Miss USA Cheslie Kryst’s Mother Speaks About Her Successes, Struggles, and Suicide
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- čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
- Cheslie Kryst died by suicide on January 30th, 2022. Before she took her life she asked her mother, April Simpkins, to publish the manuscript she had written chronicling her life and journey to becoming Miss USA. In my conversation with April she talks about picking up Cheslie’s narrative where she left off, what her daughter was like as a child, whether or not participating in pageants exacerbated Cheslie’s mental health issues, and what she’s hoping readers take away from the book titled “By the Time You Read This: The Space between Cheslie's Smile and Mental Illness―Her Story in Her Own Words.”
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What a strong, vulnerable, authentic, and very beautiful soul. Her loss, and her family’s, is unimaginable, yet she chooses to bare her grief-stricken heart and teach us all about depressive illness. I admire her and appreciate all her efforts, especially as a 76 year old woman who has struggled with depression and anxiety my whole life! Thank God we are beginning to talk about it and acknowledge the reality, rather than hiding it in shame for fear of judgment or categorizing it as being lazy, not snapping out of it, mentally crazy, and on and on! Thank you so much to all working to get this to us!❤️🦋🙏
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Thank you for BRAVELY sharing your heart
How very generous to share your pain openly to help others. I am so sorry for your loss and wish you peace.
My heart goes out to you. I suffered from a deep depression for nearly 5 yesrs...no one understood and many blew me off..Thanks for articulating this disease well.
This is the most moving story Katie has ever shared. God bless this darling mother. Two beautiful souls🙏🙏😪😪❤️❤️
You are an amazing women and mom. Thank you so much for sharing so openly. It will help many.
This has got to be the most realest, vulnerable, and heart pulling interview that I have ever watched. Mrs. April words hit it right on the head of how living with depressed feels like. As a fan of Cheslie, her book feel like a gift to hear from her one last time and to have closure. It is also a reminder that as we navigate through life we need to take care of love ourselves and these around us. ❤
How could anyone say anything about her body????? She was lovely and beautiful❤
People with hate in their heart will see someone who shines brightly & they’ll immediately fill with rage. They start scanning for things that they can criticize, but often there’s nothing real for them to cling to. So they make things up. Maybe it’s the ways in which that person deviates from societal norms (which are rooted in biases & lies but at least are popular enough to get other hateful people to gang up on). Maybe they create their own lie and convince others to believe it.
It’s easier to drown things like this out when it’s one lone angry person without support, but for proudly Black / melanated women there is usually an inherent collective disdain or disregard for them. Hate for these women is readily available and more than one person of a more socially privileged / protected identity is eager to join in on the passive & active vitriol. It’s a sad reality that most people are unwilling to admit to, and most people will never need to admit it unless it happens to someone they actually care about.
Hopefully the world will learn to treat others with respect & kindness. It’ll be essential to call out those who fail to do so publicly, and make them ashamed of their own toxic (yet unfortunately normalized) behavior.
Powerful interview! ❤️ in tears. 🥺 Cheslie made a huge impact on so many people. I was so shocked and upset when I read the news of her passing, I thought someone was playing a prank. I know all of us think to ourselves, what we would do to have her still here with us 🥺🙏🏻 I hope her story helps someone accept the help they need instead of minimizing until they can’t anymore💔
This video is soooo Beautiful and Important ❤️💔❤️💔❤️
I truly admire your strength. You offer survivors of this tragedy a hope that is unmatched in many of the bereavement circles I have visited. Thank you for your words....it speaks to my soul. God Bless you April.
Iam reading her book now.. she was just so beautiful ❤
Bless you. April. Thanks for publishing Cheslie's writing. She's just precious. ❤
Thank you mom. Don’t judge yourself. We, as suicidal individuals don’t judge anyone else. We will do whatever to do the worst. It’s not about fault or blame. It just is.
She is so eloquent. Love hearing her speak and I really feel for her. I bought their book
8:05-9:00 That’s true - every day is a victory when you have depression and it takes enormous amounts of energy to keep going. Nobody talks about the exhaustion. She alluded to it in her final post. Thank you to her mother for bringing awareness to this horrendous illness and may she be comforted ❤️
I think there is a lot that her mother isn't saying. Her 1st suicide attempt was in her early twenty's. There had to have been signs early on as a teen or even younger. What was happening in this family and her life in childhood??
I'm currently reading Cheslie's/April's book, and it's very impactful. Becoming acquainted with the term "Imposter Syndrome" has been eye-opening for me personally. For most of my 65 years I've been struggling with persistent depression, feeling like I was less than others, and fearful that eventually everybody else would find out just how inferior I was. Every unkind or thoughtless word reinforced my belief that I was a nobody. Perhaps the worst part was believing that I was the only one who felt that way, which, in my distorted way of thinking, was proof that it must be true. How comforting it is to realize that Cheslie was a kindred spirit. Thank you, Katie and April, for sharing more of Cheslie's story. May the good you do come back to you.
