The Mess We're In Ep.

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
  • A round-up of another week of madness followed by a chat with desister Sascha Bailey.
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Komentáře • 81

  • @emmiebl6605
    @emmiebl6605 Před měsícem +31

    So glad The Mess is back on a regular basis.!

  • @prboddington
    @prboddington Před měsícem +17

    I had to give a lecture this week about ethics in future society to a group of young people between 18-30 from across Europe and Asia who are representatives of youth groups. Virtually all the questions and comments were along the same lines - how do we have more discussion and dialogues, how do we cut across polarised lines, how can we make sure our viewpoints are not too narrow ... examples of people talking and learning from those with radically different points of view - I was so pleased and overwhelmed I was nearly crying although I don't think they noticed! I have some hope for the younger generation..

  • @SuperPixiefun
    @SuperPixiefun Před měsícem +24

    Sasha is a lovely, bright, considered and compassionate man. An important voice in an influential industry. I wish him all the best in life.

  • @rebekah7635
    @rebekah7635 Před měsícem +5

    Graham never stop being wholesome and sounding like your parents

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před měsícem

      @@rebekah7635 is it wholesome to ignore your wife and son until they leave you? also is it wholesome to harass rape victims that don't agree with you?

    • @ohwellwhateverr
      @ohwellwhateverr Před měsícem +1

      @@soupsalamamder You’re deranged.

  • @neroliW
    @neroliW Před měsícem +4

    He is a hope for the future. He's experience everything and speaks so clearly about the different loose categories of 'trans'. The young people who mistake disaffection for being trans, the trans people who just want to live their own lives as the other sex, the noisy few who want to control other people and the sporty chancers who want low effort, cheating wins against women. Please support him! Get him a substack!

  • @wolfhugs2221
    @wolfhugs2221 Před měsícem +19

    23:04 had a very similar expereince! A trans identifying colleague was whinging (normal) about education and trans. I mentioned that I'd lived close to the school in Birmingham where there were protests a few years ago. He went on a 10 minute rant about Christianity. I didn't stop him - as an athiest, I largely agreed with what he was saying. Once he'd finished, I pointed out it was muslims, not christians. He stopped speaking completely and went to the toilet. Why the double standard?

  • @janebennetto5655
    @janebennetto5655 Před měsícem +7

    Well done everyone. I love the observation from Sacha about ‘shame, respect and appropriate places for various attire’. Thank you. 🇬🇧❤

  • @andrewwillgoss8604
    @andrewwillgoss8604 Před měsícem +15

    I can't share Helen's optimisim. My local Lib Dem TRAs are now in SHBC council. They are trying to stop me exposing their support for PBs and transing kids. Alasdair Pinkerton the new Surrey Heath MP is a believer.

  • @karenkennedy2592
    @karenkennedy2592 Před měsícem +2

    Arty's comments about aesthetics & tribes are fascinating & spot on. What a great guest. Years in & you guys keep getting better. Great to have thoughts provoked 😊

  • @jaynehenderson5240
    @jaynehenderson5240 Před měsícem +9

    Kara Dansky - YES! I want to hear more about what's going on in the US!!

  • @allthefunofthefair
    @allthefunofthefair Před měsícem +5

    You are all brilliant. I would LOVE to see Arty in conversation with Helen Joyce. Two sparkling intellects.

  • @rensha8635
    @rensha8635 Před měsícem +4

    Having you three back here regularly is wonderful. ❤

  • @henryblunt8503
    @henryblunt8503 Před měsícem +10

    I think Arty is not quite right about Labour's high command "appeasing their base". Rather they have been placating their activist members. It's very different.

    • @ArtyMorty
      @ArtyMorty Před měsícem +4

      Yes. That's a fair call. On reflection, I think you're entirely right. They're not the same.

    • @henryblunt8503
      @henryblunt8503 Před měsícem +1

      @@ArtyMorty Thanks for replying. I thought you would understand. You're my main man.

  • @annal2740
    @annal2740 Před měsícem +9

    Publishing is an actual cesspit of anti-GC bigotry.

  • @be_brave12
    @be_brave12 Před měsícem +8

    Japanese woman has spoken at Let Women Speak events. check Speakers’ Corner - 26th May 2024.

  • @281992pdr
    @281992pdr Před měsícem +4

    In 1999 when I ws in Sydney I went a few times to a Japanese restaurant and the waiter was a trans woman. And flirty. None of that mattered. He was just one of those "trannies" as we learnt about as kids in the sixties. Yet now, laws are changed that mean the rest of society have to change their speech, their thinking, their business practices and values. Despite the ostensible British confidence that it is being wound back, from where I see it in regional, but not remote, Australia, it is now a slowly incubating madness.

  • @motheringabomination1958
    @motheringabomination1958 Před měsícem +5

    I wish you'd all invest in some decent mics. The sound quality is often poor which is a shame as I love the show.

  • @MarciaMatthews
    @MarciaMatthews Před měsícem +6

    Sascha is right: it’s silly and we should laugh.

  • @drewburdett7886
    @drewburdett7886 Před měsícem +2

    Lovely to hear from Sasha. Such a considered view on things.

  • @dyoung1492
    @dyoung1492 Před měsícem +6

    Love Arty's comparison of Trans ideology to Bell Bottoms ...

  • @PrettyWeirdDuck
    @PrettyWeirdDuck Před měsícem +7

    😩I missed it live, again! 😁Hi 💜🍁🦖🤠💚

  • @waynemcauliffe-fv5yf
    @waynemcauliffe-fv5yf Před měsícem +6

    Most Aussies don`t go for it. Most don`t even know it`s happening

  • @didgedoo9679
    @didgedoo9679 Před měsícem +7

    Great show thanks all

  • @helendancelot
    @helendancelot Před měsícem +9

    Tgey should get a trans identified male to search the tim s.. they could not justify refusing that surely.

