How to Talk to Shy Women Who Can't Carry on a Conversation
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- čas přidán 26. 06. 2014
- When talking to women who are shy and unable to confidently keep a conversation going with you, the key is to relax and not worry about it.
Women are attracted to a man's confidence, so if you can just relax and allow the pauses and gaps in conversation, she will naturally feel attraction to your confidence.
Additionally, don't feel the need to pressure her into saying a lot or talking non stop.
Instead, love and accept her for who she is; understand that she is shy.
To get her to open up to you and be more talkative, lead the way by talking about what you think and feel about certain things (example provided in the video), followed by a question where you ask what she thinks and feels about it.
The more emotion and opinion she shares with you, the more comfortable she will become talking to you.
If you'd to learn more about how to attract women as you talk to them, I recommend that you read my ebook The Flow, or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio:
www.themodernman.com/blog/the...
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Dan Bacon
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If a girl can’t carry a conversation than I suggest just to move on. Sorry thats just as important as intimacy. She may be shy, but that’s on her to work on that.
It's simple for me. If I can tell she would like to talk I just start talking myself, about what's going on around us and who I am and eventually she'll begin to contribute. There's no rush.
I seriously don't understand how your channel doesn't get enough views. Your tips have been extremely helpful and your tone of voice isn't like the other channels that do what you do. In all honesty, you have the most helpful tips, and by watching your videos, I've learned more than I have than in any other channel I visited. Thank you, Mr. Bacon. Please make eggs in your next video ;)
I agree his videos are remarkable. 20 or 30 of his videos and I went from shy introvert to getting phone numbers and talking to chicks.
@@jkohutiak nice transformation bro
He dont put ads. They have no reason to push his content when no one besides him and his team are profiting off programs not even the video.
I've been into your videos for a week now. Learned a lot of new stuff, however proud to acknowledge that I'm already using this technique intuitively. Hahaha, thanks for your work, come back Dan!
I'd assume you take the lead by asking interesting questions, and seeing what sparks her attention. But yeah, making her open up is the goal.
Heartwarming
thanks, good video
It is really funny how pretty women don’t have conversation skills because they are overloaded with attention. Also they only want to talk about themselves, unless you’ve found a gem lads. Hold on to the gems 💎👩🏻
If girl is not confident enough and lacks social skills... just drop her to make them pay back, lol. Dan, seriously I really appreciate your advise and I find accurate, But, let's talk serious, you mentioned many times that a man does not show himself as a chaser and undervalue himself being needy and clingy, therefore if a lady is not doing even a decent effort to follow up with conversation (not even shit testing you or answering in a coherent manner), I am not sure if effort worths. Maybe for a hook up yes, but if you are a high-value man, it is not a better idea just to try another girl? Not because you are giving up, simply that particular girl is not interesting enough or she is so full of herself that maybe she needs to be alone with her ego. I am not saying that timid girls are like that, maybe most of them are great women, but at some point I experienced some hotties are so boring, hollow, uninteresting and monosyllabic that I simply walk away and do not call her even after getting her number.
Spoke a situation into existence
I don't believe in shy girls after I was talking this girl at work I couldn't read if she was tires and sluggish or not interested she was replying to my questions because she had only been at the job for a month. So I was just trying to get to know her this went on for 2 days and I was like ok this is the 2nd day talking to her and she's giving me the same response like she's tired.....in the break room at work the bitch was vocal and clear with some other guy and his friends. That did it for me. She's not shy man she's just not interested. She's shy for ppl she's not interested in plus I don't was a socially conscious girl anyway
so just because girl is shy she is low value?
Listen son you need a bit more life experience with personality types. Ever done Myers Briggs or Colour Me? Humans aren't all massive loud extrovert party goers who want to get pissed, fuck and chat all night, when you grow up and start to understand about personality types you'll start to understand there are people out here from both sexes that find crowds and loudness and liveliness difficult to handle. I've lost a really decent girl because I had your fucked up mindset. I'm very extrovert and I demanded she act like me and 'have fun' like me. But she wanted to be quiet and do homely stuff like cook and watch TV. What I didn't understand is that partners can be Ying Yang, complimenting each others skills.
You sound like your 16 and all your looking for is a quick lay. I'm talking more about building the life and buying houses and that stuff.
Just finished dating one of those loud boisterous masculine type girls you seem to want to find.. nothing but a ball of jealousy, insecurity and a pain in the ass. As a masculine man shouldn't you be interested in submissive girls, not loud hoes who want to compete?
Nice video, thanks for making my life better 😁
I loose confidence in a conversation or talk (focus) about stupid things when talking which will bore people it's a social skill that without getting more confident hard to get or keep going
..... I just found this video. Pretty good!
I'm a shy woman age 39 and I like shy guys also.Im out going and I enjoy life.
I thought women weren't attracted to guys like me.
Yeah but shy women are.... 👎☹️ Mmh...
Barely talks shows no Emotion what so ever WTF 🤷♂️
Larry Collins Everyone’s different
I am happy for u, enjoy life is the most important thing
us at school
pause...
her: so... u come here often
Real
I'm a guy who can't hold a conversation. I always feel exhausted when it comes to conversations.
Nice advise but what if the girl keep sticking her face to their phone every time finish her 1 or 2 word answer? It quite Common nows day to see this scene!
That is an obvious "I'm not interested" move. Next!
Then walk away lmao
@@AskYourComputerGuy I disagree it means you are not interesting. Just tap her phone and say maybe I should call you instead and have a laugh about it. Making yourself interesting again.
she not shy she just aint feeling you but she want u to do all the work so if she ends up using you it wont be her fault. bcuz u persude her more 😂
But you are supposed to me mysterious?
I'm very shy girl
Me too...let's do something about it
Soooo..... Wut happened?
I've seen some really pretty girls be shy or nervous. This could be the problem.
Hi there my name is Richard as I was growing up erning a Living was the only education I was givin so I am of no use to any woman no matter how clean I Look and how polite I am I have no hope what so ever!
Politeness on its own doesn't make a woman wet. This is what you need to do if you want to pick up women with a nice guy approach: www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-be-charming.html
Answer: You don't.
😂 best answer, ill take it from u
I’m a shy girl and I’m 14
we're the same :'(
@Nathan Mak They are too shy to reply ;)
Instructions unclear she called the cops
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they are boring
Everyone: They are Boring!
Shy people: So you have chosen death
@@sheriasha18 not boring
@@carolinelynch2823 not at all