The Need for Modesty, Femininity, and Submission Among Christian Women | Susan Heck
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- In this breakout session from the 2023 National Conference, Susan Heck taught on the need for modesty, femininity, and submission among Christian women.
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Women are a precious treasure in God’s perfect design. When we are gentle, trusting and full of wisdom and grace we’re the evil ones worst nightmare. He wants angry, fearful, controlling women who condemn themselves, their husbands and children. By God’s mercy and grace we will be gentle and lowly like our Lord!
Beautifully said. Thank you.
I'm definitely looking for more sermons like this❤. Thanks a lot.
As a 25 years old woman, I can say it is quite challenging to change our mindset when we have grown up with the influence of feminism even inside of the church.
Greetings from Colombia 🇨🇴
Set your mind by God’s grace to Love the Lord, he will transform you from within so that you will delight to do his will. Obey what you know to obey, and ask God for the related to obedience.🦅😎😉
@@alfreidam5839 This is so true!
She wasn't preaching a sermon. She was teaching/educating. Aparece que fue un sermon, pero no, no fue. Predicando un sermon no debe de ser las mujeres. Y ademas, predicando un sermon esta presentado diferente--with imperatives/commands/authoritative. I'm thankful you enjoyed her lesson on 1 Timothy 2:8--15. Consider memorizing scripture and also reading from beginning to end (Genesis to Revelation). - a fellow Christian (from USA)
É muito desafiador mudar (cambiar) sua mentalidade quando porque está acostumada com a validação masculina e atrair homens
Saludos desde Brasil!
I want to thank you for this truthful important message. Before I was saved I used to spend a lot of money on my clothes. I would spend 2 hours a day doing my makeup making sure everything matched . ( it never was revealing clothes but the purpose of the clothing was the attention I would get for having these amazing outfits) I looked great on the outside but I was so empty and lost on the inside. When I devoted my life to being a servant of Christ the Lord spoke to me and told me to dress in skirts and full coverage of shoulder’s .I have been doing that ever since. My number one job is to represent Christ and to spread the Gospel. How can I do that if people are asking me about where I get my clothes and complimenting my outfits. My inner beauty shines now because I am filled with his holiness and goodness not a heart of seeking approval and compliments. Thank you for this wonderful video . God Bless you and keep making videos about this topic that needs to be addressed.
This teaching was a direct response to a prayer I had about vanity. God’s answer: Beauty is found in the Lord. Then He provided this video. Thank you for this message!
It’s interesting you said that I’ve been thinking about this topic
I am very thankful that my mother was strict regarding her daughter’s dresses!😊
It's interesting that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away and then suddenly they're miss chaste
I, as a woman, absolutely see how women are dressing provocative. Good message!!!!!! Do not follow the culture of showing your body to attract eyes. Dress respectful and nice. Advertisements and pornography use provocative clothing to attract lustful thinking. Why would people not think it would not be the same in public. Dressing provocative attract lustful thinking.
Women’s provocative dress “trips a switch” in men which turns the woman into an object. It becomes difficult to get off that track and back into a God-approved moral frame of mind.
Men are responsible for their lustful thinking. Women are not.
@@Jaco3688 Learn not to rape Jaco, learn not to rape.
Men need to stop runnign around half naked at beaches. Men also need to be more modest like women need to. Why don't people ever seem to mention them? I dunno but I do know that I find it baffling. We all need to be responsible for our own dress, and our own thoughts like Jesus said to the disciples in the Sermon on the Mt. "Any man who looks on a woman with lust in his heart has commited adultery with her" yes he does tell women to dress modest in a dif book area of the Bible to not trip up our brothers so why can't that go for men too? Why not? I mean it is really hard to go to the beach without seeing men in almost nothing! So again if women need to be modest so do men! It's all tempting.
I hope I didn't come off blunt just being honest, I have high functioining autism and Huntington's Disease which causes me to come off blunter than I mean to. This is said without malice or sarcasm.
I am a Christian man and I thank you so much for this wonderful lesson.
I think men need to be more modest too, half naked men are just as tempting to women as half naked women to men. It needs to go both ways.
Finally some teaching that is biblical and relevant to women. Thank you for posting this. I am so blessed by it.
Oh thank God, there are remnants of godly women in America and we need this a lot this time! May God bless you! I don't have words that express your beautifulness!
