CeCe Winans: Relearning What Love Means in Marriage | FULL EPISODE | Better Together TV
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- This week on Better Together, CeCe Winans, Laurie Crouch, Hosanna Wong, Jamie Ivey, and Dr. Leslie Parrott discuss how you have to relearn what love means in marriage.
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Thank you so much for doing these episodes and honestly sharing your struggles and victories. This is clarifying what God is speaking to me about love and relationships and being a godly women. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
This was so good. Ms Laurie, love your nuggets of wisdom. Ms Cece, what and awesome topic!
Thank you all for sharing
This was so so good!
4 going on 5 years and 12 years together with my husband, these are words of wisdom ladies. Its wise to consider and learn from those who have gone ahead of us 🙏💙 thanks for the upload Better Together!
As a new wife I am struggling tremendously with how to love my husband and to not make it about me. Relationship with God is so real and He spoke directly to me through this video. Thank you❣️
I hope it's going much better for you! 🤎
Girl me too. And it’s so insane I was just praying yesterday and today for God to help me to be a better wife to my husband just to run into this video today.
Amen. One thing we can do is simply ask our spouse how can I love you better, how can I be a better spouse for you? ❤️💯
I have the same struggles as a new wife as well
One of the best things I ever found as a new wife was the book and study guide - the power of a praying wife by stormie omartian. I 1000% recommend it.
I married my husband for the wrong reasons. Alot of mistakes were made before and since the marriage. He has turned his life over to God and wants to stay married. In trying to love him beyond all the hurt he caused, I'm constantly going back to who he was prior to giving his life to Christ. It's definitely a work in progress but I'm trying to love him as Christ loved me. Thanks ladies for sharing ❤️
I understand this wholeheartedly and am walking this out as well. Praying for you and your marriage. ❤️
The Lord's been speaking to me about remembering where He brought me from, and how Jesus loves us regardless of our past. Jesus is the ultimate love and security behind a marriage made and built in Him. He also has been reminding me of how Hosea was told to love someone that wasn't very loveable. We are the wayward backstabbing person that nailed Jesus to the cross. God help us to love others!!! even when they don't deserve it, and know Jesus is the ultimate one carrying us.
When Bob and I got married. Neither one of us knew Jesus. After we were married about three years. I accepted Jesus. Bob wanted to stay married. It was really hard but he finally came to the Lord. It has been wonderful. I would do it all over again. It hasn't been easy.
@@steflondon88
I'd be interested to know how you are getting on now xx have things changed?
I have experienced 2 failed marriages and I have realized that I didn't invest in my marriages as much as I believed I did and didn't allow myself to heal in between. So thankful that Abba is a healer🙌🙌
I know this is exactly what I need to hear in my failing 23 year marriage, and I will keep listening to this kind of teaching. I am just tired of the fact that it is always me who is trying to learn how to make our marriage better, and not my husband. I am so tired of the effort.
I’m getting married soon and I’m so glad to have listened to these great women this will be my first marriage
And by the Grace of God the only marriage in your life .❤
CeCe’s comment about the Pastor and his wife, not only reminded me of Hosea, but the love that God has for us. Most people would be bitter if their spouse, not only left them, but left to sell their bodies but in that moment it was love that compelled them to do whatever it took to win the heart of their spouse back to them. That’s real love. That’s deep, and I want to love my husband like that, the way I am loved by God.😢❤
As a two years divorced christian woman (my spouse left), I have great respect for not only these women but their utterances and I gotta say they helped re-inforce my decision to remain single and live for CHRIST. Marriage is alottttttttt of work and compromise and after being in a 4 year marriage to a worship leader/deacon who felt unhappy so he decided to move on to someone else, all because he deduced I didn't do enough to make him happy in marriage, I'm soooooooooooo good. But the content shared in this segment is inspiring. GOD bless.
I’m a wife waiting to be found. Not married yet but, I’m preparing for what is to come. Listening to this has helped me understand areas of communication that I didn’t think nothing of before thank you ladies.
