How to React when you get Cheated?| Ft. Nijo Jonson | Relationship Advice | Storyteller

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  • čas přidán 20. 11. 2019
  • Do you feel your partner is cheating on you? Or know someone who is going through this phase? Then do watch this video.
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    Actors:
    Nijo Jonson
    Rohit Gaba
    Shemona Gautam
    Ruchika Sharma
    Written By:
    Nijo Jonson
    Directed By:
    Nijo Jonson
    Cameraman:
    Daksh Jain
    Sound: Agrim Bhardwaj
    Editor:
    Yatharth Pillai
    Social Media Manager:
    Ruchika Sharma
    Head of Post Production:
    Anuj Ramatri
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Komentáře • 272

  • @Uselessguytruth
    @Uselessguytruth Před 3 lety +412

    If someone cheats its best to leave them forever and never approach them or get approached by them . Once a cheater always a cheater.

  • @khaoslord6578
    @khaoslord6578 Před 3 lety +139

    ppl who cheat are the ones insecure and they are unstable
    best to leave them.

    • @simranbharti9169
      @simranbharti9169 Před 3 lety +5

      Totally agree with you! 💯

    • @sushmanavuluru3848
      @sushmanavuluru3848 Před 2 lety +3

      sir u have to get paid for your comments I literally see under so many posts,Xavier ur our saviour😂

  • @dakshezekiel7703
    @dakshezekiel7703 Před 3 lety +144

    its very difficult to forgive them...!! sometimes we rebuke on ourselves just bcoz we give 100% loyalty and trust

  • @jhankaarmiku5958
    @jhankaarmiku5958 Před 4 lety +82

    I saw ur many videos on fb.Then i came to CZcams..
    Surprise to saw the subscribers...Jo log kuch accha msg dete hen unko support kam log karte hen..
    Jo log bas timepass k liye channel khole hen unka million subscribers..🙄🙄
    Bt we all are with u Sir..😊😊

  • @Manaprava_K
    @Manaprava_K Před 3 lety +78

    When a break up happens mostly people try to get into another relationship immediately just to move from emotional set backs or to prove themselves strong. It's a very wrong decision . Because at last u end up with unhappiness and destroying another life. Understand yourself and take care of yours.
    ~Experience

  • @nasrinabi5810
    @nasrinabi5810 Před 3 lety +69

    But guys don't take a call as to continue with the cheating people.. It is again and again killing us. We have a beautiful soul within us. Strighten your crown and walk away. Life will become beautiful, not suddenly...after some days...after some pain..after some examination..everything is need time.. Keep walking through your difficulties..

  • @ghff1963
    @ghff1963 Před 2 lety +11

    Cheating hurts but we have to handle it wisely by having a conversation

  • @idk-lv6md
    @idk-lv6md Před 3 lety +78

    My husband is cheating. caught him in my house with a girl. it's just unbelievable for me. for a moment I got freeze. how to react. and now the situation is instead of being sorry he is showing his ego. saying that extramarital affair are legal now. really broken from inside. we as a women we are very sensitive with our relationships this is what we get back in return a cheaters

    • @av7051
      @av7051 Před 3 lety +9

      True....why do we even get married and get into thia never ending cycle

    • @indrajeetsingh-ev3ig
      @indrajeetsingh-ev3ig Před 3 lety +9

      😭😭😭
      But I really love my father he is the best husband in the world 🙂🙂. My mum is very lucky .
      But really feeling bad for you 😭😭.

    • @thunderbirds8633
      @thunderbirds8633 Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah you saw your husband,it is sad. But don't worry, the extramarital rule is only for ladies. You can file a case against him.

    • @idk-lv6md
      @idk-lv6md Před 3 lety +9

      @@thunderbirds8633 he said extramarital affair is legal now u can't do anything against me. I really don't know whether it is legal or not but I know this is not right hurting someone n breaking trust.

    • @rekhak7129
      @rekhak7129 Před 3 lety +3

      True ya instead of serving such strangers it’s better not to get married and serve our parents during their old age !

  • @MrigankaBarua
    @MrigankaBarua Před 3 lety +17

    Moral is Single Life is the Real Life 😎

  • @roushan24x7
    @roushan24x7 Před 3 lety +37

    I just started watching your videos today, and I'm addicted to your stories about now. Hate you for that. And I just got cheated today CHEERS🤟🤟

  • @pujithagaddale7171
    @pujithagaddale7171 Před 3 lety +25

    I have sufrd a loootttttttttt a guy cheated me many times but I trusted him always blindly again he cheated me and he left me.... After some days he again came and begging for me but am sure I don't go now

  • @ashimagoel7105
    @ashimagoel7105 Před 3 lety +31

    There should be no talk no discussion
    Cheating is not a dispute to be resolved its a decision they made now they must suffer consequences

    • @LNE565
      @LNE565 Před 3 lety

      Ashima have you lost it?....... honestly tell me who is perfect in the world .....if we keep on punishing others for their mistake,then at the end we all will get our mistakes...

