yeah, like for all of the women, because most of them post 30 are freaking ugly, good luck nagging that beta-privder you just married for a vacation in tahiti you so desperately want, if he knows this truth...
HeedAndSucceed. When I became overweight, I started having trouble getting women, but now that I'm starting to get my figure back, women are checking for me again.
HeedAndSucceed. If looks didn't matter at all, you wouldn't have women rejecting you within 10 seconds. You cannot tell it if a person is confident with a good personality within 10 seconds. Lol.
slidejones nah, it works when she's not repulsed or disgusted by him. If an average dude had an epic personality, game, and confidence he will have success with women, I've seen it too many times for incels to tell me otherwise. If an ugly guy has an epic personality, game, and confidence he'd pull about as much a dude with an average personality and average looks. Still much better than this sad incel who makes videos in his car about how he can't get a girlfriend repeating himself for 17 minutes straight. If his max potential can pull as much as an average dude, whys he not even trying to get there? God damn you virgins are just constantly looking for excuses to remain virgins 90% of you probably never got rejected by a girl (mainly cuz u don't talk to girls) yet you claim to know exactly how their mind works. Whatever, keep living your virgin life, more pussy for me!
Must of us don't understand it right. Being confident will not lead to girls wanting to be with you. If your really confident in yourself, then it wouldn't bother you that girls dont like you. Once you accept that lifes not fair or the way it was painted out to be its easier move on and work on your self confidence.
One of the major selling points when I was attempting “game” was that if you approach an attractive woman, she will be blown away by how “bold” you are because the majority of men would be afraid to approach her; They were in no way impressed by my boldness.
A large portion of men are very bold, look at Indian men online they are the most low-inhib men yet it only turns women off from them more than they already do.
@@briancarter2847 yes they are. Even with money they are struggling to get a partner especially the new generation as arranged marriage and tribalism is fading in western Indian communities so it's less taboo when an Indian girl goes with a non Indian guy. A girl may be with an Indian guy cause of his money but once married she ain't giving no sex
@@bobbyjohnson5637yeah a kid who was confident before being bullied (for being ugly) can still blow up as an adult and everyone will compliment. Confidence like that guy said is a reaction to how others treat you. People know you’re faking it when ugly because they know (in their mind) you’re not worthy to feel good of yourself. In fact they get hostile just around your presence
Men arent picky and they admit they choose by looks. Women are very picky but they dont admit they choose by looks. See why women dont admit it? Cause then all men will realize women are shallow af! Right now women entertain men with illusion that confidence is what women want.
So many women get surgeries, botox, makeup, etc. Yet we push that confidence is key when clearly we don't believe that ourselves. I do think that confidence and giving off good vibes cant hurt, but looks definitely are important to women
Depends, I've seen below average looking men with average jobs and with some great looking women. I think it all goes back to your social skills and personality.
@@hueso5071 So have i. Trust me, there's more to those men than just their social skills/personality. Generally as of recently when i started observing couples around me i see good looking with good looking, average with average, and below average are with the same.
Psychological research has found that confidence doesn't exist and is only correlated to the absence of negative emotions. So technically confidence is not real indeed, this dude gets it.
Women always tell me I have a good looking face ! Am always in rubbish clothes and women approach me all the time with big smiles etc! This guy is so right!!!
After practicing PUA for two years including exhibiting lots of confidence, I can say you’re 100% correct. Even though I was always well dressed and well groomed, I ultimately failed because of my poor facial features.
It's the same everywhere sadly... America, Europe, Asia, Australia... everywhere. I wish us luck in our lives, God knows we're gonna need it. It's hard out here. Good luck with everything in your life my Russian friend.
oreo man I wouldn't beat yourself up like that and put yourself down. I think it's important not to have a defeatist attitude because if you're not physically repulsive (which you are not) then there's always room for improvement, but I cannot lie. Looks DO matter. I'm glad the guys here are smart and self aware enough to see things for what they are instead of living in a fantasy land. I've had a couple guys on here become incredibly hostile and confrontational with me on here for telling the truth.