God bless you...
This is pre- marital counseling for me right here... So grateful to God for y'all ladies....God bless you!
I should probably get Dr. Leslie's book.. 'save your marriage before it begins'
Hollywood movies have taught western culture that if you don't feel 'Im in love" feelings in the marriage, automatically they assumed there is something wrong. But feelings are fickle. You won't feel "I'm in love" feelings everyday in the marriage. Marriage is a commitment, choice, faithfulness, honestly and selfless love and care.
Yes.
I'm learning this right now
Indeed
Ladies, thank you for the transparency. This was great! Marriage is work. Learning each other is a process that truly takes time, mainly because we get so stuck on what we want, but it's not always about us. When you said, “ you have to study a person,” CeCe yes! That was good.
This truly was a blessing to listen too
I will begin to not only love my spouse better but my whole community because these principles weren’t just for marriage
Thank you
I am praying for a Godly marriage. I am divorced and hurt by my ex spouse who moved on quickly and started another family. I have let him go. However, I desire the Godly man the Lord has for me.
I absolutley enjoy listening to your womens bible study. Thank you for your honesty and advice. I am praying God is preparing my future husband. I have been single for years, working on myself trying to learn to trust again and want to be married again. This time around, a Christian man. I pray God will bring him my way and that I will know when I meet him. I'm not desperate and if it is meant for me to be alone, so be it, but I like the idea of having a best friend, partner, companion, confidante, lover, protector in my life. I won't compromise. God knows exactly the desires of my heart. Please pray for me. Thank you 😃🙏
WOW! Sweet Sister in Christ. You spoke my heart♡♡♡ God Bless you with the desires of your heart♡
Amen 💕
Heard the song for the first time June last year when I was admitted after I lost my pregnancy but in the midst of pain I had a reason to Thank God for my two children. Thank you Lord for being there for my family
S/O to Cici sayin MOST men love language is physical touch. Lol, I was about to say “Not really “ when Laurie said all men love language is physical touch lol mine is definitely spending time together
Quality time
She said MOST not ALL 😉
I am in the waiting season, and this is so precious and I will definitely learn from these ladies!
You truly are a younger version of Jan Crouch. Even the smile. Bless you all
I’m getting married soon and I’m so glad that I listened to these great women
Taking notes in this single season 🙏🏿
This was a blessing. My husband and myself is the total opposite he is the talker and I’m not. My husband is a Pastor and he loves GOD whole heartedly and I Thank GOD for him and I’ve been learning how to upgrade my communication. Thank GOD for his grace and mercy!!!
I am happy for you. I love communication and I desire mine communication with me.
I wished I had premarital counseling with the guy before my husband...the relationship would have ended sooner! :) My husband and I had such a great time during the counseling process that our Pastor looked forward to every meeting!
Are there any positives about marriage? i always hear how forced it is. force yourself to love when you dont feel like it day after day. can you guys do a session also encouraging people about the good aspects of marriage? I'm a millenial wondering, if it's worth it. especially when corinthians calls singlness a gift. thanks in advance.
Hey, I’ve been married for almost 3 years. For me I always wanted to share my life with someone so I naturally love it. We overcame big struggles, even before marriage. From overcoming we are even closer. It’s not about feeling forced or obligated to love, it is a choice that nourishes your marriage. It challenges our selfish nature of “ what’s in this for me?” because God says a successful marriage is putting the needs of your partner first for their well-being, and I’ve found that to be true in my short experience.
So I would say the “good” aspects of marriage would depend on you uniquely and what you value. In my opinion I love the companionship, joy, laughter, healing from childhood wounds together and determining to have a healthier family life than we experienced (we both have rough backgrounds), praying for each other and encouraging each other. Those are a few! God bless you and enjoy being single, I definitely did.
