I HATED My WIFE After SHE GAVE BIRTH
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 5. 07. 2024
- Watch this emotional cartoon animation to see how a man started to hate his wife after she gave birth to triplets
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The main character of this touching story is a young man who dreamed of celebrating his 20th birthday at a club surrounded by beautiful girls and loads of drinks. However, instead of living his fantasy, he had to help his wife clean the vomit of their newborn triplets.
Was having children at 20 that bad of an idea? Was he right to blame his wife for his birthday not going the way he wanted? And will the young couple be able to overcome all challenges and turn into great parents with a stable and loving relationship?
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This man has been very selfish as he would rather party and play video games instead of becoming a proper father to his children, but at least he had learn his lesson in the end as he realise how much he had taken his family for granted. It's always best to appreciate what you have instead of what you haven't got.
You're right he was being selfish, but we have to be realistic he was just 20, men at 30 act like kids much less a 20 year old lol. However he did decide to marry young so he should have at least tried to do the right thing even though taking care of 1 kid is hard much less 3.
At least he learnt a valuable lesson in the end.
What a great comment, dear Kerry â€ïž
I was expecting this to end in divorce. I admire the way the husband realized that he had been wrong and owned up to it instead of denying it. Glad he saw reason and his life is with his family not in a game system.
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Iâm surprised he had children at such an early age, but we have to make the best of our situations.
Well greatly done fellows!! Congratulations on this excellent story. I'm glad the husband likes his wife and kids again.
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At least he learn his lesson is to never ignore the family. His wife is very happy to see him with sons.
Playing video games is fine, as long as you donât lose reality. Plus, if he hated his life, he has no one to blame but himself since he got married and her pregnant at a very young age.
Agreed but since he has triplet IÂŽd say he doesnÂŽt have much time to spare on videogames.
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Life gets hard sometimes no matter how old you are what's important is to do your best to follow God and love one another video games do get to alot of people but is not something that should be the reason to end a merriage but a reason to try and mend a merriage he got tired and blinded he is lucky to have a forgiven wife as all wifes should be like but unfortunately not everyone is like that the point is a merriage will only be strong if both husband and wife work on fixing things together and talking about the good and the bad and compromise so that everyone can be happy
At least he learned his lesson about life and he had his kids to Thank for it
Look, if you don't want responsibilities as a father, then don't be a father at all. Same goes with some mothers who only want to party.
Glad that he finally understood
I better keep this advice in mind!!!!
Well that's what you get for knocking up your wife and plus you should have thought of it ahead protection and sex safety use. The husband is so ungrateful be thankful for what you have and if you don't like it you're going to start to pay child support so what's it going to be?
I think his wife didnt want to get pregnant but he did not care and now look what he did
Amen men are so selfish
Actually they should have been more careful. Because 20 is really young age for having kids
This man only cares about breasts and sex, partying and video games. Maybe his wife wasn't planning on getting pregnant but she did. Instead of criticizing her appearance he should have been more supportive from the start. It's great that he turned himself around for the better and became a better father to his sons and better husband to his wife but if my future husband ever criticized my breasts I'm kicking him to the curb. đđȘđŻđ€·đ»ââïž
Hey Sarah! Thank you so much for commenting â€ïž This is a very important topic.
Surely what's the main purpose of marriage if you can't have kids?
Instead you've to appreciate your loving wife for going through tough times in pregnancy, delivery and feeding (suckling)
The Best Gift A Father can give kids is love their Mother.
The last line
The best gift a Father can give kids is Love their Mother đđ
Some people don't like kids, and thats totally fine
I agree but should've been the first agreement btn couple before Any Accusations @Medina
I met my man at 16. He was in a band. We had our daughter at 19 and still together almost 23 years later
Congratulations
Appreciate the ones you love †before it's to late đ
Good advice. Family is obviously very important.
His mistake was that he got married and became a father before even his 20s,before enjoying his life!
