I Can’t Compete With the Models on His For You Page | Episode 258

Social media has changed so many things about our lives. For better or worse it's a part of our culture now. However it can also promote unrealistic body expectations, comparison and feelings of insecurity. In today's episode, we have a girl that is uncomfortable with the type of content her boyfriend has been viewing. In the gray areas of social media, it's important to stand your ground and set boundaries you're comfortable with.
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[@TheLollipop1213]

To the girl in the first video, I don’t want to upset you but I am speaking from experience when I say this man is not the one for you. I was in a 3.5 year relationship and made excuses for his behaviors or told myself it could be worse. Yes it could be worse but that doesn’t mean what he was doing was okay. I know it seems hard to breakup after 4 hours but you will get through it! You deserve so much more. My ex was doing the same stuff plus more.

[@leahabernathy4999]

Dear anonymous (didn’t catch your name),
All my love and support goes out to you right now because this situation absolutely sucks. Whether you chose to break up or stay either choice is going to be hard and have a long journey of healing ahead of you. Whichever choice you do is absolutely up to you because only you know the whole relationship and what is right for you. Something I would like to add to the advice is to think about your two kids. The man that your kids are around will shape what they think about men and who they want to become in the future as well as what kind of men they date or have intimacy with. Think about the example you are setting for them. You condone whatever behaviors you put up with, and your children will absolutely see that and either become that, date that, or have a lot of hard questions for you when they grow up about why you chose to stay. Also think about what you would tell you daughter (if you have one) or your best friend if they came to you wanting to get plastic surgery and change themselves just to appease their boyfriend and keep him from looking at breasts online. Moving forward, listen to your gut and don’t settle. Anyways all my love and prayers towards you my friend and I pray you make the decision that is right for your future and your kid’s future. ❤

[@TheLollipop1213]

This comment!!! I hope the girl sees this comment and it resonates with her ❤

[@user-yl9ce5zy9o]

When Ashley kept saying auditioning for softball😂

[@rebeccamcauley4549]

What an amazing episode! I completely agree there are areas in a relationship where you need to set boundaries. Especially when your boyfriend or partner is viewing content that is making you feel uncomfortable. Its tough not to compare yourself but as someone in their mid-twenties beauty comes from within as when you are happy and self-assured shows on the outside. Hope you're both well! ❤❤

[@BVBArmYBISH]

The IG story is so relatable! Happened to me in the past 😭

[@KatDavisonPhotography]

My fave pod to help me get my butt in gear on Mondays. Thank you ladies. Hope you have a beautiful week.

[@KarolinaHajnos]

I’m not trying to brag but I’m so happy that my man is not on socials just how Ashley said because it hurts the trust but also hurts the girls confidence that the guy should be reaffirming. Especially after 4 years!

[@Themckennarose]

So excited to listen!!!

[@Opalthompson]

❤❤❤

[@Shyanne.Patricia]

So if a man dating a bisexual women should that women be able to see half naked women etc?

[@mht4908]

First 💜💜