There are many of us, the problem is the ungodly women are loud and obtrusive so you have to search for the women who truly desire to please and obey our Lord.
@@SoulRevivalCoachAre you being Loud yourself, there are many wounded woman believers who would love to be nurtured and affirmed in there femininity by Godly women but those who function to care for the wounded are few and far between. So when you think you are building or helpful with your comments. “you are not” if you are a Godly woman Learn to Love as Jesus Loves. Practise on these “loud” woman they may need it. Much Grace..
@@sheilabrown3477 Interesting way to perceive what I wrote...
I do not believe that godly woman have a desire to preach the word. These female preachers are sent from the devil. @@SoulRevivalCoach
@@SoulRevivalCoachthe big problem is that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away and then suddenly they're miss chaste
Amen! Modesty applies to all places 🔥
And I, too, feel for my college-age sons.
I’ll say a quick prayer for them. College campuses are rough for young Christians. I am in my junior year. It’s not a great environment for developing (almost done developing) Christians.
@@zacharymccoy9262Stay strong, bro. Don't be lead into temptation, but rather be delivered from evil.
She's been through so much. LORD, CONTINUE TO KEEP HER!!
Thank you for pointing women to Jesus.💖
Susan is a great teacher of God's Word. Bless her for her work. Well actually the Holy Spirit is our teacher. She is just a vessel. I pray God will give her strength and health to keep doing his work. I pray God humble us women of faith to be submissive and modest for his Glory! Greetings from Indiana :)
I wish someone had taught me this stuff when I was growing up in church
It's interesting that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away
This is very God honoring and above reproach. Thank you Ms. Susan for this biblical teaching that is so desperately needed in the church today! There is nothing wrong with being a Godly submissive housewife. I actually love it.
Not all of us are meant to be married God's word tells me that in 1st Corinthian's 7! It tells you what marraige is for in God's eyes about avoiding burning in hell for your lusts. If you need sex then you need marraige. God's word tells you that it is good to be single if you can avoid sex. With God's help I can! I do my best to live seperate from the world as much as I can. Just like each person out there there are really tough times. I also tried to date but with High Functioning Austim and my terminal illness of Huntington's disease.
It causes mental, physical, and emotional issues, my own mother was like a little baby by the time she passed away from HD. I can't be there for a husband and family the way that God calls me to be. So I would be selfish to force myself down a path I can't handle. I can't emotionally be the strong one like a wife needs to be, I can't be loving and selfless because I will need someone to help me as this disease progresses. I have peace now with God I prayed and I keep praying for his strength. I asked him to heal me but if he uses me the way that he used my mother's own weakness to show his strength then I would be honored.
I asked for strengh, courage, grace and patience to keep going and to keep my eyes on him and with peace beyond understanding. My mother is a Chirstian she passed in 2018. She would say everyday "God is awesome!" And when you asked "How are you?" "AWESOME!" she loved God with all her heart and did not complain when life got harder for her, even when she almost died in 2010 she ended up with an ostomy bag. She used to make jokes and i asked her what to name it she said "Rose" with a big grin. She always had such an amazing sense of humor and strength that she definetly got from God.
She had my father with her and had a familyi I just couldn't do that at 25 I was in and out of psych wards with massive suicidel idations and depression, they thought it was. 1 time a year I ended up in the hospital. In 2016 I snapped after a bad med set me off and ended up in a homeless shelter certain that I was not safe though I was! Through God's grace I got Mainecare and got to go to a dif Psycitrist dr. She said "Bipolar 2 wiht Mania" and took me off the poison meds I was on. It had set me off again and again for 10 years! I'm 42 now, my life is dif from other's who are my age.
5 and a half years ago God helped me to realize that I needed to walk away from dating etc, he showed me in the Bible and with much prayer to ask for understanding of what he wanted for me. I finally let go of the fantasy the world had for me and I realized that I didnt' need marraige to complete me! I needed to put my life in God's hands! I did that and with his strength I keep going! I am focused on him, and learninga bout myself along the way as a Christian. I leave my life in his hands and I know that I am unusal and that is ok! That there is nothign wrong with a different path. In the end my mother's testimony at her funeral ended up being used by God to lead her nephew to Jesus! It made it all worth it!