  • @brockreynolds870
    @brockreynolds870 Před měsícem +4

    Think about the "trans" character that was cast on Doctor Who.. did any of you notice that they made sure they weren't the standard "prototype".. meaning not overweight, no multi color hair, septum piercing, cat eye spectacles. Apparently they wanted someone who was model thin and traditionally attractive... the producers weren't brave enough to cast the "typical" looking one yet, now were they?

  • @inkoftheworld
    @inkoftheworld Před měsícem +6

    Japan didn't quite bring in self-id... It used to be that surgery was required to have your sex changed on your official documents, but now you no longer need to have the surgery to change your sex. But I don't think they can just say "I'm a woman" if they are caught in a women's changing room and be considered a woman (like in Canada - where I live), I think you still have to go through the paperwork process at least. As I think self-id is just being able to simply say it and it's true?

  • @ThePontiacBandit911
    @ThePontiacBandit911 Před měsícem +5

    I never thought I’d see the day when I voted for the Conservatives.

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před měsícem

      bigotry is often a gateway to fascism, the n4zi's were also transphobic

    • @ThePontiacBandit911
      @ThePontiacBandit911 Před měsícem +2

      @@soupsalamamder Have you had some sort of horrendous head injury, or are you always this dopey?

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před měsícem

      @@ThePontiacBandit911 it's undeniable fact that the n4zi's targeted transgender people 🤷🏻 didn't use the exact term but the research of sexology was raided and most research was burned. ask yourself why you're so comfortable upholding Hitler's view of gender and sexual minorities, why are you so comfortable aligning yourself with fascists?

    • @soupsalamamder
      @soupsalamamder Před měsícem

      @@ThePontiacBandit911 look up the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft

  • @sn4rff
    @sn4rff Před měsícem +7

    always love these videos❤

  • @margomcdaniel5445
    @margomcdaniel5445 Před měsícem +2

    Yes, publishing is a captured industry indeed

  • @pt2913
    @pt2913 Před měsícem +3

    Very intelligent and eloquent young man x

    • @lewissmith350
      @lewissmith350 Před měsícem

      Yes, gender critical people can be proud of the intelligent rational people of all ages on their side, while the opposition, the tra extremists just have a belief that is almost impossible tob defend rationally. It's like Richard Dawkins arguing with a simpleton.

  • @ooloncolluphid5299
    @ooloncolluphid5299 Před měsícem +3

    ‘None of these people believe transwomen are women’
    I think a lot of them just don’t think about it for very long or very hard. People mostly just do and say as others do and don’t really put much analysis into it.
    Not saying I am 100% immune to group think, no one is, but I think things will only shift once gender criticism is seen as ‘normal’ and the arguments can be ‘meme’d’ simply.

  • @megankwisdom
    @megankwisdom Před měsícem +8

    4 out of 5 titles!? That's blatantly egregious 😡

  • @robdielemans9189
    @robdielemans9189 Před měsícem +7

    Hey chat!

  • @user-xb6kf5bx1r
    @user-xb6kf5bx1r Před měsícem +1

    Graham, thanks for what you are doing. Can you please fix your microphone, your voice is disappearing into the room. Sascha makes some really good points, especially around the 'funny' aspect, a very articulate speaker, I was fascinated about his insights into the situation in Japan. Thank goodness he didn't go through with changing gender! I believe he could have a big and positive influence on other young people who are confused about what to do, especially when they see how psychologically 'together' he is.

  • @nuthatch1899
    @nuthatch1899 Před měsícem +2

    Lovely show

  • @greengardener517
    @greengardener517 Před měsícem +2

    CZcams made this episode very difficult to find. I went to Graham's page, entered "latest" in the search field for videos and it wasn't there. I only found by a link I was sent.

  • @helendancelot
    @helendancelot Před měsícem +5

    Japan has quite old fashion sex stereotypes

    • @ohwellwhateverr
      @ohwellwhateverr Před měsícem

      By “old fashioned” you mean “in touch with reality”

    • @helendancelot
      @helendancelot Před měsícem

      @@ohwellwhateverr I mean there can be measuring of hair length at school different for boys and girls
      Women compelled to wear makeup and high heels for work

  • @Shelovesthearsenal
    @Shelovesthearsenal Před měsícem +2

    Weatherstones, lol x

  • @BusyLizzy575
    @BusyLizzy575 Před měsícem +1

    thanks for this

  • @Shelovesthearsenal
    @Shelovesthearsenal Před měsícem +1

    Lovely!! ❤❤❤

  • @ThePontiacBandit911
    @ThePontiacBandit911 Před měsícem +2

    2:57 I wish i had Helen’s faith in Stephen Kinnock to behave professionally.
    We all know how vicious and dangerous other parents of ‘trans kids’ are.
    Helen Joyce was right.
    As usual.

  • @helendancelot
    @helendancelot Před měsícem +6

    💜🤍💚

  • @allymccormack4708
    @allymccormack4708 Před měsícem

    Excellent episode.

  • @stephenbond2478
    @stephenbond2478 Před měsícem +1

    Is that a double bass ? or a cello and helan is really tiny ?

  • @aehartley5065
    @aehartley5065 Před měsícem

    Mess in Sunday then??

  • @ThePontiacBandit911
    @ThePontiacBandit911 Před měsícem +1

    Helen’s been very quiet… was she ok?

  • @wendyhandy9065
    @wendyhandy9065 Před měsícem