Gary Owen on Cheating on His Ex Wife, Paying Alimony for 10 Years (Part 11)
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Comedian Gary Owen recently discussed his marriage and subsequent divorce from his ex-wife. Owen admitted to cheating during their marriage but emphasized that infidelity wasn't the reason for their split. He was candid about his affairs, explaining that they never involved emotional attachments and were kept completely separate from his home life. Owen offered advice for those in the entertainment industry, especially younger men with newfound fame and fortune, advising them not to marry in their 20s. Citing the multitude of temptations that come with success, he suggested allowing time for such behavior to be outgrown.
The divorce proceedings involved considerable legal back-and-forth, which both Owen and his ex-wife eventually mediated to avoid excessive costs. Owen stressed that he never intended to financially shortchange his ex-wife, ensuring a fair settlement. Ultimately, he will be paying alimony for ten years. The comedian reflects on this as part of their "great compromise," believing that a balanced settlement often leaves both parties slightly unhappy, marking it fair in their case. - Zábava
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Is it realistic to expect someone who committed to you to be faithful to you? Lol that's a real question?? If a woman out here cheating people would be trashing her lol
Just don’t get married if you not trying to commit
It’s really simple.
Better to have some cake and eat it too.
@@justsayin7865 yeah… cause that’s a recipe for a good marriage. I’m sure yall quiet as kept when she decides to creep on you.
@@1Deep43VA Right 🤣🤣🤣
As a human you aren't perfect
and he wonder why his kids dont want to deal with him, you proudly talk about and joke about how you cheated on her constantly, he talks about her more since the divorce...like damn
Facts but got all these people bashing his ex wife without telling the whole story. But I guess now he is
Agreed. I hate these interviews that start the way the one does. Just like the successful man should have no morals and women should accept it.
Exactly
I've never heard anyone ever make that connection when woman cheat....that a woman's cheating would effect their relationships with their children....crazy
I respect Gary for telling the truth & taken accountability for what he did cause most men will never admit to cheating. Cheating is wrong no matter if it’s a man or woman.
Hearing MySpace top 8 made me feel old af. I’m 29 😂
wtf you must’ve been like 10 years old when MySpace was at its peak lol
that math dont add up dude lol
Stfu...nobody wants to hear your 29 year old cry
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@joojoobaw I was on MySpace from 6th grade to my sophomore year. That’s like 06-2011 🤷🏾♂️
Cheating is disrespectful on any level stay single
It ain’t cheating if I tell you before hand
@juswolf22 Yeah that would be an open relationship which is a different discussion. It would still be a lack of love though. True love requires sacrifice and if you are unwilling to make the sacrifice of breadth of experience for depth of experience then you have failed your spouse and your family
@@thecrow4597 That true love stuff is nonsense. Sorry to break it to you. As soon as you stop being able to provide financially, that love stuff goes out the window. People have been lied to about marriage and love. Sold a bill of goods by film and television.
Agreed
Men work way too hard to get ass to not hit when we want 🤷🏾♂️ man taking care of you, he should be able to hit who he wants
Cheating is a character flaw, period.
He's talked about them living essentially like roommates - and that's why they divorced. Does he not realize that cheating causes women to emotionally disconnect, even if she stays in the relationship? She can stay peacefully because the marriage still serves her financially and socially, but she's stopped caring because you are no longer the person she thought she loved.
I would give this comment a thousand likes, as it deserves.
Fidelity is always about choice for both men and women. Wives get down too.
So you say all of that to say what you never said a word about her cheating he was the one who’s doing all the cheating and she for gave him
??????@@flyguy7825
@@AB-dl1hz why you put a?’s to me I asked him he says all that to say what?
What was the point of this comment?
@@blepblep469 that’s my question too!! Lol
Vlad's logic is flawed as usual. A nice looking woman has options and is presented with "D" offers on a daily basis. Based on his logic a guy should understand that this type of woman is going to cheat occasionally. This guy has clearly let money go to his head.
Exactly options is options and I have them to.. I will easily tell a man “remember I’m new to somebody else to” 😉
A woman cheats emotionall a man cheats physically. As much as we want to compare the two our genetic makeup isnt the same
If he was willing to divorce her and pay alimony for 10 years then I'm sure he had his reasons
🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
Facts its usually the women who files for divorce although may not be "cheaper to keep her" lol
she probably stop sleeping with him forcing him to go elsewhere
I wonder why ya'll giving him a pass.
