To the Wife, From a Widow

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 27. 07. 2024
  • Todays video is a super raw topic that dropped on my heart and I just could not ignore it. Im addressing all the wives. There are so many seasons in marriage and in that, calls for many transitions and stages of what it looks like to be a wife. If you are a newlywed wife, seasoned wife, or a wife that is fighting for her marriage, this video is for you. Always remember that you have a sister in Christ in me and that I love you!
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  • @melissathw
    @melissathw Pƙed 6 lety +99

    Ever since I saw your "my husband passed away" video I've never taken a second for granted with my fiancĂ© ❀ thank you for sharing your story.

    • @ashley3461
      @ashley3461 Pƙed 6 lety +3

      Melissa Mermaid Yes, never take a moment for granted! Appreciate and cherish every moment. I lost my husband in a motorcycle wreck because a car pulled right out in front of him. The police told me that the man pulled out so close in front of him that he didn't even have time to react, and that the wreck was over before he even realized it was going to happen. I was 27 and he was 29, our children were 2 and 5. He was just on his way home from work and an 83 year old deaf man ran a stop sign and pulled onto the busiest street, right off the interstate in that city. And I still don't understand why Allstate insured him, they even called me the day after my husband died to discuss how much money they would pay me ($50,000 and not a penny more, that was the man's policy payout so it was non-negotionable which was the last thing on my mind) and the person I spoke with was so inconsiderate and unprofessional. I wasn't expecting a pity party or anything, but the agent didn't have to be so rude and disdainful. She even told me that it was ok that they had insured the man that had killed my husband, despite his age that deaf people could drive too. (Which if they do, they should have someone with them to alert them to sirens and such) I responded with asking her why my husband was dead then. Of course she couldn't muster up an answer. After another upsetting phone call from another disrespectful agent, my dad started talking to them on my behalf since their agents managed to say something to make me cry or really upset me every time I talked to them. And it took me 16 months to get that money form them, I even had to hire a lawyer so they would pay me. It was just a nightmare. Anyway, I got off of the subject there.....sorry! But like I said, he was young and healthy, wasn't overweight, didn't drink but very occasionally, didn't smoke, and ate very well. He was as healthy as could be, yet he was at the wrong place at the wrong time and that was all it took. I have remarried though and am very happy, but I will always love and miss him. Tomorrow is never promised, only today. And remember that today is a gift, that's why it's called the present! 🎁 Much love to you, and I wish you nothing else than blessings and happiness in your marriage. 💕

  • @liandrajanel
    @liandrajanel Pƙed 6 lety +110

    my husband sleeping next to me today i will hug him and tell him I love him more ... I'm in tears God bless your Heart ... He will get you through this.

  • @thisisgugu8039
    @thisisgugu8039 Pƙed 6 lety +172

    Awe Michelle. I'm praying for u I'm glad you anniversary is on a Sunday and you will be in church. I'm praying for you now and will be praying for you then. Your strength is an inspiration!

  • @sarai637
    @sarai637 Pƙed 6 lety +70

    This is the side of CZcams I love to be in. Thank you for the enrichment, and allowing God to use you on this platform ❀

  • @KrissiCreates
    @KrissiCreates Pƙed 6 lety +113

    What a brave, beautiful, wise young woman of God !! I just went through our wedding anniversary and the 7th Angelversary of my husbands death. Purely through God's grace, this year I was able to celebrate his life and our love. I was blessed having amazing family and friends to help me do just that. After 7 years I celebrated his new life with our Lord Jesus. I wouldn't want him back the way he was. He suffered for exactly 1 year with terminal Mesothelioma lung cancer. Unlike you, we were blessed in that year to be able to have such open, intimate conversations and experience an even deeper love than we'd ever had. Yes, I miss him every single day. But, through faith, I know I will see him again !!
    Stay strong in your faith, draw on God's grace and love. You are never alone !!
    Hugs, love and prayers from a 60 year old widow from Kansas, USA

    • @bebe-mariecrespo7389
      @bebe-mariecrespo7389 Pƙed 6 lety +5

      Kris Thomas that is encouraging,sorry for your loss , keep the faith and the hope and the love, the memories you have of the husband

    • @candycolriv
      @candycolriv Pƙed 6 lety

      ❀

  • @jasminelowe3935
    @jasminelowe3935 Pƙed 6 lety +70

    I'm not a wife and if it's God's will for me to be one this video has given me insight on what to look forward to! Beautiful video! Thank you it's great to see a true sister in Christ! Keep inspiring and doing what God has called you to do! I am definitely sharing this video. God bless you!

