Ignore them. Don't give them the satisfaction of seeing that they have gotten under your skin. You and Rudnick are a wonderful team, enjoying each other, and that's all that really matters, not if your hands are perfect! You get experience through experiencing, so keep at it but mostly - enjoy the process!
People have gotten very comfortable in their meanness, their rudeness and frankly their bullying. I personally would block them if they repeatedly provide negative opinions. You’re doing great!
I am one of the people who watch because they enjoy horses and seeing the care that people like you give horses, and how that relationship grows. I grew up on my grandfather's farm which went from 6 work horses to two (and a small tractor) to no horses. Some of my fondest memories are riding bareback, brushing them down, and leading them to a stall. Professional critics were not necessary, not desired, not missed. Do your thing as long as you enjoy it, and don't let outsiders spoil it.
you are so right. people online really act like everyone is out here trying to be grand prix! some of us just love horses and being around them, it doesn't matter if we'd be good enough to win a ribbon. i hate to use words like this, but i do feel like it is classist to think people don't deserve to ride if they (or honestly, usually their parents) didn't shell out thousands of dollars to teach them the "preferred" form.
People think they are so smart and tough when hiding behind a keyboard, most would never say those things to your face. I enjoy your videos to see the love and patience you have shown this beautiful animal. I'm not even a horse person haha, I just love animals 😊
For every negative “neigh-sayer” there’s probably hundreds or more people who enjoy your channel and don’t give a poop about the nit-picking junk. Your dedication to Rudnik and his responses to you are what keeps the viewers coming back for more. Best wishes to you, and always look forward to the next episode. 🐎
Hear Hear!! Be Kind, rewind! I'm here for positive space and good horse person interaction. You and Your partner are so lucky with Rudnick who really responds positively to both of you. Keep the joy in this channel!! 🎉🙏👍🤞
I've recently found your channel an I Love Rudnik an your relationship 🤗 Yet it is hard to ignore the negative comments when posting ...You an Rudnik are Beautiful together, Keep up the great work together, an just move on together with your *Fans* 🙏🏼♥️💯 Just bcuz someone tries to blow your candle out 🕯 *They NEED to know theirs doesn't Burn any Brighter* .. We love yall, An Keep ya Heads Up 🫡🥰🎉🎉👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 His Snort at the end summed it up for ALL of us 🤭🙋♀️
You are doing beautifully. You and Rudnik are growing and learning together. Don't let the naysayers get you down. I commend your initiative and courage in teaching yourself and Rudnik. It takes a lot to both do that and to put yourself out on the Internet at the same time. Thank you for sharing and *hugs*.
You are doing a great job as well as Rudnik is growing with you, it's a real pleasure to watch you two..........As for the negative trolls, ignore them, they are not worth a thought.......😇🤩
The beauty of your Relationship with Rudnik is that you’ve entered into it with curiosity and a love for learning. The video I saw showed a happy, healthy relationship between two happy, relaxed beings. That’s more than I can say for many so called professionals. You get to grow and develop together, at your own pace, and what a gift that is. Bless you for that!
Do not listen to the trolls you are happy with what you're doing and you know you could do better that's all that matters . Keep going with that positive and realistic attitude and you WILL reach your goals . Love your honesty your doing GREAT .
Just enjoy your time with that magnificent boy! Take the pointer where you can get them and see how they work for you. sometimes criticism can be good, but ignore any haters! They are just jealous of you and that beautiful boy.
The people who can do nothing but criticize are not worth your time. Easier said than done, perhaps, but the posts noted below reflect your followers true thoughts and feelings. You have done incredible things with Rudnik; don't forget that.
Real horsemen & women don't need to tear someone down to build themselves up. I guess it was "unprofessional" that Rudnik's movement was so beautiful & your hands so gentle I forgot to "criticize." Please don't mistake "trolling" for "criticism." And also, don't confuse "horseman" with "professional." Those that trolled you either failed to see the gifts of movement and soft hands that can't be taught. Or, they saw them & were envious, partly because their stable of 500k German imports & their years training yielded neither.
I taught equitation for many years. Now I realize that it’s like everything else: just keep doing it. Yes get a lesson from time to time, for those little corrections. But you’re doing fine. Hands and heels down, knees in tight, back straight. I like your style. And Rudnick is a gem. Go compete in a show sometime, you might really be surprised.
I love your videos, and you and Rudnick so much. Thank you for talking about the criticism, we have too much of that in our world today. Haters gonna hate, meanwhile I am sure there are tons of us out here loving on you and Rudnick. Blessings
I was taught at an early age that there will ALWAYS be those Dingus Muppets who complained and moan just because they are unhappy with themselves. That basically is the DNA makeup of Debbie Downers and Bobby Boo-Hoos! Knowing nothing about basic horse training other than I Love All Animals😂....I appreciate a video like this and it helps me connect the dots to seeing the Big Picture of The Rider and Horse eventually becoming ONE as a team! Thank you for my seat in this cannel! Giddy Up and Go YEE HAW! 😊 Stay Strong and MOO From COW-lumbus, Ohio 👋
I hate anybody would be Unkind: Not the way it should be🏇♥️💯‼️ Listen, you and Rudnik look Great while Riding: Save da Fancy Riding for Competitions😂‼️ Ya'll have a Bootiful Relationship that has built from the Beginning‼️ Look, I see this Video and think "WOW": I have been around horses from 10 years old and rode a Palimino and thought it was wonderful I didn't fall😂heeheehee🏇😁💯‼️ People are Missing The Saddle (Boat😅) about your Videos (Maybe I am?😊): I have watched your Journey with Rudnik unfold and progress into a Loving, Trusting and Spiritual Relationship that shows constant Positive Growth resulting in Great Rewards for you Both...😇😃🐴 I hope nothing spoils all the Goodness❤‼️ I appreciate so very much your Time/Efforts to share the Beauty of Rudik's Heart and Soul: A True Blessing😇♥️‼️ deb in TheBeautyOfRudnik, SC🐎 07/17/2024🐴 #AnInspirationalJourneyWithRudnik# 😇
Not everybody is born into the royal family and not everybody is rich to afford such expensive riding hobby ,we love to see the improvement of your beautiful horse and both your stories ,it has nothing to do with expertise ,it has to do with the love and patience you show to Rudnik and yourself ,it’s about the good nature of your horse and what love can do to transform a rough horsy into what he is now,don’t pay attention to the haters,it’s not worth it ,you should know ,life is not about perfection but it is all about love as we grow with it ,many blessings !