Never marry when you are too young
@@claudiaarmah2389 I donât know about that but I do know is wait a little longer before bringing kids into the world but when it comes to getting married he can happen
And he can do that with 18 or older you would be legally a grown-up in the eyes of the law so therefore could do that if they wanted to
Of course just because youâre legally something doesnât mean youâre one emotionally
But seriously there are some people who have gotten married this young and it ended in positive results like this 18 year old soldier got married before going off to fight in Okinawa
And came back alive and he lived a happy life
Of course some people would think when they hear me say that sometimes is what century am I living in or am I trapped in the 1940s or the 1950s
I can tell him no but I am rather can declare thereâs nothing wrong with Marrying young It all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough
Well he pretty much had most of his young life beforehand on enjoying life
Like when he was a teenager and was a minor and before then a child
But seriously if he didnât wanna be a father he shouldâve thought things threw before having intercourse without protection
But of course he couldâve use those times in his 20s to enjoy life even more but other times it could be about trying to leave the world of childhood and become a man
But really shouldâve thought things were before getting a woman pregnant by not using a condom
That was his closest mistake however I would not say it would be a mistake that he got married at such a young age because he can if he wants to and thereâs nothing wrong with marrying young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough
Itâs all a big debate of what to do when it comes to your early 20s some say itâs a time to enjoy your life have fun and live life to the fullest and have good times
Others would say itâs a time to leave the world childhood and focus on trying to become a man
And in some countries they do take that seriously and around this time their life would focus on trying to transform him into a man
And pretty much in previous generations itâs been that way by joining the army
Learning to be independent
Go to college learn life skills
Or get a job
But seriously if he didnât want the responsibilities of bringing a kid into the world he shouldâve thought things through before bringing a kid into the world let alone three
He shouldâve used a condom when he had intercourse what kind of made his wife he was birth control
Makes me wonder did he marry this woman out of love or were his parents just old fashion and made him marry her because he got her pregnant
Because of what his original plans for his 20th birthday were to be maybe he was forced to marry her by the fact that he got her pregnant
And maybe his parents were the old-fashioned kind where once you impregnate a woman you marry her
I even saw he couldâve used a condom he couldâve used birth control he couldâve stayed single
Or couldâve never of gotten that woman pregnant in the first place
Then maybe this wouldâve never happened thankfully he learned the importance of family now that he has kids before it was too late and you never know what couldâve happened if his wife chose to leave him she couldâve just divorced divorced him and terminated his parental rights and then she couldâve gone off and gave her kids another father figure and is that what he wouldâve wanted another man raising his kids donât let another man step in and take your place than one of those days when you finally wake up itâs too late the kids are calling somebody else Dad
But seriously if you didnât want these responsibilities you shouldâve thought things through before getting a woman pregnant he couldâve used a condom he couldâve used birth control but he didnât
If he was going through life and he didnât have kids hey man do whatever you want I donât give a darn But ever since he ended up becoming a father thereâs a lot of things that go out the window that he doesnât get because now heâs a dad
1:01 is nobody gonna talk about the fact that he's feeling the baby beer? đłđł
That's terrible for the baby.
He was tired
Great story he realizado that to be WITH The family was The Best choice. Love kids AND His wife was the Bestđ
It's very tempting to want to be in a virtual reality world that is less stressful and better then your own. Unfortunately looking at a screen too much can cause loss of reality and spacing out. Family life can be very demanding and daunting but the only way it's gonna get better is to face it, not run away from the trials of family life.
You're right, dear Loretta â€ïž Absolutely agree with you. Thanks for commenting! đ€
Who is this
Oh you're talking about my ex
Her husband dosent even care of his precious wife shes so beautiful just like her babies
Spend time with your children while you still have them.
Yeah because if you donât someone else might and is that what you wouldâve wanted you want another man raising your kids donât let another man step in and take your place then one of those days when you finally wake up itâs too late the kids are calling somebody else Dad
So spend time with your kids while you can because if you donât someone else might
Best gift a Father can give kids is Love their Mother
â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž We cannot agree more!