Eccentricka1 people need to hear the truth people always want to preach game and confidence which is a lie from the gates of hell you first have to be some what good looking
Confidence comes from positive reinforcement. Guys that are labeled chad, get positive reinforcement all the time in the form of compliments and female attention, so it all boils down to how good you look.
i have reached the point in my life where i want god to take me in my sleep. yes, i dont want to live anymore. i'm not suicidal because i am afraid of willfully forcing the end of myself - i rather go quietly in my sleep without my knowing. for me, its more than just wanting a woman. i am 34 years old. i am still single, still living at home with my parents, living in a country i have no interest in anymore, and the only thing keeping me going is my job but even thats not permanent. i feel i am a white man inside, trapped in an asian body. i am westernised in culture but people see me and stereotype me out as a traditional asian type even though i dont follow any of the eastern religions nor can i even speak the language. i am attracted to western white women and living in europe, i dreamy of going to america, therefore an american wife is the only logical option. but i cant even get a woman here. worse, i have been in a string of dead end basic office jobs so i havent really got a career. my wanting to move is getting more intense each day and its left my body shutting down, feeling sank and depressed, because i dont know HOW to get from a to b. i was born in the wrong place and the wrong people. and now i am getting external pressures from outside and its just unbearable. i cant live like this anymore. i want god to take me to a better place in my sleep.
I wholeheartedly understand how you feel, brother. You've got two options. The first one is to go overseas as foreign women have been proven to be better than Western women in every aspect. If you can't afford to go overseas, the second one is to let go of your emotional attachments, feel the completeness and freedom of yourself and just accept and move on. I completely gave up on women from a young age because once I found out how women with objective morals are a minority, that put me off for life. Going overseas can definitely improve your mental and physiological health ... and it can really improve your social and dating life. Have a think about my advice. I wish you the best. It hurts me to see so many guys suffering.
Nihilanth1982 don't say that my brother god would help you out to find the women of your dreams just be patient and I'm sure that you'll make it to America one day soon and brother don't stress out on this girls nowadays just work on being happy with yourself and then all that comes alone
Unconfident attractive men : shy/ quirk men Confident attractive men : bad boy The key word is "attractive" game, confidence and shit are nothing. If you were attractive enough, you just sit on your ass, women will approach .
I got no confidence or looks so I am another fucking lost cause, fuck my life. It hurts my chest with feelings knowing that I will be single my whole life but I am trying to accept that.
Fr , “confidence gets you women “ was most likely a psyop to damage control the initial RP spreading decades ago so the male population would keep chasing women
It's already come a long way, but you're right - the truth is getting real hard to deny with social media at this point. Even zoomers are waking up because on TikTok the great majority of the successful ones are all attractive.
Men are sick and tried hearing about confidence, game, swag, and eveything else. Looks and appearance is fine. But women don't judge men base on personality and judging a man base on his character and how he carried himself as a man.
my cousin is a sanitation worker on a garbage truck. briefly visiting me one day outside he was dirty as hell.later on that day, i had two neighbors asking me who was that guy I was talking to.. .they took one look at him and decided I guess.so it couldnt be about just confidence.
I had a similar situation occur where the chick that's supposedly my friend saw one of my brothers friends male leaving our house she goes he's cute I'm like do you think I'm cute she hesitates and says yes I instantly knew she was telling a big fat juicy lie lmaooooooooop
If a woman likes you she likes you Yeah a lot of guys trying to hard to impress these broads. Dont need game. If you need game then she dont like you sexually
nah just face unless you're a midget. i'm 6'2 not ugly and i dont get shit from women. height is only good for trying to get noticed, not for sex appeal.
Real confidence is a product of success, nothing more. Unfortunately, society wants to deny this fact. I blame for-profit dating advice and the motivation industry for pushing this crap. The truth would put those pop-positivity charlatans out of business!
@Kai Stone We'll see whose comment gets the most upvotes. Yes, unattractive/very short people are genetically unfit. Often, a person's poor health is obvious from their appearance (Downs syndrome; obesity; retards, etc). A key sign of depression is an unkempt appearance...
Looks are huge with getting you in the door. He is absolutely right about that. We’ve all been to bars and clubs, we’ve all seen those guys that most women there are staring at. Those guys have a huge advantage and any girl will at least give that guy a chance let’s not deny it
As a woman watching your video, I had no idea this was such a debatable topic. I've always been what you call "a shallow bitch" and it never bothered me. I never felt like I should lie about it. I'd say a man's personality and appearance have the same value. Both men and women want an attractive mate to look at everyday and you want good looking kids too. I despise the whole "be confident" and "shoot your shot" bullshit. That's nothing but a setup for an akward exchange. The man gets rejected and women have to reject these men in a way that doesn't cause offense, but doesn't lead him to believe he still has a chance. The friend zone is for ugly guys 💯facts.
That’s why so many of us are psychos nowdays I mean shii I had a hard upbringing full of death and murder n shii but drugs and rejection turned me into a demon
@@keandrethegoat1169 Don't use not getting women as a weak crutch for your madness. Get money and buy the woman you want. You might not get the fairytale romance you wanted, but it's something. Life is unfair.
