This is the song I would cry to when I was 16 and pregnant. Music really has a way of helping you get through things in life that you would've never thought you could overcome.
this song will always give me the chills. this is literally one of his best songs EVER. he rly rapped from a woman's perspective and that shit always gets me. jcole is one of the GOATS !
I'm 19 && I had a little boy recently. && I love my son w my whole heart. Age doesn't make a mother. Stepping up and taking care of your child makes you a mother.
I'm 16 and 34 weeks pregnant . And this song is basically the soundtrack to my life rightnow. And everything he talks about in this song is just so true to me... It really got me
I forgive you JRL but I'll never 4get the words you said to me how you used and abused me for what the power of prayer I poured out my heart & soul to your worthless a$$ and it still wasn't enough 💜💙😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔 I guess everything happens for a fucking reason thow 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
I used to walk down train tracks to work listening to this song while I was stressing with my son's mothers pregnancy. He's going to be 10 next month. Her and I finally split a couple years ago. Whatever path you chose young men make sure your there for you're children.
I'm 17, and I lost my little cub at 10 weeks in April from stress. As a teenager, I know it's not ideal, but I still feel the emotions that an older woman would feel over losing a child. My baby's father is 20, and he wanted me to get an abortion, until his bestfriend convinced him that I was lying. I definitely feel for this song, especially when J.Cole starts rapping about the man panicking. It was the hardest thing of my life, so if you haven't gone through woman difficulties, don't judge.
This goes out to all the SINGLE MOMS out there who has to/been through this before, KEEP YA HEAD UP, I know it's hard being a mom and dad, and I know how you feel, I'm going through the same thing, as a teen mom, being a mom, dad 24/7 is probably one of the hardest things to do, much respect ❤️
Cole has a great ability to spit from other people's perspectives. Dope flow and storytelling. From then til now u can tell he heading for the hip hop hall of fame
My girlfriend sent me this song when she discerned am getting detached after telling me she's pregnant. I felt so sad. Though I love her have just been having hella shit taking over my mind. Dear kings, Don't neglect your seed.
I ain’t gonna lie... I was finding life real hard today. This song gives me hope. It gives me strength. It gives me faith that things will get better somehow, someway. I trust God and I trust my process. If anyone is reading this and finds life hard sometimes, trust your process. Pain is purpose. Shout out to J Cole for this song man, He’s a real artist and an inspirational human! 🙏🏽💯
This made me cry. Middle of the store. 23 years old and crying like a baby in the middle of the store. Me and my love are expecting a baby this December. I couldn’t be happier. But it wasn’t always easy. It still isn’t easy. But it’s all worth it!!
i was only 15 in high school and my first pregnancy was the worst and i lost it 12 weeks in and he left me and we don’t speak anymore . i’m 18 soon to be 19 and i still cry sometimes about it.
i love this deep meaningful music that hip hop has lost..i listen to j cole when im feeling down and it makes me feel a bit better..keep making this raw shit cole your fans live for this shit ..
When he did the verse of the girl that shit got me. I don’t even really like rap but that had me crying. Respect for him, I can’t literally feel that part and a lot of others do too. Strong verse.
My man showed me this song last night and said this reminded him of when we found out we were having our son😣 he regretted even telling me to have a abortion, now we have 6 weeks till our boy arrives ❤️❤️ and its the best adrenaline rush he’s having
How’s it going? Please be there for your baby, even if ur relationship doesn’t work out that’s fine. But every child needs a father…that will shape the child entire future
FIRST TIME I heard this song I cried that Shows J.Cole is a REAL Lyricist ! He's an amazing Rapper and I Loooove This Song the message is So Powerful I Hope Every Young Women Received it Like I Did
I had my 1st son when I was 18 and my bf was 19. Scared as hell but everything worked out in the end, we got married and had another son at 20 and 21. Nobody is perfect meaning forgiveness for the times someone hurt you is vital for a relationship to work out.
My bd used to play this when I found out I was pregnant shit made feel some type of way now my kid 3years old and I’m a single mom for the rest of the females that can relate yAll not alone 💯👌💜
God dam J Cole is just straight raw talent. He had just a simple beat and a mind that is creative and talented enough to make you feel so much emotions through his music. J Cole is already a legend to me :)
I can relate to every word in this song. The difference is, both perspectives were myself in opposing halves. The second I took that pill to induce the miscarriage, the second I saw the blood when I went to the toilet... My life changed. I've regretted it ever since. RIP little angel, I'm so sorry.
im not for abortions but at the same time we cant judge people who decide to go down that road, we dont know their situations and it will always be a sensitive subject...but big ups to j.cole giving two sides to the story...love his music!