God used her to bring so many to him! I mean wow! It's hard to explain without writing a bigger book. It's important to role wiht the lot that God gives you and find a blessing in God where other's may see a frightening path a head. Yes I will lose my own abilities like my art, and taking care of myself day to day; but with God there is hope especially in the darkness of life! Do not give up hope! I am happy that you are happy with your life. I pray that you and your family will be blessed. I ask for prayer for me and my family. I know that God's got each of us in His hands if we have faith!
@MsBowem🙏♥️
What you are wearing today reveals what’s in your heart! This is so true!
This has been a blessing. I have never heard that text dealt with with such grace and understanding by a woman. Interestingly, this was not about marriage yet I am challenged as a husband based on this material, to steward my marriage with greater honour to God.
I loved in particular the section about women's dress. I am part of a church that interprets that text in the wrong way, the fallout of that is preachers - pastors and laymen, who downplay the biblical command for believers and especially women to be modest. I cannot tell how many times I have been angered in my spirit when I hear these preachers acquiesce (rather ignorantly) actually to cultural depravity on women's adornment.
Great presentation Mrs. Heck and may God use this material to transform men and women who listen.
Soli Deo Gloria!
Amen! Praise the LORD for this Godly teaching 🙏🏻☕️📜 God bless you Susan 🩷🌸
When Peter mentions the woman being the weaker vessel, I think he is talking about physically weaker, not that she is spiritually or mentally weak.
I heard it said this way - weaker as in more delicate. Compare to a crystal bowl versus a crock or other sturdy bowl. We require protection, care, and are designed differently. ❣️
Yes, I agree, as God is the ultimate artist and designer: he created the delicate Butterfly, and created a big and powerful Lion.@@karoleenascottage
@heidismith3678... I agree.
I have to disagree a bit. Our emotional nature leaves us more open and vulnerable spiritually than men. It was demonstrated as early as Genesis when Eve was deceived by satan in the garden. Yes, husbands should protect wives physically if the need arises but also spiritually as well since they are less likely to have spirits come after them IF they have a strong relationship with God and a strong, biblically sound foundation for that relationship. And again, look to Genesis, where Adam demonstrates what men should NOT do/allow.
@@karoleenascottageI don’t feel like I need care or protection. I’m from the South and we women are pretty sturdy. I do love my husband tho and like a manly man.
Yes, this is needed, I have been talking with my neighbor about how we dress.
Glory be to God ! I’m a present truth seeker and keeper of the Remnant church. I see everything in the church just like the world . Thankyou my dear Sister for your discussion… it’s all about surrender and having a relationship with our Lord. It’s much harder for young girls to submit to the Biblical standard why… they don’t see enough girls their age following the counsel. It’s a deception of Satan the Adversary to get them to feel like they have to be seen, heard and take charge … we need more encouragement and enlightenment from fellow Christian women like yourself. Thankyou for caring please pray for Paulina and Elizabeth my two girls that they would surrender from the heart n not because mommy says so. Amen 🙏
Prayers for your two daughters May the Lord give them eyes and ears to understand and receive truth! In Jesus name.
My children did not follow the law of their father and mother. It is heartbreaking 😢
This needs to be addressed for real.
Many Christian Women these days are dressing very provocative.
I’m not a Christian
@@Amourbeauty_mua Poor you.
Love this woman❤ She's speaking Biblical TRUTH from God's Word. 🇿🇦
She KILLED IT!!!🔥🔥🔥
God has spoken through her .
Listening to you from South Africa. What a great teaching, thank you!
I also posted a comment from SA Johannesburg/ Roodepoort . Do glad for this Talk / Teaching ❤
Absolutely wonderful teaching. Thank you very much for this. It is a huge issue in our culture.
Very grateful for this video. Please pray for me. There is something that has been an ongoing problem in my life for years now that Satan has been using to try and distract me and, unfortunately, I have been very distracted by it.
Thank you very much! It was a pleasure to meet you at G3 '23. Even though I have taught this passage many times I was convicted by some of the things you said. I have fallen short of obedience to God as a husband and father. Thank you for your clear teaching.
