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- Hey Loves, In this video, I answer your questions with my friend Jola Ayeye. Co Host of the popular Nigerian podcast, I SAID WHAT I SAID. ISWIS
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I thoroughly enjoyed this video, Maybe because we are around the same age. All through my 20s I never made finding a husband my prayer point, the major thing in my head was getting a good job(which I eventually did when when I turned 30) infact that was the only thing I prayed and fasted about 😅. I’m living in my answered prayers.I’m 2yrs on the job now and it still feels so surreal😍. At some point after getting this job, family members wanted to rob me off my joy by reminding me I wasn’t married at 31/32, I almost fell for it but they failed. I go on dates, talk to men but nobody can put me under any pressure abeg,the right man will come when it’s time. I forgot to mention, I’m living in my dream apartment, going on my first vacation this year. The kind of people(men and women) I meet now motivate me not to be mediocre. Even my colleagues… let me stop this epistle here 😂it’s already looking like “Testimony time”
So happy for you. I smiled reading this. Thank you for sharing.❤
😂😂😂 love the testimony
So glad you're in a happy place
I love and tap into your testimony ❤️
I forgot to add, I don’t think Praying for a husband in your 20s is a bad thing if that’s what you want. To each their own.
Jola is such a grounded, intelligent and funny individual; Dimma is sound normally. I genuinely enjoyed this adult conversation, it was impactful.
the way Jola starts off so calm then bam!
Contents from Dimma are like therapy and online sister giving you advice. Obviously a must watch for me when I get home, I will watch this with a snack
Not me and my partner pausing the video at intervals to agree and chip in our two cents like Dinma and Jola can see or hear us😂Well, it's 1am here and I can tell you we haven't been able to finish the video.
Well done Queen Dims, May God bless you, keep you and let His light shine upon you always.
Honestly! We should have a first daughter or first children conference, because Omo! There’s so much to be talked about. For me, I started being sò responsible at a really young age and rn I’m just at the point where I’m like, I want to be babied, like I want to feel taken care of. It’s so crazy 😩
You getttt😩
Honestly I agreee
I can so relate
I genuinely suggest that Jola should write a book❤😊
Love this and is still watching. I just want to note, men have a biological clock too. The older they get, the more their sperm replicate, the more errors are in the DNA. This result in a higher chance of the child having disabilities and other issues. So for both genders, the older we all get, the more complicated it is for us to have a healthy children.
This !
Okay i never knew this.
It's always about women every single time.
Thanks for the information
Sort of but not in the same way as women. A man can decide to start having kids biologically at 40 the same can’t be said for women
@@taii_chii6782 women are starting families over 40 at a very high rate. Is it the best or ideal? No. Same for men. His sperm is healthier when younger, so it is also not ideal for him to start a family at 40. I am a Biologist speaking; who worked in reproductive health for years.
@@JustUchey I try my best to state it when I hear messages like this. Early on in my career I was taught this and it was an eye opener. I hardly ever hear it being mentioned. And in most cases we can see the evidence. So I try to educate when I can.
Jola’s views are so refreshing. Such maturity!
Huge advocate of horizontal networking! Networking is just forming relationships; never force it no matter who you’re talking to or what their level is. Just be yourself, let things flow naturally, and put yourself out there! It’ll be fun
Montessori is a style of teaching which encourages 'following the child' method. It is not the traditional classroom setting. It incorporates daily life into teaching from toddler age. So instead of being too focused on academic activities, it focuses on teaching skills instead for toddlers up to age 6.
So activities like washing dishes, peeling an egg, cleaning up, climbing a staircase, care of self and the environment e.t.c are the primary focus at that age to build confidence and focus while building fine motor and sensory skills as well as laying the foundation for mathematics and language by exploration. the curriculum is focused on each child and not the class. In some cases, children of different age groups are put together for instance 0-3 in same class, 3-6 in same class and the concept is to build leadership and social skills such that the older kids are able to help the younger kids in learning and direction so your kids change classes only 4 times in their primary years.
The classrooms are set in a manner of progression. And teaching is based on how well they are able to complete a set of tasks/activities based on the child's learning pace before they can move to the next progression. teaching is group based and one on one. The aim is to build mastery in those activities and self sufficiency.
