TERRIBLE, THANKS FOR ASKING|SEASON 4 EP3|| FT Dapper Brother & Tracey Gachie-Kagiri

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
  • Our theme for today, Terrible, Thanks for Asking" reflects the complex and nuanced responses people often give when asked how they are doing, even when they are going through difficult times. We hope to have a frank open and honest conversations about the emotional and human aspects of adversity and resilience.
    Check out our guests;
    Dapper Brother: / thedapperbrother
    Tracey Gachie-Kagiri: / miss_gachie

Komentáře • 127

  • @melissamumbi1055
    @melissamumbi1055 Před 10 měsíci +44

    Tracy really understood the brief! Thank you for being so vulnerable.

  • @justmyworld2542
    @justmyworld2542 Před 10 měsíci +63

    I like it when Ben reads comments. I hope he can get an extra minute to read them more

  • @Designer-EK.
    @Designer-EK. Před 10 měsíci +35

    hallo good people.. i am enjoying every episode of Joyride.. thanks Ben and Wanjiru.. i am here with a suggestion,, how about if there's a new section whenever we have guests over... so here's how it goes; the current guests will have the opportunity to leave a single question for our next guests. It could be about resilience, adversity, or just about life in general. We believe this will create a thread of shared experiences and perspectives, linking each episode together in a meaningful way. thengiu

  • @charlesmachariah
    @charlesmachariah Před 10 měsíci +65

    That level of awareness and acceptance from Mr's Kagiri is powerful.

  • @BenTheSkipper
    @BenTheSkipper Před 10 měsíci +32

    Has Ben considered doing stand-up? I'd pay a lot of money to be in the audience

  • @imungukalevera8671
    @imungukalevera8671 Před 10 měsíci +20

    Overspirituality definitely does exist especially in navigating relationships. And not overspiritual does not mean overChristian, it is not possible to be too much of a Christian. But very possible to use spirituality to coerce, manipulate and control.

    • @keshi_ray
      @keshi_ray Před 10 měsíci +2

      Yes, and think this is what they meant but the person must not have gotten their point

  • @muirurimaria189
    @muirurimaria189 Před 10 měsíci +11

    Bring these two guests more oftenly...They sound so real

  • @isabellagathonin.1131
    @isabellagathonin.1131 Před 10 měsíci +24

    Lovely episode; great guests.
    Lakini Wanjiru: "Be honest its a safe space"
    Then goes ahead to share nothing, probably still struggling with vulnerability but wants real tea from others 😂

    • @irenemwaniki7120
      @irenemwaniki7120 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Haha.....nailed it!!!

    • @dorshee22
      @dorshee22 Před 9 měsíci +3

      😂😂😂 for sure... It will make other guests not be vulnerable too😢

    • @beatricewalter8798
      @beatricewalter8798 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@dorshee22 based on the last episode, she has been through very very rough time. May God come through for her and her family❤❤❤

  • @yvonnekinyua5951
    @yvonnekinyua5951 Před 10 měsíci +30

    2 joyride episodes in one week = a very good week 😍

  • @davidkamau7142
    @davidkamau7142 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I haven't had a terrible year emotionally, healthwise, and family wise. However, lately, I have been in the pits. The episode has made me realize that we are all having a difficult time despite the wins.

  • @kiarie_tochter586
    @kiarie_tochter586 Před 10 měsíci +21

    I felt this Episode more,, it made me think more about myself with the questions asked....this was great guys❤❤ there's alot of selfawareness here...thank you joyriders

  • @edwinndegwamwangi
    @edwinndegwamwangi Před 10 měsíci +9

    Wow.....I have really found this episodes a safe space to evaluate myself and make me understand that I am not going through some things alone..... This is an altar that God is really using to lift hearts.
    I love you guys.