  • @seatedwithchrist8268
    @seatedwithchrist8268 Pƙed 6 lety +94

    You have such strength and I know that it comes from the Lord. God is truly using you for His glory! ❀

  • @wolfcreek1ify
    @wolfcreek1ify Pƙed 6 lety +56

    Being a wife of 34 years, great advice, thank you for sharing.

  • @amandafinger5015
    @amandafinger5015 Pƙed 6 lety +58

    Not a wife.... don't even have a boyfriend but I thought I could learn something from this:) Thank you for your raw, authentic, honest upload. You are a beautiful daughter of the King and the Lord is so incredibly proud of you and how you use your "spotlight". I am praying for you this weekend💕 You are such a strong warrior, because you rely on Holy Spirit đŸ™ŒđŸ»đŸ˜Œ love you

  • @ciaragarcia8254
    @ciaragarcia8254 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    I’m a military wife and a wife fighting for our marriage. Thank you for this video.

  • @lizethcm1747
    @lizethcm1747 Pƙed 6 lety +10

    Wow...I'm a newlywed wife...and that touched my heart thank you so much for such beautiful words! ❀

  • @caseyistre1614
    @caseyistre1614 Pƙed 6 lety +9

    Im the 3rd wife. And today I was at my breaking point. You will never know how perfect the timing was of this video.

  • @azb23
    @azb23 Pƙed 6 lety +19

    Thanks Michelle! I'm the third wife. I've been separated from my husband for a few years now. He moved away across the country. I would say about a year ago I just gave it all to God and what a relief that was it allowed me to walk freely and peacefully. We've been back and forth, working on things at one point and working on the divorce the next. Recently I've been doing things that I want to do. Not looking for direction in God but living my life as accepted by society standards. I accepted a job that would put us in the same city, but I made it up in my mind that I want nothing to do with him (he told me not to take the job, I still took the job after praying about it and stepping out on faith). I guess my anger towards him and my fear of what people might think about me has changed the narrative of my story
    recently. But we are not living our lives for society standards or norms. I want more on my life and I guess the past month I've been confining the power of God and not allowing his true love and power to work in my life. I think I needed to see this message to remind me to continue to trust in God and follow his will and not to my own. I've experience walking in his will and the benefits that come with it so why in the world would I even consider taking over now at such a critical point in my life?God wanted me to move for a reason and I need to allow myself to be open to direction and guidance. All I really have out there in this new city is God (no family or friends). So now more than anytime in my whole life I need to depend on him. Again thanks for that reminder about keeping him at the center!!! I pray that you continue to find peace through this difficult journey and that God continues to use as a blessing for countless others.

  • @BreatheandRead
    @BreatheandRead Pƙed 6 lety +100

    Every single time I watch your videos, I'm *amazed* at your strength. You are so serene. Your voice is so calming. I love every video.
    I'm not in a relationship, but I'm sure this is great advice. Thank you for sharing!

    • @christinad4432
      @christinad4432 Pƙed 6 lety +1

      Jessica - Breathe and Read beautifully worded. couldn't have said it better my self.

    • @ashley3461
      @ashley3461 Pƙed 6 lety

      Jessica - Breathe and Read She's awesome, isn't she? I was widowed at 27 (it's been more than 5 years and I am remarried now though) and as a fellow widow, I just love Michelle's grace, poise, and the manner in which she speaks and makes these videos. She really is using her tragedy to make something good come out of it and help others. 💜

  • @ElizabethNoelleK
    @ElizabethNoelleK Pƙed 6 lety +11

    Oh wow that was so beautiful Michelle. I am that 3rd wife. Thank you for your prayers and God is so good! I know this weekend is hard for you, it has to be I know it would be for me. You have taken your sorrow and turned it into a sweet smelling đŸŒč đŸŒč rose đŸŒč! I pray for you too and God bless you always! 😘

  • @jennnca
    @jennnca Pƙed 6 lety +8

    Girl. So many tears I can barely write this comment.
    This video was my gift. Thank you.
    I am the wife who is tired and praying for my marriage for a few reasons. Been with my husband 22 years next month, married for 6 on the same day. Fighting for the strength everyday. Never giving up.

