Help! I can't STOP trying to get my ex back! (the reason you NEED to stop CHASING your ex)
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- čas přidán 10. 05. 2020
- Help! I can't STOP trying to get my ex back! (the reason you need to stop CHASING your ex)
If you're wondering "should I stop trying to get my ex back?" the answer is (most likely) YES. If you're also wondering how to let go of your ex or when to stop trying to get your ex back, then this video is for you. We may feel convinced that winning our ex back is the key to our happiness or the solution to our pain, but this is far from the truth. In this video, I discuss why you need to leave your ex alone, why you need to stop trying to get your ex back and the reason you need to stop chasing your ex. Letting go of an ex can be extremely difficult, but by bringing awareness to our inner wounds and unhealed relationships from our past, doing so is an opportunity for profound growth. I explain why you need to let your ex go and stop trying to win your ex back in order to facilitate true healing from the inside out. Is it possible to get your ex back? Will my ex come back if I stop chasing? Maybe, but I explain why it's key we practice bringing acceptance to the fact that we WILL be okay regardless of their decision.
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I'm Ash Nord, your truth-bombing fairy godmother for everything love, dating and relationships. With so many idealistic, romanticised Hollywood messages about love out there, my mission is to be an honest, unfiltered source of information for individuals and couples seeking honest relationship advice and love lessons. No games, no manipulation tactics, no teachings about how to trick someone into liking you… so, if that’s what you’re looking for, I’m probably not your girl. My content is geared towards those wanting to learn more about REAL intimacy and togetherness with their partners or future partners. I have a psychological focus (I'm a psychology student) and a genuine passion for understanding how humans relate to and connect with one another. If you're into that type of thing, or would simply like to hear personal stories about my own life experiences and romantic relationships, then stick around! I got you.
DISCLAIMER: Please note everything stated in this video and all videos on my channel are purely my personal opinions and are for entertainment purposes only. I am not a qualified professional and as such my opinions should not be taken as psychological advice.
"Ego's way of keeping you distracted from going within" HELLO! Hitting them with the realness
The transition from “how to get your ex back” videos to this has been painful but revealing. This video is a godsend
It's hard......letting go when you know you've invested so much.......thinking you got played......it's just so hard
“Love that what you have to chase is not for you” 🤯🤯🤯 wow so true!!!
THANK YOU. I told him I needed space because he really hurt me and did not treat me well and then he wouldn't reply to any of my messages or calls. I feel helpless. I have been begging him, messaged his friends, "Can you tell him I will always love him and fight for him." I feel embarrassed, ashamed and pathetic. I've literally been planning on dropping off balloons at the end of the month for his birthday - even though he won't talk to me and didn't even have the decency to dump me himself or atleast give me a reason why or any sort of closure. I feel crazy. After watching this video, I will not drop off balloons. I will not beg anymore. It's time to start working on loving myself. I started a CZcams channel recently and I am just going to focus on that and figure out who I am now - I invested so much energy and love into him I don't even know what I love doing anymore. Thank you so much. I subscribed and wish you a lot of success and love.
Just got my heart broken
Excellent! Thank you!
i absolutely LOVE the way you slap sense into my head like m y g o d you know exactly what to say
I've subscribed!!
iam absoulutley love your videos you are speaking how i feel i wanted to feel better by getting him back even cheated on me and inside i dont want him its wrong i love you ashley your the best and iam the black sheep of my family middle child out of 3 of my mums children my dad i feel regected and alone because i dont get the respect and any help i give them in return i feel used abused minipulated into a bad me
I love the advise ! Thanks Ashley !
I’ve been trying to get my ex back for over a month now.
Thought I was finally over my ex and then a nightmare hit me last night!! Perfect timing :) <3
Love that you have to chase is not for you !! You nail it Ashley -thank you.
Every single word she spoke is sheer wisdom!! Helped me immensely. Why can’t “therapists” make it this simple and straightforward. Thank you so much Ashley!
Acceptance is tough... but "love that you have to chase is not for you". Awesome work here, I'm looking forward to watching more
Girl your videos are gold! Seriously. I wish this video had existed yeeeaaarrrssssss ago. Anyone reading this, chasing is not worth it. Listen to everything she says and then stop chasing! When you chase and it works, like she said the relationship loses balance and you’ll always feel like you love the other person more than they love you. Everyone deserves to feel their love reciprocated. Don’t go this route. Please, choose yourself. I didn’t and now 11 years later I’m having to heal and find myself all over again. I’m grateful I finally stopped chasing and learned so much from this experience but this really could have been all avoided and best believe it will be in the future.
Thank you, Ashley. This is similar to what I've heard and read, but you've put it in terms that resonate more effectively. Focusing on someone who has no interest in me instead of identifying who I've become in the aftermath, and where I'm going as a result, has been a complete waste of time.
Ashley your content is real, I can sense that you talk from a place of truth that comes from your personal experience and the inner work that you have done. I appreciate that you put the attention on our own self instead of "do this or don't do that in order to win him or her or whatever". Keep the good work and I am confident your channel will recieve the growth it deserves.
You are beautiful human and I am so glad you recognized you are MORE than good enough! Now we are lucky enough to experience the gifts you are sharing.