Thank you for posting this❤
HALLALUIYAH AND AMEN ❤🙌THANK U SO MUCH FOR YR TEACHING AND FAITHFULNESS TO YAHUSHA IN TEACHING WOMAN SUSAN, IT WAS A BLESSING YO HEAR THIS VIDEO. I PRAY AND LIVE BY EXAMPLE IN HOPES THAT ALL MY DAUGHTERS, DAUGHTER INLAWS AND GRANDAUGHTERS TRULY HEAR AND KNOW THIS TRUTH OF A GODLY WOMAN PRAISE YAHUAH 🙌 BLESS U DEAR SISTER .
Praise God. Thank you for sharing this message. May the Lord bless us all. 🙏❤
Good lecture!
Thank you so much!
Blessings 🙌
Thank you so much
Wonderful teaching!
Wonderful message.
Love this🙂.
Great encouragement to us women🙏
I love this… thank you
Awesome teaching
I agree that we must encourage modesty.
I am dismayed by the disregard women in the church have for those struggling with pornography addictions and fidelity.
However, we must not be unkind toward those who need to come to that understanding.
Jesus loved the harlot as well as the faithful.
As long as men don't lose their accountability for their own sin,...we can work side by side with them.
Fantastic lesson on this topic! I thoroughly enjoyed it. Can't wait to share this with my teenage daughter. ❤ Blessings to you.
This was such a wonderful message. So much to pray, meditate on and search the Word. Just a practical note: It is becoming very hard to even find clothing that is suitable, especially blouses that are not low cut. I had to make an effort to find higher cut tops to layer under or over quite a few tops. It does take some time and thought, but it's worth it. Thank you Susan.
As a christian man, I have a responsibility to respect my sisters in Christ.
And about "sisters'" responsibility?
Thank you this was so on point! I have been looking for help with this topic. Thank you
Praise God! What a good presentation ❤❤❤
This is so important and timely in the Sovereignty of God. Thank you for your faithful, godly presentation.
Please pray our daughters be delivered from feminism’s pull and entrapment!🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
Restore their purity and create a quiet and meek spirit!🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
Stretchy pants. Stretchy pants. Stretchy pants. We used to call that: " pantyhose." And now we call it stretchy pants. Many so-called Christian women walk around in public in thick pantyhose with nothing else on. Why is this not obviously recognized as immodest and ungodly?
Amen. Amen. Amen. 🙏
Excellent point!! 🎉
It is immodest. I am not sure why Christian women wear it and are blind to see how inappropriate it is to wear it.
Non Christians wear it because they think it is no big deal and does not affect anyone negatively, except the extremely sensitive strict Christians.
" So called Christians " is a term only God reserves to judge .
Be careful with your words , please .
We may not agree but to classify them as non Christian ....hm .
@@joanie19591 You misunderstand the term " so-called Christian". The term leaves the judgment up to God. The term does not say that they are not Christians. They are so-called Christians. We are called to make judgments according to their fruit. Did you know that? And only God makes the condemning judgment.
Wow, beautifully said. 🙏🏾
73 years old, married 53 years,well done Susan!
I love your work, as an old charismatic religion, and a raving lunatic 😅 I was able to turn away from a false doctrine and a false religion, I am so grateful for you, Justin peters, Jim Osman, John MacArthur and so many others, it's so refreshing to hear you speak Susan ❤️
I introduced my sister to your teachings, and what I couldn't do you did, I am grateful for that, she finally sees life so much differently. God bless you and the good work you do. ❤
Love from south Africa 🌍
We’ve all been lunatics before the Lord truly regenerates us!! Haha so funny your wording tho
She joked about keeping good company with false teachers and all the laughter is sad. I'd be very careful with JM and JP and the crazy Calvinism they teach.
Thank God is raising the true teacher of the word of God to teach women properly and decently 😊
No person Wil speak 💯 truth..... only Jesus can.
I listen to different teachings but I do my own research, that's our job to search, and the Bible is the way and only way.
If it wasn't for Justin Peter and John MacArthur and many others I would not have seen that the path I was on led to self destruction. I followed the feeling good about yourself...... religion, like a Joyce Meyer and a Joel Osteen. Jesus was never the goal.
I would have never studied and searched the way I do.
I live in South Africa. We have 99.9% false churches and it's hard to find the .1% here they believe in voodoo, witchcraft, wealth, health, prosperity, etc, churches make people eat grass like animals and eat animals alive, the sick child will rather be taken to a witch doctor instead of believing in God and trusting Jesus or just trusting the process.