  • @karensarahi1022
    @karensarahi1022 Pƙed 6 lety +14

    September 26 is my 3rd weeding anniversary! & we are going through a rough stage in our relationship 💔 I'm prying to God everyday, to understand my husband & what he is feeling ... your video was perfect thank you for your words... I'm going to keep fighting for my marriage & my family, so we can stay together ❀

  • @valeriesalcedo8228
    @valeriesalcedo8228 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    I'm so grateful for you, I'm a military wife and have been married for 9 years. I feel like you are the best friend, I have also wanted to have. You are amazing, keep doing what you do❀

  • @ashley3461
    @ashley3461 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    Another thing we have in common.....Christopher and I were also married for five years before he passed and our wedding anniversary was September 15 so the date was very close to yours as well. This is such an amazing video, I remember feeling a twinge of almost jealousy when I would see a happy couple because I felt it was so unfair that my partner was taken away. But you address these couples with such grace, dignity, and love. You are so strong and amazing, Michelle! I love you beautiful girl, and I just know God has great plans for you. And as always, you're in my prayers. 🙏💓🌈

  • @maddygordon5472
    @maddygordon5472 Pƙed 6 lety +9

    As a new wife, I can't say how incredible it is to have God speaking so individually to me through you. Thank you so much and may God bless you as you continue to open up your life to others on this platform.

  • @stephykay87
    @stephykay87 Pƙed 6 lety +32

    As a young widow I realize I may have taken my marriage for granted and done all kinds of things wrong, one day I hope to learn about and love God as much as you do. 2 years later after my husbands death I am struggling harder. I love watching your videos because you speak to my struggles and I know your pain. I admire your strength ❀

    • @camillewilliams9840
      @camillewilliams9840 Pƙed 6 lety +1

      stephykay87 I’m right there with you ❀❀ đŸ–€

    • @hudihoodz
      @hudihoodz Pƙed 6 lety

      stephykay87 I feel like u r me. I now realize a lot of things I did wrong and how I wish I cud have changed them. Looking back I realize that things are just things. I had prayed to God to bring him home but I didn't specify which home, I meant our home but God took him to His home. Had I known that we had such little time together, perhaps I cud have done a lot of things differently. We r never prepared to be widows at this age. I still cry a lot especially in the mornings while preparing to go to work, and the evenings when going to bed. I feel so alone. I miss him so much. Like u, I hope to sm day know God again and love Him just as much

    • @hudihoodz
      @hudihoodz Pƙed 6 lety

      Camille Williams me right there

    • @stephykay87
      @stephykay87 Pƙed 6 lety

      Our daughter was 2 months shy of her second birthday when he passed and I feel like we are both in for a lifetime of grief. They say it gets easier but it hasn't yet. I pray for all us grieving.

    • @TheLAKERGIRL87
      @TheLAKERGIRL87 Pƙed 6 lety

      stephykay87 I’m in the same boat đŸ™đŸŒ

  • @ridahsavelio4023
    @ridahsavelio4023 Pƙed 6 lety +43

    Yasssss notification squad, where you at? Im loving how much love you have for god even though you went through so s much. Love you michelle 💟💟💟 HAPPY WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

  • @Sitasbudgetingjourney
    @Sitasbudgetingjourney Pƙed 6 lety +8

    I admire your strength, faith and love for God. Thank you for sharing this truly wonderful message. I will be celebrating 5 years of marriage in April (Insha'Allah (God willing)) and like you said there are gonna be tears and moments of pure joy but the important thing is that you keep God present in your marriage. Without my faith and prayer I believe that I would have walked away from my marriage on more than one occasion. Thank you again and I pray you find peace this weekend as you celebrate the life that You and Curtis shared. God bless you.

  • @rhoadestraveled
    @rhoadestraveled Pƙed 6 lety +28

    You are truly a jewel. Thank you for glorifying God in your pain. You are rooted sister!! Thank you for the reminder that life can change in an instant. I will hug my husband a little longer when he gets home for you. That's not selfish. Gosh you leave me breathless when you shine His light in your pain and darkness. You're like a modern day Job. Maybe we should nickname you Balinda since it means endurance, like Job.

    • @rhoadestraveled
      @rhoadestraveled Pƙed 6 lety +3

      I'll be praying for you tomorrow on your anniversary. Please still allow yourself to celebrate your love. He may be gone but your love for him is still very much a part of who you are. Your love is still alive. 💗

  • @madphatchick7782
    @madphatchick7782 Pƙed 6 lety +1

    Myself and my sons just prayed for you before we went to sleep. I was pressed to lift you up in prayer. Love you lots. I see God's hand in your life. I am humbled and inspired by you and you are 11 years younger than me and yet as a woman in Christ you are much older than me. I look up to you. I am proud of you for holding onto the hem of His garment. I will continue to pray

  • @katarinastrode
    @katarinastrode Pƙed 6 lety

    I found you on CZcams today with your video about our husband passing away. I’m a wife of over a year to a man in active duty military who is currently deployed. This really really touched me, so I just wanted to say thank you for reminding me to never take anything for granted even when he’s so far away. God bless you