@@barbaragordon6177 can’t nan mf save my madness lol except a hollow tip bullet or the lord bih And shii Ted bundy had some interesting ways of getting women..
@@foreveralone4588if you find them attractive they are not average, at least thats how it is with me. If i dont find her attractive that means she is average but most women are attractive, you will smash 80% of women in a classroom thats just how nature is, because men have testosterone we are less picky, out of those 100% the average ones are 15% and the butt ugly deformed ones are 5%. Ofc the percentage varies but majority of women are attractive. Thats why dudes get confused when they think they look average and decent that no women wants them. For women its the reverse, because of estrogen they find only 20% out of that 100% classroom of guys attractive.
@@ChrisJClark-ih2oo I'd rather have a woman to be honest an tell me she don't find me attractive than one won't say anything so a least I'll have a heads up so I could move forward.I can't stand a brawd that will pretend to Like a guy for the hella of it that's really low
@@kevinday8769 girls who talk about what they want from a guy's looks n inner beauty r usually honest about their intent. If she finds u cute i think she'll tell u that or if she politely tells u that she doesn't find u attractive. I would appreciate that from a woman vs. A girl lying about not caring about looks. I am honest about what i want from a girl. If she is nice, funny, not fat, and decent or cute. I may get backlash for this, but if a girl talks about her type n what she finds attractive, that shows honesty
I never considered myself ugly either. I still don't. And you arn't. It's not that a lot of us guys are actually ugly.. I find that it's more that they all seem to like a certain type of guy. There's plenty of decent looking and cool guys out there that have no luck alot of the time just cause they arn't the females preferred type. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you... I just means that females or at least in this countryr are shallow as and all the same
Yup, I grew up with sisters and looks does matter to women. Same as men. When I was younger, two women, who I am not aquatinted, wanted to talk to me because one of them found me cute. Back then, I was working at a restaurant and they saw me when I would step out. Cheers!
The reason is simple , our ego takes over and most don't want to admit that looks truly are everything , from the day ur born until we die they way ppl treat u it's based on how u look and ur personality who u r is shaped accordingly especially in ur formative years , idon't approach females anymore im a pest it takes a while to get it
so many naive dudes claim this confidence shit that precisely comes depending on how physically attractive you're or not. Obviously you're gonna get a high self-esteem if people are telling you the whole f*cking time that you're hot or sexy because a pair or breasts or hips or face or eyes for a girl. Instead of stuff like height or broad shoulders or big d*ck in a guy, which is way harder to happen.
@ 9:28 - Spot on comment!!! My questions would be how can they sense confidence but they can't sense that the guy is a women beater, an alcoholic, a lair, a cheater, a theaf and every other horrible thing and where did they learn that skill?
This video is a classic because Oreo man told the irrefutable truth. Women judge men by race, height, and looks. Puas still want to hold on to the belief that game works and cold approaching, if cold approaching women was effective, why is it that most men are not Cold approaching?, that's the question Puas don't want to answer.
"If women are judging me about my looks alone, I stand no chance" God fucking damn it, what happened to this world? Why is it that a AT LEAST 6,5/10 (if not 7/10) guy has to say shit like this... While a 4/10 woman is literally swarmed by men who are sometimes much higher than she is... She can be fat, disabled, it doesn't matter, she is still worthy more on the "dating scene". It was never as crazy as it is today.
yuhp i cant really blame men for doing that cause i do that as well. not because i dont think i can but because the game is super messed up, since i believe im a 7 if i try to deal with a female equivalent she feels like she's way better than me...
And it's funny cause I can say I'm a very attractive guy cause girls tell me sometimes that I'm handsome and look I don't even have good luck to get a girl nowadays and yea sometimes they look at me and smile but it's more normal when they ignore me than what they look at me I swear to everything I have in life guys
True dat, if I‘m going out with my girlfriend everyone is like „hey check that cool dude out, he made it! Has a beautiful girlfriend, takes her out for dinners and such!“ :)
There are many guys who denay looks is the key. But I think there are way much more women praising confidense on a guy. Ofc because they don't wanna show they are shallow as women
Looks are actually objective NOT subjective .most people find the same things unattractive and the same things attractive .there may be some women who will be willing to be with us but most women will not
Of course no attraction no chance Looks is just your foot in the door That’s when game conference swag & personality come in But remember like a gun money is a Equalizer
people don't want to admit it because it's a inconvenient uncomfortable truth
yeah, like for all of the women, because most of them post 30 are freaking ugly, good luck nagging that beta-privder you just married for a vacation in tahiti you so desperately want, if he knows this truth...
SonicYouthXXX
alot of dudes are waking up to the game they play. they're not going to be able to run it for long.