    • @ashimagoel7105
      @ashimagoel7105 Před 3 lety +14

      @@LNE565 cheating is not a mistake its a conscious decision.
      If one forgives a cheater, its a punishment to one's ownself that too with out any mistake

    • @LNE565
      @LNE565 Před 3 lety

      @@ashimagoel7105 my point is people do mistake knowingly....but we need to know that, at those moments their logical reasoning is not working. Punishing will make it worse. The best is to accept them and bring them back in the right track

    • @ashimagoel7105
      @ashimagoel7105 Před 3 lety +9

      @@LNE565 no i dont agree.
      At least Cheater must be left alone to face their karma to bite them back.

    • @LNE565
      @LNE565 Před 3 lety

      @@ashimagoel7105 well every one has their own way of dealing with cheater.....as for me I would forgive them thousands times. That way I win.

  • @vabpritasharma8368
    @vabpritasharma8368 Před 3 lety +6

    Its very tough situation when you come to know u r cheated by ur partner ,,,,, Firstly he strt avoided you n thn starting comment on ur looks they will there best to break you in every aspect ... And they never guilty about u hurting the othr person

  • @talhakhan4783
    @talhakhan4783 Před 4 lety +6

    Great work sir my friend also suffering on this and i showed him this vedio now he is understanding what he really have to do you are helping many much love ....sir make a story on who brokens ,i mean people who gets cheated because broken people always had negative thoughts so if you make vedio on them what they really have to do after gets cheated it will be very helpful for people.

  • @nasrinabi5810
    @nasrinabi5810 Před 3 lety

    And i just found this channel today... Really, great work.. Keep motivate people and keep rocking....all the best.

  • @akankshak.5284
    @akankshak.5284 Před 3 lety +6

    Ones a cheater, always a cheater!!! They shouldn’t be “forgiven” coz they will simply REPEAT the incident...they don’t require a second chance at all...there is nothing to resolve!!!
    You just dump these asses like they never existed in your life and find someone your loyalty deserves...

  • @shalaka4784
    @shalaka4784 Před 3 lety +118

    The videos on this channel are really motivating. I just found this channel today. I even subscribed it. Its really nice.

  • @akshaymundkur
    @akshaymundkur Před 2 lety +8

    It makes very little sense to me as to why the person who gets cheated on (the one at the receiving end of cheating in a relationship), is always advised to be the bigger person and asked to think of healthier coping mechanisms 🤦🏻‍♂️
    It makes absolutely zero logical sense.
    Why isn’t the cheater given such advice?

  • @allyhappy6563
    @allyhappy6563 Před 3 lety +2

    Itne duur chale jao in cheaters ke jahan sirf aur sirf khud ki independent happiness ho...aur in cheaters ki na waaz sunaaii pare na ye reachable hon.......dnt worry about being get alone...there is lots more good to do in life

  • @nithiyakandasamyviji4548
    @nithiyakandasamyviji4548 Před 2 lety +1

    Really needed.shouldnot blame on oneself... problem solved..thanks a lot tour videos..no more cry 👍

  • @poojashri24
    @poojashri24 Před 3 lety +1

    Great content, i really wish u a good luck and fortune bcoz you are doing a great job....this will definitely aware many misguided people...who are falling in the trap of such cheated ones.

  • @tamanna4697
    @tamanna4697 Před 3 lety +11

    But I think there's no point resolving a situation with a person who cheated on you. Just my thoughts

  • @LNE565
    @LNE565 Před 3 lety +2

    Leave him was a very derogatory remarks...... people are born different and unequal...the only way to get that equilibrium is forgiveness. Not once many times many many times 👍👍👍👍🙏

  • @rajeshwaribnaidu8285
    @rajeshwaribnaidu8285 Před 4 lety +16

    I'll be waiting for ur video....every week... please make Atleast 2 video for week

  • @mabhinandan6296
    @mabhinandan6296 Před 2 lety +1

    Combination of Gaba and Jonson in a video. Just awesome

  • @AyushKumar-ti7sr
    @AyushKumar-ti7sr Před 3 lety +1

    I liked this video after the second part started, this is a good thing to resolve, TAKE IT EASY!!

