We Took a Cruise That we REALLY REGRETTED Booking!

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  • čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
  • After reading numerous reviews and hearing from our friends, we instantly regretted booking this cruise. Was it as bad as we thought it would be?
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    00:00 Intro
    00:17 Why We Regret Booking The P&O Arvia
    03:30 Journey To Southampton
    05:12 Boarding The P&O Arvia
    07:47 First Impressions of The P&O Arvia
    14:56 Sindhu Restaurant Review
    23:54 Stormy Seas on Day 2
    27:28 Booking Dining and Activities on P&O Cruises
    29:28 Problems with P&O Arvia
    32:40 Final Verdict: Regret or Reward on the P&O Arvia?
    34:00 Highlights on the P&O Arvia: What Won Us Over
    35:40 More Problems on our Arvia Cruise
    37:20 Green and Co Restaurant Review
    41:33 More Issues on our Sailing: Bullying and Fights
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Komentáře • 905

  • @Cruisewith
    @Cruisewith  Před 6 měsíci +17

    Head to squarespace.com/benanddavid to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code benanddavid

    • @AmandaMolly
      @AmandaMolly Před 6 měsíci +3

      You guys should invest in wireless microphones to cut out the background noise. There are plenty of options

    • @thesuncollective1475
      @thesuncollective1475 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Are you going to review Sun Princess? We are going on two Jul 24

    • @vafoot
      @vafoot Před 6 měsíci +2

      Ben is exactly right, in the area I grew up we had a saying "You get what you pay for"
      Sordid folks think nothing of it,
      mentally of I paid for this and I will get all I can. Selfness and greed....😢

    • @saramulhern1982
      @saramulhern1982 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thanks for the 10 percent going to give it my best shot! Thanks

    • @rkzagaming5533
      @rkzagaming5533 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey guys, you should go on the P&O Australia one I would like to know your honest opinion on that cruise line myself. I’ve been on it three times it’s not bad

  • @user-py6cc6yi9q
    @user-py6cc6yi9q Před 6 měsíci +304

    Guys - I am devastated that you were subjected to homophobic comments, and the way Gareth Gates was treated is also shocking. Your reviews are so fair and balanced and were the reason I gave in to accompany my best friend on a cruise. We now wouldn’t consider any other type of holiday. Sunday evenings are set aside for your vlogs. Keep up the awesome work!

    • @user-ki3wh1ml2e
      @user-ki3wh1ml2e Před 6 měsíci +13

      I say talking about this sort of thing just feeds the fire. Ignore the Ignorant

    • @duplessis3
      @duplessis3 Před 6 měsíci

      beig quiet enables abusers. they think people agree with them@@user-ki3wh1ml2e

    • @theforest8882
      @theforest8882 Před 6 měsíci

      no one was being homophobic your just looking for a fight stfu and watch the video

    • @were-all-human9427
      @were-all-human9427 Před 2 měsíci

      The Brits at their best.... scum, think how these folks raise their kids... Totally agree with Ben&David its down to the cheap prices, same has happened with airlines and Center Parcs in UK, been going with family since they opened in 1987, and in last 10 years, boy, has the crowd changed...
      Us Brits - well some of us, seem to revel in being 'Karens', and care a toss for surrounding travellers - no filter, no manners, no education.
      The same folk who attack the ambulance and fire fighters we see in the news and on tv - scum. Raising their offspring to do the same.

  • @tony8074
    @tony8074 Před 6 měsíci +257

    Shame on those people that directed abuse at you. You two are the nicest men and I enjoy your channel.

    • @BohemianLifer
      @BohemianLifer Před 5 měsíci +7

      Those people are dangerous to society, not just these two men.

  • @tltfaas
    @tltfaas Před 2 měsíci +16

    I don't know you two personally but I'd be proud to be your mother or fun Auntie. I was a young woman in the 80s with a new, scary job and no friends as I relocated. Someone introduced me to the LGBTQ community and those dear friends watched out for me, they showed me how to have fun, looked after me when I was sick, recommended restaurants and hair dressers. We always had a good time and I felt very much loved by new friends. As I look back on those days they truly were the happiest I've ever been.

  • @ourblazingworld
    @ourblazingworld Před 6 měsíci +122

    I'm glad you stayed professional and carried on despite the inconsiderate people. I had my struggles growing up, and my mama told me something that I have found to still be true even though I'm 60 years old now. People who pick at you or use derogatory terms towards you are so miserable in their own unsatisfactory lives until they have to strike out at those who are living a fulfilling life despite the differences or challenges the face. That helped me get through many situations, especially racism. Keep it in mind when these things happen.

    • @nicelady51
      @nicelady51 Před 6 měsíci

      I agree. They are the least of us, thankfully. Simpletons. Ignoramuses.
      To be overlooked and ignored. They get nothing.

    • @Shello58
      @Shello58 Před 5 měsíci +10

      Well said!