@@danielbarnes1541cause we saw how she treated him on their show. She emasculated that man constantly and talked to him crazy in front of their kids.
@terickastidbits2342 yeah she was mad because he"d cheated
Cheating is for people who have nothing to loose
Monogomy is possible Vlad.
No it's not.
He wasn’t successful when they got married. He was a struggling comedian when they met
Imagine making up excuses for your fakeness. Because you’re successful or attractive you get to be a fake mfer?
People’s thought process is crazy.
This world is fried nobody has morals anymore
The status of your career doesn’t make cheating and infidelity acceptable. You are justified in believing that a marriage is supposed to be monogamous and forever and you should never accept anything less.
Says the man that's never made a million dollars or been famous...easier said when you never had the same options and access to those caliber of woman
"I never made sure it was anybody she knew." Dude you were intentionally cheating.
Did he fall, slip and land in some pssy? Im sure cheating is not by mistake lol
These two dudes wish they had multiple wives 😂
Should be Zulu,they seem to have African blood that allows multiple wives
there's no men being men. Cheating = lying. If you wanna do what you want just say that and let people choose for themselves if they want to deal with you.
Men are only as faithful as their options
@@swaggsincebirth false
Cheating is lame and Vlad is a loser for tryna make it seem like because you have money you’re allowed to be disloyal
FACTS BUT!!! Lots of men believe that and are open to that idea sad but true even Gary Owen’s said women who would have never ever gave him a chance or a shot in the bedroom gave him some play because of the money and just like a lot of men ok his position folded!! That was a test in there marriage which he failed
Vlad is pure misogynist trash. He only gets pussy because he has money now. The audacity of any man, let alone an unattractive one to have such sexist views.
i think he was saying there is more opportunity considering he said if youre attractive its the same thing
VLAD just telling the truth. Name one King that had only one wife
@@icebergslim2292 I can name ALOT of kings with wives under 15 I’m sure you would like that too
So wait! DJ Vlad wants your woman and or his woman to accept the blatant disrespect of cheating? Is that what I heard? Listen, the amount of hurt to a person is traumatizing and it can change a person for the worst. Especially when the person is faithful.
Correct
these are the dudes who are attracted to women but don't actually like women.
Are you fucking kidding me! As long as she's not publicly humiliated, is it okay to cheat? It's never okay to cheat. NEVER. Being a pos is punishable by divorce. "I would never do that to you" is the rule you apply to CHEATING.
And we’re totally jumping over STDs. You’re out here slinging your dick around and then you come back home. You can potentially give me something and give me something that I can’t get rid of.
The women lucky to be married to a successful man
@@chuck9380 why don’t you go marry a man then?
@@chuck9380 Nope. They don't want to be humiliated either.
Honestly I have a question, has there EVER been a point in history where men have only been with one woman their entire life? If almost every woman in the world can tell you a story about a man cheating what does that tell you? That it’s not natural for men. I’m not saying it’s impossible and there are no men on the planet who have the ability to be faithful to one woman their entire life, but what do you expect from a man in the entertainment industry or just a man who has options? Like if you were married to a man for 10+ years and he admitted to you (he told you himself, otherwise you would have never known) that he stepped out once, is that really worth throwing the entire family away? And ladies use the word “cheating” so loosely nowadays. Cheating could mean a whole separate relationship, a one time encounter, just even flirting and/or getting someone else’s number. I’ve heard of girls in high school say a boy cheated on them and all he did was be seen walking or holding hands with another girl at school
he is 100 % correct never marry a rich and famous man in their 20s...he is gonna cheat on u period!
No!, Don’t treat the woman that you want to marry like shit because you still want to live out your fantasies with being with other women
No, that’s an opinion if you are rich and famous and if you’re in your 20s in your serious about marriage, then get married to the one that you want to marry, but don’t get married thinking that you can still be who you are running the streets chasing pussy just because you’re rich and famous you have to be honest with yourself a lot of these males out here. I’m not honest with themselves. They want to have their kid and eat too and feel like they’re entitled to that , they don’t understand what marriage means
He’s a loser for not taking accountability
Men cheat regardless of age
@@avonfettydale9166 man be quiet..I'm talkin' about the message...not the messenger smh 🙄
Honestly seems better to just be faithful, less stress.
