Making Friends on the Road is Complicated | living in my suv full time
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I'm not even living the nomad life and I spend 90% of my time alone by choice. There's peace in alone time. I'm sure safety on the road is something to be more aware of, but I feel perfectly safe alone.
Me too.
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Me too!
I love being alone! I used to go to movies and concerts alone all the time. Nowadays I'm a homebody, and I love it. There are no plans for a partner or a "best buddy" to do things with. I'm happy by myself with my books, shows, & art. Alone does not mean lonely. 😁✌️❤️
I spend most of my time alone or with my dogs now. I go out alone and on holiday alone too. I had friends, but discovered that they werent true friends and I would rather be alone than put up with the chaos and drama some people feel they need to surround themselves with. I got tired of being the person everyone went to, to provide solutions, solice and far too often, money, (loans never repaid), to help sort their mess out. When I needed help, they vanished into thin air, only to re-appear when they had another problem they wanted me to solve. Sometimes it's hard not having someone around to call on if needed, but on balance, I would rather that then be in the company of perpetually chaotic and selfish parasites. Harsh words, but gleaned from past experience. I agree, being alone does not equate to being lonely.
also, "social" media is not a good way to gauge people. People only post positive aspects of themselves (hiding negatives), so its easy to be fooled and scammed. Gut instinct is often superior, the old school way. People buried in their Iphones, oblivious to their surroundings is a red flag. People and society seemed much richer and meaningful and happier before facebook, etc.
@cr3237 Exactly! Been there done that, no more for me!
Very true
I am very much an introvert & love this idea soooo much, I'm probably 20 yrs older than you and disabled, but still dream of this life, thank you for letting me live vicariously through you, until maybe some day I can live it myself😉.
As a full time van lifer, I'm way more cautious then when I had apartments in NY! And first starting Van life is a shell shock at first! You have to give yourself time to adapt, adjust to it! It's not easy All the time! Vanlife is mostly depending on yourself and God! Not someone holding your hand!
Funny you posted this. I was catching up on your videos last night; haunted apartment, set up, trailer damage, in the hotel, etc. So today, I’m in Texas traveling, and I look up and there is a woman that looks like you and a dog that looks like Pippa. I was like whatttttt! 😂 Anyway thanks for teaching me how to safely travel in my car. 💕
Frankly I've been so victimized alone in a building where I'm stuck, that having a home I can use to travel away from danger is looking better and better every day. Stix & brix = a sitting duck for predators, imho 🤷🏾♂
My landlord was a creep, i am done with landlords as soon as i get my vehicle
I’m Thinking Spring
I will try some time
on the road.
I have an SUV..
I will try your layout..
😊 I’m excited.
Thank you for all
your experience 💞
I feel the same way Brooke just living in my neighborhood. Making friends takes time and even more time to make special friends.
I don’t know why, but I was never afraid. I’ve been doing this for years and no problems. I have moved on several times when I felt uncomfortable, but that’s about it. I’m camping with a group for the winter and don’t like two of the women but I just avoid them. You are never going to like everyone but you can be an adult. Last year I found a group on a FB page but I spent a week with them and they were not welcoming at all. So I found another group and moved. There are lots of nomads out here. And sometimes I travel alone with my dog. It’s all good.
Love spending time with you and Pippa💕🙏Blessings and Much Love❤❤Keep on trucking Brooke! You Are Awesome🤓
I’m so happy I found this channel! I used to be a full-time RVer. My RV got stolen in 2020 and I have been where I am too long! I got to get out so I am going to set my 2006 Chrysler Pacifica upto car camp until I can save up to buy a 5x8 cargo carrier just like you (which is probably why you popped up for me lol) and hit the road.
I will admit that I was scared when I first went out in my RV and then I got super comfortable and I’m having the same feelings about the car. However, I have faith that once I get out there and I’m doing it again I will regainmy confidence but you are 1000% right, you have to do it. You have to try it and the more you do it, the more you get out there, the more confident and comfortable you become.
Thanks for sharing!
Excellent advice. I hope to go full-time in my shuttle bus in the next year. I will be doing trips close to home to get more comfortable.
Thank you for addressing the question I was having about loneliness. 😊
I've just stumbled across your channel and I love it! You're doing your best in a situation and figuring things out as you go. That's very inspirational. Thank you for sharing x
Brooke, I noticed that you've changed the storage arrangement in the back and I have a very similar suv and the same drawer unit, so i was wondering if you would do another quick video on that? Thank you!!
Thanks for the information. I see your point about social media! Makes perfect sense.
Great video! The information is definitely on point! I’m not a fan of social media but was encouraged to join Facebook when I joined RVing Women (RVW) because they post a lot of rallies on the various forums. You are correct in everything you stated! Great job!
Great content! You sound like a competent life coach!! ❤️
So reassuring and helpful, thank you so much
Great content - AGAIN!! I’m not a social person, being content to hangout at the camper, or beach, etc reading or listening to music. This is good info for me to hear! Thanks!
You are wise beyond your years, Brooke! Your comments are insightful & wise. Thank you!
From what I've come to understand is that there is a robust social climate available for those road warriors who do enjoy groups. All one needs to do is find them! By the same token, one must truly enjoy their own company and not feel the need to be entertained constantly to be successful out there. Not a lot of ppl are wired that way. Glad I am. Hooray!