  • @ravali_ravali3981
    @ravali_ravali3981 Před 3 lety +12

    I'm just addicted ❤️ to this channel.. and it's worthy for subscribing 😍

  • @santhoshishekar8546
    @santhoshishekar8546 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Nijo,
    You are videos are really motivational ..Content wise it’s very different from the other stuff in CZcams .

  • @anaghaann3832
    @anaghaann3832 Před 3 lety

    Ur videos are really helpful ✨thank you soo much for your efforts 🎉

  • @shanthikumari3665
    @shanthikumari3665 Před 3 lety +4

    Very nice video 👍💐, the representation way of the topic is very nice, most importantly the vocabulary is very very nice, Nijo acting is very realistic, overall everything is very nice. Lot to learn from these videos,thanks.😊💐👍👌

  • @twincyjaura1878
    @twincyjaura1878 Před 3 lety +2

    best stories are in ur channel..... Good luck 🤞

  • @sprakash129
    @sprakash129 Před 3 lety +1

    Spot on Nijo, wonderful content.

  • @Viper60589
    @Viper60589 Před 3 lety +2

    Nice collaboration between 2 great youtubers 👍

  • @rushikeshdeshmukhmarathibo7465

    This channel is growing exponentially wow😍😍

  • @rudheeshrk
    @rudheeshrk Před 3 lety +1

    Great Thoughts Bro....

  • @bluejill404
    @bluejill404 Před 3 lety +1

    Amazing content , just woww!!!!

  • @apnizindgi8395
    @apnizindgi8395 Před 3 lety +1

    Speechless ...owsm

  • @sheftareyaz4334
    @sheftareyaz4334 Před 2 lety

    Aapne to meri problem solve kardi..😌thanx for this video

  • @laylakhatun4294
    @laylakhatun4294 Před 3 lety +2

    This channel it's really helpful for everyone.... Today I have subscribe your channel.. And i really happy for your team member's.

  • @specialone6804
    @specialone6804 Před rokem +1

    Instead of cheating... person should clear all things to his or her partner...that he or she is not interested now....much better than .. cheating....

  • @swethaviswanathan9708
    @swethaviswanathan9708 Před 4 lety

    I feel positive after watching ur video bro....👍👍👍👍

  • @JaiBalayya466
    @JaiBalayya466 Před 2 lety

    Valuable messages in a nutshell 👍

  • @rajyt4135
    @rajyt4135 Před 3 lety +1

    This channel should get deserving subscriber which is million.

  • @mridusmitathakuria4171
    @mridusmitathakuria4171 Před 3 lety +1

    You are a great human being😍😍

  • @babysroundhead
    @babysroundhead Před 2 lety +6

    This is why I'm never gonna get into any relationship 😂🤟or marriage or dating blah blah blah. Point of life is to be happy man, having a relationship is not everything.

  • @bikashbhagat8866
    @bikashbhagat8866 Před 3 lety +7

    Do you think they accept the cheating which he or she done???
    ... Never.....

  • @ashwinikulkarni8103
    @ashwinikulkarni8103 Před 3 lety +1

    Impressive Thank you

  • @ARCHANASINGH-mm2zn
    @ARCHANASINGH-mm2zn Před 3 lety +7

    I was also cheated by my husband...I talked to him..for few days it stopped but after that every month 3rd or 4th I used to get about new girl....I love him a lot... can't get over him...everyone is suggesting me to take divorce but I don't want that...he also says that we should get separated as I don't have any feelings for u...
    From past 2 months we r not talking much...I always tell him to be with me rather I beg him...but he's not ready for that
    After seeing this video I started crying..

    • @zaitunzainuddin7745
      @zaitunzainuddin7745 Před 3 lety +1

      Couples expect too much from each other. Issues like overweight,finance,in Laws etc crop up. No point for a reunion if same issues t not solved. Madonna said reason why pple x get what they want is bcoz they x state what they want initially. So,nurse yr wounds,ask what you want or x want in a man/woman. Best of Luck again

    • @prembhugra8307
      @prembhugra8307 Před 2 lety

      Frankly speaking, there's actually nothing you can do about it. its our natural human tendency to want to punish somebody who has done wrong to us. But in case your partner cheated on you, you can do nothing to punish him or her. Thats the sad reality

  • @The_dancingengineer
    @The_dancingengineer Před 3 lety +7

    Hi Nijo , just recently i started watching ur youtube videos..its a very good thing that u speak about the problem and u give a solution too. From continuous 3-4 days i have been watching your channel..and trust me your giving a positivity in life..i have been going through a phase where i have been seeking a relationship advice, and i feel you could help me out. Can u please put ur email in your coming video as i dont have fb or insta and i dont want to share in the comments section.