  • @user-qg1fv8vb1v
    @user-qg1fv8vb1v Před 10 měsíci +3

    Ben you asked a good question on whether life is always going to be hard. Chats with older people have revealed that your 20's are hard because you are trying to figure life out. In your 30's and 40's life becomes real very quickly and there are more responsibilities and you feel weighed down. Then you get to your 50's and you have perspective of the past and feel your mortality. That leads you to being more free and relaxed but then your physical body is also changing. So life is hard - but the meaning of that changes throughout different phases of life.

  • @cynthiamuiruri3328
    @cynthiamuiruri3328 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Just thought of Earnest Wamboye and Waturi when you mentioned religion topics!..... Guys, this will be it! Lovely couple who are VERY KNOWLEDGEABLE in all things marriage and God. I think y'all are very capable in bridging the gap in that topic in this internet streets. More grace on whichever steps to get to your goal.

  • @sharonanyango3070
    @sharonanyango3070 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Tracy na Wanjiru...mnakaa firi🎉🎉. When I hear you guys say life inawachapa😢 na vile personally I look at you naona mko sawa. Like how can you say mentally umechoka na you bought cars, making money together etc Thank you for humanising. More of these please

  • @terryannenkatha9942
    @terryannenkatha9942 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Gaiii ive never understood people who eat more than one chapati at a sitting aii hapana chapati 6 zote ningeenda into food coma😂😂😂😂thats so funny man ...looved the episode guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @marydavys2271
    @marydavys2271 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Miss kagiri's voice ❤, nice episode

  • @bridgettemwihaki
    @bridgettemwihaki Před 10 měsíci +3

    I like how gachie is comfortable sharing how she feels wanjiru take her through your journey ❤The outfit memo haikuwa pewa kila mtu 😂😂

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe Před 10 měsíci +6

    Am going to rewatch this episode and truly answer for myself. So introspective a podcast. Thanks for sharing guys

  • @christineigadwa1258
    @christineigadwa1258 Před 10 měsíci +3

    How healing is this episode? Absolutely relateable.The ghetto that is wedding planning,having mine in December.Thank you Joyride podcast ❤

  • @rahabmbiyu254
    @rahabmbiyu254 Před 10 měsíci +3

    It's minute 1:05:31 when Ben and Kagz laugh that killed ME. Men give us women alot of grace aki.

  • @wendyakinyi580
    @wendyakinyi580 Před 10 měsíci +7

    This episode feels like a big warm hug!! Loved it❤❤

  • @njerigakuru7519
    @njerigakuru7519 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Congratulation to the Kagiri's. Loved how vulnerable this was. The questions are great convo starters with friends

  • @nyaucimuoria2787
    @nyaucimuoria2787 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Terrible thanks for asking. We shall overcome.
    I loved the episode... rich and reflective session. Keep it up guys.
    Tracy was my hero today. She gave me loads of confidence.

  • @sharzykish502
    @sharzykish502 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Mmeleta my favourites😭😍❤️these episode weeh😭😭😭so emotional

  • @lornambeyu
    @lornambeyu Před 10 měsíci +4

    Def trying this with my friends🙌🏾 I love the vulnerability expressed on this episode especially with Miss Gachie😍😍 congratulations on your wedding btw it was beautiful 😍

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 Před 10 měsíci +4

    This episode really made me realize we all go thru just the same things, some days are good, some are bad but all that is life
    In regards to our country,we are in the pitssss for real, i miss being a child seriously

  • @JosphatKiiru-jk25
    @JosphatKiiru-jk25 Před 10 měsíci +4

    ❤❤ I really love today's episode the authenticity 😊...pllzz Wanjiru next time ask the 😂😂 color of the day ... everybody was in black 😂😂Wanjiru akaamua kutoskiza Ben

  • @janemuchira2375
    @janemuchira2375 Před 10 měsíci +2

    This episode is sooo interesting I've watched it all smiling so much informative. 'Terrible thanks for asking' for me is getting started I've been planning to open a CZcams channel since 2022 but promising myself to get it started before the year ends

