Heal Trauma Chaos and Overwhelm ~ Declutter Every Part of Your Life

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
  • Clutter was my emotional response to childhood trauma, which only added to my feeling of chaos, anxiety, and overwhelm. Without realizing I was building a wall of protection around me made from my possessions. When I became a mindful minimalist and started the decluttering process, I began to heal and find clarity. Reducing clutter in my life helped my mental health and well-being. Emotional clutter comes in many forms, overthinking, clutter, lack of attention, and anxiety. I could heal from trauma, and reduce stress & overwhelm by living simply and decluttering all aspects of my life. Mindfully decluttering has been an exercise in self-love and healing. If you are feeling lost, perhaps decluttering your life will bring a sense of wellness, and emotional healing, and help you find yourself.
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    00:00 recession heartbreak
    01:22 meaning of possession
    02:12 look within
    02:45 self-worth & trauma
    03:52 stuff hid vulnerability
    04:28 mental distraction from pain
    04:43 clutter is chaos
    05:08 wasted energy
    05:25 declutter life
    06:08 declutter thoughts
    06:39 the person I want to be
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Komentáře • 82

  • @ConnieRiet
    @ConnieRiet  Před 15 dny +32

    I had to let go of clutter to heal from past trauma and stop the current chaos. This personal story is close to my heart and one I felt was worth sharing.

  • @sebathi1
    @sebathi1 Před 2 dny +1

    You are such a natural beauty !!!
    Very impressive to me and my inspiration for my further path of life. (I am 53)
    Thank you soo much !

  • @Melissa-ms4xn
    @Melissa-ms4xn Před 13 dny +38

    I'm glad you made this video, I can recall when I was homeless and faced with many things in Life until $75,000 biweekly began rolling in and my Life went from A homeless nobody to a different person with good things to offer!!!!!!❤️❤️

    • @Harristeeter-do7dl
      @Harristeeter-do7dl Před 13 dny +1

      I believe when God blessess it exceeds beyond my expectation. I know my Father in heaven is a generous father who provides the needs of his children🥰

    • @Harristeeter-do7dl
      @Harristeeter-do7dl Před 13 dny +1

      I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @muller8159
      @muller8159 Před 13 dny +2

      Every one of my prayer requests is about to manifest in the Name of Jesus I receive and connect with this message in Jesus' mighty Name Amen🔥🙏

    • @Melissa-ms4xn
      @Melissa-ms4xn Před 13 dny

      After enduring many struggles, I am now filled with gratitude for owning a new home. My family is happy, and everything is finally falling into place.

    • @DaisyMae-qe3kt
      @DaisyMae-qe3kt Před 13 dny

      I have been searching for ways to achieve success. Can you please guide me on how to do so?

  • @ilonagybels8818
    @ilonagybels8818 Před 14 dny +10

    You are a beacon of light, tranquility and focus in this chaotic world! ❤ 🙏 Namaste!

  • @Stopit77
    @Stopit77 Před 14 dny +8

    So true , the material things are used as an emotional support. Thank you for this reminder ❤

  • @francinehogsett3065
    @francinehogsett3065 Před 15 dny +7

    With age comes wisdom….you are enough ❤️

  • @TinkerbelleToes2010
    @TinkerbelleToes2010 Před 15 dny +5

    There is so much wisdom and truth in your words. Thank you!

  • @Linda-fg2rz
    @Linda-fg2rz Před 14 dny +7

    Such good advice. You are a beautiful lady and I pray you are well and enjoying each and every day.

  • @sadafmirza357
    @sadafmirza357 Před 9 dny +2

    Dear this video of yours brought tears in my eyes,not only i could relate but also felt that someone telling my own story without me being aware,Thanku Connie for helping so many of us without even knowing our pains and wounds,i would love to have a guide like you or a friend

  • @jeanjacobs9965
    @jeanjacobs9965 Před 14 dny +3

    When I lost most everything, I felt as though I had died. I think it was a death of who I thought I was. My identity didn't return and I still feel uncertain about it. Love and blessings ♥️🙏

  • @TheMennomilist
    @TheMennomilist Před 10 dny +2

    This was so beautifully filmed and said!

