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I was 19 yrs old and my husband was 23 when we got married. Before our first anniversary our first son was born and died and 3 yrs later our second son was born and died. Needless to say they were very difficult years but because we went through these difficulties together (lots of communication) our love for each grew even stronger. Our third son is now 34 (happily married for over 10 yrs) and our fourth son is now 29 (happily married for 2 yrs). We just celebrated our 39th wedding anniversary. I believe if younger people are not completely focused on themselves but care and support their fiancé/spouse they too can have a very happy marriage at such a young age.
My heart goes out to you
God bless you
Wow what a testimony. Love 💕
When I started reading this I got really scared. As I went own reading it gave me hope. Marriage is a different subject in our generation. But I realize no matter what generation you're from, marriage is just about unfiltered love as well as a lot of patience and communication. Anyway, I really love this comment , thank you so much for sharing.
God bless you.
I also was married at 19 and had my son at 20...Friday we celebrate 27 years together. ❤
Gosh that's amazing! God bless your marriage 💕
Oh wow!! Congratulations
I feel like christians are eager to marry younger than normal because of sex lol.
As a young person about to "enter adulthood" I would love to see a video expanding upon your financial advice. I love how open and honest you are and I truly am praying for you and your family and your faith daily♥
THANK YOU for saying what you did in the beginning about divorce. It really bothers me how people put that in their thumbnails or videos, even if they're serious. Divorce is truly devastating and it has a serious, lasting effect on families. I'm 22 and my parents have been in the process of a divorce for *FIVE YEARS*. And counting. For real. And even as a grown married woman it has been one of the most painful, hurtful, and traumatizing things that has impacted my life. I wish people would be more sensitive to what it truly means, and how serious of a subject it really is.
I had my first child at 17, got married at 18, had my second child at 19 and just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary. Love your channel, thanks for sharing❤️
As an older (more Mature) woman, I can tell you having kids when you're young will be nice when they are grown. You will be able to do more with each other and grandkids before you're too old to be physically able. Love you guys...you're adorable (like you haven't heard that before).
As a teenager with much older parents, I do think I will end up having kids pretty "young" simply because of the frustration that comes from older parents. I love my parents, and they both went through divorces before marrying eachother, so I know why they were older. My dad is older than most of my peers grandparents. It sucks, because you see all your friends do stuff with their parents when you can't do it with yours. It also kinda sucks when your only grandparents are in their late 80's. My parents also have a 15 year age difference, so that probably has an effect too.
@@abbyshaver6464 On the other side of that coin, I'm 33 and the parent of a 13-year-old (my husband and I got married when I was 17) and all his friends/classmates look at me as an equal, versus a mom. Also, I'm totally not the 'cool mom' a la "Mean Girls." I'm from the South, so when someone is under 18, they need to add Ms. (Whatever your first name is), and these kids (granted we live in the PNW) trying to call me by my first name like I'm their buddy still makes my eyes widen and sometimes slit, haha. I would say that I'm the most strict in my friend group, but all the kids still rather hang out at our house. For me, I'm glad I had my kids young. I also have a 10-year-old and a 5-year-old and I am the mom running around the playground pushing other peoples kids on the swing (a huge pet peeve of mine since their parents always say they're fine with me pushing them while they continue to eat crap on their phone) and push those merry-go-round thingies while buff dads are ALSO messing around on their phones and I totally love it. But again, my kids at times tend to see me as an equal because I do so much with them. Truth is, I've loved kids since I was a tiny girl and I can't wait until my grandchildren come. I mean, I can wait (because I would prefer no unmarried/teenage pregnancies for the mental and physical health of my children) but I am excited for whenever that day arrives. I will be 46 when my youngest graduates from high school and am pleased that they've all said they want kids--hopefully, that is somewhat due to my joie de vivre, lol--not that you have to be a young mom to impart the value of having children onto your children. Hopefully, you get my meaning. You are so blessed to be so loved and wanted at a much later age than is common to have children. I am sure there are other life lessons they have gleaned and perhaps they were even a bit more easygoing than your contemporaries' parents.
Though what I’m saying might be offensive, but that’s the reality of life. A woman’s fertility had an “expiry” date and yet many modern women are so focused in building their careers that by the time they think they are ready to have children, they actually find it difficult to conceive or have children with many birth defects. The peak of a woman’s fertility is when she’s in her 20’s so I think it’s important that women try to settle down and have a family during that time. Being young also means one has more energy to push the baby out. Yet there are women out there who get married so early but refuse to have children early. If one desires to have children, it’s better to maximise the peak period of their fertility to have as many children as they desire.