Spread mgtow everywhere, dudes need to atleast know this exsists
HeedAndSucceed. When I became overweight, I started having trouble getting women, but now that I'm starting to get my figure back, women are checking for me again.
HeedAndSucceed. If looks didn't matter at all, you wouldn't have women rejecting you within 10 seconds. You cannot tell it if a person is confident with a good personality within 10 seconds. Lol.
Confidence only works if the girl already likes the guy
slidejones 💯
Goku Black facts
i think ur right........confidence dont mean SHIT if the girl dont even like u at all
i think ur right........confidence dont mean SHIT if the girl dont even like u at all
slidejones nah, it works when she's not repulsed or disgusted by him. If an average dude had an epic personality, game, and confidence he will have success with women, I've seen it too many times for incels to tell me otherwise. If an ugly guy has an epic personality, game, and confidence he'd pull about as much a dude with an average personality and average looks. Still much better than this sad incel who makes videos in his car about how he can't get a girlfriend repeating himself for 17 minutes straight. If his max potential can pull as much as an average dude, whys he not even trying to get there? God damn you virgins are just constantly looking for excuses to remain virgins 90% of you probably never got rejected by a girl (mainly cuz u don't talk to girls) yet you claim to know exactly how their mind works. Whatever, keep living your virgin life, more pussy for me!
Confidence is extremely overrated
Thats also true!!!
@@Qourie I used to be rated on a dating site and got given mostly a 5 .it doesn't help even when your a 5
Confidence is politically correct and helps tge Governerment blame lonley men for society and put them on pills
@@iminlove1148it would get you some girls 10 years ago, nowadays 5 is a 3
Must of us don't understand it right. Being confident will not lead to girls wanting to be with you. If your really confident in yourself, then it wouldn't bother you that girls dont like you. Once you accept that lifes not fair or the way it was painted out to be its easier move on and work on your self confidence.
One of the major selling points when I was attempting “game” was that if you approach an attractive woman, she will be blown away by how “bold” you are because the majority of men would be afraid to approach her;
They were in no way impressed by my boldness.
Same here, they were actually confused as to how the fuck did a guy like me get the balls to come talk to them
A large portion of men are very bold, look at Indian men online they are the most low-inhib men yet it only turns women off from them more than they already do.
@@jamesblue5906 most Indian guys have money, so they're not hurting that much.
@@jamesblue5906 they do that because their behind a computer though
@@briancarter2847 yes they are. Even with money they are struggling to get a partner especially the new generation as arranged marriage and tribalism is fading in western Indian communities so it's less taboo when an Indian girl goes with a non Indian guy. A girl may be with an Indian guy cause of his money but once married she ain't giving no sex
Confidence is merely a byproduct of success.
No one can just decide or choose to be confident. It has to come naturally from others.
Correct 💯%.
100% false,
Example of this is how "confident" a child may be before trauma.
@@bobbyjohnson5637they were confident by good treatment by others before trauma, confidence is from external stimulus
@@bobbyjohnson5637thats just the human spirit, then life later adjust it with terrible experiece
@@bobbyjohnson5637yeah a kid who was confident before being bullied (for being ugly) can still blow up as an adult and everyone will compliment. Confidence like that guy said is a reaction to how others treat you. People know you’re faking it when ugly because they know (in their mind) you’re not worthy to feel good of yourself. In fact they get hostile just around your presence
Yep, women and men go by looks. Men admit it, women don't admit it.
J. Joseph Messenger exactly:both!
No man fuck everything
I see 9/10 man
With 3/10 women all the time
Men arent picky and they admit they choose by looks. Women are very picky but they dont admit they choose by looks. See why women dont admit it? Cause then all men will realize women are shallow af! Right now women entertain men with illusion that confidence is what women want.
@- Trzpz - 🤣🤣
True
Protect this man at all cost he is a Legend and intelegent men
unfortunately if you’re ugly and try approaching a woman you’re a creep, but if you’re attractive and approach a woman you’re at least seen as normal
Or a happy stranger
People can’t accept that this is a shallow world
So many women get surgeries, botox, makeup, etc. Yet we push that confidence is key when clearly we don't believe that ourselves. I do think that confidence and giving off good vibes cant hurt, but looks definitely are important to women
Yeah thats what he's saying all throughout the video
Depends, I've seen below average looking men with average jobs and with some great looking women. I think it all goes back to your social skills and personality.
@@hueso5071 or “ just be white bro “
@@catmaxi2599 doesn’t take much to get women. 😂 it’s not rocket science.