When I was about your age, I got my palomino foal. I've been riding most of my life, but was FAR from perfect! I worried about training my colt on my own. An old cowboy friend told me that if I was going to be the only one riding him, train him MY way and just enjoy the experience! Many "mistakes" were made over our 24 years together, but I could trust him with my life! We went everywhere the "professionally trained" horses went, except in the show arenas! Never doubt yourself and to hell with the haters! You do you GF! 🤠
You are sensitive, and if you weren't, the miracle of Rudy wouldn't have happened. whatever you do with Rudy is actually nobody's business. Ride the way you want to and just enjoy your beautiful, therapeutic animal. I know it's hard when you're sensitive, and I'm sensitive myself. You have to be when you work with animals. I just wish people would really think before they talk, but apparently that's asking too much for the majority. I wish they could see the wonderful gift you have with horses. May God bless you guys and Rudy, he's brought so much good into this sad world, always puts a smile on my face. ❤😊❤
Your doing well, and this will make you and your horse great partners. Ignore the nay-sayers, i know its hard. I get told im a first class screw up but yet if i sell my horse they want to buy him..... make that make sense. They tell me my training is to light but enjoy the product of it?! They just dont like the fact we have a great bond, if im bareback and i slide out of postion my horse will slow down for me to get back in correct seat. We keep pushing forward and let the haters hate! Ive learned one thing through all this, people hate when you are doing something they cant or wont. I do not get nice honest critisiom which i can handle as i refused to be closed minded and think i know everything as there is always something to learn. Each horse is as different as each person! May God bless you all, horse and family and may your beautiful bond keep getting stronger and stronger. Learn each other together and youll be an unbreakable bond that can do anything together from that bond! Your a true cowgirl! Most want the ride and not the bond...
Great choice on that. All old ways MUST disappear, and the love you both share with Rudnik is of the only importance at this time. "Everyone" is in the healing stage this day and age. Just be WITH , in the moment, is all that matters. 💜
I am sorry so many spend their time criticizing and no time supporting. I love watching you and Rudnik. It takes me back to my youth when I was riding. He is beautiful and you are amazing. Thank you for allowing me a few minutes of bliss everyday. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
You are way too polite to these poopy folks that can't be positive to you. I have just recently come across your tube so it's great to see new stuff. I grew up, learning my horse stuff, the same way you have, so I GET YOU! Glad to see you have a cool horse to have great times with.👍
You look like you’ve really progressed. No one gets it right all the time, not even the world champions. Keep at it, just the time in the saddle will get you there. ❤
Do not listen to the negative! What you have managed to accomplish on your own with Rudnik is amazing! The end result is what matters! You gave Rudnik the ability to have a quality life. Without you he probably wouldn't have. Keep up the good work! They need you!
I just came across your channel, immediately subscribed because..Horses,lol. I am sorry people today are just so very rude & overly opinionated. Joy suckers are everywhere it seems,glad you are learning how to let it roll off,not easy to do for sure. For myself, I could care less about form, I am here because horses bring me joy. Watching someone who loves their horse is just really nice. My life didn't bless me with that privilege so thank you for sharing.
Any ride that ends with rider and horse safe is a successful ride! Ignore the mean people! I love watching your videos. Thanks for continuing to be brave and sharing with your followers. ❤ 🐴
I was 3 y.o. when I rode a horse(w/a experenced rider). I was thrilled that mom and dad said yes! I held on to the saddle horn and thought I was steering the horse. 😂 It was a beautiful grey with a long main. Only time I ever did. A sweet memory.😊
I am a new subscriber and am enjoying getting to know you and Rudnick. I know next to nothing about horses but have always loved them! To me, you are a world renowned expert! You have gone far in 4 yrs, it seems to me! I really appreciate learning anything about horses and what you are doing with beautiful Rudnick. I Thank You from BC Canada!!
Bella and Rudnik, you're doing what you feel is best for you both. People are like dark, ugly clouds. Once they disappear, the place is a lot freaking nicer. ❤ Rud is a big boy & still very green you know him best.
I hear you. I've experienced the same. Ignore the one-uppers, and appreciate those who genuinely want to help, be thankful you are able to have a horse, many can't do it where they live or are in life, and you have a horse with personality. Practice will bring improvements, and keep praising your and Rudnik's improvements. You love your horse and he loves you, and you take care of his well being. That is more than some who know all the proper forms, etc,. have. Just ignore those with judgements meant to put you down.
I took English riding lessons some 40+ years ago. I never could “post” - I was always going up when I should have been going down and visa-versa. During the last lesson, I discovered the hard way that I couldn’t fly. 😵💫 You and Rudnik just enjoy each others company and have fun!
😂I love your comment! “I discovered the hard way that I couldn’t fly.” Me too! When I launched all I could think of was , “ Not the knee, Don’t wreck your knee!” I protected my knee but landed on my butt and hurt my back. I immediately thought, “Oh yeah my back……”. (I’m fine now). My horse was spooked by a moose (!) that I hadn’t seen. She didn’t hurt me on purpose. Horses are prey animals and very aware of threats.
Don’t let a failed attempt at a flying dismount discourage you. I can’t count the times I’ve had the same thing happen. (I was usually one of the taller people in the class, so I was mounted on the taller - and lass frequently ridden class horses.). I never let go of the reins. Perhaps the feeling in the horse’s mouth when he came to an abrupt stop made him/her more careful the next time they wanted to unseat a rider! 😅 anyone who has ridden regularly has (almost certainly) been dumped a few times. 😊
Well, as part of the lesson to teach us to become “one with the horse”, we tied up the stirrups and the reins, closed our eyes and did the circle around the ring at a slow canter. At some point, Bandit decided it was time to execute an abrupt left hand turn with no prior notification. Horse and saddle went one way, I went the other, and landed face down like I was trying to make a snow angel. Bandit came over, nudged me gently and distinctly said “oh, I’m soooo sorry - did I do that???” Luckily for Bandit, I didn’t land in a pile of fresh horse poop. I got up, got back on, but never went back to finish my lessons. I absolutely love horses, they are amazing magnificent creatures, but now my only interactions are jaw, ear and butt scratches, treat giving and enjoying the feel of soft horse lips nuzzling the palm of my hand. I have close friends who own an equestrian center and they let me wander the barns at will.
Getting ahead and learning is a life long process. I have been riding since I was 6 years old, and still learn new things today. Same goes for the horse. By the way, I'm 65 years old, and yes, I am still riding. Your personal progress with yourself and your horse is what to focus on. Celebrate your triumphs. No one else matters
I don't know the 1st thing about horse-riding, or horse's for that matter, I just know I really enjoy watching & learning about it. I do know that learning anything is a process & everyone is at their 'own' stage in that journey... Ignore the naysayers, you can never satisfy them anyway, & so many more people are getting great value & enjoyment from the videos you do choose to share. Positivity is always stronger than negativity - you just keep doing your thing. I love your video's, thanks for sharing!..❤
Internet know-it-alls and trolls are a real plague. You can be sure that some of them are not even riders! I hope you'll learn to ignore these people. It's not easy, but it's possible. After all, these people are not friends or family, so why would you care about their opinion. Every horse + rider couple is different. I'm riding since I was a kid and still make basic mistakes sometimes! We all do. I'm sure that if you gave one of these armchair riders a horse in real life and askde them to show you how it is done, YOU would have the last laugh!