Proper Montessori is actually one the best methods of educating a child from age 1 to 6. My kids attended Discovery House in Lagos and it was one of the best decisions
If you are looking for where your child can come first and read times table before they are 3, this is not for you o. lol
Lol
I have loved Montessori since I heard EmmaOhMyGod child talk
I so desire Montessori for my kids
Their intonation and pronunciation is great
I just love how Jola talks. I’m sure she hears that a lot and see how calm and composed she is. Love it ❤❤
I took my time to listen to this from A-Z. The reason why I subscribed to this channel and stayed back till date is your mentality Dinma. You literally speak my mind about so many issues.
You gettt????
I feel like saving this video till I’m in a good place to really get into it!
I’m so excited🎉💃🏾
Your QnAs are elite!!! and this one features Jollz
(screaming internalllyyyy)😂😂❤
Such a wholesome session. Well done Dimma and Jola ❤❤. Your friendship shone through this video ❤❤
You two possess a wealth of wisdom and it's always a delight listening to you both.
When I watch Dimma's Q and As, I always have a pen and book with me. The wisdom these women dish out is immaculate. I figured out a lot about myself from this channel; my body type, scent, makeup, skincare. Please, don't stop having these honest, raw and important discussions. Thank you Dimma and Jola!
I enjoyed every minute of this! Thank you Dinma! You and Jola gave me snippets of life that I needed!
Commenting even before I watch because I know it’s gonna be premium content🥳🥳🥳
Yay!!!! This video is long overdue!!!
Yaaay🎉
Dimma and Jola
My faves in one videoooo💃🏼💃🏼😍❤️❤️
Woooooooow was my first thought thank you Dim dim , my friend is jealous of you she says I am obsessed with you. How can I not be , you are making me smile amidst the chaos around me rn ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was such a lovely video, I enjoyed every bit of it.
The importance of curating the right circle and friendship group, can't be overemphasized.
I also made a friend from listening to ISWIS❤
Thank you so much for making my night😊
A good watch to relieve stress from hospital workkk… my night looks so sweet already 🎉
Dimma and Jollzz my absolute favs ❤❤❤
Dimma amd Jola the wisdom you have is too much. Oppor!!! The energy and eveything about this video is lovely.
Just the notification I was waiting for. Well done Dim Dim
I enjoyed this soo much ! I listen to ISWIS and love how Jola talks about her friendships whenever she has a chance to !
I've jotted down that hack about dealing with hyperindependence as a first daughter !! very very key 😂
My slippers almost cut running to this video!😂
I've been waiting for it💃🏽☺️
I totally enjoyed this conversations and most especially Dimdim’s content. Thank you for bringing Jola again. 👏🏻👏🏻🤗🤗🥰🥰
Jola thank you so much for that ending part of this lifestyle trap it’s not normal. Like unnecessary pressure we put on ourselves. I love this episode so much Dinma
Best friday gift!!! Thank you Dimma
I love watching your videos EVERY TIME! There are lessons and love in every one.
I am in my early 20’s and this is so inspiring and informative. Love this❤
This was so refreshing as always. I enjoyed watching and i love Jola's personality. Thanks for sharing quality content always.
this feels like big sisters chat. love you guys!
Wowwwwww!!! Screaming Consistency ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ahhh !!! I tap from this strength 🤲🤲
My loves o, the loves of my entire life 😍😍😍😍 so good to see you guys again o ❤
This video is very entertaining, enlightening, and informative. Dimma's videos always have a positive takeaway. Love your friendship.
I actually watched all 1hr+ of this video…even the ads
Because DimDim and Jolz were dropping gems 💎 🙌🏽
Thank you for filming and sharing❤️
Dimma and Jola…. A match made from heaven 😍😍😍
55:18 this right here is so true. When you see people your age doing great stuff, your mind can’t be at rest.
I always love videos with Jola in it 🥹❤️ you two talk so intelligently
What Dim Dim said about personal style is so on point. That is exactly what I am doing
O my Lord
It's Christmas 😊
Over 1Hr video with Jola
I really loved Dimma’s response to the girl who felt undeserving. It resonated with me
Thank you so Dimma and Jola
I really needed to hear a lot of the things you talked about in this video.