    • @michaeldavis2421
      @michaeldavis2421 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Regardless of the cost if people are so inconsiderate to verbally abuse others then they have no life. Thank you for your video and time.

    • @nicelady51
      @nicelady51 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I'm sorry that you've dealt with racism. It's one thing that is so unnecessary and pointless. I think Blacks are some of the most beautiful people on Earth, inside and out. As a 66 yr old White lady, I too, have felt the scourge of racism. I've experienced Black women being rude to me for no obvious reason other than I'm White. It makes me feel sorry for them, though. Harboring ill feelings against those you don't even know is not good for anyones heart and soul, and it shows very quickly as to what kind of human being you really are. Be of good cheer, at least until someone gives you reason reason not to. Then, simply ignore them and move on. Class dismissed. There will be a test 🤗 ❤

    • @maureen14
      @maureen14 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes, they're narcissists. Energy vampires.They're so miserable that it gives them joy to bring down other people. I know to ignore them now.

  • @patriciameyer5401
    @patriciameyer5401 Před 6 měsíci +15

    How can anybody treat Ben and David badly? They are greatest people I have ever met.

  • @TelinaMunro
    @TelinaMunro Před 6 měsíci +100

    Sorry to hear you had to put up with such bad behavior. Don't let it stop you. Keep living your best life. It really is the best revenge.

  • @rpgamera
    @rpgamera Před 6 měsíci +102

    I think it's fine to have the final sentiment as "It's not for us, but that doesn't mean it's not good for other people"! I've noticed having watched your content over the years that P&O just doesn't seem to tick the boxes you guys want on a cruise, but that's OK! You still had plenty of positives to say: particularly about the affordability and quality of the specialty dining restaurants, which I also agree with having cruised w/ P&O twice.
    I'm really shocked at some of the behavioural examples at the end you shared -- but anyone throwing slurs at you both can get in the bin! 😤

    • @bodyloverz30
      @bodyloverz30 Před 6 měsíci +7

      As an American it truly looks boring throughout! My next British cruise, will be Cunard, a class act through & through!

  • @ZAJDML
    @ZAJDML Před 6 měsíci +86

    We love you guys. My wife and I really enjoy watching your videos. I especially love the way you always express gratitude about being able to experience this lifestyle and recognize that many people in the world cannot. You are well anchored, Ben and David.

  • @Lovesapuzzle
    @Lovesapuzzle Před 6 měsíci +102

    I will admit that I dread running across vloggers. The notion that I could show up on CZcams without my consent is worrisome. I'm pleased that you two respect other cruisers' privacy when creating your videos. Not everyone does.

    • @Lovesapuzzle
      @Lovesapuzzle Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@lxp I go on vacation to go on vacation. I don't go on vacation to photograph, video, create content for a commercial enterprise or be part of others that do those things. I appreciate that it is a hard thing for staff to control but, if it isn't, I fear some people will take matters into their own hands.

    • @Lovesapuzzle
      @Lovesapuzzle Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thank you for those kind words.@@lxp

    • @isabellind1292
      @isabellind1292 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Who's to say who can film and who can't? What about people who're filming every thing they're seeing & doing aboard the ship on their phone? You can't say it's fine for some people but not others. The price of admission for being in public is you can't control which image of yours someone might capture when you're in public.

    • @Merilly
      @Merilly Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@isabellind1292 First of all, a business-owned cruise ship is not a public space. Just like a restaurant or cinema isn't. They are private spaces often owned by businesses and the owners and their staff can decide to ban certain behavior if others complain about it.
      Second, different countries have different rules and laws. In many parts of the EU, it is forbidden to film other people without their consent (and also post it online of course), even in public spaces. The moment you can be identified and that person did not ask for consent to film and post it, you can be sued. Privacy is a big factor for many because they are sick of being filmed all the time. And the same argument could be put in reverse. Who gives you a right to film others without their consent? Being in public doesn't mean you are free to do as you please either. Everyone has a right to be there and not be bothered by others.
      It's why I appreciate it when vloggers are respectful, even if the place allows filming. That means not to put the focus on any stranger and maybe cut out footage that is obviously unflattering for a stranger.
      I would really recommend to read up on rules and laws before going anywhere. If you ever visit an EU country, you might quickly get into trouble if someone catches you recording them.
      Same with spaces that are not public but have rules against filming and recording other people.
      It also should be a no-brainer that private videos are not nearly as bad as posting something online. There is a huge difference if a small family sees the footage vs 400k people. I wouldn't want either but it still makes a difference. The internet never forgets and some things might get that person in trouble as well.
      Once again, a cruise ship isn't a public space. Meaning if many people report you, the crew can decide on behalf of the owner to ban you from doing so.

    • @isabellind1292
      @isabellind1292 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Merilly Who said anything about filming anyone w/o their consent? Who goes around filming who has to ask everyone who may be in the shot, permission? That's just ridiculous. Please cite me anywhere it says people are not permitted to film anything they like on a cruise ship. Thank you.