@@hueso5071 So have i. Trust me, there's more to those men than just their social skills/personality. Generally as of recently when i started observing couples around me i see good looking with good looking, average with average, and below average are with the same.
Agree 100 percent. It is over if women do not find you attractive. Looks looks - it is all about LOOKS.
Amen brother
dont believe this nonsense. just look at the world and it defies everything he says
Facts !
Psychological research has found that confidence doesn't exist and is only correlated to the absence of negative emotions. So technically confidence is not real indeed, this dude gets it.
Women always tell me I have a good looking face ! Am always in rubbish clothes and women approach me all the time with big smiles etc! This guy is so right!!!
And they say my face is ugly ...smh lol
After practicing PUA for two years including exhibiting lots of confidence, I can say you’re 100% correct. Even though I was always well dressed and well groomed, I ultimately failed because of my poor facial features.
In this case even money doesn't work 😂😂😂
very good sir i say that due to my past experences
I'm just like you it's very hurtful 💔
Yup, dating is over for most of us. Best thing is find good copes, that's all.
Escaped The Matrix : You failed because you're a natural loser. How do you explain guys who are uglier than you who study pick up and get women ?
Man I must be ugly cuz I get no women
Justin Weston dont
I'm the definition of unattractive and i couldn't get a woman to like me if i was the last man alive.
Stop Batman gets plenty of women
Batman don't say things like that about yourself ,if a woman thinks that about you,there will always be one woman who will think good of you.
I dont get em cuz of roscea I'm treating
Russian here, sitting on the other side of the world. I totally feel you bro
It's the same everywhere sadly... America, Europe, Asia, Australia... everywhere. I wish us luck in our lives, God knows we're gonna need it. It's hard out here. Good luck with everything in your life my Russian friend.
здарова
men don't understand because the truth hurts.
Your appearance matters period not just to women but in life..
I agree confidence is a myth.
I would not say that it's a myth. Confidence is the result of having good genetics.
All women are the same. It’s not just black ones. 7:01 lol
Black women need to be highlighted the reason is because they know all about struggle yet they add to it
Yep, women aren’t giving ugly dudes the time of day. Hell, even big batches get an attitude when an ugly dude asks for the time.
I'm average looking and 3/10 landwhales block me the moment they see that I'm not Henry Cavill.
It's true. I am a young woman and I will admit this.
Eccentricka1 thanks for being honest
Rare breed
thank you for being honest i alwyas knew i wasnt shit twenty seven never had a girlfriend
oreo man I wouldn't beat yourself up like that and put yourself down. I think it's important not to have a defeatist attitude because if you're not physically repulsive (which you are not) then there's always room for improvement, but I cannot lie. Looks DO matter. I'm glad the guys here are smart and self aware enough to see things for what they are instead of living in a fantasy land. I've had a couple guys on here become incredibly hostile and confrontational with me on here for telling the truth.
Eccentricka1 people need to hear the truth people always want to preach game and confidence which is a lie from the gates of hell you first have to be some what good looking
Confidence matters as long as she physically finds you attractive
Confidence comes from positive reinforcement. Guys that are labeled chad, get positive reinforcement all the time in the form of compliments and female attention, so it all boils down to how good you look.
Or rich or funny
@@ChrisJClark-ih2oonah those dont bridge the gap like looks
i have reached the point in my life where i want god to take me in my sleep. yes, i dont want to live anymore. i'm not suicidal because i am afraid of willfully forcing the end of myself - i rather go quietly in my sleep without my knowing. for me, its more than just wanting a woman. i am 34 years old. i am still single, still living at home with my parents, living in a country i have no interest in anymore, and the only thing keeping me going is my job but even thats not permanent. i feel i am a white man inside, trapped in an asian body. i am westernised in culture but people see me and stereotype me out as a traditional asian type even though i dont follow any of the eastern religions nor can i even speak the language. i am attracted to western white women and living in europe, i dreamy of going to america, therefore an american wife is the only logical option. but i cant even get a woman here. worse, i have been in a string of dead end basic office jobs so i havent really got a career. my wanting to move is getting more intense each day and its left my body shutting down, feeling sank and depressed, because i dont know HOW to get from a to b. i was born in the wrong place and the wrong people. and now i am getting external pressures from outside and its just unbearable. i cant live like this anymore. i want god to take me to a better place in my sleep.
I wholeheartedly understand how you feel, brother. You've got two options. The first one is to go overseas as foreign women have been proven to be better than Western women in every aspect. If you can't afford to go overseas, the second one is to let go of your emotional attachments, feel the completeness and freedom of yourself and just accept and move on. I completely gave up on women from a young age because once I found out how women with objective morals are a minority, that put me off for life. Going overseas can definitely improve your mental and physiological health ... and it can really improve your social and dating life. Have a think about my advice. I wish you the best. It hurts me to see so many guys suffering.
