Tik Tok mortician DRAGGED for this UNHINGED opinion...
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- This video is about a Tik Tok mortician getting called out by her own fans for misinformation, lies and selling out! Enjoy :)
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I love how she built her career on policing other parents, claiming to be an expert without the relevant expertise, but the second actual experts call her out, her defense is just, "I'm a mom."💀
And since I, probably like others too, believed she had some time of credibility in something after seeing one or two videos where she obviously knew something was dangerous, like one where a baby was in a little floating donut in a large pool and no one holding onto them, but honestlg I thought it was JUST some type of joke, not her giving real advice on things
@@goingferalluvsher credibility went out for me when she decided to police others on pool safety when her own child almost drowned because she didn’t have a pool fence
@@MommaKoala95except her incident happened after she had shamed multiple parents for not having a fence. And then she used her sons near death as sponsored content
I'm gagging. She literally says that the pediatrician is bullying her -_- like, no, she's telling you that you're information is incorrect and biased, because it is.
She’s just a mom, why does she think being a mom makes her an expert on everything? When you give birth, you don’t leave the hospital with a certificate saying “I know everything now bc I’m a mom and I know best” like get real. Idk why she can’t think critically and realize “oh I messed up, what they said is not rude, they’re just informing me” instead she thinks it’s an attack and harassment. Like no, relax. It’s called discourse. God ignorant people make my blood boil.
“I’m a mom” “he has no kids” being her argument already tells me everything about her.
''I need to speak to the manager'' vibes
"I'm a mom" was enough for me
and the podcast is called dumb blonde lol more than fitting XD
i WISH just being a mom was enough to keep kids safe 😭
same energy as ppl thinking they’d be as qualified as I am in building kitchens to code as a designer because they remodeled once. like im glad you have some personal anecdotal experience but this is my job, mary.
I can’t imagine being so delusional that you think being a parent is more credible than a literal professional.
I love when people feel they get degrees once they birthed something. "Yes, you're an expert but I'm a MOM."
Right? As a parent you’re an expert in YOUR kid(s) - NOT all of child safety. Meaning you know your kid best: you know what foods they like, what time is best for them to go to sleep, what sports they enjoy, what games they like, their favorite movie, their doctors name, their best friends name, etc. You do NOT automatically become an expert in car seats, safe sleep, child education etc. Like common sense come on.
@@sarahenglerstone2814most aren’t even an expert in their own kids
It’s crazy because a lot of parents are this way. Look at the outbreaks of diseases that should have been eradicated generations ago.
THIS
The pediatrician didn’t even bully her. Suddenly, people correcting you online is bullying. Some people really lack accountability it is alarming.
At my wits end w/ the whole 'bully movement'. 100% over it.
Parents, administrators, etc., who push the idea have lost the plot. Great deal of essentially placing 'blame' on another as opposed to first attempting to employ critical thinking, reason & diplomacy skills. Screaming 'bully' seems to now be above the importance of building a child's esteem. Or providing the child w/ a solid emotional & psychological foundation to build upon so they at least have a chance to know who they are w/ confidence. Guess that's old fashioned, these days? They're actively building castles made of sand w/ foundations laid w/ delicate egos. 😏
@@GemmiRiseacting as if the attack on critical thinking is new is just absurd, I'm sorry. Mom cliques are not new and if anything, other women have way more sympathy and understanding for one another now.
Back in the day they'd just freeze you out if you dared to "bully" or call them out on their inability to parent their child who is actually the one bullying other kids.
The only difference is that we now have the internet and people have way more mom's to connect with and all of the old wives tales are dying out because...we have the research and data to back up our claims.
People like this chick have and likely will always exist, they're just a lot more visible now and have a platform to use. But unlike how it was back then, we can actually go watch the videos of the guy who "bullied" her to see that it's BS🤷🏽♀️
The fact that she made it about him not being a parent instead of facing the point that he's a professional in the field and she is not. And she does sound super homophobic with bringing up that he's effeminate, which is fully irrelevant. I'm pretty sure she's also conservative, so that tracks
Yeah I thought she was a nicer conservative when I first saw her but my lord she really shows her colors. Calling a man weird for having unused car seats and baby products in his home when it's his job??? We should be glad he even stepped up and took a role in it since it's apparently on a decline like he mentioned
@@goingferalluvsthese days there’s no such thing as a nicer conservative Lol but I get u
@@Gumbyloomy I was really tryna hold out some hope that she was the type to keep her opinions to herself 😭
I think her whole stick doesn't revolve around her being a mortician anymore, she just uses those "big boy words" in order to excuse her facebook-mommy opinions & misinformation that is in fact harmful. "But I'm a scientist!!!!" - Yeah no...