Your balance and posture are great, especially compared to where they were a few years ago. I am going through a similar journey with my mare Lily. I had the advantage that a racehorse guy with about 50 years' experience was able to give me some riding lessons. This was a big help to my confidence and riding ability because Lily was a very hot, forward and spooky horse (she is 1/4 thoroughbred and you know how hot they tend to be...) He taught me how to ride this type of horse, racehorse style. I don't post many videos of Lily and I. If I posted videos, I'd probably get a lot of flak as well, but after a year of being ridden like this, she is so much better, less spooky and I am also a lot more confident. He taught me how to keep my seat, no matter what, and because of this, I know that when I go for a ride, I'm going to be okay! Incidentally, she still has a soft mouth, but in his words "You can't f*ck around with these horses, you have to be in control!" If she starts to act up, the reins go short, the pressure goes on hard and it doesn't come off until she decides to behave herself again! One-rein stops are a definite thing and have saved me more than once, as has desensitization, bombproofing and lots and lots of groundwork! Despite all this, I could just hear the screeching horse Karens telling me how cruel I am, putting so much pressure on the reins when she decides to have a "Moment". Yeah. It' not you up there, dearie, on a horse that already almost killed me once (13 breaks or fractures, punctured lung, dislocated hip). We are different now. We are better now. The "Moments" are less common, less severe, and I can get her back into focus more easily. I ride most days and in total, riding and groundwork takes about 2 or 3 hours. I love her and she loves me, but it has been quite a journey. God Bless and Keep the Videos Coming!
Congratulations on the progress you have made with Rudnick. As a novice rider taking a ridiculous amount of lessons the most important thing I have taken away is individual connection with the horse. They teach us. The two of you are learning and are on this journey together. Keep up the good work and best of luck.
Don't let the trolls get to you. You have to learn to ignore them bc negative comments will never disappear. Ever. So either you'll learn to live with it or develop chronic depression. 😆 Somebody said once: water outside don't make the ship sink. Water that get inside does. Take care.
Don't listen to the haters. Just delete them and block. Your content should only be for those that enjoy it. Haters are everywhere and most are people that have no idea or are jealous of your ability to bond with Rudnick. Much love and keep up the content.
Hunny don't need to justify yourself to anyone,you are a kind balanced rider ,and the simplest of tack on your lovelyboy, jealousy is a terrible thing , please keep doing what you are it's your journey xxx
Nay-sayers...like you said, if they do have the experience, why are they being negative. Anyone one who appreciates horses, would be supportive not negative.
Sorry you have to go through that. Try not to let the negativity bother you! I subscribed to your channel because of the incredible story of a girl and her horse. You are humble, kind and honest; attributes our society needs more of. I am sure many of your followers feel the same. Stay strong and keep doing what you are doing!
I got my first (and probably my only) horse when I was over 50 years of age. I have had him for 20 years now and I agree with the person below who had a trainer that told them to "just ride" Especially if you''re taking good advice here and there from people you trust. I grew up with a small cattle ranch in our family, and learned to ride when I was young, so I didn't go looking for much advice when I was older. Basic riding is really a no-brainer. If you want to get really good at it, you can grow from that point, but otherwise - just ride. Before moving out here to the desert, with my horse, I was at several large stables in Los Angeles. I learned that the "experts" were all over the place. Just about anyone with any success with horses was suddenly a "trainer". I watch a whole bunch of CZcams equestrian channels, none of them for "learning experiences". I just enjoy watching people and their relationships with their horses. This is especially true now, out here in the boring, hot desert. I like watching horse owners in places with nice trails and fun rides. One such channel is from Yorkshire, in England. It has been truly fascinating watching this 60-plus year-old woman teaching her Andalusian mare to be a wonderful mount. The other day, they went to beach, not far from her home, and they were having a blast galloping through the surf. 105 degrees out here - the surf looked like heaven to me! Figure out how to ignore the critics or simply block them. I am sure you have plenty of other subscribers who can and will give you gentle, helpful advice. Get to know the ones that actually care and are helpful, and listen to only them. And ride your horse.
People need to get a life if all they can do is criticise an obvious horse lover and her sweet horse sharing their progress. Seems to me today there is alot of love for you and Rudnik! Thats what counts❤❤❤
You have indeed both improved together. I was in my sixties before I had a wonderful friend who just offered to ride with me and teach me the basics of true borsemanship. Life is long!
I’d say screw you to the critics. If you and Rudnik are enjoying each other and having fun that’s number one for me. Then as you can you develop the proper skills. If it weren’t for you he’d be dog food, so that’s why my first statement to critics. The second would be if you want us to be perfect you pay for the lessons and we’d be happy to please you.
Girl, we didn’t have internet when I got my first horse and wanted to learn to jump. I bought books and taught my Western trained grade mare to jump and do basic dressage. There is always someone who has something to b****h about. You’re doing fine. Just keep working on it. You and Rudnick are progressing just fine!
As long as you have progress, and that you feel that you are better than what you were yesterday is all what matters. Keep it up and keep learning. Even professional instructors were new at riding horses in their journey.
YOU ARE DOING VERY WELL! It is obvious that Rudnik delights in pleasing you. You already have a solid base for your future riding skills and techniques. I look forward to seeing what you and Rudnik will be doing in five years' time. 😀
I’m old, to late to start riding again, not that I can’t, just have many other interes. I find your videos interesting, your relationship with your horse, your horses intelligence, I’m in awe. But remember I don’t comment on your videos as I’ve said in many of your videos.
Ignore the idiots, it don't matter how you ride you are not going for competition, if you were going for competition it's more strict with posture, feet and hand placements. I love watching you ride, don't ride, rudnik I love watching these it brings me back to my riding days. Much love x edit; The horse world is ugly and too much judgement and oh I'm better than you crap. If you are falling out of your seat try going down a hole or 2 to lengthen your legs and sit into the seat more, it will feel wierd to start with and feel uncomfortable but go with it and also it will make you tired more as your not used to it hope thjs helps x
I'm so like you with my riding and my horse, probably longer time out of the saddle, im sorry you had negative people, its easy to write from the security of your keyboard! I love your confidence. I was never taught to ride "properly" we just saddled up and got on, to be honest I loved it no criticism we all rode and loved it.