  • @andoru
    @andoru Před 6 měsíci +17

    Having no music outdoors just sounds like paradise. I like to relax, read my book and listen to nothing but the ocean.
    If I was on the cruise where the lounge-reservation thing was as bad as that, then I'd just chuck the towel off one and tell anyone that came along that no, this one was empty when I got here.

  • @KNPrince
    @KNPrince Před 6 měsíci +14

    To those that chose to be homophobic to you two.. I am a gay man myself.. and I stand with you proudly. Had I been there I think I would have told them exactly were to go.. along with a few ugly words of my own! I will not stand for bully-like behavior!
    Keep doing what your doing guys.. Love your channel and I get to live vicariously through you.. Have always wanted to take a cruise! and I love your channel even more cause your British.. I am Canadian so your like my cousins from across the big pond!

  • @alexandriajohnson6656
    @alexandriajohnson6656 Před 6 měsíci +53

    Ben and David, I'm so sorry you had a bad experience on this voyage. Please be comforted in the knowledge that your loyal viewers(like me 😊)care and have genuine admiration for you both❣️

  • @josephmauricio9606
    @josephmauricio9606 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I literally can just listen to u guys talk all day even if it’s absolutely about nothing. Those accents are so amazing ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @allisonabbott-kline4765
    @allisonabbott-kline4765 Před 6 měsíci +29

    As an ally and Mom just know the greater CZcams community love you both!

  • @leahhughes4335
    @leahhughes4335 Před 6 měsíci +67

    Glad I watched this. We are American and my husband asked if we should check out P&O. Now we won’t. The rowdy behavior and rudeness is NOT our idea of fun. I’m very sorry you were harassed. Also, I agree about the sterility. It did look very airport-like.

    • @michelemottram5998
      @michelemottram5998 Před 6 měsíci +7

      I sailed on this ship In July and it was beautiful we didn’t encounter anyone behaving that way 😊

    • @Bubby869
      @Bubby869 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Same. I had an idea that P&O might be a Cunard-ish experience…a little more formal, maybe a break from the relentlessness of Americans. But no. This doesn’t sound like a break from anything.

    • @leahhughes4335
      @leahhughes4335 Před 6 měsíci +9

      @Bubby - you’re replying to an American here so watch your words. That was rude. You should fit in on P&O then.

    • @michelemottram5998
      @michelemottram5998 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@leahhughes4335 why is it rude

    • @Bubby869
      @Bubby869 Před 6 měsíci +6

      I’m sorry. I did not mean to be rude. I meant that I feel overwhelmed by the cultural dominance when a ship is overwhelmingly American.

  • @cookeeee1962
    @cookeeee1962 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Dear Ben & David , I have discovered you both today while I am resting after cancer treatments.
    I really love cruising with you and laughing at your humor. It's a good escape . It doesn't sound that easy to film etc. So thank you & take care ❤

    • @PamelaBos
      @PamelaBos Před 2 měsíci

      I ran across them recovering from knee surgery! What a great find. Wishing you wellness!

    • @lindap.p.1337
      @lindap.p.1337 Před 2 měsíci

      I hope you are doing well. Am hoping for your full recovery.

  • @Ted_K_Have_a_nice_day
    @Ted_K_Have_a_nice_day Před 6 měsíci +55

    Hi Guys. Thanks for the video. After that Margarita vile cruise from a couple months ago, I thanked you for taking one for the team. After this one, I am wishing you wouldn’t have had to have gone on this one. It only takes one Ass to really ruin the whole trip. It’s unfortunate that those rude people can have such an impact on you. It’s easier said than done to ignore the sort of behavior you talked about.
    I’m glad that the line chucked some of the people when you got to port. It’s unfortunate the captain doesn’t have the legal ability to set them adrift while you’re still at sea (i think I’m just joking….🤔)
    Hope you have a great Christmas and holiday time! You’ve become a part of our family with your weekly Sunday visits, so please know there are more people who think you are pretty wonderful than the few jerks you run into.

  • @principeraphael4859
    @principeraphael4859 Před 6 měsíci +34

    My sympathies for you both for having to deal with those awful chavs. But you must know how much the majority of cruise fans love you! I never miss your videos. So, ignore the noise from the haters and keep the reviews coming. And I even like Ben’s “rubbish” jokes 😊😊😊

  • @user-kz6oz5tv7s
    @user-kz6oz5tv7s Před 4 měsíci +14

    I am disgusted that you have been subjected to such abuse. You are wonderful people and a joy to watch on your cruises, loving your channel... xx

  • @sarahdon3165
    @sarahdon3165 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Am so so sorry to hear that you had to experience this abuse. And the David Bowie comments were totally unacceptable both of these are something that you should have had to endure. It makes me so so upset to think that grown adults have less manners and respect than a 5 year old. Bullying and harassment have no place in our society. Thank you for a true and genuine review of your holiday. I’ve really enjoyed your series and will definitely continue to watch the rest of the uploads on your channel ❤️Thank you for sharing this with us all xxx 😘 xxxx

  • @mikefly562
    @mikefly562 Před 6 měsíci +41

    That huge window in the middle of the ship is so incredibly awesome! Sorry for the abuse on the ship as well...does not seem like a cruise I'd want to go on. If I want to go on a rowdy cruise with fights and other craziness, I could take a 3 day carnival cruise.