@@Gumbyloomypolitical people in general are headache. 0/10 wouldn’t recommend debate as a career path
It’s so weird for them to claim that non parents aren’t capable of being experts on child safety and that all parents are experts on child safety. Literally just a bonkers thing to think. Isn’t the basis of her content pointing out parents that are supposedly putting their children at risk with certain products??????
Also, as a mother of an almost 3 year old, IVE GOT NO IDEA WHAT IM DOING!! And I happily seek out the opinions of experts in the field of child health and safety.
@@NixieEpplerit takes a village FOR A REASON
I agree! I’ve followed Jamie Grayson for years. It doesn’t matter at all that he isn’t a parent. He goes in depth on his reviews for things and has always had updated knowledge about baby products.
ALSO it’s like saying if you had a pediatrician who didn’t have kids of their own you wouldn’t take their advice. Like?? Okay he’s not a parent but he’s an expert in the field so 🤷🏼♀️
@@jessicastromberg9903literally! My BIL is a pediatrician and became a doctor before he had kids of his own. It would be so silly for his patients to be like, "oh *you* don't have kids but you went thru almost a decade of school so you don't know what you're talking about sorry"
I’m a nurse, I’m not a parent but I still know how to care for my sick minor patients better than their parents do solely based on my training
Exactly just being a parent doesn’t make you an expert in anything
THIS
Literally I’m a parent and I take my kids to the doctors and have the doctor and nurses take care of them because they have medical training and KNOW BETTER THAN ME 😂
I've been a parent 10yrs, my youngest is 8, and I still to this day ring my friend who is a nurse to ask for advice when my daughters sick. Sometimes it's not even advice, it's just me going over her symptoms, what I'm doing and just getting that support and feedback from a professional. I'm completely aware that, because of her training, my friend will be able to see things I don't. Like last year, I told her my child had a stomach ache on and off, but it was getting worse, she got on the phone with me immediately and walked me through this little reflex test to make sure it wasn't an emergency situation, it wasn't, but she heard the symptoms I'd described and knew there was a way to check for something more serious, I didn't previously know this. I followed her advice, monitored my child, thankfully it started to get better over night and the next day we went to the GP. Long story I know, but my point is I didn't train to be a parent, I read as much as I could but I'm certainly not an expert on any particular thing, which is why when someone is certified, especially in such a controlled program like nursing or medical doctorate, damn straight that's who I'm going to listen to and ask questions of and learn from.
Eh idk man theres a bunch of cases of doctors and nurses ignoring their patients or not listening to them.
Like that one case where that mom was being harrassed medical staff over her daughters chronic pain to the point they claimed the mom had Munchausenand took her daughter away. The mom ever up killing herself cuz of medical staff not taking her daughters health seriously.
When the podcast host asks her:
"Is this guy a parent?"
"No."
And the host fucking *gasps* as if not being a parent immediately makes him not credible. This is his literal PROFESSION.
Imagine if such logic was applied to any other circumstance. Like imagine claiming a male doctor is less qualified to deliver a baby because he’s never been pregnant before. Absolute lunacy.
to be fair the mortitian totally gaslighted her and twisted the story so much
dumb blonde is the perfect name for that podcast
In her defense she probably didn't know that part and Lauren made sure to not making it obvious.
@@vvitch-mist20 That reaction was too much anyway
I unfollowed her when she was giving her kids essential oils to “detox” them after their shots. Like, okay girly, I gotta get outta here 😅
yepp! weird vibes for sure
She follows *a lot* of pretty far right accounts on social media. It’s very sus
Yeah, essential oils were never meant for consumption or medicinal use. Says so right on MANY bottles of them. I love them for aromatherapy and some medicinal purposes (never ingested, but peppermint is diffused for when I have sinus issues, tea tree for congestion, etc) but yeah - big big yikes for people drinking essential oils for “healing”
Really?? Ugh
@@marigoldmeadowsyeah, I am considered a hippie by my friends and I am definitely more on the semi-anti-medicine-holistic-healing side of opinions but within reason, Science is still King. I don't think meds should be the very first solution in a lot of cases but essential oils for healing? No. 😂 That's like suggesting positive thinking and "healing" crystals to a cancer patient.
Wow. The way they were talking about him on the podcast was just ugly. He's just doing his job. Doing HIS JOB doesn't make him "a creep".
Exactly! The video of the guy was not even rude to begin with to incite those kinds of response from them.
I honestly wanna tear my ear out when they kept repeating "I'm a Mom." As if being a Mom made them more superior than literal EXPERTS. What an echo chamber
Some people never leave the mean girl mentality
She was also called out for being right wing and following a lot of inflammatory and dangerous accounts. She liked a ton of transphobic posts, so honestly wouldn't be surprised if homophobia is also something she has a bias towards.
The whole implication of him being creepy for being in the child safety field, while being a queer man...is coded.