It's obvious that getting the game he became a gaming addict and said addiction including being catfished almost made him lose his family and he almost lost it, luckily he learned his lesson and is now appreciates his family and loves it unconditonally.
I love the quote at the end of this video!
Happy to hear that, dear Rhew! â€ïž
AniMatters, I'm glad to hear that!đ
When she ignored him when he returned home I thought it was too late and she would leave him. Its nice that he managed to salvage things.
We are so happy that you liked the ending! â€ïž
Every relationship is like flowers , they need water to grow and glow as well
I'm glad he learned his lesson.
Partnership is like flowers , they need water to grow and glow as well
Life lesson â€đ
Accept your life and do everything you can to be happy.
I love playing games and this story is so relatable... âïžđ
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Looks like he learned that family comes first
Hopefully, he did. Thank you for watching, dear Cassandra
Superb...đđđ
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Iâm glad you finally got to see how hard it is to be a father and as well as got of glimpse of what it means to be a father when you were alone with the kids and you realize that the kids need their father very much and the best you can do is be there for them because the one thing that these kids need in their lives is a father because if youâre not there someone else might and then probably that person would be what your children might be calling Dad because you would have every excuse in the world why youâre not spending time with your kids fathers Iâm talking to you just because you manage to create a child doesnât mean that youâre a father it doesnât mean you understand the concepts of fatherhood there is no excuse way days weeks months or even years went by without you seeing your child itâs wrong and itâs the children that are suffering in the end me I donât have any children but if I did I would do everything in my power to make sure Iâm there for that child or children if I had any PERIOD I donât have any children but if I did I would be there for them PERIOD
So the best you can do as a father is be there for them what I said before if you were going through life at this time and you didnât have kids hey man do whatever you want I donât give a darn but ever since you decided to become a father thereâs a lot of things that go out the window that you donât get because now youâre a dad
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What bugged me when he went to meet the person and it turned out to be something else if you're not ready to be a dad don't having children is lots off work you have to be ready to take on that challenge.đŻđ„°đŻđđŻâïžđŻâïžđŻđđŻđđŻ
Absolutely agree with you, Barbara. Thanks for commenting! â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Glad he learned his lesson
I can be proud of you for realizing your children are what matters now now that you brought them into the world
Because now that you brought those children into the world your life evolves around them now
Because now that is your priority itâs not about partying for doing all those types of things you originally wanted to do before you had children which was your original plan when you turned 20
But instead you got a woman pregnant and now you brought children in the world and now youâre married to her Iâm not sure if you married her out of love and then got her pregnant along the way probably by accident
Or your parents are old-fashioned and made you marry her because you got her pregnant And then being old-fashioned
Made you marry her on the old fashion way that once you impregnate a woman you marry her
But either way maybe that couldâve been the case that this woman was once your girlfriend who you had intentions of breaking up with so you would experience that idea of partying while being single
Or this was just some women that you had a one night stand Who you thought would be a good time to have a one night stand with when he came to having sex just for fun
And problem to look forward to doing that stuff like partying and stuff while you were single
But then next thing you know you got that woman pregnant probably you didnât use protection and thatâs the thing if you didnât want to be a father then you shouldâve used protection