From experience don't do it thank me later
I've been married almost 22 years. Yes, there are many many positives! 1) God uses your spouse to perfect His character in you 2) Companionship! A consistent presence who loves you and always has your back (provided you chose wisely) 3) Someone to walk with you through life 4) laughter!!! Someone to laugh with all the time 5) Shared memories! Someone with whom you build a lifetime full of shared experience 6) Someone who knows you inside and out and still chooses every day to love your sinful self 7) Shared burdens. Someone who shares your pain, empathizes with you, and walks with you through it.... There are many many benefits! I would marry my husband over and over and over again. It's worth it!!
@@Jo-lp1px well said..you spoke truth..
@@robynloverde6992 amen, I'm with you girl well said
Omg! I loveeeee Dr. Leslie Parrot!!! When I first found the book “Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts”, I almost didn’t read it because I really only like hearing marriage from Biblicsl perspectives. BUT I’m Mental Health Therapist, and they’re psychologists, so I was like hmmm let’s do it! THEN, I found out they are speaking with Biblical Principles!!! Lol
We have to love Jesus first then you love you’re husband.
God be first, at all times ' marraige to a person' other than the church,. Wow' ' its Much different' Faith makes it better,. Right "" ", you don't want , "your spouse to leave you: ' the bible says God ' will never leave you. nor' forsake you. In John 14: 18
Amen! God first, spouse second, children third!
This was so helpful. My boyfriend wants to get married and I have been so nervous and asking God for guidance. I loved this discussion.
This is really great ladies. My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married two years May coming and I'm happy I'm seeing this because I struggle at forgetting the past hurts my husband caused me. Even though he's now saved and serving God, at times I reflect on the past. I was reminded today that when God forgives us He forgets our mistakes and cleans the slate and that's how I should forgive my husband and love him the way God loves me.
Hosannah that is so good. Set them up for success (by communicating)
This blessed me. I think it’s my second time listening. It’s hard to remember to stay out of my feelings but to hear others acknowledge that they change often so make a choice to love - that thought resonates with me. It’s so easy to get upset but there is greatness in making a decision above all else...I hope that all makes sense.
Thanks you sisters for all your advice, not remarried yet.
So good. My husband and I love each other and desire to please each other although we miss the part of loving each other according to the other person's love language consistently and intentionally.
How I wish we can get the full conversation,this was amazing
Thankyou so much for sharing. I'm just over 1 year of my marriage and all you have shared is helping me now for my marriage. ❤😭
This is beautiful. Does anyone know if there are any similar segments where men/husbands are chatting on the same topic, openly, candidly & honestly & respectfully like these 5 women are? That would be a real blessing. Please share if you know of any. Thank you
I wish I would have heard this before I married 3 times. But God....if he sends me a Godly man I am ready now. Praise the Lord and if he does I am good with God alone 💜🙏🏾
This is soooo good, I have learnt soooo much. God bless you ladies
Amen. Wonderful prayer CeCe. Ladies thank you for an inspiring presentation God bless.
5/3/22: Love this! I'm not married yet, but the information is priceless. "That soul is more important than my flesh"...Thank you Father God~
Girl CeCe got it right on point simple short to the point yes Lord help us
Good conversation. Sometimes I feel like it is so difficult to love my husband sometimes especially when he is being sarcastic and feels he is talk down to me. I have to remember to love him all the time when he is difficult.
Powerful message, sometimes we forget that love is selfless...thanks Cece!
All the good work God has begun in my life must come to pass! I believe and I receive in Jesus' Mighty Name Amen!🙏🙏🙏
Thank u so much for this I hv learnt a lot, I believe that soon I will be married and my marriage will be beautiful because I have learnt to love my husband the way God loves me wow.
Ce~Ce Love♥️ How Sweet It Is🥰❣️
Every sentence in this video is powerful!!
I love this channel.✝️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This was an awesome conversation. I'm single but it made me think about things I hadn't. Thank you ladies, I wish this was longer.