This song has to be heard by all the teen moms because it will give them a positive emotions instead of the opposite I think teen moms should love the baby because you never know what could come of the kid Just love the baby💖💖
To everyone saying there going to do what it takes to take care of the baby they helped bring....Thanks...god bless yall...i barely turned 19 and im having a child with someone one i barely met.. And I ain't too proud to tell ya that I cry sometimes I cry sometimes about it...but ill do my part.
A well written song I remember this early in 2006 from an anymous songwriter perfect example of putting your emotions and life experiences and making a positive song with a emotional influence while spreading awareness of a person young and having a baby.
I have an appointment for an abortion next Wednesday & I immediately thought about this song....God I hope I’m doing the right thing, I’m so scared I won’t ever be able to forgive myself. This song is making me think so much right now and all I can hear in my head is the heartbeat that they made me listen to, everyday is a struggle feeling a life grow inside of you that you will never meet....feeling fluttering kicks of a baby you will never hold....every nauseous moment, every point of morning sickness breaks my heart to pieces because it’s proof that I’m creating something so wonderful....so wonderful yet I will never be able to see your beautiful face...I have a daughter who barely turned 6 months, we aren’t ready for another baby. We weren’t even ready for her and that’s why this is so hard on me physically mentally and emotionally. This is tremendously difficult for any woman to go through, but as a mother already I feel it’s so much more difficult....I’m not sure who I’m writing this to....God? Strangers? I’m not sure tbh because I don’t think anyone gives a shit about some random CZcams comment but it felt somewhat relieving to write some thoughts out. God please help me, this will be the most difficult thing for me to bounce back from & I’m asking for the strength I don’t have..please please
Hey, I see you're in a predicament rn. Imma say that you should go to this Instagram acc named @letthemliveorg. They'll talk to you about leaning towards pro life and will answer any questions you have. It all depends on your decision. Hope I'm not too late in giving a suggestion.
I know this is late.. but I heard you and felt this. I hope you made the right decision and that you’re holding your sweet bundle of joy right now. Sending Prayers to you 🙏🏻
J cole = one of the best rappers of all time.
Sighty Uzumaki word
Sighty Uzumaki goat
Disturbed ZHA tony da goat
Haven't seen this video in almost a year.... makes me remember what I was doing during this time.
He would get more appreiation if he didnt use the N word so often in this song. Gorgeous message and song though. He is amazing
2020 who’s here still listening. Cole world baby!!!!
kester crown 🤙🏽
🙌🏼
FR not for rather fuckin fakes I'm still here
kester crown 🤙🏼
Nah bro I’m from 2013
Aye that pregnant girl be spitting bars tho
LMAO
idk why I found that so funny don't judge me
her "stomach" is going to digest the baby before its born AYYYY LMAO
Swearing TOAD wtf
+Swearing TOAD wtf?
😂😂😂😂
If Pac was alive he wouldve been Very Happy! Cole Da Mann! Four years later and still one of my favorites!
I agree.
+Andre Moxey Totally Agree!
LØRD MCD true💙
''Letter to my unborn child'' got me near tears.
6 years later for me
This is the song I would cry to when I was 16 and pregnant. Music really has a way of helping you get through things in life that you would've never thought you could overcome.
It's POWERFUL
Did u abort that shit?
DABS N XANZ you a piece of shit for saying that’s a child whether or not she keeps it or not
DABS N XANZ fuck you
DABS N XANZ you must have deep issues
He's very unappreciated.
agreed
he really is
WHOOOOOOOO NOT J COLE
I’m
No wtf literally everyone sucks him up
"so typical, said you loved me, oh, but now you flippin like reciprocals" that maths reference tho
😂 haha
+Amarice "it figures tho"
I totally agree with the lyrics
After many years i now realise the "it figures though" part was there. Such genius!!!!!
Quick mafs
this song will always give me the chills. this is literally one of his best songs EVER. he rly rapped from a woman's perspective and that shit always gets me. jcole is one of the GOATS !
Literally I got goosebumps
wheres the 2019 squad at yall are the real ones
Afosii YT right here!!
No we're the lost ones
ayyy
Afosii YT 🙌🏽🙌🏽
fr
this is the deepest shit ive ever heard...
Greavesy TVL bhbh
Dance With The Devil by Immortal Technique for me but this deep af as well
this song is deep as fuck. made me love Cole even more.
cole world baby
Get a blanket
@@tonyrodriguez6120 You can both snuggle together in the bandwagon
"Now I aint to proud to tell you that I cry sometimes, I cry sometimes about...."