@@kennethfok That is why now (while they are "building" their careers) they are harvesting their eggs. Truly, I know of 3 girls my age doing this...so they can have kids anytime before menopause, hire a surrogate, etc. Heck, now they can even have them AFTER menopause! It's crazy, but to each their own.
@@yourerightimwrong4567 It’s their own choice, but I personally prefer it to be done naturally. But it’s a real problem to be pushing the baby out an an old age. I think younger women have more energy to do that. Plus there’s a lower risk of complications.
I admire you sincerely as a couple, as parents, as personalities. God bless you. Love from France
When Kieran said ”I have a magic wand, I wave it and it shrinks” about laundry 😂
i love you guys!!!!
I’m 21 now.
I started dating my husband and moved in with him at 17(lol we hadn’t even been dating for a month). I got married to him when I was 18 and he was 23 and we had our first child when I was 19. Marriage is NOTHING like I thought it would be and it is constant hard work, growing, and taking care of each other. Even though it is really hard, I wouldn’t change a thing. I can’t tell you how many times I thought we would divorce, but after every fight he’s still my person. I find home in him.
Just a little advice...it’s so easy to give up, but it’s so rewarding to stay and work out your problems together.
I needed this 😭 thank you
I turn 29 next week and pray for a person to come into my life that cares for me and is just right for me like you two are.
Oh my goshhhh Zach and I watched this together and we loved every second. You made us laugh a lot 😅 Love you guys!
I got engaged at 22, married at 23 and I don’t have any friends my age in a similar position. So this video was really relatable for me 😊 thank you for doing this. I also totally agree with you on being sensitive about divorce. A close friend just got divorced and it’s heartbreaking.
I was married at 22 as well and I was the OLDEST woman in my family to get married. Both my sister's and my mom were younger than me when they got married and they are all still with their spouses. 😊
Oh my me too!! 🤗❤️
CactusRose I feel like we should start an online community for young wives 😂
I got divorced at 18 but honestly my first marriage should have never happened. I told myself after if I ever got married again that was it. If it didn't work out then I would not do it a 3rd time. 15 year olds should not be allowed to get married period ,they are not old enough to understand and respect marriage.(my ex should have known better since he was 20 when we got married)
Macki Pierce it’s good to see the wisdom you have gained from it! 15 is young I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you can find someone wonderful for you
I just "discovered" this channel today and I am in love! I am Nigerian and it is very rare to find a Nigerian who cares about the environment, is a minimalist and is a Christian! All these traits individually are rare here. I am thankful for this channel.
Being Christian is rare in Nigeria? Do you live in Nigeria?
@@thevictoriaabia I think they're meaning the combination of all 3 is rare, not Christianity itself.
I’m 19 and engaged!! Getting married in October!! These videos really make me feel more secure in my decision and validated while many people around me think I’m crazy for choosing to get married so young.
I’m18 and engaged getting married August 2021! I look around at other people my age and I feel so much more mature than them and wise beyond my years. I’ve had people tell me that I need to take time to do what I love instead of worrying about getting married so young, but if they knew anything about me they would know that it’s my dream to be a stay at home wife and eventually mama. Good luck on your wedding and marriage! 😘
Cora Vukosich same to you! That’s amazing! God is going to bless it big time!
I just realised you and me and my partner are the same age. We just bought en renovated a house and we have struggled with being in a different phase in life than friends surrounding us. I admire how positive and hands-on you are! Props for keeping up the youtube channel with the both of you.
I typically never reply in the comments, but man, I have to say that I love your channel so much. Thank you for all the content you've put out and been so open to sharing! Keep up the fantastic work. Your videos always brighten up my day and make me smile :)
You two are adorable and I love how Sarah is just so relaxed and girly and giggly around him!!
I love this! Me and my husband have been married for three years and we lead worship together at church, and I teach kids church. I love your videos because your so encouraging and never change your content to please certain crowds or change your view you are genuine.
Also jump 5!? I loved them, saw them live when I was 12 years old, one of the best concerts.
I was 17 when I started following you and you’ve honestly been such a great role model 😄 I remember you just had your first baby when I started watching your videos and I remember thinking you did not look 20 at all, but older (in a good way)... I think it was due to the fact that you have this wisdom and calm energy, which also makes your videos so enjoyable to watch ❤️
LOVED this Sarah! I was actually also married at 19 too, so I loved hearing your story! Thank you so much for sharing, it put a smile on my face! 🤍
You guys are officially my favorite channel! You are so fun, happy, relatable, and just all around good people. Thank you so much for your videos!