  • @EddiesWifexo
    @EddiesWifexo Pƙed 6 lety

    I needed this right now. I'm the 3rd type of wife. This gave me hope. You are truly an angel, thank you for this! God spoke directly to me through you! I'm in tears. I know God has a powerful plan for me and my marriage 💜

  • @Alyssa-tg6vv
    @Alyssa-tg6vv Pƙed 6 lety

    I return from a TDY today & I will hug my husband a little tighter today. I love that you allow the Lord to work through you to deliver these amazing messages on your channel. You are a POWERFUL woman of God & you are greatly appreciated! 💙

  • @ashliej6557
    @ashliej6557 Pƙed 6 lety

    I thank God for you! I have been fighting for my marriage for the last 2 years (with the last 6 months being off and on) and I recently found myself giving up on the fight and to hear that you have been called to pray for marriages like mine.. Thank you for your prayers, because just this week we have decided to try again and I stopped my pursuit of divorce. And just a few days later, I found your video which shows me that when I had no more fight left in me, God sent angels like you to fight in prayer for me and my marriage. I just came across your channel a couple of weeks ago and you have been in my prayers as well.

  • @becomingme2689
    @becomingme2689 Pƙed 6 lety +18

    This was great. I went into marriage thinking we'd fight the enemy together butt I'm seeing that as much as that is true. There are times where you'll be fighting the enemy for your husband. Loved what you did at the end. My husband should see a glimpse of the love of God through me. And that shouldn't be effected by his actions or the circumstances we find ourselves in.

  • @DinahReviews
    @DinahReviews Pƙed 6 lety

    I truly love you! My husband of 17years is battling brain disease & this past week has been so hard with his appointments & what doctors are saying. All I could do is cry & spend time with the Lord. I felt so burdened. I keep telling my subscribers I will update them BUT then I am just so burdened it is hard to sit down & talk. After seeing this (and your previous videos), I was deeply encouraged to move forward (like you said in your last video) & tackle everything happening. I mean, the strength of Christ that I see in you is so encouraging & you posting is exactly what is needed. It encourages others in the body. THANK YOU for your obedience. I say this every time, but I MEAN it. You encourage me so much sis.

  • @AllieWhitt1959
    @AllieWhitt1959 Pƙed 6 lety

    Michelle...I am viewing your vlog at 5:30 in the morning. I couldn't sleep and was sick and tired of watching the depressing news. I grabbed my phone and happened to see your message. Thank you Lord!! 😊 I have been married for over 23 years, and you are so right. Marriage is a journey and is hard work. There are good times and not so good times, but through it all... God is Faithful & True. My husband & I still love each other, but the closeness, fire & passion is not like it was. I believe we both have strayed from a daily walk with the Lord, and our marriage is not what I know the Lord desires for us.
    Thank you for praying for us and those like us who are experincing trials and tribulations in our marriages. I am seeking the Lord's guidance and asking Him to work on ME to be a better wife and to submit humbly back into my role in our marriage. I am also praying for my husband to step back into his role to be the spiritual head of our marriage. I thank the Lord for putting it on your heart to create this vlog and for leading me to it!! I am also praying for YOU at this most difficult time.
    All praise & glory to our Lord Jesus Christ. He is coming back soon to take His Bride, and I am looking forward to meeting you and Curtis!!
    Love you....God is using you girl for His Glory💖😊

  • @borbelisciousrdchanel8625

    Michelle, last night when I woke-up from my sleep about 1:30am I came across your video the first one after your husband passing. Let me tell you, I was sooo touched of you story & I can't help watching you channel esp. the Life celebration of Curtis. Before you know it, it was 6:30am & I need to get ready for church. I was only 20yrs. old when I married the love of my life whom I met in church. He's 5 yrs. already & going 34 yrs. Wedding Anniversary. Truly, the Lord has a plan & He is using you for His Glory. Your relationship w/ your husband is very inspiring. It's not the quantity but it's the quality of your marriage. I'll be praying for your strength, recovery & grieving. I lost 5 siblings & my Mom's first death anniversary on the 22nd but I cannot imagine losing my soul mate. Your beautiful song Abba is very comforting. I'm now your subbies & you are very addicting. Hehehe, have a blessed Sunday & most of all for sharing your life to us. 👍😇👌

  • @flutesrockalltheway
    @flutesrockalltheway Pƙed 6 lety +6

    Dang girl. You really spoke to me. God is really working miracles through your talks and advice and prayer. God is just too amazing. Bless you, and may God always guide you and bless your journey!