Hothergooseclub
I'm 19 && I had a little boy recently. && I love my son w my whole heart. Age doesn't make a mother. Stepping up and taking care of your child makes you a mother.
Hows your boy doing
computerkopman123 Great 🥰
You got this how’s it going
so u r 26 now and ur boy 7 or 8 !!!
I hope life has treated you and your kid well🩶
I’ve been looking for this version of the song for so long!! I liked this original version better than the album one but both are pure 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yoooo daquan
You a cole fan, you officially a real one
@@liberatorthemasterinstigat5037 of course, bro! Cole has been my favorite artist since The Warm Up!
Yo daquan bro been a Cole fan
Ayeeeee Daquan IS THE REALEST
I'm 16 and 34 weeks pregnant . And this song is basically the soundtrack to my life rightnow. And everything he talks about in this song is just so true to me... It really got me
God is with you always! ❤️😊 May God Bless your beautiful heart today, beautiful! ❤️😊 Stay strong, beautiful! ❤️😊 God is with you always! ❤️😊
stay strong 💕😏
Visente fernandes
Would love to hear how you are doing now! This song will probably always mean something to you regardless
Hope your kid is doing good :)
Damn the girl verse snapped
I forgive you JRL but I'll never 4get the words you said to me how you used and abused me for what the power of prayer I poured out my heart & soul to your worthless a$$ and it still wasn't enough 💜💙😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔 I guess everything happens for a fucking reason thow 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@@lorriahunter8163 a nigga barely over 20, where the hell we gon live?
Where am I suppose to get that money??
This shit hit home. I shedd tears
9 years later… never knew my favorite song would become my life.
Hope all is good man
Prayers up
True shit. Just found out I’m pregnant. Can’t stop crying
“Her” verses always give me chills no matter how many times I listen to it. The passion she spits with…ooooweeeee
I have goosebumps! Certain ppl can pick up on energy and emotions better than others. I felt her verse and I’ve never even been pregnant 😂🤟🏽24
I used to walk down train tracks to work listening to this song while I was stressing with my son's mothers pregnancy. He's going to be 10 next month. Her and I finally split a couple years ago. Whatever path you chose young men make sure your there for you're children.
I'm 17, and I lost my little cub at 10 weeks in April from stress. As a teenager, I know it's not ideal, but I still feel the emotions that an older woman would feel over losing a child. My baby's father is 20, and he wanted me to get an abortion, until his bestfriend convinced him that I was lying. I definitely feel for this song, especially when J.Cole starts rapping about the man panicking. It was the hardest thing of my life, so if you haven't gone through woman difficulties, don't judge.
your 24-25 now. Hope your doing well love.
Good luck
hope you doing well!
10 years since. I hope you’ve found happiness. I hope you love yourself ❤ and I hope you surround yourself with people who love you.
This goes out to all the SINGLE MOMS out there who has to/been through this before, KEEP YA HEAD UP, I know it's hard being a mom and dad, and I know how you feel, I'm going through the same thing, as a teen mom, being a mom, dad 24/7 is probably one of the hardest things to do, much respect ❤️
Cole world 2021
Cole has a great ability to spit from other people's perspectives. Dope flow and storytelling. From then til now u can tell he heading for the hip hop hall of fame
This song is deep....J Cole got bars
If this ain't one of the realest songs ever
Damn. 2019 wya? This is one of his best.
Ed Beasley 2020 and here
This man is really one of the greats. I’m feeling this crazy
This song it’s basically my life when I was pregnant with my daughter . I’m glad to say I kept my kid and left him ! And we are happy
"I refuse to bring my boy or my girl in this world when I ain't got shit to give them"
Currently..
Rose Godinez did you have the kid?
@@brittanyceballos931 hopefully
Point, we hussle for them babies
My girlfriend sent me this song when she discerned am getting detached after telling me she's pregnant. I felt so sad. Though I love her have just been having hella shit taking over my mind. Dear kings, Don't neglect your seed.
Collins Ojuma 💔
Exactly if I ever get a girl pregnant she'd become everything in my life
@@Coliocoliocolio make sure she's your world before you plant your seeds in her
@@Tzara86 im long gone if that happens 😂
2022 and still listening to this MASTER PIECE!!!!!!
this song hits the soul man, Cole one of the goats!!
🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
I ain’t gonna lie... I was finding life real hard today. This song gives me hope. It gives me strength. It gives me faith that things will get better somehow, someway. I trust God and I trust my process. If anyone is reading this and finds life hard sometimes, trust your process. Pain is purpose. Shout out to J Cole for this song man, He’s a real artist and an inspirational human! 🙏🏽💯
2016 .. 2017 ARE WE STILL IN THE BUILDING!?? 👌🔥
Cole keeping it real to this day I pray he's blessed to continue even if it means retiring
Right here!
PuhPuhTIME I peep GOD STEEZ in yo profile pic all praise to you 47
Thanks!!
he is the best nigga and blessed never quit on him
This made me cry. Middle of the store. 23 years old and crying like a baby in the middle of the store. Me and my love are expecting a baby this December. I couldn’t be happier. But it wasn’t always easy. It still isn’t easy. But it’s all worth it!!
2019 still playing this - one of the realest tracks I still keep in my arsenal
i was only 15 in high school and my first pregnancy was the worst and i lost it 12 weeks in and he left me and we don’t speak anymore . i’m 18 soon to be 19 and i still cry sometimes about it.
This song always make me cry, 6months down & my daughter is my biggest blessing. No regrets!
My girl just said “what is this” with a nasty face. Throw the whole girl away 😂😂
Hell yeah rob
🤣🤣
Right😆😆😆😆
Yeah she's not wife material.
She gotta go 🤣🤣
One of the first J.Cole songs I heard. MASTERPIECE
Hopefully women will eventually pick real men over niggas and won't have to worry bout him leaving. But nope, good guys get it the worst.
For real
One of the best songs he's made, hands down
i love this deep meaningful music that hip hop has lost..i listen to j cole when im feeling down and it makes me feel a bit better..keep making this raw shit cole your fans live for this shit ..
Facts
When he did the verse of the girl that shit got me. I don’t even really like rap but that had me crying. Respect for him, I can’t literally feel that part and a lot of others do too. Strong verse.
I absolutely agree with you
I was in my feelings depressed heart broken well I am still but just wanted to tell u
This is one of the deepest, yet hardest songs of all time. Straight flame. J cole is the true 🐐
2019 and this is still the realist shit
"But what about your seeed?!"
hah.
My man showed me this song last night and said this reminded him of when we found out we were having our son😣 he regretted even telling me to have a abortion, now we have 6 weeks till our boy arrives ❤️❤️ and its the best adrenaline rush he’s having
What did you guys name him?
Hopefully I regret telling my girlfriend that too
He's a lyrically genius. One of my favs! Hopefully, Forest Hills Drive is gonna be as amazing as Born Sinner and The Sideline Story
his best album by far. 8 years later and forest hills drive is considered his crown jewel… i still love every album he puts out tho
March 2022, song still touch nerves within.🔥
2019 and this song still gives me chills.
One of HipHops GREATEST songs. Yeah I said it 💯💯💯
song on repeat !!!!
THIS IS ONE OF HIS BEST SONGS PERIOD!! Top 10 Easy! I’ve heard every album every mixtape. One of his Best no argument!
My girl just called and told me she’s pregnant... so here I am 🙃
Man up brother
How’s it going? Please be there for your baby, even if ur relationship doesn’t work out that’s fine. But every child needs a father…that will shape the child entire future
One of Thee Best Songs Ever .
Song is great , his verses mean alot to modern day society
This actually happened to !e do I thank you sooooooo much for !asking this song
2:02 GAVE ME CHILLS😩
The message is beautiful.
hi sistar
Mariyum Jamilah AHAHAH lol bye 😂
It is the pain i feel in his voice when he says I CRY 😪
Crazy how relatable this was to me at one point
This my shit
Same
@@bitchylauren7830 w you can come over and get you some of the stuff that you w
Ayyyy my Nigga THC
Ayy mrthc
It's amazing he can put his music into other perspectives. God damn, that's skill.
This was the first song I ever heard by J. Cole. This was when I fell in love with his music.
They say everything happens for a reason
And people change like the seasons
Almost all of his songs have a really important message. This song made me cry
J cole is a medicine for me i listen to him every day so he can inspire me. He's so so great of a person
2k17, still luvin this hit!!
Yannick Stiffler nigga you still in 16
FIRST TIME I heard this song I cried that Shows J.Cole is a REAL Lyricist ! He's an amazing Rapper and I Loooove This Song the message is So Powerful I Hope Every Young Women Received it Like I Did
Classic 🔥🔥🔥 one of my favorite songs ever. Cole is a legend one of the 🐐.
I had my 1st son when I was 18 and my bf was 19. Scared as hell but everything worked out in the end, we got married and had another son at 20 and 21. Nobody is perfect meaning forgiveness for the times someone hurt you is vital for a relationship to work out.