I will never be 100% without sin, I do try. I can tell you this if I do sin, my sin grieves me, and I will stay on my knees and try for as long as i live.
Great teaching! I shared this video with a few young women one of which I know dresses super provocative especially in the sanctuary.
Praise God for our sister Susan Heck. Her devotion to God and His Word, especially in stressing memorization, are so encouraging. Excellent message.
Amen, Amen.. A good word for us Women as Christians who should be separated from our clothing, thinking, behavior, etc. And not As Christain women stating my body, my choice, do what I please. This is more needed in the church, etc... Good Message!! Enjoyed. Strive to do, be and be an Example to others. Make God smile 😊
You’re spot on. “Do as thou wilt” the doctrine of satan.
God Bless you Woman of God! Sound Teaching from a Godly Woman.
Thank you
Good video.
Amen.. That's for our good. Thank God. ❤
Praise God for a much needed message on modesty. May the Lord help me to apply these truths to my life.
Beautiful teaching! I'm so grateful I found this 🙏
Thank you for this needed message.
Rev. Tiff Shuttlesworth has a series sex and marriage that is wonderful and goes hand-in-hand with this message.
Some women in my "old" church would dress so inappropriately.
It was really disturbing when the pastor did baptisms it was like being in a dingee bar having a wet tee shirt contest. Many of the men would stand around the baptismal waiting for women to emerge wet from the fount. Very troubling.
3-b's should not be allowed (no boobs, no belly, no butt) not only in church but anywhere.
Thank you for this message.
Women we need to teach our children: the girls to respect themselves and their bodies and for our men that they not be fooled by sexually inappropriate women.
Is this is part of the problem because women are Not supposed to be reverend. Only men should hold such position
"Women we need to teach our children: the girls to respect themselves and their bodies and for our men that they not be fooled by sexually inappropriate women."
Actually you should be teaching men to also respect themselves (and to honor God) for no man who does would be fooled by the body of any woman.
@@dcarr-kr7hk I think you’ve misunderstood my comment.
I agree with this teach to women from Susan and as you listen clearly she’s against women being Reverends.
Women are to teach younger women and children and that’s clear when are not to try and interpret scripture to men and break Down and explain to men nor guide the church and that’s what a reverend does.
This video was good!!!!!!! I have 2 daughters and I'm definitely teaching them and showing them how to be modest.
This answered many questions of mine, my church doesnt teach on most of these facts. Thanks for the whole word. It encouraged me greatly & opened up my eyes.
At 26:22 Susan said it was unheard of for a Jewish woman to attend public worship. Matt 13:56 suggest women in the synagogue. Act 16:13-14 Lydia was a dealer of purple cloth and invited Paul and his group to her house. Later in Act 18:26, which Susan mentions later in her teaching, Apollos was in the synagogue teaching when Pricilla and Aquila heard him. I question that statement of Jewish women did not attend public worship.
Thank you for bringing the Scriptures to bear on this point. This unfortunately is a very common take among even more reformed circles. But no where in the Bible (especially the Old Testament regarding the assembling of God’s people) would give you the idea that women were not allowed to worship, learn and receive instruction. Families have always worshipped the Lord together.
wow amazing
Heck, Susan, that is much needed for todays women. Tell them good.
it needs 6to be a two way street half naked men are just as capable of stirring lust for women as half naked women for men. Also God's word says that it's a man's fault if he looks on a woman with lust in his heart he has commited adultery with her. He's telling them to controlt heir minds to turn to him and ask forgiveness and turn from the lustful thoughts.
ahahahahaha I saw what you did there .
Well said and well done 👍 I am going to subscribe to your channel
❤shalom for you. Greetings from holland🙏🙌📖
Needed
Mothers and fathers should dress modestly in front of their opposite sex children and their friends and vice versa.
Yes! You're so right. I am pretty conservative in my clothing anyway, but as my son has become a teenager, I have become more intentional on not dressing in a way that I wouldn't want any future girlfriend to dress. I can't encourage him to value modesty if I don't set that example.
Amen
YES!! This has been taken out of churches as we "come as we are" in the last thirty years. God has standards for a reason. Feminism opposes *God's best* for women! Why settle?