“You’re getting attention from women you’ve never gotten attention from before”
I called it! These dudes were some SQUARES who could never pull a chick before they got “success” and thus, they can’t handle when an opportunity presents itself to stay faithful.
And someone will say, “well, you weren’t being approached by woman like he does”
Anything to excuse their shitty behavior. But hey… I just find cheating disgusting. That’s me personally. If I still wanted to be a dog, I wouldn’t have got married. And if I wanted to go back, I’d get a divorce. It’s really that simple.
Yea you have selective listening like most idiots. He also clearly said in there 20s. Common sense will tell you young rich successful people that were born unfortunate will make a lot of mistakes and cheating is one of em. To many people fall in love to fast and unrealistically that they rush things like marriage before they even get to know themselves or what they truly like. The way you think is not the way majority of the world thinks and if you were smart you would know that
@@lilmoefrom9350 And your the idiot it because I’m addressing what Vlad said and the mentality behind it you f***ing clown
Make sure you don’t ride em too hard huh
@@lilmoefrom9350 btw… when did he get the divorce again? When did he cheat again? Oh, turns out it wasn’t just in his 20s huh…. 🤡
Can't wait to see what else you have up your sleeve!
Gary you are a good honest man 😮
Vlad is the definition why the family break down is what it is
Gary 100 in my book 🏌🏾♂️💯
I love Gary, but you should’ve stayed with your wife. She was there before you became big. Know you have twins with someone else , if y’all break up you will be paying child support and alimony 😮
… the good ol’ myspace days… 😔💔
I feel dodgy about any guy who dont talk to his son
His son doesn’t talk to him.
@@ronaldavendt8731 he betrayed his mother and he’s laughing about it.
@@ronaldavendt8731 Yeah or vice versa
Ice T “poor guy if he just had car shield he would be in this situation” 😂
Kevin Owens always gets me 😂
Gary... Kevin is that wrestler with a dad bod
He ain't shit jk 😂
You right. He ain't. 😂
Lawyers are the biggest crooks.
Yea what he was describing is the same thing nick and Mariah Carey was going through in their divorce
People cheat bc they want to and bc they can. Nothing accidental about it. Its a conscious decision. There may be reasons but there is no excuse.
If the set amount won't change, Gary better go out here and hustle hard and stack that 10 yrs of payments and put it in a high yield saving account and just use that to pay her.
Made sure it was nowhere near home. What a good guy 😅
Why did he want/ask for a divorce?
He said he wasn't happy. He said she knew about him cheating before but finally he was over it and filed for divorce. I have no doubt they would still be married today if he didn't. But damn, 10 yrs of alimony! She ain't got to work at all now.
I feel him bro everyone’s acting righteous the shit do be happenin and I’m not even rich or famous😂😂😂
I hope his kids are talking to him again. Last time he spoke, they blocked him
Paying alimony to ex-wife is crazy.
Then he shouldn’t have cheated
@@flyguy7825 found the male feminist 😂
She was with him before he was famous. So it's only right and I'm a man saying this. She was there when they were struggling.
@@guzjose and you sound like a POS!! Who just don’t wanna take accountability for your marriage.
@@thatrublkdom Dudes like this dipsh** don’t see it that way if You cheated on your wife multiple times she forgave you and you filed for divorce after she was at home taking care of the kids provided a home and household for you and your children Yes Alimony should be expected
TALKK GRAY 🩶
The thing is both parties take a vow. And one person doesn’t get an expecting regardless of income
Him mocking Black ppl is sooo CRINGEworthy
Paying alimony to me is crazy. It should not be allowed.
poor guy had a bad lawyer.
Fellas you ever wanna get married? Just be around a guy going through a divorce and discussing alimony, the hell that man is going through will make you think twice about getting married.
That will make you think twice about fucking up!! Marriage isn't the problem, humans fucking up is.
@@spb8039yea most of the marriages are done by women, alot of men are doing thing right and women for some egotistical reason because they are not "happy" would litreally end the relationship faster than you can turn off the light. Happens all the time even to best guy doing the providing
@@spb8039 80% of divorce is cause by women.
@spb8039 ummn you do know 80% of divorce is from women. Absolutely no benefit for men in marriage
@spb8039 - No marriage is definitely the problem.
We just heard all of this from “CLUB SHAY SHAY!!!”…
Vlad thinks he is a man with options
Sometimes Vlad be stating super facts!