  • @srinivaskokkula8250
    @srinivaskokkula8250 Před 3 lety

    Sir really motivating Channel
    Good job bro.....I am Appreciate.....

  • @positivevibes1130
    @positivevibes1130 Před 2 lety

    Best to leave cheater and live your life happily. Because peace of mind is everything.

  • @sudhirvaishnav6951
    @sudhirvaishnav6951 Před 3 lety

    You have earned my subscription...

  • @cooljnetwork3857
    @cooljnetwork3857 Před 3 lety +6

    Divorce is the best option according to me

  • @Lhlh786
    @Lhlh786 Před 3 lety +4

    Cheating might not me out fault... But ... people should have sense wat they r doing so. With someone's feelings...
    THINK once before u do anything... The same thing happened to u how u feel.. so dnt cheat , blame ,dnt fall ur character on doing cheap tricks.

  • @MrigankaBarua
    @MrigankaBarua Před 3 lety +2

    Cheating in Exams >>>>Cheating in relationship. 🤣😎

  • @myprincessandmywonderland8418

    Love the concept...

  • @vnarayan520
    @vnarayan520 Před 4 lety +4

    Marvellous

  • @snehabonde384
    @snehabonde384 Před 2 lety

    Well this is very informative video when people get to know that they are being cheated they are lost confused and pretty angry and they do something really stupid that they will regret later so its hard but really important to be calm....

  • @KupwaraTourism
    @KupwaraTourism Před rokem +1

    I am a person who trusted a girl 1000X times and she cheated again and again.. I was deep. In love with her but now..
    It seems she was faking every moment..
    I bit her a goodbye forever now....
    Once a cheater always a cheater

  • @radha1284
    @radha1284 Před 2 lety

    Good concept nijo bro keep it up

  • @tanvigupta6348
    @tanvigupta6348 Před rokem

    It was really heart touching video 😢 and 😭 inspirational

  • @smita1993
    @smita1993 Před 3 lety

    This is first video in your channel...I saw useful

  • @slipknotj2581
    @slipknotj2581 Před 3 lety +6

    That’s not how you do it.
    You first gather enough evidence, recorded evidence.
    Hire a private detective
    Above is it the cheater is your wife or husband, cuz later if you spill the beans and you need to get a divorce and stay away from blackmail and alimony do the anove
    If bf or gf, just leave the relationship, settle the dues first very important

  • @shrutikathorat9602
    @shrutikathorat9602 Před 3 lety +9

    Why the hell our generation has normalised cheating 🤦‍♀

    • @immorethanthischoudhary9019
      @immorethanthischoudhary9019 Před rokem

      Our generation is actually trying to resolve this and move on and heal, cheaters are in every generation, and all of them accepted it and normalise it. Our generation is brave enough to talk about it.

  • @akashghogre3302
    @akashghogre3302 Před 3 lety +5

    I just find out your channel and its really awesome,
    And help me for my relationship problems ❤️I found one of the best content in you tube

  • @archanalamba9874
    @archanalamba9874 Před 3 lety +9

    Thanks sir.. I m also the same situation..& I confused wat I do but now watching this video my confusion clear and I m taking the right decision.. thanks sir god bless u

  • @SA-ty3fo
    @SA-ty3fo Před 3 lety

    Good motivation.....

  • @shaikhsobiafatema7283
    @shaikhsobiafatema7283 Před 4 lety +1

    Uploaded great video 👍

  • @ahmadhassaan6867
    @ahmadhassaan6867 Před 2 lety +3

    But why do people cheat when we are really sincere and loyal to them ☹️😶

  • @hardeeksharma1368
    @hardeeksharma1368 Před 4 lety +30

    Impressive.......

  • @radhikashetty6681
    @radhikashetty6681 Před 3 lety +1

    Appreciated...

  • @rosy11651
    @rosy11651 Před rokem

    Easy to say.... hard to... feel the actual pain over n over again

  • @mamtabharti3408
    @mamtabharti3408 Před 3 lety

    You right said

  • @Nostradamusknow
    @Nostradamusknow Před rokem

    What the hell is " try to resolve it", what is there to resolve when a spouse cheats, it always because he/ she finds you in adequate, when the cheating happens, they have already walked out of their sacred vows. They have broken the trust, for all they care is their needs above all.
    Do not be bitter, it happens, but never take that someone who did not care for you, back into your life, even if you have kids, face it. That relationship just died, and no point carrying a corpse of that relationship around.

