The Mess We're In Ep.

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  • čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
  • A round-up of another week of madness followed by a chat with desister Sascha Bailey.
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Komentáře • 84

  • @emmiebl6605
    @emmiebl6605 Před 2 měsíci +31

    So glad The Mess is back on a regular basis.!

  • @prboddington
    @prboddington Před 2 měsíci +17

    I had to give a lecture this week about ethics in future society to a group of young people between 18-30 from across Europe and Asia who are representatives of youth groups. Virtually all the questions and comments were along the same lines - how do we have more discussion and dialogues, how do we cut across polarised lines, how can we make sure our viewpoints are not too narrow ... examples of people talking and learning from those with radically different points of view - I was so pleased and overwhelmed I was nearly crying although I don't think they noticed! I have some hope for the younger generation..

  • @neroliW
    @neroliW Před 2 měsíci +5

    He is a hope for the future. He's experience everything and speaks so clearly about the different loose categories of 'trans'. The young people who mistake disaffection for being trans, the trans people who just want to live their own lives as the other sex, the noisy few who want to control other people and the sporty chancers who want low effort, cheating wins against women. Please support him! Get him a substack!

  • @rebekah7635
    @rebekah7635 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Graham never stop being wholesome and sounding like your parents

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před měsícem

      @@rebekah7635 is it wholesome to ignore your wife and son until they leave you? also is it wholesome to harass rape victims that don't agree with you?

    • @ohwellwhateverr
      @ohwellwhateverr Před měsícem +1

      @@soupsalamamder You’re deranged.

  • @SuperPixiefun
    @SuperPixiefun Před 2 měsíci +24

    Sasha is a lovely, bright, considered and compassionate man. An important voice in an influential industry. I wish him all the best in life.

  • @janebennetto5655
    @janebennetto5655 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Well done everyone. I love the observation from Sacha about ‘shame, respect and appropriate places for various attire’. Thank you. 🇬🇧❤

  • @karenkennedy2592
    @karenkennedy2592 Před měsícem +2

    Arty's comments about aesthetics & tribes are fascinating & spot on. What a great guest. Years in & you guys keep getting better. Great to have thoughts provoked 😊

  • @andrewwillgoss8604
    @andrewwillgoss8604 Před 2 měsíci +15

    I can't share Helen's optimisim. My local Lib Dem TRAs are now in SHBC council. They are trying to stop me exposing their support for PBs and transing kids. Alasdair Pinkerton the new Surrey Heath MP is a believer.

  • @rensha8635
    @rensha8635 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Having you three back here regularly is wonderful. ❤

  • @wolfhugs2221
    @wolfhugs2221 Před 2 měsíci +19

    23:04 had a very similar expereince! A trans identifying colleague was whinging (normal) about education and trans. I mentioned that I'd lived close to the school in Birmingham where there were protests a few years ago. He went on a 10 minute rant about Christianity. I didn't stop him - as an athiest, I largely agreed with what he was saying. Once he'd finished, I pointed out it was muslims, not christians. He stopped speaking completely and went to the toilet. Why the double standard?

    • @anonymousa-uy1hk
      @anonymousa-uy1hk Před 11 dny +1

      🤣😂🤣 Which toilet did he use?

    • @wolfhugs2221
      @wolfhugs2221 Před 11 dny +1

      @@anonymousa-uy1hk the ladies, of course! Women at the office try not to go whilst at work.

    • @Ninonabc
      @Ninonabc Před 11 dny

      Of course not, yuck.

  • @jaynehenderson5240
    @jaynehenderson5240 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Kara Dansky - YES! I want to hear more about what's going on in the US!!

  • @allthefunofthefair
    @allthefunofthefair Před 2 měsíci +5

    You are all brilliant. I would LOVE to see Arty in conversation with Helen Joyce. Two sparkling intellects.

  • @281992pdr
    @281992pdr Před 2 měsíci +5

    In 1999 when I ws in Sydney I went a few times to a Japanese restaurant and the waiter was a trans woman. And flirty. None of that mattered. He was just one of those "trannies" as we learnt about as kids in the sixties. Yet now, laws are changed that mean the rest of society have to change their speech, their thinking, their business practices and values. Despite the ostensible British confidence that it is being wound back, from where I see it in regional, but not remote, Australia, it is now a slowly incubating madness.

  • @annal2740
    @annal2740 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Publishing is an actual cesspit of anti-GC bigotry.

  • @be_brave12
    @be_brave12 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Japanese woman has spoken at Let Women Speak events. check Speakers’ Corner - 26th May 2024.

  • @henryblunt8503
    @henryblunt8503 Před 2 měsíci +10

    I think Arty is not quite right about Labour's high command "appeasing their base". Rather they have been placating their activist members. It's very different.

    • @ArtyMorty
      @ArtyMorty Před 2 měsíci +4

      Yes. That's a fair call. On reflection, I think you're entirely right. They're not the same.

    • @henryblunt8503
      @henryblunt8503 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@ArtyMorty Thanks for replying. I thought you would understand. You're my main man.

  • @MarciaMatthews
    @MarciaMatthews Před 2 měsíci +6

    Sascha is right: it’s silly and we should laugh.

  • @motheringabomination1958
    @motheringabomination1958 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I wish you'd all invest in some decent mics. The sound quality is often poor which is a shame as I love the show.

  • @dyoung1492
    @dyoung1492 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Love Arty's comparison of Trans ideology to Bell Bottoms ...

  • @drewburdett7886
    @drewburdett7886 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Lovely to hear from Sasha. Such a considered view on things.