It’s called misandry and homophobia
cancel culture
she's no different from any other ignorant facebook mom, so exhausting
She definitely using very coded language against gay men, especially with the recent rise of attacking lgbtq people by calling them ped0s or putting attention on how "creepy" they are in regards to kids
She also follows a ton of right wing and inflammatory accounts, and liked posts with extremely transphobic content.
I wouldn't be surprised if she is a self hating queer person. She says she is bisexual (I'm pansexual), and that is usually seen as the most tolerable identity by straight people, since you can just fall back into comp het norms and not offend the masses.
Not only that but on the podcast that other lady said "he's really in touch with his feminine side" in a snarky way, like what was the point of that comment !?🤔
@@fullname3982homophobia plain and simple honestly
Literally was just going to comment this under someone else’s comment. Despicable.
Nailed it.
Ruby Franke is also a mum… her advice for parenting has her in court so the “I’m a mum” argument is never a good one, there’s always bad parents or not smart ones, it’s weird as shit
moms have clearly never been misinformed, ill equipped, or abusive they just immediately become genius experts the minute their kids are born! /s
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I cannot explain how hard I cackled when she said I HAVE A DEGREE IN SCIENCE. Ma'am. That's...embarrassing
sCiEnCe Is My JaM
ScIeNcE RuLeS
and shook the camera when she said science as if that was gonna make it mean something
As if morticians are scientists 💀
@@dansyw the field of study is mortuary science... but as someone interested in becoming a mortician... i wouldnt consider myself a scientist in the traditional sense, nor would i brag about my "science" degree. its a different subject, mainly just making embalming fluid, not conducting experiments LOL
She is so giving “all childless and especially queer childless people are creeps to kids!” She’s insane like, babe your bigot is showing!!
Yeah, and I guess it’s just entirely impossible for cis het people with children to be creeps or predators to children….. oh wait
No, no, no... Don't you remember what she said? She screamed to the world that she's not homophobic or transphobic because she likes people's content that she doesn't actually agree with to show them support.
I can't keep the disgust I have for this woman out of my comments anymore. She's vile. Back when I was big into book blogging and was on Bookstagram, I found out I was following somebody who was a right wing ultra conservative religious nut. I followed them for their NaNoWriMo content and didn't really care much about their other posts unless it was a book I read.
One day, I woke up to a lot of my followers on Instagram sending me links to this person's recent posts with questions on whether I supported what they were saying. One of their posts was of a picture of the Nazi book burnings in 1933 with an incoherent rant condemning the fact that books written by people of colour, members of the LGBTQ+ community, and by religions outside of their Christian denomination were being published with calls that they should be destroyed alongside the authors who have written them.
To say I was disgusted would be an understatement. I quickly unfollowed them and posted an apology to my followers. I did not like any of their disgusting posts. Lauren's excuse that she likes posts because she happens to follow that person is both invalid and moot when you consider the fact that she obviously read through these posts, saw them for what they were, and actively liked them.
If she only worked for a year there’s no way she has all those stories. As an EMT in a high crime, low income city we would never have seen that much child related tragedy. There’s no way. That’s what immediately put me off as it’s entirely unrealistic.
If she came across that many accident based child deaths in less than a year, she must have worked in a town with the highest child death rate in the country if not the entire 'developed' world.
She shares stories that her father has experienced as well, not all are hers and she does disclose that
her family owns a funeral house and i believe shes stated that shes always been helping her family with that. so shes only been practicing for two years but unofficially shes done what she can
Yall remember that girl who was like 19 and a stripper but had all these crazy stories that more experienced strippers say have never even happened to them? It’s kinda like that.
@@hanna5231it’s not tho. Funeral homes are usually a family business. She watched her dad run their funeral home growing up and then probably did a lot of work prior to getting her degree.
It’s not like taking pregnancy advice from a random guy. It’s like taking pregnancy advice from a certified OBGYN.
Weird how she discredits Jamie’s certification while actively pursuing the same certification. Anytime anyone accuses someone of being “super hateful” for giving a mild criticism, that person loses all credibility with me. Critical feedback is how we continue to learn and improve ourselves and our knowledge. If you’re incapable of accepting that I can’t trust anything you have to say.
the way she went on that podcast and just LIED like that was crazy 😭
And the way the ladies on the podcast just took what she said and ran with it and started going in on a guy they didn’t even know like…CRINGE
obviously being blonde doesn’t make you dumb but there’s a bit of cruel irony in the podcast being called dumb blondes while they’re spouting all that bullshit. like hun this is a self-fulfilling prophecy
Dude!!! I know. I lost all respect for her. "I'm a mom, I'm a mom!" I get so tired of hearing that.
I love how an actual paediatrician gave her legitimate information and in a polite way and she calls it bullying? No she's educating you. Also "I have a degree in science" okay what field? That could mean anything. Clearly not medical. She clearly just cannot handle being corrected, thats a lack of maturity.