  • @ballerinaaub
    @ballerinaaub Pƙed 6 lety

    My fiancé and I get married next September 1st but we've been together 6+ years and I've experienced a bit of all the wives you've mentioned. The other night I lay awake and looking at my fiancé and thinking to myself how lucky I am to have someone stick with me even through hell and back. And I believe that God has given us these struggles because he knows we can fight and get through it and allows us to turn to him for help and strengthen not only our relationship with our husband but also God. Thank you Michelle. Xoxo

  • @elizabethtucker4825
    @elizabethtucker4825 Pƙed 6 lety

    Yes! This is for me 🙌 I will hug my husband more often,I was just talkingwith my daughter, telling her I need to give more of me/my affection to him .God be with you and continue to use you !💛

  • @4funkids828
    @4funkids828 Pƙed 6 lety

    You did not know but that person was me, I need it to hear that. Thank you! May God keep using you to glorify he's name. God bless you so much, you are a true inspiration!

  • @nellijuanez6204
    @nellijuanez6204 Pƙed 6 lety +8

    I’m not married but your video touched my heart!! Your an amazing person and God had great plans for you!!!!

  • @marinasoliman4019
    @marinasoliman4019 Pƙed 6 lety

    God spoke right in to my heart through you! Your words were such a gift and JUST in a right time!!! I'm going through hard time with my husband, we have 3 little kids and we are also almost 6 years married. Thank you soooo much for your prayers! God bless you and thank you again for allowing God to work through your pain to help someone like me. I'm very humbled by that and so grateful! Thank you Michelle! 💕

  • @daviannamartinez6188
    @daviannamartinez6188 Pƙed 6 lety +16

    Omy Gosh, Michelle thank you for this message, WOW you left me speechless and in tears...umm I dont know what to say...but I know this was for me..thank you and praise God! God bless you!

  • @ladyJ_000
    @ladyJ_000 Pƙed 6 lety

    If you ever doubted what your purpose is on earth girl, God has put you here to educate and strengthen women with your words! You are such a beautiful, woman of God and I could listen to you speak for hours. Thank you đŸ™đŸŒ

  • @tynee2310
    @tynee2310 Pƙed 6 lety

    This is so touching. I'm engaged, and this spoke volumes to me even though I'm not married yet! Thanks for always sharing a positive message. I pray that God gives you strength, and surround you with love on Sunday!!!

  • @badgalray8663
    @badgalray8663 Pƙed 6 lety +2

    Your video brought me to tears, i am the struggling wife and it hurts so much to be where i am now in this marriage , the decision to end it is so hard but i know I wanna be happy and this marriage is killing me in all ways, thank you for this video 💕

    • @cynthiastephanie7974
      @cynthiastephanie7974 Pƙed 6 lety +1

      Bad GalRay . . be strong in GOD darling ! I had to reply to you because I felt the pain through that short comment. You really are not alone as Michelle said, I as well wrote a very similar comment as yours. May God bless you & help you both ! It's definitely Not easy to choose to leave or stay , even when a bigger part of you wants to go. it is very hard . Stay with GOD. it is the only thing that has helped me "relax & gain personal strength" if you will. .

  • @andrealizrios5252
    @andrealizrios5252 Pƙed 6 lety

    I definitely needed to hear this. Confirmation from Lord telling me to push forward and not give up. I've been married for 3 years and my marriage has been struggling. But every word you said spoke to my soul. Thank you. ♄

  • @nazykeen5544
    @nazykeen5544 Pƙed 6 lety +17

    I haven't went through such hurt/pain but I love you for having the courage to share your story because I know there's others who can relate. I have you in my prayers 💕 marriage is such a beautiful thing. You make me love Love.

  • @untrouble316
    @untrouble316 Pƙed 6 lety

    I receive your gift. I accept your gift. I humbly thank you for your gift. After 18 years of marriage. I was starting to forget that my husband was placed by God into my life and with God we can continue to grow together. Bless you lady I so needed this message in my life. Thank you for reminding me to fight for marriage and that what he has put together shall it never be undone. Bless you and thank you my angle.

