I am so sorry sweetheart. I can see your pain in wanting to find that right person so that your children can bond with them also. My hubby was a blind date / double date and we hardly even talked to each other for the first few dates. They were also like group dating with all of their friends. He wasn't what I was looking for but he was exactly who I needed. At the point that I started dating him I didn't trust myself anymore and what I was attracted to because of my track record. I am so happy that I decided to keep trying with him and we just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary in May and we have been together for 34 years in April. My hubby was too much of a nice guy that I didn't feel that spark with him. Once I fell in love with him, it all changed! I hope you find your other person and no longer have to put yourself through these dates. Sending you tons of love. 💖
In the wild. 😂I think a note wouldn't be too forward. I guy did that to me when I was on the train in France and we became pen pals. Not that you would get a pen pal, lol. But he was cute so I contacted him, unfortunately I lived in the states but we would have gone out otherwise. 😁 So sorry about your date! As sucky as that guy was, it is great that you will now not compromise your needs and boundaries. Your person is out there and they will adore and respect you! 💓
I'm so sorry to hear about the date 😢 he was disrespectful. I hope you blocked him. Unfortunately, I can relate - I keep meeting men that just want sex and say very vulgar things to me. I've had married men hit on me. it's gross. I hope you find your forever person soon 💗
I'm so sorry about how your dates have gone. Some dudes are seriously gross 🤮. Is there an option on Hinge to have only women as your preference for a while? Because if all those men are acting like that I'd switch it up for a bit until they chill out.
Can you not make these things clear to people in your dating profile? That could make a good filter. Or does that happen already and they just ignore it? Ever see some dude in the library when you go get books? Love and hugs, Chanel.
I live in an area where it’s all families and retired folk - never seen someone I’d be interested in at the library unfortunately And ppl don’t really care about your profile preferences - I say I’m only looking for monogamy and I get poly people and couples messaging me 🤷🏻♀️
Thanks so for sharing so much with us. ❤
Any time!
I am so sorry sweetheart. I can see your pain in wanting to find that right person so that your children can bond with them also. My hubby was a blind date / double date and we hardly even talked to each other for the first few dates. They were also like group dating with all of their friends. He wasn't what I was looking for but he was exactly who I needed. At the point that I started dating him I didn't trust myself anymore and what I was attracted to because of my track record. I am so happy that I decided to keep trying with him and we just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary in May and we have been together for 34 years in April. My hubby was too much of a nice guy that I didn't feel that spark with him. Once I fell in love with him, it all changed! I hope you find your other person and no longer have to put yourself through these dates. Sending you tons of love. 💖
Your love story gives me hope 💜
In the wild. 😂I think a note wouldn't be too forward. I guy did that to me when I was on the train in France and we became pen pals. Not that you would get a pen pal, lol. But he was cute so I contacted him, unfortunately I lived in the states but we would have gone out otherwise. 😁 So sorry about your date! As sucky as that guy was, it is great that you will now not compromise your needs and boundaries. Your person is out there and they will adore and respect you! 💓
You’ve given confidence to go ahead with the notes
@@chaneldays Yayyy
I'm so sorry to hear about the date 😢 he was disrespectful. I hope you blocked him. Unfortunately, I can relate - I keep meeting men that just want sex and say very vulgar things to me. I've had married men hit on me. it's gross.
I hope you find your forever person soon 💗
Damn girl seems like we’re both in the trenches
Hope someone lovely comes along and spares us from gross men
I'm so sorry you had that experience with that pig! Ugh
I got mad on your behalf as you were talking about him! Gross.
lol yep it was way worse than I could say online, some men really have no issue saying unprompted vulgar things
I'm so sorry about how your dates have gone. Some dudes are seriously gross 🤮. Is there an option on Hinge to have only women as your preference for a while? Because if all those men are acting like that I'd switch it up for a bit until they chill out.
lol yes and that is exactly what I have done for now
Can you not make these things clear to people in your dating profile? That could make a good filter. Or does that happen already and they just ignore it? Ever see some dude in the library when you go get books?
Love and hugs, Chanel.
I live in an area where it’s all families and retired folk - never seen someone I’d be interested in at the library unfortunately
And ppl don’t really care about your profile preferences - I say I’m only looking for monogamy and I get poly people and couples messaging me 🤷🏻♀️
@@chaneldays So dude did a double boundry disrespect. Oh, then the thing after. Triple. I apologize for all of manhood.