You're both giggling the whole time, it's the sweetest. Thank's for this nice, refreshing video !
This was sooooo cuuuuuute ❤❤❤
Couple things--
•the thumbnail is everything!!!!!
•you and Kieran have amazing chemistry, it's amazing to see how in tune you are to each other
•Kieran is so well spoken! I love listening to him when he tells his opinion on something because you can tell how much he thinks things through.
•I loved your answers to the question about your favorite memories from your wedding! It made me think of my favorite memories from my own!
Love you guys! Amazing video as usual ❤
You guys are an adorable couple and I love how you make each other laugh ❤️
I’ve been so excited for this video!!! Literally put watching it on my to-do list for today!
I was 18 when I got married and had a baby at 19!! 24 now with 3 kiddos. I wouldn’t change getting married young for anything, I love that I’m growing up with my best friend. Almost everything in life we have learned and experienced together.
Thank you for truly being ‘relationship goals.’ It fills my heart seeing so many other young people in the comments seeing your relationship!
I love this!! Positivity in this time is just what I needed ❤️ thank you
I appreciate the variety of questions!! The most helpful relationship Q&As are ones that don’t brush over the difficult topics but also keep it light and happy. Thank you, guys!
Love you guys!!! So hilarious and sweet. My husband and I come from a similar background and were married at 19 and 21. Also within 1 & 1/2 year, we were engaged, married and had our first baby!
I started crying when you talked about your dad on your wedding day...it sounds so beautiful and just wish that I could have him there next to me giving me a blessing and not having him there is going to be so hard...he passed away almost 8 years ago and at moments like that is/ is going to be the hardest
So sorry my friend 💓🙏🏼 i can imagine that must be very hard..I pray the memories of your Dad smiling over you will bring you joy even through the bittersweet times when you miss him
@@hiscanvasofgrace3391 thank you so much ❤
I LOVED this video! You guys just make me smile and laugh so much. And I know you guys get this a lot, but you're SUCH relationship GOALS!!!
One of the best couples I have ever seen in my whole life! Sending lots of love from the Czech Republic to you both and your lovely kids! ❤❤❤❤❤
I have always loved your videos and since Kieran has joined you, they’ve been just as awesome. I see changes but all subtle, creative, and fun. Fabulous work!
It's so interesting to hear a married couple talk about how they felt a distance from their friends after marriage. I'm the single one among my friends and I felt a huge distance from my friends after they got married. I'm realizing that the distancing might happen on both sides, not just one or the other.
I love you two. I’m not married and I don’t have kids but I watch EVERY video. You guys look like you are super good friends. You’re marriage goals for sure! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽
When Kieran said “guess what I did at the beginning of this video” Sarah got soooo excited oh my gosh it was so adorable and I love it. To be that passionate about an interest is so pure.
And when she said "my heart?"... That was so cute.. ❤️❤️ She is generally cute though.. but this... ❤️❤️ And where she says "That's is my fourth favourite one" ❤️❤️
I don't know why no one else is talking about it....
Y'all are too stinkin' cute! I was married young too (my husband is seven years older than me so him not as much 😆) .
I like how Kieran said that kids made him grow up. I believe that marriage and parenting are means of Grace that make us more like Chist and that is such a beautiful thing.
Such a vibrant and amazing couple🔆 I laughed along with you guys throughout the video/ so real, raw, and I’m inspired knowing that real relationships like this exist💕
It's amazing that you have achieved a mortgage at such a young age! Wishing you all the best from east coast US. It is so different in the US with crippling student loan debt. I have been married and working for 5 years, very good job out of college, and we are just starting to think about renting something larger than our 1 bedroom apartment! My husband is also my high school sweetheart, and my marriage has been such a blessing. :)
you guys have such a sweet relationship and I love seeing a glimpse of it on camera! you two seem really in love and it looks like you guys have so much fun doing life together
I LOVED this video, you guys are genuinely so funny and entertaining to watch together. Much love to you Sarah!
PLEASE DO MORE Q&As!!!
Love u guys!
You've inspired me sooo much in so many ways, thank youuu!
Sometimes marriage just flows and is easy, then you have the challenging times. Those challenging times and working through them helps strengthen the bonds and prove how precious good relationships are. X
"I'm done being a mom - but, I'll continue to be a mom to your kids." 😂❤️
You two are TOO sweet!! So stoked to watch this video!!💓
I really like it that your husband listens patiently. he really is a good listener. you guys are great couple.