  • @Miss_Shilla
    @Miss_Shilla Před 10 měsíci +5

    After deep cleaning then this episode you guys are IT Frrr , how did you know, this is just what I needed,I'm so happy, this team I'd watch every second, love you guys and love what you do❤️
    This episode was fire please bring Kagiri and Tracey often thanks 😅
    Love this channel so much ❤️
    Happy Mashujaa day 🎉

  • @salomeshiran1660
    @salomeshiran1660 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Why would anyone wish people to divorce 😢
    Wah your marriages will prosper Amen

  • @edwinndegwamwangi
    @edwinndegwamwangi Před 10 měsíci +3

    The question on how are you emotionally has communicated that its ok not be OK emotionally even when you have a partner...

  • @NjorogeCathy
    @NjorogeCathy Před 10 měsíci +3

    At 20 I am listening to you guys and I'm like it doesn't get better does it????

  • @esthernyokabi3225
    @esthernyokabi3225 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I'm doing terrible thanks for asking but Ben's jacket looks like it's bullet proofed 😊... Loved this episode

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe Před 10 měsíci +6

    This was such a lovely episode❤️ I felt so seen.
    The way I've just been terrible the last couple of days? Thanks for asking😭😭😭
    Hii nayo I wished there was a part 2😂

  • @keshi_ray
    @keshi_ray Před 8 měsíci

    The energy on this episode was a 100 thank u for showing up even when u didn't have to.
    U both strong n I appreciate u more for that

  • @phoebemwaniki8298
    @phoebemwaniki8298 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I really want to give Shiru a hug but it will be well Shee,all will be well....Receive my virtual hugs and God's love.❤

  • @oliviajemutai3948
    @oliviajemutai3948 Před 10 měsíci +3

    This episode was really enlightening. Thanks guys!!!!❤

  • @karenagufana6928
    @karenagufana6928 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Tracy talking about anxiety, that is so me right now going through some current transitions.

  • @sharonjepkemei5828
    @sharonjepkemei5828 Před 10 měsíci +2

    They featured in season 2 episode 3 and now season 4 episode 3. This awesome 🎉🎉 The Kagiri's❤

  • @moraaogaro8590
    @moraaogaro8590 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This episode is so validating....it's really tough out here sometimes ❤

  • @___luvuno
    @___luvuno Před 10 měsíci +5

    This has been such an amazing conversation!

  • @glorynjeri421
    @glorynjeri421 Před 10 měsíci +1

    💯 best episode. Comes at a time I had revisted Ben's page to watch his episode with Miss Gachie & the dapper brother.
    Better vibes when you have people you share great moments from back then.

  • @trisha_saurei
    @trisha_saurei Před 10 měsíci +1

    This episode was a therapy session frrrr...I also got a chance of checking up with myself , really enjoyed

  • @marywisequi5571
    @marywisequi5571 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Terrible thanks for asking,can somebody tell the older generation to stop asking people in our early and mid twenties what we wanna do with our lives coz honestly we don't know,we are just trying to survive........bana It's fire out here anyway the questions are interesting,beautiful episode

    • @wambuinderitu2461
      @wambuinderitu2461 Před 9 měsíci

      I know 😂 am 22yrs 4th year am trying to learn a skill and there those days I wake up na feel I don't want to do it anymore 😢 it's terrible 😂but Mungu ananisaidia

  • @marcellaokenyuri3774
    @marcellaokenyuri3774 Před 9 měsíci

    Sleep... terrible thanks for asking but I got to catch up with some episodes I had missed. I pray for peace over everyone as we navigate our terribles. Good night y'all. Loved the conversation

  • @josephatkinywa6464
    @josephatkinywa6464 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I loved this episode,the kagiri's always my favourite couple

  • @vinoliamemo
    @vinoliamemo Před 10 měsíci +1

    Good episode. You should do this sort of stocktaking episode every season. It has prompted me to do stocktaking of my own.