There are definitely groups you can join AND those groups are not 24 hours, 365 days a year. You're with the groups for a certain time and then you're alone for a certain time. You're going to be alone just as much as you're going to be with others, if not more so, so you have to be comfortable entertaining yourself, making random friends, and finding your own way.
@@serenityjewel
Exactly!
Great Advice !! You’re awesome & I commend you for your choice of living 👏
It would be a adjustment for anyone . But it can be done !
Love your pup 🐶 PIPPA 🐶
I can see u!! Fyi i recentlyI read in a magazine that your headrest should be adj. To the
top of your head && if u adjust your seat the headrest should be 2 " away
Get up and go! We only have one life and you can fill it with adventures. Don’t wait on others. I go alone with pets. Let’s goooo!
My late husband hated to be alone, but recognized that I need to be. Even though he did not understand that need, he would leave the house intentionally to give me my alone time.
Thanks, I needed this.
dont mind anybody just take care of yourself and pippa be happy and be safe God will help you!
Such good advice. Thank you.
Try it out at a state park 25 minutes down the road. Lol. Pretty sure you were talking directly to me there.
Thanks Brooke!! Although I’m finding more and more solo women, and older women, who are making that jump they seem to have gone through a similar process in life. The hamster wheel of life definitely is not always fulfilling but it’s familiar. For those of us who have always dreamed of the nomadic life if we don’t jump on the idea life has a way of getting us there!
ty Brooke im gonna try this luv u pippa
I car dwelled for a few months and I have to say it was the most peaceful time in my life but yes...also the loneliest too. Alot of peoplw.think you live in the car..but its really just sleeping. I did alot more outdoors things while I car dwelled. I felt like I was better off and can't wait to do it again.
I think your funny and cheerful.
I like your sence of humour
It's funny I seen someone say that people are quiting van life because they bought land. I truly have no desire to own land! I do own land & a house but when I retire I will sell everything & buy a van & hit the road. I am a nomad at heart. I use every day of my 3 weeks vacation every year plus I get comp time & use probably another week just going places in the United States & exploring! I am a person who can talk to anyone so loneliness is never an issue for me. I love to travel!!I love your channel, so much useful information, I love Pippa too, she is a doll!!
Love your channel!
I’m half introvert and half extrovert. It works for me. I’ll look into your Facebook group.
You are amazing and so encouraging. I’m just starting to outfit my SUV and test the waters of the travel/adventure bug I came out of the womb with. Thank you!
I love the solitude I have. I have no desire to be in a group. I can't wait till I figure out what to do with my prepper room contents. And I live right now in Nebraska, a fairly difficult place to live anyway. I spent many years traveling throughout my life. I like being alone so much!
Actually my cat, Stormy, is all the company I need.
I like this advice 👍
Love Pippa❤
You have the ability to give your honest opinion but encompass differing opinions as well.
You are amazing sister
I'm not suited for the travel life and I'm fine with that. I live vicariously through the CZcams nomads. I've taken my travel trailer to the beach which isn't too far off, and a week of that is plenty for me.
Well said 👏 👌 👍
I have a Honda Pilot great vehicles
How did ppl connect before the digital world!?? 🤷🏼♀️
I thought you had to sell the Honda?
Brooke, could you do this without a pup?❤️
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Wanting to leave an abusive relationship. In my Honda CRV
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Hi Brooke! Are you wearing the cool right top from Wal Mart? I purchased two of them yesterday and, it's so comfy but, when I stick my thumb in the hole like you're doing in this video, it feels weird. Also I have the jackery 240 and it meets my needs perfectly but, when I tried warming the hot pack that you talked about from Target I wondered how long to keep it in my hot logic. I preheat the hot log but, the hot pack still does not get or stay hot. I quit using hot hands because it smells like chemicals and, that makes me feel sick.
I'm a SWF & went full time rv in 2018.. Ive had 3 separate incidents with creepy strangers & was happy I had my 9 & S&W 38. altho Im thinking about getting a stun gun for more flexibility in where I can take it & fit it! I'm wondering if you have a stun gun? Parking in the open like you do at night? If not.. PLEASE GET ONE!! You never think u need one TILL U NEED ONE!!
Stay Safe & Blessed!!
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My problem is I don’t know how to find out where all the BLM land is. Like I’m interested in camping in the southern California area and Arizona. The only BLM land that I know where it’s located is quartzite. I’ve already camp there and I want to expand my horizons, but I don’t know how to find it.
How to find FREE CAMPING!
czcams.com/video/-uiRXE3bZv8/video.html
Dod you say your in an apt now? Travel for fun?
Did you say....
I don't feel like this was harsh at all! If someone finds this harsh, they need to mature more before hitting the road🤷♀️
Do you work in your car?
Yes, I’m a full time CZcamsr
Why do some care? If you're happy doing how you do- keep your path.
What is to be in a caravan???? I do not even know what she is talking about....everybody is more or less on their own.
A 'caravan' is usually three or more vehicles that usually travel together or may met up periodically. They may share resources - three vehicles with one large tent for cooking/ socializing. The up side is safety in numbers. It is common for multiple families traveling with husbands when he is in construction or are utility workers. These families their income may be above average and have nicer RV's/rigs. I find them to be cheerful, very social and welcome newcomers to their group. Long term camping at its best.