Good teaching. Bold teaching, in a culture hostile to God's holy word! In Gods eyes, He expects our conduct and character as His children, to reflect that of Jesus. Humble, meek and lowly in spirit. We will all fail every day but that should be EVERY believers' heart's desire.
Women really need to hear this . I spend my hour at the gym praying for modesty for the young women that walk in practically naked.🙏
Yes, praying for their hearts to first know Jesus as Lord & Savior & to have an intimate & Biblical relationship w/ Him.
Amen 🙏🏾
I have come close so many times to approaching women in the gym to ask them “What gives you the right to come to the gym naked, like you are??” Disgusting.
@@Jaco3688 resist the temptation. I know we wonder why in the world would you leave your home like that. But instead let's pray for their hearts. That's what they need prayer for. May they KNOW Jesus.
I work in a public place where families go to shop, and quite a few women were wearing shorts throughout the summer with their cheeks hanging out, almost thong like. I do not want to see that. It is extremely inappropriate with the underage boys and girls there. It should be considered indecent exposure because of underage kids being around. Edit: I did mention it to management, and apparently, it is OK.
Wonderful, only I wonder , or better to say…we are living in Biblical times still, same God who doesn’t change, same word.
Thank you great teaching ❤
17:55 AMEN!
Thank you for this. I've been very distracted lately and haven't been growing and maturing where I should. Please pray for me.
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50:01 “One area you do not submit in is if your husband ever ask you to sin. You never submit.”
You obey your Lord over your husband.”
That's true...scripture says to submit one to another as is fitting in The Lord. Is it Godley, Biblical, Holy, honest, true, righteous?
How many times does a husband demand that a wife to sin? “I want you to steal that steak!”
@@Jaco3688 This is not about how many times a husband might do this. It is clarifying that IF a husband asks a wife to sin (and this has happened in the world), a Christian woman's first responsibility is to obey God.
God can give women wisdom when to submit. We are individually responsible for our walk with God and consequences that could arise out of our actions when we follow anybody. Just because a husband is a husband does not mean he automatically knows what is best. A wife needs to be convinced in her own mind that a course of action is safe and right to follow t give her full agreement to it. God’s intent was a partnership and two becoming one flesh in more ways than just sexual. One day I hope that instead of teaching women submission, they teach our daughters that they have a brain and a will and if something is off they never agree just to be agreeing. Unfortunately I’ve not seen much of teaching a wife to think for herself. It’s all about giving over her will to another.
I completely agree with everything you said. My issue is the way it makes all the single women feel like second class citizens in the kingdom because He has sovereignly chosen not to bless us with husbands and families even though they are the things we desire the most. We must all submit to the sovereignty of God in these matters. Being in submission to His sovereign will cannot possibly make me or any other single woman a second class citizen in His kingdom. The people in His kingdom need to learn how to reach out and embrace and include us single women in the circle of life in the church.
I couldn't agree more. Single women are forgotten in church. If you're over 40 and single in church might as well be dead.
I agree 100%!
I so agree! We are a forgotten group. My hearts desire was for marriage, I didn't want the single life. But its where I am at.
Your worth is more than being married and a mother. It breaks my heart that churches limit women to certain roles, and if she doesn’t fit that, then she’s stuck.
It's a type of shunning and very hurtful
Thank you for this message, but I do feel very sad that we did not clarify the verse about women bearing children and how it relates to women who cannot have children or bare children or are infertile.
I'm glad this didn't disappear, wanted to listen to it. It sure is hard (at least for me?) to find decent clothes. I keep meaning to learn sewing so I can fix the wardrobe issue. I end up buying guy's clothes, because women's stuff looks ok on the hanger, but then it's thin, the cut is so low, things never fit right, and infamously no pockets. I swear, they design things for Barbie bodies☹️ Pray I am able to learn to sew! Thank you 🙏🥰
I often wear undershirts to fix the low cut problem. Thrift stores are also a great place to find more modest clothing for me.
@@littlehousepineywoods5352 I do want to go to thrift stores more often. I just hate clothes shopping so much☹️ I do that when I can wear layers, but I live in the desert, so kinda hard when it's hot 😞 I miss those gauzy clothes that were opaque. Now they're practically windows; like, what's the point?!
@@gohawks3571 I feel your pain on that. I'm in Florida.