“degree in science” is wild lmao like there’s so many different kinds of science degrees like is it biology? is it astronomy? is it political science??? there’s not a degree that just says “science” 🤣
I noticed the same😂
Truly. I have a bachelor’s of science in SOCIAL WORK. doesn’t mean I know crap about actual science like this 😂
General Applied Science is a degree, but you'd still say that whole thing prob
I’m a mortician in California. So I know she got a basic mortuary science degree like the rest of us. 😒
"it's like a dude telling you how to carry a pregnancy"... I mean yeah if you have a male OB that is how it works??
Also trans men exist
Fr like men have degrees in this stuff too. it’s THEIR JOB to literally know 😅
Do people not realize that a mortician IS NOT a forensic pathologist (or medical examiner) . Yes, her work is important and obviously need training. But why is her opinion held in such regard, especially regarding kid safety?
Exactly, she's not a doctor. She doesn't do autopsies, nor determines cause of death. She has training in embalming people and putting makeup on them and maybe organizing funerals/viewings with families. She is not certified in any way to "help keep people alive" she literally has two-ish years of experience in making people pretty after they're already dead.
If she was her state's x region pathologist she'd see a lot of children as there's laws that if a child is under 5 when they pass an autopsy is required but she's just a mortician so it doesn't make sense
If she hasn’t practiced in years she probably isn’t even a licensed mortician. We have to continue to pay and practice to keep our license.
Who else is tired of shitty interview podcasts where one person tells a whole ass lie and then the girl with the mic believes everything & doesn’t question anything
Literally majority of podcasts now and it’s absurd. Someone in that conversation needs to be either fact checking before the interview or during.
that seems like the general motifs for so many podcasts, just two echo chambers talking to each other. if you take shots to the number of times they say things like "yeah, totally, so true, right?", you'd be drunk half way through those 1-hour talking sessions.
That's why I don't listen or support that particular podcast. She'll have full blown liars on and not bother to fact check a damn thing. She's also an instigator. People haven't realized that yet either. But because she has a pretty face, people support her.
I *hate* podcasters/journalists that don't ever fact check or push back!
This reminds me of that Ulta beauty interview where Virgie Tovar spewed some bs about science and obesity while the interviewer was snapping his fingers as if anything she said makes sense 😂
Saying “I’m a mom, so I know what car seats are safe” is the same as me saying: I take medication every day. I use it everyday, so that means I can give advice on medication right? I know just as much as a doctor! Great argument lmao
Edit: also, morticians do not go to crime scenes…. That’s not a thing. At most, they will pick up deceased people from their homes if needed, but a crime scene? Never. From someone who was in school for embalming/funeral directing
Small town morticians actually do go to crime scenes for body pickup! There aren’t enough staff members for there to be a separate job for body pickup so the mortician does it themself. At least that’s how it is in small town Texas
edit: I also went to school for funeral directing and post mortem care
@@bellamcfaul8259 Well, I learned something new today! That's actually really interesting; now I need to learn more, lol. I'm in a big city, so I guess it's just a different experience:)
@@bellamcfaul8259oh interesting! i live in a small town and our medical examiners still comes to every scene (unless someone just kinda passes in their home of old age). i never knew other little towns did it differently. thank you for this little tidbit (sincerely from someone hoping to be a medical examiner)
@elly8094 a medical examiner is not the same as a mortician. Medical examiners are forensic pathogists, who are actual doctors. Morticians usually need only 2-4yr degrees and in some places they only need apprenticeship with no formal training.
@@doodlebobsquarepants i know, i have morticians in my family and i’m studying to be a medical examiner. i was saying our medical examiners come to the scene to do body pickup, not the morticians, i found it interesting that their morticians do body pick up for scenes.
The way she minimized his 10+ years of expertise, and said she knew better cause she's a mom....when mothers have cause the death of their children through ignorance every day.
I wonder if she thinks she’s more knowledgeable about children’s health than a pediatrician? Or an obstetrician? She’s had babies, she must know how to deliver them and care for pregnant people as well.
Edit: ok I guess she does hahaha
As you said in your edit, just wanted to confirm she does think she knows more than paediatrician.
Sorry he called her out politely and firmly with no rudeness. She wants him on her podcast. Just message him, or talk to him, why does he need to benefit you on your podcast. Then her podcast was ridiculous. Imagine all the people getting rid of things they need and cant afford to replace because some rando says its not safe, don’t listen to internet want to be influencers for major safety and health advice, thats it.
The pediatrician was amazing too! Love her
Love how she said to talk about it like adults while also calling him a perv and talking about him being a “creep” with no evidence.
LOL at her going “I have a degree in SCIENCE so I know about vaccines” ms. ma’am, I have a masters in synthetic chemistry, and I sure as shit wouldn’t be trying to school pediatricians on… pediatrics. You should know better than to try and step on the toes of other fields…
I mean, Andrew Wakefield had a doctorate, so he has to be credible! ...right?