My bd used to play this when I found out I was pregnant shit made feel some type of way now my kid 3years old and I’m a single mom for the rest of the females that can relate yAll not alone 💯👌💜
You got this❤️❤️❤️❤️
God dam J Cole is just straight raw talent. He had just a simple beat and a mind that is creative and talented enough to make you feel so much emotions through his music. J Cole is already a legend to me :)
Gabriel Torres he always has been
This guy deserves all the respect.
This song never gets old!
This is way better than the album version man. It was so complete it didn’t need those corny live guitars
Yes! I feel his vocals in this version so much more as well. I can't even listen to the album version.
Gives me chills... J. Cole the realest.
BY FAR my favorite Cole song. Real shit
2023 still listening to this banger
J cole was ahead of his time
Now that I think it about guys. I think he was trying to make a excuse for his father for abandoning him. Shit is deep.
jcole had an abortion. lol
this song deep as fuck 😭😭
2021 still here 😌🙌🏽🔥 classic this one ☝🏽
I went through this....I kept her and her father's not around.!
daijone dillard 3 yrs after you say this but hope you and your daughter doing well without him 🖤.
Felt That 🤞
I can relate to every word in this song. The difference is, both perspectives were myself in opposing halves. The second I took that pill to induce the miscarriage, the second I saw the blood when I went to the toilet... My life changed. I've regretted it ever since. RIP little angel, I'm so sorry.
i respect this song sooo much!
I agree.
If you listen to this today you a dam legend 🙏
im not for abortions but at the same time we cant judge people who decide to go down that road, we dont know their situations and it will always be a sensitive subject...but big ups to j.cole giving two sides to the story...love his music!
This song has to be heard by all the teen moms because it will give them a positive emotions instead of the opposite
I think teen moms should love the baby because you never know what could come of the kid
Just love the baby💖💖
To everyone saying there going to do what it takes to take care of the baby they helped bring....Thanks...god bless yall...i barely turned 19 and im having a child with someone one i barely met.. And I ain't too proud to tell ya that I cry sometimes
I cry sometimes about it...but ill do my part.
Current situation 🤦♀️ it sucks but I’ll be okay 💔
True art. Making me feel emotions ive never even felt. He a goat.
j cole is just something else.
2019 and Cole still spitting factz!
A well written song I remember this early in 2006 from an anymous songwriter perfect example of putting your emotions and life experiences and making a positive song with a emotional influence while spreading awareness of a person young and having a baby.
Cole came a long way and still going!! Banging this in 2019!! Kuz I can relate....
"Me and you we still kid ourself" I'm 18 I felt that shit
"Power Trip" to "Lost Ones" to "Hello"
I have an appointment for an abortion next Wednesday & I immediately thought about this song....God I hope I’m doing the right thing, I’m so scared I won’t ever be able to forgive myself. This song is making me think so much right now and all I can hear in my head is the heartbeat that they made me listen to, everyday is a struggle feeling a life grow inside of you that you will never meet....feeling fluttering kicks of a baby you will never hold....every nauseous moment, every point of morning sickness breaks my heart to pieces because it’s proof that I’m creating something so wonderful....so wonderful yet I will never be able to see your beautiful face...I have a daughter who barely turned 6 months, we aren’t ready for another baby. We weren’t even ready for her and that’s why this is so hard on me physically mentally and emotionally. This is tremendously difficult for any woman to go through, but as a mother already I feel it’s so much more difficult....I’m not sure who I’m writing this to....God? Strangers? I’m not sure tbh because I don’t think anyone gives a shit about some random CZcams comment but it felt somewhat relieving to write some thoughts out. God please help me, this will be the most difficult thing for me to bounce back from & I’m asking for the strength I don’t have..please please
Hey, I see you're in a predicament rn. Imma say that you should go to this Instagram acc named @letthemliveorg. They'll talk to you about leaning towards pro life and will answer any questions you have. It all depends on your decision. Hope I'm not too late in giving a suggestion.
💜♥️💙🧡❤💛🤍
I know this is late.. but I heard you and felt this. I hope you made the right decision and that you’re holding your sweet bundle of joy right now. Sending Prayers to you 🙏🏻
We do care. I hope you made the right decision. All the best.
@Sam Glueck I literally just said if she wanted to choose life, there was a reference to reach out to
We here in 2021, still reppin' the old shit Cole. Never gon' get too old
This song so powerful. I really can understand the view of the woman in the song. J cole legend