  • @tstea2435
    @tstea2435 Před 6 měsíci +27

    Some people are not satisfied until everyone around them are as miserable as they are. I can't imagine adults behaving like such nasty, spiteful juvenile delinquents. You are so sweet and such a bright spot to my week. Don't listen to haters. They just wish they could be you both.

  • @SophieYurr
    @SophieYurr Před 5 měsíci +13

    I'm crying! Ben, I just finished watching you explain the abuse on the ship & my stomach just dropped. Especially when you explained what happened to you & David. I applaud you for being so brave & calm to share what you two endured. I'm so incredibly sorry that happened to you two 😢. Sending lots of hugs! Thank you for another fun & LOVELY review!!!! We are going to "TREAT" ourselves to a RCL cruise first week in February!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @wendypoloway8692
    @wendypoloway8692 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Isn’t it sad that a few people can make what should be a wonderful vacation into a unpleasant experience. I am so sorry you experienced rude comments from fellow passengers…we love and appreciate you both. People can be such jerks 👿

  • @user-dl8eo6zc9z
    @user-dl8eo6zc9z Před 3 měsíci +4

    I don’t know if it still happens, but on Cunard Queen Victoria, there was an official rule that if the sunbed was vacant for 35mins, belongs would be removed and the bed classed as vacant! I think it was printed on a card.

  • @DerekComer
    @DerekComer Před 6 měsíci +44

    My wife and I were on the same cruise and LOVED IT!!! We actually saw you two filming around the ship Funny how people will watch your CZcams videos for ideas about different cruises but then go out of there way to abuse you “some sad people”, Carry on doing what your doing as your both good at it 👍
    Like you said not everyone likes the same things. What I liked was the amount of time I spent with my wife, 9 sea days with no phone or internet or being tide to a time schedule We just did what we wanted when wanted it was great. Meet lots of nice people “also met a few not so nice people”, but overall I’d say 99% of people on board were great.
    Thanks for posting the video and for actually being honest as well 👍👍
    Have a great Christmas 👍🎅🎅

    • @djplays9147
      @djplays9147 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Really glad you enjoyed it as after watching this video my excitement for my upcoming cruise has turned to dread 😢

    • @DerekComer
      @DerekComer Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@djplays9147 we have booked this same transatlantic cruise for October 2025. It was great. We loved it that much

  • @texasboy5117
    @texasboy5117 Před 2 měsíci +2

    There is nothing better than a transatlantic cruise. When you go from East to West you get all those "25-hour" days with the time different time zones.

  • @PamelaBos
    @PamelaBos Před 2 měsíci +2

    Just watched one of your videos yesterday. First time and I am hooked! Your personalities make this channel. I find myself just smiling. I personally hate cruises as I do not like crowds or standing in line or sharing water in pools, hot tubs or sitting in someone’s sweat or having to talk loudly over the music from wherever in comes from. After writing that, I watch because of the two of you (in the comforts of home)! I like peace and quiet and dogs! ❤

  • @granthanham9082
    @granthanham9082 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Keep your chins up and keep the positive attitude Ben and David. You are awesome cruise vloggers.

  • @kendallbird
    @kendallbird Před 6 měsíci +19

    Hello Cruisers. Following since C…vid. Thank you for letting people know that Carnival is not the only line where fights break out. I love your vibe. I’m sorry for encounters with unruly people, but I think you guys try to make the best out of all your travels. Trust you, Houston, Texas🎉

  • @claudiakatrosh8945
    @claudiakatrosh8945 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm so sorry for what you were subjected to from the other passengers. I really appreciate everything you do to give us your real experiences.

  • @Brit637
    @Brit637 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you for another super helpful and entertaining video! I’m so saddened by your and others’ experiences with those passengers aboard though.
    Thank you for sharing your light with the world despite such experiences! Can’t wait for your next video!

  • @donnanemier2000
    @donnanemier2000 Před 6 měsíci +18

    Ben, you're right. We are not all the same, but sometimes you and David have made me look at things in a different way. For instance, your river cruise at Christmas time. I've never considered a river cruise. You presented the experience with such innocent wonder, it seemed magical. I hope some day I meet you both on a cruise.

    • @renarettinger8523
      @renarettinger8523 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Wasn’t that an amazing video. I never was interested in taking a cruise until I saw this cruise. I

    • @georgebuscay8511
      @georgebuscay8511 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I was telling my brother about that river cruise. He has always wanted to go on a cruise, but his wife does not. Since he saw that river cruise, they are talking about going on one. I'm not sure if I ever remember seeing one. Hope they go. Kathleen

  • @DrValerie800
    @DrValerie800 Před 6 měsíci +14

    I would LOVE to do a transatlantic cruise! For me, I couldn't possibly care less about being in the pool (or near it), nor the entertainment. For me it's all about the sea and the various ports visited. So long as the food is excellent and the cabin is clean and quiet, I'm happy (I am quite capable of entertaining myself). It's nice to know there is a budget cruise available; thanks for that.