Lmao! She’s probably one who thinks she “does her research” but never took a stats or research methods course and only reads the abstract. 😅
science is such a massive subject that you can study it your whole life and realise you don’t know anything. how does she think a degree in achieve means she understands more than doctors. also… i’m pretty sure a digression in science as a whole does not exist. correct me if i’m wrong but isn’t it usually split up into the pain three? this woman is so weird
@styrofoam4637 seriously, I mean by her logic a scientist who studies cancer cells is also an expert of physical rehabilitation because they're both scientists and even both medical sciences
The whole car seat series with her started because she didn’t know car seats could float, so I’d say the guy who tests them for a living knows better.
Hell, I work in Child Protection and there is PLENTY of parents who don't know how to look after their children.......
exactly !!! summer walker was literally giving her baby honey
@@Candicedickinsonllc 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
RIGHT?!?! and thank you so much for the work you do, staff who work to protect children and ensure they have a safe, loving environment to grow up in are literal heroes!!
Lmao the fact her fellow podcasters don’t know what “parasocial relationship” means
The ladies on the podcast were embarassing idiots
the fact that she doesn't actually know what it means either 😭
the way she insinuates that the term is being used to call her crazy too like LMFAO you don’t have to be crazy to form an unhealthy attachment to something
she also claimed to be the mortician for a child who died from a teething necklace but that child’s mother said she was not the mortician.
"come talk to me personally" but also blocked him so....how is that supposed to work. I find it a red flag that the moment she gets RESPECTFUL critique she lashes back saying he's spreading misinformation just because "shes a mom and uses carseats". Lady, the man has an entire career revolving around making sure those carseats are safe for YOU to use
honestly watching her response to the paediatrician and listening to her talk on the podcast was infuriating. she just completely ignored both of those experts actual points and responded to things they literally did not say!? the paediatrician specifically did NOT call her anti vax and didn’t come close to saying that she was claiming to be an expert in medicine/nutrition/whatever bc she’s making it up. she is the worst kind of person to argue with where they just ignore the actual points being made.
I’m done with her and have been for a long time. She has no right to talk to other EXPERTS the way she does
completely agree!
@@AngelikaOles and her opinion that only a parents opinion matters is BEYOND wild 🙄🙄
I hate the attitude she has towards him caring about childrens safety. That is so toxic. Men can be parents too (even if a lot do a shitty job). My husband worked at am afterschool program for a while & his biggest hold up before applying was he didnt want people to think he has ulterior movies wanting to work with kids. I gauranteed him no one would, and now it seems like there is are toxic ass people out there & it's not as out of the realm of possibilities.
I mean... Unfortunately, men ARE treated weirdly and poorly whenever they try to work with kids. My mom worked in a daycare center for 10 years, and they outright refused to hire any men at all. Their "reasoning" was that the only reason a man would want to work with children was if he was a predator. It's a really shitty mindset to have, and is incredibly toxic and accusatory.
Last I checked morticians aren't pediatricians, but I guess I missed the memo somewhere. 🙄
This woman gives "thinks she knows everything in any given subject, based on general/broad experiences." What an ego.
As a Chem major in biochem rn as a senior, I'm cracked up when she said "I have a degree in science."
WHAT
You know how little that narrows it down?? Is it even in Stem? Also even people within a similar department don't know the delicacies of certain focuses if it's not their specification. There is a reason I cannot go to my biochem professor about physical chemistry stuff or analytical chemistry questions to my Organic or inorganic chem professors. And that's only in chem!!! Immunology and other "SCIENCE DEGREES" are so vast. Smh
I finally got to that part and i was like, what!?!? I have two science degrees, one in Biology and one in a social science and i would NEVER talk about shit i haven’t studied thoroughly especially when it comes to people’s children. Just wild!
Same I literally cringed. I do Biomedical Science and underneath that there's like 10 other courses. Immunology, Biochemistry even Medical Biochemistry. What is Science????
This is so funny because even my business degree is called a “Bachelor’s in applied science” like a degree in science could mean so many things
She's afraid to say the quiet part that her degree in "science" is a 2 year degree. Literally not anywhere close to a degree to give her any credentials to speak on anything other than funeral home practices.
little knowledge is a dangerous thing. she is an epitome of that
god the chatter from that podcast - yes! you can be a mum and know how to put a car seat in but they are rigorously tested by people! and oftentimes (i remember from when my sister was born) they have certified people make sure that you HAVE installed it correctly when you leave the hospital!! that’s HIS JOB!!! it is HIS JOB to tell you how to install and use the car seat properly!!! just because you’re a mother doesn’t mean you know what’s best, and that’s something we’ve seen reported a lot this year alone.
she’s been irking me for ages and i’m so glad i haven’t seen her on my fyp in months.
She is such a liar and she INTENTIONALLY lied and misled the other person on that podcast. She deserves to be dragged soooo much.
