Are Our 20s The BEST or WORST Decade?! | The Hop Pod Ep.39

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  • čas přidán 20. 07. 2024
  • Remember those quarter-life crisis moments in your twenties? We've all been there. Join our hosts in this episode as we say goodbye to our twenties with stories and lessons learnt, and how we are staying hopeful as we approach the slightly more responsible, yet equally exciting, era of our thirties.
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    TIMESTAMPS
    00:00 Teaser
    00:30 Topic of the day
    03:33 How were your 20s?
    04:36 Quarter-life crisis
    08:30 Spending habits at 20
    09:11 The Question Pod
    11:53 Regrets in our 20s?
    15:36 Lessons in our 20s
    19:23 Healing our inner child
    21:49 Dealing with anxieties in 20s
    24:31 Outro
    24:55 Bloopers
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Komentáře • 40

  • @wan2631
    @wan2631 Před 3 měsíci +55

    Honestly, I would totally subscribe to a blog or some sort of platform just to see how Nic uses graphs, google sheet or whatever other statical format for life situations (or life system I guess)

    • @YouGotWatch
      @YouGotWatch  Před 3 měsíci +58

      😂😂😂 LIKE THIS COMMENT if you’re interested in Nic’s spreadsheet masterclass

  • @marcusltw5301
    @marcusltw5301 Před 3 měsíci +21

    Currently in my 20s, one thing i would like to share is to not compare yourself with others esp your peers. It’s easy and natural to want to do so, for example your classmates now already engaged, or already buying a new house, while you’re perhaps not there yet or don’t have a true path you wanna take. But It’s really really true that everyone’s journey is different. Just compare yourself with the old you, and no matter how, you would definitely realise that you actually are growing and improving, and that’s already so great.

  • @kalmato5
    @kalmato5 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I have 2 learnings during my 20s:
    1. Ever tried, ever failed, no matter. Try again, fail again, fail better.
    2. When deciding whether to jump into something, try to ask yourself whether it's a decision that you will regret if you pass it up. If it is, just take it.

  • @shalomwong746
    @shalomwong746 Před 3 měsíci +22

    amazing conversation! this needs a part 2..

  • @joeyyyiqi
    @joeyyyiqi Před 3 měsíci +17

    I relate so much as someone who is turning 30 this year. Thanks for another great episode as always!

  • @hongsienkwee537
    @hongsienkwee537 Před 3 měsíci +2

    When you are young, often you are sensitive to how others see, think about you. But actually, you should not be, life your Life, don't be 'lived' by others. Doesn't mean you should not be compassionate for others, but don't worry too much how others might think about you

  • @Stubb0rnz
    @Stubb0rnz Před měsícem

    13:30 , haha relatable but my quote is :
    Don't regret whatever you did at that moment, because at that moment THAT'S WHAT YOU REALLY WANTED.

  • @enqiemily5061
    @enqiemily5061 Před 3 měsíci +4

    hey guys! im currently going through the early years of my 20s. i agree with you that your 20s is the time when you figure things about yourself (im going through this stage now :< ) i feel like there is some pressure when it comes to "living your 20s to its fullest", be it comparing yourself with friends who are having more overseas adventures or friends who are having fun dating around. also, maybe it's just me but part of me feels that im still a teenager. i find myself being too overwhelmed to learn about financial literacy or other adult responsibilities. just sharing some of my thoughts! great episode and nic you damn funny :P

    • @YouGotWatch
      @YouGotWatch  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience with us 💕 just remember, everything at your own time!

  • @Skinnypnny
    @Skinnypnny Před 3 měsíci +8

    Block catching is my fav, omg old times.❤❤❤

    • @joietan5150
      @joietan5150 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ikr!!! 🏢🏃🏻‍♀💨

    • @Q.lyqian
      @Q.lyqian Před 3 měsíci +2

      I should organise one

  • @ning8774
    @ning8774 Před 3 měsíci +3

    one of my fav ep so far. thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences XD

  • @RON-xp7wr
    @RON-xp7wr Před 3 měsíci

    this was such an amazing episode, thanks for sharing your lessons and experiences with us ❤