  • @cindysullivan1540
    @cindysullivan1540 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Appreciate your honest review.

  • @brianfinn8911
    @brianfinn8911 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for the review, appreciate your fair assessment. Cheers.

  • @TheWhitywoo
    @TheWhitywoo Před 6 měsíci +5

    Arvia looks fabulous. Loved our previous P&O cruises. Definitely booking one on her for 2024.

  • @cateycate7238
    @cateycate7238 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I always love watching your videos, and I’m appalled that you guys were subjected to those ignorant people’s bad behaviour.
    Keep doing what you’re doing - you guys are amazing!

  • @OfMiceAndTrains
    @OfMiceAndTrains Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great information about this ship. You guys are great. Keep up the great work

  • @sdol2348
    @sdol2348 Před 6 měsíci +14

    I was on the same cruise as you and did see you around. Didn't want to disturb you as you were filming but so sorry about the behaviour of others.I have to agree with you . I've been on Arvia once before and this time some of the people were awful. Heard lots of different stories about punch ups and lairy behaviour and some of the people were truly angry nasty and rough. Such a shame as it is a great ship and the destination was amazing.

  • @DawnalynForrest
    @DawnalynForrest Před 6 měsíci +3

    Darlings! It’s so good to see you! So you you experienced foul people. I hope you have a lovely week. ❤

  • @crazykdetector2734
    @crazykdetector2734 Před 6 měsíci +6

    You two are so adorable. I enjoy listening to you both. I'm more interested in watching you both than I am about the cruise ships. ❤

  • @karenwarner1517
    @karenwarner1517 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for all the great info!

  • @loveyashua237
    @loveyashua237 Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks for taking the time to provide your honest review.

  • @mrsclairemoose
    @mrsclairemoose Před 6 měsíci +7

    So sorry to hear you had to deal with abuse on board 😢 I look forward to seeing what you thought of your cabin

  • @neilhutton1528
    @neilhutton1528 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I have finally sussed the best ways to watch your videos. I prepare my dinner and then watch it whilst I'm eating.Its a bit like joining you both for dinner and stops me getting very hungry watching you eat all that grub. Enjoyed your video as always and I appreciate your candour. I'm a celebrity kind of guy and I don't think I will be jumping ship any time soon.

  • @mum_with_the_peacock_tattoo
    @mum_with_the_peacock_tattoo Před 6 měsíci +2

    I’m so sorry that happened to you guys, we all love you at our place and only hope we see you on a cruise!!!

  • @susanhenry4341
    @susanhenry4341 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for your honesty

  • @showgirlsaroundtheworldada4484
    @showgirlsaroundtheworldada4484 Před 6 měsíci +6

    The interior looks like a colorblind person designed it. My daddy was colorblind in one eye and just loved beige and brown and white. If they would compliment the interiors with some greenery and or emerald rugs it would sure warm it up. It looks like a doctor's office everywhere.

  • @toujoursici1675
    @toujoursici1675 Před 5 měsíci +3

    You're so professional. What a polite way of saying that the ship was basic af. 😆
    Re getting bashed - I'm sorry, it doesn't matter how many times it has happened, it is always disconcerting to hear a slur, part of that is not knowing if folks are unhinged and if words will turn into violence.
    You are such excellent cruise vloggers and I also appreciate your chemistry - you're a very cute couple!! ❤

  • @lozn3541
    @lozn3541 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Great to chat onboard, it was our first p&O experience, although regular cruisers. Agree with a lot you of things you spoke about. I can now see the difference between the American aesthetic on ships. But i thought the furniture and tableware was quite nice. Maybe neutral and calming for me! Thanks for chatting we ❤you and your vids Laura x

  • @ritagimbel723
    @ritagimbel723 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Ben, love ❤️ your shirts! Thoroughly enjoy your both of your comments every week!

  • @beezig
    @beezig Před 6 měsíci +3

    Hope you guys are ok, NO-ONE deserves to be abused in any way, your better than them, just hold your head up, take care guys. ❤

  • @Lovesapuzzle
    @Lovesapuzzle Před 6 měsíci +4

    I will never understand why people choose to be rude, start fights &/or engage in inappropriate behavior when on vacation. Cruisers know what they signed up for and what will happen if they misbehave.

  • @muddywatersbookshelf7758
    @muddywatersbookshelf7758 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Ben and David, we are so sorry that you endured such harmful comments from fellow passengers. My heart sank when you shared those comments directed at you both and hearing about Gareths experience too. You are both so lovely and we love your videos and honesty. ❤

  • @karinbrantner3081
    @karinbrantner3081 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I appreciate honest reviews...