Its so weird that on the podcast she portrays it as:
"He wouldnt let me talk about what carseats I would recommend".
Whilst his point was, she couldnt just claim extensive tested and safety certified (when used correctly) were not safe just because she thinks so..
The whole "I don't need someone to install my car seat I can watch a CZcams video" is exactly how car seats get installed incorrectly. I would rather take a hour out of my day and go to the fire station for a professional to do it than risk my child's life. But I'm not a parent, only an EMT so what do I know, right?🙄
“Another pediatrician bullying moms online” made me SCREAM. so sick of all these child doctors momshaming me 🙄
“The pokey sticks are called vaccines” got me I won’t lie.
11:19 … would they discount a pediatricians advice just because they don’t have kids ????? Like ??????
Right! My pediatrician doesn’t have children. & I trust her on medical advice way more than myself as just a mother with no doctorate any day!
and the pediatrician was so polite and well spoken towards her!
The goth lady with an obsession with death is calling HIM the creep
irony
That podcast clip is the epitome of the "2 girls telling each other “exactlyyyy” meme.
my initial thought was people were confusing a medical examiner with a mortician. kinda tired of the cycle of people taking so many things at face value in regards to social media. love your vids!!
If they did, she definitely encouraged that assumption with talking about it like she was at the scene like an ME would be
That's so sad. Morticians are not even in the same universe as MEs. A mortician has an AAS (Associate Applied Science) and goes to trade school (WHICH IS FINE), but an ME has an MD and went to Medical School.
It’s crazy how all he did was say in a calm voice (very calm) “if you’re not a professional you shouldn’t give advice” and she says he was spreading hate / creating a hate campaign. Where?!?!
He even said when she becomes certified (or whatever) like him it will be amazing!!! Show me the hate 🤔
I followed Jamie for years starting when my youngest was on the womb. I would trust him 100% over some random lady that squeezed out a baby.
I choked when she said “hate train” some Coleen ballinger flash backs right there
Not only was she false in a lot of her safety stuff but she was also outed as a bigot and a terf.
why am i not surprised
As someone graduating with a degree in ScIeNcE soon and as a former child, I can confirm that I am an expert on everything.
as a fellow ScIeNcE degree haver, and former child I can confirm as well; I'm literally God, and am all knowing and all powerful
I have a bachelors of SCIENCE degree (in Accounting) and I’m a mom, so clearly I should start a TikTok account giving advice on care seat safety and vaccines.
Dunning-Kruger effect.
"Unskilled and unaware of it: how difficulties in recognizing one's own incompetence lead to inflated self- assessments."
I find it interesting that she says she’s being bullied “because I have a routine to make my kids comfortable” except in her original tiktok she explicitly stated it was about her own trust issues and needing to have control over things. so no, it’s to make HER comfortable, not her kids.
i clicked on this so fast because her videos come up on my facebook almost every day even though i dont follow her and as a first time pregnant person who is also only 24 and has anxious tendencies her videos had me convinced nothing is safe for kids……. her being called out for this has relieved so much anxiety for me lol
She's a damned liar too. The things ppl will do for clout
What really grinds my gears is she knows the rhetoric around vaccines and autism, because iirc one of her kids does have autism.
She goes on about wanting to make them feel comfortable after receiving vaccines (because admittedly afterwards you can feel pain in the injection site and get a bit of cold like symptoms). She uses a vaccine "detox" bath supplement that is completely unregulated and could hurt her kids (apparently the product is made in the owners kitchen of all places). She could just as easily get a fun scented bubble bath and bath bomb of the kids choice to make them feel comfortable and loved after getting a vaccine. But she chooses to use a detox which is extremely sketchy and to support a business that likely holds beliefs about vaccines and autistic people that is infactual and damaging.
I'm autistic and I was born autistic. Vaccines didn't suddenly activate my autism. And detoxing from vaccines won't suddenly cure me either. This rhetoric makes it so obvious that they rather have a sick or dead child than a healthy autistic child. It is so obvious in the anti vaxx rhetoric that they want our existence eliminated.
For real!! Plus humans, like animals, take queues from people around them. If the mum is making it into a big deal, they're going to feel like it's a big deal. Maybe your kids are so upset because you call them toxic 🙄 and possibly induce sensory overload with smells, water sensations and loud noises from these detox baths.
So we'll said
She should stay in her lane.👏🏼👏🏼🤦🏼♂️
So her being a mom makes her a child safety expert over someone with training…. But a man with no children can’t have knowledge of the safety of PRODUCTS that he’s been trained to analyze? It’s really distressing that she’s so disillusioned from reality.
And don’t forget her undertones of homophobia 🥳
It takes less time to have unprotected intercourse, grow, and birth a whole child that it does for these professionals to gain their knowledge and experience. Being a mother proves that you were fertile at least once, not that you know anything about child safety.