Fax
He’s not standing straight up facts all he’s stating is what men who want their cake and eat it to feel like regardless if you’re rich or successful put that on the back burner they are men out there still who feel like that even though they’ve got a woman at home and they’re bringing home the bag they feel like they have a license to creep around when they’re old lady but if the shoe was reversed it’s a clear-cut hypocritical situation I literally had guys tell me that their wife owes them something that they’re not providing so therefore they deserve to creep on their ladies I mean that’s just ass backwards BS
Just don’t be mad when I go out and do my thing
Damm the kids suffer so much!
I have gotten into fights with girls because they took me out of the top 8.
you don’t have to be rich/famous to have options or have any woman desire you.
Now that I think of it, I probably hooked up most when I was broke.
Moral of the story: marriage sux
Marriage is not meant to be effeminate pleasure island. It’s meant to be the picking up of your cross to dedicate your life to serving other people (spouse and children) so that you don’t become a narcissistic demon. And the family unit is the building block of human existence. It’s a duty and a responsibility not an enjoyment. The depth of meaning that comes with making that sacrifice will result in joy but there will be lots of struggle on the journey
People will argue below ⬇️
Because you knew what a marriage was, and you were prepared for it Gary clearly was not prepared for marriage. The first chance he got fame fortune it seems like he was quick to creep on his wife.
Guard against temptation
@@0Shane13 yes!! the ones that are serious about they wife’s aren’t gonna be tempted to cheat
I agree. The problem with slot of entertainment jobs is you don’t go home to your wife after work, you go home in a month. That’s why costars or like pro wrestlers cheat with each other: i think it’s less the money and groupies as it is the life on the road. The fact she isn’t their. It probably requires more emotional maturity to keep that relationship strong when you have half time to build it and when you need intimacy or the illusion of it and the person is unavailable. I know talking about the former VP pence might not make me any friends on this channel but that’s why I respect his rules about being alone with women both from a visual stand point as a public figure and it creates boundaries to limit intimacy that as a married man that could become inappropriate.
Easy to say when you not rich and famous
It’s a lot of stuff that is just reality that is wrong so that just reality stuff goes out the door
Another issue with entertainers that Gary and Vlad didn’t bring up and may not think about is travel and time. Not just you have access to other partners you don’t have access to your partner as often especially when you have resources and are young. Like he said he never brought it home.
first off, you always bring something home. Whether it's the herpes or the general disregard you obviously have for the relationship with your wife. He was living a lie, and he pretended with her. He didnt tell her in advance how it will be and whether she wants to stay in this. He didnt give her the option to make her own choice. Instead he lied to her when he was home and when he wasnt. What does it tell you about a person, when he sits there with you and your common kids at the breakfast table and is all shiny and happy, and 2 days earlier he effed some chick in a hotel room, fully knowing, this has to stay secret because you are married and your wife wouldnt condone it. It's somewhat sociopathic, even more so since he now laughs it off and rationalizes it. Like, come on, I had no choice but to cheat on my wife. If he realizes he suddenly gets models and he feels like he wants that, he should get a divorce or at least tell your wife and see the consequences like a man.
So sad
Best game he gave y’all don’t ever get married or commit before 30 lived in Vegas from 21 to 35 then Miami didn’t settle down till 41
Gary trust me she cheated bro!
If you're not monogamous just say that from day one. There will be way less fighting and hurt feelings if you're honest about it from the start.
I couldn’t cheat on my wife. She’s too important to me.
No recipient, no alimony. You know what to do Gary 👀 jk fr though, he can laugh anything off. I respect cuh energy 😂
why wouldnt he laugh, he wont the genetic lottery and life's lottery. He is a tall, white, blond blue eyed man in a world were each of those traits makes life a lot easier for you, plus he apparently has a funny bone and is equipped with the necessary confidence to make it in the entertainment world, which he sort of did. He has all the reasons to genuinely content. Other than his kids not talking to him for 3 years, but that's par for the course.
Gary started dating KENYA during the COmicview hosting era
Wheres kevin samuels when u need him ahahahahaha
Vlad do the same rules apply to men? If your woman is making her own money, expect her to cheat
No, our egos are notoriously fragile. Most men lose their ish when the tables are turned.
Funny though... Who are cheating men sleeping with... In most cases women who are also in some kinda relationship with another man who has no clue what's going on 😅
Are women protecting and providing?