You are amazing mother to your wonderfull daughter may her soul rest in peace 🙏 god blessing 🙌 ❤❤❤👸
So sad. Thank you for not blaming Miss USA because at least the pageant some happiness to her life
Very well stated, my prayers are with her Mom and family 💔🙏🏽
Chesley worked herself so hard at acheiving perceived 'perfectionism' -- it must have been so draining//futile trying to be everything to everyone . A dual JD/MBA program preceded a prior mental health breakdown, + the multiple beauty pageants .. I can't imagine the endless effort in trying to get every single strand of hair, every single nail on her hand to look just so. She speaks to all of this on her social media accts, RIP Chesley💜🙏🙏✨️
I understand the struggle...Cheslie was unique and so sweet! Why?? Is a question that repeats itself...😢😢😢❤❤❤❤
Amen you said a mouth full 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I know i am going to be the next Cheslie. No, i am not that beautiful and i am white and from Europe. But i suffer from severe depression and OCD and i feel suicidal most of the time. I am also all alone in this world. My dear Mom died in 2022, i never knew my Father, i am single and i have no kids and even no siblings. Being completely alone in this world is horrible and terrifying. I just want to die and be with my Mom and Grandmom again (if it's even possible! If not, then i will just sleep with no dreams forever). There is no point in this life and no reason to go on.
I do understand how Cheslie felt, i do know her pain and she DID have the right to do what she did! I love you Cheslie and April, please, you have to stay strong!
Stay strong hun😢 Easier said than done 🙏 Please get help if you can 🫂
@@nikibarbiewu4663 You are a worthwhile person. I share some of your struggles. If you haven't already, please reach out for help. I take medication, and it makes a big difference. Even though I don't know you, I care.
Jesus is with you! Don’t end yourself. Lean on God, read the Bible. Play the audio kjv Bible. Trust God and Jesus❤
Let us stand by each other, PLEASE!!!
Depression is a mthr fkr. Up and down struggle. No joke
Very sad. I however, would like to hear more about her childhood-adolescent-teen years. Her mom moves quickly through these stages. A big chunk seems to be missing.
Bless you. May “GOD” bring you peace .
Getting help is expensive.
Which never seems to get discussed by the NAMI folks.
God love her and this mother❤
What a beautiful Mom and you raised a beautiful daughter and that light she had you can pick up her torch and breathe life into others
This was so sad. Beautiful girl. And she took her life smh. I pray she repented before the lord and she is went the lord. Very beautiful young lady and so sad what happened to her mentally.
Repented for what ?? That's really disrespectful, she was a genuine, kind woman who struggled with depression. Don't push your religious beliefs onto others.
You're SAD. Go repent for the comment you made.
She was extremely unhappy, and told no close family? Or was she clinically depressed? Sad situation.
The mother is very open about her daughter’s struggles with depression because she committed suicide. She was a beautiful young woman with the whole world at her feet. 😢
@@CZcamsr5775-i guess she didn't see it that way. She beautiful and so smart. Smh.
Her mom is the epitome of "she gets it from her mama"😊
Depression is one thing but I can't shake away the feeling that something far more sinister happened with Cheslie. This beautiful woman had absolutely everything to live for. Let's simply take a look at her achievements in life. In order to achieve what she achieved your mental health capacity would have to be in outstanding condition by default. The level of focus it takes to do what Cheslie did speaks for itself. Now if she did all of these things and didn't achieve any of her goals then I could see how she could fall into depression but that's not the case here.
The gifts Cheslie was born with is something millions of people would kill to have and i'm quite sure she was aware of that too. That in itself makes it even more peculiar that she would opt to take her own life at the pinnacle of her career. It makes no sense.
The only thing I could think of outside of murder that would cause Cheslie to take her own life is if she discovered something about herself that she couldn't see herself living with like a terminal illness for example. When medical tragedies find their way into our lives for many they simply throw in the towel and give up. I'm not saying this happened to Cheslie but a lot of people in life who achieve great things when they are faced terminal illnesses they panic and go into a mental crisis. Also when people make huge mistakes that leads to permanent diseases they opt to commit suicide simply to avoid public shame. It happens more than you think especially when you can't make sense of a tragedy on the surface. In either case it is a devastating loss and Cheslie will always be sincerely missed forever.🙏
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Where is her father and what role did he play (or not) in her life?
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I know the funny i lost 2 moms cancer. Everything it is hard..❤
I wish she didn’t do this to herself 💔 Maybe it would’ve helped her to know that she wasn’t alone in how she felt.
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Your beautiful are you single. I'm sorry for your loss.
Let her be??? Let her be. I'll only ask what is "functioning depression?"
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Not sincere 😢
They are all hypocrites, they keep talking about "Christy" but no one says that her big conflict was that she was LESBIAN and didn't know how to handle the issue. They talk a lot but hide everything.
Please explain how you know this
Can you provide some more details ?
Sounds like you hoped she was lesbian lol
I cant speak to Chesley's orientation, but she did work herself so hard at acheiving perceived 'perfectionism' -- it must have been so draining//futile trying to be everything to everyone . A dual JD/MBA program preceded a prior mental health breakdown, + the multiple beauty pageants .. I can't imagine the endless effort in trying to get every single strand of hair, every single nail on her hand to look just so. She speaks to all of this on her social media accts, RIP Chesley💜🙏🙏✨️
Another example why they need to do away with beauty pageants .. as well as these creepy stage mothers. Tragic when she jumped out of her high rise apt .. bad parenting.
Never cast a judgement i iuntil you walk in the shoes she did? Your boy is out robbing somebody?
In jail? Figured!
Best mom advice, for sure!!!!
If only her sons were squeaky clean...