Like you couldâve used a condom and she couldâve used birth control but you didnât so now youâre a father
And thatâs the thing that is the number one priority now being there for them making them happy and spending time with them if you told me you didnât have kids hey man do whatever you want I donât give a darn
Whatever since you ended up being coming to father even though you probably didnât plan it but you still had sex with her without protection thereâs so many things that go out the window that you donât get because now youâre a father
And thatâs a thing these children Will look up to you and say I love my daddy and we want to learn from our daddy just as much as we wanna learn from our mommy
So you can consider yourself grateful that you saw the error of your and learned your lesson in time because if you didnât likely your wife wouldâve left you and would have taken the children with her The likely she would make you sign over your parental rights because she would be under the impression you donât wanna be a father therefore would make you sign over your rights so therefore they would not be your responsibility anymore and then they would be out of your life forever
And then Likely The next boyfriend she does have might be your childrenâs new father figure Do you want another man raising your kids donât let another man step in and take your place and then one of those days when you finally wake up itâs too late the kids are calling somebody else Dad
And is that what you want another man raising your kids in your place
Thank goodness you learn from your mistakes just in time before it was too late
The father/husband should pay attention to the family
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2:54 She was tired taking care 3 Children
Tomorrow is my exam and I'm watching your video đâ€
YouÂŽre just taking a much needed short break. đđ
Good luck, dear HinaSaku!! â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
You know, you should never bite the hand that feeds you. I never had a woman yet, but if I was you, I would be grateful. They keep you fed, clean, working, easier living with their own expense being their struggle, be grateful! I'm jealous of you, but not for long, I guess the lady got a man who deserves the dedication, by reciprocating it! NEVER CALL YOUR WIFE OUT ON JUST LOOKS, OR EVEN STRUGGLES, THEIR ARE LOYAL, COMMITTED, YOU HAVE NO REASON TO BULLY OR ABUSE THEM!!!! HOLD YOUR WIFE LIKE YOUR BABY, WITH TENDER LOVING CARE!!!
Hello Blaziom! Thank you very much for this comment đđđ
He would rather be in the virtual world instead of spending time with his very real wife and children? Taking care of your son's without your help is why she was so tired. She was also tired because she had no help around the house. You try taking care of the kids and cleaning house all day while she plays video games, you'd be singing the same song, but different verse!!
Thank you for sharing your comment, dear Patricia! â€ïž Of course he should have taken care of his family.
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In fact that pregnancy was actually the most difficult thing that every women experience due to how painful the childbirth is and somewhat prone to health complications to both mother and child if not careful.
Thank you for your comment!
I love the ending.
If you didn't want to have children that early, you and your wife should have had that discussion ahead of time. At the least, you should've practiced "no love without the glove".
Thank you for your comment dear Tracy! We cannot agree more: communication is a key to everything.
Thank you for sharing this video
Thank you for watching! â€ïž
He was very ungrateful for those three healthy, beautiful angels! Do you know how many couples would kill for even one darling infant!! His behavior made me sick ever heard of Bloom where you are?
It looks like This Man was Trying to Have Fun Only by Getting Away from his Family âšâ ïžâ ïžâš Without Considering how his childhood was âšđ„đŹđâš & How much Responsibility his Old Family cared for him....
He better Watch out âšđ„âš
This guy will grow restless when he hits his 40s once more (yes Men have them too) Mid--Life crisis.
Triplets were cute đ¶đ¶đ¶
Nice story
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20 is a very young age anyways. Just don't have kids if you don't want it or not ready for it.