  • @greenlady43
    @greenlady43 Před 14 dny +1

    When we planned out our life together for retirement I found it painful to sell, donate etc all our household goods so we could sell our house, buy an RV and travel. It took me awhile to come to terms with things and memories. We traveled for 15 years with the mindset of buying anything meant something had to go. Four years ago we stopped traveling but we still live in our RV. For some reason I’ve stuffed every nook and cranny with ‘stuff’. So once again I’m decluttering with the dream of moving out of the RV into a small apartment. You are helping me declutter

  • @antoinettegalloway4022
    @antoinettegalloway4022 Před 14 dny +3

    Thank you for this very insightful video, Connie. It validates what I already knew, deep down inside myself: “The best things in life, are not things”. Thank you for this reminder……….❤

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Před 15 dny +8

    Hey Connie I feel peace and a sense of direction from your story I’ve been over 2 years on my minimalist journey I’ve been stuck for 2 months due to some family issues but I’m taking a grip of myself and I’m going to delete more than clutter I’m moving on to being who I want to be so I can find some personal peace and be content with myself knowing I’m living life as I want to thank you

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Před 15 dny +4

      I'm so glad my story resonated with you. Always align your choices with the peaceful life you desire. You are worth it!

    • @margarettownsley9500
      @margarettownsley9500 Před 15 dny +2

      @@ConnieRiet thank you Connie for your reply and advice I appreciate it I just want peace and normality something I’ve not had much of 🌾

  • @helgahensley2484
    @helgahensley2484 Před 15 dny +5

    I feel the same.
    I loved watching it.Thank you very much.Thank you.

  • @philippegoetschel
    @philippegoetschel Před 14 dny +2

    I love it! The world needs more people like you to share their inspiring stories.
    And yes, I'm going through this transformation myself and can empathise with the pain and chaos🦋🦋🦋

  • @Areutherehello
    @Areutherehello Před 14 dny +3

    This video is gorgeous! This is one of my favorite videos of yours!

  • @marybethglaser2185
    @marybethglaser2185 Před 15 dny +3

    Excellent video. Thank you for sharing your journey. Your insights are so helpful.

  • @marissaclaridge7627
    @marissaclaridge7627 Před 15 dny +4

    Love your video Conniexxxthank you❤

  • @revighetto
    @revighetto Před 14 dny +2

    Hi, Connie 😊 thanks for the inspired words and nature. Yes, giving space for new and better choices is not easy but definitely will shape our tomorrow.

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 Před 7 dny

    I have always had allot of fear behind stuff. To fill up cause l was so empty inside. As l am finding that inner beauty....outside beauty of stuff no longer made sense. I hired a large skip....and began. Filled to the top. Then l began being practical, if not needed or supported me...gone. my walls of art l cleared. My home is now fresh, airey, and lovely to quickly clean. Nothing comes in and an item per day goes. My depression is lifting also.

  • @privatename8228
    @privatename8228 Před 14 dny +1

    Beautiful. Calming. Insightful. Thank you.

  • @carlgemlich1657
    @carlgemlich1657 Před 15 dny +3

    Perfect content and title for this video, Connie. I think it's one of your best. Thanks.

  • @anniecochrane3359
    @anniecochrane3359 Před 14 dny

    "I was enough" Thank you Connie for this very special video so full of wisdom for a life based on what is true for oneself and brings peace. And decluttering thinking is such an important part of this. I appreciate what you express so very much.