Nihilanth1982 don't say that my brother god would help you out to find the women of your dreams just be patient and I'm sure that you'll make it to America one day soon and brother don't stress out on this girls nowadays just work on being happy with yourself and then all that comes alone
34 is still not young age... Ask God...
Nihilanth1982 that's sad I feel sorry for you
Dude just build your looks up its not hard. Start weight training start taking care of your face.
You have never lied bro . 💯% Facts you speak .
Unconfident attractive men : shy/ quirk men
Confident attractive men : bad boy
The key word is "attractive" game, confidence and shit are nothing. If you were attractive enough, you just sit on your ass, women will approach .
One person said looks can even determine your future job fucked up but true
He's telling the truth looks do matter to women
@peachie05 but more so to women
@peachie05 women are born to be attractive to men but man are born to be Breadwinners.. But nowadays men have to be allrounder to get women
Then why do women claim they're not sexual?
Who after you the feds?
The feminazi feds bruh. 😂😂😊
diezel72 He looking around like the task force bout swoop in and get his ass 😂
They dont want to admit both men and women because they think admitting would make them shallow
I got no confidence or looks so I am another fucking lost cause, fuck my life. It hurts my chest with feelings knowing that I will be single my whole life but I am trying to accept that.
moordenaar van sterren im sorry
L S get escorrts, but that sucks man. You should not have to buy women.
bro this guy has the yapping superpower he said the same 5 sentences and spread them over 18 minutes
Normie
he needs to keep saying it for another 1 hour for me because I was lied to my whole life, this is the truth
Every CZcams grifter does the same thing and they're getting paid by the boatload🎎
You speak 100% truth man.
the bp is spreading
the truth always comes to light no matter what
Fr , “confidence gets you women “ was most likely a psyop to damage control the initial RP spreading decades ago so the male population would keep chasing women
It's already come a long way, but you're right - the truth is getting real hard to deny with social media at this point. Even zoomers are waking up because on TikTok the great majority of the successful ones are all attractive.
Damian Karter for example he’s famous just because of this looks.
There's no more drink in that cup despite his efforts to get more lol
Bigbanknewyork3655
Nothing but stone cold truth!!
I find it funny that men need swag, game, and confidence to attract the opposite sex but all women need is makeup 😂 😂! The dating game is vicious
All women need is Nothing really lol.
everytime he calls these videos "video presentation" it makes my day 😜
I feel this way! I'm so insecure about my looks! When someone reject me I think I'm already ugly. Imma giving up.
Men are sick and tried hearing about confidence, game, swag, and eveything else. Looks and appearance is fine. But women don't judge men base on personality and judging a man base on his character and how he carried himself as a man.
my cousin is a sanitation worker on a garbage truck. briefly visiting me one day outside he was dirty as hell.later on that day, i had two neighbors asking me who was that guy I was talking to.. .they took one look at him and decided I guess.so it couldnt be about just confidence.
I had a similar situation occur where the chick that's supposedly my friend saw one of my brothers friends male leaving our house she goes he's cute I'm like do you think I'm cute she hesitates and says yes I instantly knew she was telling a big fat juicy lie lmaooooooooop
If a woman likes you she likes you Yeah a lot of guys trying to hard to impress these broads. Dont need game. If you need game then she dont like you sexually
G-notes Johnson exactly
Preach it bro 💯
@@VVSGoated he's right
I agree its all about the face.,
Paul Stewart Face and height period.
ProsferiuS face/height/body/decent footwear
nah just face unless you're a midget. i'm 6'2 not ugly and i dont get shit from women. height is only good for trying to get noticed, not for sex appeal.
So you can just be a nice looking guy an woman will just
Face and resources/status
Real confidence is a product of success, nothing more. Unfortunately, society wants to deny this fact. I blame for-profit dating advice and the motivation industry for pushing this crap. The truth would put those pop-positivity charlatans out of business!
LMFAOOOOOOOOO bro this shit cracks me up all the time cause it’s 100% FACTS!!!!
It's so brutal as well!
The way he is rubbing his hands together he wants to really just go off. I def agree bro. Confidence don’t mean shit
Looks are not "shallow"...good looks convey health and genetic fitness, which are very important and most certainly not trivial
They need to be honest about it
@Kai Stone We'll see whose comment gets the most upvotes. Yes, unattractive/very short people are genetically unfit. Often, a person's poor health is obvious from their appearance (Downs syndrome; obesity; retards, etc). A key sign of depression is an unkempt appearance...