Set each other up for success 🎯💯
yes, knowing a person's love language is important 💜
A lot of people say I was married such and such years but some of those years while you really marry you get my drift maybe I'm saying it because of me I was married lots of years but some of those years it wasn't a marriage lots of them but I'm a widow now
Great episode! Please do more like this!
I can relate to what Jamie said in the beginning ! I was like that my first year of marriage.
Loved every moment of this 🥰
Knew from day one that I need to love my husband as christ loves us and I do love him. However marriage takes hard work and lots of dedication.
Good morning from the sunshine state Miami 🌞, I love your music 🎵.
That’s awesome Doctor
Needed this, my heart is soothed. Marriage can seem so scary - glad I watched this
This is good ❤
I am learning so much listen get wisdom in proverbs 3 verse 5 and verse 6 says trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding hallelujah sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen
This has been a blessing to me and others that I have shared with
VERY GOOD!
Thank you so much
This was good and timely Thank GOD
Amen " This Is So Encouraging For me today " Thank You Jesus That you Lead me and Encourage me to keep viewing Though all around me in the world Talk Marriage Down !"
Our premarital counseling featured saving your marriage before it starts video series.
Thank you ladies for sharing your wisdom with me. 🌹
Great words of wisdom. Thank you ladies for another awesome message.
I really enjoy this. Blessing unto you all🙏🏾
Thank you Cece❤❤❤🎉🎉
Thank you HOLY SPIRIT!😇🙏🏾😇
I love you ladies, never stop sharing the stories that is the gold and you all made me laugh so hard I cried!
Oooh thank you @Hosanna for the insight 🙏🙏 God bless
Thanks for sharing, I have learn some new things, Bless you.
Such a helpful and blessed episode❤
This is so awesome this is good for me thank you ladies
Thank you so much for this insights in relationships. I'm not married yet currently dating but this is beautiful and wonderful.thank you Ladies
I love this❤
Wow! The honesty is really refreshing. Thank you!
I have just come to the realisation that expectations were not the same.
I live your last name Cece Love , that’s beautiful
Am learning a lot from you
Thank you for this discussion it really help alot of people married or not..
Great! Wisdoms advice. I love hearing you ladies. Keep it coming!
Hello ma'am, just wanted to say that you are very very beautiful .
This was very good topic talk on it's so enlighten to those who are married and engaged or getting married very good advice yes marriage counseling is so important especially if you are young When get together need talk about most important things before get serious involved with anyone thanks all you beautiful woman's on your godly wisdom on love in marriage
Love you all sisters 💝🙏🏻🥰
Soul is important then body yes 🙌🙌🔥
Please Pray that God can get through to my husband and restore our marriage and family I love him so much and he is lost and really needs to choose God, for he is living with another woman. I am really struggling with this It's been 10 months since my husband and my daughter's father ("satepfather") walk away from our family and God has been so good he help me get a job and an apartment help my darters gain a lot in of good independence and God is so good he even wake my mum up at 5:00am to pray for my husband and my marriage and God is so good I have been Faithful so Faithful to my husband I love him so much I have not stop thinking about him can't stop thinking of him but want God to do this I know God is good Amen
Amen 🙏🏻 to that
Hi I just got engaged. I never thought I would be in love with different man than my husband when he went to be with Jesus. He wanted me to find someone else. Bob was 20 years older than me. He was sitting right behind me in church. The thing is I am 71 and he is 60. But we both Know it is of God.
Let's love each other as God entered love and should be in a marriage.
Good Morning 😌
Amen!! No body is perfect it takes the Love and grace of God to be in a successful marriage. We are the clay and Jesus is the porter. Only Jesus can bring the broken pieces together. Thank you Ladies for sharing God bless you all ❤️
Excellent job with dove awards night you did wonderful
Love
So many amazing perspectives. The want (desire) is what is most memorable for me.
My better half he loves to talk sometime I ask may I jump in and speak to tell my feelings
Love 💕
Amen 🙏🏻
Amen 🙌🙏🙌
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