  • @bethanyryan404
    @bethanyryan404 Pƙed 6 lety

    We've been married almost 6 yrs and have had many ups and downs. I am currently going through a difficult time right now but your video has given me an extra amount of hope. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I'm praying for you too:)

  • @jenniferherrera9750
    @jenniferherrera9750 Pƙed 6 lety

    I’m 33 and I lost my husband in August... thank you for your videos . I pray God continue to guide you on this journey and this ministry

  • @JustTheAllens
    @JustTheAllens Pƙed 6 lety +2

    Hey Michelle! I'm a newlywed (3 months married) and this spoke right to me. My husband & I are youth pastors (he's on salary & I volunteer) and sometimes it does seem like I'm sacrificing more because it's my "free time" but wow this put it in a whole new perspective. I am learning to enjoy the sacrifice and this taught me to realize that God has placed all of this is my life for a reason, for such a time as this. Love you girlllllll 💘

  • @katbien-aime670
    @katbien-aime670 Pƙed 6 lety

    OMG! You are a blessing to me today from Gd. And I thank you for surrounding to the Lord for me. For all of us! You are amazing. You make my heart and my soul cry. I am the newlywed wife but feeling the fight. Pray for me. Pray for us. You are now in my heart and in my prayers. Thank you my love. Kat

  • @lynettegonzales2814
    @lynettegonzales2814 Pƙed 6 lety

    I needed to head these words ❀ Going through a rough time in my marriage, hasn't even been a year & it's terrible. Going to put everything in God's hands đŸ™â€ Thank you!

  • @traceyhaggins1053
    @traceyhaggins1053 Pƙed 6 lety +18

    You are such an inspiration. I'm so glad I was early cause it came at the right time. Just keep God first and follow he will never leave you.

  • @stephflores1980
    @stephflores1980 Pƙed 6 lety +2

    This video was for me. I have been married for 17 years I have a had good times and bad. Right now is the bad it's been really bad lately. But I know his glory will come in my darkness. I love your soul and the wisdom God has given you beyond your years. I needed to hear this and I thank you.

  • @kattofkats9431
    @kattofkats9431 Pƙed 6 lety +2

    I swear on a daily basis I need to hear that God has this, my breath was taken when you said "nothing has caught God by surprise" đŸ™‹đŸŸ

  • @annac9534
    @annac9534 Pƙed 6 lety

    You are amazing. And I appreciate this video so much. I am a military wife and have been married for 5 years- I feel like you spoke directly to me through this video. Just wanted to say that I am proud of YOU! 💜

  • @janeyblonde6863
    @janeyblonde6863 Pƙed 6 lety

    Michelle you speak straight to my heart.... iv been married 2 years and just hugged my husband so so so tight - you are incredible and your whole youtube community is proud of YOU thank you for your beautiful words. God has called us all to this walk so lets walk it in love ♄ praying for you always xxxx

  • @biancalacey8844
    @biancalacey8844 Pƙed 6 lety +11

    Amen sister! this video was amazing. Being married is beautiful, however it has its ups and downs. My husband and I have been through it all, but we are still standing. Thanks for the encouragement! I love how you said the odds are against us and the world is against us because alot of days it feels like the devil attacks marriages so hard because God cherishes marriages. I am glad I watched this video. You are a strong and wise young woman.

  • @sandradelgado1782
    @sandradelgado1782 Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank you for youre words I needed to hear them! Tomorrow is my wedding anniversary of 12 years . God bless you greatly💓 and continue to use you here!

  • @mrs.jeans.8700
    @mrs.jeans.8700 Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank you for the encouragement. I have been married 35 years, and there were some things I really needed to hear. God bless you so very much.

  • @bluemickey23
    @bluemickey23 Pƙed 6 lety

    This video is right on time. God was definitely speaking to me through you. I was at a mother's Bible study sharing my story and lo and behold I was not alone. I have to keep praying even when I'm tired. I just told God I was tired. I was tired of feeling like I'm living in hell, but I don't want to throw in the towel. I have to surrender and let God do his work. I can't give up on God because he is here for me. If he will provide for the birds he would do it for me. I have to stop worrying and being afraid. I need to trust God. Please continue to pray for us women fighting for our marriage. You are a blessing and I will always be praying for you. ❀

  • @cecijordan43
    @cecijordan43 Pƙed 6 lety

    Wow michelle i dont have many words but i just wanted to thank you for posting this video, although you posted it 4 weeks ago im just now watching it and its soooo timely for me right now, thank you for your prayers and for using your platform to be such a light... you’re in my prayers too. “They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither, and they prosper in all they do.”‭‭Psalms‬ ‭1:3‬ ‭NLT‬‬You remind me of this tree, continuing to bear fruit even in such a tough unimaginable season of life💙 God bless you 💕

  • @lg55015
    @lg55015 Pƙed 6 lety

    The first video I watched of yours was when you announced Curtis’s passing. I was filled with a newfound appreciation for my husband that seems to somehow get lost in the day to day and routine. I just want to say that your and every other young widow’s bravery is amazing.