@Kai Stone down voted 👎
Looks are huge with getting you in the door. He is absolutely right about that. We’ve all been to bars and clubs, we’ve all seen those guys that most women there are staring at. Those guys have a huge advantage and any girl will at least give that guy a chance let’s not deny it
I judge women on their face too lol.
females love to play games
Only if you’re unattractive
As a woman watching your video, I had no idea this was such a debatable topic. I've always been what you call "a shallow bitch" and it never bothered me. I never felt like I should lie about it. I'd say a man's personality and appearance have the same value. Both men and women want an attractive mate to look at everyday and you want good looking kids too. I despise the whole "be confident" and "shoot your shot" bullshit. That's nothing but a setup for an akward exchange. The man gets rejected and women have to reject these men in a way that doesn't cause offense, but doesn't lead him to believe he still has a chance.
The friend zone is for ugly guys 💯facts.
That’s why so many of us are psychos nowdays
I mean shii I had a hard upbringing full of death and murder n shii but drugs and rejection turned me into a demon
@@keandrethegoat1169 Don't use not getting women as a weak crutch for your madness. Get money and buy the woman you want. You might not get the fairytale romance you wanted, but it's something. Life is unfair.
@@barbaragordon6177 they prescribing me antidepressants so ima be fine I think
@@keandrethegoat1169 smoke sun weed bro we all going through it
@@barbaragordon6177 can’t nan mf save my madness lol except a hollow tip bullet or the lord bih
And shii Ted bundy had some interesting ways of getting women..
They'd rather have an abusive male model than a nice average person.
So would most guys tbh.
I'd rather have a nice average than a bad good looking. Of course my "average" still needs to be attractive and attracted to me.
@@foreveralone4588if you find them attractive they are not average, at least thats how it is with me. If i dont find her attractive that means she is average but most women are attractive, you will smash 80% of women in a classroom thats just how nature is, because men have testosterone we are less picky, out of those 100% the average ones are 15% and the butt ugly deformed ones are 5%. Ofc the percentage varies but majority of women are attractive. Thats why dudes get confused when they think they look average and decent that no women wants them. For women its the reverse, because of estrogen they find only 20% out of that 100% classroom of guys attractive.
@@foreveralone4588Same
So true,a lot women won't even speak if she don't think your attractive.Besides that ever woman isn't going to think your attractive anyways.
If she was honest about her taste, I'd be happy. Not, the "idc about looks"
@@ChrisJClark-ih2oo I'd rather have a woman to be honest an tell me she don't find me attractive than one won't say anything so a least I'll have a heads up so I could move forward.I can't stand a brawd that will pretend to Like a guy for the hella of it that's really low
@@kevinday8769 True that... Ik there's some good ones out there
@@kevinday8769 girls who talk about what they want from a guy's looks n inner beauty r usually honest about their intent. If she finds u cute i think she'll tell u that or if she politely tells u that she doesn't find u attractive. I would appreciate that from a woman vs. A girl lying about not caring about looks. I am honest about what i want from a girl. If she is nice, funny, not fat, and decent or cute. I may get backlash for this, but if a girl talks about her type n what she finds attractive, that shows honesty
I accept Savvy Guy as my mentor and teacher.
Why is he looking back and forth 24/7? 😂
Mogs me to death . Over .
What a fire, classical rant!
I never considered myself ugly either. I still don't. And you arn't. It's not that a lot of us guys are actually ugly.. I find that it's more that they all seem to like a certain type of guy. There's plenty of decent looking and cool guys out there that have no luck alot of the time just cause they arn't the females preferred type. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you... I just means that females or at least in this countryr are shallow as and all the same
Steve Hoca is The MAN....but don't let it make you depress
Oreo Man you prove your point and you've said this several times.Really need to stop beating up on yourself it want help you none.
I think player supreme always said you gotta date within your league, find a decent girl on YOUR LEAGUE and call it a day.
Listen bro
Sex is just a paycheck away
If you want to piss off Oreo Man say this:
Brandon you’re very handsome. But you need to work on your game, confidence, and swag.
He's actually not bad looking but need to get rid of jungle mentality. Needs to change but i'm not telling him what to do. It's up to him.
Yup, I grew up with sisters and looks does matter to women. Same as men. When I was younger, two women, who I am not aquatinted, wanted to talk to me because one of them found me cute. Back then, I was working at a restaurant and they saw me when I would step out.
Cheers!
Good lookin face is everything.
Hell yeah you're absolutely right man.
Wise words bro, wise words.