I find dresses on Amazon. My favorites so far are Pretty Garden maxi dresses. There are many of that variety but look through and there are many feminine and pretty dresses. Carefully read though, some have side suits and some are very neck. I usually get the rounded neck but need to switch to v neck now and a nursing tank top under because I'm due to deliver in the end of March. They have beautiful colors and patterns. I get many many compliments. One lady stopped me at Sam's club and thanked me for dressing as a women and said she wished she saw that more often. Now I don't dress like this for compliments but they came anyway. I also just got a sewing machine and hope to learn to sew. I'm pregnant with a little girl and want to teach her how to aquire decent feminine clothing.
Many Christian women would love to be submissive but it’s hard to do when the husband is not submitting to the Lord 😢
Thats when submission becomes annointed. We submit firstly to God and give you best to him
Hard indeed! Prayers, God sees 🙏🏼
Don’t marry a man who isn’t.
My belief on this is to submit to authorities when that would not contradict The Word Of God. If a husband contradicts God, we should obey God, and trust Him. When this Godly disobedience is necessary we should approach it in a humble way, not in a rebellious way. Yielding in most areas and ways is best, but don’t be lead into sin, for companionship. You will feel divided within. When you are persuaded to compromise, more pressure to compromise will follow, drawing you further from Godliness, and righteous living.
Because christian women are not supposed to be unequally yoked with unbelievers,is a sin and God calls it an abomination.Also,light and darkness cant walk together.A woman submitted to God should nt submit nor comply or take part in anything that s ungodly,unjust or inmoral just to keep the ungodly man from leaving.
Priceless message from a Biblical woman! Thank You, God!
This is one of the reasons so many women remain in abusive situations.
GREAT teaching! Thanks for posting. One point...."lest" means "so that." It doesn't mean "least" (smallest). It has a 'short' e, like "blessed," not 'long' like "least" or "yeast." (Gen. 3:3)
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Great sermon! Sad to think majority of Christian women would hate this sermon
Because it seem very oppressed and hateful toward the woman’s didn’t know you have to change the way you dress to be a Christian this modesty is driving me away from Christ
I encourage women, wives, to think of submission more in terms of cooperation. Other than an occasion need to just plain ... obey, basically, what you're doing, being called by God to do, is cooperate with your team Captain, who He appointed Captain and is holding accountable to that office. As a sinner yourself, you are capable of understanding how the fact you're not, and he's not, going to be perfect as a person, as a Christian, as a spouse, as a parent, by any means but that doesn't excuse others less-than-godly, obedient to God, Christ-like behavior. Not to he too hard on yourself, either, but just as a way to understand the role and the requirement.
That said, be careful of thinking you can't take a stand against evil, abuse of ANY kind, neglect of any kind, against you or your kids but esp. your kids. There doesn't need to be a specific Bible verse about it. There's plenty there about upholding righteousness, not partaking with ( = enabling, over-tolerating) evil, and evil is anything that's not righteous and good and Christlike. There's a place for patience and long-suffering. There's also a lot of foolishness in neglecting your own call as a mom, a parent, to actual meet your kids needs which incl. emotional and etc. . To take their formative, foundational years seriously. Kids are very resilient, don't over worry, but please, please, please pray about this for yourself or others. For how your otherwise godly counsel may be misunderstood or applied by women and girls in your circles of influence. My mom let my Dad bully and brainwash her into thinking she had no Biblical justification to ever insist on anything, he had no accountability and things went from bad to worse as they/we weren't going to any church anymore, and he got older and more bitter in life. Still somewhat in the Word and listening to radio programs, he just heard and focused on what he wanted to and mom just gradually got more and more passive, and basically trained us to do the same. To walk on egg shells. To not believe we had a choice to walk away if we had serious needs not being met, were being abused &/or even were/are over 18. An understaffed family farm and constant other crisis will make it never seen like an ok time to leave, by any means. You basically no all hell will break loose for any left behind. I got married at 27 and gradually left. I have 3 little brothers still there, grown ups but not, and it's not healthy or free. Our family is totally imploded, 4 of my 8 siblings left home underage or under bad circumstances ( jail, for one. He finally acted out around age 17 &18 in secret, stupid and illegal ways and got 3 yrs in prison and a felony record).
