support also comes in different forms. Someone willing to listen to a girl's dreams and provide suggestions from financial and emotional aspects is more constructive than anything in this skit. And you can only succeed if you have tried in the first place. Failure does not result in just monetary losses; there's time, resources, lost opportunities. But you always learn something from failures and that's what leading to success.
You are focusing on the wrong point; it's not about the support being financial or emotional. I think the main point is that breadwinner in the family is not just the guy now in a modern world. Having the guy be the breadwinner is just a traditional way of life. The "lao wai" is supporting the former view; and the "Chinese guy" is supporting the latter view. If girls go for the latter view, they better hope that they chose the right guy; there's nothing worse than depending on the wrong man and you end up have having zero financial independence. I personally support the female having her own financial independence because that gives her control. She can leave him and be okay. But if you have nothing, even if you leave the guy, your life will be very difficult and you may end up sticking with the wrong man.
老公说no, 老婆根本开不了店。我家现在就是这种情况，家庭财产一分不让动。我好不容易找到投资可以开，还是不允许，说我能不能把家庭放第一，不折腾。如果我非要做生意，他就离婚
“Babe talk to me” that’s me every time dang
This is so true, Chinese men tend to be more responsible,caring and goal oriented when it comes to relationship
哈哈哈！非常好的Topic
So does the fact that I would never let my gf pay for anything, shower her with care during her period and give her space when she’s mad make me Eastern or can there just be a more universal conception of an ideal boyfriend? 😒
付账这个事情，并不是所有的外国男人都这样， 买房买车，买什么外国人真的不向父母要钱，我来大姨妈的时候，我老公就是拿冰淇淋给我吃，因为他傻乎乎的认为拿我最喜欢的东西给我吃，我就不痛了
我曾经有一次忍不住再来姨妈的时候，吃了冰淇淋，结果，那一次惨痛的教训，让我毕生难忘😂😂
我可能找了个假外国人...除了我自己的衣服化妆品等我花自己的钱，我们出去吃饭喝咖啡，去超市等都是男友付款。还有就是他每周兼职赚的钱大数都在我这里（大概有几百磅），自己只留下十几磅够抽烟和坐车（不是我要求的，是他主动给我要我帮他存起来）。不过父母的问题和视屏里一样，我也问过如果你父母不喜欢怎么办，他说‘管他们做什么，我们又不会和他们住在一起。‘但是他也说当我们去拜访他们的时候，无论他们说什么请不要反驳，你可以回到我们的家和我发脾气或者打我，但是请尊重他们，他们毕竟是我的父母，我去中国拜访你的父母的时候，我有任何抱怨也不会让他们不开心，私底下我会和你单独说。他比我小四岁，我却感觉他比我成熟10岁。我觉得还是看人吧，我和我男友就是从来不把任何事情藏在心里，什么都是直来直往，有问题就问，甚至我们连以后有孩子怎么取名字，如果未来离婚了怎么办，我的签证问题怎么解决等等都讨论过了。
Iris Evans 祝福
祝福MM
Molly chen 谢谢 ：）
Iris Evans 妳很幸福😊 我要這樣的(西方)男人
这样的人很好 羡慕 妹子一定很美
哈哈 第一个好有同感 我男票就是一直让我talk talk talk 搞得我也很想说“talk 你妹啊”😂