  • @Natasha.Nyambura
    @Natasha.Nyambura Před 10 měsíci +1

    All my favourites on one set and two episodes a week , thank you joyride ❤

  • @natashaapondi1253
    @natashaapondi1253 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Wanjiru is so beautiful❤❤

  • @misssassie8296
    @misssassie8296 Před 9 měsíci +1

    So raw and candid! loved it!!

  • @EvaWaweru
    @EvaWaweru Před 10 měsíci +1

    Aaaah you guys ❤❤❤❤,my favourites altogether,I loved the episode bring kags and Tracey more often.

  • @sharzykish502
    @sharzykish502 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Clapback ya kagiri twitter😂😂atleast I can fix my frame, you can't even fix your face😂😂😂😂😂

  • @396mboya4
    @396mboya4 Před 9 měsíci +1

    We need more of thissss❤👏👏👏👌👌

  • @josephatkinywa6464
    @josephatkinywa6464 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Many many hugs to wanjiru in this season that she is in ❤❤❤

  • @RUBIFX
    @RUBIFX Před 10 měsíci

    Great episode🎉 i was happy to hear Tracey speak as i have always admired and looked up to her since lower kabete days❤️

  • @violameli8530
    @violameli8530 Před 10 měsíci +1

    It’s worldwide, in Australia we get petrol for AUD2.20 initial was 1.20AUD,, it’s heavy but we’re cruising 😢

  • @polymathgeek895
    @polymathgeek895 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I loved the authenticity in this episode. Candid with a good balance of detail. It really brought a lot of humanness to content creation.
    I guess the reason a lot of Christians were in the comments in the last episode, is because this is one of the very few Kenyan Christian podcasts. This is a key audience.

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 Před 10 měsíci

    That emotional part we are not doing good with the government we need to pray weeeh life is hard. Thanks for talking about it

  • @wakonyomwangi7765
    @wakonyomwangi7765 Před 10 měsíci

    Can fully relate to this episode as my ruracio is soon and whatever Tracy and Kagiri have been through is apparently what has been for me this season, trust me i have even postponed and after watching this i'm like Lord this is you speaking, keep on sister,keep on🙂 but kaende kaende as Ben put it.
    love love you guys

  • @winnkarue
    @winnkarue Před 10 měsíci +2

    That part Ben makes fun of Tiktok gifters😂😂😂

  • @me.raki-21
    @me.raki-21 Před 10 měsíci

    To be honest, first, I thought I was all alone on most things happening in my life. Watching this episode gives me hope to move forward. Maybe I should myself those deep questions because the preesha is worser! Second, confidence lazima! Lastly congratulations to the Kagiris.

  • @ngareann
    @ngareann Před 10 měsíci +1

    I have enjoyed this! Now that Kagiri is a soft speaker, could him mic be moved closer?

  • @marthaopisah4183
    @marthaopisah4183 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Amazing episode 😍Chilled but very detailed

  • @Yv1o5
    @Yv1o5 Před 10 měsíci

    Tracey, so true on the wedding planning and families.

  • @charityutwoma45
    @charityutwoma45 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I need to answer this question in my journal

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Candid conversations 🔥👌🏾.Hiyo title so real😳. Happy Mashujaa Day❤.

  • @naomi.macharia2199
    @naomi.macharia2199 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I have enjoyed this episode
    Like this one is so damn unique
    Keep up the good job

  • @mitchellatetwe2282
    @mitchellatetwe2282 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Mkuwe na live experience tu tukapige nduru huko. Because this year 😢😂😂😂

  • @angiejeruto1687
    @angiejeruto1687 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I am with Wanjiru on reading non-fiction right now. It is a thing

  • @annewanjuki7780
    @annewanjuki7780 Před 10 měsíci

    Love this conversation ❤thank for being open .you guys are very relatable .

  • @dianamwagi6326
    @dianamwagi6326 Před 10 měsíci

    I’ve watched this episode is so so so good. Super relatable

  • @kendintara5347
    @kendintara5347 Před 10 měsíci +1

    This episode was really good👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @adelinemalemba1276
    @adelinemalemba1276 Před 10 měsíci

    I'm always enjoying the episodes where you are the four of you, congratulations to the newly Weds.