Everytime she spoke, I cringed a bit. She really played the I'm the victim of bullying anytime someone told her, politely mind you, that she was wrong. Like what a great example you are setting for your kids.... 🙄
that's like someone saying "are you really gonna listen to her, a 'mortician'? i bet she printed her certificate from a 60 hour course online. are you really gonna listen to her? she doesn't even have any dead friends. she just talks about death like all the time... weird much? you should listen to me instead, i have been to funerals!"
It's insane. There are parents out there who are NOT safe at all, and there tons of people who prioritize and are experts in safety who don't (or can't) have kids.
Welp I'm only 5mins in and apparently I truly am an expert on the fact that my parents owned and ran a day care for 25 years and I myself ran my own daycare for 4 years.... (As well as 1 of 6 kids, and raised 4 adult children and a 3 yr old. So I guess I'm a specialist as well) 😂😂😂 gtfo. Dude was absolutely correct. Btw any parent can drive up to your local fire station and have them confirm it's safe and buckled in correctly. He absolutely CORRECT 💯
Fire stations don’t do that anymore. Some might but the general standard is they don’t. I’m guessing it’s too much of a liability if they sign off on it and then a fatal accident occurs. But many of the moms on my groups have had a hard time finding someone to check their car seats since fire stations won’t do it
When Gabby Hannah told us all to manage our expectations, I don't think even she knew how correct she was 😂
let me clear some things up, this woman is a mortician, not a medical examiner. They would call the medical examiner if there was a crime committed or the manor of death was unusual or suspicious, police even called the medical examiner when my neighbour passed of cancer. A mortician MIGHT work on the body when they are buried or cremated after the medical examiner sees them(i’m honestly not sure if they’re allowed or not), but they are not doing any autopsies on these people or being called to crime scenes
Omg the way I rolled my eyes soo hard at her response to the pediatrician at the end 😭
She sounds deranged with the car seat stitch and them talking about him on the podcast and her response to the doctor. Just because youre suddenly a parent doesnt make you an all knowing being. Like get a grip
I’m a mortician in a small town and I am so happy people who aren’t in the funeral industry are finally seeing through Lauren. She’s been driving me crazy for a long time. Her videos are nothing but the most blatant fearmongering and misinformation. Morticians do get called to crime scenes frequently- typically paramedics and EMTs only pick someone up if they’re still alive, if they’re pronounced dead at the scene a funeral home will come to take the deceased to the medical examiner. That being said, even if Lauren had been active in the industry for decades, I would STILL have a hard time believing she had seen the number of violent child deaths she was claiming to. Morticians aren’t safety experts. I always got the impression that she was using her profession and scaring people who didn’t know any better than to trust her for clout. That’s not even getting into all the weird queerphobic stuff.
As a teacher I can’t express how angry it makes me when parents undermine what I say when they say “you don’t know, you’re not a mom.” Like… I have a masters degree and know my stuff. I do know, actually. You don’t need to be a parent to be an expert in certain aspects of kids’ lives
I am really into true crime, but you don't see me playing detective, doing the Reid technique on people I suspect.
I can't with how entitled she is. He was literally doing his job. It is sad how many people are on her side and follow her advice. That's an accident just waiting to happen.
Mortician doesn't go to the crime scene. The medical examiner does....with a medical degree
I work in a FH (each state has their own rules, so mine are just for my state). A mortician's job is to prepare the deceased for the funeral and burial and that is IT. (note: funeral directors often overlap with a mortician but you can literally just be an embalmer) Our deceased come to us AFTER the medical examiner has done their autopsy. And as someone who works in a FH, most morticians have a bit of a complex. You can become a mortician through an associate's degree; a 2 year program. Not a bachelor's. Not a medical degree!!! NOT MED SCHOOL (unless you are a medical examiner). She is literally so far out of her fucking lane. Also, if she was only practising for about 2 years.... and depending on her state, she literally MAY have only finished her apprenticeship before leaving. The other thing is like... you do see a lot of people in a year. But not nearly as many as she's claiming (assuming she didn't practise during COVID. During COVID was... really really scary.)
Its crazy because when you become a mom and is new to this world there will be people who actually think something like this will actually work thats what scary about it so her blocking everyone who calls her out is dangerous and ignorant
I’m a mom of 5. Does that mean I’m an expert too? If so, can someone point me in the direction to get paid for this? Is it hourly or salary? Do we receive insurance & 401k? Should I put this on my resume? Who do I contact to get a copy of my “mom degree”? I just need to know the details. Because after almost 13 years of being a mom, I had no idea we’re experts now!🤣🤣
I dated a mortician and I'd bet I know more about it than she does. After all, it was for longer than 2 years. I have more experience. Plus, I too have a degree in science.
She contradicts herself WAYYYYYYY TO MUCH. She knows exactly what she is doing. She’s an opinion channel marketing herself as an expert and that is harmful.