Honestly, in the time before the internet this would never have been an issue...Unless you were actually physically there, you wouldn't see anyone riding! People are now constantly being critics. We all love to see other people's yards, horses, how they ride, etc. I wish people would remember their first time on a horse.. I wish they could look at the bigger picture. Rudnik is loved, cared for, & you have not sent him away to a professional trainer for starting, but done it all yourself! Is Rudnik happy? "Yes!". Are you enjoying him? "Yes!"😊 Are we loving watching you? "Hell, Yeah!"😂 💖
You do not have to justify your self or your level of expertise to anyone but yourself. I had no formal training back in the day for the same reason as yours but my love for horses and asking a lot of questions of those who new I got through it you know yourself what you need to improve on and just do that. Goodluck
P.S. saw this on pbs or somewhere but in Britain they had riders ride a knights saddle. The Englishmen had a hard time, the cowboy(usa) was comfortable and familiar with that saddle. Small world
I can’t understand why some people constantly try to find fault with how you treat Rudnik it is so obvious how much you love him, and,especially, how much he loves you! You changed his life for the better! I know very little about horses but I can recognize the love between the two of you……….anyone who tries to find fault with what you have done and are doing are the type who will find fault in anything!! Just ignore the negative comments and know that what you are doing is the greatest!
Don't you worry about it, Sweetheart! I didn't learn to RIDE until I was 35 years old. Almost anyone can "ride" a horse. But, to learn how to RIDE a horse, especially a cow bronc, is a subtle practice. Getting bucked off was not acceptable to my brother, who was teaching me. You are doing great! Take your time, and feel the animal. That horse will help you.
Amen. It’s absurd how critical armchair warriors are!! I’m just like you- I have never taken a single riding lesson, but I’ve riden since I was a young girl. I know what proper form is in the saddle, but I’m sure I’m not in any way perfect…especially since my preferred way to ride is bareback!😊 But you know what? I will adore the horse I’m on and love every second of it! I’ve watched so many horse people over the years who don’t even seem to have fun, OR even enjoy their horse, expecting the horse to be a machine or something in the name of ‘correctness’! I hate that you get these jerks picking you apart! Just categorize them as algorithm boosters in your mind because that’s exactly what their stupid comments do- boost the algorithm for you! 🤣 So joke’s on them! Definitely well meaning constructive criticism is a good thing, but the others…thanks for the boost!😝🙏
You will never please everybody online. While you're out there working with Rudnik they are at home typing furiously on the keyboard like they think they know something. Trolls will always troll just find yourself a bridge in your head you can let them live under. Enjoy your time and your improvement because in the end it is only you and Rudnik that matter, everything else is just background noise. You do you, those who appreciate you for being you and Rudnik for being Rudnik will stand out amongst the trolls as the ones you want to engage with!
I don't know of course but I would bet those “oh so perfect” people have never once had a horse love and trust them like Rudnik loves you. Those kind of perfection oriented riders have demanded perfection from their horses and use fear as a tool, not love. The only reason I keep watching you is for the relationship between you and your big assed babies, love them all. 😂😂 I'm surprised a bit that you would let these people get to you, you are such a strong take charge woman, who gives a #=*& what people whose only purpose on earth is to upset and hurt others. Send them to me next time and let me reply for you. 😁👍🏼
I grew up at 6 years old being put on a pony told how to turn and stop and go. Then he went in the house and left me to my own learning. Im 60 years old and still riding, and never had a lesson in my life. Nor want one lol ignore the haters, you are fine 😊😊😊😊
At the end of the day, if it works for you and Rudnik then it's perfect. The internet has gotten pretty nasty lately, ignore it if you can , but at the very least try not to take it personal!
Will you be in competition English saddle? If not, really why does it matter? I rode western @ age 12. Only shown how to saddle and bridle. Was born to ride I guess was very capable even competing. I haven't ridden in decades, now 67, however my future would of been better had I stayed with horses and away from boys' 😂😂😂 Would ❤ to have a horse again! ❤
Here’s a tip for your riding: try sitting more forward in your pelvis and you will feel yourself put more weight in your sturrups. Your balance is good, but could use a little bit of improvement, but you have come a very far way. People say to put your heels down, but that doesn’t matter, it matters about the weight in your heels.
I'm not saying this just to be gratuitous...I ride Western and I was "taught" to ride by someone sticking me on a horse and saying, "this is how you steer." Your English looked good to me! Did you look like one of those Dressage people? No -- but what you DID look like was someone who felt basically comfortable in the saddle, and like you knew what you were doing. You look connected with Rudnik and you look relaxed and not nervous at all -- I'd be scared witless to try English! Ignore the cranks. You know him better than anyone so enjoy the ride (both actually and metaphorically).
As an English man would say ! Bollox to 'em !! Just do what you want and enjoy doing together ! You say that at auction only a kill buyer initially was bidding for Rudnik , now , would that be for meat ? Or something else ? How people can do stuff like that to such beautiful creatures is beyond me !
funny how all these Monday morning Professionals can find the time to critique and not be out there riding and getting some fresh air.. Call them out and place them on ignore/or tag them for you tube to deal with for you.
Just do what you want to do. If you're going to put your life in public view, you need to be more dismissive of comments to your videos. Just have fun with Rudnick and ignore those who can't or won't support you.
Looking at this video ... he's moving smoothly. BUT THOSE PANTS POCKETS! How can you call yourself a rider if you don't have proper jodhpurs and are making do with cream pants with black patch pockets on the butt?
As a never had a horse person, hang in there. I enjoy your content - shake off the critics and you do you. The horse is beautiful. The relationship between rider and horse is fantastic. Just enjoy the ride. I'm the dog lady, with the broken dog. He and I have come so far in the last 9 years, it takes work, love and understanding. There are plenty of people out there who have never taken on the challenge of a truly broken animal, that's their loss. Our animals will never be perfect, they will always be a little broken but hey, so am I. Just give love and eventually you will get it back in spades. Love and thankfulness. Broken animals know that you are trying, they are trying too, it just takes a little longer for us to see it.❤🩹
Ignore them. Don't give them the satisfaction of seeing that they have gotten under your skin. You and Rudnick are a wonderful team, enjoying each other, and that's all that really matters, not if your hands are perfect! You get experience through experiencing, so keep at it but mostly - enjoy the process!
People have gotten very comfortable in their meanness, their rudeness and frankly their bullying. I personally would block them if they repeatedly provide negative opinions. You’re doing great!
I’m so sorry there are mean-spirited people criticizing your form. I just enjoy watching Rudnick. Take care!
Same
Please ignore the negative...you're not a mess....your learning...we're all learning....it takes a lifetime 🙏 😀
I am one of the people who watch because they enjoy horses and seeing the care that people like you give horses, and how that relationship grows. I grew up on my grandfather's farm which went from 6 work horses to two (and a small tractor) to no horses. Some of my fondest memories are riding bareback, brushing them down, and leading them to a stall. Professional critics were not necessary, not desired, not missed. Do your thing as long as you enjoy it, and don't let outsiders spoil it.
you are so right. people online really act like everyone is out here trying to be grand prix! some of us just love horses and being around them, it doesn't matter if we'd be good enough to win a ribbon.
i hate to use words like this, but i do feel like it is classist to think people don't deserve to ride if they (or honestly, usually their parents) didn't shell out thousands of dollars to teach them the "preferred" form.