I had friends distancing themselves from me after We married but it affected my husband more so than me. He’s younger than I am and so much more social and outgoing but married life made him grow up in a way he couldn’t relate to his friends (they were still in the mindset of having fun and partying). It’s a bit better now (4years in) because most of them have married so they’re reaching common ground again.
Lucky Ahmed I love this... it sums up everything I would like other to know a,bout too.
Me: pouring wine
Sarah: go ahead and drink your drink
Me: nice
Loved this🙌🏻 I was 20 when I got married and am expecting baby 3 at age 23. I feel like I relate to you Sarah so much! Love how you said having kids right off made you grow. My hubs and I talk about how we love that we started right away:)
I think Kieran (is that how is spelled?) is sooo nice, he seems a reaaaally nice guy, with a good heart. Idk
@@SarahTherese is he Canadian? His accent sounds a bit different from yours.
I just love when I see your videos in my recommended section ❤️❤️
Sarah I LOVED your channel before (been here since your beauty guru days) and after your relaunch, but you and K together on film is AMAZING. I dont smile near as much at anyone else's videos as I do of you and K together! ❤ yall are hilarious and I wish we could be friends in real life 😂
Man! I watched this video twice! Sarah, you seem so very comfortable and playful when you interact with Kieran. I hope you can make more videos that include Kieran like this. Its so lovely and fun to see you guys interacting.
I love this, i am a newly wed! So excited for this Journey!
Hope you are all safe!❤️
Soooo cute!! , Me and my husband have been together for 11 years and married for 6. We met when we where 15. And I would have to agree with both getting adjusted to intimacy after getting married as well as the friendships aspects. But we are still learning a lot about ourselves and evolving. Its been tough at times since due to our proffesiins we spent about three years apart and that whilst raing our first kid. Now we have two precious boys and are finally together and have a better lifestyle and routine where I can do all the housewife things I always longed doing. You guys always pick me up when I'm feeling down or doubtfull about my relationship. Thank you for always being such good people and for your strong reliance on God. I will have you guys in my prayers always.
This intro is everything 😂😊 thanks for including Kieran. You guys are hilarious 💕
You guys are so fun to watch. I can see you are genuinely enjoying this together. I love that ❤️
I feel like as you answer these questions you learn new things about each other and it's so cute to watch your reactions to that :)
I love this video. You two are so cute. I use to listen to jump5 throughout high school. Amazing music group. Also I am glad to see you and your family are safe. Have a wonderful week.
I hope that my boyfriend and I can be as tight of a team as you guys. Thank you so much for amazing content
I feel like I seriously vibe with you so much! Honestly, you have helped me with my stress thank you!!
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I’m 17 about to be 18 this month, he’s 20. He had his first baby at 17, and she’s 2 1/2 now! As soon as we moved in together, I became a stay-at-home step-mom while doing online school- still am. I love my life with him and her, they’re my family and I’m so grateful that I took the chance of taking on such a big role. My family was definitely against it, but never discouraged me from continuing my relationship with him. I love being a young mommy, I really do. Sarah, you and Kieran are such an inspiration. Thank you so much for all of your amazing content! ❤️
not married but in a committed relationship of 3 years (both 18 years old). I love your relationship with Keiran and watching your wife talks, really helps me put things into perspective. I am not christian but learning how to be a respectful and caring wife\husband through you is very beneficial for us. thank you for sharing your life, you make me so excited for motherhood and wifehood! xx - C
I love y’all so much! 😁 your sense of humor and chemistry as a couple is so good to see! 😂😍
When you talked about your wedding it reminded me of a concept that I thought about a lot. What did people do before we had cameras? They stored memories in their mind and they told people about them and describe them in detail and that's how memories lived on. I think that must be very healthy for our brains and our social life. I like to try to do that myself
TOTALLY relate to relationships changing after kids. I try and remember, one day, they will be in my shoes and will get it. It’s just hard, you don’t want things to change, but they do.
You guys are honestly goals 😍😍 Like I love 💕 The way you look at each other just makes my heart smile xx
Thanks!❤it was kind of informativ, but also so so funny!!i had a goog time watching you!so, thank you very much for lightning up my day in this times.
Thank you all for representing Christian values in your marriage and videos. You have always been encouraging to me!
You two made me laugh so much! Y'all are so adorable and I admire your relationship!
I'm 20 years old and have never been in a serious relationship… I love watching videos with both of you
Same age
literally same lol
Julia Tomczak same!!