Elina Yang 为什么talk不要？？不说出来憋着让男朋友一直猜很passive aggresive知道吗？
+Alice Gong 因为我男朋友脾气很不好
我也不大明白…… 为什么不talk一下呢？？
我会直接说出来 让别人猜 超累的
我说nothing, 他就一定要说there is something.非要让你跟他沟通哈哈 确实如此
THIS IS SO TRUE OMGOSH 前男友是外國人也是這樣 其實還是各取優點比較好
或许真的只有我一个人这么觉得但是作为一个女朋友我不喜欢总是让男朋友买单，我觉得谈恋爱应该是彼此给予，如果总是接受的那一方我会觉得很有压力，会有亏欠感，所以我一般都要求和男票AA，而且这样我觉得独立性强一些，不会有一种被迫依赖感。有谁也这么想吗？
超级同意 我就不懂为什么出去吃饭花钱就是男方的事情
中国传统的男尊女卑的思想一直都没有改变，只是演变成其他方式了而已。但是因为科技的发展，女性的进步更大，所以导致很多问题。以前的女性选择配偶更多的是为了有个依靠，但是现在很多女性能自己赚钱买房买车，能把自己的生活过得多姿多彩，我们需要的更多的是精神上的支持和尊重。希望男性也不要总是用固有的观念看待所有的女性同胞，也不要总是用性侮辱，民族情节来诋毁女性。世界都全球化了，希望大家都能思想更开阔一下。女性朋友图钱也好，追求自由平等也好，都是要有所付出的，请不要总是只看一时的得失。独立的女性更懂得，自己拼搏才有资格享受平等，才能赢得尊重。
天下没有免费的午餐。就算是天上掉馅饼，不是自己创造的，大家也不会懂得珍惜。
还有，如果男性同胞们自己都没有独立，还要依靠父母来生活，我想他们是没有资格评论女性的。
资本论说得对，经济基础决定上层建筑，如果不用父母买房和各种经济支持，他也可以像外国男人一样不顾爹妈的想法，所以买房这个和爹妈看法的重要性绝对是直接挂钩的。二来有些外国的父母真的只管到大学，后面的就自己出去租房，甚至孩子大学都是申请的贷款，如果外国父母像中国父母一样全程保驾护航，那么说话的含量自然重很多。当然大部分的外国父母也并不想过多插手孩子的生活。不过，婚后也如此，任何一方放弃经济支配就放弃了家里的话语权。说到底，权利，掌握在自己手中才能立于不败之地。
qiuqiu 这个说的很对！
在理
兄弟 你怎么不说国外政府政策好 澳洲local学生都有hecs无息贷款 另外学费相对低很多 完全不用父母保驾护航好吗...
Neo Hyde 我在美国不知道澳洲怎么样，但是我可以很负责的跟你讲，福利再怎么好没有父母的支持都无比困难。我朋友，贷款上的州立大学，本州的州立大学学费很便宜了，读完后学生贷款加利息要还十年，上学时加上去餐馆打工挣房租和生活费，捉襟见肘。毕业后有很多人逃助学贷款有的就躲到国外去。按照你的说法没有父母帮助，给你算一笔，按我呆的小城市美国一般大学生刚出校门能挣3000都是高于平均收入，医保+税后+养老估计也就剩2000左右，贷款买车月息算200，车保险算100，房租700，5w的学贷加利息还十年平均一个月至少400多，水电煤气垃圾清洁，衣服烟酒食物我还没算呢，我不知道你这个过的好是怎么得出来的。你可以说我工资算低了，按大城市的算，那房租等生活成本也要大幅上涨。你能这么说我估计你应该还在学校或者没贷过款，为什么好多学校里亚洲人成绩普遍好，因为他们真的就只用愁学习，大多数的美国人，下了课就要去上班，回到家累的跟狗一样还要继续学习。所以为什么外国人普遍敢跟父母叫板，而国人大多都是父母为大。跟各国父母付出多少分不开的。
qiuqiu 这个也有文化问题吧，其实大部分经济条件不错的外国的父母也会在孩子成年后承担学费、生活费的，他们打工赚的钱都是买自己喜欢的东西。在中国哪怕经济独立的人（有稳定收入，不需要父母买房买车）也更在意父母的意见，不论男女。
Hahahahahaha! This is so funny in a good way. 😂 Watching from the Philippines.
哈哈哈 这配乐给个赞😂😂
大家都有自己的性格, 不是每个中国男朋友都是这样的,也不是每个外国男朋友都是这样的,不能以国家而论个人的性格。
那些和高贵的白皮交往过的 衷心祝你们幸福 求你们千万千万千万不要回来了 中国水平配不上你们啊 最重要中国人真的不想接白皮的盘 留给高贵的白皮大人继续接 千万不要想找中国人啊我们尊重你们 也请你们尊重我们😁😁
一叶知秋 别把微博那一套带油管来 educate yourself
It's just every culture have its own habits. We just have to care and understand our partners no matter where he's come from or what culture does he has 😊
Anyway, I'm Indonesian born Chinese😅
😂 I’m not sure if it’s a chinese thing but my husband definitely takes care of me like that during my time of the month
I died when Whitney started playing...I died again at that weak marriage proposal 😂😂😂😂
I need to get myself a Chinese boyfriend to support my eating habits.