  • @EngBMashanga
    @EngBMashanga Před 10 měsíci +1

    How are you,. Terrible Thanks For Asking...
    This is a very enlightening session guys,
    Learnt a lot..

  • @lucymbugua8972
    @lucymbugua8972 Před 10 měsíci +1

    This is beautiful I feel like this is a therapy session for me knowing that some things that happen to me are happening to other people too ukiongeza jokes za Ben machozi inarudi
    #joyridealltheway

  • @sandrak2209
    @sandrak2209 Před 10 měsíci +2

    The Kagiris🥳🥳

  • @Carolynexm
    @Carolynexm Před 10 měsíci +2

    Okay...you guys ! Why didn't you say we come for therapy 😭 my goodness ive cried because oh man! It's heavy.

  • @breemukung535
    @breemukung535 Před 10 měsíci +1

    One of the best episodes I’ve watched for sure 🙌

  • @seragrace1469
    @seragrace1469 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Tracy did so good 💯

  • @marionngetich7533
    @marionngetich7533 Před 10 měsíci +2

    The Kagiris😍

  • @DavidOkikiAmayoJr.
    @DavidOkikiAmayoJr. Před 10 měsíci

    Candid conversation; loved this upload.

  • @mercyjumaofficial1943
    @mercyjumaofficial1943 Před 10 měsíci

    Here again...😂..am glad am in this joyride season

  • @joynasaka1627
    @joynasaka1627 Před 10 měsíci

    Guys mimi niliwaelewa last week. Love this episode too

  • @marionngetich7533
    @marionngetich7533 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Hapo kwa campus tours nataka mrudi Kabarak tena😂 thankss😊

  • @priscillahwamuyu8480
    @priscillahwamuyu8480 Před 10 měsíci +3

    ako tik tok aki gift ... this took me out 🤣🤣

  • @paulmurigi8270
    @paulmurigi8270 Před 10 měsíci +1

    yaani episode mzima na hamjajua sound ya kagiri haiko sawa

  • @camillamish2096
    @camillamish2096 Před 10 měsíci

    Honest conversation ever
    Felt therapeutic 😅

  • @keshi_ray
    @keshi_ray Před 10 měsíci +2

    We need nyawira and moji back

  • @gathoni9714
    @gathoni9714 Před 10 měsíci

    i relate with wanjiru about reading fiction, i simply don't have it in me to read fiction books 💯

  • @daisyflora6498
    @daisyflora6498 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Wanjiru, we see you! 😏

  • @withnjoki2300
    @withnjoki2300 Před 10 měsíci

    I enjoyed this one❤❤

  • @maureennyariki4871
    @maureennyariki4871 Před 10 měsíci

    Kiundu and the feast 😂😂😂 thanks Ben for reminding me it's no feast for Kiundu....aki naitafuta niisome😂😂😂

  • @josephatkinywa6464
    @josephatkinywa6464 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Who could drift away from ben? Sam is the problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @salomeshiran1660
    @salomeshiran1660 Před 10 měsíci

    Wanjiru njiru that is not her opinion that is the word of God
    😊

  • @franciscarjohn4889
    @franciscarjohn4889 Před 10 měsíci

    wanjiru i see you ,amazing episode

  • @tiberiusmaiko743
    @tiberiusmaiko743 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Ben and dapper brother looking good bruv

  • @matindepaulanne1781
    @matindepaulanne1781 Před 10 měsíci

    Truth is reading is so hard.. 😅

  • @thefranklinsnetwork
    @thefranklinsnetwork Před 10 měsíci

    Dear Everyone onset except Ben,
    Where are we with the meaning of that word that rhymes with Brazil.... I'm tired of pretending I know.
    Franklin from TFSN 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @puritynthiana9341
    @puritynthiana9341 Před 9 měsíci

    Is the dapper brother and Ben brothers?