Yeah 20 is far too young to be bringing kids in the world getting married at that age I can tolerate there are some people whoâve gotten married this year and ended in positive results to declare thereâs nothing wrong with marrying young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough
But I will wait a little longer before bringing kids in the world is taking care of the babies hard and you need to learn a lot of stuff before youâre ready to have a baby but even so he did he brought the kids into the world all because he had intercourse with that woman without protection
But even so it makes me wonder did he marry that woman out of love or did he do it because his parents were the old-fashioned kind where once you impregnate a woman you marry her
But even so if he didnât want kids or wasnât ready for kids and he shouldnât of had intercourse with that woman without protection he shouldâve used a condom or he couldâve asked her into taking birth control
Even if he didnât marry her out of love and then in her course they had was a one night stand use a condom
But even so if he didnât want to be a dad that he shouldâve thought things through before having sex with that woman without protection
Itâs understandable at 20 years old heâd rather be partying and having fun when it came to celebrating his 20th birthday not taking care of babies and doing the things youâre supposed to do with them like feeding them changing their diapers and all that
But ever since he ended up becoming a father even if he didnât plan it but didnât because he had sex with that woman without protection he now has that responsibility and has a father his job is to be there for them make them happy and spend time with them
On the other hand if he was going through life and he didnât have kids hey man do whatever you want I donât give a darn but ever since you ended up becoming a father even if you didnât plan it But you still got a woman pregnant and you ended up becoming a father thereâs a lot of things that go out the window that you donât get it because now youâre a dad
Family first
real world and the gaming world should be separated otherwise you'll lose yourself and your friends and family
Yay am happy now
I almost feel bad for the guy because he has triplets but he doesn't need to sacrifice his own children and wife for artificial pleasure. He seriously need help taking care of the triplets because two babies you can manage three.. Well that's different
Hey LeDell! Thanks for commenting đ
Good that he learned a lesson
And this kids is soo cutes ever đ
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Video games sure helps alot to avoid stress and anger but don't get so addicted to it as it can help it can ruins life
Gladly, but I must finish what I have started. đâïžâïžđčđ
I am also relieved of my duties but I am not complaining about it.
Men need to know how hard it is giving birth
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Amen đ
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She should have left him he was LITERALLY ready to cheat on her!
Not surprising this is a 20 year old kid weâre talking about here
And probably he wasnât ready for this kind of change just yet but whoâs fault is that nobody by his
He didnât want to be your dad so young
Maybe he never should have gotten her pregnant in the first place
No I have nothing against him getting married at 20 there are some people that Iâve done some and it ended in positive results thereâs nothing wrong with being married young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough and he obviously wasnât mature enough makes me wonder did he marry this woman out of love or did he marry this woman because his parents were the old fashion kind where once you impregnate a woman you marry her originally she was a one night stand but next thing you know she got pregnant and turned out he was the father like they did a DNA test and his parents made him marry her being the old fashion kind where once you impregnate a woman you marry her
But nonetheless if he didnât wanna be a father so young He never shouldâve had unprotected sex with her in the first place he really shouldâve thought of that before having sex without protection
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If he didn't want that life at first then they should've used protection condom/pills exsist for a reason ya know.
He was gonna cheat on her he really doesnât deserve forgiveness
Lots of guys just like him.
Was he giving the baby pop to drink.
So is no one gonna talk about him feeding the baby coke?
That depends is that dangerous not that I would recommend that you have a baby soda you should stick to what it supposed to have but just to be sure is that dangerous ?
Good end
So happy that you like it!
A kid having kids.
They were young when have kids
Love babies = cursed
Look man, I understand that you want to live but you have to take responsibility for your actions on your family
So where the blonde hair of kids came from
People who intensely game I donât get why like the game is always going to be there but the moment is not
Iâm basically mr oog
Is thag a ps 5!??
Breast is the main character
dont talk about their perosnality.. talk about thier figure , talk about their money talj about thier looks
dont look into their soul just outer shells..