Thank God Dimma asked what montessori was for all of us😂😂
Girl I had to go and google too 😅
With Jola?!! this is a real treat!!! thanks dimma
Can’t get over your vlogs ❤❤❤
I've been expecting this video for forever. Thank you ma'am. 😊❤
Awww I love how they got into reading 🥺
Jola makes me happy, her answer to the dream destination question was so funny to me
Dim Dim ...Fire!!!!!!
Jola! ....chapeau!
I am currently doing my masters in education and I was learning about Montessori today, when Jola mentioned it, it made me happy.
Jola is just that friend that is always a joy to be around. Lovely video❤❤ and funny too.
Please Dimma ,tell us about your skin care routine, your skin is really glowing
Ahn ahn she has a lot of those videos
Wholesome AF!🥺
Love this video so much. Thank you so much ❤❤
This combo 😭❤️❤️❤️
Present 🙌
I really enjoyed this video.. Jola and Dinma combo is always a hit! 😅😅
Dimma and Jola.... I love you guys so much... Thank you so much for the many enlightenment on issues bothering young ladies ❤❤❤❤❤
This video is so insightful...Thank you dimma❤
I love this video Mehn ! Well done everything was so apt
I absolutely loved this video!
The duo we never knew we needed ❤❤❤
See eh.... I feel like walking into the screen to join this gist live... Chineke... I always enjoy your content
I thoroughly enjoyed this. JOLA IS SUCH A VIBE!!!😂😂😂❤
I really enjoy this duo's Q and A's. I'm a first daughter and first child as well and these advice somehow feel like they're coming from a big sister perspective. I love you guys❤
I really really enjoyed this video. Like really really, cleared up alot of lifestyle opinions I had in life. Thank you Dimma and Jola
About finding your style, Jola spoke my mindddd. I am into bubu because my body has changed, I can't be wearing clothes and be looking like Shrek.😂. I so love bubu gowns now. I just love comfort for the life of me.
I also followed Dimma because she had close to my body type. It's really important to dress according to your body type.
No not Shrek! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂you're so funny !!
I enjoyed this conversation.
It was so insightful and therapeutic.
"we can talk" 😂😂😂
"Be intentional with the people you surround yourself with." 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
I think the correct word is - Culminate.
Jola was such a good guest here.
🤣🤣🤣 Everything Everywhere was so chaotic abeg.
Great talking with so many tips and advice especially on friendship and ambition.
Thanks, Dimma and Jola. ❤❤❤
I'm so glad I stayed till the end
It felt like big sisters and the conversations were so relatable and I learnt a lot.
You ladies are hilarious 😂😂😂😂
Energy from the get-go!!!!!!!
oyaaaaaa!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
See women with common sense. Love love love Jola! 😃😃
This was a wholesome conversation, I loved every bit of it!
Wow you are your friend are amazing thank you so much for bringing the topic here I really appreciate❤
I really enjoyed watching this video. Thank you so much for knowledge shared Dim Dim❤❤
Omg Jola's personality is amazing ❤
Forth Wing is my first fantacy read and i love it. good work ladies
The gradual unfolding of the two of you was so fun and unexpected at the same time😅❤
Thouroughly enjoyed this!!❤❤
Not me watching and making my nails myself! i really love you guys. so relatable
That last question, love the answers 👌🏼 💯
This video is the best. Pure and honest conversation 😍
I can’t believe I watched this Q n A Session to the end🥺
Too juicy and Educating..
Rich rich chat. Thank you Jola and Dimma 😘😘
I enjoyed this video. The raw honesty. God bless your friendship.
Thank you Dimma❤
U guys were so on point in a lot of things, well said guys
I truly enjoyed and relate with every word in this video. I am very grateful for this video.
Thank you Donna for this video, enjoyed it 😂❤
Absolutely love this episode ❤
My new found fave❤❤❤... Ma'am Dim Dim
Thoroughly enjoyed watching this. I love to laugh so this was easy for me.
Totally enjoyed this video ❤
I thoroughly enjoyed this video!!! Kai! Maybe because it’s so relatable, maybe because they are my faves, maybe because I’m at that age.
The part where Jola talked about dating first born sons being the hack for dealing with hyper independence as the first day….i screamed so much because that is so me!!! It’ll be great if someone takes the burden off me. I too am someone’s child bikozienu, I am a baby oooo.
Anyway, always here to support my girls. Love you so much Dimma, thank you for these videos and the conversations that emanate from them. I wish you all the best and I hope you keep crushing it my darling ❤️