我要一个男朋友因为它可以给我钱吃饭😂😂。
看你的视频帮我学中文，谢谢😊😊
You need to visit China one day😀
me too lol
最近遇到很多人问 为什么现在更多的女生愿意找外国男生 哪怕他没什么钱 没什么很大的志向 反正就我个人而言 现在的女生会洗衣做饭 会赚钱养家 能喝酒打架 我要么单身一个人 要么找个至少能尊重我的男人 我不需要什么暖不暖心的 别让我糟心就行 反正现男友(洋人) 挺符合我要求的 至於 大部分的中国男生还是比较大男子主义 本人呢 不该接受
Rain Tong 同意啊 前男友的妈一直在破坏我们的关系, 导致后来分手。中国男就是妈说什么就是什么, 让他跟他妈过一辈子吧
94妈宝男就适合跟妈妈过一辈子，不要再找女人了、感觉他们根本不需要女友。
没错说的对🤷🏻♀️
傻逼吧女权癌
不要一竿子打翻一船人，中国男现在也有不少尊重女人理解女人的好男人
哈哈哈好有意思呀。
Honestly shall I show this video to my British bf? He never understands me 😂 When I get mad, he's like 'okay I ll hide myself', and I'm like....😐
I’m a western girl, I like Chinese boys or Asian boys in general ❤️but our western boys have their perks too 💗
That chinese boyfriend. I want a boyfriend like him 😍
Jared真的太可愛啦 😆
我男朋友也是外国人，他真的很体贴很可爱温柔，也很尊重我的意愿。
为什么要让男朋友找父母要钱买房子？？？
说实话 感觉杰里德更成熟
The bill part is so true. I don't have a boyfriend but my chinese male friend always pay the bill before I even see it 😅
Love your vid Kevin😂
个人觉得这个不是应该简单的片面选择，中国人有好有坏，外国人也一样，并不是一些简单的标准能概括一切的.还是得看自己的感觉 跟身边中国/外国人.
true... but western boyfriends are mostly like "you good?? what's up with you lol" XDD
刚 dating 阶段坚决 AA 付款自己的部分，即便最后 dating 过后不合适，要分开，那么谁也不欠谁的。一直有这个 ”不想给别人添麻烦“ 的心态，导致一直单着 hhhhh 所以有时候 allow 对方支付一下也无妨的。
開啟 talk 模式！ 哈哈哈，真是這樣。
Please tell me baby
We can talk about that.
There is obviously something,please tell me
Talk talk talk. Ahahaha!!!
I love him so much
老公就是老外，嘴上说的真的是很好听，实际行动什么都没有
IK C523 香港人也是
洋人以前就是来亚洲传教的， 香港是洋人丢弃亚洲老婆的地方
深有同感
这都因人而论 性格成长环境等和哪个国家的真没多大关系
Su Yarman 还是很不一样的，大环境，文化背景对人的影响还是很大的
Su Yarman 关系真挺大
Su Yarman 是的，因人而异，因家庭教育，和国家没什么关系……老外和亚洲人人都差不多
和国家什么关系 解释解释？？
Camille Z 1^^^\5°
超爱大姨妈那一段那个报警铃哈哈哈哈
外国男生其实有时候会更温柔，更细心。他们更会表达自己的感情，更会表达爱你。没有哪个好还是不好，只是自己如果更适应哪种相处模式。只要两个人在这段感情中舒服，和哪国人真的没有关系。
自己买房子为什么要父母出钱？父母养我们已经够辛苦了！如果没钱买房可以先租房等有钱了再买啊！
大姨妈外国人的那个态度太对了！！！