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Well if you wanted to spend your 20th birthday partying and all that stuff you really shouldâve thought about that before getting married let alone bringing kids into the world maybe by then you shouldâve stayed single but I guess you fell in love with this woman at one point you And you decided to marry her obviously at that point you fell in love with her and said I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her
And thatâs fine youâre not the first person Iâve heard of thatâs gotten married at such a young age like this guy I know his grandfather got married at 18 before he went off to fight in the war in Okinawa during World War II back in 1945 before the war came to an end thereâs nothing wrong with marrying young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough
And obviously I can say that start you are not that mature enough for such a change
As well as bringing kids into the world with that thank you shouldâve waited until you were a little older before you brought kids into the world but even so if you werenât ready to have kids then you should have talked things over with your wife about waiting in the future before you bring kids into the world or better yet should have used protection when having intercourse like couldâve used a condom and you couldâve had your wife use birth control if thatâs how it happened or on the other hand you only married her because you got her pregnant especially since you talked about how you want it on your 20th birthday to be partying and stuff which obviously You wanted by then to be single than you should have used protection or have her use birth control or better yet not have intercourse with her at all and less she became your wife which he is now if you if you only married her out of the fact you got her pregnant because probably your parents were the old-fashioned kind where when you impregnated a woman you marry her
Which makes me wonder Did you marry this woman out of love or did you marry her because you got her pregnant and your parents were the old fashion kind where Declared once you impregnate a woman you marry her either way if you didnât want this lifestyle you never shouldâve impregnated this woman in the first place Like you shouldnât have intercourse without protection you couldâve used a condom you couldâve had her use birth control
But even so if you didnât do any of that and now you brought children into the world so now they are your responsibility that is your priority now because now that you brought kids into the world your duty as a father being there for them making them happy watching out for them taking care of them showing them right from wrong if you were going through life at this moment and you didnât have children amen do whatever you want I donât give a darn but ever since you ended up becoming a father even though you didnât plan it there are so many things that go out the window that you donât get because now youâre a dad
But even so your wife gave you a game system to help you with all the stress and get distracted but it caused you to get distracted so much to get distracted from reality all that mattered at the time was getting away from reality where there was no crying babies Nor a wife with family problems
When you say your wife didnât understand you at all and wanted you to pay attention to your kids well as a father thatâs what you do youâre supposed to be paying attention to your kids like I said before if you were going through life at this time and you didnât have kids hey man do whatever you want I donât give a darn but there are a lot of things I go out the window that you donât get because now youâre a dad
Like in this case youâre Son taking his first steps and as well as you told her to make sure he doesnât block the screen and you sacrifice some family vacations for a whole segment of the game and then as well your wife tells you that the triplets are waiting for you when it comes to their first birthday and you tell her that why waste money on something theyâre not never going remember Forget about it theyâll have plenty of other birthdays who says they wonât remember it even though they wonât remember it physically with their own minds they still wouldâve taken pictures of it so then when theyâre older they can look back on it and cherish those moments
Then your wife ran out of patience then pull the plug and took away your PlayStation
And she was right children need their fathers attention Letâs spend when evening without video games shall we
And your wife was right your children are way more important than video games because now that you brought kids into the world
And what will you get for it you ask ?
What question is that time to spend with your kids have them experience their first birthday a time to remember when they were very very young A time then you can cherish about your kids when they were very very young I understand youâre 20 youâre young you have a lot to learn youâre still very immature still think likely of yourself and things didnât go as planned but now that you brought children into the world itâs not about you anymore itâs about those children
But as well as your Wife declared one thing you do you have a romantic date like you did before you had the kids
And you liked that and you imagine what it would be like but instead of what you imagined you see your three children on your bed on your wife because she was tired maybe had a lot to do with the children and she had your PlayStation because she want you to take a break too
And you were furious because as you put it she not only took away the only lied to you but took away The only Joy in your life as you put it I need to talk about not letting her ruin the evening and talking about how many people online with game with you so consumed by anger you meet somebody on the Internet that you thought was beautiful turn out to be some fat dude it shows what happens when you try to look for somebody on the Internet it cannot be what it seems
But still you were doing something you shouldnât do while you were married going off with some other woman Exodus 20:14
thou shall not commit adultery
And then as well you saw a family happy together find your wifeâs favorite flowers ordered food and went home to apologize to her but she did not take you back
She ignored you as you ignored her while you were playing video games maybe to give you a taste of your own medicine
She started new life where there was no room for you in it so she goes to the movies
While you babysit the triplets and as well you spent your time with your children and for once you felt like a father now you understand what your wife had to go through with the responsibilities that you werenât being part of and so when you found your PlayStation instead of going back to the Waze you sold it at a garage sale and now your children are a little older and as well as your relationship with your wife improved and instead of a virtual world you now have a family that you can be very proud of and thatâs a good moral no matter how hard things get donât hide in another reality except your life and do everything you can to be happy
Best of luck to you and your wife and your kids
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Why do they have kids at 20 years old though đ they're too young for this
In some countries it's totally normal to become a parents at young age đ€· Thanks for your comments!