People think they are so smart and tough when hiding behind a keyboard, most would never say those things to your face. I enjoy your videos to see the love and patience you have shown this beautiful animal. I'm not even a horse person haha, I just love animals 😊
For every negative “neigh-sayer” there’s probably hundreds or more people who enjoy your channel and don’t give a poop about the nit-picking junk. Your dedication to Rudnik and his responses to you are what keeps the viewers coming back for more.
Best wishes to you, and always look forward to the next episode. 🐎
I love watching anything y'all post. ❤
Does not matter; all that matters is “YOUR HAPPINESS”…….
Rudnik is a “BEAUTIFUL” horse……
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Hear Hear!!
Be Kind, rewind! I'm here for positive space and good horse person interaction.
You and Your partner are so lucky with Rudnick who really responds positively to both of you.
Keep the joy in this channel!! 🎉🙏👍🤞
I've recently found your channel an I Love Rudnik an your relationship 🤗
Yet it is hard to ignore the negative comments when posting ...You an Rudnik are Beautiful together, Keep up the great work together, an just move on together with your *Fans* 🙏🏼♥️💯
Just bcuz someone tries to blow your candle out 🕯
*They NEED to know theirs doesn't Burn any Brighter* ..
We love yall, An Keep ya Heads Up 🫡🥰🎉🎉👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
His Snort at the end summed it up for ALL of us 🤭🙋♀️
Are you and Rudnik having fun?? That's all that matters 😊
You are doing beautifully. You and Rudnik are growing and learning together. Don't let the naysayers get you down. I commend your initiative and courage in teaching yourself and Rudnik. It takes a lot to both do that and to put yourself out on the Internet at the same time. Thank you for sharing and *hugs*.
You are doing a great job as well as Rudnik is growing with you, it's a real pleasure to watch you two..........As for the negative trolls, ignore them, they are not worth a thought.......😇🤩
The beauty of your Relationship with Rudnik is that you’ve entered into it with curiosity and a love for learning. The video I saw showed a happy, healthy relationship between two happy, relaxed beings. That’s more than I can say for many so called professionals. You get to grow and develop together, at your own pace, and what a gift that is. Bless you for that!
Do not listen to the trolls you are happy with what you're doing and you know you could do better that's all that matters . Keep going with that positive and realistic attitude and you WILL reach your goals . Love your honesty your doing GREAT .
You look FANTASTIC!!!!
I'm happy for you 2.
Thank you for sharing altogether🤠
Just enjoy your time with that magnificent boy! Take the pointer where you can get them and see how they work for you. sometimes criticism can be good, but ignore any haters! They are just jealous of you and that beautiful boy.
The people who can do nothing but criticize are not worth your time. Easier said than done, perhaps, but the posts noted below reflect your followers true thoughts and feelings. You have done incredible things with Rudnik; don't forget that.
Applied knowledge, consistent dedication and passion are underrated. Congratulations on your progress thus far! Keep going! 💕🐎💫
Those critics.... very unhappy people. Don't even given them the satisfaction of hooking your attention, and energy.
Real horsemen & women don't need to tear someone down to build themselves up. I guess it was "unprofessional" that Rudnik's movement was so beautiful & your hands so gentle I forgot to "criticize." Please don't mistake "trolling" for "criticism." And also, don't confuse "horseman" with "professional." Those that trolled you either failed to see the gifts of movement and soft hands that can't be taught. Or, they saw them & were envious, partly because their stable of 500k German imports & their years training yielded neither.
I taught equitation for many years. Now I realize that it’s like everything else: just keep doing it. Yes get a lesson from time to time, for those little corrections. But you’re doing fine. Hands and heels down, knees in tight, back straight. I like your style. And Rudnick is a gem. Go compete in a show sometime, you might really be surprised.
I love your videos, and you and Rudnick so much. Thank you for talking about the criticism, we have too much of that in our world today. Haters gonna hate, meanwhile I am sure there are tons of us out here loving on you and Rudnick. Blessings
I was taught at an early age that there will ALWAYS be those Dingus Muppets who complained and moan just because they are unhappy with themselves. That basically is the DNA makeup of Debbie Downers and Bobby Boo-Hoos! Knowing nothing about basic horse training other than I Love All Animals😂....I appreciate a video like this and it helps me connect the dots to seeing the Big Picture of The Rider and Horse eventually becoming ONE as a team! Thank you for my seat in this cannel! Giddy Up and Go YEE HAW! 😊 Stay Strong and MOO From COW-lumbus, Ohio 👋
I hate anybody would be Unkind: Not the way it should be🏇♥️💯‼️ Listen, you and Rudnik look Great while Riding: Save da Fancy Riding for Competitions😂‼️ Ya'll have a Bootiful Relationship that has built from the Beginning‼️ Look, I see this Video and think "WOW": I have been around horses from 10 years old and rode a Palimino and thought it was wonderful I didn't fall😂heeheehee🏇😁💯‼️ People are Missing The Saddle (Boat😅) about your Videos (Maybe I am?😊): I have watched your Journey with Rudnik unfold and progress into a Loving, Trusting and Spiritual Relationship that shows constant Positive Growth resulting in Great Rewards for you Both...😇😃🐴 I hope nothing spoils all the Goodness❤‼️ I appreciate so very much your Time/Efforts to share the Beauty of Rudik's Heart and Soul: A True Blessing😇♥️‼️ deb in TheBeautyOfRudnik, SC🐎 07/17/2024🐴
#AnInspirationalJourneyWithRudnik# 😇
Not everybody is born into the royal family and not everybody is rich to afford such expensive riding hobby ,we love to see the improvement of your beautiful horse and both your stories ,it has nothing to do with expertise ,it has to do with the love and patience you show to Rudnik and yourself ,it’s about the good nature of your horse and what love can do to transform a rough horsy into what he is now,don’t pay attention to the haters,it’s not worth it ,you should know ,life is not about perfection but it is all about love as we grow with it ,many blessings !
When I was about your age, I got my palomino foal. I've been riding most of my life, but was FAR from perfect! I worried about training my colt on my own. An old cowboy friend told me that if I was going to be the only one riding him, train him MY way and just enjoy the experience! Many "mistakes" were made over our 24 years together, but I could trust him with my life! We went everywhere the "professionally trained" horses went, except in the show arenas! Never doubt yourself and to hell with the haters! You do you GF! 🤠
You are sensitive, and if you weren't, the miracle of Rudy wouldn't have happened.
whatever you do with Rudy is actually nobody's business.
Ride the way you want to and just enjoy your beautiful, therapeutic animal.
I know it's hard when you're sensitive, and I'm sensitive myself.
You have to be when you work with animals.
I just wish people would really think before they talk, but apparently that's asking too much for the majority.
I wish they could see the wonderful gift you have with horses.