  • @GraceVictoria
    @GraceVictoria Před 6 měsíci +5

    We’ve been on the Iona sister shop and are going on Arvia 2025. I’m looking out for my friends parents on this as they were on this cruise and had spotted you both filming a few times 🥰

  • @dansteelage
    @dansteelage Před 6 měsíci +3

    Great review and video as always! I've booked in for a cruise on Arvia in August and now looking at cancelling! The sun bed thing puts me right off and then the mention of fights - just not worth the stress.
    Keep doing what you guys do! Ignore the haters....

    • @veganolive1971
      @veganolive1971 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I've got 3 cruises booked on Arvia and not worried at all ..I've been on smaller ships where I've seen fighting in the champagne bar, people taken off for stealing and others for getting up to things in the hot tub.. currently watching two other vloggers on the same cruise and not one mention of bad behaviour or horrible passengers...I don't condone what happened to Ben and Dave it's horrible but it doesn't just happen on big ships

  • @steveba50
    @steveba50 Před 6 měsíci

    Stay strong and keep punching guys we love what you do!

  • @pattieduffy4992
    @pattieduffy4992 Před 5 měsíci

    I just Love you both, yr reviews are very informative and funny.
    Thank you.

  • @JPNYC315
    @JPNYC315 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Ben’s hair looks great 🤩🤩🤩

  • @kathytracy7952
    @kathytracy7952 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing see ya next time

  • @jubed
    @jubed Před 3 měsíci

    I love your review guys great review

  • @WelshBathBoy
    @WelshBathBoy Před 6 měsíci +12

    We are gay couple looking to go on our first cruise, and I'm happy you are giving the honest facts about what happened to you on this trip (and all of your trips), I know I will be keeping clear of P&O now after your experience. People will say 'oh just ignore them', but as someone who has experienced similar on holiday it really gets you down and ruins what is supposed to be a relaxing time. I'm sorry this happened to you

    • @CultgentlemanJack
      @CultgentlemanJack Před 5 měsíci

      I just red your comment and I would like to reach out and let you know that I appreciate all gay people you make life more fun and interesting. And I would prefer to travel with gay people all are friendly intelligent and hygienic. I don’t mean to stereotype or be offensive. Don’t be afraid to travel hold your head up high because I would rather share my hoilday with any gay person rather then some smelly filthy Falmouth alcoholic belligerent drunk. Enjoy your first cruise I have never cruised before would love to in the near future sending you love and lots of good wishes when you eventually decide to take a cruise.❤😊

    • @keith6400
      @keith6400 Před 5 měsíci

      If I were you looking at Princess Cruise Line is a good and much better choice. They do various transatlantics. They have meetings and the cosmopolitan mix of passenger tends to work much better. Roughly 360 ports visited world wide.

    • @Lkb5555
      @Lkb5555 Před 5 měsíci

      Hahaha yeah princess is good for them. Cuz they’re gay

  • @johnmayerislovee
    @johnmayerislovee Před 6 měsíci +57

    Thanks for your review. In my humble opinion, poor cruise behaviour "SOMETIME's" coincides with the cost of the cruise. As the cruise price drops and more passengers are exposed to cruising, a "CERTAIN" element of passengers take advantage of the lower cruise fares that shouldn't be cruising. Thanks again !

    • @sarahbailey6996
      @sarahbailey6996 Před 6 měsíci +7

      What ever price the cruise is people can still go on and get drunk,it sounds like your saying as the cruise price dropped it ment people with less money are going on just cos they have less money don’t mean your going to drink and be a nightmare

    • @johnmayerislovee
      @johnmayerislovee Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@sarahbailey6996 Although I didn't understand what you attempted to state, I still thank you for your reply.

    • @bryantsteury8910
      @bryantsteury8910 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Totally agree. The lower fairs allow people who otherwise wouldn't on the ship and they flat our decide to ruin cruises for others. Same thing with flights

    • @mindyschocolate
      @mindyschocolate Před 6 měsíci +8

      Agreed. It’s why I avoid Carnival.

    • @SilverDraco
      @SilverDraco Před 6 měsíci +2

      ​@@mindyschocolatethe worst cruise we were on for bad behavior was an older Carnival ship. It was quite affordable and full of drunks and kids running the halls at 2AM.

  • @timothywolleck7628
    @timothywolleck7628 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you I’m really enjoying your videos.

  • @jasminaalm
    @jasminaalm Před 6 měsíci +1

    So soory guys you had to deal with abuse. Love you so much ! Healing hugs !

  • @Kayjaygi
    @Kayjaygi Před 6 měsíci +4

    On carnival cruises in australia if there is a ‘saved’ deck chair that no one goes back to in 45 minutes the crew will go over, take the stuff off and put behind the towel counter.
    The crew do an amazing job of keeping track of this themselves but they don’t mind if passengers who have been keeping track and waiting go over and ask them about particular ones (only they move the belongings though)
    Works brilliantly and plenty of sign around so passengers can’t argue

    • @kathybrem880
      @kathybrem880 Před 3 měsíci

      Good-that’s what they should do!