Plz - don't let any version of this happen to your family ! My parents, on a good day, know a lot of truth and can seem like, kinda are, nice, charming, sweet people. It's not an act really, either. They have a HUGE blindspot, layers upon layers of not respectfully considering what " naysayers" say, and relatives concerns. Not praying about it humbly, with open ears. Not following thru on truth revealed in God's word... . Use or lose it, and it's extra hard to find under layers and years of willful ignorance and family drama !!
Prayers appreciated !!!! I LOVE my siblings, and very much care about my parents. Plz, lift them up to God !! They need Galatians. Need to be in a Church and realize it's not all about them, but being a part of the body and letting God use us all, together. Finding the best one and sticking it out, being humble and prayerful and useful.
Very useful. I have a question though: if a woman is not allowed to confront/stand up the pastor in the assembly, can she still do it in private, possible, having the elders as witness?
@MarkM-gt1vf... I have.
My pastor (years ago) told someone that if I knew he was doing something wrong, he knew I would say something.
You bet I would! (In private but I most certainly would.)
He's my pastor but he is also my brother! His life, his salvation, his relationship would me means something to me.
One of the reasons (I believe) sin is so prevalent in church leadership is because of the silence of others.
Silence (in the face of sin) is not live!
Obedience is.
Any insight on 1 Cor. 11:5 about the head covering?
...because the hair instead of a covering hath been given to her...
In your own selves judge ye; is it seemly for a woman uncovered to pray to God? doth not even nature itself teach you, that if a man indeed have long hair, a dishonour it is to him? and a woman, if she have long hair, a glory it is to her, because the hair instead of a covering hath been given to her;...
-Young's Literal Translation (YLT)
Does even nature itself not teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a dishonor to him, but if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her? For her hair is given to her as a covering.
-NASB
A woman's long hair is the 'covering'.
If a fabric covering is actually required,
then all references to hair are
totally irrelevant to the subject.
It only can make sense if the
long hair of a woman is the 'covering'.
She should be covered, with her long hair.
To have short hair, like a man, means that
she is basically bald. Therefore uncovered.
Appreciate your topic today. Do you have a video on women wearing headcoverings in the church as in 1 Cor 11:2-16? Did Paul not say to maintain the traditions that he delivered to the people? ❤
Listening to her she speaks a lot about dreading to do things. I was supposed to be the light of the world do not dread.
What about the need for purity among Christian women?
Where can we find other talks by Susan Heck?
Excellent message! We are wondering why Corinth 11 is not preached (about uncut hair)
Thanks
@gramgrampmc.6937... Maybe because ones salvation isn't dependent upon it.
Interesting question . It doesn’t say uncut hair - it says longhair. How long is long - how long is not? It speaks of hair as a covering . Some say Christ is our covering …..
I don't see anywhere where it says "Christ is our covering". It says "long"...but what is long? 1 Corinth 11 answers this.
I love these topics of modesty and such, I just would like all of the scriptures expounded on......but I think it may offend some.
"But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head-it is the same as having her head shaved. 6 For if a woman does not cover her head, she might as well have her hair cut off; but if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut off or her head shaved, then she should cover her head."
Under his eye
It’s so uncomfortable for me to watch men stumble as women parade themselves half naked in society. I watch them as they are unable to peel their eyes off of these women who purposely are putting stumbling blocks in front of them. I used to be one of those women who dressed provocatively. I realize that not only did I want to save my sacred body for my husband eyes only, but I also did not want to cause another brother to stumble because of my actions. I felt horrible for doing that to other men. Our society has fallen so far away from modesty and femininity.
Men are unable to peel their eyes away? Does the Bible teach that men have no control over their sin?
Women should not do this, but men also carry responsibility. God is aware of the temptations they face.
Men stumble because they’re not fully committed to God!
@@186itaalia The justifications offered for men are repulsive. Absolutely no accountability to God.
While it goes without saying that when one enters a church which is a sacred institution, an appropriate clothing should be mandatory yet not everybody is aware of that. Not every person grew up with a religious background.
But what bothers me the most is that women are still seen as sources of "evil" or "temptress". If a man is distracted by what a woman wears (or not), maybe he has got some work to do.
As a survivor of child sexual assault and rape, it feels as if we "tempted" men and are made feeling guilty because their "evil and perverse desires" were not under control. The man is often portrayed as "victim" while the woman is mostly "the perpetrator".
Well said ❤