May God bless you guys and Rudy, he's brought so much good into this sad world, always puts a smile on my face. ❤😊❤
Your doing well, and this will make you and your horse great partners. Ignore the nay-sayers, i know its hard. I get told im a first class screw up but yet if i sell my horse they want to buy him..... make that make sense. They tell me my training is to light but enjoy the product of it?! They just dont like the fact we have a great bond, if im bareback and i slide out of postion my horse will slow down for me to get back in correct seat. We keep pushing forward and let the haters hate! Ive learned one thing through all this, people hate when you are doing something they cant or wont. I do not get nice honest critisiom which i can handle as i refused to be closed minded and think i know everything as there is always something to learn. Each horse is as different as each person! May God bless you all, horse and family and may your beautiful bond keep getting stronger and stronger. Learn each other together and youll be an unbreakable bond that can do anything together from that bond! Your a true cowgirl! Most want the ride and not the bond...
Great choice on that. All old ways MUST disappear, and the love you both share with Rudnik is of the only importance at this time. "Everyone" is in the healing stage this day and age. Just be WITH , in the moment, is all that matters. 💜
I am sorry so many spend their time criticizing and no time supporting. I love watching you and Rudnik. It takes me back to my youth when I was riding. He is beautiful and you are amazing. Thank you for allowing me a few minutes of bliss everyday. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
You are way too polite to these poopy folks that can't be positive to you. I have just recently come across your tube so it's great to see new stuff. I grew up, learning my horse stuff, the same way you have, so I GET YOU! Glad to see you have a cool horse to have great times with.👍
The worst part of being an equestrian is other equestrians.
You look like you’ve really progressed. No one gets it right all the time, not even the world champions. Keep at it, just the time in the saddle will get you there. ❤
Gurl - You Are Fabulous! Look Fantastic! And are Doing Wonderfully! Keep it up!💜💛💜
Do not listen to the negative! What you have managed to accomplish on your own with Rudnik is amazing! The end result is what matters! You gave Rudnik the ability to have a quality life. Without you he probably wouldn't have.
Keep up the good work! They need you!
I just came across your channel, immediately subscribed because..Horses,lol. I am sorry people today are just so very rude & overly opinionated. Joy suckers are everywhere it seems,glad you are learning how to let it roll off,not easy to do for sure. For myself, I could care less about form, I am here because horses bring me joy. Watching someone who loves their horse is just really nice. My life didn't bless me with that privilege so thank you for sharing.
Any ride that ends with rider and horse safe is a successful ride! Ignore the mean people! I love watching your videos. Thanks for continuing to be brave and sharing with your followers.
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I was 3 y.o. when I rode a horse(w/a experenced rider). I was thrilled that mom and dad said yes! I held on to the saddle horn and thought I was steering the horse. 😂 It was a beautiful grey with a long main. Only time I ever did. A sweet memory.😊
I am a new subscriber and am enjoying getting to know you and Rudnick. I know next to nothing about horses but have always loved them! To me, you are a world renowned expert! You have gone far in 4 yrs, it seems to me! I really appreciate
learning anything about horses and what you are doing with beautiful Rudnick. I Thank You from BC Canada!!
Bella and Rudnik, you're doing what you feel is best for you both. People are like dark, ugly clouds. Once they disappear, the place is a lot freaking nicer. ❤ Rud is a big boy & still very green you know him best.
I hear you. I've experienced the same. Ignore the one-uppers, and appreciate those who genuinely want to help, be thankful you are able to have a horse, many can't do it where they live or are in life, and you have a horse with personality. Practice will bring improvements, and keep praising your and Rudnik's improvements. You love your horse and he loves you, and you take care of his well being. That is more than some who know all the proper forms, etc,. have. Just ignore those with judgements meant to put you down.
I took English riding lessons some 40+ years ago. I never could “post” - I was always going up when I should have been going down and visa-versa. During the last lesson, I discovered the hard way that I couldn’t fly. 😵💫 You and Rudnik just enjoy each others company and have fun!
😂I love your comment! “I discovered the hard way that I couldn’t fly.” Me too! When I launched all I could think of was , “ Not the knee, Don’t wreck your knee!” I protected my knee but landed on my butt and hurt my back. I immediately thought, “Oh yeah my back……”. (I’m fine now). My horse was spooked by a moose (!) that I hadn’t seen. She didn’t hurt me on purpose. Horses are prey animals and very aware of threats.
Don’t let a failed attempt at a flying dismount discourage you. I can’t count the times I’ve had the same thing happen. (I was usually one of the taller people in the class, so I was mounted on the taller - and lass frequently ridden class horses.). I never let go of the reins. Perhaps the feeling in the horse’s mouth when he came to an abrupt stop made him/her more careful the next time they wanted to unseat a rider! 😅 anyone who has ridden regularly has (almost certainly) been dumped a few times. 😊
Well, as part of the lesson to teach us to become “one with the horse”, we tied up the stirrups and the reins, closed our eyes and did the circle around the ring at a slow canter. At some point, Bandit decided it was time to execute an abrupt left hand turn with no prior notification. Horse and saddle went one way, I went the other, and landed face down like I was trying to make a snow angel. Bandit came over, nudged me gently and distinctly said “oh, I’m soooo sorry - did I do that???” Luckily for Bandit, I didn’t land in a pile of fresh horse poop. I got up, got back on, but never went back to finish my lessons. I absolutely love horses, they are amazing magnificent creatures, but now my only interactions are jaw, ear and butt scratches, treat giving and enjoying the feel of soft horse lips nuzzling the palm of my hand. I have close friends who own an equestrian center and they let me wander the barns at will.
Getting ahead and learning is a life long process. I have been riding since I was 6 years old, and still learn new things today. Same goes for the horse. By the way, I'm 65 years old, and yes, I am still riding. Your personal progress with yourself and your horse is what to focus on. Celebrate your triumphs. No one else matters
I don't know the 1st thing about horse-riding, or horse's for that matter, I just know I really enjoy watching & learning about it. I do know that learning anything is a process & everyone is at their 'own' stage in that journey...
Ignore the naysayers, you can never satisfy them anyway, & so many more people are getting great value & enjoyment from the videos you do choose to share.
Positivity is always stronger than negativity - you just keep doing your thing. I love your video's, thanks for sharing!..❤
Internet know-it-alls and trolls are a real plague. You can be sure that some of them are not even riders! I hope you'll learn to ignore these people. It's not easy, but it's possible. After all, these people are not friends or family, so why would you care about their opinion. Every horse + rider couple is different. I'm riding since I was a kid and still make basic mistakes sometimes! We all do.
I'm sure that if you gave one of these armchair riders a horse in real life and askde them to show you how it is done, YOU would have the last laugh!