  • @hrizonsdebbie
    @hrizonsdebbie Před 6 měsíci +13

    We thought the one-star people on Costa Smeralda were bad, but this sounds especially bad. So sorry that people were abusive to you and others. ❤

  • @hollykimmey4809
    @hollykimmey4809 Před 6 měsíci

    Love your videos and reviews

  • @jawsws4241
    @jawsws4241 Před 6 měsíci +1

    We love you guys! People are rude and ignorant. You put out honest, accurate informative content and yes we appreciate your opinions! Keep up the good work. Happy Cruising

  • @vinceryan9447
    @vinceryan9447 Před 6 měsíci +16

    Done Arvia this year on a 14 day med cruise, agree about the app it’s very flaky it actually gave up altogether midway through our cruise. Trying an MSC in march 24 to see how others do it. Arvia was ok but the buffet was not really for us it reminded us of people scrambling for food at a UN refugee camp.

  • @jennifermaceachern2155
    @jennifermaceachern2155 Před 6 měsíci +4

    The Sun beds should be numbered and book online to reserve so everyone gets a chance

  • @janloewen3404
    @janloewen3404 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Let’s hope that the mean people you ran into come to their senses and remember their manners that they were taught. Keep your head up and continue to be happy, you both are quite lovely people and it’s nice to be part of your cruise eirld

  • @new3sc
    @new3sc Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey Ben!
    My husband loved the colorful shirt you had towards the the end of the video, when explaining your conclusions.
    Where did you get it?
    Keep making such great videos! 🎉

    • @Cruisewith
      @Cruisewith  Před 6 měsíci +2

      It is a Ralph Lauren from Maceys

  • @penelopepitstop762
    @penelopepitstop762 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I was so happy to hear you speak kindly about Carnival, especially the Mardi Gras. To date, the Mardi Gras is our favorite ship! We cruise on the Jubliee next year. People say all kinds of things about carnival, but we have always enjoyed our Carnival cruises. We cruised on the Discovery Princess in September and we were very bored and for such a new big ship, it was very bland and didn’t offer much.

    • @user-ki3wh1ml2e
      @user-ki3wh1ml2e Před 6 měsíci +1

      I sailed on the orginal mardi gras it was a classy trip. On a very small ship.

    • @penelopepitstop762
      @penelopepitstop762 Před 6 měsíci

      @@user-ki3wh1ml2e Very cool. The new Mardi Gras is definitely not small and it was beautiful!

    • @user-ki3wh1ml2e
      @user-ki3wh1ml2e Před 6 měsíci

      I am aware of the size of the new one, after selling on previous cruises on carnival I never would go again. They have become trashy

    • @penelopepitstop762
      @penelopepitstop762 Před 6 měsíci

      @@user-ki3wh1ml2e ooh la di dah to you

  • @JessyJess04
    @JessyJess04 Před 6 měsíci +16

    You guys are brave taking a longer cruise on an iffy line. Thank you for “taking one for the team” lol.

  • @user-xu3zh8mk5n
    @user-xu3zh8mk5n Před 6 měsíci

    Thankyou for entertaining us every week and brightening a very dull winter

  • @nancyadcock4899
    @nancyadcock4899 Před 3 měsíci

    I just found your channel today and I’m enjoying it very much! Keep up the great work 💕

  • @jackpoppitt5985
    @jackpoppitt5985 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Interesting review. Cruising with the family, our criticisms were:
    - warm hot tubs - even in the Caribbean sun these didn’t live up to their names and were quite lacklustre
    - not much daytime or night time entertainment (we thought the evening shows were outstanding but after these there was very little atmosphere to be found)
    - buffet food was average at best, lacked flavour, lacked choice (where were a variety of Indian or Chinese curries - were these removed from the selection to force customers into speciality restaurants, where was a variety of different desserts). Seems that over the 2 weeks, food was very much the same.
    - staff weren’t overly chatty, seemed to be rushed
    - sun beds were hard to find

    • @Cruisewith
      @Cruisewith  Před 6 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing your review!

  • @MrEffectify
    @MrEffectify Před 6 měsíci +7

    I feel like P&O need a Monty Python “pay for an argument” space.

    • @cherylemmanuel744
      @cherylemmanuel744 Před 6 měsíci

      Whatever you do don’t suggest that as they probably will

  • @seamusobrien2675
    @seamusobrien2675 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am so sorry for you both, it's not right just not right, never ever ever.

  • @sweethartjen
    @sweethartjen Před 6 měsíci +1

    The two of you are the BEST and I'm so sorry you've had to deal with mean, ignorant people!!

  • @MJC1124
    @MJC1124 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Cruise lines are their own worst enemy as a far as bad behaviour goes. It's the drink packages. There are small number of people who see it as a challenge to get their money's worth. I can imagine them bragging about it. If cruise lines stopped selling drinks packages there would be less loutish behaviour.