  • @bipinchkhanda3665
    @bipinchkhanda3665 Před 3 lety

    Best CZcams Channel 👍👍👍

  • @anjalisaini1850
    @anjalisaini1850 Před rokem

    Hi nijo!!! Remember me your colleague of bhartiya vidhya bhawan cp... Happy to see your video....kudos 👏👏👏

  • @soumyadipdas572
    @soumyadipdas572 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow Rohit R Gaba sir also in this video

  • @girijadarabare1145
    @girijadarabare1145 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much

  • @LifeStyle-lh6ol
    @LifeStyle-lh6ol Před 3 lety +1

    Good share brother

  • @pokuripriyanka5867
    @pokuripriyanka5867 Před 3 lety +2

    Hi...
    I'm suggesting u people pls to do a story about, moral ethical values and responsibilities of grownup children's to their parents after they get married... instead of sending them to old age homes

  • @SivaRaj-bf5ze
    @SivaRaj-bf5ze Před 3 lety +1

    Divorce is best option once a cheater is always a cheater

  • @artandcraft6389
    @artandcraft6389 Před 3 lety

    Thank youuu ☺️ bhaii

  • @souvikdas3636
    @souvikdas3636 Před 3 lety +24

    This video is sort of funny, because everyone around nijo is cheating on someone haha

    • @adisri9898
      @adisri9898 Před 3 lety +4

      Become like nijo you would be also able to observe surrounding more..

    • @souvikdas3636
      @souvikdas3636 Před 3 lety +1

      @@adisri9898 haha right

  • @sujathaj1520
    @sujathaj1520 Před 3 lety

    your long time fans may feel to see your bloopers.

  • @shecan7261
    @shecan7261 Před 3 lety +7

    Brother ,,, sometimes husband or men may go against if discussed openly in some times if he want her to be with him with a gentle look In his family and frnd circle

  • @sayunidin6640
    @sayunidin6640 Před 3 lety

    You are right nijo

  • @MOHAN_BILLIONAIRES_TRADINGCLUB

    Thank you

  • @snehamoorjani4833
    @snehamoorjani4833 Před 3 lety

    Pr hame nahi sochna chahiye ki log kya kahenge its our life we should have the remote of our life and control them .

  • @sarakhushi23
    @sarakhushi23 Před 3 lety +3

    This time you are absolutely wrong, but right choice is to engage, find someone who really loves you. And end the relationship..

  • @flowerking7429
    @flowerking7429 Před 3 lety

    Nice to meet your channel 👍

  • @pollytheparrot8929
    @pollytheparrot8929 Před 3 lety +5

    Can u make a video on this...if a sister is getting molested by her brother in law.. But her elder sis is not supporting her nor taken any action against him. And blaming her sister for no fault of hers. How to deal with it?

    • @LNE565
      @LNE565 Před 3 lety

      Group discussion is the key

    • @immorethanthischoudhary9019
      @immorethanthischoudhary9019 Před rokem

      File a case. And also gather some evidence. People like this should never be allowed in society. Make sure the brother in law get long time, and if a sister is not believing her own sister for such a serious thing, then so sorry but yeah sister is really a&&h0le and insecure, no need to keep that kind of relatives in life.

  • @mrudulachoudhary2964
    @mrudulachoudhary2964 Před 3 lety +6

    Dear,Nijo its realy frustrating initially, when ur got to know your spouse is cheating on u, it happens all becouse of ur insecurities,the time u disscuss d issues with him/her things become easier for u &for ur partener also.

  • @kodamatilavanya910
    @kodamatilavanya910 Před 2 lety

    Nice video.. Sir

  • @manainyemlym4631
    @manainyemlym4631 Před 3 lety

    Mara yaar kya video banaya hai💋🔥

  • @thalurishalini3452
    @thalurishalini3452 Před 3 lety +1

    Ur videos are adorable

  • @lakshmichakravarthi8140
    @lakshmichakravarthi8140 Před 3 lety +1

    Nice content

  • @yash3699
    @yash3699 Před 3 lety

    Great

  • @Chadboye
    @Chadboye Před 2 lety +1

    Shattered and cheated after 5 years
    Damn it hurts

  • @prembhugra8307
    @prembhugra8307 Před 2 lety +2

    well! i have just a single question. what if the person doesnt even care if we leave them or not?

  • @afrin6455
    @afrin6455 Před 3 lety +1

    I am actually very confused about whether should I forgive him or leave him.. totally confused not able to make a decision