Your balance and posture are great, especially compared to where they were a few years ago. I am going through a similar journey with my mare Lily. I had the advantage that a racehorse guy with about 50 years' experience was able to give me some riding lessons. This was a big help to my confidence and riding ability because Lily was a very hot, forward and spooky horse (she is 1/4 thoroughbred and you know how hot they tend to be...)
He taught me how to ride this type of horse, racehorse style. I don't post many videos of Lily and I. If I posted videos, I'd probably get a lot of flak as well, but after a year of being ridden like this, she is so much better, less spooky and I am also a lot more confident. He taught me how to keep my seat, no matter what, and because of this, I know that when I go for a ride, I'm going to be okay!
Incidentally, she still has a soft mouth, but in his words "You can't f*ck around with these horses, you have to be in control!" If she starts to act up, the reins go short, the pressure goes on hard and it doesn't come off until she decides to behave herself again! One-rein stops are a definite thing and have saved me more than once, as has desensitization, bombproofing and lots and lots of groundwork!
Despite all this, I could just hear the screeching horse Karens telling me how cruel I am, putting so much pressure on the reins when she decides to have a "Moment". Yeah. It' not you up there, dearie, on a horse that already almost killed me once (13 breaks or fractures, punctured lung, dislocated hip).
We are different now. We are better now. The "Moments" are less common, less severe, and I can get her back into focus more easily. I ride most days and in total, riding and groundwork takes about 2 or 3 hours. I love her and she loves me, but it has been quite a journey.
God Bless and Keep the Videos Coming!
Congratulations on the progress you have made with Rudnick. As a novice rider taking
a ridiculous amount of lessons the most important thing I have taken away is individual connection with the horse. They teach us. The two of you are learning and are on
this journey together. Keep up the good work and best of luck.
Don't let the trolls get to you. You have to learn to ignore them bc negative comments will never disappear. Ever. So either you'll learn to live with it or develop chronic depression. 😆 Somebody said once: water outside don't make the ship sink. Water that get inside does. Take care.
Don't listen to the haters. Just delete them and block. Your content should only be for those that enjoy it. Haters are everywhere and most are people that have no idea or are jealous of your ability to bond with Rudnick. Much love and keep up the content.
I don't know anything about horse riding. I do recognise kindness to animals though. Keep doing what you're doing. ❤❤
Hunny don't need to justify yourself to anyone,you are a kind balanced rider ,and the simplest of tack on your lovelyboy, jealousy is a terrible thing , please keep doing what you are it's your journey xxx
Nay-sayers...like you said, if they do have the experience, why are they being negative. Anyone one who appreciates horses, would be supportive not negative.
Sorry you have to go through that. Try not to let the negativity bother you! I subscribed to your channel because of the incredible story of a girl and her horse. You are humble, kind and honest; attributes our society needs more of. I am sure many of your followers feel the same. Stay strong and keep doing what you are doing!
I got my first (and probably my only) horse when I was over 50 years of age. I have had him for 20 years now and I agree with the person below who had a trainer that told them to "just ride" Especially if you''re taking good advice here and there from people you trust. I grew up with a small cattle ranch in our family, and learned to ride when I was young, so I didn't go looking for much advice when I was older. Basic riding is really a no-brainer. If you want to get really good at it, you can grow from that point, but otherwise - just ride.
Before moving out here to the desert, with my horse, I was at several large stables in Los Angeles. I learned that the "experts" were all over the place. Just about anyone with any success with horses was suddenly a "trainer".
I watch a whole bunch of CZcams equestrian channels, none of them for "learning experiences". I just enjoy watching people and their relationships with their horses. This is especially true now, out here in the boring, hot desert. I like watching horse owners in places with nice trails and fun rides. One such channel is from Yorkshire, in England. It has been truly fascinating watching this 60-plus year-old woman teaching her Andalusian mare to be a wonderful mount. The other day, they went to beach, not far from her home, and they were having a blast galloping through the surf. 105 degrees out here - the surf looked like heaven to me!
Figure out how to ignore the critics or simply block them. I am sure you have plenty of other subscribers who can and will give you gentle, helpful advice. Get to know the ones that actually care and are helpful, and listen to only them. And ride your horse.
People need to get a life if all they can do is criticise an obvious horse lover and her sweet horse sharing their progress. Seems to me today there is alot of love for you and Rudnik! Thats what counts❤❤❤
You have indeed both improved together. I was in my sixties before I had a wonderful friend who just offered to ride with me and teach me the basics of true borsemanship. Life is long!
I’d say screw you to the critics. If you and Rudnik are enjoying each other and having fun that’s number one for me. Then as you can you develop the proper skills. If it weren’t for you he’d be dog food, so that’s why my first statement to critics. The second would be if you want us to be perfect you pay for the lessons and we’d be happy to please you.
Look happy to me.
Remember..You are pregnant and you are doing FANTASTIC!
nice way to put it . and you can always block them
Girl, we didn’t have internet when I got my first horse and wanted to learn to jump. I bought books and taught my Western trained grade mare to jump and do basic dressage. There is always someone who has something to b****h about. You’re doing fine. Just keep working on it. You and Rudnick are progressing just fine!
Bless and block people who have an ungrateful heart.
Ignore these people .
God bless you
Thank you
As long as you have progress, and that you feel that you are better than what you were yesterday is all what matters. Keep it up and keep learning. Even professional instructors were new at riding horses in their journey.
You both look great
Enjoy the journey 💕✌️
YOU ARE DOING VERY WELL! It is obvious that Rudnik delights in pleasing you. You already have a solid base for your future riding skills and techniques. I look forward to seeing what you and Rudnik will be doing in five years' time. 😀
I’m old, to late to start riding again, not that I can’t, just have many other interes. I find your videos interesting, your relationship with your horse, your horses intelligence, I’m in awe. But remember I don’t comment on your videos as I’ve said in many of your videos.
Well said. 💖🧸👍. You just keep being you. Hugs
Ignore the idiots, it don't matter how you ride you are not going for competition, if you were going for competition it's more strict with posture, feet and hand placements. I love watching you ride, don't ride, rudnik I love watching these it brings me back to my riding days. Much love x edit; The horse world is ugly and too much judgement and oh I'm better than you crap. If you are falling out of your seat try going down a hole or 2 to lengthen your legs and sit into the seat more, it will feel wierd to start with and feel uncomfortable but go with it and also it will make you tired more as your not used to it hope thjs helps x
You go girl. I married a cowboy. Learning how never came up. I just had to. Doing is learning. ❤❤❤❤❤
I'm so like you with my riding and my horse, probably longer time out of the saddle, im sorry you had negative people, its easy to write from the security of your keyboard! I love your confidence. I was never taught to ride "properly" we just saddled up and got on, to be honest I loved it no criticism we all rode and loved it.
Honestly, in the time before the internet this would never have been an issue...Unless you were actually physically there, you wouldn't see anyone riding! People are now constantly being critics.
We all love to see other people's yards, horses, how they ride, etc.