  • @user-ik7pd6sc5m
    @user-ik7pd6sc5m Před 6 měsíci +2

    We were on the cruise with you.We saw you filming but observed from a distance,I can honestly say we regretted booking this cruise too if you haven't pre booked everything then take a book as you have nothing to do. Food in the restaurant was basically the same every night as for gala nights I'm not sure if p and o know what they are.We also witnessed a fight not pleasant.As for the flight home Barbados airport could not cope with all these passengers at once.Over all very disappointing. Keep up the good work.

  • @neilkeepingitreal
    @neilkeepingitreal Před 6 měsíci +2

    Cheers for posting this guys...I have just completed my first cruise on the tui / marrela voyager, which was amazing!.. and your review on this p&o ship in comparison to what I have just been on has convinced me enough that I never want to go with p&o I'm grateful to of seen this as i was looking into possibly booking it for next year but not a chance now..I think I'll stick with tui again for my next one...

  • @LouiseTopF
    @LouiseTopF Před měsícem

    Amazing guys 😊

  • @dianafrith1961
    @dianafrith1961 Před 6 měsíci +3

    So sad that you suffered abuse both for vlogging and personally. You carefully avoid including unsuspecting others in your vlogs and personal abuse is totally unjustified. Your vlogs are honest and very informative which gives one a chance to think if a cruise line is for you or not and they are very entertaining, so keep up the good work.

  • @carolr9301
    @carolr9301 Před 6 měsíci +7

    It doesn’t look like you’re in Southampton when you were looking around the outside space. Sindhu is amazing. I went on Arvia last January before she was christened.
    The food is fantastic and looked it, I’m glad you loved the food as well. It’s very sad getting up so early to get a sunbed and it’s unbelievably sad to fight over one, what’s wrong with people. It’s shocking to have this abuse. I am sorry, as a Brit, there’s still these bigots around.

  • @soniapriddy6109
    @soniapriddy6109 Před 5 měsíci

    I really love and enjoy watching ya’ll. You make me laugh in a good way.

  • @debp5983
    @debp5983 Před 3 měsíci

    You both are lovely, thank you much😊

  • @shellnet411
    @shellnet411 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Wow, I started this video 10 minutes after it posted and I see people who finished it when I went and changed my phone at 30 minutes and it's a 45 minute video almost😂they must've fast forwarded through certain parts

  • @TheTravellingScotsman
    @TheTravellingScotsman Před 6 měsíci +3

    We’ve been on Arvia, we had similar issues, but it was the minority. I did get abuse at one point on a trip, for telling a guide I was Scottish. It was aggressive and unpleasant. There was similar stories of fighting and orgies in the hot tub, I think some of the accounts are now being exaggerated/perpetuated. The staff on board are really nice, and the food is great, so overall I’m going to say stuff it to the minority and give it another go.

  • @craign1668
    @craign1668 Před 5 měsíci

    Been watching your vids over the last few months and love them.Very informative,we recently enjoyed the Arvia Nov 24 but agree the Service on Norwegian and Royal Carribean is far superior to other cruise lines.Keep up the good work guys

  • @Cstylinn
    @Cstylinn Před 6 měsíci +2

    I'm so disappointed to hear that you and others were bullied. There is simply no call for mistreating people in this day and age. Glad to hear the ship took action to chuck people off who were conducting themselves poorly.
    Looking forward to next week's episode!

  • @barbarashuster9029
    @barbarashuster9029 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Sure wish the US had trains like europe!

  • @1flames952
    @1flames952 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Love you guys. Crazy stories… was thinking of trying to cruise on a European cruise line to get away from “American” cruisers… be careful of what you wish for I guess. Bottom line, as you said the vast majority of people are nice and friendly. The few like those you mentioned can really ruin it for everyone. Sorry about the homophobia you suffered. I think cruising with you two would be the most fun my wife and I could ever have. Proud of you guys.

    • @jackieaudus9829
      @jackieaudus9829 Před 6 měsíci

      I’d say try the mid size P&O ships… they’re a lot more fun, more established and still very good value

    • @gerardmackay8909
      @gerardmackay8909 Před 6 měsíci +1

      As someone else commented it’s often about itinerary. Arvia is a ‘sunshine’ ship and it will always attract an element of drunken loutish behaviour as a result. Its equally beautiful sister ship, Iona, sails to the Norwegian Fjords and Baltic Scandinavian areas and attracts a very different demographic (also the bonus is those destinations are stunning and in summers there are light till very late). For a great value cruise I highly recommend it.

    • @gerardmackay8909
      @gerardmackay8909 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Also if you want to try the Mediterranean consider opting for Cunard. The Queen Victoria is based there all summer and I’ve seen 7 night cruises out of Italy starting at about £800 for a week. I recently was on this ship and the clientele were on the whole mature and relaxed and the ship itself is truly beautiful.

  • @showgirlsaroundtheworldada4484

    Great vlog

  • @PlaneJane1
    @PlaneJane1 Před 6 měsíci

    Waiting eagerly for your next episode!