Me too!
Such a fun video, you two are a beautiful couple! Marriage is hard work, and you can tell that you two have put in that work!
Please make approximately one million more videos just like this one!! 😁😁 Just the kind of light we need in the world right now! ❤️
wow. I
dont think i have ever heard kieran's serious voice. so cute you two!!
This brightened my day! Thank you for beeing fabulous and funny.
Take care.
❤️
i love keirans accent. it’s so cool. it’s very smooth and calming. idrk why i like it so much lol
Even though I am "old" now lol I was married at 18 and a mom at 20. Unfortunately I was divorced at 21 and so I truly appreciate your talking about that. I am now a grandmother and still young enough to really enjoy my grandkids and appreciate my kids. I so enjoy your videos and your dynamic. You are so wise for being so young. :-)
Awesome! Marrying young is nice ❤️ we got married at 21 and were the first in our friend group to be. I really pray to have kids someday. I pray my mental health can handle it but with God anything is possible. You inspire me ❤️ love the vids
I love watching you two together! Your always so relaxed with each other ♥️
SPICY THUMBNAIL - thanks for keeping everyone entertained during QUARANTIMES
"Spicy"--that about describes it! 😂👌🏼
OMG you guys are so cute :) Love how open and honest you guy are in answering the questions :)
Me and my boyfriend actually got together at the age of 14. Today we're both 33 and have three wonderful kids, 13, 9 and 4 years old. And we spend almost every day together since then. I love how giggly you guys are together, it's so sweet to see and it almost as you are a little shy together. Is makes it super real and amazing to watch. Greetings from Sweden.
Love you guys ! You are so dang cute together ❤❤❤ its Awesome to see a Christian couple full of so much love for each other. Thats so rare these days. God Bless ❤
Love your Q&A videos, I think they’re my favourite besides healthy habits ❤️
I have been following your channel for a while now, and just found out you go to a Bible church! I do, too, and I honestly thought there were no others like us. I am so thankful to hear wisdom straight from the word, and to see you living it out for the world to model!!
God bless you! I sincerely loved this dynamic and respect between you guys!
I loved this SOOOOOO MUCH! Thank you for being honest and cute and so funny! I’m about to get married, and this video makes me happy and excited for it. Love you guys.
We moved in together when I was 19, got engaged at 20 and getting married at 21. All my friends are not even thinking about moving in together, you are such an inspiration!
Y'all are too cute 😭 i love this channel sm
Oh I loved this guys! You are so cute and funny! Would love to see more of this style videos :)
Just found your channel after searching for diastasis recti vids (I'm doing your ab routine every day now, thank you 🙏) You two are so cute. I'm 36 & a newish mummy for the first time living in the UK. The ride is just as crazy when you're older 😝 It's been a lot for me & my husband, especially after 14 years together with it just being us two. But if you are already on solid ground it can make you even stronger if you support each other & communicate but it's not easy. You have a gorgeous little family ❤
Love this so much! I’m 22 with two kids, (had my first at 18) I’ve been with my husband since I was 15 and we got married at 20 ☺️☺️ we also almost divorced last year but we pushed through 🙏🏻👏🏼 I love the idea of being a young mum because when they are grown up we will still be young & fit to travel the world 🌍
I loooooove the Q&A! You are such a sweet couple and you have a beautiful energy! Love to see Kieran more often in your videos.
I agree that it is not good to easily use the word divorce. It is often a process of years and it can be so painful. Nowadays, some people think that every disagreement can be called that they almost divorced. Divorce is heavy and I completely agree with that! However, I am wondering if you are refering to the marriage q&a video of your friend bethany fontaine of three weeks ago that has 'divorce' mentioned in the thumbnail ?
We also got married at 19 and kids at 20. We’re now 18 years later and we had a serious divorce conversation about 6 years ago. We worked through and really improved our communication and expectations of each other. You’re doing a great job and an inspiration for other couples.
You are so sweet and keep on inspiring people! 🔥🔥God bless your family😊
Sarah has such a beautiful smile!
When I see you guys I see two best friends deeply in love 😍 What a beautiful couple!
I just got married in November and we also just announced that we are having our first baby come October! It’s nice to hear someone else with a similar story.☺️💖 love your channel and hope mine is just as inspiring one day.💕
Thank you SO much for mentioning that comment about divorce as click bait! I am divorced and it really has bothered me when people play around with that word to get people to watch. Divorce is serious real and hurts deeply! So thank you for reminding people to be sensitive.