  • @ivonnej6312
    @ivonnej6312 Před 14 dny +1

    You are beautiful inside and out.
    Thank you for your videos 🎉

  • @fionaharvey6165
    @fionaharvey6165 Před 14 dny +1

    Lots to think about, thanks 🌵

  • @nancysflowergarden
    @nancysflowergarden Před 14 dny +3

    I have so many antiques that were passed down to me. I’m just about ready to let some things go. I don’t have the space in my house I bought 4 years ago. I went from 4000 sq ft to 1000sq ft
    N I’m feeling like I’m just wall to wall furniture
    It’s hard due to I inherited these items but it’s just too much
    I feel like a family hug though

  • @Amy-lx1tn
    @Amy-lx1tn Před 12 dny

    Thank you.. I have never thought of my life like that .. but it makes so much sense to me now.. thank you..hugs

  • @SeaDragonSam
    @SeaDragonSam Před 13 dny

    Thank you Connie for such good advice. I can relate to your experience of healing from past trauma and to embrace a simpler more peaceful present life

  • @bozenastarosciak1632
    @bozenastarosciak1632 Před 14 dny

    Thank you Connie

  • @HelenVaughn-un6de
    @HelenVaughn-un6de Před 14 dny

    Thank you

  • @janine1517
    @janine1517 Před 13 dny

    Thank you so much! I feel calmer and in a better frame of mind from just watching your video, it is very cathartic 🙏 x

  • @ClaudiaRichter-cu5bc
    @ClaudiaRichter-cu5bc Před 14 dny

    Thank you so much for all your inspiration Connie 🙏🏻❤️

  • @LynneMilne
    @LynneMilne Před 14 dny

    So much wisdom in your words and your choices. I’m going through a similar journey right now and have let go of so much. More to do, but I’m getting there. Perhaps then I will focus on dealing with the childhood trauma too. I’ll see. Much love to you. I love your videos - so calming 💕

  • @rottenbanana20
    @rottenbanana20 Před 12 dny

    Thank you so much for this vidoe. Have a wonderful day ❤

  • @user-fr9eq5ng4t
    @user-fr9eq5ng4t Před 15 dny +3

    Thank you! I am working on decluttering. So hard and so necessary. What an interesting connection between clutter and trauma.

  • @stacygoodman1973
    @stacygoodman1973 Před 14 dny

    Beautiful video! I really enjoyed this ❤

  • @louisianarainwater
    @louisianarainwater Před 7 dny

    💚💚💚

  • @christianaboli
    @christianaboli Před 13 dny

    I'm in a place where I have to move, because the owner wants to live in the house. It came as a shock and now I am in deep decluttering mood, as I have to downsize, due to huuuge rental costs here in Athens, Greece. I also have an 18 year old son who is just about to start university, so it couldn't have been a more unsuitable period for me. I also need to sell. I sympathise. Thanks for this video!!!

  • @jessicaborum9886
    @jessicaborum9886 Před 15 dny +1

    Wow this is one of your best! Such great insight. Thank you, again and always. JB

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Před 15 dny

      Hey Jessica! Thank you so much!💗

  • @ronniecue8860
    @ronniecue8860 Před 14 dny +1

    You are so right. Hope I can do the same

  • @miep12
    @miep12 Před 11 dny

    Greetings from the Netherlands, your name sounds very Dutch, calm and serene😘🍀

  • @KJ-lb4tj
    @KJ-lb4tj Před 14 dny

    Of course she's right, possessions are not what ultimately matter. Having lots of things that you love or few, that's not the point. The point is inner contentment in who you are and your ability to connect with others. Then, whether you have a lot of things or few things, they won't matter to you in the same way.

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 Před 7 dny +2

    That is still allot of stuff in your home.

  • @cb779
    @cb779 Před 15 dny

  • @melasweetie
    @melasweetie Před 15 dny

    I like your light blue cleaning towel where is it from?

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Před 15 dny

      I picked it up at the local grocery store in Playa Del Carmen, Mexico. 😊

  • @osakuniakachukwu4088
    @osakuniakachukwu4088 Před 13 dny

    I'm glad I came to this comment section, I'm been motivated to start investing in forex trading

  • @darianalawrence643
    @darianalawrence643 Před 14 dny +1

    This location reminds me of my country, the Dominican Republic. Where are you?!

  • @cherylwalker8446
    @cherylwalker8446 Před 9 dny

    It looks like you sold your possessions and merely replaced them