The problem with the bath gate is its assumed that the parent would still be watching the child, like her disclaimer in the video about not leaving the child alone. While the gate itself is not dangerous, and could in fact keep the toddler from falling and bonking, this will give parents a false sense of security with the tub, and they might walk away with the "safety" item in place
So her content is based on telling mums they might be making mistakes regarding their child's safety, but any other person's advice that contradicts hers is utterly ridiculous and invalid because we all know mums don't make mistakes?
Lauren made this into something entirely different. I feel bad for the mutual that was trying to actually educate people. She seems so... Malicious.
Ive had similar frustration with mental health and trauma "coaches" who use the term coach because it essentially means nothing except that they have no formal qualifications.
And then they position themselves as experts in a subject and get things wrong and overstep ethical boundaries because they have no ethics training nor have to operate within the ethics of the field because they dont work in the field! They work in a weird grey area they created
All she was taught how to do is embalm and put makeup on them. I don’t know why she thinks she has any of the knowledge that she says she does. It’s almost dangerous.
Some of her videos that popped up seemed like sound advice but lord this ego. As a gay dude I am fully getting the homophobia vibe from her about that car seat guy
i feel like she was one sentence away from saying “he can’t even have kids! why should his opinion matter!”
Completely the vibe I got
I'm also getting transphobia from the 'men can't carry babies' bit
Delusional people need to remove hater and bully out of their vocabulary
How else are they supposed to be the victim? Take that away and they'll have to be... accountable! Ew! 😂
I refuse to use tiktok so i only ever see her content secondhand, i thought she was cool, but to completey undermine someones profession because shes a "mum"
I have two kids under two and im by no means a professional, nor do i give advice like i am one.
What a shame, i didnt think she was like THIS. What an absolute YIKES 😂
I hate how people with zero experience shout about their opinions. They gather a crowd more then the experts. Also hiding behind being a mum to not take accountability is... Well a bad look to say the least
Sorry that clip of her saying "pokey sticks" instead of vaccines??? i wasn't on her side before but that really pushed me over the edge for taking away her credibility. How can someone who so clearly wants to be respected spread misinfo and use infantilizing terms? she should consider growing up 😭
I worked in a daycare for two weeks when I was 15 so I know everything about kids
As someone who experienced 2 deaths in a home, the undertake does come after a paramedic pronounces them dead. Autopsy’s are optional when there isn’t fowl play.
this level of playing the victim is CRAZY like what ????
As a mom, I don't trust someone who questions other people's credentials because they don't have children themselves. You don't have to have kids to learn about carseat safety, and having kids doesn't make you an expert on all things kid-related. And comparing it to someone telling you how to carry a pregnancy? Fucking wild.
Honestly the fact that shes lying about what the car expert said, because he never attacked her and even said that they were friends, makes it pretty easy to assume that she also embellishes all of her “safety” stories. Pretty disgusting that she uses the fear of a child dying to make a career. Also, hes a professional, doesnt matter if hes a parent or not. Theres hella parents out there who literally don’t care about their children at all or abuse them, so being a parent doesnt mean anything !
your uploads are literally the only thing keeping me going❤❤ also did we all just collectively get sick AND get our periods at the same time? ugh
The moment she said "I'm a mom" to imply that she knew more than a man who's trained and certified in car seat safety, I just knew she was an anti vaxxer
So happy you are back!🌸🫶
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she’s literally not even a full mortician she was a mortician assistant 🤣 big difference. i always had a bad feeling about her and i’m not surprised with her behavior at all
Wow, that conversation on the dumb blonde podcast. Really living up to the name, I guess. Him being a man doesn't invalidate his credentials. It's like if a man was trying to tell a mechanic who happens to be a woman how to fix a car.
the bathtub thing is actually the video that turned me away. i didnt know about the discount, but the product looking unsafe af and her acting as if you would waste no time getting your kid out of the tub in need with or without that thing up. i just dont agree...
lmao the podcast. she is a 'i know better about child stuff cause im a mum' kind of person
Somewhat coming to her defense. Funeral directors in smaller towns do come to crime scenes to pick up bodies sometimes ( my mom did in Tx.) Mostly on weekend call. They only pick up the bodies. I’m sure people talk about the circumstances of death and they hear tho
Yes same in my small town; I used to work at an elderly care home and the funeral director and his son who co-owned the only funeral home in town would come pick the deceased up.
I don't think she is or ever was a funeral director. I've heard she barely finished her apprenticeship before leaving
@@vincentwilliamsullivan9112 people do be lying on the internet lmao
@@berks3451 yeah, but it was based on what she herself stated in her tik toks, also I'd rather believe people who actively work in the business, than a delusional tik tok mum
@@vincentwilliamsullivan9112 no I agree lol. I was saying she could still be lying even if some of the things she said were true or partially true