  • @cassandramaetowle6053
    @cassandramaetowle6053 Před měsícem

    I related w the inner child mantra so so much. Thank you J for bringing that out

  • @trevorthai1685
    @trevorthai1685 Před 3 měsíci +4

    OMG I guessed all your ages correct from the photos just by sensing the vibessss (legit I paused it and guessed)!!
    Ya’ll really have such distinct 20s eras while I’m still going thru mine and being more kind to myself ❤

    • @joietan5150
      @joietan5150 Před 3 měsíci

      thanks for playing with us!!! aw yesss to being kind to yourself always ♡

    • @trevorthai1685
      @trevorthai1685 Před 3 měsíci

      @@joietan5150 No probs!! Always love the podcast eps cos it hits so close to home and so wholesome

  • @cloud096
    @cloud096 Před 3 měsíci +2

    best episode yet.

  • @Syahzukihayatbusa
    @Syahzukihayatbusa Před 3 měsíci

    11.42 "Well, so..I was the biggest loser." 100%..and Nic said it too.

  • @libraries144
    @libraries144 Před 3 měsíci +9

    321 LEt IT RIIIIIP

  • @ivanho5943
    @ivanho5943 Před 3 měsíci +1

    this episode really hit hard for me and im not even in my 20s yet 😭😭😭

    • @YouGotWatch
      @YouGotWatch  Před 3 měsíci

      It’s truly a decade to look forward too! We’re excited for you!

  • @wzc8886
    @wzc8886 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I struggle with being comfortable alone and needing lots of me time but also feeling lonely and having no friends while looking outside in at other people's close-knit friendship circles. One of my biggest worries is that should I get attached, I don't have any friends to introduce my partner. Another worry is should I require emotional support I have no one to turn to. Any advice?

    • @YouGotWatch
      @YouGotWatch  Před 3 měsíci

      Hello! As nick, joie and q shared in the episode, there’s truly nothing wrong with that if that’s what works for you! That said, we have an episode on adult friendships from our earlier episodes (ep7) as well!

  • @PearlPurrincess
    @PearlPurrincess Před 11 dny

  • @ChrisRox-rv5sq
    @ChrisRox-rv5sq Před 3 měsíci +2

    Eh actually I also cannot remember my 20s well. Idk if it's the best or the worst, let's find out when I reach 50

  • @joshualee8151
    @joshualee8151 Před 3 měsíci +2

    joie 21 for B..... cuz i seen her on older kenji umehara's videos n they dont match the look
    (ohhhh u have to guess all 3 pictures LMAO)
    Q- C=21 A=25 B=27.... helll yaaaa i was right!!!!!
    nick- A=21 C=27 B=25.... frickkkkk i was off ><
    i gave a honest guess tho cuz i paused it n guessed... i didnt understand it at first with joie >

    • @joietan5150
      @joietan5150 Před 3 měsíci

      omg the commitment and the live commenting HAHA i love it

  • @TheLushProduction
    @TheLushProduction Před 3 měsíci +2

    Let’s play beyblade together

  • @Amphibians45
    @Amphibians45 Před 3 měsíci

    I like the calves of the white shirt girl

    • @joshualee8151
      @joshualee8151 Před 3 měsíci

      why not just say that "Q ur regime of exercising really pays off that she looks great?" ur slaying it sis!!!!
      then some empty comment like that goodness gracious

    • @Amphibians45
      @Amphibians45 Před 3 měsíci

      @@joshualee8151 both directs towards one meaning which is nice/good looking/attractive...etc . No need to be so detailed. The important thing is i mean in in a positive way, thats enough ya. Not like some perverts out thers

  • @Amphibians45
    @Amphibians45 Před 3 měsíci +2

    The girl with tattoo so hot

  • @aidilko123
    @aidilko123 Před 3 měsíci +1

    isit me or does nicckk gain weight? hehe
    maybe hes just happy

    • @nicholasyeam
      @nicholasyeam Před 3 měsíci +1

      Honeymoon weight! 😪 I’m working on it. 😂

  • @chiewruchuan8960
    @chiewruchuan8960 Před 3 měsíci +3

    girl w tattoo joie like to talk alot abt herself

    • @SASSAS___
      @SASSAS___ Před 3 měsíci +29

      theyre talking about experiences, ofc they talk about themselves. then talk about you ah?

    • @Aviation380HD
      @Aviation380HD Před 3 měsíci +12

      love her leave her alone 🫶🏻