The reason is simple , our ego takes over and most don't want to admit that looks truly are everything , from the day ur born until we die they way ppl treat u it's based on how u look and ur personality who u r is shaped accordingly especially in ur formative years , idon't approach females anymore im a pest it takes a while to get it
so many naive dudes claim this confidence shit that precisely comes depending on how physically attractive you're or not. Obviously you're gonna get a high self-esteem if people are telling you the whole f*cking time that you're hot or sexy because a pair or breasts or hips or face or eyes for a girl. Instead of stuff like height or broad shoulders or big d*ck in a guy, which is way harder to happen.
in the words of lidia soprano , "It's all a big nothing."
@ 9:28 - Spot on comment!!! My questions would be how can they sense confidence but they can't sense that the guy is a women beater, an alcoholic, a lair, a cheater, a theaf and every other horrible thing and where did they learn that skill?
Great video.. so true. Especially if you're overweight or fat.. it really is over for you. If you don't dress well.. it's over for you too.
I dress well and it's still over for me
Keep speaking the truth.
Bro I ain't gonna lie women always clocking me and stuff.. But im too shook to approach them
Approaching is easy I've done it many times even on the street sober
Confidence is bs
This video is a classic because Oreo man told the irrefutable truth. Women judge men by race, height, and looks. Puas still want to hold on to the belief that game works and cold approaching, if cold approaching women was effective, why is it that most men are not Cold approaching?, that's the question Puas don't want to answer.
Cuz only cuties and high classers do it
2024 he ain’t wrong
he is so mad at women that he forgot that he ran out of drink and now simping on air
lmao
Everything is based on looks even spiritually
Looks attract you the person it's true
THIS IS FUCKING AWESOME..this is the shit guys are too afraid to say
Sid Micheals real talk
"If women are judging me about my looks alone, I stand no chance"
God fucking damn it, what happened to this world? Why is it that a AT LEAST 6,5/10 (if not 7/10) guy has to say shit like this... While a 4/10 woman is literally swarmed by men who are sometimes much higher than she is... She can be fat, disabled, it doesn't matter, she is still worthy more on the "dating scene". It was never as crazy as it is today.
Lordani66 EXACTLY, i know a fat girl who's a 4 that was able to get a 8 this whole dynamic is fucked up and dudes are suffering badly.
I blame men for it too.
Especially those who are 7,8,9, who stooped as low as to 4s and 5s.
yuhp i cant really blame men for doing that cause i do that as well. not because i dont think i can but because the game is super messed up, since i believe im a 7 if i try to deal with a female equivalent she feels like she's way better than me...
Well , i have a speech empidment and i refuse to let that control my life...
Well im not a fan of Player Supreme but he do admit that women do go for looks.
And it's funny cause I can say I'm a very attractive guy cause girls tell me sometimes that I'm handsome and look I don't even have good luck to get a girl nowadays and yea sometimes they look at me and smile but it's more normal when they ignore me than what they look at me I swear to everything I have in life guys
I think some women are also in denial about being into appearances
Probably because they care about your feelings.
@@freespirit7450 lying to people doesn't make them feel better 😐
True I live this every day I've always been a nice guy to every body an women still judge me how I look looks is everything
Same here. I'm nice to everyone, try to talk, but local shallow snobs females don't even look in my approximate direction.
@@foreveralone4588 I feel you man
@@foreveralone4588 Brutal!
Yep @@foreveralone4588
I feel u bro u can't get confidence anyway unless u get compliments by cute bitches feel yo pain bro
I feel this pain oh so real
THE HOCSTER SOUPED HIM UP..😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 .
why did you took off the life of hell incorp. videos from your channel savvy guy?
im a men and i don t give a shit about a girl confidence Ilike her looks
GamesGambler yuhp 💯💯 thats exactly his point 💯💯💯
GamesGambler too young to be on CZcams evidently
Who is Steve Hoka? Swear I can't find this individual
True dat, if I‘m going out with my girlfriend everyone is like „hey check that cool dude out, he made it! Has a beautiful girlfriend, takes her out for dinners and such!“ :)
There are many guys who denay looks is the key. But I think there are way much more women praising confidense on a guy. Ofc because they don't wanna show they are shallow as women
the anti-motivational speaker
16 :51 " thats why i dont respect myself as a man"
You should tell this to mr locario he says looks are subjective
jimmy kelley lol i heard him say that lol
Looks are actually objective NOT subjective .most people find the same things unattractive and the same things attractive .there may be some women who will be willing to be with us but most women will not
people will never accept the truth and there is no use in trying to convince them because it will cause you only pain
Of course no attraction no chance
Looks is just your foot in the door
That’s when game conference swag & personality come in
But remember like a gun money is a Equalizer