The #1 way to say NO and stop being used or abused: breaking free from narcissistic abuse

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  • čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
  • How to stop being abused: In this powerful video, Tom Nuyens from Alive-academy.com explores the #1 reason why we struggle to say NO to being used or abused, especially in relationships with abusive partners, family members, or society. He delves into the root cause of this struggle and offers crystal-clear guidance on how to break free from the grip of narcissistic abuse. Tom shares his personal journey of overcoming an abusive upbringing and the challenges he faced even as he transformed into a successful and strong individual. Discover the core reasons behind our difficulties in setting boundaries and learn how to reconnect with your authentic self, paving the way to reclaim your self-worth and put an end to being manipulated and abused.
    More info: www.alive-academy.com
    #abuseprevention
    #narcissisticabuseawareness

Komentáře • 14

  • @elrash-tuki
    @elrash-tuki Před 11 měsíci +3

    I practiced your tools religiously for several months with mediocre results. I felt significantly happier and lighter at one point during this journey, but then a couple of days later, I had an extremely painful relapse, so I stopped it. With your approach we’re not solving pain, we are avoiding it until our body (not us) chooses to surrender. Call me an unawakened victim, but by the way you preach it, seems like you had a smooth journey towards liberation, but for those of us who are deeply riddled by insecurity, is almost impossible to achieve inner peace using your method.

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 11 měsíci +10

      Hello there, I want you to know that I truly understand what you're going through. It's heartening to hear that you experienced a significant increase in happiness and lightness during your journey already. I can relate to a time when I faced challenges and almost gave up. During that period, my mind was relentless, filling me with feelings of shame, guilt, and failure, making me reject even the major positive changes I had already achieved.
      However, I found strength in the fact that I had survived a life-threatening illness, which made me realize the preciousness of life. It was this second chance at life that pushed me not to settle and inspired me to keep going. I eventually learned to stop listening to my mind's constant negative repetitions, rooted in primal survival instincts, and instead, I persevered with the exact same practical steps that were already leading to actually feeling liberating changes. By restarting I shed my layers of emotional baggage, just as I believe you may have been doing.
      I encourage you to take a moment to go back and reconnect with your the step-by-step ‘experience’ past our mind-made-story that wants us to repeat the familar self, and to let your choice of action together with your already felt experience of feeling lighter and happier, guide you towards liberation. As you peel away the layers, if you encounter any obstacles along the way, know that my lifetime personal chat support is included in the ‘experience’ We are in this together, and you have my lifelong personal support. 🍀❤️🙏🏻💎

  • @hra850207
    @hra850207 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you, I wrote down your options and it feels great. Thanks you again for your work and inspiration. ❤🙏

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 11 měsíci +1

      You are welcome! I’m glad to hear it feels great! 👍🍀💎❤️

  • @kathyRogers1970
    @kathyRogers1970 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow thank you!

  • @patriciakeeler4977
    @patriciakeeler4977 Před 10 měsíci

    I love your perspective! It is what I discovered on my own through a long emotional, spiritual, somatic healing journey. So refreshing to see it ‘out there’. I get disheartened by our culture’s obsession with the label others and get away from them idea. You are a true light!

  • @mihai-valentin8453
    @mihai-valentin8453 Před 9 měsíci

    I love you, Tom

  • @patfar392
    @patfar392 Před 8 měsíci

    Wow … mind blown

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you!
      If this video resonated with you, you might find the 4 free videos insightful, I will paste the link to these here : alive-academy.com/ 💎🍀

  • @jorisboon4783
    @jorisboon4783 Před měsícem

    Dankjewel

  • @jenniferhckmn
    @jenniferhckmn Před 15 dny

    Yes, all of the above 👆