I wish people would remember their first time on a horse..
I wish they could look at the bigger picture. Rudnik is loved, cared for, & you have not sent him away to a professional trainer for starting, but done it all yourself! Is Rudnik happy? "Yes!". Are you enjoying him? "Yes!"😊
Are we loving watching you? "Hell, Yeah!"😂
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You do not have to justify your self or your level of expertise to anyone but yourself. I had no formal training back in the day for the same reason as yours but my love for horses and asking a lot of questions of those who new I got through it you know yourself what you need to improve on and just do that. Goodluck
The negative people are zip ........ keep riding !!! Let the critical individuals break-in a horse from scratch themselves. 🎉🎉🎉
Looks beautiful to me!
P.S. saw this on pbs or somewhere but in Britain they had riders ride a knights saddle. The Englishmen had a hard time, the cowboy(usa) was comfortable and familiar with that saddle. Small world
I can’t understand why some people constantly try to find fault with how you treat Rudnik it is so obvious how much you love him, and,especially, how much he loves you! You changed his life for the better! I know very little about horses but I can recognize the love between the two of you……….anyone who tries to find fault with what you have done and are doing are the type who will find fault in anything!! Just ignore the negative comments and know that what you are doing is the greatest!
Thank you so much - it’s definitely a work in progress learning to drown out the noise ♥️
Oh dear! Im just here cause I like youse 💖
Don't you worry about it, Sweetheart!
I didn't learn to RIDE until I was 35 years old.
Almost anyone can "ride" a horse. But, to learn how to RIDE a horse, especially a cow bronc, is a subtle practice.
Getting bucked off was not acceptable to my brother, who was teaching me.
You are doing great!
Take your time, and feel the animal. That horse will help you.
Amen. It’s absurd how critical armchair warriors are!! I’m just like you- I have never taken a single riding lesson, but I’ve riden since I was a young girl. I know what proper form is in the saddle, but I’m sure I’m not in any way perfect…especially since my preferred way to ride is bareback!😊 But you know what? I will adore the horse I’m on and love every second of it! I’ve watched so many horse people over the years who don’t even seem to have fun, OR even enjoy their horse, expecting the horse to be a machine or something in the name of ‘correctness’! I hate that you get these jerks picking you apart! Just categorize them as algorithm boosters in your mind because that’s exactly what their stupid comments do- boost the algorithm for you! 🤣 So joke’s on them! Definitely well meaning constructive criticism is a good thing, but the others…thanks for the boost!😝🙏
100%, couldn’t agree more! It makes it a very hostile environment for those who are just joining the horse community 😢
You will never please everybody online. While you're out there working with Rudnik they are at home typing furiously on the keyboard like they think they know something. Trolls will always troll just find yourself a bridge in your head you can let them live under. Enjoy your time and your improvement because in the end it is only you and Rudnik that matter, everything else is just background noise. You do you, those who appreciate you for being you and Rudnik for being Rudnik will stand out amongst the trolls as the ones you want to engage with!
I don't know of course but I would bet those “oh so perfect” people have never once had a horse love and trust them like Rudnik loves you. Those kind of perfection oriented riders have demanded perfection from their horses and use fear as a tool, not love. The only reason I keep watching you is for the relationship between you and your big assed babies, love them all. 😂😂 I'm surprised a bit that you would let these people get to you, you are such a strong take charge woman, who gives a #=*& what people whose only purpose on earth is to upset and hurt others. Send them to me next time and let me reply for you. 😁👍🏼
I grew up at 6 years old being put on a pony told how to turn and stop and go. Then he went in the house and left me to my own learning. Im 60 years old and still riding, and never had a lesson in my life. Nor want one lol ignore the haters, you are fine 😊😊😊😊
You look great to me, don't worry about it 😊
At the end of the day, if it works for you and Rudnik then it's perfect. The internet has gotten pretty nasty lately, ignore it if you can , but at the very least try not to take it personal!
Keep up the good work and don't listen to the naysayers
Will you be in competition English saddle? If not, really why does it matter?
I rode western @ age 12. Only shown how to saddle and bridle. Was born to ride I guess was very capable even competing.
I haven't ridden in decades, now 67, however my future would of been better had I stayed with horses and away from boys' 😂😂😂
Would ❤ to have a horse again! ❤
Here’s a tip for your riding: try sitting more forward in your pelvis and you will feel yourself put more weight in your sturrups. Your balance is good, but could use a little bit of improvement, but you have come a very far way. People say to put your heels down, but that doesn’t matter, it matters about the weight in your heels.
Thank you!!
I am learning in whatever I have even though it's technically English I've also done western and bareback whatevers available lol
That’s just it! As long as you and your horse are comfortable- who cares. Ignore the nay-sayers and just have fun!
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I'm not saying this just to be gratuitous...I ride Western and I was "taught" to ride by someone sticking me on a horse and saying, "this is how you steer." Your English looked good to me! Did you look like one of those Dressage people? No -- but what you DID look like was someone who felt basically comfortable in the saddle, and like you knew what you were doing. You look connected with Rudnik and you look relaxed and not nervous at all -- I'd be scared witless to try English! Ignore the cranks. You know him better than anyone so enjoy the ride (both actually and metaphorically).
As an English man would say !
Bollox to 'em !!
Just do what you want and enjoy doing together !
You say that at auction only a kill buyer initially was bidding for Rudnik , now , would that be for meat ? Or something else ?
How people can do stuff like that to such beautiful creatures is beyond me !
Yes for meat. Had the KB won they would have sent him to a feedlot to fatten him up until he was big enough to get them more money per lb
I assumed you meant you refuse to post a trot. Haha
Hate to b this person but firsttt!!
You look like you're having a blast & anyone who can't enjoy that along with you needs to get a life.
funny how all these Monday morning Professionals can find the time to critique and not be out there riding and getting some fresh air..
Call them out and place them on ignore/or tag them for you tube to deal with for you.
Just do what you want to do. If you're going to put your life in public view, you need to be more dismissive of comments to your videos. Just have fun with Rudnick and ignore those who can't or won't support you.
Looking at this video ... he's moving smoothly. BUT THOSE PANTS POCKETS! How can you call yourself a rider if you don't have proper jodhpurs and are making do with cream pants with black patch pockets on the butt?
Sounds kind of "Karenish " to me.
As a never had a horse person, hang in there. I enjoy your content - shake off the critics and you do you. The horse is beautiful. The relationship between rider and horse is fantastic. Just enjoy the ride. I'm the dog lady, with the broken dog. He and I have come so far in the last 9 years, it takes work, love and understanding. There are plenty of people out there who have never taken on the challenge of a truly broken animal, that's their loss. Our animals will never be perfect, they will always be a little broken but hey, so am I. Just give love and eventually you will get it back in spades. Love and thankfulness. Broken animals know that you are trying, they are trying too, it just takes a little longer for us to see it.❤🩹