  • @yasmingonzalez5519
    @yasmingonzalez5519 Pƙed 6 lety

    I'm in tears .. me and my husband have been on rocks ... This woman is so .. sweet.. I am so sorry about your husband.. my hubby is sleeping next to me and this really just changed... Everything .. it's crazy because I saw the first video when u told us about how Curtis died I never clicked on it till this day ... I just finished watching everything.. and I'm shook .. I believe God has a plan for you I believe you are strong .. god blessed you with such a kind soul .. Michelle

  • @shilparaman1579
    @shilparaman1579 Pƙed 6 lety

    How can someone be so incredibly strong brave beautiful and profround. I am in the third category, trying hard to save my marriage and your words made me cry but they also gave me hope that God is there with me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❀

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz Pƙed 6 lety

    Noone ever prepares u to be widow, especially a young widow. I lost hubby 3yrs ago yo cancer. When he was sick, I never thought of death. I just saw us beating this monster and rising above it. I was never prepared. I watched him gone on his hospital bed. I haven't recovered. Everyday I look up my window and think I might just see him open the gate and pull up to the house. It's like I don't knw myself any longer. Keep strong

  • @lissette7479
    @lissette7479 Pƙed 6 lety

    My wedding anniversary is tomorrow. Also a widow grieving and you are an inspiration. I thank god for putting you and your videos in my journey. Much love and appreciation.

  • @yokobelgyau391
    @yokobelgyau391 Pƙed 6 lety

    Came across your channel today n have been crying throughout..
    Am married for a year n two months n lost my baby after nine months...i felt your pains n how strong the Lord has made you..because that is how the Lord made me....He totally wiped my tears and always making me stronger...May he be our strength for life.God bless you

  • @mostloved6798
    @mostloved6798 Pƙed 6 lety +7

    U are such a beautiful person. God bless you and thank you for this video... I'll be thinking of you especially on the 17. 😘🙏

  • @ranaa9975
    @ranaa9975 Pƙed 6 lety +8

    Stay strong my friend, we are all praying for you even though I'm from a different religion but I will pray for you with all my heart

  • @kimberlymcv8408
    @kimberlymcv8408 Pƙed 6 lety

    My husband and I have been together since 1991 of November and we have been married since 1993 of November , my husband has been ill for 4 yrs he needs a liver transplant , the first video I watched of your was after you lost your husband at first I wasn't going to watch it because I don't want to think of down the road result without the transplant . I am happy I watched your video and to see the strength you get from your belief and love for God , I know eventually I will experience your loss and heart break , but to hear your words of encouragement and strength in God lets me know to trust God and appreciate my husband more and the time I have with him .

  • @AvyMabel
    @AvyMabel Pƙed 6 lety

    Aww Michelle this is so timely, I am a newlywed, and i hear you when you say he can be annoying *hides* I needed to hear this, thank you, thank you ❀

  • @sidetracked121
    @sidetracked121 Pƙed 6 lety

    This video popped up for me, on the 27th of October, a very special date for me, that I am spending for the fourth year without my loved one in person with me. Thanks for showing me this difficulty is not only mine. Sending lots of Love. 💓

  • @ineveryseason
    @ineveryseason Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank you @loveMichelleAna I really needed to hear this x Bless you sister!

  • @epidemicfire07
    @epidemicfire07 Pƙed 6 lety +12

    praying for your strength sis â˜ș

  • @yaritzaxo
    @yaritzaxo Pƙed 6 lety +3

    This was truly a gift for me. You have me in tears girl. âŁïž God bless you. Your strength is crazy to witness.

  • @adriannalee4010
    @adriannalee4010 Pƙed 6 lety

    I absolutely LOVE what God is doing for you and the seed you are planting into others. Every woman needs to be uplifted, so thank you for that. ♡ Praying for you hermana!

  • @Toasty066
    @Toasty066 Pƙed 6 lety

    Just thank you!! You talked inside my situation! May God bless you sister ♄

  • @jerolyn21
    @jerolyn21 Pƙed 6 lety

    I'm so thankful for coming across this video. I thank God for you willingness to uplift other. I needed this. God bless you 😙😙

  • @DianneHernandez
    @DianneHernandez Pƙed 6 lety

    Miss loveMichelleAna I do believe the LORD is giving you a ministry! Your experience and wisdom is touching so many women, young and old alike. Be open to HIS calling, it's evident HE has a plan for you! 💋

  • @ezadacalicdan8607
    @ezadacalicdan8607 Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank u so much for taking the time to do this video. It gave me so much encouragement just when I needed it. God bless you

  • @elisamarie3779
    @elisamarie3779 Pƙed 6 lety

    Wow!! I watched this after your last video. I NEEDED to see this.
    I'm in tears and at the same time feel encouraged. Fighting. Waiting to see the story unfold. Like you said none of this has caught God by surprise and what a reminder! This was real.
    Thank you my sister in Christ for praying for those marriages! For mine.
    God bless you!