自持女友的夢想 真的很讚， 很多想法真的不一樣喔， 像是買房子的事， 只要是華人 父母都會替小孩想， 幫小孩留房子或買房子， 我是印尼華僑， 印尼華僑 就是這樣，結婚 父母會準備房子， 外國人就不一樣 聽說 外國人 都比較不會這樣做， 可是我覺得 那是好的事 讓孩子獨立 只要自己有手有腳 能自己賺，為什麼還要請父母買？ 父母那麼辛苦養我們 還要請他們買房子 這點 我非常贊成， 文化不同
您的中文非常好👍！
”外國妹子大姨媽一般不怎麼痛“ 哈哈哈
我男友也是中国人，但很尊重我的事业和决定啊，还是因人而异吧
这个对比真是没什么意思, 而且这个偏见的有点严重了吧? 人的个性是由他是哪个国家的人决定的吗? 换句话说,国外也有妈宝也有不尊重对方意见的人, 国内同时也有尊重对方选择,留给对方空间的人. 请不要一概而论,更不要以管窥豹,盲人摸象 好吗
说得没错，我觉得不能把国内国外好几十亿男人都刻板化脸谱化。国内照样有尊重女人的好男人，国外也有那种不尊重女人很大男子主义的男人，不明白为什么这里有不少女人都不分青红皂白地诋毁中国男人
亚洲女性比较崇拜白人，日本中国越南等，找了外国男友就看不起自己种族的男性了。。身边好多例子。可能还是跟民族自尊心没完全恢复有关，如果现在是黄种人强势恐怕就不会觉得找白人多么优越了，白人的哪些特点又会变成缺点了，哪个种族都有尊重和不尊重女性的人，你交你的外国男友但不要一杆子打翻中国男性。文化不同生活不同好好适应和白人男友的生活，不要妄加评论，言论显得你真的太幼稚。
@@drsylar9291 你说的没有错，不能一竿子打翻中国男性。可是你一上来就一杆子打翻了不只是中国女性，连亚洲女性也一起背锅了呢。我反倒看到评论里也有很多女生都是偏爱中国男生的。
我笑死了 好真实 真的是不停cue let's talk！we need a talk！
有些真的好好看，房子问题很赞，对待女友关于大姨妈的好像有些老美他们也很贴心吧，习惯不一样，但是还是找自己喜欢的人。自己的北方老牛就很好嘻嘻
我喜欢外国长大的中国男生，因为我也是这个类型的......基本上你自己是什么类型的人，跟同类的相处起来就最自然轻松吧，好沟通。
Talk 你妹啊😂😂😂
大姨妈那个真可爱哈哈，
我的妈呀。国外男孩没谈过不清楚。但国内男孩这个演的的确有点意思。大姨妈情景，现任男友真的就是这么贴心，能被他发自内心的关心和心疼是超级暖心的其实。然后前任男友妈宝情节那里也差不多就是这么回事儿。
😂😂 I never meet a western that caring
这应该是把大数据中比较明显的对比拿出来放在两个个体上了，实际上哪有都是这样啊。作为一个经济实力不错的女生，个人更喜欢“外国男友”的相处模式，不在乎AA制，比如你付一顿我付一顿或者都拿点钱出来作为公用都没问题，只要别锱铢必较我花300你也要花300就好，对于买房也没太大执念，买肯定是要买了，但是在条件不允许而需要父母大出血的情况下还是算了，可以暂缓。姨妈的问题确实是，有些习惯什么的很不一样，我在国外感觉国外女生都不来大姨妈似的365天活蹦乱跳，外国男生不懂这些都很正常的，只要对双方的不同抱开放态度就好，即他不知道，我跟他说过，可以理解或者不能理解但记住并尊重就好，同理对于他的不同我也会这态度。当然也有的女孩就想当贤妻良母，可能更喜欢传统一点的相处模式。所以各有各的好，没有最好只有适合。
xiangx meng 关于姨妈，就说个我知道的事实，德国这边学校的体育课会给女生放假，如果女生来大姨妈。至少我在国内还需要额外请假才行，所以至少德国的男人应该都知道那几天女生会不舒服吧。
Svenja Roe 男生具体怎样我不知道哈，毕竟没有那么熟的外国男性友人可以让我问他这个问题。就我而言，我的一大票外国女性友人（意大利的）一年365天每天见到她们都是活力满满心情阳光，完全无法从她们的活力或者心情上来判断她们哪天来大姨妈。你说的体育课放假会不会是老师觉得月经期剧烈运动对身体不太好而放假，不一定是因为痛经呢？？
唔 疼也是吃止痛药的 我同学还给我推荐好几种药。。而且冰淇淋，冰水，冰可乐 什么的百无禁忌吃
保持经济独立对婚恋中的双方都有好处。这不是说你要和对方锱铢必较，而是有意识地去互相尊重。
We don't talk anymore用的真是恰到好处哈哈哈哈。