  • @PrettyWeirdDuck
    @PrettyWeirdDuck Před 2 měsíci +7

    😩I missed it live, again! 😁Hi 💜🍁🦖🤠💚

  • @waynemcauliffe-fv5yf
    @waynemcauliffe-fv5yf Před 2 měsíci +6

    Most Aussies don`t go for it. Most don`t even know it`s happening

  • @margomcdaniel5445
    @margomcdaniel5445 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Yes, publishing is a captured industry indeed

  • @didgedoo9679
    @didgedoo9679 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Great show thanks all

  • @brockreynolds870
    @brockreynolds870 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Think about the "trans" character that was cast on Doctor Who.. did any of you notice that they made sure they weren't the standard "prototype".. meaning not overweight, no multi color hair, septum piercing, cat eye spectacles. Apparently they wanted someone who was model thin and traditionally attractive... the producers weren't brave enough to cast the "typical" looking one yet, now were they?

  • @helendancelot
    @helendancelot Před 2 měsíci +9

    Tgey should get a trans identified male to search the tim s.. they could not justify refusing that surely.

  • @inkoftheworld
    @inkoftheworld Před 2 měsíci +6

    Japan didn't quite bring in self-id... It used to be that surgery was required to have your sex changed on your official documents, but now you no longer need to have the surgery to change your sex. But I don't think they can just say "I'm a woman" if they are caught in a women's changing room and be considered a woman (like in Canada - where I live), I think you still have to go through the paperwork process at least. As I think self-id is just being able to simply say it and it's true?

  • @ooloncolluphid5299
    @ooloncolluphid5299 Před měsícem +3

    ‘None of these people believe transwomen are women’
    I think a lot of them just don’t think about it for very long or very hard. People mostly just do and say as others do and don’t really put much analysis into it.
    Not saying I am 100% immune to group think, no one is, but I think things will only shift once gender criticism is seen as ‘normal’ and the arguments can be ‘meme’d’ simply.

  • @ThePontiacBandit911
    @ThePontiacBandit911 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I never thought I’d see the day when I voted for the Conservatives.

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před 2 měsíci

      bigotry is often a gateway to fascism, the n4zi's were also transphobic

    • @ThePontiacBandit911
      @ThePontiacBandit911 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@soupsalamamder Have you had some sort of horrendous head injury, or are you always this dopey?

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před měsícem

      @@ThePontiacBandit911 it's undeniable fact that the n4zi's targeted transgender people 🤷🏻 didn't use the exact term but the research of sexology was raided and most research was burned. ask yourself why you're so comfortable upholding Hitler's view of gender and sexual minorities, why are you so comfortable aligning yourself with fascists?

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před měsícem

      @@ThePontiacBandit911 look up the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft

  • @sn4rff
    @sn4rff Před 2 měsíci +7

    always love these videos❤

  • @pt2913
    @pt2913 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Very intelligent and eloquent young man x

    • @lewissmith350
      @lewissmith350 Před měsícem

      Yes, gender critical people can be proud of the intelligent rational people of all ages on their side, while the opposition, the tra extremists just have a belief that is almost impossible tob defend rationally. It's like Richard Dawkins arguing with a simpleton.

  • @megankwisdom
    @megankwisdom Před 2 měsíci +8

    4 out of 5 titles!? That's blatantly egregious 😡

  • @robdielemans9189
    @robdielemans9189 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Hey chat!

  • @Janine-z8l
    @Janine-z8l Před 2 měsíci +1

    Graham, thanks for what you are doing. Can you please fix your microphone, your voice is disappearing into the room. Sascha makes some really good points, especially around the 'funny' aspect, a very articulate speaker, I was fascinated about his insights into the situation in Japan. Thank goodness he didn't go through with changing gender! I believe he could have a big and positive influence on other young people who are confused about what to do, especially when they see how psychologically 'together' he is.

  • @nuthatch1899
    @nuthatch1899 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Lovely show

  • @greengardener517
    @greengardener517 Před 2 měsíci +2

    CZcams made this episode very difficult to find. I went to Graham's page, entered "latest" in the search field for videos and it wasn't there. I only found by a link I was sent.

  • @Shelovesthearsenal
    @Shelovesthearsenal Před 2 měsíci +2

    Weatherstones, lol x

  • @helendancelot
    @helendancelot Před 2 měsíci +5

    Japan has quite old fashion sex stereotypes

    • @ohwellwhateverr
      @ohwellwhateverr Před měsícem

      By “old fashioned” you mean “in touch with reality”

    • @helendancelot
      @helendancelot Před měsícem

      @@ohwellwhateverr I mean there can be measuring of hair length at school different for boys and girls
      Women compelled to wear makeup and high heels for work

  • @BusyLizzy575
    @BusyLizzy575 Před 2 měsíci +1

    thanks for this

  • @Shelovesthearsenal
    @Shelovesthearsenal Před 2 měsíci +1

    Lovely!! ❤❤❤

  • @ThePontiacBandit911
    @ThePontiacBandit911 Před 2 měsíci +2

    2:57 I wish i had Helen’s faith in Stephen Kinnock to behave professionally.
    We all know how vicious and dangerous other parents of ‘trans kids’ are.
    Helen Joyce was right.
    As usual.

  • @helendancelot
    @helendancelot Před 2 měsíci +6

    💜🤍💚

  • @allymccormack4708
    @allymccormack4708 Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent episode.

  • @stephenbond2478
    @stephenbond2478 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Is that a double bass ? or a cello and helan is really tiny ?

  • @ThePontiacBandit911
    @ThePontiacBandit911 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Helen’s been very quiet… was she ok?

  • @aehartley5065
    @aehartley5065 Před měsícem

    Mess in Sunday then??

  • @wendyhandy9065
    @wendyhandy9065 Před 2 měsíci