Well just like antimatter said in some countries this is totally normal for people to become parents at this age
But even so in American society they would consider that too young and should focus more on going to college learning life skills getting educated having fun doing stuff like that but even so when it comes to getting married at that age this is not unusual some people do you do that thereâs nothing wrong with that thereâs nothing wrong with getting married young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough
Obviously he wasnât mature enough but even so even if they did get married this young would wait a little longer before bringing kids into the world
But even so he did end up having them but still if he didnât want this responsibility he shouldâve thought things through before having intercourse with his wife unprotected
He couldâve used a condom he couldâve asked her to use birth control
Or if he never wanted children He could have had a vasectomy
But even so thereâs no turning back now and if he really wanted his 20th birthday to be about partying and stuff he really shouldâve thought things through before getting married in the first place
Because likely that wouldâve been a better thing for him if he stayed single
And then he can do whatever he wants like I always say when you bring children into the world itâs your responsibility to be there for them If you are going through life and you didnât have kids hey man do whatever you want I donât give a damn but thereâs a lot of things I go out the window that you donât get because now youâre a dad
@@benjaminbingaman1848 he should have been more careful I agree
@@benjaminbingaman1848 I also agree he was wrong because he was irresponsible with his decisions
@@gtstpp4350 I know right 20 is too young like 4 years ago he was a child .
It's what happens when you get married so young. I'm 43 and never been married and I'm glad. Not that I wanna party for the rest of my life. Marriage and divorce is mighty expensive and I'd rather remain happy and in content with my long time boyfriend and our cat. Conclusion, this guy should have lived his youth and matured by experience. Marriage don't make you mature. Especially so young.
Thank you for sharing your comment! So happy to know that you found a lifestyle that works for you.
This is not what happens when you marry so young sometimes there are some people who have married this young and it ended in positive results
Like this 18-year-old soldier got married before going after fighting in the war in Okinawa back in 1945
To say all I know thereâs nothing wrong with marrying young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough
And even though some countries this is common to marry this young and sometimes marriage can make you mature especially when they are this young sometimes getting married can help them and becoming a man
And sometimes in some places at that age they focus completely on that Heâs making him do whatever it takes to become a man
But of course for some other people this time in their life they should focus on living their youth and enjoy it and have fun and mature by either going to college or getting a job or getting life skills
But even can do that and as well as if they are confident they are mature and up for such a change do that if they are confident that they think this woman that theyâre going to spend the rest of their life with that person like I said before thereâs nothing wrong with marrying young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough of course some people may hear me say that and say what century are you from or what century are you living in or am I trapped in the 1940s or in the 1950s And I would say no I am aware that there are some young people marry this young and it ended and positive results to say thereâs nothing wrong with marrying young it all depends on who you marry and if youâre mature enough
And you say youâd rather remain happy in content with your long time boyfriend
Because marriage is mighty expensive is not completely so sometimes you donât always have to have the big ceremonies when getting married
Sometimes you can have the simple things
And you say youâd rather be happy with that contend with your longtime boyfriend well maybe one day along the way when you can afford it and not worry about expenses maybe one day your longtime boyfriend may change his mind and you may change your mind and wanna be a full on married couple
Especially in future when it comes to wanting to be a more serious couple
Like Gene Simmons him and his longtime girlfriend or get married and they can say they were happy without it
But his adult children wanted them to be a more serious couple so in 2010 he proposes to her then in 2011 they finally got married
However if you come to conclusions that neither you or your boyfriend are going to change your minds
Then thatâs fine if marriage is in for you thatâs totally fine
Glad you found a lifestyle that works for you
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I wonder did he marry this woman out of out of love or did he marry her because his parents are the old fashioned kind were once you Impregnate a woman you marry her
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