Honestly it goes both ways in 2024 someone always ruins it at the end 🤷🏾♂️
FOH Vlad you wasnt gettin no cheeks😂
Don't get married period if you want to play
he met her at 24 in 1997 and started dating in the Summer of 1998 at 25 years old
Ain't never seen a married man cheat and is happy about it 🤔🙄👎
No justification
Bruhh this divorce ishhhh is crazy. Kids are grown and he still gotta pay that chick for 10years. Marriage is such a bad business decision!
you have to separate child support and alimony. The wife stayed at home and raised the kids. He made the big money, she held down the castle. It's fair she gets money. The 10 years doesnt tell you anything, since we dont know the amount of money she gets every year. Since he dodged getting served by her but instead served her in a preferable state, and he cut a deal with her, it can be assumed that he got a good deal for himself.
@@maxmeier532 its fair til you have to work for your ex wife Who sold you this crock of bull lol
at the end of the day Gary is living in his truth...he's made mistakes and he holds himself accountable... people arw saying he shouldn't joke about it...he's a comedian...tf 🤦🏿♂️
Accepting of reality? That’s hilarious, especially considering there are good men out here that are not weak enough to give into temptation. A woman is supposed to lower her standards because you have no self control? That’s ridiculous
Would the same concept apply to women as well? Would a man be "ok" with his wife messing around every not and then?
One word gentlemen *prenup* , whether have $-10 in your bank or $10 million in your bank account.
Who remembers the charlamagne clip
Cheating is not everyones reality vlad .
Cheated multiple times
"That wasn't the reason" 😅
You’re so proud of the way you cheated! Shame on you
Sad
Trust me she got hers in return
No Vlad, it shouldn't be expected, or acceptable for either party to cheat. The "cheatee" CAN forgive and forget, but you can't blame them if they do. If you're not serious about marriage, don't take the vows. If you can't help but sleep around when you're on the road, change careers. Such a weird question to ask.
With Vlad the responsibility is on the person that is subjected to the disrespect. The women particularly
WHY DOES SHE DESERVE ALIMONY WHEN HIS KIDS ARE ALL GROWN????
I think it’s funny because if the shoe was on the other foot they’d be like why are you cheating on the bag in reality I just think people in general should manage expectations and people should also not lie where it’s unnecessary like if you marry someone you commit to them you don’t have to nobody is forcing you too so just be honest if you want change you want to be with somebody else just express that but I think it’s lame to lie as a man your word is supposed to mean something right so why lie your rich in your 20’s why lie you have plenty of options just keep it real don’t play with people as a rich man I feel you have even less reason to lie to a woman because you have more options if she isn’t down you can easily find someone else who is
and after going thru this divorce he is getting married again-----he didn't learn anything and h's making another huge mistake
Vlad, so would you be ok if a rich woman in their 20s cheat as well? The man should just accept it 👀
2:22 He's right 💯💯 I always think of Tigers Woods and Derek Jeter... Tiger got married in his 20s and we all know what happened 😂😂 and Derek Jeter remained a bachelor until he retired at 38... THEN he got married 💯💯 he DATED models and actresses, but didn't get MARRIED until after his playing days and he was in his 40s.
But he(Gary)was married before fame so the real question should be should should men respect the woman enough who believed in their dream and stood by them through the struggle enough to have self control and not cheat.
COME ON GARY 😂 Y'ALL WAS TELLIN ON YOUR OWN SELF! TRYNNA MAKE FOLKS LAUGH 😢😢😢
At some point you have to trust me?? He wanted her to trust him not to screw her in the divorce when she already learned the hard way that she couldn't trust him in the marriage?
Coming from a women if someone is upfront and says it might happen and ask if you want loyalty or monogamy. Be loyal and when you cheat no friends family or co workers. And make the one night stands. She still will be upset but she will get over it and forgive.
Getting over lol she had a pretty great life an even after they still want you to fund the life they use to have.
Don't ever change Gary, you have your blessings coming family!
Gary was Not that Famous or Successful when he got married! She helped him build his Brand!
Oh no now you’re just a hater the dude is a famous comedian. He may not be on the level of a Kevin Hart but he is a famous comedian with money.
You’re right she gave up her career to help him
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei if she didnt write no jokes she aint do shit ! please
Lol how did that civilian help
@@CBPunisher1900 it doesn’t even matter now she’s getting that 10 year worth of alimony 💃🏾😴🥱🥱