  • @jennaharmonn
    @jennaharmonn Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank you for sharing, keep pushing !! God is holding you in the palm of his hand!!! Love your joy that radiates off of your face :) 💕

  • @Midwifemeka
    @Midwifemeka Pƙed 6 lety

    Your voice is the most calming thing ever. I am thankful for this video. I am in year 3 now and loved this advice!

  • @kieriona21
    @kieriona21 Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank you for being such an inspiration. Every time I watch one of your videos I am so amazed by your strength. My husband & I have been married for over a year, together for 5+ years. I'm also a military wife so I try my best to always take advantage of the time we spend together, but this video just made me open my eyes a little wider. I'll be sure to love on him a little extra. Thank you & I'm always praying for you.

  • @HeyShannonRae
    @HeyShannonRae Pƙed 4 lety

    Found this one week after my wedding. Girl, my heart just...💜

  • @deee1776
    @deee1776 Pƙed 6 lety

    I just want you to know that I’m thinking of you! Im a fellow Christian and I know that God’s got your back. I lost my new born baby two and a half years ago and I know how extremely hard the ‘firsts’ are. Bless your heart.

  • @jazminzunigaa
    @jazminzunigaa Pƙed 6 lety

    Girl you are amazing! I love how you speak of the word keep doing it please it's refreshing to hear these things from other people. I'm praying for you❀

  • @honeyespresso
    @honeyespresso Pƙed 6 lety

    Beautiful video. Thank you for continuing to share your insights with us. In awe of you!

  • @Readings.So.Dope.
    @Readings.So.Dope. Pƙed 6 lety

    Please Please continue this episode!!! You delivered such a blessing. This heartfelt conversation from you to us(ME) was AMAZING! Thank you and God bless you😊

  • @MJennifer
    @MJennifer Pƙed 6 lety

    What a beautiful message. God must be so pleased with you! I shared this hoping it can reach more. God bless xx

  • @DrMelBuilds
    @DrMelBuilds Pƙed 6 lety

    I just thought about you a couple of days ago and today, my friend sent me a link to this video. God bless you Michelle. Thank you for your strength and encouragement.

  • @philaire5413
    @philaire5413 Pƙed 6 lety

    Continuous Prayers for you! Thank you for being such a light even through your darkest times :)

  • @kimberleelianathai9927
    @kimberleelianathai9927 Pƙed 6 lety

    I'm praying for you, please stay strong. Thank you so much for your beautiful words, this means so much to me. I'm a military wife and it gets so hard and watching this is restoring my faith and to believe in God!! Thank you thank you thank you. I'm sorry for your pain

  • @nicci3732
    @nicci3732 Pƙed 6 lety

    I love you! I just recently started watching your vlogs, but your faith and love is just astounding to me!! Thank you.

  • @zoniarivas8789
    @zoniarivas8789 Pƙed 6 lety

    God bless you MichelleAna, you spoke right from the heart, your words were raw & pure. Thank you for your wisdom.

  • @rayneebranch9690
    @rayneebranch9690 Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank you for sharing this Michelle. I wish I could tell you my story but I just don't want to share it in this format for the world to see. I needed to hear this and I think you so much for reaching me. I continue to pray for you and send love your way. Thanks again

  • @vanessaf6149
    @vanessaf6149 Pƙed 6 lety

    Wow. I am not married but a single mum. This video touched me and i truely felt gods Mercy though it! Being a single mum working full time Is tough. So much of what you said struck a cord and opened my eyes and heart a little more 😍 with a little tear in My eye i Will crawl into bed beside my darling Boy and hug him a little extra 😘 thank you for being you!

  • @Exhibit_Obedience
    @Exhibit_Obedience Pƙed 6 lety +6

    Thank You Michelle for being so strong in Christ. You're such a beautiful soul. I can feel everything you said in my spirit. Seeing you gives me more hope and strength as well. Sometimes i feel so alone and no one understands, however, thank you for your time and thank you for your fervent prayers. God Bless!

  • @BlueAngel2397
    @BlueAngel2397 Pƙed 6 lety

    Wow you had me in tears. It's amazing the amount of peace you irradiate. You are such a beautiful person in and out. God bless your soul and may He keep giving you strength to continue with your journey.

  • @lindseyslifeNstyle
    @lindseyslifeNstyle Pƙed 6 lety

    *Im so sorry for your loss! This video was so perfect for me right now. I’m a newlywed wife.*